Not So Chic with Elli Freeman
Hosted by Elli Freeman, Not So Chic feels like a late-night FaceTime call about the parts of life that don’t always make it onto Instagram. From heartbreak, friendships, and identity to confidence, loneliness, and growing into yourself — nothing is off limits. A podcast for the people who romanticize their lives while simultaneously spiraling. Some episodes feel chic. Some are… not. Both are allowed here.
Episodes
Why I Didn’t Go to My High School Graduation
I’ve referenced the fact that I didn’t go to my high school graduation before, but I’ve never actually told you the full story of why.
My senior year ended with an anonymous Instagram account, a “worst friend” superlative, hundreds of my classmates watching the whole thing unfold, a meeting with my principal, my parents pulling me out of school, and ultimately, me not walking at graduation.
And
Let’s Talk About the Inevitable
Grief is one of those things I’ve always been scared to talk about because there’s no perfect way to put it into words. But after losing my grandfather almost two years ago, I’ve realized just how little we actually talk about what it feels like to lose someone you love.
In this episode, I’m opening up about my own experiences with loss, being with my Papa during his final moments, and everything
The Highlight Reel Problem
The internet has never been more powerful—or more confusing. Every day we're bombarded with advice, opinions, AI-generated content, perfectly curated lives, and an endless stream of people telling us how to think, look, work, eat, and live.
In this episode, I'm unpacking my complicated relationship with social media, why comparison has become an impossible game to win, why I believe digital liter
Confessions of a Late Bloomer
I spent years thinking I was behind. Behind on dating, behind on sex, behind on experience. So I tried to become the kind of girl who could do casual hookups without catching feelings… and completely lost myself in the process. Today we're talking about hookup culture, why so many of us confuse validation with intimacy, and the biggest lesson I've learned: there is nothing chic about abandoning yo
Respectfully... I Got the Ick
This week we're talking about one of the most unserious—and strangely revealing—parts of modern dating: the ick.
From men chasing ping pong balls to wearing Band-Aids, we've all experienced those completely irrational moments where attraction disappears in an instant. But what if the ick isn't always about them? What if sometimes it's about what closeness, kindness, or emotional availab
Comparison Is Stealing Your Joy
Comparison has a way of making us feel like everyone else is ahead. In today's episode, we're talking about why we compare ourselves, the difference between comparison and jealousy, how to genuinely celebrate other people's success, and why your timeline was never meant to look like anyone else's.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
To My Little Sister(s)
Apparently being a big sister became my entire personality. This week we're talking about siblings, the people who become siblings, why I spent 23 years trying to save my little sister, and what happens when the caretaker finally learns to let go. Plus, Guest Therapy for anyone convinced they're behind in life.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Mindset Shift That Actually Worked
For years I thought confidence came from fitting in. Dressing like everyone else. Dating the "right" people. Chasing validation from strangers, boys, and anyone willing to tell me I was enough.
Turns out I couldn't have been more wrong.
In this episode, I'm talking about the biggest shift I've made over the last few years: learning how to live a life that's actually aligned with my values instea
The Loneliness of Being an Old Soul
I've been called an "old soul" for as long as I can remember, but for years it felt less like a compliment and more like a reminder that I never quite fit in.
In this episode, I'm talking about what it was like growing up feeling different—being the kid who wanted tea at The Peninsula, spent recess in knitting club, obsessed over interior design before most people cared about decorating their bed
I Don't Hate My Body, It's Just Complicated
Body image isn't always self-hatred. Sometimes it's just constantly being aware of your body.
In this episode, I share my experience with body image from ballet classes and dieting in middle school to gaining weight in college, losing it after graduation, and learning how to stop fighting myself every day. We talk about comparison, food noise, body neutrality, and why taking care of your body fee
My Love Life (or Lack Thereof)
In this episode, I'm talking about dating, situationships, heartbreak, and learning how to be okay on my own. From my first kiss in Rome to college experiences that completely changed the way I viewed relationships, I share the stories that shaped my relationship with love, self-worth, and dating.
We talk about rejection, healing, standards, and why being single no longer feels like something I'm
Friendship Breakups Are Breakups
Friendship breakups don’t get talked about enough. In this episode, I’m unpacking the pain of outgrowing people, the heartbreak of feeling misunderstood, and why friendships can feel so complicated in your twenties. I talk about trust, people-pleasing, learning to ask for what you need, and the quiet grief of realizing some people may not be your people after all. But more than anything, this epis
I Thought I Was Fine
In this episode, I’m talking about the summer that completely changed my life. After years of struggling with my mental health, convincing myself I was fine, and learning how to cope instead of heal, I finally got a level of help I didn’t think I “deserved.”
I share what led me to outpatient treatment, what it actually looked like, and how I began to understand the difference between surviving, c
I Wasn’t Alone, But I Was Lonely
In this episode, I’m talking about the kind of loneliness where you technically have friends, but never feel like you fully belong.
I open up about being the “floater friend” in high school, feeling invited but not chosen, and how that quiet hurt followed me into adulthood.
This one is for anyone who has ever felt outside of the group chat, the group photo, or the friend group entirely. You’re n
Maybe I’m Not Behind, Maybe I’m Just Doing It Differently
In this episode of Not So Chic, I’m talking about the weird guilt of feeling calm in your early 20s, living at home, not going out every weekend, watching everyone else’s life look louder online, and wondering if I should be doing more. I get into the difference between peace and complacency, post-grad comparison, FOMO, trusting your gut, and why a quiet season might actually be the thing that sav
Welcome to Not So Chic
You know the chic version of me, now meet the not so chic one. In my very first episode, I’m reintroducing myself beyond the polished online version and sharing how lonely college GRWMs, viral TikToks, dating chaos, and my lifelong need to romanticize absolutely everything somehow led me here.
This episode is a little intro, a little unraveling, and the official start of the Not So Chic Club. For
Not So Chic Trailer
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Recommended
Classical Christian Education
Veritas Vox - The Voice of Classical Christian Education
Enjoy Teaching Again | Elementary, Teacher Burnout, Student Behavior, SEL, Classroom Management
Entrepreneur Kids Legacy Show - Family Motivation, Business Boss Babies, Inspirational Speakers and Healthy fun food
McKinsey on Consumer and Retail
megahired.com
Telli Talks with Telli Swift
Harmonize Your Life: Conversation on Self-Care for Women of Color
Lighting the Legal Career Path
High Performance Mindset | Learn from World-Class Leaders, Consultants, Athletes & Coaches about Mindset
Pintastic® Pinterest Podcast
Learn 50 English Phrases While You Sleep | Everyday English Phrases & Vocabulary
