SexTok with Tracey and Kelsey
Produced by Zibby Audio 179 episodes Jan 21, 2026
SexTok with Tracey and Kelsey is a weekly podcast in which British sex expert and author Tracey Cox and comedian Kelsey Chittick discuss three anonymously submitted questions about sex and relationships. The hosts mix humor with practical advice on topics such as how much to share with friends, workplace boundaries, and relationship intimacy. Listeners can submit their own anonymous questions through the show's website. It is produced by Zibby Audio.
Episodes
S15 Ep. 10: How to Be Wild, Ask for a Threesome, and a Round Up of Our Final Advice on How to Have a Happy Sex Life and Relationship
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 32 and should be at my prime sexually, but feel like I’m an intensely boring lover. I want to be wild and uninhibited, and the sort of lover men think about for the rest of their lives. But I’m so vanilla, I don’t even know how to be wildly sexy, or what sort of things that would include.2) I’m happily married,
S15 Ep.9: Men Faking, Women Not Reciprocating, and Should I Warn Lovers My Penis Is Small?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m dating again after a divorce and have met a new man I really like, but I’m convinced he’s faking orgasms. Why would he do this, and should I say something?2) I’ve been with my new girlfriend for four months, and although I’ve given her oral sex every single time we make love, not once has she offered to reciprocate.
S15 Ep. 8: High Libido, Quiet Sex, and Power Games
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My wife has an extremely high libido. I know that sounds like every man’s dream, but it’s not. My sex drive has never been that high, but hers is through the roof. I thought we’d even out when we had kids, and her libido did calm down for a while. But three years later, she’s wanting sex every day. It’s emasculating, and
S15 Ep. 7: Routine Sex, Lost Erections, and Why Don't I Fantasize About My Partner?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner does the same moves in the same order every single time we have sex. How do I break the routine without bruising his ego? I like what he does, but can’t be doing this for the rest of my life.2) My boyfriend loses his erection during sex, but not when he’s having solo sex. How do we fix this without making it w
S15 Ep. 6: Faking, Filming, and Family's Effect on Sex Life
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have just found out my wife fakes her orgasms sometimes. We’ve been together for seven years. She recently asked me if we could use her vibrator during intercourse so she doesn’t need to fake it. I am shocked. I had no idea, and feel hurt and angry that she didn’t tell me this before. Sh explained that she finds it dif
S15 Ep. 5: Solo Orgasms, Sex Clubs, and 'Efficient' Sex
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Why do orgasms feel so much better when you’re on your own? When it’s just me and my vibrator, they are consistently intense and satisfying. It’s very hit and miss with my partner, even if he’s giving me oral sex (which is the only thing that works for me).2) In one of your previous podcasts, Tracey suggested that couple
S15 Ep. 4: STI Testing Etiquette, Staying Interested Post Orgasm, and Do I Deserve an Affair?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve been married a long time and our kids are about to graduate—the pressure is finally off. I’m as happy as you can be with someone you’ve been with for 25-odd years. Meaning, I’m also bored. I’ve paid my dues, and I want some excitement. There’s a man in my life that’s paying me a lot of attention. Am I bad for thinki
S15 Ep. 3: Kids Have Killed Our Sex Life, Sexual Shame, and Are mixed up people better in bed?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m reading lots of things on social media that suggest people who are emotionally volatile are better in bed. Is there any truth in this?2) Everyone talks about how having kids ruins your sex life. But no one talks about your wife never wanting sex ever again afterwards. It’s been six years since our last child was born
S15 Ep. 2: Late Bloomers, Sex Toys for Him, and Sex on Camera
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m concerned about my daughter. She’s a virgin at 24. Once upon a time, a parent’s fear was teenage pregnancy. I’m worried because she’s not having sex at all. She’s beautiful, bright, funny, and has everything going for her, but has never had a boyfriend. I couldn’t wait to have sex. What’s going on, and should I talk
S15 Ep. 1: Role-play, Am I Being Squeamish, and Meddling Friends
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Can you explain what role-playing games are? What would you recommend for guys, so it doesn’t come off as weird when I suggest it? I want something that women would find sexy and attractive. Also, do you really need to buy expensive costumes?2) After I’ve had intercourse with my girlfriend, she often asks me to give her
S14 Ep. 10: What Abstinence Does to Our Body and Mind, My Husband Left Me for a Younger Woman, and What Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband left me for a much younger woman. It happened two months ago, so the shock is wearing off, but I have no clue how to recover from this. I’m 51 and my husband is 55. He left me for a woman who is 30.2) If you could go back in time and give advice to your younger self about sex, knowing what you know now, what w
S14 Ep. 9: Dildos, PE (Premature Ejaculation), and Threesomes
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) A simple question for you: what do people use dildos for? I get why a vibrator is appealing, but why would a couple need one?2) I’m in a new relationship with the most patient, loving man. He gives me the most fantastic oral sex, often bringing me to orgasm without a toy. But, he suffers from terrible PE and will orgasm
S14 Ep. 8: I Don't Want Him to Leave His Wife, Why Has He Stopped Initiating, and Can He Watch 'A Little Bit' of Porn if He Was Addicted?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve been single for a few years and was desperate for sex, so started an affair with a friend of a friend. I knew he was married, and it’s not my style to sleep with married men, but we all got drunk at a party and it happened. The sex was incredible, so we did it again. We’ve been meeting for sex about once a fortnight
S14 Ep. 7: Orgasm Shots, My Daughter's Ex is Hitting on Me, and I'm Trapped in a Miserable Marriage
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) What’s your view on ‘O-shots’? My friend had one after menopause and says it rejuvenated her vagina back to what it was in her 30s. She says sex is amazing again. They are expensive, but I’m tempted. Are they safe, and what’s your take on them?2) So I know what you’re going to tell me, but I’m asking anyway: I’m 43, divo
S14 Ep. 6: Sensitive Clitorises, He's Sexually Obsessed with My Friend, and Is My New Partner a Sex Addict?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) You’ve talked about penis size and sensitivity, but I haven’t heard you talk about clitoris size in that regard. I used to have a normal size clitoris, but after taking testosterone to help with low libido, it seems to have tripled in size. I have stronger orgasms now—but it takes so much longer to climax. I can’t f
S14 Ep. 5: He Won't Experiment, Her Orgasm Leaves Me Out, and The Sex is Back—But Is It Here to Stay?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My marriage has been sexless for five years—literally, no sex at all. I tried everything to make my wife see how important sex is, but she refused to even talk about it. We’re young—in our early 40s! It’s strained our marriage beyond repair; so, I asked her for a divorce. Instantly, everything changed. She initiated sex
S14 Ep. 4: Gym for Your Genitals, a 50-Year-Old Virgin, and How Viagra Solved a Problem Most Women Didn’t See as One
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband has recently discovered Viagra and now takes it every time we have sex. Rather than save our sex life, it’s destroyed it. His penis is now too hard, he takes ages to orgasm, and his focus is almost exclusively on intercourse. Before Viagra, we had lots of foreplay and oral sex. I’ve told him I don’t like it, b
S14 Ep. 3: AI Girlfriends, Why Are We Shy Out of Bed, and Open Relationships?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a 26-year-old straight guy and I’m having no luck with women. I’m curious to know what you think of AI girlfriends. I’m tempted to try one until I meet someone in real life that I really like. Is it a good way to practice relationship skills? Is there anything I should know before I sign up?2) I’ve met someone and we
S14 Ep. 2: Hot-Husbanding, the Silent Sex Saboteur, and Why Doesn't De Do The 'New Thing' I Like?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I followed your advice and asked my partner for something I'd like him to do in bed. He did it, and all was good. But now he doesn’t do it anymore and I’m tired of asking nicely and dropping hints. What now?2) You’ve talked about ‘hot-wifing,’ but what about ‘hot husbanding'? Do women get turned on watching their husband
S14 Ep. 1: The CAT Technique, Weight Loss Jabs and Libido, and Glass Dildos
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve listened to enough of your podcasts to know that women don’t often orgasm through intercourse alone. But, is there anything a man can do to make that more possible, apart from holding a vibrator on her clitoris while he is inside her? My penis is starting to get a complex!2) I’ve recently lost a lot of weight throu
S13 Ep. 10: How to Take the Lead in Bed, a Neighborly Fling, and How Do I Stop My Parents' Open Marriage from Affecting My Relationship?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 28 and been with my partner for four years. He’s always been the one to initiate sex and I thought he liked it that way. But, now he’s told me he’s sick of it and wants me to take the lead—not just with initiating, but during sex as well. I have no idea how to do this. Can you help?2) I had a bit of a thing with my n
S13 Ep. 9: His Needs Come First, Post-Menopause Male Loneliness, and How Important is Smell?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a woman who has no problem having an orgasm on her own, but it happens rarely with my partner. I’ve told him how I want to be stimulated, but sex always feels like something that’s done to satisfy his needs and mine are an afterthought. He knows I don’t orgasm through intercourse, but still asks me every single time
S13 Ep. 8: No Strings Sex, Secret Turn Ons, and Suspiciously Raised Libidos
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a 25-year-old straight woman and am not interested in a relationship right now. But, I do want sex. How and when do I bring this up with people I date—and do I have to?2) My boyfriend of four years is suddenly doing new things in bed which is making me suspicious. I’ve always been the higher libido one; now he’s the
S13 Ep. 7: Porn, Desire Dilemmas, and My Wife Has Left Me for Another Woman
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) How do I make myself desire sex more? I’ve tried everything to turn myself on but nothing seems to work. I have never had a high sex drive and probably never will. But I would like to get to the point where sex is remotely appealing. Do you have any advice I won’t have already heard?2) I know my husband watches porn—we’v
S13 Ep. 6: Sex Alfresco, Sex After an Affair, and Will She Want Sex More Once We Marry?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My wife and I have had sex in our garden, but she wants to try it in semi-public. We want the thrill of thinking we might be caught, but not actually get caught. Do you have any tips on how to go about this?2) I’m 27 and just got engaged to my girlfriend of seven years. At the start, we had sex once or twice a week, but
S13 Ep. 5: A Beginner's Guide to Whipping, Prostates, and Perpetual Problems
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’d really like to try using a whip as a sex toy. My partner is up for it, but can you advise on what’s best to buy for a beginner and how to incorporate it into sex?2) Our relationship is really good but my wife and I argue about sex a lot. Do sex-life problems suggest there are problems elsewhere in the relationship? I
S13 Ep. 4: Chem Sex Parties, the "Ick," and Premature Ejaculation
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m intrigued to know what happens at a chem sex party. I’ve got a few adventurous girlfriends and we’re all quite keen to give it a try. Would you advise it?2) I know it’s normal to go through periods when you don’t find your partner attractive. But when should you worry that it’s more than a passing phase?3) I’m strugg
S13 Ep. 3: "Facials," Orgasms without Vibrators, and Asexuality
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve just started seeing a guy who is really into giving ‘facials.’ I’ve done it before, and don’t honestly mind, but what’s the psychology behind it? Why do so many guys like doing it, and is it degrading to agree?2) I’ve only ever had an orgasm once without a vibrator, and that was after a long sex session with me on t
S13 Ep. 2: Sex Pests, Sex Ed for Teens, and Why Am I Reliant on Porn to Climax?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I love my husband and I’m very attracted to him. But for some reason, I have to picture a scene from porn to reach orgasm with him. I’m very much in my head when having sex in general, and find myself thinking about a million things that aren’t related to sex during it. How can I change this pattern of having to play the
S13 Ep. 1: Practical Tips to Cure Best-Friend Sex, an Unexpected Offer, and Is Faking It OK Now?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Kelsey recently said she faked many orgasms while married. What is the general feeling about faking it now? How do most people react when they find out their partner’s faked it? Surely men think it’s a betrayal in the relationship?2) Help! The inevitable has happened: sex with my husband of six years now feels like I’m h
S12 Ep. 10: Hotwife Fantasies, Making a 30-Year Marriage Non-Monogamous, and Sex Acts We've Never Done But Would Love To
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My wife and I communicate well about sex, but lately I’ve become extremely turned on by the thought of watching her have sex with a stranger. I think it’s called ‘hotwifing.’ It’s just a fantasy, and I’m not sure how I’d feel if we acted on it. Usually, anytime we have a ‘kink’ we tell each other, but I worry she’ll thin
S12 Ep. 9: Cross-Dressing, Painful Sex, and How to Speed Him Up
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a 24-year-old woman and have never enjoyed sex because it hurts. I’ve been checked out by my doctor and there doesn’t seem to be anything anatomically wrong, but sex is never pleasant for me. Can you help?2) I’m a 36-year-old man and have been secretly wearing women’s panties under my clothes for years. It's not
S12 Ep. 8: Anal Sex, Older Lovers, and How to Stop Being Distracted During Sex
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I like having sex with my partner, but get so easily distracted. One minute I'm into it, the next I'm worrying about something or spend the whole session thinking, 'Don't forget to do this or that' afterwards. It interferes with my enjoyment. How do I turn off my busy brain?2) My partner has been hassling me to have
S12 Ep. 7: Sexual Confidence, Starter Sex Toys, and Why Did He Change with Her and Not Me?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 38, have been single for a long time, and haven’t had sex in ages. I’ve now met someone and I’m panicking about having sex with him. I enjoyed sex when I was younger, but now feel like a sexual novice. It’s affecting my confidence and stopping me from enjoying the experience of having someone in my life again.2) We h
S12 Ep. 6: Fantasizing to Spice Up Married Sex, Eye Gazing, and Why Can’t He See My Affair as a Positive Thing?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Is it wrong to fantasize about another person when you are in bed with your partner? I’ve been married for a very long time and—as you both talk about often—we feel more like friends than lovers. To make sex more arousing, I often fantasize about a woman at work who I mildly flirt with. I sometimes feel a little guilty.
S12 Ep. 5: Sex Dreams, Video Sex, and Wobbly Erections
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I get on well with my boss, but don’t find him attractive in any way. The other night, I had an extremely hot explicit dream about him, and it’s made me feel uncomfortable. Does it mean I secretly want to sleep with him? I often have odd sex dreams. Can you stop yourself from having them?2) I’ve just started a new relati
S12 Ep. 4: I'm Not Attracted to My Overweight Wife, He Hates My 'Trick,' and Why Can't I Orgasm with Her?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I am a straight man and have had a few long-term relationships in my life. Although I enjoy sex, I never ejaculate during intercourse. I am now 50. I can orgasm with intense fantasy and oral sex, but never during penetration. I have read about sensate focus, but are there other options? I am fit and healthy and have no p
S12 Ep. 3: Dry Spells, Sharing Fantasies, and Spanking
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My girlfriend and I seem to be going through a ‘dry spell.’ We haven’t had sex for about three months, and we used to have it weekly. Neither of us have talked about it and I feel like it’s becoming the elephant in the room. Life has been busy lately and I guess we just got out of the habit. How do we get back on track?2
S12 Ep. 2: Penis Sleeves, Hot Humiliation, and the Top Three Things We'd Never Do in Bed
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have some questions for each of you, rather than one of my own. Tracey, you’re always talking about the right things to do in bed but what about the wrong things? What are the top three things both of you would never do In bed? 2) What do penis sleeves feel like for women during sex? Do they feel realistic? We hav
S12 Ep. 1: Marathon Sex, the Best Vibe for Over-50s, and Male Body Image
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a 50-year-old woman and new to sex toys. I’ve tried a few Rabbit vibrators and find them all much too powerful and rough. Can you recommend something with a smaller, more gentle style? They all seem to advertise power as a plus, but for me it's awful! 2) I’m a 37 and have never had an orgasm (by myself or with a
S11 Ep. 10: What Type of Penis Feels Best for Women, Are Most Men Silent During Sex, and Why Does She Need Different Things Each Time She Climaxes?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Why do women need different things to orgasm each time? Just when I think I’ve got it all figured out and found the spot that makes my wife orgasm, she moves the goalposts. It seems to change every time. Is this true, or am I imagining it? 2) Which feels better for women: a short, fat penis or a long, thin one?
S11 Ep. 9: Face-sitting, Painful Sex, and Tips to Make a BJ More Enjoyable
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My question is about ‘face sitting’. My husband has asked me to try this with him, which I'm more than happy to do. But would like to know a bit more about it—especially because I'm a bigger girl and don't want to hurt him. 2) My girlfriend doesn’t love giving BJs, but will do so on occasion. If she doesn’t enjoy th
S11 Ep. 8: Squirting, Additive Vibrators, and Bisexuality
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I didn’t start having good sex until my early 30s, and within a few months of dating I started squirting. Now, it’s a ridiculous amount. I can’t have sex anywhere except on a waterproof mattress cover or blanket. Sometimes just kissing my partner makes me gush slightly which can be uncomfortable if I can’t immediately ch
S11 Ep. 7: Prostate Pleasure, Nipple Biting, and I Don't Want to Watch Porn with My Wife
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My wife and I, both in our late 30s, have always enjoyed an adventurous sex life. She’s always watched porn, which leaves me cold but never bothered me. But now she wants to watch it together. I really don’t want to, and it’s causing arguments. She thinks I’m ‘weird’ and says I’m probably the only man in the world who wo
S11 Ep. 6: Masturbation Surprise, Tipping Over into Orgasm, and What to Do If Facing a Sexless Future with a Wife You Love?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve been listening to your podcast since the beginning and my question is similar to other male listeners: I'm 51, my wife is 55, and we’ve been married for 20 years. We have four kids in their older teens. Our sex life has been virtually non-existent for at least six years, and we have had no sex at all in the las
S11 Ep. 5: Arranged Marriages, Girlfriends Who Rush Sex, and a Husband Who Won't DIY
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My girlfriend’s idea of perfect sex is both of us having orgasms as quickly as possible. Skip the foreplay, get naked, apply the lube, and get straight into intercourse. My idea of perfect sex is a bit of flirting, undressing each other, making her climax a few times during foreplay, then penetration in as many different
S11 Ep. 4: Midlife Erections, New Positions, and How to Know When to Leave
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) After years of having really good sex, my partner is now avoiding it. He’s 48. You always say if a man over 40 suddenly goes off sex, he’s having erection problems. I think you’re right because the last few times we did attempt sex, he couldn’t get hard. The thing is, we’re good at having sex, but not so good at talking
S11 Ep. 3: Big Breasts, Weak Orgasms, and Is He Secretly Gay?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner of four years is quite strange sexually. He seems to quite enjoy sex when I make the first move, but never initiates otherwise. He performs oral sex, but only if I insist and I can tell he doesn’t really like it. I thought he might be struggling with his sexuality and trying to force himself to be straight whe
S11 Ep. 2: Menopause and Sex, I Hate Being Polyamorous, and How to Build Sexual Confidence as a Young Man
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I'm a 50-year-old man from Amsterdam and a loyal listener to your podcast. I'm married to a wonderful 48-year-old woman, and our love and sex life is good. However, my wife has recently started worrying a lot about menopause and its effects on her body and sex drive. Could you discuss this topic?2) My boyfriend and
S11 Ep. 1: Revenge Sex, What's Kinky, and When are Sex Problems Not About Sex?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m recently back in the dating game and wondering if there are generally accepted definitions of vanilla/non-vanilla? So far, I've ducked all the likes from guys who describe themselves as 'non-vanilla' in case I disappoint. I'm late 50s cis female heterosexual, I love sex, and have a very healthy libido. I'm very
S10 Ep. 10: Penis Rings, Romantic Sex, and Female Premature Orgasms
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner is very shy when it comes to talking about sex. He found a sex compatibility quiz which we took as a way to open communication between us and the results showed we’re very in sync. In the quiz, he expressed interest in using a penis ring. But how do I know which one to buy, and what is the best way to use it?
S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I split with my husband of 14 years and my divorce has just come through. I’m a combination of nervous and excited. The marriage wasn’t bad, it was just boring and the sex was never good or satisfying. I’m now ready to get out there and start dating again, but I’m nervous about sex. Any tips on how to ease back into it?
S10 Ep. 8: Shower Sex, Daily Sex, and What to Do When He Gets Stuck
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Even when I've had plenty of foreplay and I'm certain I'm turned on, when my partner first enters me it's like he's stuck for a moment. It’s like my vagina won't let him in. He’s able to ease in after a few seconds and intercourse is great after that. It doesn't hurt, but I find it a bit awkward and confusing because I'm
S10 Ep. 7: WFH Has Stolen My Sex Drive, Scheduled Sex, and Should I Accept My Wife’s Free Pass to Have Sex with Other People?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My girlfriend and I went through a period of not having sex—we were so busy it got forgotten about. We made a point of having sex every Friday night—and now it’s stuck. We now ONLY have sex on Friday nights. She really likes this arrangement, but I hate having sex on a schedule. How can I make her more spontaneous?2) I a
S10 Ep. 6: Male Bi-Curiosity, I Hate Long-Term Sex, and Why Doesn't My Husband Desire Me Now that I'm Slim?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve lost a lot of weight using Ozempic and am delighted with how my body looks. I feel brand new and—at last—sexy and desirable. After years of complaining that I never initiate sex and accusing me of not even liking sex, I thought my husband would be pleased with my newfound confidence. I’m now super keen to try new th
S10 Ep. 5: Strange Sex Sounds, 'Is It In Yet?' and Dating after Divorce
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner makes strange noises during sex and it really puts me off. It’s like a whimpering noise—it sounds exactly like the noise my dog makes when I’ve locked her outside. I nearly burst out laughing the first time I heard it, now it’s just a turnoff. We’re four months into the relationship. How do I bring this up?2)
S10 Ep. 4: Dry Orgasms, Weird Sex Toys, and Same-Sex Skills
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I think my partner is faking orgasm because when he ejaculates, no semen comes out. The first time it happened, I asked him why there wasn’t much stuff. He said he didn’t know why and walked off. Since then, it happens now and then. I don’t say anything because I don’t want to embarrass him. Why would he fake it? Do men
S10 Ep. 3: BDSM Kinks, What to Do if You 'Miss' an Orgasm, and Why Can't I Move On from My Husband's Mid-Life Crisis?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I love watching BDSM porn and have a masochistic kink. My wife enjoys sex, but is pretty conservative in what she likes. I’ve told her I’d quite enjoy being tied up or spanked and she looked shocked, so I didn’t pursue it. How do I let her know I’d really like her to indulge me a little during sex without her thinking I’
S10 Ep. 2: He Wants to Open Up Our Relationship, the Link Between Oral Sex and Cancer, and Can Every Woman Orgasm?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner of four years has a friend who has opened up their relationship after having been married for nine years. Apparently, it’s working well. They have ‘sex only’ relationships, stick to some rules, and say it’s made them love each other more and enjoy sex more. My partner is intrigued by the idea and asked if I wo
S10 Ep. 1: I'm 50 and My Sex Drive Has Gone, Sex in Front of a Mirror, and Tips on Handling Uncircumcised Penises!
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner’s favorite position is doggy-style in front of a mirror. I hate sex from behind—I like face-to-face positions so we can kiss. I also hate watching myself naked because I focus on all that’s wrong with my body and can’t enjoy myself. My partner knows this, but I also know it’s his favorite thing and don’t want
S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) When I first got together with my partner of four years, we had lots of fun tying each other up. That stopped about a year ago and I really miss it, so I asked if we could incorporate it back into our lovemaking. The very same night, I walked into the bedroom ready for bed—not even slightly in the mood for sex—and there
S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I feel like your inbox for this podcast is full of questions like mine. I’ve been married for 26 years, and our sex life quietly died about 10 years ago. I’ve been listening to you both and I know this is normal. What I want to find out is if my wife misses our sex, or if she is happy with not having it? We’re best frien
S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband and I are each other’s first loves. We’re now twenty years on, 10 years married with a child and I feel at a loss. Our sex life is robotic and boring, once or twice a month. Same foreplay, same position. I have repeatedly suggested trying new things, but it’s always met with resistance, no willingness to
S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I love sex and I love the feeling of orgasm, but I’ve never been able to have more than one. Are all women capable of multiple orgasms, and how can I increase my chances of having one?2) I’m a straight guy wanting to suggest a threesome with my wife of four years. She’s really into sex and very adventurous, but I’ve neve
S9 Ep. 6: Is Being Intense a Turn-Off on Dates, Antidepressants Have Wrecked my Sex Life, and Tips on Trying New Things in Bed
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m wondering if I’m a little full on too early on when I go on dates. I love having deep, intense conversations and hate small talk. Some men seem to love it, but one guy recently told me I was a ‘bit heavy’ and to ‘lighten up a bit.’ What’s your view on this?2) I was diagnosed with depression in my early 20s and have b
S9 Ep. 5: I Want to Use My Vibrator with Him, I Can't Face Sex After My Husband's Affair, and How to Make 69ers More Satisfying
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have my best orgasms using my wand vibrator. My old boyfriend didn’t have an issue with using it in bed with us (though he was the first man I’ve ever used it with). Now, I’m with someone new—about two months in—and want to bring it up. Any hints on what to say? My previous boyfriend was the one to suggest it last time
S9 Ep. 4: He Refuses to Wear a Condom for Contraception, I Can’t Enjoy Breast Play After Children, and Why Do I Watch Lesbian Porn When I’m Straight?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I want to stop taking the Pill because it doesn’t agree with me. I’ve tried taking different types and I’m not suitable for a coil, so the obvious alternative is for my partner to wear condoms. I don’t mind condoms, but he can’t stand them and is making a huge deal of it. He says he’d rather not have sex than have sex us
S9 Ep. 3: Does Hooking Up on a Dating App Mean You Must Have Sex, Why Are My Dreams Making Me Furious with My Husband, and Can You Reset a Sexual Fantasy?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 40 and out here dating men again after an amicable divorce. I’ve been using dating apps and hooked up with two guys using them. I ended up having sex with both men, even though I didn’t really want to. I’m not quite sure how the dating apps work: are you obliged to have sex if you meet up with someone through them? S
S9 Ep. 2: What to Do If Someone Puts You Down About Sex, Can Women Take Viagra, and How Do I Stop Him Being Obsessed with My Orgasms?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a recovering alcoholic and up until 49, had never had sex sober. I’m now in a relationship (been together three years) and overall, we are both happy. The problem is we are very different types when it comes to sex. He is adventurous, I’m not (since I’ve been sober). He’s talked before about how good sex was with his
S9 Ep. 1: My Husband Wants Me to Peg Him, Why Is He Keeping Notes on Our Sex Life, and Noisy Neighbor Sex
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years. Now that our children aren't babies anymore our sex life is being resurrected from the dead and better than ever. My husband has expressed an interest in me pegging him. I'll try anything once, especially since it's his hole and not mine. I'm writing to ask for poin
BEST OF SEXTOK: I Hate the Way My Husband Initiates, How Do I Know If It’s Love or Loneliness, and What to Do When It’s Him Saying No to Sex?
A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives.In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Why can’t my husband change the way he approaches me for sex? He gives me this look that makes me want to run away…it’s primal, and it doesn’t feel good. I want him to start by just holding me
BEST OF SEXTOK: Emotional Affairs, How to Handle a Small Penis, and Is It Wrong to Only Want Sex When I’m Tipsy?
A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives.In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I am having an emotional affair with one of my coworkers. I’ve been married for almost 10 years and although I know this isn’t right, it’s making me feel alive again. Every part of me wants to sleep wit
BEST OF SEXTOK: I Want Her Husband, Why Won’t She Let Me Give Her Oral Sex, and Please Explain Anal Play
A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives.In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) You talk a lot about how most women have their orgasms through oral sex, but I’ve had more than one girlfriend push me away when I try to go down on her. They say they just aren’t into it. Is this true,
BEST OF SEXTOK: How to Set Up a Relationship so You Talk Openly About Sex, Why am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom?
A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives.In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) After a few relationships in my twenties, I have enjoyed ten years of being (voluntarily) single, but am now looking to meet someone new. I’m keen for my next relationship to have open, honest communica
S7 Ep. 10: How Do I Initiate Sex, How to Play a Power Game, and Is My Boyfriend Fetishizing My Curves?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 36 and just started a relationship with a man I really like. He’s more experienced than me—he’s had lots of relationships, and I’ve only had two long-term relationships. Because of that, I tend to leave it up to him to initiate sex and take the lead in bed. He mentioned recently that it would be great if I was the on
S7 Ep. 9: Cervical Orgasms, I Hate Being Touched After Sex, and How Can I Be Wilder in Bed?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) How do you have a cervical orgasm? I’ve heard Kelsey talk about it and I’m intrigued. How do you do it? It sounds quite full on and intense and I want to have one!2) I’m a 36-year-old straight woman and feel like I’m a boring lover. How can I be wilder in bed? I’ve done all the usual things—oral sex, different intercours
S7 Ep. 8: Hints on Hand-Jobs, How to Increase Libido, and Tips on Sleeping with Someone New After 25 Years with One Person?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I thought I’d never have to stare at a strange ceiling again, but here I am: newly separated and back out there again. I had a healthy amount of sexual experience before my marriage, but I’ve slept with no one but my husband for 25 years (I’m 52). I’m a confident person, but the thought of sleeping with someone new
S7 Ep. 7: My Son's Friend Wants to Date Me, Is It Good to Take a Break from Sex, and How Can I Recreate the Sexual Chemistry I Had with My Ex?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My son is 25 and I’m 44. I split from his father soon after he was born and we are very close. He still lives at home and often has friends around, all of which I know well. Here’s the part I need advice on: one of his friends has a crush on me and it's flattering. I’ve seen him watching me and he flirts a lot, but he to
S7 Ep. 6: Jaw-Aching Oral Sex, Do Men Like Genital Piercings, and How to Stop Obsessing About What I Look Like During Sex
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My jaw gets unbearably sore and tired just minutes into giving my partner a BJ. I’ve tried taking breaks by focusing on the testicles, but it’s never enough to recuperate, and he doesn’t seem to enjoy it much. My partner gives me lots of great oral sex and I want to do the same to him. How can I keep him occupied wh
S7 Ep. 5: Why Does He Lose His Erection, Is Sex During a Break Cheating, and Is My Husband a Sex Addict?
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve just broken up with a long-term boyfriend and am dating someone new. All is going well—except in the sex department. He has no problems getting an erection, but the minute he tries to penetrate, he loses it. If we can get him inside of me, he gets hard again and can orgasm. Is this ED? I worry it’s somehow my fault
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