Secondhand Therapy
Secondhand Therapy is a funny, honest mental health podcast where two unlicensed best friends unpack their weekly therapy sessions. Join Louie Paoletti and Michael Malone as they explore anxiety, ADHD, grief, masculinity, and emotional growth—with humor, heart, and total transparency. Each episode blends raw self-reflection with real time takes on therapy, trauma, relationships, and the messy process of healing. It’s real talk about mental health in the modern world, and why personal growth is so damn hard.
Episodes
Intro to Trauma Zombies | #133
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The Crisis We're All Facing (with Alexis Hill) | #132
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Stop Complaining, I'm Trying to Protect You | #131
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Vulnerability or Die... Easy Choice | #130
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Logically Speaking, You're Being Very Emotional | #129
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Picky in Love. Avoidant in Reality. | #128
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I Accidentally Humanized my Mom | #127
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Life is Good, I Should Ruin It | #126
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Can Trauma Fuel Growth and Resilience? (with David Sussillo) | #125
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I Don't Want to be Happy | #124
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I'm Afraid To Be Myself | #123
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Unplugged and Hating It | #122
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ADHD Burnout, Executive Dysfunction & EMDR Therapy Breakthroughs | Replay
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I Spoke to My Dead Mom Through a Psychic | #121
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Codependency Is Controlling Your Relationships (And You Don’t See It) | #120
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Are You Addicted to Misery? Dry Drunk Behavior, Earned Love & Why Happiness Feels Impossible | #119
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If the World Ended in 14 Days… Who Would You Choose? | Attachment, Self-Sabotage & Seeking a Friend | #118
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Why Happiness Feels Unsafe | #117
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Why I Know the Right Thing — and Still Don’t Do It | #116
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Anxiety With No Trigger, Body Image Shame & “Higher Self” | #115
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Being "Nice" is Ruining Your Life | #114
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Rage vs Doing the Right Thing | #113
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Having Emotionally Immature Parents | #070 Replay
Lou still hates a mismatch as he struggles with his desire to be more vulnerable. Lou and Michael discuss what it means to ask for emotional support. Lou's therapist dropped a bombshell on where shame comes from, especially if you had emotionally immature parents or if your parents always fixed your mistakes for you. Lou takes care of everything and hates it and loves it. Lou and Michael talk abou
Coping, Eating Disorders and a Helicopter Ride | #042 Replay
We welcome Jenny Zigrino to discuss loss, coping, addictive behaviors, and disordered eating—and what real recovery looks like when you stop avoiding the pain underneath it all.An honest conversation about grief, relapse, shame, emotional regulation, and learning healthier ways to cope when life feels overwhelming.______-BetterHelp:If you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor. Visit htt
Expressing Gratitude But Why Doesn't Dad Love Me? | #029 Replay
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comMichael starts off dissecting his newfound daddy issues and how validation and disappointment plays into his life before getting into his younger self. Lou and Michael get into their individual desires to express more gratitude. Lou explores the dichotomy of having a great life but not feeling
Emotional Defensiveness: Why Softness Feels Unsafe | #111
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Emotional Numbness, Triggers & Childhood Patterns | #110
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When Grief Finds You - Grief Part III | #109
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Porn Addiction & Monastic Wisdom with Jeremy Lipkowitz | #108
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Why We Struggle With Compliments, FOMO, and Accountability | #107
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Why Men Struggle With Vulnerability | #106
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Fawning: The Hidden Trauma Response Behind People-Pleasing | #105
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Understanding Misogyny: Gina Martin on Compassion, Gender, and Healing | #104
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Perfection is the Problem | #103
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When Childhood Fear Becomes Adult Anxiety | #102
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Do Not Have Needs. Ever. | #101
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Brad Garrett Tells His Story | #100
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Relational vs. Non-Relational Thinking | #099
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Fighting Stigma & Misinformation with Sophie Nir | #098
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Failing Is Not Okay | #097
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Codependence, Avoidance & Heartbreak | #096
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When Being Right Costs You | #095
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Control, Boundaries, and My Mom | #094
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Vulnerability Not Allowed | #093
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Inner Critic Sounds Like... Mom | #092
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Hobby Hunting and Identity Crises | #091
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLouie can’t stop wondering if his therapist is a Trump supporter. Louie talks about the early sessions of starting therapy, including opening up about his depression, anxiety, and trauma through intake surveys. He also shares why he’s on a mission to find a hobby — and how it could transform e
New Therapists, Old Patterns | #090
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLouie and Michael just had intake sessions with their new therapists—and the experiences couldn’t have been more different. Louie returns to working with a woman therapist and unpacks what it’s like doing virtual therapy from the intimacy of your own space. He opens up about childhood trauma,
Replay - PTSD and Self-Love with Hanorah
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions involving sexual assault. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/ponybearstudioshttp://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/itsloubear http://instagram.com/malonecomedy Contact us: secondhandth
I Don’t Want Help! What Even is Growth? | #089
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comThis episode ends up going very deep... Michael’s patience hits a breaking point after being on hold for 4 hours—then his girlfriend tries to help, and it only makes things worse. Lou and Michael unpack why support can sometimes feel like control, and how some conversations trigger defensivene
Replay - Little Boy on the Beach Gave Me a Panic Attack
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comMichael unpacks a vivid dream that stirred up old wounds, leading to a raw conversation about how he’s really processed his grief. He and Louie dive into what “showing emotion” actually means—especially for men—and why crying in front of people feels impossible. Louie opens up about a therapy
Read Receipts & The Panic Spiral of “I Miss You” | #088
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLouie’s off keto and melting down over Cinnamon Toast Crunch, but it quickly becomes clear this episode isn’t really about cereal. What starts as a goofy check-in turns into a full-blown emotional audit — from the weight of unsaid feelings to the desperate scramble to fix something you maybe j
Fake Growth. Real Talk. | #087
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comThis is probably our most uncomfortable conversation so far... This week, we dive into the messy beauty of personal growth, family trauma, and the illusion of progress. Michael spirals into thoughts about mortality and uncovers patterns passed down through his family—aka the “family curse.” He
I Don’t Feel Connected to my Mother | #086
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Grief (Part II) / Music Triggers & Healing Over Time When the World Won’t Stop | #085
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Therapy Intake Questions, ADHD Struggles, and Starting with a New Therapist | #084
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comSocial media boundaries in therapy, ADHD shutdowns, and how productivity shame messes with your self-worth. Starting therapy with someone new can feel… awkward. Louie shares about his first session with a new therapist, and the surprising comment he received on Instagram that sparked a deeper
Sitting in Discomfort: How Therapy Is Changing Our Relationships | #083
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLouie opens up about a vulnerable conversation with his girlfriend that challenged their relationship — all through the lens of parts work therapy. He shares how sitting with discomfort, rather than avoiding it, is transforming the way he shows up in partnership. Michael reflects on his own ex
Can’t Commit to Monogamy | #082
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLouie has bronchitis and found his therapists Instagram — and why that might be a red flag. Michael dives deep into his fear of commitment, the emotional tension around flirting in monogamous relationships, and why he struggles with being perceived as “in trouble” for noticing other women. Tog
Replay - Family Dysfunction and EMDR with Lara Beitz
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Live Show 001
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comThis is the recording of our first live show. It was recorded December 19, 2024 in Los Angeles, CA.BUSINESS INQUIRIES: business@shtpod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypodContact us: secondhandtherapypod@gmail.com 818-850-2448 P
You Probably Think This Story’s About You: It Started as a Love Story
*Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous. When Brittani Ard matches with Kanon on Hingesparks fly. Their first date revealed an instantconnection and chemistry.Kanon is devastatingly handsome with a charm that disarmed even the mostguarded heart—plus he is surprisingly emotionally available for a man in his forties. It’s as if the un
Why Am I Scared to be Happy? | #081
Louie grapples with the question: When is the right time to return to therapy? After making progress, Louie wonders whether he should open up about his podcast with his new therapist. Alongside Michael, they explore the balance between what to share and what to keep private in therapy. When does context matter in conversations about mental health? Michael faces the challenge of shedding his "sad g
Cheating on Your Pregnant Wife?! | #080
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLouie and Michael unpack a shocking voice note from a listener who discovered her husband's infidelity while she was 9 months pregnant. The guys dive into the complexities of relationship trust, cheating, and how they might handle betrayal in their own lives. Tune in for a candid conversation
Overcoming Anxiety and Understanding Triggers | #079
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comMichael returns from his tour and opens up about his struggles with staying grounded in one place. Together with Louie, they unpack the complexities of anxiety, how to recognize it in the moment, and share personal experiences of navigating anxiety triggers. Michael’s hilarious moment of conte
Which Dating App is Best for Relationships? Attachment Styles & Political Climate with Jenny Zigrino | #078
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comJenny explores the best dating apps for relationships, including Hinge, Bumble, and Feeld, and gives advice on which platform may be most effective for finding a serious connection. We dive into the psychology of attachment styles as Jenny opens up about her own disorganized attachment style a
Emotional Responsibility, Codependency & Communication Breakdowns | #077
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLouie opens up about a recent fight he had with his girlfriend – no therapy, just real talk. It's a classic relationship argument, and we're diving deep into it. We discuss emotional responsibility, codependency, communication breakdowns, and much more that came up during the fight. Michael pu
Trauma, Personal Growth & Normalizing Pain | #076
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comMichael shares his personal experience with starting Adderall for ADHD, offering a deep dive into how medication has shaped his mental health journey. He reflects on his hometown and the complexities of reconnecting with old memories, before diving into an uncomfortable conversation he recentl
Why Are Relationships So Hard? | #075
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou and Michael reflect on a powerful voicemail they received about the aftermath of breakups and the grief that follows. Lou opens up about a past relationship where an ultimatum changed everything for him. The conversation shifts to a meaningful DM asking how women can better support the men
There’s a 12-Step Program for That | #074
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comComedian and all-around good human, Ken Garr, joins the pod today. Ken discusses his history of being a black-out drunk alcoholic, with some stories that will make you think; before sharing his journey to being 8 years sober. He reflects on his addiction to toxic relationships and what he's le
I Don’t Trust Myself and I Have Anxiety (No I Don’t) | #073
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comMichael dives deep into his denial about anxiety and the fear of missing something, only to realize he’s been missing more than he thought. He opens up about the emotional impact of losing his mother and how it’s left him without a safety net. Michael also reflects on his tendency to quit thin
Asking Permission to go to a Strip Club and Cheating on Vacation | #072
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comIn an impromptu recording and conversation, Lou and Michael get into relationships. Asking for permission or checking in? Is cheating forgivable? What is cheating? Let's talk hypotheticals. Anxious attachments and building trust... or re-building trust? BUSINESS INQUIRIES: business@shtpod
I’m Being Honest With Myself and Honestly I’m NOT Selfish | #071
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou walked out of therapy because he just wasn't feeling it; Michael did EMDR. Lou and Michael recount an uncomfortable conversation they had off-air. Michael has been challenged to take a serious look at himself and his patterns and be honest with himself. Michael reflects on his need to expl
I Had an Emotionally Immature Parent and Now I Can’t Be Vulnerable | #070
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou still hates a mismatch as he struggles with his desire to be more vulnerable. Lou and Michael discuss what it means to ask for emotional support. Lou's therapist dropped a bombshell on where shame comes from, especially if you had emotionally immature parents or if your parents always fixe
One Of Those Long, Intimate Kitchen Conversations | #069
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comIn a different type of episode, Lou and Michael break down an emotional conversation they had just before sitting down to record the podcast. BUSINESS INQUIRIES: business@shtpod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypodContact u
It’s a New Year (Again) and We’ve All Missed the Point (Still) | #068
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comIt's a new year, and Lou made a shirt. Lou had some difficulty reflecting on 2024, and connects it to his big-picture thinking. Lou had a bit of an existential therapy session and got into how the luxuries of today's society have dulled existence. Lou and Michael discuss what life is supposed
Let’s Talk About Our Dynamic and You Don’t Know Us Like That | #067
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou and Michael discuss their dynamic, relationship, communication style and everything else. They discuss comments, engagement, and the idea that listeners know them intrinsically. All of this is sparked by a message received on Patreon... Shoutout to Nikki. We love you. BUSINESS INQUIRI
Lonely Fat Kid With a Neck Tattoo | #066
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou and Michael hammer out a little misunderstanding. Lou is checking in with his parts in a new way with new intention. Michael is still addicted to validation. Lou is struggling to come to terms with the parts of his father that live within him. Michael opens up about his childhood and his d
A Floating Task List and Struggling To Be | #065
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou doesn't hate to be needed after all which ties into his main focus of being. Lou feels like he has to catch everything before it happens. Michael's ADHD has his to-do list floating around in the ether. Michael still prioritizes his external appearance over his internal growth. Lou and Mich
My Absent Father and Closing the Door (Or Not) | #064
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou can't believe what Michael is doing in therapy. Lou saw his dad for the first time in four years... unplanned. Lou recaps his relationship with his father. Michael is coming to terms with loving his family but not necessarily liking them. Lou and Michael debate grief before discussing cutt
Grandiosity and The Inability to Cry | #063
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comLou had a very existential therapy session this week. Why are humans the ones, ya know? Lou reflects on his phone and online shopping and the dopamine hit of a new match before getting into his swan song in therapy. Michael is starting a new exercise tracking points and he is already up ten th
The Election and Logging Your Feelings to Find Your Needs | #062
Support the boys:PATREON - http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod MERCH - http://secondhandtherapypod.comWe’re talking about the emotional side of the election and Donald Trump’s victory before we get into understanding your needs as a human. BUSINESS INQUIRIES: business@shtpod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypodContact us: s
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