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So Shameless

So Shameless Podcast 640 Episodes Oct 14, 2026

Tahoe, Ms. DajahBelle and Dj Trauma discuss relationships, friendships, life issues, finance, sex, and everything about men that annoys women.

Episodes

Why Men Are Tired Of Dating Feat @TheKellyGshow and @LamaBean
Why Men Are Tired Of Dating Feat @TheKellyGshow and @LamaBean Oct 14, 2026 4549 This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Kelly G, “The Drill Fairy,” and Lama, owner of Slyte Studios, for an episode packed with controversial opinions, hilarious dating stories, and some uncomfortable conversations about Black culture. We kick things off with Lama asking a question that might make you rethink your entire circle: What’s the difference between a real friend and somebody you’re j
Are Black Men Hard To Love? - Is Black Love Becoming A Competition?
Are Black Men Hard To Love? - Is Black Love Becoming A Competition? Oct 12, 2026 5120 Part Two of this week’s So Shameless gets HEAVY as the crew tackles some uncomfortable conversations about accountability, race, relationships, and the expectations Black men and women have of each other.We start with the Cornell 7 conversation and debate who was actually culpable. Was the young woman victimized, were there multiple people responsible for what happened, or is there more nuance to
Can A Man Lead Without Being Controlling?? Feat @Ltleng
Can A Man Lead Without Being Controlling?? Feat @Ltleng Oct 8, 2026 4744 The So Shameless crew is back, and we’re starting this episode in HOMIE COURT! 😂 Who is Yesssterday mad at this time?! After a few people show up late, we have to figure out why Yesssterday has an attitude — and who deserves the blame. Then we get into a viral couple who records their arguments and posts them online so the internet can decide who’s wrong. Is bringing social media into your relatio
Putting The Medicine In The Candy
Putting The Medicine In The Candy Oct 2, 2026 4954 Part Two of So Shameless featuring Kizzle of @expressyourselfblackman and life coach Coach Bellamy (@mrsbellamy.callmecoach) gets personal as we talk about insecurity, fatherhood, relationships, responsibility and some uncomfortable truths about ourselves. We start with something almost everybody experiences but doesn’t always admit: feelings of inadequacy. What do you do when you don’t feel like
The New Noose Around Our Necks Featuring Coach Bellamy and Kizzle
The New Noose Around Our Necks Featuring Coach Bellamy and Kizzle Sep 29, 2026 4818 This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Kizzle of @expressyourselfblackman and life coach Coach Bellamy (@mrsbellamy.callmecoach) for a conversation that goes from astrology and self-awareness to war, politics, the media and how we talk about the Black community. First, we have to figure out why so many of us believe our zodiac signs explain the way we move through life. How much of our persona
The Male Experience Vs The Female Experience
The Male Experience Vs The Female Experience Sep 25, 2026 5276 Part Two of So Shameless gets into the battle between the male and female experience — and whether we’re so busy proving who has it harder that we’ve stopped actually listening to each other. We start with men living in survival mode and whether conversations about men’s struggles are too often dismissed by immediately comparing them to what women experience. Are men genuinely not being heard — or
Did Macklemore Totally Wreck Ed Sheerans Tour? / Is Lil Durk Really Not Guilty??
Did Macklemore Totally Wreck Ed Sheerans Tour? / Is Lil Durk Really Not Guilty?? Sep 22, 2026 5239 This week on So Shameless, Tahoe tries to do a good deed by buying a stranger some food — only to realize afterward that what HE thought was kindness might have made another man feel emasculated. Can helping somebody cross the line into disrespecting their pride? Then we get into Lil Durk being found NOT GUILTY in his federal murder-for-hire trial and a much bigger conversation about Black culture
One Last Pod feat DajahBell
One Last Pod feat DajahBell Sep 18, 2026 5450 Welcome Back to Part two!Part Two starts with the important questions…like WHO THE HELL IS STILL EATING MOUSSE?! 😂But once we get past that, things get a lot more serious. This week on So Shameless, we ask what friendship really means when life gets difficult. If you have a friend you would do absolutely anything for, should you expect that person to stand beside you through your trials and tribul
The Last Homie Court - Daj Leaves The Pod
The Last Homie Court - Daj Leaves The Pod Sep 15, 2026 4532 After 8 long years Dajahbelle records her last episode with Tahoe, Traum and Yesterday...and of course they start it off with one last homie court. Enjoy.
Can Women Hate Patriarchy And Still Want Men To Provide? Modern Dating & Double Standards
Can Women Hate Patriarchy And Still Want Men To Provide? Modern Dating & Double Standards Sep 11, 2026 5029 Welcome Back To Part Two Feat Tasia, Rell and Alexa Leighton.We get even more shameless as Alexa Leighton, Rell Easy and Tasia stay on the couch for a conversation about patriarchy, gender roles, double standards, motherhood, fatherhood and what men and women REALLY expect from each other.First, why have some women started using “gay” as an insult toward straight men they disagree with or aren’t a
Why Does The Black Community Still Glorify The Streets??? Lil Durk, Keefe D and Why Women Love Simps
Why Does The Black Community Still Glorify The Streets??? Lil Durk, Keefe D and Why Women Love Simps Sep 8, 2026 4607 This week on So Shameless, the crew gets into money, masculinity, street culture and everything the internet thinks a man is supposed to be. Tahoe explains why he has absolutely NO interest in spending his money at the strip club when he’s there with his woman and her friends — but does that make him cheap, smart…or a simp? That leads us into the internet’s favorite insult: what actually makes a m
Are Women Doing Too Much In Dating? Gender Roles, Male Friends and Relationship Boundaries
Are Women Doing Too Much In Dating? Gender Roles, Male Friends and Relationship Boundaries Aug 31, 2026 5018 In part Two of this weeks episode of So Shameless, the crew gets into dating, gender roles, friendship boundaries and what actually counts as disrespect when you’re in a relationship. Should men be expected to handle the traditionally masculine things while women handle the feminine things in a relationship—or are those expectations outdated? We also debate whether men ruin friendships with women

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