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Dustin Oliver 49 Episodes Sep 14, 2026

Ever wondered how therapy really works when you take out all the fluff? In this podcast, we sit down with licensed therapists to explore the tools they use in modern therapy, using language you can actually understand. Along the way, we get to know the clinicians behind the work, uncovering their insights, experiences, and what drives them to help others. Whether you’re curious about therapy, seeking mental health tips, or just love deep conversations, we’d love to have you join us.

Episodes

Gay Men and Their Relationships With Straight Men
Gay Men and Their Relationships With Straight Men Sep 14, 2026 3172 What shapes the relationships between gay and straight men? In this episode, we explore the psychology of gay-straight friendships, including masculinity, male friendship, attraction, emotional intimacy, boundaries, and the desire to feel like “one of the guys.” We also look at straight-guy crushes, the role of straight male approval, double standards around flirting and sexuality, and what actual
What If I Want My Ex But My Friends Hate Him? | Therapist Q&Gay
What If I Want My Ex But My Friends Hate Him? | Therapist Q&Gay Sep 10, 2026 1138 NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about when our friends don't want us getting back with our ex and if our patner doesn't share our kinks. Submit a question via email (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠boymeetstherapy@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) or Instagram (@boymeetstherapy).  *Note that these episodes are for entertainment purpos
Gay Men and the Need for Achievement
Gay Men and the Need for Achievement Sep 7, 2026 2616 Why are gay men so successful, and is there actually research behind the stereotype? Studies have found that gay men have unusually high levels of educational achievement, including significantly higher rates of bachelor’s and advanced degrees than straight men. In this episode, we explore the psychology of gay men, success, and achievement. We look at the “Best Little Boy in the World” hypothesis
Why Do Gays Always Fall For Unavailable Men? | Therapist Q&Gay
Why Do Gays Always Fall For Unavailable Men? | Therapist Q&Gay Sep 3, 2026 660 NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about why gays many fall for unavailable men and we answer the "Where can I meet people in person?" question. Submit a question via email (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠boymeetstherapy@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) or Instagram (@boymeetstherapy).  *Note that these episodes are for entertainment pu
Gay Men, Eating Disorders, and Food Noise
Gay Men, Eating Disorders, and Food Noise Aug 31, 2026 2118 Eating disorders are often associated with women, but disordered eating can be easy to miss in men, especially when it looks like fitness, dieting, or discipline. In this episode, we look at eating disorders and body image among gay men. We include why gay men may be particularly vulnerable to body dissatisfaction, the pursuit of leanness and muscularity, and the point at which seemingly ordinary
Can Gays Date with No Friends? | Therapist Q&Gay
Can Gays Date with No Friends? | Therapist Q&Gay Aug 27, 2026 1130 NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about dating while not having any friends and getting hung up on our first crushes. Submit a question via email (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠boymeetstherapy@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) or Instagram (@boymeetstherapy).  *Note that these episodes are for entertainment purposes only. Answering a sub
HIV: What You Need To Know in 30 Minutes
HIV: What You Need To Know in 30 Minutes Aug 24, 2026 1896 HIV is still a scary term for many LGBTQ people today. The goal of this episode is to explain HIV in a practical, easy-to-understand way without being overly scientific. HIV has changed dramatically over the past few decades, but many of the beliefs and fears surrounding it haven't changed at the same pace. In this episode, we break down what the science actually says about HIV today. We cover th
How to Get Over a Crush on a Straight Friend | Therapist Q&Gay
How to Get Over a Crush on a Straight Friend | Therapist Q&Gay Aug 20, 2026 1097 NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about crushes on our straight friends and accepting that you may not be a match with someone after dating for two weeks. Submit a question via email (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠boymeetstherapy@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) or Instagram (@boymeetstherapy).  *Note that these episodes are for entertain
Gay Voice and the Psychology of Sounding Gay
Gay Voice and the Psychology of Sounding Gay Aug 17, 2026 2233 Why do some gay men “sound gay”? And can people actually tell someone’s sexuality just by hearing their voice? In this episode, we look at the psychology and science of the “gay voice,” from auditory gaydar and the vocal characteristics researchers have studied to where these speech patterns might come from. We also explore what happens when your voice can reveal something about you before you’re
Gays Say I Love You Too Soon? | Therapist Q&Gay
Gays Say I Love You Too Soon? | Therapist Q&Gay Aug 13, 2026 840 NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we look at the romanticization of someone who doesn't feel the same way and what happens when we want to say "I love you" after one week of dating. Submit a question via email (⁠⁠⁠⁠boymeetstherapy@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠) or Instagram (@boymeetstherapy).  *Note that these episodes
The Psychology of Gay Hookup Culture
The Psychology of Gay Hookup Culture Aug 10, 2026 2781 Hookup culture is one of the most visible, debated, and misunderstood parts of gay male culture, but what does psychology actually tell us about it? In this episode, we explore the psychology of gay hookup culture, including how it developed, why gay male hookup culture is unique, and the psychological processes that can shape our experiences with casual sex. We look at sexual motivation, dopamine
Gay Friends are Superficial and Only Want to Hookup? | Therapist Q&Gay
Gay Friends are Superficial and Only Want to Hookup? | Therapist Q&Gay Aug 6, 2026 1083 NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we explore the frustrations of not being able to connect with other gays in a plutonic way. We also explore someone who claims that they want a relationship but can't find time in their busy schedule to accommodate one. Submit a question via email (⁠⁠⁠boymeetstherapy@gmai

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