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Sex, Secrets, & Sass

Angie Martin, LCPC and Krissy Johnson, LMFT 1 Episodes Oct 14, 2026

A podcast about sex, secrets, relationships, double lives, betrayal, identity, the patriarchy, and the complicated reality of being a woman. No topic is too taboo. Just honest conversations, raw stories, hard truths, dark humor, and the stuff women are usually told to keep quiet about.

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Who Gets to Define Virginity? Purity, Pleasure & Power Across Generations Oct 14, 2026 00:42:45 Virginity is not a medical diagnosis, a moral achievement, or a measure of someone’s worth.So why are girls still taught to treat it like all three?In this episode, Angie and Krissy sit down with Rachel, a senior and communication major at UC Santa Barbara, whose zine project examines virginity, women’s pleasure, patriarchy, and the moral weight society places on girls’ sexuality.Rachel shares how

Kink Without Shame: Consent, Power & Pleasure with Goddess Hecate Oct 7, 2026 00:42:52 Let’s start here: having a fantasy does not make you a bad person.What matters is how you explore it and whether everyone involved is informed, consenting, and genuinely on board.In this episode, Angie and Krissy sit down with Goddess Hecate, a professional switch and fetish content creator, for an honest, funny, and uncensored conversation about BDSM, polyamory, sex work, pleasure, and building a

Who Are We Now? Illness, Intimacy & Body Trust with Sara Champie, LCSW Sep 30, 2026 00:42:34 A diagnosis - or even the possibility of one - can divide life into a before and an after. It doesn’t just change a medical chart. It can change how you relate to your body, your identity, your sexuality, your partner, and the future you thought you understood.In this episode, Angie and Krissy sit down with NARM Master Therapist Sara Champie, LCSW, for a deeply personal conversation about developm

Childfree by Choice: Who Gets to Define Womanhood? Sep 23, 2026 00:36:35 Apparently, being a woman comes with a preassigned life plan: want babies, become a mother, change your last name, absorb most of the invisible labor, and eventually answer to “Grandma.”Angie and Krissy would like a word. 😂In this episode, they get honest about motherhood, choosing to be childfree, and the deeply annoying assumption that every woman either wants children or will eventually “change

Why Women Cheat: It’s Not Just About Sex Sep 16, 2026 00:41:40 Let’s get one thing out of the way: understanding why someone cheats is not the same as saying nobody gets hurt - or that anything goes.But reducing every affair to “a bad person did a bad thing” is lazy, and it leaves out nearly everything worth understanding.In this episode, Angie and Krissy take on infidelity through a sex-positive, nonjudgmental lens. They explore why women have affairs, how t

Your Sex Life Doesn’t Have to Be Stagnant with Amy Henderson Sep 9, 2026 00:42:56 What if talking about sex didn’t require awkward euphemisms, blushing, or waiting until your relationship was already in trouble?This week, Angie and Krissy are joined by therapist Amy Henderson for an open, funny, and very personal conversation about sex, intimacy, consent, and all the shame-filled messages many of us absorbed long before we were old enough to question them.Amy shares how she beg

Stop Romanticizing Chaos: Dating, Parts Work & Better Sex with Karina Breezer Sep 2, 2026 00:49:33 What happens when you’ve done enough work on yourself to recognize the red flags - yet dating somehow remains a complete shitshow?This week, Angie and Krissy are joined by therapist Karina Breezer for a funny, honest, and surprisingly deep conversation about dating in your 40s, becoming more fully yourself, and finally retiring the belief that intensity automatically equals connection.Karina share

Women, Infidelity & the Lies We’ve Been Told About Desire Aug 26, 2026 00:47:10 What if a whole lot of what we’ve been taught about women, sex, monogamy, jealousy, and desire is… well… bullshit?This week, we’re diving into Wednesday Martin’s Untrue and using it as a jumping-off point for a very Gen Sexers conversation about women’s sexuality, infidelity, shame, compersion, cultural double standards, and the stories we’ve inherited about what women are supposed to want.We talk

Non-Monogamy, Age Gaps & the Truth About Desire Aug 19, 2026 00:41:30 What happens when you stop assuming monogamy is the only way relationships are supposed to work?This week, we’re joined by Tiffany, a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, for a very candid conversation about ethical non-monogamy, desire, attachment, jealousy, age-gap dating, bisexuality, and all the rules we inherit about what relationships are supposed to look like.Tiffany shares

Ethical Non-Monogamy, Kink & Sex Work with Nicole Sonnefeldt Aug 12, 2026 00:43:14 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Kink & Sex Work with Nicole SonnefeldtWhat does it actually mean to practice ethical non-monogamy? What do you do when one partner wants to open the relationship and the other absolutely does not? And can we please stop pretending jealousy means you’re doing something wrong?In this episode, we’re joined by Nicole Sonnefeldt, an alternative relationship and lifestyle coach

Unlocking Emotional and Relational Wellness with Couples Therapist Alanna Esquejo Aug 5, 2026 00:33:16 Why can couples talk about schedules, bills, children, and whose turn it is to empty the dishwasher, but completely freeze when the conversation turns to sex, emotions, or unmet needs?In this episode of Sex, Secrets, & Sass, Angie and Krissy sit down with California-based Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Alanna Esquejo to explore what helps couples create greater emotional safety, commun

Uncovering the Impact of Unresolved Grief on Women's Sexuality and Intimacy with Dr. Carolyn Alter Jul 29, 2026 00:30:44 In this episode of Sex, Secrets, & Sass, Angie and Krissy explore how unresolved grief and parental ghosts can influence a woman’s intimate life. Special guest Dr. Carolyn Alter, a Chicago-based clinical psychologist, shares her insights on navigating major life transitions and healing the emotional shadows that can affect intimacy, relationships, and our connection to ourselves.Key Topics Cov

From College Drinking to Sobriety: Angie's Journey Jul 22, 2026 00:38:58 In this episode of Sex, Secrets, & Sass, Angie gets personal about her relationship with alcohol and the journey that eventually led her to sobriety.What started as college drinking gradually became something much bigger. Angie shares how alcohol continued to play a major role in her life long after college, the ways it affected her relationships and mental health, and the moment she finally a

Navigating Sobriety and Sexuality: Insights with Dr. Lori Nabors Jul 15, 2026 00:35:24 Are you curious about reducing alcohol consumption but unsure where to start? In this episode, Dr. Lori Nabors, a virtual psychologist specializing in sober curiosity, shares practical insights on questioning drinking habits, understanding the impact of alcohol on women, and exploring the connection between alcohol and sex—all without shame.Main Topics Covered:Understanding sober curiosity and why

The Double Life That Led Me Here (Part 2): Finding My Voice Again Jul 8, 2026 00:39:04 This is Part 2 of Krissy's story.Last week, Krissy shared the secret she'd been hiding for years and the impossible choice she faced when an ex threatened to expose it. This week, she picks up where that story left off.Krissy shares what happened after telling her family the truth, how she began rebuilding her life, and the winding path that eventually led her from sex work to becoming a licensed

The Double Life That Led Me Here: From Sex Worker to Therapist (Part 1) Jul 1, 2026 00:42:42 Before Krissy became a therapist helping women navigate secrets, betrayal, and impossible relationship decisions, she had secrets of her own.In this deeply personal episode, Krissy shares the winding path from studying opera and musical theater to working in the sensual massage industry, living a double life, and eventually becoming the therapist she is today.We explore shame, survival, identity,

Sex, Patriarchy, and Women's Pleasure: Unpacking Cultural Myths and Medical Misses Jun 24, 2026 00:29:28 Note: This episode emphasizes open dialogue about female sexuality, debunking myths, and promoting personal empowerment. Listener discretion advised for explicit topics.Join Angie and Krissy as they explore how patriarchy has historically shaped perceptions of female sexuality, from medieval myths to modern medical blind spots. This episode dives into surprising facts about sexual satisfaction, th

Exploring Sex, Secrets and Sass Jun 17, 2026 00:32:21 In the inaugural episode of Sex, Secrets and Sass, hosts Krissy Johnson and Angie Martin, both therapists, explore the complexities of sexuality, relationships, and the impact of menopause on women's lives. They share their personal journeys, discuss their professional niches, and delve into the societal taboos surrounding aging and sexual health.

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