After Reality with Courtney Robertson
Courtney Robertson, known as the most notorious villain in Bachelor history, hosts this podcast where she shares her insights on current episodes of The Bachelor franchise and pop culture news. Each week, she interviews other reality TV stars about how their experiences on reality shows have impacted their lives. The podcast offers a behind-the-scenes look at reality television from someone who has been both a contestant and a bestselling author.
Episodes
New Beginnings, Fall Reset & Life Lessons with Papa Robertson🍂
Fall feels like a fresh start this year. After a difficult summer, I’m settling into a new home and figuring out what this next chapter looks like. So I invited Papa Robertson back to talk about starting over and finding your footing when life doesn’t go the way you planned.We talk about what my 98-year-old grandmother has taught us about staying connected, taking care of yourself, and enjoying th
Keep Your Privates Private: Rebuilding After Divorce
I’m back with a candid life update after a few very chaotic weeks. Between moving into a new home, getting my kids settled, dealing with sickness running through the house, and navigating an increasingly difficult divorce, it’s been a lot.I share where things stand with my living situation, the legal challenges I’m facing, and what it’s been like trying to rebuild my life while protecting my peace
Courtney Robertson: Divorce, Digital Proof, and Trista Sutter
I join Game of Roses hosts Chad Kultgen and Lizzy Pace for a raw and revealing conversation about my divorce, the alleged infidelity I uncovered, and rebuilding my life while raising three young children.I also take Chad and Lizzy inside the Bachelor Nation podcast event that led to my tense conversation with Trista Sutter, the history behind our years-long conflict, and what happened behind the s
The Accidental Message That Revealed His True Colors 🍋
In this solo episode, I’m sharing a raw and very real update on my ongoing divorce following my ex’s infidelity. I open up about the emotional and legal nightmare of separating from someone who still wants control, the manipulation and narcissistic behavior I’ve experienced, and what it’s been like trying to create a safe, independent home for my children and me.I also talk about the incredible pe
The Double Life with Alanna Noel | I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce, Part Three
In Part Three of I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce, I’m joined by my friend and former Bachelor producer Alanna Noel as I continue sharing the painful truth behind the end of my marriage. We talk about betrayal, grief, anger, and the clarity that comes with discovering a double life—as I learn to trust myself again and protect my three children through it all.@lannanoel Hosted on Acast. See acas
I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce: The Double Life, Part Two ✌️
In part two of I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce, I sit down with my friend Stefanie Parker, podcast host of She’s All Bach (@shesallbach), to continue unpacking the painful reality of filing for divorce after discovering my husband had been living a double life.This episode is raw, emotional, and at times even darkly funny, because honestly… what else can you do when the truth keeps getting wor
I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce
In this episode of After Reality, I’m opening up about a deeply personal chapter: my decision to file for divorce after eight years.Joined by my friend Alanna Noel, I share what this season has looked like behind the scenes — the heartbreak, the loss of trust, and the painful process of accepting that the life I thought I was building has changed.@lannanoel Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy f
Joshua Fields Millburn: Netflix’s The Minimalists & Living With Less
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Joshua Fields Millburn, creator of Netflix’s hit documentary The Minimalists: Less Is Now, for a conversation about clutter, consumer culture, and what it really means to live with less.As a mom of three, the clutter can feel endless — toys, baby gear, school papers, sentimental items, and all the “just in case” things we keep tucked away. Joshua bre
Kalon McMahon on TMZ, Harvey Levin & Life After the Bachelor Villain Edit — Part Two
In Part Two of my After Reality Flashback with Kalon McMahon, we go even deeper into what life was really like after being labeled one of Bachelor Nation’s most unforgettable villains.Kalon opens up about returning for Men Tell All, why he says he was pulled back into the drama after he had already moved on, and what that experience revealed about the behind-the-scenes reality of the franchise. We
Kalon McMahon Tells All: Show Truths, “Sorry Not Sorry” & the Real Baggage Scene — Part One 🚁
I’m kicking off the brand-new After Reality Flashback series with Kalon McMahon, one of the most unforgettable villains from Emily Maynard’s season of The Bachelorette. He also reveals the truth behind his iconic helicopter entrance — what was real, what was production, and how that over-the-top arrival put a target on his back from night one.As two former Bachelor Nation villains from the old-sch
My Husband Got Served: Plea Deal Predictions in the Clayton Echard Case
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my husband, Humberto Preciado, for a little summer life update and a deeper legal conversation. We talk about the chaos of parenting three young kids during summer break, from camp schedules to trying to make sweet memories while also feeling completely exhausted.Humberto, a former prosecutor, also shares the surprising story of recently being s
Mackenzie Shirilla, Perfect Match Finale & Clayton vs. Laura Owens
I’m back with a quick summer update before diving into Netflix’s The Crash and the Mackenzie Shirilla case that has completely taken over my algorithm.After watching multiple documentaries, I went down the TikTok rabbit hole of Shyann Topping — Mackenzie’s ex-girlfriend from prison — and her viral storytelling about what life is really like for women behind bars. Let’s just say, Kim Kardashian is
Nothing Is Off Record: Juliet Harris on Crisis PR, Rachel Leviss & Taylor Frankie Paul
What happens when a celebrity scandal breaks, the internet is on fire, and everyone is waiting for the perfect statement? According to veteran publicist Juliet Harris, nothing is ever really “off record.”This week on After Reality, I’m joined by the founder of IT Girl Productions for a behind-the-scenes look at crisis PR, celebrity scandals, and reputation management. Juliet has worked with major
Taylor Frankie Paul Drama, Spencer Pratt Running for LA Mayor & My Family Mystery
In this solo episode of After Reality, I’m coming off a very glamorous Mother’s Day — and by glamorous, I mean I did absolutely nothing. I sat in silence, recharged, binge-watched an intense Peacock crime drama, and then immediately needed to cleanse my nervous system with Farmer Wants a Wife. Honestly, my kind of holiday.I’m also sharing more about the beautiful response to my Mother’s Day episod
Special Mother’s Day Episode: My 98-Year-Old Grandma Angie’s Wisdom
In this special Mother’s Day episode of After Reality, I’m sharing a heartwarming phone call with my 98-year-old grandmother, Angie.We catch up on life, motherhood, my real estate career, the podcast, and the beautiful chaos of raising three young kids. Grandma Angie gives me a little window into her life now — enjoying the sunshine, playing blackjack, getting visits from her sons, and keepin
Nick Pellecchia Reveals How He Won Million Dollar Secret
I’m joined by Nick Pellecchia, the winner of Netflix’s Million Dollar Secret, for a behind-the-scenes look at how he pulled off the win.Nick opens up about his strategy, how he identified the secret millionaire, and what was going through his mind when he made the bold box swap in the finale that secured him the grand prize. We also talk about the casting process, his transition from fin
Bonus Breaking News: Reality Steve on Taylor Frankie Paul, Dakota Mortensen & Jessi Draper Audio
Was Taylor Frankie Paul’s Bachelorette opportunity collateral damage in the fallout with Dakota Mortensen?In this bonus breaking news episode of After Reality, I’m diving into the latest legal turmoil and personal drama surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen — from the leaked audio involving Jessi Draper to the outcome of yesterday’s court hearing.I’m joined by Reality Steve to break
Former Bachelor Producer Talks Bachelor Nation Secrets: “Gabby Never Liked Rachel”
In this episode, I’m catching up with former Bachelor producer Alanna Noel after she went completely radio silent for the last year.She opens up about stepping away, what she was dealing with behind the scenes, and what it’s been like finding her way back.Then we get straight into Bachelor Nation — where the franchise stands, what’s shifting behind the curtain, and the headlines surrounding Taylor
Stefanie Parker’s She’s All Bach Solo Era, Bachelor Tea & Big Dreams
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Stefanie Parker, top-charting podcast host of She’s All Bach, for a fun catch-up between two close friends. We talk about her new solo era, what led to her professional split from her longtime co-host, and why this next chapter is rooted in growth, not drama.We also get into some of the biggest Bachelor Nation headlines, from Nick Viall’s alleged t
Behind The Bachelor Casting Process: Chris Lancaster’s Untold Story
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Chris Lancaster to talk about his experience being in the running to become the next Bachelor. He opens up about the intense casting process—from background checks and psychological evaluations to even being asked by producers to cut his hair to fit the show’s aesthetic.But just as things were gaining momentum, everything shifted. The net
Noah Erb on Winning Bachelor Mansion Takeover, Navigating Grief & What Really Happened Behind the Scenes
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Noah Erb, the inaugural winner of Bachelor Mansion Takeover. And I’ll say it—Bachelor Mansion Takeover is officially the best Bachelor spin-off series. We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while carrying the emotional weight of his mother’s terminal illness.We get into what it was really like for him
Chad Kultgen: Coach Clues, Bachelor Strategy & the Future of the Franchise 🥀
On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Chad Kultgen, from Game of Roses, to break down my recent experience on Bachelor Mansion Takeover. Chad reveals his behind-the-scenes role as my “secret strategist,” helping me craft specific speeches and moments during filming to capture producer attention and maximize screen time. We also get into the controversial casting of Taylor Frankie Paul, w
Christopher Stallworth on The Golden Bachelorette & Bachelor Mansion Takeover (Behind the Scenes)
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Christopher Stallworth to talk about his unique experience filming not one, but two reality shows alongside Joan Vassos—The Golden Bachelorette and HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover.We get into his unexpected casting story, what really goes on behind the scenes, and how he stayed grounded while navigating it all—including the reason he ultimately tu
Mitch the Maker on Building Big, HGTV Life & Bachelor Mansion Takeover
Today on After Reality, I’m sitting down with the incredibly talented builder and TV personality, Mitch Oaks—also known as Mitch the Maker!We recently filmed Bachelor Mansion Takeover together, and let me just say… this man does not mess around when it comes to bringing big ideas to life. From swinging hammers to creating jaw-dropping transformations, Mitch is the real deal—and he’s
After Reality: My Bachelor Mansion Takeover Exit, Redemption & Final Challenge — What You Didn’t See
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my heart and my journey on Bachelor Mansion Takeover—the highs, the growing pains, and the moment it all came to an end. From navigating creative differences with my team during the fireplace renovation to finding my voice in a high-pressure environment, this experience truly pushed me in ways I didn’t expect.I was also showing up and competing while p
Former Bachelor Producer Adam Mansfield on the Future of the Franchise & Casting Conversations
On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by former Bachelor producer Adam Mansfield, who weighs in on the current state of the franchise, the pressure to evolve, and what today’s audiences are really looking for. We also get into the buzz around Taylor Frankie Paul potentially stepping in as the next Bachelorette—and what that kind of casting could mean for the future of the show.From there, w
Dean Bell on HGTV, Winning the Golden Hammer & Life After Reality TV
On this episode of After Reality, I’m sitting down with fellow Bachelor alum Dean Bell—and we’re diving into what it’s really like going from receiving roses to swinging hammers.We get into our experience filming at the Bachelor Mansion for this new HGTV renovation series, and let’s just say… it was no walk in the park. I’m talking long days, real physical labor, and learning how to work (and surv
Cindy Cullers on The Golden Bachelor, Dating After Reality TV & Cindy for Golden Bachelorette 💫
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Cindy Cullers, the standout from The Golden Bachelor, for a candid and heartfelt conversation about her experience on the show—and what life really looks like after reality TV.We dive into her casting story, the friendships she built along the way, and how she’s navigated the post-show chatter, including her portrayal and dynamics within the cast.
The Bachelorette Cancelled: Taylor Frankie Paul Scandal Explained | ft. Brad Smith
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my initial thoughts on the shocking cancellation of The Bachelorette season starring Taylor Frankie Paul.I break down what we know so far following the release of a disturbing video reported by TMZ, which includes allegations of domestic violence and details surrounding a toxic relationship with her ex-partner. From the network’s decision to scrap a fu
Mom Card Activated: My Side of Bachelor Mansion Takeover — EP 3: "Off the Deep End"
Today's episode of After Reality: I'm breaking down Episode 3 of Bachelor Mansion Takeover — dishing on my design ideas being dismissed, the "mean girl" behavior I faced, and those guilt‑tripping "mom card" jabs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
My Return to Reality TV: Inside Bachelor Mansion Takeover
I return to TV on HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover with a behind-the-scenes look at the renovation competition where 12 Bachelor alums compete for $100,000. I play a clip revealing who voted for me, reflect on early vulnerability in the game, and ask: am I an easy target because I have kids? Are opinions like assholes? What would you do with $100,000? Plus: surprises from filming, from craftsmansh
Bachelor Mansion Takeover Preview: Behind-the-Scenes Prep, Traitors Finale Spoilers + Clayton Echard’s Love Trapped
I’m back with a solo life update — and I’m officially returning to TV for the first time in 14 years with HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover. I’m sharing the real behind-the-scenes prep (mom guilt, body changes, and the very humbling moment I forgot my entire makeup bag), plus a quick reality TV roundup with Traitors finale spoilers. And because you know I love a true crime moment, I’m also talking
Mom Talk: Valentine’s Day Edition — Love Languages, Marriage & Motherhood
In this Mom Talk: Valentine’s Day Edition of After Reality, I’m reflecting on the many sides of this holiday — the sweet stuff, the pressure, and everything in between. I’m celebrating my seventh Valentine’s Day with my husband (the longest Valentine I’ve ever had), and sharing how I’m trying to create meaningful traditions for our three kids — inspired by how my mom always made Valentine’s Day fe
Taylor Frankie Paul Bachelorette Predictions (Tarot Reading) | Psychic Shirley 🔮
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Psychic Shirley for a fun, prediction-filled preview of the upcoming season of The Bachelorette featuring Taylor Frankie Paul. Shirley pulls Tarot cards and shares her insights on Taylor’s journey — including what she’s truly looking for in a partner (think: safety, devotion, and real emotional security), plus reflections on her past r
February Goal Check: Simple Health, Money & Mindset Habits (with Papa Robertson)
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my dad (your favorite) Papa Robertson for a February check-in—and some simple, practical ways to feel better now and keep that momentum going into the rest of the year.We talk about a few lifestyle goals that can make a big difference: choosing real, direct human communication, staying physically active, and tightening up finances by cutting
Secrets From a Hollywood Matchmaker: Jaydi Samuels Kuba on Your Last First Date
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Jaydi Samuels Kuba — a Hollywood matchmaker, dating coach, and former Family Guy writer — to talk all things modern dating and what it really takes to find a lasting relationship. Jaydi shares insights from her newly released book, Your Last First Date: Secrets From a Hollywood Matchmaker (out January 27), and breaks down why dating can feel extra co
Reality Steve: Mel Owens & Peg Munson Backlash + Kat Izzo Spills the Tea on Dale Moss
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Reality Steve and we’re breaking down the latest Bachelor Nation headlines. We kick things off with Mel Owens and his final pick Peg Munson, and share why their recent podcast appearances came off defensive and rubbed a lot of people the wrong way.Then we get into Kat Izzo spilling the tea on her breakup with Dale Moss—what she’s said publicly, what
After Reality Update: Courtney Robertson + Humberto Preciado on Marriage, Work, and 3 Kids
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my husband, Humberto Ramon Preciado — back on the mic with me after a long break. We’re sharing a real-life catch-up on what’s been going on behind the scenes, from his career shift (from criminal prosecutor to personal injury attorney at a local firm) to some eye-opening thoughts on insurance, work culture, and what he’s learned along the wa
Abbey Sharp, RD: The Hunger Crushing Combo (Fiber, Protein + Healthy Fats) — A Non-Diet Approach to Nutrition
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by registered dietitian Abbey Sharp for a refreshing, evidence-based conversation about nutrition that isn’t rooted in restriction or diet culture. Abbey breaks down her “Hunger Crushing Combo” — a simple framework built around fiber, protein, and healthy fats — and explains why focusing on what you can add to your plate is often more sustainable tha
MLK’s Montgomery Church: Wanda Battle on Dexter Avenue King Memorial + Civil Rights History, Hope & “This Little Light of Mine” ✨
In this episode, I’m joined by Wanda Battle — a Montgomery native, historian, and the founder of Legendary Tours — for a conversation that feels like stepping straight into living history. Wanda shares what it was like growing up in a segregated community with deep family ties to the Civil Rights Movement, and how those experiences shaped her lifelong mission to spread unity, light, and understand
After Reality: 2026 Reset — Mom Goals, Pop Culture News & Bachelor Nation Headlines
Kicking off 2026, I’m coming out of the holiday chaos and back into a routine — and I’m sharing my vision for the year ahead. I’m breaking down the goals I’m focusing on across my four pillars: family systems, health and longevity, career growth, and community — because if I don’t get organized, nobody in this house will.I also get personal about pregnancy in my 40s and how it’s made me reflect on
Ben Higgins Talks Fatherhood, Faith & the Future of The Bachelor | Alone in Plain Sight (Re-Release)
I’m joined by Bachelor Nation favorite Ben Higgins, and we’re talking about what life really looks like after reality TV — from stepping into fatherhood to finding a deeper sense of purpose.Ben opens up about the emotions of celebrating his daughter’s first Christmas, the personal growth he’s experienced since his Bachelor days, and how his spiritual journey has evolved over the years. We also div
Reality Steve on Taylor Frankie Paul, Bachelor Nation Tea, Breakups & Nick Viall’s Mom-Shaming Blunder — Holiday Hot Takes Included 🎄
On this episode of After Reality, Reality Steve joins me to dig into the latest Bachelor Nation drama — starting with Taylor Frankie Paul’s headline-making turn as the new Bachelorette. We get into why her casting is shaking up the franchise, the early behind-the-scenes tea, and what this shift says about the future of the show.We also tackle a few current Bachelor Nation headlines — yes, includin
Stop People-Pleasing: Fight, Flight, Freeze & Fawn Somatic Healing with Kallie Somatics
On this episode of After Reality, I’m diving into one of my favorite topics as a recovering people-pleaser: the nervous system. I’m joined by somatic practitioner Kallie Klug (aka Kallie Somatics), host of the Your Own Medicine podcast, who breaks down what really happens in our bodies when we shift into fight, flight, freeze… and the response almost no one talks about: fawn.If you’ve ever apologi
Gift Smarter, Not Harder: Top Holiday Gifts for Every Love Language + Papa Robertson’s Picks
It’s that time of year again — the After Reality Holiday Gift Guide is here! Before we get swept up in the sparkle (and stress) of shopping, I’m starting with something that truly makes gift-giving easier: the five love languages. Once you know how your people feel most appreciated, choosing the right gift suddenly becomes… dare I say… fun?In our house, we’re leaning more into experience gifts ove
Meghann Turner Married at First Sight Interview – What Really Happened After MAFS Season 19 | After Reality
On this week’s episode of After Reality, I’m sitting down with Meghann Turner from Season 19 of Married at First Sight—my personal standout of the season. Meghann is funny, strong, real, and a fellow true-crime lover, so we hit it off right away. Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of pregnancy loss.In our conversation, Meghann walks me through her MAFS journey—from filming and navig
Reality TV, Trader Joe's, and the Anti-Meatball Campaign
On this week’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Daniel, the mayor of Huntington Beach, and we’re diving headfirst into all things reality TV. Daniel shares his 15-week self-imposed fitness “boot camp” journey, and we talk about why actual human interaction at the grocery store beats self-checkout any day. It’s a little reality TV, a little Trader Joe’s, a little fitness — and a whole lot of
From the Golden Finale to Golden 4 Ever: Papa Robertson Weighs In
This week on After Reality, I’m diving into the Mel Owens finale of The Golden Bachelor and sharing all my unfiltered thoughts — plus a cameo from Papa Robertson, who I called mid-episode for his take (and trust me, he had opinions).Between Bachelor commentary, I’m catching you up on real life behind the scenes: juggling back-to-back kids’ birthdays, navigating school volunteer hours, and organizi
Mom Mode Activated: When Real Life Outshines The Bachelor
This week on After Reality, I’m giving you a real-life update — from the chaos of holiday prep to the very scary moment I found a razor blade in my child’s Halloween candy (yes, really). Between that and fighting off a bug, I decided it might be time for a little digital detox and holiday breather.Of course, I couldn’t stay away from Bachelor Nation drama — I’m breaking down Gerry Turner’s tell-al
After Reality: Halloween, Dodgers & Papa Robertson
This week on After Reality, Papa Robertson joins me as I catch up on life, motherhood, and the beautiful chaos of the holiday season with our three little ones. Between meltdowns, planning holiday cards, and trying to give our home a little refresh, there’s never a dull moment. I even share a recent pregnancy scare (because, of course, why not add that to the mix?). We also chat about the Dodgers’
Catching Up After Reality TV: Anniversary Updates, Kevin Federline, MTV News & Bachelor Drama 🔥
This week on After Reality, I’m catching up on life after filming and getting back into the rhythm of everyday life post-reality TV. I’m sharing personal updates, including celebrating my five-year wedding anniversary with a much-needed parent getaway, and a heartwarming reunion with my friend and former Bachelor castmate, Casey Shteamer Patak.Then, I dive into Kevin Federline’s new book, You Thou
Why I Decided to Return to TV: The Bachelor Mansion Takeover HGTV
Today I’m joined by Stefanie Parker from the She’s All Bach podcast as I open up about my big return to television — and yes, it’s on HGTV! We chat all about filming The Bachelor Mansion Takeover (premiering this February), what inspired me to say yes to reality TV again, and how it felt stepping back into the spotlight after years away.I also share the excitement, the nerves, and what it was like
Swift Feelings, Bachelor Villains & Diane Keaton Energy
This week on After Reality, I’m catching up after fall break and sharing a few family updates—then diving into some unexpected news that stirred up a few emotions. Let’s just say, Taylor Swift has been my soundtrack lately.From there, I unpack the latest Bachelor drama, including Nicole’s bold “power villain” move on Mel Owen’s season, with a little help from the sharp minds at Game of Roses.And t
I’m Back Baby! Fall Break, The Golden Bachelor, & Pop Culture Tea 🫖
I’m back! After a whirlwind few weeks working on a new project, I’m catching up with you all and sharing some personal updates — from our family’s fall break adventures to celebrating my five-year wedding anniversary. I also touch on the latest pop culture buzz, including Taylor Swift’s new album and the Nicole Kidman divorce news.Then, I dive into The Golden Bachelor and its lead, Mel Owens — bre
After Reality: Chaos, Calm, and Bachelorette Revelations
In this episode of After Reality, I’m diving into all the chaos and calm of the week — from family life to the latest reality TV drama. ABC just announced the new Bachelorette, Taylor Frankie Paul, and I’m sharing my thoughts on her colorful past, including her Mormon background and her previous domestic violence arrest.I’ll also play a clip from my good friend Dave Neal’s podcast, where he s
After Reality: Reality Steve Dishes on Bachelor Nation Cruise Drama, Final BIP Couples, Next Bachelor Talk, & More!
In this episode, Reality Steve and I dive deep into the latest buzz surrounding Bachelor Nation, and trust me, there’s a lot to unpack! We kick things off by breaking down the upcoming Bachelor Nation cruise — from its jaw-dropping price tag to the big names involved, like Tyler Cameron and Jesse Palmer. But with low ticket sales looming, could this be the beginning of the end for the cruise? We d
After Reality: Oh Honey with Christian & Wendy Long
On this episode of After Reality, I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Christian Long and his mom, Wendy Long, the dynamic duo behind the Oh Honey podcast. I’ve quickly become a big fan of their intergenerational conversations—their charming banter and thoughtful advice always make me smile.Christian shared how he convinced his (initially hesitant!) mom to co-host the show with him, an
After Reality: Golden Bachelor Star Susan Noles Talks Love, Long-Distance & Celebrity Moments 💋
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with the fabulous Susan Noles — The breakout star from The Golden Bachelor. We talk about her Kris Jenner surprise moment, her podcast Golden Hour with Kathy Swarts, and what it’s like finding love again in her golden years (including the difficulties of long-distance) We also talk about the beauty of tough love in parenting and friendship.Susan also op
After Reality: Molly Mesnick on Parenting, Marriage & Life Beyond The Bachelor
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Molly Mesnick to dive into life after The Bachelor. We get real about the highs and lows of reality TV fame—navigating social media, the pressure to keep showing up in the spotlight, and the challenge of creating a “normal” life once the cameras stop rolling.Beyond our shared reality TV history, Molly opens up about marriage, parenting, and her thr
After Reality: Taylor Swift, Reality TV, 🍑 Summer I Turned Pretty Predictions & a Side of Self-Defense with Daniel Trujillo
In this episode, Daniel Trujillo and I dive into all the good stuff — pop culture, personal stories, and those little life observations you can’t unhear once someone points them out. We break down the Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce phenomenon — her business genius, her songwriting magic, and their internet breaking podcast episode on New Heights.Daniel gets real about his first job as a dishwasher
After Reality: From Playground Tears to Paradise Fears — Freedom, Feels & Flaming the “Bro Code”
I’m back — and life feels a little different these days! Kids in school. Mom’s got freedom. And I’ve got thoughts. From emotional drop-offs and my dad’s 75th birthday bash to a scathing Bachelor in Paradise rant (looking at you, “bro code”), I’m spilling it all — plus my latest TV binges and must-listen podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
After Reality: Trouble in Paradise, Pop Culture and True Crime
On this episode of After Reality, I cover everything from pop culture headlines to personal moments from my week. I get into the news about Andy Byron possibly suing Coldplay over a viral video, and I share my honest thoughts on the current season of Bachelor in Paradise—let’s just say, I have some strong opinions about the direction it's headed and which contestants are standing out (for better o
[Re-Release] Coldplay Concerts to Bachelor in Paradise: Brad Smith Breaks It Down
I was so excited to put this funny, unfiltered conversation out into the world—but in the rush of things, the last part of our chat didn’t make it into the original release. So here it is, the full version of my episode with Brad Smith—because it’s just too good not to share again.We unpack some of the wildest recent moments in pop culture—like a CEO’s meltdown at a Coldplay concert and the drama
After Reality: Papa Robertson Summer Survival Guide
In this episode of After Reality, I'm joined by my dad—lovingly known as Papa Robertson—for a heartwarming and entertaining conversation. We chat about his recent travels, his candid thoughts on The Golden Bachelor (he has some strong opinions about the casting!), and most importantly, we dive into fun and budget-friendly summer activities the whole family can enjoy. From exploring local libraries
Coldplay Concerts to Bachelor in Paradise: Brad Smith Breaks It Down
In this episode, I sit down with Brad Smith to unpack some of the wildest recent moments in pop culture—like a CEO’s meltdown at a Coldplay concert and the drama heating up around The Golden Bachelor. We get into the good, the bad, and the hilarious sides of reality TV, share a few behind-the-scenes stories, and open up about some deeply personal topics, including fertility and the pressures women
BIP Season 10: Big Changes, Same Old Popularity Contest
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing a little birthday update, a wild visit to my psychic (who had thoughts on Mel Owens and his possible ABC exit), plus a recap-ish of the highlights from the Bachelor in Paradise Season 10 (2025) premiere. We get into the tea on Mel’s divorce settlement, the new format shakeups, and yes—this show is still very much a popularity contest.One standout momen
Reality Steve & Papa Robertson Unpack Mel Owens: Artificial Hips, Wigs, & Golden Bachelor Backlash
In this episode of After Reality, I dive into the explosive controversy surrounding Mel Owens, the newly announced Golden Bachelor. To set the stage, I share a clip from Mel's recent podcast interview—originally brought to light by my friend and go-to scoop expert, Reality Steve.Mel's remarks have caused quite a stir. He openly stated his preference for women aged 45 to 60 and shockingly admitted
Bachelor Breakups and Big Predictions: After Reality Starring Stefanie Parker, AKA She’s All Batch
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Stefanie Parker from She’s All Batch to dive into everything Bachelor Nation. We chat about the latest breakups, marriages, and baby news, and I share some personal reflections on my own past breakup and what it’s really like living in the spotlight. Stephanie and I also speculate about the future of Bachelor in Paradise and how the franchise is e
After Reality: Thriving as an Introvert with Emma-Louise 🥳
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with the amazing Emma-Louise, host of The Ambitious Introvert podcast and a coach who’s passionate about helping introverts thrive in an extrovert-centric world. Emma shares her fascinating journey—from 17 years in the skies as an air traffic controller and flight attendant to becoming a coach who empowers introverts to embrace their strengths.We dive i
After Reality with Michael Allio: The Pursute of Peace & A New Spark
In this episode, I sit down with Michael Allio, a fan favorite from The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise. Known for his vulnerability and dedication to fatherhood, Michael opens up about his journey as a single dad after losing his wife to cancer. Why "A Happy Father Raises Happy Kids" We dive into his motivations for joining reality TV, the challenges and lessons he's learned from living in
After Reality with Ashley Iaconetti: Mom Brain & Bachelor Nation Tea
Welcome to this episode of After Reality! It’s me, Courtney Robertson, and today, I’m sitting down with the fabulous Ashley Iaconetti. We’re diving into all things motherhood—think “mom brain,” the overstimulation that comes with parenting (anyone else had a mom meltdown or shed a few tears?), and the never-ending juggle of work, family, and everything in between.We’re also chatting about birth co
Diving Deep: Life After Reality with John Henry Spurlock 🦈
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with John Henry Spurlock, a fan favorite from The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise. We dive into his life updates, including his move to Hawaii for his career as an underwater welder. We also chat about his experiences on the shows, how he unexpectedly found himself in the Bachelor franchise, and his thoughts on Katt Izzo, as she returns for anothe
After Reality: Podcast Refresh, Parenting & Life After The Bachelor
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing how taking a step back has helped me recharge and embrace the joys and challenges of parenthood. With this refresh, I’m thrilled to spotlight heartfelt parenting stories and connect with fellow reality stars who are navigating life with kids. From the sometimes hilarious adventure of making mom friends (yes, it’s a lot like dating!) to candid conversat
Mother's Day Bliss, Gift Ideas, & Major News for Bachelor Clayton Echard. Insight from My Husband Humberto)
This week, I’m spilling all the tea—starting with my Mother’s Day plans, featuring a dreamy spa day gifted by my amazing husband (and the hilarious challenge of keeping quiet during massages). I’m also sharing my favorite last-minute gift ideas to make Mom feel like the queen she is.On the personal front, I’m celebrating my son’s first birthday and opening up about what it’s like being an “introve
Bob Guiney’s Derby Picks, Family Fun, & Your Questions Answered
This Friday I'm sharing my weekend plans, which include watching the Kentucky Derby with my husband and taking part in our family’s fun betting tradition. I even play a clip from Bob Guiney live from Churchill Downs, where he shares his picks. Since it’s Mental Health Awareness Month, I open up about receiving a heartfelt email from a colleague and reflect on my own journey, including the loss of
Reality Steve: New Bachelor Bombs & Vegas Birthday Bash 🎂🥂
Diving into the latest Bachelor Nation news with my friend Reality Steve, this episode is a total banger! We chat about the new Golden Bachelor, Hannah Brown’s surprising appearance in Paradise, and all the buzz surrounding former contestants on social media. Plus, we spill details about Reality Steve’s upcoming 50th birthday Vegas bash and brainstorm 80s-themed costume ideas. I also put Steve in
Podcast Club Starring Manon Mathews: Why You Should Scream
I'm excited to introduce my new podcast club by sharing an incredible episode from Manon Mathews' podcast, ManonFestation. This episode truly resonated with me as it dives deep into hormonal phases and energy levels, with insights from the book Fast Like a Girl by Mindy Pelz. Manon, who many know from her viral videos, opens up about her personal experiences—everything from premenstrual emotions t
Breaking News: New Golden Bachelor Revealed + Paradise Updates
Breaking News: I dive into the latest updates in The Bachelor franchise, including the surprising announcement of Mel Owens as the next Golden Bachelor and Hannah Brown’s surprising new role as a bartender on the upcoming Bachelor in Paradise. I share my initial reactions and commentary on these developments, along with personal anecdotes from my own time within the franchise—like my unforgettable
Kyle Wimberley: Netflix's Million Dollar Secret Star & Authentic Reality 😎
On this episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Kyle Wimberley, a contestant on Netflix’s reality competition show Million Dollar Secret. Kyle’s Southern charm and focus on wellness instantly stood out to me. We dove into his journey, including his surprising lack of prior experience with reality TV before landing a spot on this hit show.Kyle opened up about his casting process, sharing how h
Parents Recharged: A Post-Date Night Debrief 🥂
Join me, Courtney Robertson, and my husband, "honey," for a candid chat on "After Reality" as we savor a rare child-free weekend morning. We’re diving into last night’s date, reflecting on how much we appreciate childcare, and sharing how vital it is to reconnect as parents of three little ones. From our sleeping arrangements and a recent movie night to a playful attempt at TikTok and reminiscing
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