The Sexology Lab
The Sexology Lab explores the intersection of intimacy, science, and human potential. Each week, the podcast hosts conversations with researchers, clinicians, sextech innovators, and educators about desire, connection, and wellness. It aims to replace shame with curiosity and redefine what it means to be human through erotic intelligence.
Episodes
What Dominatrixes Know About Power That the Rest of Us Don't | Lindsay Goldwert | Episode 33
What can dominatrixes teach us about confidence, negotiation, boundaries, and getting what we want in life? More than you might think. In this conversation, Michelle sits down with Lindsay Goldwert, journalist, author, and podcast host, to explore the surprising lessons she learned while researching her book Bow Down: Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want.What began as an unc
What Successful Men Get Wrong About Intimacy | Coral Osborne | Episode 32
What if the traits that make a man incredibly successful at work are the same ones making intimacy harder?Coral Osborne joins The Sexology Lab to explore what she has learned about high-achieving men through her experiences as a former escort, sexologist, coach, and someone who has spent years studying the intersection of sexuality, psychology, relationships, and masculinity. Coral says she repeat
The Menopause Study That Had Women Self-Pleasuring 3–4 Times a Week | Dr. Justin Lehmiller | Episode 31
What happens when researchers ask women going through menopause to self-pleasure three to four times a week—for months?Dr. Justin Lehmiller joins The Sexology Lab to unpack his latest research on menopause, masturbation, orgasm, and sexual health. His team first surveyed pre-, peri-, and post-menopausal women, then designed a longitudinal study that included an abstinence period followed by regula
Netflix Wanted the "Sexy Girl." She Became a Sex Educator Instead | Alyssa Ljubicich | Episode 30
When Alyssa Ljubicich joined Netflix's The Circle, producers expected her to play a particular role: the flirty, highly sexualized "sexy girl." But Alyssa was already working in sexual health—and what interested her wasn't performing sexuality for an audience. It was helping people understand their bodies, challenge shame, and build healthier relationships with pleasure.In this e
What Intimacy Coordinators Really Do | Jamie Monahan Part 2 | Episode 29
What actually happens when actors film a sex scene—and who makes sure intimacy is choreographed, communicated, and consensual?In this episode of The Sexology Lab, intimacy coordinator Jamie Monahan takes us behind the scenes of intimate storytelling in film, television, theater, and audio erotica. Jamie shares what the job really involves day-to-day, why actors often struggle more with voicing int
What Really Happens When Actors Film Intimate Scenes? | Jamie Monahan Part 1 | Episode 28
What actually happens when actors film a sex scene—and who makes sure intimacy is choreographed, communicated, and consensual?In this episode of The Sexology Lab, intimacy coordinator and intimacy director Jamie Monahan takes us behind the scenes of intimate storytelling in film, television, theater, and audio. Jamie shares how her background as an actor and director led her into intimacy coordina
Trauma Doesn't Stay Outside the Bedroom | Amanda Jepson | Episode 27
Trauma doesn't stay neatly contained in the past—and it doesn't stay outside the bedroom.In this episode of The Sexology Lab, we sit down with Amanda Jepson, SHA-certified and AASECT-certified sex therapist and trauma specialist, to explore how trauma can shape desire, pleasure, trust, touch, attachment, communication, and relational safety. Amanda explains why trauma-informed sex therapy
Why You're Not in the Mood (And There's Nothing Wrong With You) | Dr. Nazanin Moali | Episode 26
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Dr. Nazanin Moali, licensed clinical psychologist, certified sex therapist, and host of the Sexology Podcast, to unpack one of the most common concerns in modern relationships: low desire. Dr. Moali explains why so many people mistakenly believe something is "wrong" with them when they aren't spontaneously in the mood, and how understanding responsive desire can
The Kids Are Alright: Dr. Eli Sheff on 25+ Years of Polyamorous Family Research | Episode 25
What kind of relationship actually works for you—and how much of that answer comes from what you genuinely want versus what you've been taught a relationship is supposed to look like?In this two-part conversation, we sit down with Dr. Eli Sheff, sociologist, certified sexuality educator, longtime researcher of consensual non-monogamy, and Director of Sexual Health Alliance's Advanced Certi
Monogamy, Polyamory, or Something Else? Finding Your Relationship Style with Dr. Eli Sheff Part 1 | Episode 24
What kind of relationship actually works for you—and how much of that answer comes from what you genuinely want versus what you've been taught a relationship is supposed to look like?In this two-part conversation, we sit down with Dr. Eli Sheff, sociologist, certified sexuality educator, longtime researcher of consensual non-monogamy, and Director of Sexual Health Alliance's Advanced Certi
Question Everything: How Japan, the Military, and Kink Shaped Midori | Episode 23
Today in The Sexology Lab, we sit down with Midori—sexologist, educator, author, artist, and one of the pioneering voices in modern kink education. Best known for writing the first English-language instructional book on Japanese rope bondage and for leading Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program, Midori shares the remarkable story behind the educator so many professionals
The Camera Has a Point of View: Arthur Brun from Erika Lust on Indie Adult Cinema | Episode 22
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Arthur Brun, Chief Growth Officer at Erika Lust, one of the world's leading independent adult film studios. Arthur takes us behind the scenes of ethical production, cinematic storytelling, and the future of adult media, sharing how every creative decision—from who's behind the camera to how performers are supported on set—shapes the stories audiences ultimately s
Five Minutes Is Not Premature: Dr. Joshua Gonzalez on How Long Men Should Last In Bed | Episode 21
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, board-certified urologist, men's sexual health expert, and co-founder of Popstar Labs, to unpack the most common concerns men have about sex—and why so many suffer in silence. From erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation to fertility, testosterone, and body image, Dr. Gonzalez explains what men are actually experiencing versus what the
Own Your Pleasure: Dr. Nicole McNichols on Better Intimacy, Better Relationships, and Less Shame | Episode 20
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, clinical psychologist, professor, author of You Could Be Having Better Sex, and the instructor of one of the largest human sexuality courses in the United States. Teaching more than 4,000 students each year, Dr. McNichols has a front-row seat to how Gen Z thinks about sex, relationships, consent, and intimacy—and the trends may surprise you.
Building SAALT: How Cherie Hoeger Turned Period Care Into a Global Mission | Episode 19
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Cherie Hoeger, CEO and co-founder of SAALT, to explore how one conversation about period poverty grew into one of the world's leading sustainable period care companies. From launching menstrual cups in 2018 to building a global brand focused on innovation, impact, and women's health, Cherie shares what it really takes to build a mission-driven business.This conve
Who Taught You About Pleasure? Laura Ramadei on Adult Media and Performance | Episode 18
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Laura Ramadei, SHA certified sexologist, sexuality coach, writer, and host of the feminist comedy podcast Girls on Porn. Laura shares how reviewing adult media through an intersectional feminist lens led her into sexology and why conversations about pornography, pleasure, and media literacy are more important than ever.Together, we explore how adult media has bec
"Just Open Your Legs": The Female Pleasure Gap in Nigeria with Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire | Episode 17
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire, therapist, intimacy expert, founder of the Intimacy Clinic, and founder of the Chartered Institute of Counseling in Nigeria. In a powerful and eye-opening conversation, Dr. Tolu shares what it means to advocate for sexual health, intimacy, and therapy in a culture where conversations about sex remain highly stigmatized and deeply influenc
Shame and the Problem with Calling Everything an Addiction with Michael Vigorito | Episode 16
In this episode, we sit down with Michael Vigorito, licensed psychotherapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, author, and co-director of Sexual Health Alliance’s Advanced Certification in Problem Sexual Behavior. Together, we challenge one of the most widely accepted and misunderstood concepts in modern sexology: sex addiction.Michael shares why many sexual health professionals have moved away fro
The Hidden Cost of SSRIs: What Every Woman Should Know with Dr. Laurie Mintz & Dr. Suzette Johnson | Episode 15
In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Laurie Mintz and Dr. Suzette Johnson to explore one of the most common but least discussed side effects of antidepressants: difficulty with arousal, desire, and orgasm. Millions of women take SSRIs and SNRIs for anxiety, depression, postpartum mental health, and other conditions, yet many are never warned about how these medications can impact their sexual wel
Energy Drainers vs Energy Gainers: Restoring Connection to Pleasure with Dr. Shannon Chavez | Episode 14
In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Shannon Chavez, a licensed clinical psychologist and AASECT-certified sex therapist who blends evidence-based psychology, attachment theory, sexual medicine, and holistic wellness practices to help people create healthier relationships with themselves and their partners.From nervous system regulation and desire to trauma healing, emotional safety, and multicul
Why We Get Jealous: Dr. Justin Mogilski on Pair Bonding, Competition, and Communication | Episode 13
In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Justin Mogilski, an evolutionary psychologist and associate professor leading an international research team studying consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships. From jealousy and attraction disclosure to parenting and evolutionary biology, this conversation explores what science actually tells us about how people make non-monogamy work.Dr. Mogilski break
Education Forgot the Fun Part: Amy Baldwin and April Lampert on Pleasure, Shame, and What We’re Missing | Episode 12
Today in The Lab, we sit down with Amy Baldwin and April Lampert, the co-hosts of the wildly popular Shameless Sex Podcast, to explore what happens when sexual education leaves out pleasure, curiosity, and emotional safety. From shame and compliance to sex toys and consent, this conversation dives into the real-world gaps in how we talk about sexuality.Amy and April share their journey from workin
Reversing Pain, Dryness, & ED Without Medication | Dr. Soum Rakshit | Episode 11
Joining us in The Lab is Dr. Soum Rakshit, founder and CEO of MysteryVibe and MV Health, to explore the rapidly evolving world of sex tech and medical-grade sexual wellness devices. With a background in biomedical engineering, Dr. Rakshit is at the forefront of bridging pleasure, healthcare, and innovation—especially for people navigating sexual health after major life events.This conversation div
Beyond Erections - Hormones and Sexual Function with Dr. Amy Pearlman | Episode 10
Joining us in The Lab is Dr. Amy Pearlman, a board-certified urologist specializing in hormone optimization, sexual health, and gender-affirming care. This conversation breaks down some of the most common questions people have about male sexual health, from what’s actually “normal” to when it’s time to seek medical support.Dr. Pearlman brings a refreshingly honest, sex-positive perspective to topi
Why Relationship Problems Start in Childhood | Imago Therapy with Dr. Joe Kort | Episode 9
In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Joe Kort, a clinical sexologist and founder of the Center for Relationship and Sexual Health, to explore how therapists can better understand sexual health, trauma, and relationships. With over 40 years of experience, Dr. Kort brings a deeply nuanced, sex-positive perspective to topics often misunderstood in both clinical and cultural spaces.We dive into Imago
Performance Anxiety, Connection, and What Actually Works | Caitlin V | Episode 8
Today in the lab, we sit down with Caitlin V, prominent sex and relationship coach, author, and media personality, to break down what people are really asking for when they say they want more confidence in bed. From performance anxiety to intimacy blocks, this conversation reframes sex as a skill that can be learned, not something you’re either born good at or not.Caitlin shares powerful insights
Why Is It So Hard to Talk About? | Dr Tara | Episode 7
Joining us in the lab is Dr. Tara Suwinyatichaiporn, author of How Do You Like It?, to unpack one of the most overlooked skills in relationships: sexual communication. From why people fake orgasms instead of asking for what they want, to how culture, shame, and relationship dynamics shape our ability to talk about sex, this conversation goes deep into the psychology behind intimacy.Dr. Tara shares
Forensic Psychology, Bias, and Criminalizing Desire | Dr David Ley | Episode 6
What if the biggest legal decisions about sex in our society weren’t based on science, but on bias, fear, and misunderstanding? We sat down with Dr. David Ley, a clinical psychologist and forensic sexuality expert, to explore what really happens behind the scenes of sex-related legal cases. From testifying in court to unpacking how bias, misinformation, and cultural stigma influence outcomes, Dr.
How to Stop Duty Sex & Reclaim Your Desire | Vanessa Marin | Episode 5
From healing generational trauma and shame to navigating the lack of nuance on social media, Vanessa offers a candid look at the life of a public sex therapist. We explore her personal journey of helping her own family talk more openly about sex and why she believes that finding joy and pleasure, even in dark times, is a powerful form of resistance. Whether you're a professional looking to int
Why Couples Struggle with Desire, Intimacy and Communication | Vanessa Marin | Episode 4
What do you mean it’s normal to not want sex with your partner all the time? We talked with Vanessa Marin, licensed psychotherapist, sex therapist, and globally recognized intimacy educator, to explore what really creates lasting intimacy in modern relationships. From sharing her own relationship publicly to reaching millions through digital education, Vanessa brings an honest and practical perspe
The Guide to Your Backdoor | With Renowned Anal Surgeon Dr Evan Goldstein | Episode 3
In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Evan Goldstein, a nationally renowned anal surgeon and the founder of Bespoke Surgical. Dr. Goldstein discusses his mission to destigmatize anal health and education, sharing insights from his book, Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything in Between. He explains how his own journey from cardiac surgery to specializing in q
The Missing Science Behind Women's Health and Chronic Pain | Dr Maria Uloko | Episode 2
In this powerful conversation, Dr. Maria Uloko, an internationally acclaimed urologist and sexual medicine specialist, discusses the critical gaps in medical education regarding vulvar and sexual health. She shares her journey from a Nigerian immigrant to a leading surgeon and researcher, emphasizing why so many patients are currently suffering from misdiagnosed chronic conditions.Dr. Uloko highli
The Myth of 'Normal' in Intimacy and Relationships | Dr Chris Donaghue | Episode 1
This episode features Dr. Chris Donaghue, an internationally recognized expert in human sexuality and the Director of Clinical Education at Sexual Health Alliance. The discussion explores Dr. Donaghue's professional journey from the rigid structures of sex addiction clinics to a transformative, sexual health-focused model. He shares deep insights into the pitfalls of pop culture, which he argu
Welcome to The Sexology Lab
Welcome to the destination where human potential meets erotic intelligence. The Sexology Lab is where science meets intimacy, and research meets real life. We are replacing shame with research-backed curiosity to examine the truths of being human.Each week, we step into The Lab with the most compelling minds in modern sexology, from pioneering researchers and visionary clinicians to sextech innova
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