A Podcast About Gender
Gabriel Gara Lonning, a transgender man, hosts this podcast exploring gender identity and the experiences of being transgender. Initially started as "ENBABY" for him and his friends to discuss various topics, the show now focuses on the challenges of living as a transgender person under two Trump presidencies. Gabriel is joined by co-host Evie to delve into modern struggles and welcome guests.
Episodes
twinks vs. valley of the dolls
This is an episode about Transgender people living in New York City (Brooklyn). Evie (@shadowgalsix) and Gabriel (@gabrielgaralonning) dissect transphobia, twinks vs dolls, turnstile jumping and more. FULL VERSION ON PATREON : Patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show
we recorded during karaoke
evie and gabriel do karaoke in lower manhattan. full version available on patreonSupport the show
MF Swap (Crumbs Down My Shirt)
Evie (@shadowgalsix) and Gabriel (@gabrielgaralonning) are comedians! This is Weekday Service aka MF Swap aka A Podcast About Gender. They talk about baby sign language, catholic mass, evie getting hit by a car, sibilance, williamsburg - its awful...Patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show
mf oscar wilde and carefree
MF and the swap. It's a new comedy podcast with a Trans Man and a Trans Woman - and a cat named Emo. This is "Weekday Service" on A Podcast About Gender. Topics including: American Dad, 19th century closeted gay men, Titanic, The 1990s, Oscar Wilde and more!Follow Evie: @shadowgalsix Follow Gabriel: @gabrielgaralonningSupport the show
Weekday Service: Nothing Means Nothing
Evie Rosario (@shadowgalsix) and Gabriel Lonning are powerful New Yorkers. They paint the tapestry of the atmospheric city. It's a treasure trove of data. The gathering of iconic Trans people is the current, peculiar masterpiece that is profoundly NYC. This is our metamorphosis. It's the birth of a new kind of podcast. A podcast with a razor thin specificity, giving you over 25+ topics l
if you look at me directly (the image is different)
JANUARY 10 KING AT BRANDED SALOON My head is at 6 am. Fire on the pillow and a workday for war orphans. It's falling in love with my Transgender American Pie. Sweet pride for a british gay man named Nathanial. Isolation at the manchester airport gave me an invention idea: a podcast that is also a youtube video that is also a patreon. Sorry this wasn't nuanced at all. Does it sound arrog
man, i'm so so so sorry
I brought my dog on a plane to the UK when I reaaaally wasn’t supposed to, ended up stuck in Manchester Airport for six hours. This is part of my darkness that follows me and somehow it has taken years to attempt to tell this specific tale. This is Chapter 5 of a longer piece. The rest of the chapters are on my Youtube, Podcast and Substack.Support the show
Chapter Four
Welcome to Chapter Four of “Man Without a Century”—a digital novel unfolding one podcast at a time. In this episode, we rewind to my personal ground zero: the moment I split from everything I knew and hurled myself across the Atlantic, reckless and reeling, chasing meaning at the Edinburgh Fringe. This chapter traces the fuse back to its unlikely flame—a father’s sudden exit, and the uncanny, impo
Chapter 3
"Man Without a Century," a messy, funny, and painfully self-aware narrator navigates love, testosterone, and the art of letting go. This chapter, "Genesis of An Orange Tree." It’s a dry-mouth heartbreak, and the weird rituals we invent to survive the world being left behind. Full chapter available on Patreon. patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show
Chapter Two
From the first taste of suburban alienation to the neon-lit aisles of New York’s Whole Foods, the story winds through thefts both petty and profound: a Claddagh ring from the Dublin airport, rosehip oil hidden next to a rotisserie chicken, blood oranges left to dry in a vacant windowsill. These aren’t just crimes, but —a crooked catechism for a queer, trans kid desperate to rebel...and to survive.
Man Without A Century
This is a new "Digital Diary" I have been writing called "Man Without A Century". It details my decision to upend my life a year after a traumatic event altered my spirituality and psyche. This is The Prologue and Chapter One: A Living But Dying Fool. You can see the raw file on my Patreon or read the manuscript on my substack. Links to these are below. Thank you always for you
Mashka
In this episode, Gabriel sits down with listener Mashka for a thoughtful conversation about gender. They dig into what it’s been like to mask up after COVID, explore the pressure of gender expectations in ballet and figure skating, and share stories about changing your name within your own culture. Along the way, they touch on family, identity, and more.Support the show
writing is a virtue
In this episode, Gabriel Gara Lonning cracks open his journal and shares the painfully mundane details of his life as a twenty-something writer stumbling through New York City. He’s desperate for your approval. Tune in for existential oversharing, and catch the full episode on Patreon.Support the show
Scarlet From Massachusetts
In this episode, Gabriel (@unitedstatesofgara) sits down with listener Scarlet (@scarle7hues) from Massachusetts to talk about polyamory, staying mindful while dating, following what genuinely brings you joy, trans freedom, and more. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about navigating relationships and living authentically.Watch full video on Patreon!Support the show
united states of gender
Join Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) as he dives into the latest stories shaping conversations around gender. In this episode, he unpacks headlines about transgender rights, explores the significance of lavender graduations, breaks down the recent UK Supreme Court decision, and shares his take on state-level debates. Expect sharp insights and thoughtful discussion on the issues that mat
Mars from Georgia
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Mars, living in Rome, Georgia, who shares their deeply personal journey of growing up queer in the American South. Our conversation touches on both the challenges and resilience of LGBTQ+ life in Georgia, and includes a moving reflection on the tragic loss of Scout Schultz in 2017. Mars offers a firsthand account of how Scout's death impacted the Geo
why i changed my name
Gabriel Gara Lonning peels back the layers of his identity – starting with the story of choosing his own name. Growing up with a twin brother added a fascinating twist to Gabriel's journey, creating a unique mirror that reflected both who he was and who he wasn't. Gabriel weaves together a narrative that's both deeply personal and universally human. It's about more than just c
i want to hear from you
i want to hear from you! send me an email :) details are in the episode. Excited to talk to some of you!Support the show
trans week of visibility
Join Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) for a vibrant episode as he takes you through the streets of his new home - New York City. After years of fantasizing about life in the Big Apple, Gabriel shares his raw, honest, and sometimes hilarious experiences of finally making his dreams reality. Recorded on Trans Day of Visibility, this special episode captures the electric energy of both pers
i think im still non-binary
Raw, unfiltered, and straight from the heart — join Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) in this episode as he peels back the layers of identity and self-discovery. With striking candor, Gabriel shares his journey through understanding his homoromantic attractions, recalls the transformative moment of his first testosterone treatment, and explores the nuances of embracing his non-binary iden
are transphobes real?
In this episode of "A Podcast About Gender," host Gabriel (@unitedstatesofgara) tackles the challenging topic of transphobia in online spaces. He shares his experiences with discriminatory comments and offers valuable insights on responding to anti-trans rhetoric. Drawing from a recent interaction on YouTube, Gabriel delivers a powerful and articulate response that not only addresses mis
About Women with Mariposa Coalson
In this intimate and candid episode, we sit down with Mariposa Coalson (@suchagreatsky), a transgender artist and comedian making waves in New York City's creative scene. Joined by her roommate Gabriel Gara Lonning, Mariposa takes on thought-provoking questions from the MTF Reddit community, offering honest insights and personal experiences. The conversation takes unexpected turns as Gabriel
A Podcast About Gender
Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) has a new name and a new outlook on gender. Join him as he resurrects this lovely podcast. He answers questions from FTM reddit. He covers topics like masculinity, therapy with family, testosterone effects and more. You can listen to the full version on Patreon.Support the show
WELCOME TO THE BIG POD
I have a new PATREON ONLY podcast all about transitioning, my past year of grief, the healing process of creating art and my new comedy-dance hour, Welcome To The Big Show (premiering at The Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2023)It's fun, it's silly, it's completely earnest. Let's do this thing.https://www.patreon.com/garalonningSupport the show
The End, Baby
It's the end of EN(BA)BY, baby. My dance-comedy hour, Welcome To The Big Show will premiere at The Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2023. Please become a sweet lil investor of the show here: https://www.patreon.com/garalonningHere are tickets to my pilot premiere on March 1st at Littlefield in Brooklyn: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/one-million-girls-with-gara-emily-dayton-evans-tickets-520392095767S
Gara Goes In DEEEEEEP
Gara talks sex, dating, money and playing poker.TOMORROW DECEMBER 20 "One Million Girls" AT BRANDED SALOON AT 7PM!Support the show
GARA AND JACOB'S BIG BREAKUP EXTRAVAGANZA PART III
Gara and Jacob (@worldsstrongestpainter) celebrate their one year "Break-Upiversary".Support the show
We Are All Flirting ("We Are All Basil" Part Two)
We all flirt.Support the show
"We Are All Basil" Part One
We are all Basil!!!!!Support the show
REID ON T WITH REID POPE
An unhinged interview with @rpopegramSupport the show
"Okay, We're Back From Our Wellness Break" (Midnights Part Two)
Some more 'Help Me Out, Bro' with Maggie, Basil and Gara!!!!! CW: Transphobia Support the show
Midnights (EN(BA)BY'S VERSION)
WE'RE BACK BABY! SEASON TWO HERE WE COME!!!!Support the show
COURTNEY MILLER: Two Dudes, One Confused Ball
This episode is with actor, director and absolute light of a person Courtney Miller (@co_mill). Gara (@garararara) and Courtney talk about Geminis, content creation, YouTube, dudes, Olivia Newton John, being Non-Binary and more!https://live.smosh.com/?fbclid=IwAR2A6IYmHDCDIOHNSXRPlsGj6PkE30r4xAjZ_s8XNrsln2mjH19NHK_SOtwTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART B
DEAR EN(BA)BY: The Kinsey Five
On this FRIENDLY episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY maggie (@breakup_doula), basil (@whagever) and gara (@garararararara) talk podcasts (podception), Maggie’s surprise bday, The Kinsey 5, friend breakups, transphobic frenemies!!!!, resolving conflict and more!ASK US A QUESTION: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewformTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY&apos
JESSICA HENDERSON: Eat, Out, First.
Gara (@gararararara) interviews comedian, actor and Last Airbender, Jess Henderson (@embrace_mess) talk about Che Diaz, queer media, pleasure, Harry Styles, signs we fuck with, drag race lesbians, Pinterest, sex toys and more!THEME SONG 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Jacob and Gara's Big Breakup Extravaganza Part Two
This is PART TWO to Jacob and Gara’s Big Breakup Extravaganza! Gara (@gararararara) and Jacob (@worldsstrongestpainter) broke up 6 months ago after 4 years of dating 3 years of living together. They discuss Polyamory, being single, Jon Benet Ramsey, sex-grief-money, monster trucks, one night stands and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA H
DEAR EN(BA)BY: #GirlsWhoCum
On this episode of DEAR ENBABY the girlies/boylies; Maggie (breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about gushing, fun sex, exercise, sticking a finger up your butt, The Shape of Water, fancy moms, getting ripped and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show
SOFTEE: Theater Kids F*ck Now
This episode is with absolute triple threat and pop star, Softee (@softeepopstar) Gara (@garararararara) and Softee discuss Robyn, Zillenials, dark sides, Funny Girl, self care, pop music, Suite Life of Zack and Cody and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson) Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want Want
In this super big “want” episode of the pod Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) discuss Fergie, fucking your friends, simple pleasures, leaving a voicemail, making love, our big wants and more!THEME SONG IS "CRYBABY" BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show
EMILY DAYTON EVANS: Post-Operatives
Best Comedy Friends and both halves of the NYC show, One Million Girls; Emily Dayton Evans (@hotgaycelebrity) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about queer Gilmore Girl Theories, generational trauma, Julia Louis Dryfus, gay girl groups, confidence, asking people out, Garfield the Cat, living with your partner and more!DONATE TO OUR SKETCH PILOT: https://seedandspark.com/fund/one-million-girls-sketch
EN(BA)BY LIVE! AT THE BELL HOUSE
DEAR EN(BA)BY has their first NYC Live show with special guests Jes Tom (@jesthekid), Reid Pope (@rpopegram) and Kate Sisk (@thekatesisk)!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Click Here to See Hot Singles In Your Area!
Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) tell some juicy secrets. COME TO EN(BA)BY LIVE APRIL 6TH AT THE BELL HOUSE AT 8PM!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Re-Transition, Baby
On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY the boys; Maggie (breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss intentions, middle school assembly's, Gara’s suburban mom era, re-transitioning, straight girl things, LORDE, changing pronouns and more!THEME SONG 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Into The Maggie-verse
This episode we go deep into THE MAGGIEVERSE! Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) discuss healthy polyamory, being bros, being bros with benefits, P!NK (again), HRT, consumption, buttholes and more!TICKETS TO OUR LIVE SHOW AT THE BELL HOUSE https://www.eventbrite.com/e/enbaby-live-tickets-277013202947THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroybo
DEAR EN(BA)BY: An*l At The Arboretum
On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about eras of music, pubes, cool girl heroes, dates, horrible movies, hookups, Joan Didion and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Touch My Finger
TW: Grief, DeathIn this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY your favorite trolls Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) discuss Wordle, being canceled...on, Michael Cera, vanity plates, death, the beauty of friendship, clits and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) BELL HOUSE LIVE SHOW TICKETS: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/enbaby-live-ti
JUSTIN LINVILLE: Howard
This episode is with actor and comedian Justin Linville (@justinmlinville)! Gara (@garararararara) and Justin (and a special appearance by Jess Zeidman (@jzeidz) talk about Rugrats, gender panic, relationships, cats, Friends, friends and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show
CHLOE FREEMAN: Trans Rumble
This episode of EN(BA)BY is with actor and entrepreneur, Chloe Freeman (@chlo3freeman) who runs For Them (http://forthem.com) a wellness brand geared toward gender expansive people! Gara (@gararararara) and Chloe talk about binders, Sex and the City, the acting world, The Matrix, wellness, boxing and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK
DEAR EN(BA)BY: TRANS JACKASS REBOOT
On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY it's "Help Me Out, Bro: 2 The Squeakuel. Maggie (@breakup_doula), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) ask each other advice questions and talk about cancelling plans, gay lovers, sexual communication, Jackass Forever, friends with benefits, 420, mental breakdowns and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Only Yearning, Never Cumming
In this super special episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY with just the boys; Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about Bruce Springsteen, plastic surgery, cis friends, white women, celebrity impressions, Trans friends, breaking down inherent bias and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Clit Nuts
On this very wild and sexy episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY the boys; Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about new lovers, Tinder, Joni Mitchell, butt stuff, the gayest songs of all time, “And Just Like That”, homophobic roommates, sex drives and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)MERCH
SOAK: Kid With Knife
This episode of EN(BA)BY is with musician, SOAK (@soaksoaksoak). Gara (@gararararararara) interviews them about Avril Lavigne, performance euphoria, concerts, gender parents, releasing new music, names and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Jacob and Gara's Big Breakup Extravaganza
In this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Gara (@garararararararara) and special guest, Gara's recent ex-boyfriend, current roommate and best friend, Jacob Brooks (@worldstrongestpainter) talk about their breakup, non-monogamous relationships, Cynthia Nixon, cheating, dating and much much much more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjoh
DEAR EN(BA)BY: The Notoriously Hung Eric Carle
On this MICRODOSE of an episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about The Notoriously Hung Eric Carle, body neutrality, moms, Queer Eye, Titty Funerals ,Bruce Springsteen and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show
JACLYN MOORE: You Were a Girl, Dumb Dumb
This episode is with writer, producer and show runner, Jaclyn Moore (@jaclynpmoore)! Gara (@gararararararara) and Jaclyn talk about H & M, TERFS, bathrooms, gender euphoric hair growth, Drag Culture, The Santa Clause, gender affirming surgeries and much much much more!TW: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS REFERENCES TO TRANSPHOBIA, ASSAULT AND ABUSETHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@dest
DEAR EN(BA)BY: CAWK
On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about cookies, ve/ver/vis pronouns, coming out to your grandparents, Cawk/Caulk, queer people from high school and more! THEME SONG IS ‘CRYBABY’ BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show
REID POPE: Cut Me Open, Daddy
This incredible episode is with writer, comedian and Gara's (@gararararararara) Top Surgery Brother, Reid Pope (@rpopegram). Together they talk about their experiences getting gender affirming surgery while also discussing Mark Ruffalo, transphobia, nipples, reality tv, doctor's office art, recovery, Angelina Jolie's Double Mastectomy and more!TW: This episode contains discussions
DEAR EN(BA)BY: This Top Must Be Stopped
We're Back!!! And Gara got top surgery!!! In this amazing homecoming episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about dreams, TLC Shows, top surgery (ofc), lovers, how to date, Lana Del Ray and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: One Year Anniversary Uncut, Raw
HAPPY ONE YEAR OF EN(BA)BY! On this UNCUT episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara talk about Adrianne Lenker, celebrity gossip, masterb*ting, friendship, going to concerts, Christian Mommy Vloggers, Pete Davidson and so so so so so much more!GARA TOP SURGERY FUND: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-gara-pay-for-top-surgeryTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY
SOFIA DOBRUSHIN: Russians and Lesbians
On this super MUSICAL episode of EN(BA)BY Gara interviews comedian and musician, Sofia Dobrushin (@oh.sofritas) they talk about straight halloween, social anxiety, their gender songs, Paul McCartney, soft boy energy, their favorite musicians, mustaches, top surgery and more!ONE PERSON SHOW TICKETS: https://www.caveat.nyc/event/how-to-be-a-girl-in-three-easy-steps-11-15-2021THEME SONG IS 'CRYB
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Everything Goes Wrong
On this CHAOTIC episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY everything goes wrong!!!!! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about their crushes, what scared them as kids, 2011, mental health in the pandemic, being in a relationship with depression, self care and more!GARA'S ONE PERSON SHOW NOV. 15 @ CAVEAT: https://www.caveat.nyc/event/how-to-be-a-girl-in-three-easy-steps-11-15-
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Doula Lipa
On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about ads, Dua Lipa, dysphoria with multi vitamins, Gara’s top surgery!!!, jealousy, trust in partnerships, talking to ex’s, The Wilson Brothers, friend breakups and more!TICKETS TO 'ONE MILLION GIRLS' AT BRANDED SALOON: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/one-million-girls-tickets-19233311251
MISHA OSHEROVICH: Demon vs. Monster
Gara (@garararararara) interviews actor, writer and filmmaker Misha Osherovich (@mishaosherovich) about their new show The Girl in The Woods on Peacock (out now!) while talking about queer horror, Jennifer's Body, gender parents, movie villains, being Trans in the film and TV world, their dream roles and more!WATCH THE GIRL IN THE WOODS ON PEACOCK NOW!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DEST
DEAR EN(BA)BY: MTV's True Life My Mom is a Tomboy (LIVE)
This is our first ever live show!!!! Back in September Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararara) traveled to Maggie's hometown, Providence, Rhode Island and performed a small, intimate live show for 20 people at AS220! They talk about stuff like chosen family, soaking, their queer awakening, the movie Sky High, coming out to your family, GEB childhood memories and answer questions with
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Always Be Closing, Never Be Pissing
On this suuuuuper fun episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY your favorite hot friends, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) discuss using pronouns, p*ssing (again lol), shaving your head, "the one that got away", relationships with therapists, letting your parents down, dads and more!ASK US A QUESTION! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZ
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Queer Slug Watch
In this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about our favorite bugs, rumors, friendships with age differences, Gender Apathy, SLUGS!!!!!, and genderless blobs!EN(BA)BY MERCH DROP:https://www.enbabypodcast.com/storeSupport the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Hahahaha I Never Get D*cked Down Anymore
In this BIG CITY episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@Garararararara) talk about homophobic roommates, Rolling Stones Top 500, what we can’t live without, big city life, Matt Damon (rip), mental health while dating and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)THE BABY TOUR TICKETS:htt
KATE SISK: The Youngest, Softest Boy
On this episode of EN(BA)BY Gara (@gararararara) talks to comedian and personal gender hero, Kate Sisk (@thekatesisk)! They talk about punching dudes, euphoric nicknames, open pronouns, being trans in comedy, arm wrestling, gender envy and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Support the show
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Text Him, Dump Him, Put Him On His Back
On this bonk bonk episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about Chuck E. Cheese, coming out at work, 2009, our names, religion, skating songs, navigating the cis-het service industry and a wild wild question from a listenerTHEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson)Nola Black
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Help Me Out, Bro
In this super fun episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) introduce a new segment called “Help Me Out, Bro” where they ask EACH OTHER advice questions! In this “HMO,B” the gang talks about Selena Gomez, the binaries they subscribe to, hanging out with straight people, bar food, standing in your power, encouraging your creativity, being slutty on Venmo and more!TH
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Bitch First, Trans Second
On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever), Gara (@garararararara) the hottest friends in the universe talk about musicals (lol big surprise), our two woofs, posting yourself as a child, The Jonas Brothers, self care before Top Surgery, communication in friendships, P!NK and more!THEME SONG BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)Su
DEAR EN(BA)BY: Born Again Bisexual
On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about The Triangle Shirtwaist Factory Fire, Bi-Pride, Summertime GEB, The Family Stone, our adorable throuple friendship and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show
EMILY EVANS: She? We.
This episode is with Gara's better half, actress and comedian Emily Evans (@hotgaycelebrity) Together, they talk about Anna Sophia Rob, things that aren't gay that are gay, finding queer friends, high school dances, Gossip Girl, Elite Gays and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)SOPHOMORE COMEDY SHOWhttps://www.e
DEAR EN(BA)BY: The GEBisode Part Two
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This episode is with hilarious comedian and co-host of Feeling Asian Podcast, Youngmi Mayer (@ymmayer) Gara (@garararararara) and Youngmi discuss misogyny in the comedy world, Christianity, our femmessaince, performing gender, cancer season, TikTok drama and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show
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In this kooky episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss our dog park crushes, gender envy, WLW, sucking titties, haircuts, Walt Whitman and more!SOPHOMORE COMEDY SHOW RSVP: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sophomore-comedy-show-tickets-162874021583THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOGSupport the show
ALEXANDER PARIS: Orb of Light
This episode is with artist, performer and absolute beauty, Alexander Paris (@parishiltonals)! We talk about tripping on mushrooms, our gender bars, clouds, geometry, hometowns, the great mirror debate and more!THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)Support the show
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