Butch Queen After Dark is a sex-positive podcast hosted by David Brandyn, featuring bold, unfiltered conversations with queer people of color about sex, dating, pleasure, identity, and real life. From hookup culture and kink to sex education and intimacy, this is after-hours talk with humor, heart, and no judgment.
Episodes
I Used to be DL with Matt Cage!
Today, one of Chicago's favorites, Matt Cage, joins David Brandyn on Butch Queen After Dark to talk about life after the DL. The professional wrestler and adult creator opens up about coming out, unlearning selfish habits, and discovering the intimacy he’d been missing.From his “selfish top” era to embracing versatility, Matt shares how exploring his desires changed the way he connects with partne
The Boy with the Looks with Dae'Kwon!
On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, viral creator Dae'Kwon, aka The Boy With the Looks, joins David Brandyn for a sexy Halloween episode!From his viral makeup videos challenging masculinity to his wildest fantasies, Dae'Kwon opens up about sex, dating, confidence, and expressing his femininity without apology.Follow Dae'Kwon: @boywiththelooks (Instagram) | @boywiththelook (TikTok)Follow Dav
Porn Has A Race Problem with King Noire!
On this episode of Butch Queen After dark, award-winning adult performer, filmmaker, and sex educator King Noire joins David Brandyn for an uncensored conversation about sex, sexuality, pleasure, and the adult entertainment industry.From being kicked out of his home as a teenager to building a career in adult entertainment, King Noire opens up about how sex work changed his life. He shares his jou
Gay in Jamaica with FayJohn!
What's it really like being Black, gay, and sexually liberated in Jamaica?On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn welcomes Jamaican dancer, performer, content creator, and LGBTQ+ advocate FayJohn, our first international guest!Jamaica has a reputation for being one of the more challenging places to live openly as LGBTQ+, but FayJohn is here to give us a firsthand look at the q
Sides and Dating with The King of Reads!
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with content creator, commentator, and internet personality Justin James, aka The King of Reads, for an unfiltered conversation about sex, scandal, dating, and life in the public eye.Justin opens up about his sexual awakenings, his love of intimacy, and why kissing might be the most underrated part of sex. We get into the world of sides,
I want to be Worshipped with Queen Kendall!
Queen Kendall pulls up to Butch Queen After Dark for a conversation about sex, confidence, porn, transition, dating, and why she’ll take a Butch Queen over trade any day.She opens up about her first major sexual awakening, group sex, being a self-described side off camera, and why her personal sex life is all about being taken care of after spending so much time performing for other people. We als
Locktober 101 with Sir Jasper!
It’s Locktober on Butch Queen After Dark, and this week we’re talking chastity, cages, domination, discipline, rubber, fitness, and what happens when you take your penis out of the equation. David sits down with Sir Jasper to talk about his journey from identifying as submissive to becoming a Dom—and how putting on a chastity cage unexpectedly helped him get there.Jasper also opens up about being
Spit in My Mouth with Gabriel!
On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Gabriel joins David for an inightful conversation about sexual freedom, spirituality, nudism, kink, and living without shame. Gabriel explains how nudism became a form of sensual and artistic self-expression, how shamanism and left-hand path philosophy shape his life, and how tantric practices can create deeper sexual connections.The conversation also get
Damn Daddy with Damn Daddy!
Happy Bisexual Awareness Week! In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Damn Daddy Onyx for an open, funny, and unapologetically freaky conversation about bisexuality, dominance, leather culture, marriage, and sexual freedom after 40.Damn Daddy shares how exploring his attraction to men became a sexual awakening, why he identifies as a top who enjoys dominating other tops, a
From Slutty to Celibate with Chris Renfro!
Actor, comedian, writer, and UCB Artistic Director Chris Renfro joins David Brandyn for a funny, candid conversation about what happens when your relationship with sex completely changes.Chris opens up about going from a self-described capital-S “Slut” in their twenties to nearly two years of celibacy, and how stepping away from sex gave them space to rethink what they actually wanted from hookups
Fem Queen After Dark with Stasha Sanchez Garcon!
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with ballroom and pageant legend Queen Stasha Sanchez Garcon for a conversation about sex, dating, power, beauty, and what it means to truly know who you are.Stasha gets candid about her love for butch queens, how she wants men to approach her, and the difference between attraction and fetishization. She opens up about navigating relationships a
Daddy Issues with Mr. Dominus!
On this week of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Mr. Dominus for a conversation about leather, BDSM, daddy dynamics, submission, and what healthy power exchange can actually look like. They get into his sexual awakening, his attraction to authority and masculinity, his journey into Black leather culture, and the difference between simply finding someone sexy and trusting someone enough
Famous & Freaky with Kid Fury!
This week, David sits down with his number one inspiration, comedian, writer, podcaster, and internet icon Kid Fury! They chat about sex, liberation, growing up Black and gay, bottoming, bathhouses, porn, kink, dating, and why having a public career shouldn’t mean giving up your sexuality.Kid Fury takes us back to one of his earliest sexual awakenings, explains how he eventually realized the world
Big Meat, Good Suits, and Fem Dominance with Jeremy Scott!
On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Jeremy Scott talks fashion, confidence and clapbacks — and somehow we ended up in church basements, physics study sessions, DL hookups, dick prints and the art of being properly dominated.It’s funny, filthy, unexpectedly vulnerable and a conversation about what happens when you stop trying to squeeze sexuality, gender expression and pleasure into neat lit
Pretty, Spiritual, and Vers with Zaya!
In this episode of BQAD, Zaya joins David for a sexy, spiritual and unexpectedly hilarious conversation about becoming a New York City go-go dancer, exploring ballroom and possibly entering his Butch Queen Sex Siren era.Zaya opens up about identifying as sexually fluid, balancing masculine and feminine energy, and what makes him want to dominate—or surrender to—another man. He shares his experienc
It's Bottom Season with The Messy Thoughts Podcast!
On this episode of BQAD, BJ and LeBron from the Messy Thoughts podcast join David for a hilarious, honest and very freaky conversation about bathhouses, cruising, sexual fantasies, communication and consent.We talk about how their friendship and podcast began, their most memorable sexual adventures and what first-timers should know before stepping inside a gay bathhouse. From getting a room and br
Creaming and the Power of Submission with Gemini!
On this episode, one of our most requested guests, Gemini, joins David for an intimate conversation about sexuality, submission, confidence, group sex, body image, porn representation, and living without asking anyone’s permission.Known online for his incredible physique—and especially his butt—Gemini opens up about the personality, experiences, and perspective people rarely get to see on social m
Sex, Religion, and Bating Rituals with jarrett hill!
This week, David sits down with journalist, author, and host Jarrett Hill for a funny and unexpectedly intimate conversation about religion, sexuality, pleasure, and the freedom of refusing to fit inside other people’s boxes.Jarrett discusses how studying religion helped him realize that he no longer needed Christianity to maintain a relationship with God. He opens up about dismantling purity cult
Autism, Unmasking, and Primal Sex with Savant thee Prodigy!
What happens when you finally feel safe enough to drop the mask—even in the bedroom?In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with late-diagnosed autistic creator and neurodiversity advocate Savant the Prodigy for an open, funny, sexy, and deeply vulnerable conversation about autism, intimacy, sensory needs, consent, relationships, and learning how to experience pleasure f
Sniffing Pits, Used Underwear, and Bears with Coco Montrese!
Drag Race legend, Miss Gay America 2010 and certified lip sync assassin Coco Montrese joins David Brandyn for one of the wildest and most honest conversations yet on Butch Queen After Dark.Coco opens up about the person behind the makeup, including the difference between Coco and Martin, navigating masculinity outside of drag and refusing to let audiences limit her to a single character.Fresh from
Fem Tops, Gooning, and Toys with Mxter Xero!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Mxter Xero for a conversation about kink, pleasure, power, and what it means to play with intention.Mxter Xero opens up about their sexual awakening during the pandemic, exploring toys, body capacity, and becoming what they call “the Divine Baddie.” Together, they get into puppy play, handlers, free use, exhibitionism, worship, hypnos
Bottoming and Bulking with Alex, Q, and Darrien!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David is joined by three personal trainers — Alex, Darrien, and Q — for a hilarious, honest, and very unfiltered conversation about fitness, sex, body confidence, and what really happens when gym culture meets queer hookup culture.The group gets into gym sex, client boundaries, bottom nutrition, fiber, bulking while bottoming, pre-workout before sex, and
Boys, Sirs, Daddies, and Dynamics with Sir Chris and Boy Vixxen!
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Sir Chris and Boy Vixxen to talk about leather, power exchange, sir/boy dynamics, and Black queer kink.They get into the difference between a relationship and a dynamic, what it means to negotiate power, how trust is built in kink, and why Black men deserve to see themselves in leather spaces. The conversation also explores ballroom culture
The Vers Agenda, Double Penetration, and Hangry Bottoms with Boe Jack Ryan!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with New York City–based adult entertainer Boe Jack Ryan about his journey to becoming vers, kink, porn, body confidence, and the politics of being a Black gay adult creator.Boe Jack shares the story of his first double penetration scene, what it taught him about pleasure and pressure, and why knowing your body — and your dick’s strengths
A Kinky Little Fem Queen with Milan Garcon!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Milan Garçon: femme queen, host, storyteller, performer, and certified scene-stealer. Milan brings beauty, humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sexual freedom to a conversation about pleasure, ballroom, butch queens, kink, confidence, and the power of living without shame.David and Milan also get into the complicated, exciting, and some
Crotchet, Colorism, and Creatine Muscle Hole with Caleb Channing!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Caleb Channing: bodybuilder, crochet artist, and the man behind the viral dancing video that had the internet in a chokehold.What started as a 10-second clip of Caleb dancing, twerking, and enjoying himself at Pride quickly turned into think pieces, body critiques, race debates, desirability politics, and people projecting their own i
Feederism, Gaining, and Demisexuality with Muscle Ram!
In this episode, David sits down with Muscle Ram to talk about gaining, go-go dancing, fat body politics, inflation, and finding confidence in a body that doesn’t always fit the “expected” fantasy.The conversation becomes a reminder that at some point, you have to decide your body is yours, it is enough, and it deserves to be celebrated exactly where it is. Ram also opens up about realizing he was
Good boys, Toys, and Objectification with Sir Malice Chrisitan!
In this episode, David sits down with Sir Malice Christian, a Marine Corps veteran turned BDSM Leather Dom, to unpack the world of domination, discipline, kink, objectification, bondage, and sexual exploration. Malice shares how his military background shaped his approach to discipline, why “Sir” felt like the right title, and how kink can be both erotic and deeply spiritual.The conversation gets
Speaking "Freak" with Distinction with Galen J. Williams
Galen opens up about his journey through ballroom walking Body and Sex Siren, why he's still exploring his relationship with being vers, and how generational ideas about masculinity may shape the way many Black queer men experience sex. The conversation also dives into his buzzing acting career, sexual liberation, kink curiosity, and why being your full authentic self is worth more than fittin
A "Kinky Little Butch Queen" with Daddi Decent!
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with adult content creator, actor, model, husband, and co-host of The Culture Club Podcast, Daddi Decent!Daddi opens up about being introverted in public but freaky in private, what sex feels like after marriage, why sexual position does not define your relationship role, and how queer couples don’t have to follow heteronormative rules.They get
Nipple Play and Hooking up in the Bathroom with Reign!
In this episode, Reign—sex siren, former Navy veteran, and porn star—opens up about his journey from military life to the adult entertainment industry. He shares how the ballroom scene shaped his confidence, how he explored his sexuality and kinks over time, and what it really looks like to navigate sex work, identity, and desire as a butch queen. Follow Davidinstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow BQADi
Butt Plugs on the Subway with Nico Aesthetics!
In this episode, Nico Aesthetics pulls back the curtain on life as a content creator navigating sex, relationships, and the internet. From sexual awakenings to navigating rejection, from BDSM exploration to ethical non-monogamy, and retiring from corn, this episode gets into the real.We talk about what it actually means to build a career in digital sex work, how friendships and “work husbands” ope
Punjabi, Thai, and a Powerful Bottom with Asaad Gulati!
On this episode, Asaad Gulati pulls back the curtain on what it really means to build a career in gay adult content while navigating identity, culture, and visibility. We dive into the lack—and slow rise—of brown representation in gay porn, and how he’s intentionally carving out space where it didn’t exist before.Follow David Brandyninstagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Darkinstagram.
Submission and the Muscle Hole Fantasy with Dyl!
This week, David brings on Dyl - Instagram's newest Himbo with a twist. What starts as a classic “fine man from Instagram” interview quickly turns into a deep conversation about confidence, submission, intimacy, and breaking assumptions.Dyl may look like a walking fantasy, but looks can be deceiving.... We explore how he’s intentional, connection-driven, and just beginning to explore his kinki
The Military Princess gets Ate at Publix with Siren Santiago!
Siren Santiago shares his journey from a conservative upbringing in Puerto Rico to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry. He discusses his early sexual awakenings, experiences in the military, and the transition to adult content creation during the pandemic. Siren opens up about his kinks, fantasies, and the importance of connection in sexual experiences, emphasizing that sex shou
Big Booty, Dark Rooms, and Feet with DJ Kidd!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David interviews his friend, DJ Kidd as he shares his journey into the underground party scene, his approach to creating inclusive spaces, and his insights on sexuality, anonymity, and community building within LGBTQ+ communities of color. Discover the stories behind his events, his thoughts on sex positivity, and his personal experiences with fetishes an
Trade 101 and Dating as Fem Queen with Trap Cynderella!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Trap Cinderella shares her journey as a rising influencer and femme queen, discussing her sexual awakening, the impact of ballroom culture, and the importance of self-respect in relationships. She emphasizes the fluidity of sexuality, the challenges faced by trans women, and her passion for music and creative expression. Follow David Brandyninstagram.com/
Dicked Down on the Dancefloor with Jai the Gentleman!
Today on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Jai the Gentleman for a wildly honest, deeply reflective, and unapologetically freaky conversation about sex, kink, and liberation.From risky car hookups to full-blown dancefloor sex, Jai opens up about his evolving sexual journey—and how pleasure goes far beyond just climax.Together, they unpack what it really means to explore your desires, ch
Fisting 101 and Bisexual Escapades with Shadow and Prince FlackOo!
In this episode, host David Brandyn welcomes guests Shadow and Prince FlackOo, a dynamic couple known for their adventurous and fluid approach to sexuality. The conversation flows from light-hearted introductions to deeper discussions about their experiences, including a life-saving moment involving Keita, their freaky adventures in nature, and their evolving sexual identities. They share stories
Hooking up with Fans and Ending his Bottom Era with Relly B!
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with viral sensation and Bad Boys star Relly B for a wild, hilarious, and surprisingly deep conversation about sex, power, and navigating fame. From sexual awakenings to cruising adventures, from topping vs. bottoming to verbal kinks and “good boy” energy — Relly B keeps it real, raw, and unfiltered. They also get into how fame has impacted dati
Fem Queens, Furries, and Poppers with Calypso Jete!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandon welcomes Calypso Jete, the winner of Legendary Season 1 and a prominent figure in the ballroom and fetish communities. They discuss the essence of fem queens and butch queens, the complexities of sex and emotions, and the importance of consent and communication in BDSM. Calypso shares her journey through the world of kink, her experienc
Second Holes and Self Love with Jesus Really!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with the unforgettable Jesus Really — go-go dancer, adult performer, and sex-positive content creator known for his infectious energy, confidence, and unapologetic self-expression. Jesus opens up about growing up Puerto Rican in Philadelphia, discovering his sexuality, navigating social media censorship as a sex worker, and the min
Racial Dynamics, Wetness, and Cocodorm with Adrian Hart!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Adrian Hart shares his journey from a small town in Georgia to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry. He discusses his sexual awakening, experiences with identity, and the challenges he faced as an openly gay man. Adrian reflects on the realities of working in adult film, including the impact of platforms like OnlyFans, the importance of
Hoochie History with the Hoochie Historian, Zorine Truly!
Happy Women's History Month!In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn and Zorine explore the rich history and cultural significance of Hoochie culture, tracing its roots back to the blues era of the 1930s. They discuss the characteristics that define a Hoochie, the impact of cancel culture on Hoochie history, and the evolution of Hoochie Daddies. Zorine shares insights about the
Bathhouses and Beauty Pageants with Jon Darra!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn interviews Jon Darra, a Las Vegas legend known for his multifaceted career as a sex worker, singer, and advocate. They explore Jon's cum dump fantasy, experiences in sex work, and the dynamics of group sex. Jon shares insights into his journey in pageantry, the role of music in his life, and the realities of being a content creator
Bisexuality, Hustlin', and Blatino Oasis with Nola Bwoy!
Download Jack'd and checkout the new "MOMENTS" feature!https://jackd.app.link/DavidBrandynIn this engaging conversation, David Brandyn and Nola Bwoy explore themes of identity, sexuality, and the adult entertainment industry. They discuss Nola's journey of self-discovery, his experiences at Blatino Oasis, and the complexities of relationships in the context of sexual fluidity. Fo
Foot Worship and Topping Straight Men with Jiyah Bolden!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn welcomes Jiyah Bolden, a rising star in the social media landscape, known for her bold personality and creative content. The conversation explores her experiences in the world of sexuality and her unique perspectives on kinks and preferences. Follow Jiyah Bolden https://www.instagram.com/jiyahboldenFollow David Brandyn https://www.insta
Crying while Hunching and Circuit Party Proposals with Ian and Buddy
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn welcomes Ian and Buddy, a queer couple who recently got engaged at a circuit party. The conversation explores their unique engagement story, the planning that went into it, and the reactions from friends and family. They also delve into their experiences with intimacy, kink, and the evolution of adult entertainment, highlighting the imp
Big Toes and Ghost Vaginas with Hershii J. Liquor!
This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with the one and only Hershii J Liquor, RuPaul’s Drag Race alum, Southern California standout, voyeur extraordinaire, and certified tease.Host, David Brandyn, and Hershii get into some deep, hilarious, and unexpectedly tender conversation about pleasure, power, and desire. Hershii opens up about their sexual awakening, learning how to ac
My first time at a Sex Club with Joshua Michael Cruz!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn welcomes Joshua Michael Cruz, a community builder, coach, and nudist. They explore themes of sexual liberation, the importance of consent, and the experiences of being a butch queen. Joshua shares his journey of self-discovery, including his first experience at a sex club, his thoughts on topping and bottoming, and the significance of open c
16 inches, Sloppy Head, and Plus Size Visibility with Santana XXL!
In this episode of *Butch Queen After Dark*, host David Brandyn welcomes the renowned adult film star Santana XXL, who shares his journey through the adult entertainment industry. Santana discusses his early experiences, including a memorable sexual awakening that involved a partner with an exceptionally large endowment. He candidly reflects on the misconceptions surrounding size and performance,
From Sex Work to Netflix and Situationships with Quei Tann!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn welcomes Quei Tann, an actress, comedian, entertainer, and rising pop artist. They explore Quei’s sexual awakening, how power and safety shape desire, and the ways sex work influenced her relationship to pleasure and control. Quei opens up about dating, situationships, and navigating intimacy as a trans woman in Los Angeles, as well as
A Hoe in Different Area Codes with Naughty Nate
On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandon welcomes Naughty Nate, a world traveler and sex-positive sensation. They dive into topics such as sexual awakenings, the dynamics of sex parties, and the importance of self-expression in sexuality. Nate shares his experiences from various travels, discusses the nuances of gender expression, and offers advice on navigating relationships
Sex Party Etiquette, Open Relationships, and the Perfect Peen with Dr. Matthew Brinkley
In this first episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn and his husband, Dr. Matthew Brinkley, explore the complexities of queer sexuality, relationships, and the importance of sex education within the LGBTQ community. They discuss their personal experiences, kinks, and the dynamics of sex parties, emphasizing the significance of consent and communication. The conversation is both humo
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