
How C*m
Comedian Remy Kassimir had never had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. She eventually succeeded, and now in its fifth season, the show helps listeners achieve their first orgasms. It features interviews with experts, scientists, porn stars, and celebrities like Fran Drescher, all sharing their first orgasm stories with humor.
Episodes

40 We're Finished! (Lauren and Shreya)
Can't believe we are saying this but How Cum is now-- How Came, and How Went! In other words, after 6 seasons and countless guests and a million different topics we are finished. Today's episode is all about what got this whole thing started-- female healthcare (or the lack thereof) and we are discussing it with Tia's Dr. Shreya Reddy and comedian Lauren Hope Krass. We are talking why Dr. Reddy en

38 The Art of Dressing and Undressing (Jessie Jolles)
Comedian and creator Jessie Jolles turns the art of getting dressed into an act of seduction—of self, of confidence, of truth. In this intimate, laugh-out-loud conversation, she strips down the layers of performance and slips into something far more revealing: radical self-love. From the thrill of a perfectly fitted outfit to the power of saying no with style, Jessie reminds us that the sexiest th

39 Abort Mission: Rewriting the Narrative (Alison Leiby)
Comedian and writer Alison Leiby (The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Broad City, The President Show) comes on to discuss her memoir "I'm a Lot", exploring deeply personal and cultural topics such as abortion, sexuality, relationships, and media representation. From there, she takes us behind the screen and reveals the ways television shapes how we see women, sex, and control. From the glossy chaos of Brav

37 Couples, Cash, and Chaos (Tucker Cohen)
When romance meets rent and receipts, things can get messy. In this candid chat with Smoov founder and CEO Tucker Cohen, we dive into the emotional and practical side of managing money as a couple — from who pays for dinner to how to keep things fair when life (and kids) come into play. Tucker shares the story behind Smoov, the app designed to take the awkwardness out of shared finances and make t

36 Self Help Me (Liz Glazer)
HAPPY NEW YEAR CUMPANIONS AND NEW CUMMERS! Is the New Year the only time you can set new goals or decide you are going to change something massive about your life? Absolutely not, but let's do it anyway. We are talking self improvement and becoming more yourself with hilarious comedian Liz Glazer. Liz tells us about her love of self-help books as well as how attending Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), De

35 The Red Flag Master List (Stewart Fullerton)
What is wrong with men with nieces, men with thousands of plants, and men who rock climb? NYC comedian Stewart Fullerton is here with her official list of red flags for the unfairer sex and we are laughing through all of it. (Spoiler, we're not full-on misandrists we just love a giggle!) We also talk about toxic boy moms, car sex in LA, Stewart's rules for dating within a friend group, and how put

34 My First Time (Lissa Lennis)
We've had many a "late-bloomer" on this podcast, but Lissa Lennis might be our favorite! (And she may honestly make us re-think the term altogether!) We are talking about why it took her until 30 to lose her virginity, an amazing story of first time oral(s), the nightmare that is cuffing season, the recent and favorable re-branding of "Big Beautiful Women" + "Short Kings," recording yourself durin

33 Sex is Blind & Poly Parents (Imani Denae)
Sure love is blind-- but if you are a person who needs glasses, is sex blind too? We are joined by hysterical Portland based comedian, and glasses wearer, Imani Denae to talk all things sex and romance from the perspective of someone with limited vision. She also tells us about growing up in a home with polyamorous parents and how it shaped her personal views of sex and relationships. Love How C

32 Stroking After Stroking (Kenice Mobley)
Kenice Mobley is a hilarious New York based comedian and writer who had a stroke at 36 years old. Four years later we are discussing how it happened, all of the rehabilitation she had to go through post stroke, and how important it was for her to get her orgasms back. She tells us how she did it and we learn some very important information about different types of strokes; how to know that one is

31 The Thing About Labels (Ali Kolbert)
We are joined by fantastic comedian Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, The Today Show) to talk about a controversial conversation about sexual identity that podcaster Betty Who started -- that hit the lesbian/bisexual/queer femme community, and had everyone asking, "Betty-- Why??" We talk about labels and what is so important or unimportant about them, as well as delve into Ali's sex life as a lesbian

30 Clean Up & Get Down (Caroline Solomon)
For some, cleaning can be an aphrodisiac -- and those people are going to love this episode. But even those who aren't Monica Geller will benefit from the cleaning methods of home expert Caroline Solomon aka @Neat.Caroline who reminds us that organizing your space not only helps your daily life but it can help your sex life as well. Caroline and Remy share many tips and tricks for cleaning your ho

29 Cat Daddy (Mohanad Elshieky)
Father of 5 (cats) and brilliant comedian Mohanad Elshieky joins Remy to talk about growing up in Libya, what sex education is like there, how/ why he ended up moving to the US, and the sexual culture shock that met him in Portland, Oregon. He also tells us about his new special "No Need To Address Me" and Remy asks the question, "Does owning cats make you a sexual deviant or is that just a study

28 Nice Guys Finish Last (Pete Lee)
Do nice guys finish last-- or do they just let you finish first? Something to think about on this episode where we talk to hilarious comedian and resident nice guy Pete Lee! Pete tells us about how his first O experience led him to being a giver and "nice guy" in the bedroom-- and how he gave stellar comedian Nikki Glaser her first EVER orgasm in life. He also tells us about his serial monogamy an

27 Did You Fin-Ish? (Blix Unami)
We are joined for a wet and wild episode with the star of Netflix's MerPeople, professional mermaid Blix Unami (Erik Milligan). Blix tells us what mermaids really represent and takes us on an underwater adventure through their sex life, relationship history, and sexual goals. Blix also gives us all a lesson in how to build authenticity and positivity, discussing everything from achieving success i

26 Life of The Party (Carl Radke + Tawny Lara)
Star of Bravo's Summer House Carl Radke and "Dry Humping" author Tawny Lara come on the pod to share their sobriety journeys and the challenges and triumphs of dating, sex and socializing without alcohol. We discuss how to "date yourself" in early sobriety, how long you should wait before dating another person, and how meaningful connections are made in sobriety. We discuss "partying"-- "what real

25 Eating Out (Jeremy Jacobowitz)
Get your mind out of the gutter-- we're talking FOOD! 'BrunchBoys' internet foodie Jeremy Jacobowitz joins Remy to talk about food, sex, dating, the joys of ordering in and his favorite places to eat out. We discuss what foods to stay away from on a date, which foods are aphrodisiacs, and whether you can date someone with different dietary restrictions than yourself. Just like a great meal, this

24 Sleep With Us! (Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton)
This episode is all about the importance of our second favorite bedroom activity-- SLEEP! Stand up comedians Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton are two of the hosts of the podcast Pillow Talk-- where funny people have easy going conversations that you can fall asleep to. Today they join Remy to talk sleep habits, dreams, sleep positive households vs. sleep negative and sex-- does it make you

23 The Two Hit Wonder (Srilatha Rajamani)
This is one of the most unique episodes we've ever had-- and yet it is so relatable in so many ways. Remy chats with Srilatha Rajamani, a vibrant, funny, and sweet New York City comedian who has had sexual intercourse only TWICE in her life-- and also has a 27 year old daughter. Srilatha tells us about being raised in India and how being in an arranged marriage changed her life, how she has finall

22 De-Centering Men + Re-Centering Friends (Tracey Carnazzo)
Remy welcomes hilarious podcaster and comedian, Tracey Carnazzo-- who also happens to be her oldest friend from comedy (years wise, not age wise) and they reminisce about bonding 10 years ago from both being dicked around by fuckboys; what led them to allow themselves to do that-- and eventually get out of it. Tracey tells us how she learned to de-center men from her life and how vastly her life h

21 The Sex Book (Anna Roisman)
Incredible comedian, actress, writer, host and impressionist Anna Roisman answers questions about her own sex life and also brings some of her most iconic characters (Joan Rivers, Lea Michele, Steve from SATC etc.) to life to talk about the news in sex! We talk about the sexual awakening that was Anna's summer camp experience and the NOVEL that Anna wrote from ages 8-16 as well as how Luigi Mangio

20 Our 10 Year Bangiversary (Ben DeMarco)
Remy's boyfriend and incredibly funny comedian Ben DeMarco is back to talk about approaching 10 YEARS of having sex with Remy and celebrate their upcumming Bangiversary! They discuss how much individual growth they have done over 10 years, how they've grown as a couple, and their plans for the future. There is also a lively discussion about Marilyn Manson's alleged ability to suck his own dick, th

19 My Partner Transitioned & Now I'm Bi! (Bronwyn Ariel Isaac + Alex Smith)
Comedian Bronwyn Ariel Isaac and her girlfriend musician and security researcher Alex Smith call in from Amsterdam to talk about their extremely loving relationship and how Alex coming out as trans after a few years together has made it even more solid. Did Bronwyn know she was into women before? How long did Alex know she was trans before she came out? What IS the correct way to clean a diva cup?

18 My Current Girlfriend (Brendan Sagalow)
Hilarious comedian Brendan Sagalow is here to talk about dirty talk, role play, and being labeled a "serial monogamist." We talk about the negative connotations of the phrase and what it most likely actually means. We also chat about past relationships and the "my current girlfriend" trend that has been blowing up-- but how he feels about his current girlfriend is oh so different. It's a super cut

17 Summer Of Love Island (Caroline Hanes)
It's finally summer which means TWO franchises of Love Island are coming out every. single. night. -- and we still cannot get enough. Here to talk about this particularly scandalous, tumultuous, steamy and viral AF season of Love Island US is comedian and joke writer for Love Island US, Caroline Hanes! Caroline gives us some juicy behind the scenes info and a look into how the sausage gets made.

16 Transferno, Fire Island, and Everywhere In Between (James Tom + Sydney Baloue)
An extra long, extra hot and extra horny episode with two former guests; comedian James Tom and writer/producer Sydney Baloue all about their lives as gay trans men -- and how it compares to their former lives living as lesbian women. We talk about losing different virginities, taking virginities, and SO many spots to go if you are looking to hook up as a gay trans man. Syd and James both share ve

15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin)
Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the We're Having Gay Sex podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our list

14 The Smell of Desire (Emma Vernon)
We are talking about the link between scents and attraction with fragrance expert, perfume lover/advisor, matchmaker, and host of Perfume Room, Emma Vernon. We discuss the science between smell and arousal and all different types of fragrances. Emma talks about how to get a signature scent, the importance of scent with regard to memories, and the evolution of fragrance throughout the 70s, 80s, 90s

13 You Wanna Be on Top? ( Sarah Hartshorne)
Comedian, ex-model and author of the new book, "You Wanna Be on Top?" Sarah Hartshorne comes on the pod to talk her time on America's Next Top Model; the good, the bad, and the very pretty despite being called ugly. She tells us all about what happened behind the scenes, openly queer models, making friends + having crushes on each other and her body image from before the show to now. We also discu

12 F*ck Endometriosis (Ashley Ray)
Do you have endometriosis or wonder what it is? Learn all about it with comedian and friend of the pod, Ashley Ray. She tells us about living with and suffering through undiagnosed endo in her teens and early 20s and how she finally found out what was going on with her body. We discuss her endometrial cysts, how much blood is actually produced in a "normal" period, how endo held her back socially

11 Dying For Sex (Nikki Boyer)
In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasu

10 Outed in LA (Johnny Wujek)
Picture this: it is the early 2000s. The OC is on, the Hills is on and Perez Hilton is forcing Johnny Wujek out of the closet by calling him gay on a blog. Fast forward to LA 2024 as Remy chats with Johnny (Emmy award winning costume designer/ stylist to pop idols including Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, Mariah Carey, and Nicki Minaj) about how he actually feels about being publicly "called out," the

9 Bad in Bed (Bill Dawes)
Comedian and actor (Sex and the City + The Other Two) Bill Dawes sits down with Remy to tell her about one of the most pivotal days of his life: when a woman told him he was bad in bed. Come on a journey with us as Bill shakes that devastating blow and learns how to get good at sex. We discuss lectures, kundalini yoga, tantra, techniques for eating out a vulva and more. We also discuss cheating, p

8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin)
Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand job

8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin)
Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand job

8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin)
Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand job

7 I Want To Be The Babygirl (Jourdain Searles)
We're talking sex in media with Jourdain Searles; comedian and film/TV critic. Discussing all different types of sex scenes from Babygirl to Severence. We are also chatting about Jourdain's Twitter thread of sex advice that she did earlier this year and how it relates to the "IUD Debate" that took over Twitter for two days. TW Assault / Abortion Laws Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Fol

6 PMDD is Schitty (Emily Hampshire + Katie Boland)
We have the pleasure of talking to one of the stars of Schitt's Creek; award winning actress Emily Hampshire and her podcast co-host Katie Boland (writer/director/actress/producer). Emily and Katie tell us all about life in the industry, from how they were treated as being female child stars to their treatment now as adults. We discuss their first sex scenes, introductions to intimacy coordinators

5 Daring To Date Openly (Dan Perlman)
Today we are talking about what the dating scene is currently like from a man's perspective with comedian, actor, director, and show creator Dan Perlman (Showtime's Flatbush Misdemeanors and Cramming). Is there a male loneliness epidemic? Or is dating just exhausting? Dan tells us many stories including his experiences dating openly; when he entered into an open relationship in the completely wron

4 Daring to Date Online (Megan Otto)
Are you dating and looking for new tips, tricks, and pick up lines? Or has your dating life come to an end and you just want to hear some really good dating stories? This is the episode for you! Remy chats with Portland based stand up comedian and Beast Games contestant Megan Otto. Megan rose to internet fame on Instagram and TikTok by going on dates and sharing her experiences with the world. She

3 The Pee Epissode (Mack Lee)
We can't hold it in any longer! We're FINALLY talking golden showers, water sports, piss kinks-- whatever you want to call it-- with Portland based, and liquid based comedian Mack Lee. Mack tells us about their piss kink; how they discovered they have one, where they think it came from, and where they like to pee/ be peed on (body-wise AND location-wise!) We discuss celebrities who have piss kinks

2 Christian Mingling: Size Queen with a Short Tongue (Christian Camacho)
Kicking off 2025 with an extremely fun episode with Remy's friend, hairstylist and occasional adult film actor Christian Camacho. We're talking about birthday orgies, fisting, role-play, foot-play, sex work, breath work, losing your mojo, & jacking off: it can be HARD! And not in the good way. We discuss labels in the LGBTQIA community, Christian's road to self discovery, and how bisexuality and q

1 Short, Sweet, and Unapologetically Horny (Poutine Levine + Robyn Kennedy)
We've c*m back for a brand new season AND How C*m's Birthday, (born Christmas Day, 2017) To celebrate we are talking all things Sabrina Carpenter with drag queen and pop-culture aficionado Poutine Levine and our beloved Robyn Kennedy. We talk about Sabrina's unapologetic horniness, the ability and freedom to express sexuality through pop music, and the hurdles that women in the music industry have

50 First Dates (Bonus)
One more episode for this season! Yippee! Remy welcomes her friend, a mystery guest, to talk about an experiment she did -- in which she went on 50 first dates in one year. They talk about why she did it, how the dates went, and what she learned from it. There *are* spoilers from the 2004 movie 50 First Dates in this episode, but it is not an episode about love and amnesia.

45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco)
It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* -- with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could

44 The Hot-Wife Life (John Legendary)
Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood 'hotwife' lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand 'bull' in other people's bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got i

43 Hating Perimenopause + Loving P***y (Jade Catta-Preta)
Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run

42 Intuitive F*cking (Lauren Hope Krass + Rachel B)
A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not part

41 The Secret Sex Lives of Muslim Women (Salma Hindy)
Remy had the extreme pleasure talking to the hilarious and wonderful Salma Hindy -- a first-generation Egyptian-Canadian comedian, writer, actor and performer who has opened for Ken Jeong, Ramy Youssef, Beth Stelling, and Chelsea Handler. Salma tells us all about growing up in a very strict religious household and the ways in which it effected her sexuality and self-view. She tells us all about en

40 Relationship Do's and Don'ts (Therapy Jeff)
Today's guest is the very funny, very handsome, and extremely anti-camping licensed professional counselor, Jeff Guenther. You may now him best from his insanely popular advise account, TherapyJeff on TikTok and Instagram -- and we're so lucky to have him here today! We're talking relationship do's and don'ts, for people currently in relationships, people who are trying to get into relationships,

39 Chatting About Our Down Unders from Down Under (Abbie Chatfield)
Remy is in beautiful Australia chatting with stunning entrepreneur, media personality, television host, podcast legend and sex goddess Abbie Chatfield! They discuss love on reality shows, dating in the public eye, sex in the public eye, whether Abbie thinks she is bisexual or a lesbian, open relationships, sex parties, everything she has learned about her "down under" from pelvic floor therapy, an

38 Achieving Sexual Confidence and Many Types of O's (Dr. Tara)
Today's guest is Dr. Tara, a Los Angeles-based sex and relationship coach, tenured professor of sexual communication, award-winning sex researcher, TEDx speaker, TV Host of Celebs Go Dating, and the #1 sex educator on TikTok Dr. Tara talks us through her many different first time c*mming stories-- because she can and has c*m in SO many different ways-- internal o's, external o's and CERVICAL o's a

37 Crazy Horny Ex-GF: Limerence, Love and Lust (Rachel Bloom)
Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award, a TCA Award, a Critics' Choice Television Award, and a Primetime Emmy Award.

36 Betsy And Remy Go To A Sex Show! - Cirque Du Squirt (Betsy Carroll + Lola Jean)
Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their he

35 IVF - An Eggcellent Journey (Lindsey Metselaar)
This episode is all about IVF! Remy welcomes back Season 1 Episode 2 guest and host of the popular dating + relationships podcast We Met at Acme- Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey tells us all about trying to concieve, getting diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and her and her husband's journey with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We hear about the different types of IVF, what types of people migh

34 Drying Up! Menopause, Golden Girls, Orgasms + More (Carole Montgomery)
Last week Samantha Jones' brief orgasm drought inspired us to talk about menopause-- even though that is not what caused *her* drought. But Cumpanions have been vying for a menopause episode for a WHILE and it's finally here! We chat with stand up comedy veteran and creator of "Funny Women of a Certain Age" Carole Montgomery about being a woman of a certain age; barriers, breakthroughs, how menopa

33 Remy's Big O Drought (Charlotte Kassimir)
Much like the episodes have slowed down, so too have Remy's orgasms. And OH BOY are they connected. In this episode you can hear all about Remy's FIVE month long orgasm drought; why she thinks it happened, what she has been trying to do to fix it, and what she plans to do in the future. We welcome back Season 1+2 producer/researcher and Remy's sister Charlotte Kassimir to talk about it, read Compa

32 Testosterone, Top Surgery, and Twitter (Kristofer Thomas)
Before Twitter was X, Kristofer Thomas (comedian, actor, and screenwriter) shared his story of being a pack-a-day cigarette smoker for years and how the promise of top surgery is the thing that finally made him quit. We discuss that story, the benefits of gender affirming care (beyond quitting cigs), what gender affirming care means a different ages, and how many steps it actually takes to get pre

31 The Cowgirl Workout (Tyomi Morgan)
Today's guest is Tyomi Morgan-- a Certified Authentic Tantra Coach, sex blogger/coach and creator of The Cowgirl Workout. We are diving into the workout program she created centered around dick riding! Tyomi teaches us how to do it, the benefits of it, and how to feel comfortable getting on top. We also discuss the importance of breathing control, hip isolation, choosing the right position, and ma

30 Attachment Styles (Dr. Joy Berkheimer)
What goes better with Pride than Joy? We end our Pride month with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to talk about all things love, sex, and relationships. We go deep into about attachment styles and how they affect our relationships, whether we're avoidant, fearful avoidant, anxious, disorganized, or secure. Dr. Joy explains how different types of households and upbring

29 Orgasm Music (Von)
A few weeks ago we posted a video from @VonMusic about her making music by having orgasms -- and the video EXPLODED. This week we are joined by Von to talk all about HOW she makes music with orgasms, why she does it, and how she feels about people who don't like what she is doing. Von discusses her education in music as well as growing up in a religious household and how she feels about Christiani

28 Burlesque, Backlash + Corporate Pride (Jake Dupree)
Recently, leading luxury lingerie brand Honey Birdette received backlash after featuring non-binary model, Jake DuPree, on its Instagram. Many who do not even follow the brand quickly flocked to the post, flooding it with phobic language and leading the brand to mute the post after 10,000 comments. We spoke to the center of the scandal; burlesque performer, dancer, model, trailblazer, and extremel

27 The Second Puberty of Queer Adults (Addis Fouché)
We're kicking off Pride with Addis Fouché: writer, sex worker, content creator, public speaker, and founder of the inclusive learning app Bitter Blush. Addis tells us about her panel at SXSW and her theory about "The Second Puberty of Queer Adults." What is a second puberty? Do YOU need to go through one? We discuss. Addis also tells us about her coming of age experiences at prep school, life as a

26 The Joys of Journeys (Eileen Hanley)
We're chatting with actor, filmmaker, and musical comedian Eileen Hanley about her journey of coming out later in life, her journey with non-monogamy, and what it's like to share it all on the internet. Eileen shares the joys of being single and queer after being in a straight relationship for 10 years, tells us a few of her favorite O stories, and finally tries to answer the question, "Are queer

25 Keeping it Spicy (Vanessa + Xander Marin)
We're chatting with Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander about their new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. She's a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he's a regular dude. Together they share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. We're talking all about communicating in relationships

24 Dating + Data (Dr. Helen Fisher and Dr. Justin Garcia)
What is dating like right now, from a science perspective? We are discussing the annual 'Singles in America' study with Dr. Helen Fisher (Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and Chief Science Advisor to Match.com) and Dr. Justin Garcia (Evolutionary Biologist, Sex Researcher, Professor of Gender Studies and Senior Scientist at The Kinsey Institute and Indiana

23 Dating + Drinks with Ariana (Ariana Nathani)
Remy and Robyn are joined by Ariana Nathani, founder of Drinks First-- a podcast and series of dating events for New York City singles. First we discuss the genius that is the format of her podcast, in which Ariana essentially goes on a "first date" with elligible NYC daters and listeners call in to date them. We talk about different forms of how to meet people romantically in 2023 from Love is Bl

22 Adoption and Parenting (Ben Katzner)
Today's guest is Ben Katzner, a stand up comedian and author whose debut graphic novel "Hello My Name Is Poop" is available now. Remy chats with Ben about adoption, foster care, and the importance of choosing to parent in a post Roe v Wade world. Ben shares his personal experience growing up as an adoptee, the efforts that adoptive parents should make before adopting, and his reaction to adoption

21 Coming Out As Liking Strong Women (Max Zavidow)
This we are talking to comedian & TikToker Max Zavidow. Max shares all about his experiences with homophobia at camp, learning what m*sturbation was with a bunch of boys (yes with, not from), along with how this impacted his own first time c*mming. We talk about the societal pressure to like a certain "type" of person and Max tells us about how he felt he had to "come out" as his type being a m

20 Penpal Cumpanion Cumgrats (Britt)
Remy and Robyn chat with Cumpanion Britt about her unique first time story, penpals, reading erotica, and her many many toys. We discuss Roe v Wade and Britt explains the reasons she hasn't had penetrative sex with a penis and why she may never want to. Britt also opens up about her history of chronic illness, endometriosis, lack of sex ed, and experience with SA. (TW) Thank you to Britt for shar

19 A Taste of Diet Starts Tomorrow (Emily Lubin)
Big announcement! Remy is taking over the iconic Betches media podcast 'Diet Starts Tomorrow,' with her NEW co-host (and Cumpanion favorite) Emily Lubin. Cumgrats to them, and don't worry-- Remy will still continue How C*m! In this episode, Remy and Emily talk about what it means to each of them to take over a wellness and body positivity podcast. Emily shares her body journey with us and how she

18 The Anti-Misogyny Podcast and The Guy Who Runs it (Cyzor Church)
Why is there a trend of young boys being taught to hate women, who is teaching them, and how do we stop them? We talk with Cyzor Church, a boudoir photographer and creator of the "Anti-Misogyny Podcast" about how he has been combating the teachings of toxic creators through his videos. This episode was recorded right after a certain TikTok creator/ misogynistic leader/self-proclaimed "self-help g

17 'Girls' and The People Who Cheat on Them (Lexy Panterra)
This week the internet is aflurry with cheating scandals and we are talking to the fantastic Lexy Panterra about her latest single 'Girls,' which is about just that. We talk getting cheated on, double standards between genders when cheating is involved, and how to take back your power after a betrayal. We're also talking music; why Lexy releases hers on OnlyFans, what genres we like to bang to, an

16 XXX NFTs (Nicole Aniston)
Today's guest is Nicole Aniston, who after 12-13 years in the adult industry became a trailblazer with her project Closer to Nicole which aims to sell NFTs as access tokens to allow people to watch her ethically produced adult content, and be a part of her discord community. We discuss how she took an antiquated business model and completely revamped it, and the many reasons why NFTs are better t

15 Ta-ta to the tatas (Rayna Greenberg + Robby Hoffman)
We're talking top surgery, breast reduction, and SO much more with two second time cummers: award winning comedian Robby Hoffman and Girls Gotta Eat co-host + Vibes Only co-owner Rayna Greenberg! We hear about the differences and similarities of Rayna's breast reduction and Robby's top surgery; how long they've wanted their respective surgeries (and why), what healing was like, scars, cost, and po

14 Sex Ed For All (Mariah)
This week we witnessed the loss of reproductive rights for millions of people in the US with the overturning of Roe v. Wade. We still maintain our rights to speak out and our right to education which is why we are elated to be joined by inclusive youth sex educator Mariah (@SexEdFiles) to discuss good sex education and how to teach consent, body autonomy, media literacy, and sexual health to chil

13 The Liar, the Witch, and the Woman (Maggie Lalley)
TW: Childhood SA Stand up comic and musical comedian Maggie Lalley joins Remy to talk about her solo show 'Sex Witch The Musical' which has been featured in the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and New York Comedy Festival. We discuss the childhood assault that happened to Maggie which the musical is based off of, what assault between two childreen can look like, as well as how she healed and turned tra

12 Imposter Syndrome + Yoga (Jessamyn Stanley)
Why do people feel the need to comment on "unhealthy bodies" when they don't comment on health elsewhere? This week we are joined by award-winning yoga instructor, entrepreneur, and author Jessamyn Stanley talking body diversity in yoga, overcoming imposter syndrome, and the journey to self-acceptance. Jessamyn also tells about growing up in the Bahá'í faith, what coming out to her family was lik

11 Vasectomies, Male Fertility and Sexual Health (Dr. Justin Houman)
We're talking penis problems and how to solve them with Dr. Justin Houman, a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist in Beverly Hills. Dr. Houman's practice is focused on male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, vasectomies, male incontinence, and Peyronie's disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he speci

10 Cumpanion Cumgratulations
Remy and Robyn welcome "Molly," a cumpanion who is coming to this weekend's DC show and who can now come -- because of this podcast!! She tells us about doing the assignments, failing, the episodes that inspired her, and the thing (or person) that eventually got her there! She also suggests an OMAZING book called The Adventure Challenge: For Couples. We also chat briefly with Remy's "second mom"

9 Birth Control and Bridgerton (Katie Hannigan)
Hilarious comedian Katie Hannigan joins us to talk about her birth control journey; the side effects that she has endured on different modes of BC (including losing her libido and losing her mind), and what she is on now. We talk about how her body healed, getting her libido back, and how horny Bridgerton makes us. Seasons 1 + 2 SPOILERS ahead, in case you haven't finished yet. Follow us @HowCumP
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