Working Actor Life
Working Actor Life is a podcast that lets listeners in on an actor group chat. Hosted by Gabrielle Byndloss and Sam Valentine, it offers behind-the-scenes conversations about the acting industry. The show aims to provide insights and camaraderie for those navigating a career in acting.
Episodes
48. get a better actor side hustle
Join us for our three day workshop for $5 (yes correct) to help you start your actor side hustle! Side Hustle Bootcamp(that's all, this is a mini ep, tks bb)
47. you can't give two things 100%
Gab gets called to set in the middle of our Nashville membership retreat, and we talk through what it really looks like to hold a business, a booking, and auditions all at once.We're recording from the car on the drive home from Nashville, where we just wrapped our in-person membership retreat. The week before, Gab was taken off the shooting schedule, so we headed out believing she was free. T
46. new levels, new devils: navigating career growth and everything that comes with it
what happens when your career starts moving but your brain hasn't caught up yet?sam walks through a rough stretch that stacked a big series regular audition and the general uncertainty that comes with bigger opportunities landing without the "data" to back them up. we talk through the difference between skipping your feelings and actually moving through them, why finding your baselin
45. the celebration(s) of booked and busy women
Gab is officially booked and busy, and this episode kicks off with it! We reflect on what it felt like to sit in that uncertainty before the news came through. We also discuss why it is so hard for Sam to celebrate her own wins the way she celebrates everyone else's. Gab pushes back on the instinct to shrink big moments and makes the case for taking up space, even when it feels uncomfortable o
44. ACTUAL tools for Imposter Syndrome as high achieving actors (with therapist Stevon Lewis)
stevon lewis, a licensed therapist who specializes in imposter syndrome is HERE! he works with a lot of high achieving people, including actors, who feel like frauds no matter how much success they rack up.we get into:why hitting a new level in your career resets the clock instead of curing the imposter feelingshow to build confidence off data instead of feelingsgab's flip side of imposter syn
43. on hold, avail check, right of first refusal...aka the WAITING part of this job
gab is on network test for a series (yes there's a nudity rider, yes there's a lawyer, yes we break down a lot of it, and YES spoiler alert she booked RIGHT after we finished this pod)sam just spent four days on avail hold for two commercials shooting in two different states at the same time.so let's talk about the in between. what do you actually do with your body and your brain when
42. wtf is up in actor life: summer 2026
back from our little podcast break (which, tbh we recorded right before we left, so nothing actually changed). this week we're catching up: from rewatching old audition tapes to see who booked the roles we didn't, noticing how often "open ethnicity" breakdowns still end up going to white actresses, the pitt's wild filming schedule, the ick we sometimes feel around actors over
41. book the f*^k out (the july break episode)
Why we're stepping away from the podcast for the month of July, and why we think you should be looking at your own schedule for what can come off your plate right now. Gab just took a full week off and we break down what that actually looked like (from nighttime resets to finally catching up on sleep debt) and what happens when you let yourself really disengage instead of half-assing a break..
40. Sam's first commercial booking in 3 years: full behind-the-scenes from ATL.
We are literally in the car on the way to set. Sam booked her first commercial in three years, and Gab is along for the ride.Sharing exactly how this booking came together, why being a local hire in Atlanta actually makes financial and logistical sense for Sam specifically, what it takes to pull that off without it being a disaster, how wardobe fittings work, what to pack when you're doing an
39. "I am special" and other lies we tell ourselves.
one of our members just hit a massive milestone:first co-star, first rep, SAG-E status, woo hoo! but instead of feeling on top of the world, she's feeling the weight of how much further there is to go. we've all been there. you work so hard for the thing, and when you finally get it, you look up and realize it's just the beginning. we wanna chat about this specific flavor of overwhelm and why it d
38. Step-by-step headshot planning.
Get in on the LIVE class! EDIT: it is now JULY 7th!*Everything you need to know before your next headshot session, and how to build your headshot plan from the data you already have!*We are recording this one from Sam's living room with Gab fresh off a week of working in person together and yes we are talking headshots AGAIN. This is not about telling you to just "get good headshots."
37. BTS on our next headshots + how we make them better every time.
Join the LIVE Headshot Class! We're sharing exactly how we're approaching our upcoming headshot sessions, including why we booked two different photographers, how we used our audition histories to figure out what we actually need, and why we're finally remaking The Headshot Class. We break down the process of pulling your character types from real audition data, why you shouldn't b
36. Surviving the internet (and general rejection) as over-sharing actors.
Gab shared a post this week about the "thanks but no thanks" emails that come with the job, and the internet had...feelings. Which brings us into difference between processing your feelings and wallowing in them, why having a big resume doesn't make rejection sting less, and how the pressure to perform positivity (online and as actors in general) quietly makes us smaller...and how mu
35. (trigger warning) How auditioning can bring up survival mode.
Trigger Warning: we discuss eating disorders and sexual assault in this episode. Please only listen if this is a safe space for you.Two real booking stories, one booking and one not (yet), and what they reveal about the auditions we almost talked ourselves out of: this week, Gab is dialing in live from Nashville where she's on set for a commercial that put her through one of the most challengi
34. The "momentum" Conversation: Using your bookings and wins with reps, casting, and the the media.
So you booked and want to know how to turn that momentum into something more.PR? Get a Deadline article? Rebrand? We're getting honest about what actually moves the needle versus what just burns money.We break down our own PR experiences and why media coverage hits differently depending on your credit level. And what else you can do with your wins. Links:The Membership: https://themembership.c
33. From Sides to Deadline: Vas Saranga on His Netflix Booking and What Gets Actors Cast
Our in-house Coach Vas is back on the pod, and we brought him on at exactly the right moment: his Deadline article just dropped for his brand new booking on the Netflix limited series I Will Find You, and we could not wait to dig into every part of how it happened. From the audition process + live Zoom session and the day to day of being on the set, this episode is a real behind-the-scenes look at
32. Current audition situation: zero comfort-zone.
We're pulling back the curtain on two very different audition-challenges we're each navigating right now:Sam took a leap on an audition that requires her to sing an original Christmas song..despite having been removed from choir as a kid. Gab is managing the physical, emotional, and logistical reality of straightening her 4C hair for a series of auditions while unpacking the complicated fe
31. Zero Auditions = doubling down on the good stuff
Sometimes the universe clears your calendar for a reason. So what happens when auditions go quiet? We think that silence might be exactly what you needed. We share three real examples from our own lives and inside The Membership of actors who shifted their focus, trusted the timing, and watched things open up in ways they never expected.We also get into why "just be grateful" is not the
30. Do you really need a manager?
We are about to get so for real. MANAGERS and AGENTS.When and why actors should consider adding a manager to their team, the differences between managers and agents, the importance of having leverage before hiring, financial and legal considerations, team dynamics, and a hell of a lot of personal experience.Take the free Actor Type QuizJoin the waitlist for The MembershipSam’s IGGab’s IG
29. The "Waiting" Trap: reps, readiness, and releasing the pressure
We pulled real comments from our Working Actor Express Bootcamp participants and broke down what we would say to each of them if we were coaching them live. Chances are, if they're wrestling with it, you are too.We dig into the "waiting until ready" trap that so many actors fall into, including the outdated idea that you need a perfect package before reaching out to reps. We also get
27. Redirects, Callbacks, & why the acting career doesn't really have LEVELS.
Everything we knew about this industry two years ago is probably already outdated...We are back after a week off because auditions came first, and that is exactly the point. This episode covers a big, busy week. We talk about redirects that feel like callbacks, a five-minute straight monologue callback tape, the reality of sustained audition volume without a booking, why levels in this industry ar
26. This is unlikeable: What we are actually think mid-audition
Doors to The Membership are opening soon. If you’re tired of spiraling alone after auditions, this is where we fix that!What actually goes through our heads when the camera is rolling and nobody's watching? This episode, we pull back the curtain on the messy, unfiltered, very human We take turns going deep on the real inner monologue behind the self-tape process, from imposter syndrome to bea
25. Why we stopped prepping every audition the same way
Doors to The Membership are opening soon. If you’re tired of spiraling alone after auditions, this is where we fix that!We break down exactly how we prepped two very different auditions + why there is no one-size-fits-all method for working actors.We’re talking:- how to decide how much time an audition actually deserves - indie film vs network tv prep differences- when to immerse yourself in resea
24. Actor Emotional-Whiplash: From booked & busy to SILENCE in one week.
Last week we were on actor HIGHS: SEVEN auditions between the two of us. Voiceover sessions. Commercial callbacks. Zoom auditions with five-minute slots. Manager calls about new agents.This week? Nada.So let's break down the MENTAL hustle of staying in the game when the momentum spikes and then fades. Cause this is what we signed up for as working actors.⸻We’re talking: • What a 5-audition wee
23. The Actor Scoreboard for 2026: Momentum & Success Metrics
If you’re only measuring your career by bookings, you’re going to feel like you’re failing.Booking signifiers are getting rarer. Callbacks, avails, pins, chemistry tests. They don’t show up the way they used to. This episode is about the new scoreboard.We break down what actually counts as success for working actors right now and how to recognize momentum and success metrics for yourself.⸻We’re ta
22. Managing rejection in all actor-forms: how to "get over it".
Managing losses without letting them define you will be the thing that makes this all do-able. So let's talk about the difference between a setback and a defeat and why your response to not booking matters more than the booking itself.We're covering:handling avail checks and callbacks that fall throughmanaging audition rejection and disappointmentwhy comparing your acting career to others
21. Redefining "success" in a career you can’t control.
How have our definitions of success have shifted over time? Trust in our reps. Financial breathing room. Free time. Staying in the work when things are quiet. And learning how to measure wins that no one else can see.Let's get into:why success isn’t a single moment or milestonethe different “buckets” that can make us feel successful at different timeswhy auditions, trust, and consistency matte
20. We were WRONG about: all the acting advice we would like to take back
We’re talking about the acting advice we used to give, fully believed, and would absolutely change or nuance now.We break down why blanket advice ignores actor markets, how self-tapes and demo reels have shifted, what actually works when reaching out to agents and managers, and why productivity systems can become performative instead of helpful.Plus our real-real: audition timing strategy, lightin
19. The acting industry outlook for 2026 + in rooms and on sets in January...we're BACK!
We're back to break down the current state of the acting industry after sitting in on a closed-door TM only “state of the union” style call with casting.We share what we expected to hear going into the call, + what actually surprised us.Then our real-life working actor moments, including callbacks, Zoom auditions, eating on camera, voiceover marathons, and the absolute chaos of trying to plan
18. finding your actor system focus (aka why we’re giving fewer f*cks this year)
starting the year in person and doing something radical: caring less. we talk about why giving fewer f*cks is not laziness but can help you get further (technically also faster).we are building a working actor system that works with your brain, setting real time boundaries, choosing habits that support it, and letting the rest go. and cause WHY NOT: backyard digging, hobbies that stay hobbies, and
17. Why "working harder" won't fix your Acting Career + Exactly how much $ Gab has made from two National Commercials
Rest in an industry that rewards blurred boundaries and convinces actors they can control outcomes they absolutely cannot....is it possible? Let's discuss how to use end-of-year downtime without spiraling or trying to fix your entire career in two weeks.We also break down why acting income alone is no longer reliable and what SAG national commercials actually pay in 2025.Timestamps:00:00:00 wh
16. What is booking in self tapes for 2026 (ft. Vas from The Online Actor)
We brought Vas back from The Online Actor, nobody breaks down auditions, industry waves, and self tape strategy like he does. And we hit on the standard of jealousy, comparison...with an email template for you. Most importantly: authenticity is actually booking more than “perfect” ever did.what we cover:● the truth about end of year auditions and why the landscape is shifting● how to hear “there’s
15. Agents and managers gifts in 2025 + This sh*it is [nano] bananas
actors panic over AI and cookies: post-holiday talk through the latest AI freakout and finally answer the question everyone DM’d us about (should you be buying your reps gifts this year or nah?)we cover:● the new AI update everyone spiraled about and why it’s not worth losing sleep● real talk about rep relationships and how to know if you should even be gifting● the gifts reps actually appreciate
14. Surviving the holidays as an actor without losing your mind.
Holidays as a working actor hit different. No one is looking forward to Thanksgiving dinner with a side of getting-grilled-about “what you’ve been in.” This episode is your play book to protect your peace and navigate them regardless of what your holidays look like. Wanna skip the chat? Fast forward the first 8 minutes.Sam and Gab break down what it actually looks like to go home for the holidays
13. Twilight, Depression TV, and Actor Color Therapy
if you’ve ever wondered why certain shows hit your actor soul and others feel like emotional sandpaper, this one is for you. what started as a polite conversation about twilight vs harry potter turned into a full deep dive on color grading, moodiness, emotional tolerance, childhood pets, and how all of that somehow ties back to being actors.we cover:● why some actors love moody, gray, rainy tv and
12. Our five "actor types" and how it shapes your next move/actor focus.
Take the free Actor Type Quiz (like super 100% free)We made our Actor Types: Dreamer, Drifter, Doubter, Developer, and Disruptor and today we're talking about how knowing where you are right now can actually move your career forward and save you time...unlike Sam who thought she was god's gift to LA or Gab who through sheer focus and will would get her a seris regular.And Sam created a Canva Pre
11. Human Design for Actors: why you’re not lazy, you’re just wired differently
11. Human Design for Actors: why you’re not lazy, you’re just wired differentlyEver wonder why some actors thrive on chaos while others burn out after two self-tapes? Sam (a Manifestor) and Gab (a Generator) break down how Human Design types show up in your acting career, your self-tape workflow, and your everyday energy.From audition strategy to social life burnout, we unpack how understanding yo
10. Actors: no one’s coming to save you. So here’s what to do instead.
What happens when you stop waiting for someone to “pick” you and start making your own opportunities.Sam went from not booking anything since 2021 to writing, producing, and starring in her own short film...and it completely shifted her mindset as an actor. And we get real about the difference between playing at being an actor and actually being one, the myth of “I just want to act,” and why the c
9. Audition Coaching & Acting Process (feat. The Online Actor)
Welcome to our very first guest, actor and coach Vas Saranga from The Online Actor! We talk about how coaching fits into an actor’s process, what it means to find your own approach to the work, and why acting class can feel so different once you know how to use it.We cover:• How to know when (and when not) to coach your auditions• Why variables can change everything in your self-tapes• What “proce
8. Actor Money Mindsets (from $0 to national-commercial $$$)
We get wonderfully off track on purpose so skip the first 18 min if you just want to hear about actor-stuff.There’s a humiliating music game for Sam, how Gab is going to spend some commercial income, and where Sam (and her *frugal*) husband land on money mindset. Follow Gab here and Sam here.Learn about their actor-community here.
7. Being "Yourself" on Camera + AI Actors and "job security"
Sam brought a real audition dilemma to the pod: do I tape as my true self, or try to guess what the casting director actually wants? We also dive into the actor-AI panic sparked by the rise of Tilly the synthetic “actress,” and why Gab thinks it’s actually a good thing. We talk fear, job security, industry change, and why connection is the one thing AI can’t replicate.Then we close it out with som
6. Audition Breakdowns and Mental Breakdowns: how we reset
If you’ve ever stared at a character description and thought, “This is so not me,” or if you’ve spiraled mid-tape wondering if you’re good enough to book the room, this episode is for you.What happens when your own brain hijacks your audition? Gab shares the mental spiral she went down prepping for a prestige TV role with a character described with words that pushed up against everything she’s wor
5. "Slow Seasons" + the best $5 you have ever spent.
Get on the 3-Day Momentum Challenge asap! Actors love to call something a “slow season.”...we think that term might be the problem. We talk about how the industry has changed in both LA and Atlanta, how our auditions have evolved, and why we’re not sitting around waiting to be handed opportunities anymore.We cover:What’s actually filming right now and why it feels so quietWhy your audition log mig
4. Can working actors afford a mortgage?
In this insane job with the ups and down of booking and payment, is it smart to BUY A HOUSE as a working actor.You’ll hear:Why Sam almost moved to Atlanta in 2020 and why she doesn’t need to nowGabrielle’s pitch to buy land and tiny-home it with podcast studio vibesThe real fear Sam has around “adult” things like owning propertyWhat actor income really looks like and why it’s not as limiting as yo
3. the pressure to be perfect actors
Shape-shifting with our own demons… that’s the part of the acting process nobody teaches you.Sam and Gabrielle crack open a deeply honest convo about the invisible pressure actors feel to always be “put together”...on tape, online, in class, and even in friendships. What starts with a rant about method acting backlash turns into a vulnerable deep-dive on self-worth, preparation, and the stories we
2. acting techniques, turning off the actor-brain, and why Gab + Sam would NOT have been friends while getting their BFA's
we are BACK, this time recording from opposite coasts (sam in oregon, gab in florida) and proving that actor brain never takes a vacation.in this episode we talk about christmas movie auditions on the beach and the awkward reality of watching the person who booked “your” role. plus: road trip meltdowns, sorority house confessions, why method acting feels outdated, and what we’re watching right now
1. Audition rules (RULES?!) Self Tape Tricks to try + why we need to talk about what we're watching
sam and gabrielle kick off the very first episode of working actor life by pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be working actors. about viral audition tapes (yes, the bathroom floor one), when to break the so-called rules, and the mental gymnastics of watching someone else book “your” role.plus: why sam felt ready to part ways with the name one broke actress, why gab is obsessed w
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