Pursue Your Spark: Midlife Fitness & Mindset for Women Feeling Stuck
Pursue Your Spark is a midlife fitness and mindset podcast for women who feel stuck in the in-between seasons of life—when old routines and habits no longer fit. Each week, it explores patterns like people-pleasing, perfectionism, self-doubt, and body changes, offering a fresh perspective instead of just telling you to try harder. Hosted by midlife fitness expert, author, and coach Heike Yates, the show blends honest conversations with practical wisdom drawn from over 40 years of coaching experience. It aims to help listeners rebuild self-trust, move through midlife with confidence, and fully embrace the next chapter of life. Every episode provides one new perspective, one practical step, and encouragement to keep going.
Episodes
266. You Took Care of Everyone Else… But Lost Yourself | Denise Drinkwalter
Losing yourself in midlife can happen so gradually that you don't even notice it. One day, you realize you've spent years taking care of everyone else, but you've lost touch with yourself. In Episode 266, You Took Care of Everyone Else… But Lost Yourself, Denise Drinkwalter joins me for an honest conversation about why so many women reach this point and how they can begin finding themselve
265. The Midlife Body Disconnect No One Talks About
What if the problem isn't your body? What if the real reason you feel frustrated with your changing body has nothing to do with motivation, discipline, or getting older? In Episode 265, The Midlife Body Disconnect No One Talks About, I explore why so many women lose touch with their bodies during midlife—and why reconnecting with the body you have today may be the missing piece to rebuilding
264. Why People Pleasing and Perfectionism Keep You Stuck in Midlife | Cindy Payne
You say yes when you want to say no. You take care of everyone else first. And no matter how much you accomplish, it never feels like enough. Sound familiar? In Episode 264, "Why People Pleasing and Perfectionism Keep You Stuck in Midlife," I sit down with therapist Cindy Payne to explore why People Pleasing in Midlife keeps so many women exhausted, disconnected, and feeling stuck. For
263. You Know It Doesn't Work: Why Women Keep Repeating the Same Habits in Midlife
Have you ever caught yourself going back to the same habit, routine, or plan even though you already know it doesn't work? If so, you're not alone. In Episode 263, You Know It Doesn't Work: Why Women Keep Repeating the Same Habits in Midlife, I explore one of the most frustrating patterns I see in women today: knowing what isn't working yet continuing to return to it. In this episode, I take
262. Midlife Anxiety: Doing All the Right Things… and Still Feeling On Edge| Dr. Nicole Cain
You're eating well and exercising, trying to stay positive, and holding everything together. Yet somehow, you still feel anxious, overstimulated, exhausted, or emotionally on edge. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. In Episode 262. Doing All the Right Things… and Still Feeling On Edge, I sit down with Dr. Nicole Cain to talk about why anxiety often changes during midlife and w
261. Why You Keep Starting Over and Still Feel Stuck in Midlife
Do you keep telling yourself, "I'll start Monday again," only to end up frustrated, overwhelmed, and stuck in the same place a few weeks later? In this episode of the Pursue Your Spark Podcast, 261. Why You Keep Starting Over and Still Feel Stuck in Midlife, I'm unpacking one of the biggest hidden reasons women in midlife struggle with consistency, healthy habits, midlife wellness, and motiv
260. How Good Girl Rules Keep Women Feeling Stuck in Midlife / Sue Willoughby
You've gotten really good at being the one who adjusts—and in midlife, you start to feel the cost of it. In Episode 260, How Good Girl Rules Keep Women Feeling Stuck in Midlife/ Sue Willoughby, I sit down with Sue to explore how good girl rules in midlife quietly shape how women think, act, and show up—often through patterns such as being agreeable, accommodating, and always putting others
259. Why Your Midlife Fitness Routine Stopped Working (It's Not Discipline)
Why does it feel like no matter how many times I reset my routine… nothing sticks anymore? In this episode, Why Your Midlife Fitness Routine Stopped Working (It's Not Discipline), I dive into a pattern I see again and again—and one I know personally: the reorganization loop. I keep trying to fix things by organizing better. Moreover, I adjust my schedule, rebuild my routines, and create new
258. How to Get Organized in Midlife Without Feeling Behind / Tracy Hoth
How to get organized often feels impossible when you're already mentally and emotionally overloaded. For many midlife women, organizing isn't just about clutter — it's about exhaustion, pressure, and the quiet belief that they're somehow "behind." That belief alone can keep you stuck far longer than the stuff itself. In Episode 258 of Pursue Your Spark, How to Get Organized in Midlife
257. Midlife Confidence: Why Speaking Up Still Leaves You Feeling Small
Have you ever said exactly what needed to be said—calmly, clearly, respectfully—and still walked away feeling smaller afterward? Not because the conversation went badly. But because something inside you felt unsettled… like you handled it well, yet it still didn't feel right. In Episode 257, Midlife Confidence: Why Speaking Up Still Leaves You Feeling Small we're looking at a pattern many w
256. Why Midlife Women Quiet-Quit Their Relationships / Colette Fehr
You're not unhappy, but something feels off. You avoid bringing things up. You tell yourself it's not worth the tension. You slowly become the easier one in the relationship. Over time, staying quiet starts to feel normal—even though it's costing you connection, energy, and a sense of being truly seen. In Episode 256 of Pursue Your Spark, Why Midlife Women Quiet-Quit Their Relationships, I ta
255. How to Get Unstuck in Midlife When You've Been Playing Small
If you've been telling yourself "I'm fine" but something still feels off, you're not alone. Many women struggle to get back on track in midlife when their confidence quietly slips. In this episode, we explore how to get unstuck in midife and how playing small can hold you back from building consistency in midlife — and how to move forward without starting over or waiting for motivation to return.
254. Starting Over in Your 50s Without Guilt When You Feel Stuck / Ande Lyons
Starting over in your 50s without guilt often begins with admitting you want something different. But many midlife women feel stuck between wanting change and not knowing how to get back on track. We talk about how to rebuild confidence and begin building midlife habits that actually stick — even when change feels uncomfortable. We talk about how gendered ageism shapes confidence, ambition, and
253. Building Consistency In Midlife When Your Routine Stops Working
Building consistency in midlife can feel harder when the routines that once worked no longer fit your life now. In this episode, we talk about how to restart your routine after missing workouts and get back on track in midlife without guilt or all-or-nothing thinking. In Episode 253, Building Consistency In Midlife When Your Routine Stops Working, we break down why staying consistent in midlife
252. Midlife Eating Habits That Actually Stick: A Simpler Mediterranean Approach / Dr. Anna Pleet
Midlife habits that actually stick often begin with simple nutrition routines. If you've struggled to stay consistent in midlife or feel like you're always starting over with your eating habits, this episode offers a different approach. Learn how to restart your routine after missing workouts and build consistency in midlife without restrictive rules. In this episode, Midlife Eating Habits That
251. How To Get Back On Track In Midlife When Your Energy Drops
If low energy has made it harder to stay consistent in midlife, you're not alone. Many women struggle to restart their routine after missing workouts when fatigue takes over. In this episode, we talk about how to build midlife habits that actually stick so you can get back on track without guilt. Midlife weight gain can feel like a mystery—one day, everything works, the next, nothing does. You'r
250. Midlife Confidence: How to Adjust to Skin Changes Without Starting Over / Dr. Mary Alice Mina
Midlife skin changes are real — and often leave women wondering how to adjust what used to work. If your usual skincare routine no longer feels effective, you're not alone. In this episode, Midlife Confidence: How to Adjust to Skin Changes Without Starting Over, Dr. Mary Alice Mina and I talk about how to adapt your skincare habits in midlife without needing to start from scratch. If you've been
249. How to Restart Your Midlife Fitness Routine After Missing Workouts
If you've ever missed a few workouts and felt like you had to start over again, you're not alone. Learning how to restart your routine after missing workouts is one of the most important skills for building consistency in midlife. In this episode, How to Restart Your Midlife Fitness Routine After Missing Workouts, we talk about how all-or-nothing thinking keeps women stuck — and how to get back on
248. Midlife Symptoms: How To Get Back On Track When Something Feels Off / Andrea Nakayama
Midlife symptoms often show up as fatigue, low energy, or feeling unlike yourself — even when everything looks fine on the outside. In this episode, Midlife Symptoms: How To Get Back On Track When Something Feels Off , Andrea Nakayama and I talk about what your body might be trying to tell you when your usual routines stop working. Learn how to get back on track in midlife by adjusting your habits
247. How To Stay Consistent In Midlife Without Burning Out
Trying to stay consistent in midlife can feel frustrating when pushing harder leads to more fatigue or setbacks. In this episode, we talk about why traditional cardio routines may backfire — and how to adjust your workouts so you can restart your routine after missing workouts without burning out. Learn how to build midlife habits that actually stick by working with your body instead of against it
246. Healing From Sexual Abuse in Midlife: Finding Support, Recovery, and Hope / Stacey Hettes
Healing from sexual abuse can be a lifelong process — and midlife often brings unexpected opportunities for reflection and recovery. In this episode, Healing From Sexual Abuse in Midlife: Finding Support, Recovery, and Hope, Stacey Hettes joins me for a compassionate conversation about the long-term impact of childhood sexual trauma and what healing can look like later in life. If this topic is pa
245. What To Eat After 40 To Boost Energy
Knowing what to eat after 40 can make a big difference in how your energy holds up throughout the day. Many midlife women struggle to stay consistent with their habits when low energy gets in the way. In this episode, we talk about how nutrition choices can support your energy so you can build consistency in midlife without needing to start over every time life gets busy. In Episode 245: What T
244. The Surprising Benefits of Aqua Yoga for Midlife Women / Christa Fairbrother
Struggling with stiff joints, low energy, or feeling unsure how to move your body without hurting it? You're not alone—and in Episode 244: The Surprising Benefits of Aqua Yoga for Midlife Women, we explore how the pool might just be your new best friend. I talk with Christa Fairbrother, a former farrier turned aqua yoga teacher, who shares how a painful autoimmune diagnosis changed her path—
243. How to Reset After Summer Without Diets or Guilt In Midlife
After a season of rosé, ice cream, and skipped workouts, many women feel the urge to "start over." But here's the truth: restriction and guilt aren't the answer. Instead of punishing yourself for summer indulgences, you can embrace a different approach—one that feels empowering, sustainable, and kind. That's exactly what I share in my new post, Reset After Summer: A Midlife Healthy Eating Guide
242. The Missing Link Between Eastern and Western Healing / Tatiana Miller
Ever been told "it's all in your head" when you know your body is asking for help? That disconnect is more than frustrating—it's often the very thing that deepens our stress, amplifies burnout, and keeps us stuck. In Episode 242: The Missing Link Between Eastern and Western Healing, I sit down with holistic psychologist Tatiana Miller to explore what happens when we stop chasing symptoms an
241. The Confidence Gap In Midlife No One Talks About
Ever walk away from a conversation thinking, "Why didn't I just say what I meant?" That gut punch isn't just frustration—it's a sign of something deeper. In episode 241, The Confidence Gap No One Talks About, we unpack why so many midlife women silence themselves—and how to break that cycle. This episode is about power. The quiet kind. The kind you feel when you reclaim your voice in midlif
240. From Trauma to Purpose: One Woman's Journey of Healing/ Amy Thurman
Sometimes the most powerful journeys begin not with a step forward, but with a fall that forces you to rise differently. Amy Thurman's life changed in an instant after a traumatic brain injury left her unable to walk, talk, or see clearly. In Episode 240: From Trauma to Purpose: One Woman's Journey of Healing, Amy shares her raw and remarkable story of healing and personal growth in midlife. Bu
239. Why Overthinking Keeps You Stuck in Midlife
You know that moment when you're standing in the kitchen, staring at two different snacks, and you just can't decide? It's not really about the snack. It's the mental spiral that's running the show. In midlife, overthinking becomes the default. You're juggling shifting roles, changing bodies, and trying to keep up with everything that used to feel automatic. But now? Every decision feels heavi
238.How to Navigate the Empty Nest Transition Without Losing Yourself / Anthony Damaschino
What happens after the kids leave? For many parents, the empty nest phase brings a flood of emotions—relief, sadness, confusion, even identity loss. But what if this transition could be your most powerful opportunity for growth, reconnection, and joy? In Episode 238: How to Navigate the Empty Nest Transition Without Losing Yourself, I sit down with award-winning author Anthony Damaschino, who
237. What's Secretly Draining Your Energy in Midlife
You're doing all the "right" things—getting enough sleep, eating healthy, even squeezing in workouts—but you still feel tired all the time. Sound familiar? In Episode 237: What's Secretly Draining Your Energy in Midlife, we're uncovering what's really behind that constant fatigue—and why more effort isn't the answer. Midlife women are often told to try harder. Sleep more. Eat cleaner. Push thr
236.Balancing Motherhood and Business With More Confidence and Less Guilt / Marta Spirk
What happens when life throws you a curveball you never saw coming, like becoming a mom to triplets? For Marta Spirk, it wasn't the end of her identity. It was the beginning of something powerful. In Episode 236: Balancing Motherhood and Business With More Confidence and Less Guilt, Marta shares how navigating life with three newborns became the catalyst for her business journey and how she now
235. Fitness After 50: Find Your WHY Before You Start
You start strong, full of motivation. Then life happens. You get busy, tired, or just lose steam. Before you know it, you're back at square one, wondering why fitness after 50 feels so hard. In episode 235 of the podcast, Struggling with Fitness After 50? Find Your WHY First, we're uncovering the real reason consistency feels impossible—and how finding your WHY can change everything. The
234. How Parkinson's Changed One Son's Life and Purpose / Dr. George Ackerman
What if your biggest heartbreak became your most extraordinary mission? After losing his mother to Parkinson's, Dr. George Ackerman turned grief into purpose—creating a movement that's shaking up awareness around this devastating disease. In this powerful episode, George shares what Parkinson's looks like, what most caregivers never talk about, and why his mission, Together for Sharon, inspires
233. Overcoming Fear of Failure in Midlife
You know that feeling—you want to start fresh with your health, maybe try a new workout or finally commit to better nutrition, but something stops you. That nagging thought: What if I fail? We're tackling exactly that in Episode 233: Overcoming Fear of Failure in Midlife. Fear of failure feels bigger after 50 because you've tried before, and maybe it didn't stick. Maybe past diets left you
232. How To Own Your Power and Pleasure In Midlife / Sue Camaione
What if everything you've been told about confidence, desire, and pleasure in midlife is completely wrong? For so many women, midlife feels like a turning point—you've checked the boxes, followed the rules, and still wonder… is this it? In Episode 232: How to Own Your Power and Pleasure in Midlife, we're diving deep into what it takes to break free from limiting beliefs, embrace confidence, a
231. How to Stay Resilient When Life Feels Out of Control
Life is full of unexpected twists and turns. One moment, you're managing your routine, tackling your to-do list, and feeling in control. And then, something happens—a phone call, a change in the weather, or news you weren't prepared for—and suddenly, your world feels upside down. In this episode, How to Stay Resilient When Life Feels Out of Control we're diving into what it means to navigate li
230. Why Self-Care Feels So Damn Hard For Midlife Women / Lesley Logan
Feeling like self-care is selfish? You're not alone. For midlife women over 50, guilt often sneaks in and stops us from putting ourselves first. And let's be honest—Why Self-Care Feels So Damn Hard for Midlife Women is something we've all wondered about. Here's the truth: self-care isn't about spa days or bubble baths. It's about creating habits that help us thrive. Setting boundaries. Avoidi
229. Why Losing Motivation In Midlife Is Not Your Fault
Ever feel like you've hit a wall and can't figure out why your motivation has disappeared? Here's the thing: losing motivation isn't your fault. Motivation isn't some steady, unshakable thing. It changes as we go through life, just like we do. What lit you up in your 20s and 30s might not feel right now, and that's okay. Life throws us curveballs—work, family, caregiving—and sometimes it feels
228. What Happens When Your Business Finally Aligns With Who You Are / Shannon Russell
Has your 9-5 lost its spark? If what once excited you now feels like a grind, it might be time for a change. Shannon Russell, CEO of Second Act Success, joins me to share her journey and expert advice on transitioning to a career that aligns with your purpose and brings fulfillment. Join us in What Happens When Your Business Finally Aligns With Who You Are! After a successful career in TV producti
227. Break Through Overwhelm In Midlife To Find Your Focus and Energy
Feeling overwhelmed and stuck in midlife? You're not alone. For many women over 50, juggling commitments and trying to keep up with wellness trends can feel like an uphill battle. The good news? Overcoming overwhelm doesn't require big resolutions or drastic overhauls—it's about starting small and focusing on what truly matters. That's exactly what we explore in episode 227: Tiny Shifts to Beat
226. How to Stop Wanting Change and Start Making It Happen / Allan Misner
Feeling stuck in midlife? You're not alone. In this episode, Heike Yates talks with Allan Misner about how to shift from How to Stop Wanting Change and Start Making It Happen. Together, they explore how midlife transformation starts with mindset, small actions, and the courage to stay consistent. Discover how to build habits that last, overcome self-doubt, and find motivation after 50 — no matter
225. How to Build Strength in Midlife Without Self-Judgment
Ever feel like you're showing up and putting in the work, but somehow, it doesn't seem to add up? How to Build Strength in Midlife Without Self-Judgment can be tricky, especially when you've set a strength goal—like lifting heavier, trying a new move, or just feeling stronger every day—but it feels like no matter what you do, it's never quite enough. Sound familiar? In today's episode, we're
224. Building Your Caregiving Team Without Guilt / Lynn Smargis
Are you feeling the weight of caring for aging parents while juggling everything else on your plate? You're definitely not alone. So many of us are in this boat, wondering if we're doing enough or if it's time to get extra support. That's why I'm sitting down today with Senior Care Advisor for Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, Lynn Smargis, to find out how you can start Building Your Caregiving Team
223. Why the Workouts That Worked at 30 Stop Working After 40
Ever struggle with something as simple as putting on socks or lifting a bag of groceries and think, "Is this what getting older feels like?" You're not alone. We tackle these common frustrations head-on in Podcast Episode 223: Why the Workouts That Worked at 30 Stop Working After 40. Picture this: you're battling your socks every morning, hopping around on one foot, maybe even taking a tumble.
222. When "Fine" Isn't Really Fine: A Conversation About Cancer and Prevention / Deb Krier
Cancer doesn't wait, nor should you. Whether you're facing cancer yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode with Deb Krier will give you the tools and mindset to take action today. Don't settle—fight back now. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and today's episode, 'When "Fine" Isn't Really Fine: A Conversation About Cancer and Prevention is a must-listen. Deb Krier is an entr
221. Why Midlife Women Are Rethinking Alcohol
Are you curious about how to rethink your relationship with alcohol, especially as we head into fall and the holiday season? It's that time of year when we reflect on our habits, and for many of us, that includes those casual evening drinks that might have crept into our routine over the summer. We'll In Episode 221 – Why Midlife Women Are Rethinking Alcohol I dive into how to create a healthy,
220. What Your Midlife Insomnia Is Trying to Tell You/ Martha Lewis
Struggling with insomnia in midlife? It might be trying to tell you something important. In "What Your Midlife Insomnia Is Trying to Tell You," we explore how sleep patterns change as we age and the unexpected reasons behind restless nights. Our expert guest, Martha Lewis, founder of The Sleep Detective, shares how mastering your sleep routine can be life-changing. Her journey started with
219. Building Consistency in Midlife This Fall
Can you believe summer is over already? If you're struggling to shift gears, I've got the perfect tip to help you find your footing this fall. Building Consistency in Midlife This Fall, is something everyong is struggling with! Trust me, you won't want to miss this! After a busy summer, taking a moment to reclaim our personal space and time is essential. It helps us prioritize our mental well-
218. How To Get Back On Track In Midlife When Life Feels Overwhelming/ Janet M. Tailor
If you're wondering how to get back on track in midlife when life feels overwhelming, you're not alone. Between responsibilities, caregiving, work, and everyday decisions, it's easy to feel mentally cluttered and stuck. In this episode, Janet M. Tailor and I talk about how simplifying your environment and daily routines can help you move forward in midlife without guilt — even when everything feel
217. What Midlife Women Can Learn from the Blue Zones
Ever wonder what the secret to a long, healthy life is? In this episode, "What Midlife Women Can Learn from the Blue Zones" we're exploring the fascinating lifestyles of the world's healthiest and longest-living people. These are places where folks live well into their 90s and beyond, staying vibrant and happy. One of the biggest takeaways is their primarily plant-based diet. They fill their p
216. How Black Women Advocate for Better Healthcare / The Body Wealth Sisters
Healthcare advocacy for Black women took center stage as Elaine Curry and Brenda Barbour, the Body Wealth Sisters, joined us. Their expertise and personal journeys shed light on the critical path of navigating the healthcare system as a Black or African American woman. "How Black Women Advocate for Better Healthcare" wasn't merely an episode title—it transformed into a manifesto, resonating with
215. Building Consistency in Midlife With 5 Simple Habits
Starting over in your 50s without guilt can feel impossible when you've already tried so many routines that didn't last. But building midlife habits that actually stick doesn't require extreme plans or starting from scratch. It's time to start Building Consistency in Midlife With 5 Simple Habits. Learn how to create consistency in midlife using realistic routines that help you restart your routine
214. Building Consistency In Midlife Through Simple Daily Habits / Dr. Jen Haley
Building consistency in midlife isn't about doing more — it's about doing what actually works for your life now. When your habits match your current season, it becomes easier to get back on track without guilt. This episode shares how small, supportive routines can help you build midlife habits that actually stick. We explore the captivating intersection of health and beauty with Dr. Jen Haley,
213. Why Midlife Women Need to Think Differently About Bone Health
Welcome to your action plan to combat osteoporosis, which you can manage with the right strategies. This episode shifts our focus from shock and worry to empowerment through proactive prevention. We discuss the importance of early screening, especially for those at increased risk due to factors like early menopause or a family history of osteoporosis. It's crucial to start these screenings as
212. Midlife Habits That Actually Stick: How To Stay Consistent Without Starting Over/ft. Jill McCauslin & Chris Brown
If you're trying to build midlife habits that actually stick but feel like you're constantly starting over, you're not alone. Many women know what to do — but staying consistent in midlife feels harder than ever. In this episode, we talk about how to stay consistent with exercise and nutrition without guilt, all-or-nothing thinking, or constantly restarting your routine after missing workouts. J
211. The Midlife Mindset That Builds Strength and Flexibility
Today, we're diving into how changing your mindset can literally change your life, especially during midlife. It's not just about getting stronger or more flexible; it's about how your thoughts shape your journey. Our bodies and minds are evolving in midlife, and it's prime time to align our mental wellness with our physical health. We're talking practical strategies for those ready to sh
210. The Hidden Midlife Barriers to Confidence and Self-Love | Deb Blum
We're getting up close with Deb Blum, the inspiring soul behind The Whole Soul Way. She's not just the brains of this operation; she's a certified life, parent, and health coach with a Business Administration/IT background from the University of Connecticut. Deb recently started a new chapter, moving to Arizona with her husband of 20 years. Join us in this week's episode, "The Hidden Midlife Bar
209. How to Break the All-or-Nothing Cycle and Stay Consistent
We're diving deep into the concept of reframing health goals, directly addressing the 'All-or-Nothing' cycle that can hinder our progress. This episode, How to Break the All-or-Nothing Cycle and Stay Consistent, is an invitation to those seeking to break free from this restrictive mindset, offering a fresh, flexible, and joy-driven approach to health and fitness. It's designed for anyone whose f
208. How to Get Back on Track in Midlife When Life Feels Overwhelming / Tracy McCubbin
Wondering how to get back on track in midlife when everything feels overwhelming? Mental clutter, emotional exhaustion, and decision fatigue often make it hard to build consistency in midlife. This episode explores simple steps you can take to restart your routine without guilt and begin building habits that support your energy, confidence, and forward momentum. Tracy's not just any tidying guru
207. 6 Ways To Redefine Courage In Midlife
Courage in midlife isn't about grand, sweeping gestures. Instead, it can be found in the everyday acts of bravery that lead to significant changes in life. In today's episode, '6 Ways To Redefine Courage In Midlife,' we dive into offering insights and practical tips for women in this vibrant life stage. We debunk common misconceptions about courage. It isn't about quick fixes or dramatic ov
206. What No One Tells You About Dating After 40 / Hoyt Prisock
Our guest, Hoyt Prisock, never expected to be navigating the world of online dating after a long marriage. What followed was a journey of discovery about connection, relationships, and what people are really looking for when they search for love. As the creator of a successful online speed dating platform and host of Behind the Swipe, Hoyt brings both personal experience and industry insight to t
205. Building Consistency In Midlife When Motivation Is Gone
What happens when motivation disappears? Many midlife women think they need more willpower, more discipline, or a better plan. But often the real challenge isn't motivation at all—it's trying to rely on motivation to create lasting change. In this episode, we're talking about building consistency in midlife when motivation is gone and why the habits that actually stick have less to do with inspira
204. The 5 Pillars That Help You Thrive in Midlife | Bernie Borges
What does it really take to thrive in midlife? Many people reach this stage of life feeling successful on paper but still wondering what's missing. They may feel stuck, disconnected from their goals, or unsure whether the life they've built still reflects who they are today. In this episode, The 5 Pillars That Help You Thrive in Midlife, I sit down with Bernie Borges, host of the Midlife Fulfille
#203. The Menopause Body Image Struggle No One Talks About | Dr. Maria Luque
Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt disconnected from the person looking back at you? Many women enter menopause expecting physical changes, but few are prepared for the menopause body image struggle no one talks about—the loss of confidence, self-doubt, and feeling stuck in a body that no longer feels familiar. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Maria Luque, Air Force veteran and menopa
202. How to Enjoy the Holidays Without Starting Over in January
Have you ever promised yourself you'll get back on track after the holidays? Every year, countless women enter January feeling frustrated, discouraged, and wondering how they lost momentum. It's one reason so many women feeling stuck find themselves repeating the same cycle year after year. In this episode, How to Enjoy the Holidays Without Starting Over in January, we explore how to navigate t
201. Why Midlife Women Must Advocate for Their Healthcare | Susan Salenger
Have you ever left a doctor's appointment feeling unheard, dismissed, or wondering if you should have spoken up? You're not alone. Too many women spend years advocating for everyone else while staying silent about their own health concerns. It's one reason so many women feeling stuck struggle to get the answers, treatment, and support they deserve. In this episode, Why Midlife Women Must Advocate
200. What I've Learned About Getting Unstuck in Midlife After 200 Episodes
fter 200 conversations, hundreds of stories, and countless lessons from women navigating this season of life, one thing has become crystal clear: Most women don't need more information. They need a way forward. Over the past 200 episodes of Pursue Your Spark, I've talked with experts, authors, coaches, and everyday women who have faced challenges, setbacks, transitions, and unexpected detours. An
199. Getting Unstuck in Midlife by Reimagining What's Possible | Wendy Valentine
What if the life you've been imagining for yourself is still possible? Many women reach midlife believing their biggest opportunities are behind them. They settle into routines, put their dreams on hold, and slowly lose sight of what's possible for the years ahead. It's one reason so many women feel stuck, even when life looks good on the surface. In this episode, Getting Unstuck in Midlife by Rei
198. Could Alcohol Be Keeping You Stuck in Midlife?
Have you ever wondered why that glass of wine doesn't feel the same anymore? What once helped you relax may now leave you feeling tired, foggy, stressed, or disconnected from how you want to feel. It's one reason many women find themselves feeling stuck without realizing alcohol may be playing a bigger role than they think. In this episode, Could Alcohol Be Keeping You Stuck in Midlife?, we explor
197. Fibromyalgia: Why So Many Women Struggle to Get Answers | Dr. Efrat LaMandre
If you've ever felt like your body doesn't feel right—and you've been told it's all in your head—this episode on fibromyalgia is for you. In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Efrat LaMandre, functional medicine expert and creator of The Knew Method, to discuss fibromyalgia and other often misunderstood chronic conditions. We explore why so many women experience symptoms like fatigue, brain fo
196. Getting Unstuck in Midlife Without Guilt or Starting Over
What if the answer isn't starting over—but building on what you already know? In this episode, Getting Unstuck in Midlife Without Guilt or Starting Over, we explore why so many women struggle to stay consistent after setbacks and how to move forward without beating themselves up. You'll discover practical strategies for rebuilding healthy routines, creating midlife habits that actually stick, and
195. Available As Is: Finding Love Again After Loss in Midlife | Debbie Weiss
What happens when the life you planned disappears—and you're forced to create a new one? In this episode, Available As Is: Finding Love Again After Loss in Midlife, Debbie Weiss shares her remarkable journey from devastating loss to unexpected new beginnings. After losing her husband of 32 years and navigating the challenges of grief, loneliness, and life on her own, Debbie found herself facing a
194. The Surprising Link Between Midlife Fitness and Financial Stability
What if one of the best financial investments you could make has nothing to do with the stock market? In this episode, The Surprising Link Between Midlife Fitness and Financial Stability, I explore how the choices we make about our health today can impact our finances, independence, and quality of life for years to come. We often think of exercise as a way to lose weight, build strength, or improv
193. How Midlife Fitness Inspired One Woman's Greatest Adventures | Julia Goodfellow-Smith
What would you do if you stopped letting age decide what's possible? In this episode, How Midlife Fitness Inspired One Woman's Greatest Adventures, Julia Goodfellow-Smith shares how a health scare at age 50 became the catalyst for a completely different way of living. Instead of slowing down, Julia created a bucket list filled with challenges and adventures. She has hiked England's 630-mile South
192. Midlife Fitness After Menopause: What Every Woman Needs to Know
What changes after menopause—and what can you do about it? In this episode, Midlife Fitness After Menopause: What Every Woman Needs to Know, I share practical strategies to help you build strength, protect your health, and feel your best during the postmenopausal years. We discuss the key role of movement, nutrition, and lifestyle habits in supporting healthy aging, along with important topics lik
191. How to Start Midlife Fitness When You Haven't Exercised in Years | Hope Zvara
Think you have to be fit before you can start exercising? Think again. In this episode, How to Start Midlife Fitness When You Haven't Exercised in Years, I sit down with Hope Zvara, founder of Mother Trucker Yoga, to discuss a simpler and more realistic approach to movement and health. Hope shares how small, consistent actions can help anyone improve their health, flexibility, strength, and overal
190. Midlife Fitness and Bone Health: How to Stay Strong After 50
What if one of the biggest threats to your independence is happening silently? In this episode, Midlife Fitness and Bone Health: How to Stay Strong After 50, we explore why osteoporosis is often called the "silent disease" and what women can do to protect their bones as they age. You'll learn how nutrition, movement, and lifestyle choices can play a powerful role in maintaining bone density, reduc
189. What If Everything You Learned About Aging Is Wrong? | Shari Berkowitz
What if the biggest limitations of aging aren't in your body—but in how you've been taught to think about it? In this episode, Midlife Mindset: What If Everything You Learned About Aging Is Wrong?, I sit down with renowned Pilates educator and movement scientist Shari Berkowitz to explore a completely different way of understanding the aging body. With more than 30 years of experience in Pilates b
188. Midlife Habits That Stick: A Realistic Guide to Intermittent Fasting
Why do healthy eating habits feel harder to maintain in midlife? In this episode, Midlife Habits That Stick: A Realistic Guide to Intermittent Fasting, I explore why so many women struggle with consistency and how to create nutrition habits that work with your life instead of against it. You'll learn the science-backed benefits of intermittent fasting, how it can support weight management, metabol
187. How to Find Your Voice and Trust Your Intuition in Midlife | Dr. Melissa Bird
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