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Bite Your Tongue: The Podcast

Bite Your Tongue: The Podcast

Bite Your Tongue 132 Episodes Aug 14, 2026

The podcast looks at the challenges parents face when their children become adults. It explores topics like money, relationships, and sibling rivalry, and offers advice on building healthy relationships with adult children. Host Denise Gorant talks with experts, other parents, and young adults about this stage of parenting. The show also considers when it is best for parents to keep their opinions to themselves.

Episodes

Parenting 2.0: The Work Begins With Us | Dr. Francine Toder
Parenting 2.0: The Work Begins With Us | Dr. Francine Toder Aug 14, 2026 2558 This is an episode re-run and one that is still so relevant and needs a re-listen. It seems actually that it is even more relevant today.  Parent's are still asking Parents are still asking, "How do I stay close to my adult child without pushing them away?" Francine Toder's answer isn't another communication technique—it's something much harder: look at yourself first
Helping or Enabling? When Adult Children Return Home
Helping or Enabling? When Adult Children Return Home Jul 31, 2026 373 When an adult child moves back home once, many parents see it as temporary. But what happens when it becomes a pattern?In this episode of Straight from the Listener Line: Real Questions, Real Answers, Denise is joined by psychotherapist Joe Nucci to answer a listener's heartfelt question about her adult son, who has returned home five different times.Together they explore the difficult balanc
Do We Really Know Our Adult Children?  A Shift to Curiosity
Do We Really Know Our Adult Children? A Shift to Curiosity Jul 17, 2026 4049 Some conversations are worth revisiting.As we prepared to re-release this conversation with therapist Rachel Haack, I listened to it again for the first time in several years. I thought I knew exactly what Rachel was going to say. After all, I was the one asking the questions.But that's the gift of listening again. Sometimes the conversation hasn't changed at all—you have.This time, Rach
The Grandparent No-Win Situation -- Real Questions, Real Answers
The Grandparent No-Win Situation -- Real Questions, Real Answers Jul 3, 2026 768 This is our first in a series of our new shorter segments called: Straight from the Listener Line – Real Questions. Real Answers.In this new series, we take one real listener question and bring in an expert to help us think it through honestly, thoughtfully, and with real-life experience behind it.Today’s episode tackles a topic many grandparents quietly struggle with:“What happens when you’re try
Episode Rerun: The Long Game with Adult Children: A Conversation with Dr. Lindsay Gibson
Episode Rerun: The Long Game with Adult Children: A Conversation with Dr. Lindsay Gibson Jun 19, 2026 3200 This week we're revisiting one of our  most talked-about episodes.  Clinical psychologist and bestselling author of the book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents,  Dr. Lindsay Gibson joins us discuss emotional maturity, self-awareness, and why we need to play the long game.Many parents struggle with the feeling that they are constantly being asked to listen, validate, and accommodat
Parenting Adult Children: When Anxiety Disguises Itself as Love Learning the difference between loving and chasing
Parenting Adult Children: When Anxiety Disguises Itself as Love Learning the difference between loving and chasing Jun 5, 2026 425 In our first short form episode --  Straight From the Listener Line episode -- we welcome back psychologist Dr. Jeffrey Bernstein to answer a heartfelt listener question.A mother shares her struggle after watching her once-close relationship with her son change following his marriage. She feels increasingly pushed aside and wonders how to navigate the growing distance, particularly when she believ
Ira Glass Made me Question Everything: You Might Too
Ira Glass Made me Question Everything: You Might Too May 22, 2026 948 For this episode of Bite Your Tongue, we’re doing something quite a bit different.This is the last episode of Season 7, and today it’s just me.Me — and excerpts from one of my all-time favorite podcasts, This American Life with Ira Glass.For those who may not know Ira’s work, he is the groundbreaking creator and host of This American Life, whose storytelling helped redefine public radio and podcas
Weddings, Etiquette and Listener Questions
Weddings, Etiquette and Listener Questions May 8, 2026 3286 Weddings, Family Tension, and Modern Etiquette Episode Description:If there is one life event that can bring together love, joy, tradition, money, and family tension all at once, it is a wedding.In this episode of Bite Your Tongue, Denise talks with Lizzie Post — co-president of the Emily Post Institute, co-host of the Awesome Etiquette podcast, and great-great-granddaughter of Emily Post — about
The Bank of Mom and Dad -- When Helping Hurts
The Bank of Mom and Dad -- When Helping Hurts Apr 24, 2026 2539 Are you helping your adult child… or accidentally holding them back?Many parents quietly support their adult children financially — paying rent, helping with debt, or covering emergencies. But when does helping become enabling?In this episode, Denise talks with financial psychologist Dr. Brad Klontz about the emotional and psychological forces behind the “Bank of Mom and Dad.”Dr. Brad tells it lik
Doormat Mom No More: When Parents Say “Enough”
Doormat Mom No More: When Parents Say “Enough” Apr 10, 2026 3143 Family estrangement is one of the most painful and least discussed challenges parents face today.In this deeply personal and controversial episode, Denise speaks with journalist, entrepreneur, and author Laura Wellington, known online as Doormat Mom No More. After raising five children as a widowed mother, Laura found herself unexpectedly cut off by one of her adult daughters—an experience that le
When Overthinking can make our Adult Children Feel Evaluated
When Overthinking can make our Adult Children Feel Evaluated Mar 27, 2026 2295 Do you lie awake at night running through every possible “what if” about your adult child?What if they make the wrong choice?What if they don’t land on their feet?Should I call? Should I say something? Should I bite my tongue?In this episode of Bite Your Tongue, Denise welcomes back psychologist and parent coach Jeffrey Bernstein, author of Freeing Your Child from Overthinking, to unpack the diffe
Modern Grand Parenting, Boundaries and In-Law Dynamics
Modern Grand Parenting, Boundaries and In-Law Dynamics Mar 13, 2026 2175 Are you a grandparent?  If so, listen to this episode. Boundaries, burnout, and big feelings—grand parenting can be a joy and a minefield at the same time. We invited Dee Dee Moore, founder of More Than Grand, to help us navigate the messy middle: when “free” childcare starts costing a family its energy, when in-law dynamics get prickly, and when love needs the guardrails of a clear agreement to t

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