Havilah's Podcast
Havilah Cunnington, a full-time minister and women's pastor at Bethel Church, hosts this candid podcast. She shares honest conversations about life, family, relationships, and ministry, aiming to break the mold and keep things real. With two decades of experience and the heart behind Truth to Table, she offers a mix of practical wisdom, laughter, and relatable moments. The show promises no fluff, just truth, and encourages listeners to discover their own 'hey, same here!' revelations.
Episodes
383: You're Not Broken, You're Predicting: Day 2 - I Do Feelings
Why do so many of us feel disconnected from our emotions—or overwhelmed by them?Welcome to Day 2 of I Do Feelings. Today, Havilah explores why we learned to ignore, suppress, or distrust our emotions and how those patterns often started early in life.In today’s video, we’ll look at:👉 How family systems, faith culture, and survival strategies shape our emotional responses👉 Why disconnecting from fe
382: Made to Feel: Day 1 - I Do Feelings
Have you ever wondered if your emotions are something you’re supposed to control, hide, or overcome?What if they’re actually part of how God designed you?Welcome to Day 1 of I Do Feelings—a 15-day Bible study on discerning your emotions with God so you can stop stuffing, spiraling, and second-guessing yourself.In today’s video, Havilah lays the foundation for the entire study by answering one core
381: Rejection, Abandonment & Building More Confidence
In today’s episode, we’re digging into the real story behind rejection, abandonment, and the confidence it takes to shut down the negative narratives trying to shape your life.I share how my dad’s early years were marked by abandonment and self-rejection—and how everything changed when he met Jesus. I was raised in love and safety, but that same generational thread still tried to attach itself to
380: God’s Voice is Calling You Forward
God’s voice doesn’t just speak to your present—it calls you from your future. He already sees the life He designed for you, and He’s inviting you to step into it.What does it look like to live a life you actually want to wake up to? How might unprocessed grief or disappointment be holding you back from pursuing your God-given dreams? In this episode, Havilah unpacks the power of Spirit-led living
379. Preaching Like You're In It For The Long Haul | The Art of Preaching
This week, I’m wrapping up our series on The Art of Preaching by talking about something that’s so close to my heart: sustainable preaching. After almost 30 years of ministry, I’ve learned that it’s not just about having a great message—it’s about protecting the rhythm of your life so you can last for the long haul. In this episode, I share practical ways to guard your energy, keep your connection
378. Preaching Like It Matters | The Art of Preaching
This week on the podcast, I’m diving into what it really looks like to preach like it matters. After decades of communicating, I’ve realized how easy it is to fall into patterns and lose that sense of urgency and purpose. But when I sat with a pastor in Brazil who said, “I preach every message like it’s my last,” it stirred something in me. In this episode, I’m sharing the practical ways we can br
377. Preaching Like You're Not Afraid | The Art of Preaching
On this episode, I’m talking all about what it looks like to preach without fear. If you’ve ever found yourself holding back because you’re worried about what people might think, or editing your message to make it safer, you’re not alone—I’ve been there too. But the truth is, fear dulls our words and keeps us from carrying the authority God has given us. In this episode, I share my own journey of
376. Preaching Like You Know Who You Are | The Art of Preaching
This week on the podcast, I’m diving into something that’s been on my heart for all of us who have been preaching for a while—how to find our unique voice again. After 30 years of speaking, I’ve learned that it’s so easy to slip into mimicking others, chasing applause, or just running on autopilot. But borrowed voices don’t carry breakthrough—only authenticity does. In this episode, I’m sharing my
375. Sustaining Your Fire & Growing In Your Calling | The Art of Preaching
This week, I’m wrapping up our very first season of The Art of Preaching by talking about what it really means to stay in this for the long haul. We live in a culture that loves viral moments and big stages, but God’s call isn’t about one-hit wonders—it’s about faithfulness over decades. In this episode, I share my own journey of preaching in living rooms, group homes, and small youth groups long
374. What Happens When I Bomb? | The Art of Preaching
In this episode of The Art of Preaching, I’m diving into something every communicator faces but few talk about—what if I bomb? What happens when the mic doesn’t work, the slides are wrong, the room is dead silent, or worse—when you just totally miss it? I’ve had those moments (more than once!), and I’m sharing one of my most humiliating fails and what God taught me through it. We’ll talk about red
373. Preaching Like a Human | The Art of Preaching
In today’s episode, we’re talking all about what it means to preach like a human. If you’ve ever felt like you need to sound like someone else to be effective—this is for you. I’m sharing how comparison and mimicry can steal your confidence, and why your quirks, your tone, your pace—your actual personality—are not obstacles, but part of your pulpit. God didn’t call the polished version of you; He
372. Preaching Isn’t Just for Preachers
In this first episode of The Art of Preaching series, I’m sharing the real and raw beginnings of my preaching journey—how I never thought I’d be a communicator, why insecurity doesn’t disqualify you, and how saying “yes” in hidden places is where the real calling begins. Whether you’ve never picked up a mic or you’ve been preaching for years, this episode is for anyone who’s ever whispered, “I thi
371. False Endings
A couple months ago I spoke a message called False Endings, and we have heard so much feedback about this message, I wanted you to hear it. Stay to the end because the last story - might surprise you. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
370. When You Hit the Relational Wall
This week, we’re talking about hitting a relational wall—you know, when you love the people in your life but also kind of can’t stand being around them? Yep, that one. It’s one of the hardest walls to face because we’re only half of the equation, and it can feel messy, exhausting, and honestly, pretty lonely. In this episode, I open up about how I’ve navigated relational shutdown, what Proverbs sa
369. When You Hit the Physical Wall
This week, we’re talking about what it feels like when your body hits a wall—when you’re doing all the things, but still feel like you’re dragging yourself through the day. I’ve been there. From chronic exhaustion to physical pain that forced me to stop everything, I’m sharing my own story of burnout and the wake-up call it gave me. If your body is waving the white flag, this is your reminder that
368. When You Hit the Mental Wall
This week, we’re talking about hitting a mental wall—when your brain feels like it has 67 tabs open and half of them are buffering. You’re doing the things: sleeping, hydrating, showing up... and still, you're exhausted, foggy, and stuck in thought loops that won’t quit. I’ve been there too. In this episode, I share real strategies that help me when my brain taps out, from interrupting the spi
367. The Wall is Real (and So Are You)
This week, I’m kicking off a brand new series all about hitting the invisible walls in our lives—you know, the ones that show up out of nowhere and leave us stuck, exhausted, and wondering what just happened. I had a whole different plan for this month, but I hit one of those walls myself and knew we needed to talk about it. Whether it’s mental, spiritual, physical, or even environmental, these wa
366. You’re Not Behind—You’re Being Built
This week, I’m talking about what it feels like to think you’ve missed your moment—like maybe God handed your calling to someone with a prettier feed or better timing. If you’ve ever found yourself scrolling and spiraling, thinking “I should be further along by now,” you are not alone. I’ve been there. I share a personal story about a big opportunity I turned down, how it looked like I got left be
365. How to Keep Showing Up When You Feel Burned Out
This week, I’m talking about something we don’t often say out loud—what happens when burnout starts to look spiritual? You know that moment where you’re still called, still committed, but your capacity feels like it got hit by a truck? Yep, we’re going there. I open up about my own experiences with soul fatigue, what Scripture really says about growing weary in well-doing, and how to recognize the
364. Waiting, Worrying, and Wondering What He’s Doing
Waiting on God can feel like watching water boil—slow, frustrating, and honestly, a little painful. In this episode, I get super real about what it’s like to be in a waiting season and the lies we start to believe when things don’t move fast enough. I share how God used my single years and silent seasons to build something in me that couldn’t be rushed. So if you’ve ever thought, “If God loved me,
363. When God Is Silent But Everything’s Loud
In this episode, I open up about what it feels like when God goes silent—and how that silence can shake our faith to the core. If you've ever felt like your prayers are hitting the ceiling or like you're on “read” with heaven, you’re not alone. I talk about how silence doesn’t mean absence, and how divine delays are often God’s strategy to develop us in hidden places. I also share some honest refl
362. Parenting Q&A: Dating, Discipline, and Boundaries
Hey friends! I’m so glad you’re here for this parenting episode—it’s a special one because I’ve got my husband, Ben, joining me, and we’re diving into your top parenting questions. From navigating the dating convo with your kids (yes, even the 6-year-olds asking about boyfriends!) to figuring out when and how to discipline without losing your mind—we’re going there. We're not claiming to have
361. The Power of a Praying Parent: My Dad’s Radical Testimony
Hey friends! This week on the podcast, I get to have a really special guest—my dad! We’re talking all about the power of a praying parent, especially when it feels like you can’t do anything else. If you’ve ever felt heartbroken watching your kids or grandkids wander away from God or unsure how to reach them as they grow, this episode is for you. My dad shares his wild testimony—from atheism to ra
360. Mom Life Unfiltered: When Respect and Relationship Collide
Hey friends — this episode is one of those raw, real conversations straight out of my own life, and honestly, I think you're going to feel so seen. I sat down with Jason and Lauren Vallotton and what started as a chat on marriage turned into me getting super honest about something I’ve been walking through as a mom of boys. We unpacked the tension of raising strong, healthy men while still hol
359. God’s Strategy for Parenting - It’s Not What You Think
Today we're kicking off a brand new parenting series, and listen — it's not just about raising "good kids" or making sure you don't mess them up (because hello, no pressure, right?!). What if God’s plan for parenting is actually about transforming us just as much as it is about raising them? I’m sharing some real talk from my own life — the mess, the beauty, the discipleship
358. The Fall Season - Transition and Celebration
You guys—we made it! We’ve hit the fall season, and this one is all about the harvest. But here’s the thing: harvest doesn’t just mean abundance and celebration (though yes, we’re totally dancing on grapes over here 🍇). It also means transition—and that can feel a little unsettling. In this episode, I’m unpacking what it looks like to truly reap what you've sown and how to celebrate, prepare,
357. The Summer Season - Hard Work and Warfare
You guys—this one is for those of you who feel like you prayed for growth, said yes to the breakthrough, and now you're wondering, “Wait, why does it all feel harder?” In this episode, I’m diving into what summer looks like in your spiritual life. And spoiler: it’s not just sunshine and boat rides. It’s warfare, responsibility, and learning how to keep going when things get tough. I break down how
356. The Spring Season - New Beginnings and Guarding Growth
In this episode, I’m diving into what it really means to be in a spring season spiritually — and trust me, it’s not all butterflies and breakthroughs! I talk about how the very opportunities you’ve been praying for can also become distractions if you’re not careful. Just because a door opens doesn’t mean God’s asking you to walk through it. I’m sharing the PLANT acronym (you’ll love it!) and how t
355. The Winter Season - Waiting and Rooting
In this episode, I’m diving into the spiritual season of winter—yep, that season nobody volunteers for but somehow always shows up. If you’ve ever felt like God’s ghosting you, like your prayers are hitting a wall, or like you’re stuck in a never-ending freeze, this one's for you. I share personal stories (yes, I’ve definitely been there), practical ways to stay rooted, and some survival hacks
354. What are Spiritual Seasons?
In this episode, we're kicking off a brand-new series all about spiritual seasons. Have you ever felt like your faith was thriving one moment and lifeless the next? You're not alone—it's totally normal! We’re diving deep into understanding the spiritual seasons of winter, spring, summer, and fall, and how each one has a unique purpose in your journey. I share my own story of navigating
353. Your Biggest Marriage Questions, Answered!
In this episode, we’re answering your top questions about marriage! We dive into everything from navigating conflict and staying connected to building trust and keeping intimacy alive. Whether you’re newly married or have been in it for years, we’ve got real, practical advice that’s going to help strengthen your relationship. I’m excited to share insights that will bring clarity and encouragement
352. Thriving in a Blended Marriage
Hey friends! In this episode, I’m sitting down with Jason and Lauren Vallotton to talk all about marriage—the real, raw, and sometimes messy journey of doing life together. We’re diving into what it looks like to build a strong foundation, navigate conflict with grace, and keep intimacy alive even in the busiest seasons. Jason and Lauren bring so much wisdom and honesty to the conversation, sharin
351. Keeping Up Love After Marriage
In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of marriage with Barry and Lori Byrne, the powerhouse couple behind Love After Marriage and Nothing Hidden Ministries. We’re talking about the real struggles, the tools for breakthrough, and why transparency is the key to a thriving marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or hoping to be, this conversation is packed with wisdom on intimacy,
350. Marriage & Communication: What We Wish We Knew Sooner!
Hey friends! This week, we're diving deep into marriage—what makes it healthy, what challenges come up, and how to keep growing together. And I’m not doing it alone—Ben’s here! We’re getting real about our own journey, from the early struggles to the tools that transformed our relationship. We talk communication, intimacy, and the mindset shifts that made all the difference. Whether you're newly m
349. The Dating Mistakes Christians Make (And How to Avoid Them!)
Hey friends! Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that doesn’t get enough real talk in the church—dating, sex, and singleness. Yep, we’re going there! I’m sitting down with my friend Elles Maddry, who, along with her husband, leads Moral Revolution, an organization dedicated to helping people navigate healthy sexuality within faith. We’re unpacking everything from dating apps to setting boundarie
348. Faith and Porn: Breaking Free from the Trap
Wow, this episode was a deep one! I sat down with my friend Aaron to talk about a topic that so many struggle with but rarely discuss—porn. We unpacked why it’s not just about self-control but about deeper needs, how shame keeps people stuck, and what real freedom looks like. Aaron shared his personal journey, the science behind addiction, and practical steps for breaking free. Whether you’re deal
347. The Science of Sex: What No One Told You
Today we’re diving deep into a topic that honestly, we don’t talk about enough—the science of sex. Last time, we covered the basics of healthy sexuality, and today, we’re taking it further. Did you know that sex isn’t just about the physical? There’s a biological, emotional, and even spiritual design behind it. We’re talking hormones, bonding, God’s intention, and why culture often gets it complet
346. What Happens When The Church Ignores Sexuality?
Wow, this episode is going to be a powerful one! We're diving into a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—sex and sexuality. I know, I know, it’s not always an easy conversation, but that’s exactly why we need to have it. This month, we're unpacking what healthy sexuality looks like through a faith-filled lens, tackling big questions like intimacy, marriage, and even the tricky subje
345. Supercharge Your Productivity!
In this episode, we dive into the power of attention and how it shapes our productivity and outcomes. I share personal insights and practical strategies for staying focused, avoiding distractions, and prioritizing what truly matters. Whether it’s tackling the one task you've been procrastinating on or learning how to set boundaries to protect your mental energy, these tips are game-changers. P
344. How Assumptions Are Holding You Back—And What to Do Instead
Are your assumptions secretly running the show? In this episode, we’re diving into how assumptions shape our decisions and relationships—often without us even realizing it. I share personal stories, like my old red convertible days, and explore how our minds love shortcuts (hello, confirmation bias!). Together, we’ll unpack practical ways to identify and challenge those sneaky thoughts holding you
343. The Mind-Body Hack That Will Unlock Your Brain Power
This week on the podcast, we’re diving into the fascinating connection between our minds and bodies, exploring how intentional living can unlock your full potential. I’m sharing some of my favorite insights, practical tips, and even personal stories to show how things like sleep, exercise, and mindfulness can profoundly impact not just your mental clarity but your whole life. Plus, I’ll let you in
342. How to Keep Your Brain in Discovery Mode
Welcome back to the podcast! This week, we’re diving into an essential concept for the new year: moving from defense mode to discovery mode in our brains. I share insights from one of my favorite books, How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb, breaking down how our automatic and deliberate systems influence our responses to stress. We’ll explore practical ways to shift out of the fight, flight, or
341. Is Your Brain Filter Lying To You?
Hey friends, welcome to a brand-new year and an exciting new series on Intentional Living! This month, we're diving into how to live with purpose by understanding how our brains work and how that impacts our choices, behaviors, and faith journey. I'll be sharing practical, actionable steps to help you align your thoughts with God's design and set priorities that actually stick. So, whether you're
340. The Biggest Questions in Your 50s
Hey there! In this episode, we’re wrapping up our series on navigating life’s big decades with a dive into the 50s. I chat with Paula, a vibrant, wise, and courageous soul who shares her journey of transformation, from battling life’s curveballs to rediscovering herself in this new season. We talk about embracing change, taking risks, grieving past disappointments, and dreaming boldly, no matter y
339. The Biggest Questions in Your 40s
Hey friends! In this episode, I sat down with my incredible friend Michelle Raftery to dive into the unique challenges and joys of life in our 40s. We talk about discovering strengths, letting go of unnecessary expectations, and how grace and reflection have shaped our journey. Michelle shares her wisdom on finding freedom in embracing who we really are and the beauty of evolving through life’s se
338. The Biggest Questions in Your 30s
Are you navigating your 30s and wondering if you’re “doing it right”? Join me in this conversation all about the ups, downs, and edits of life in your 30s. I’m sitting down with Esther Garcia, a creative genius and a mom of three, as we dive into the challenges and victories of this transformative decade. From redefining friendships and career paths to embracing personal growth and faith, this epi
337. The Biggest Questions in Your 20s
In this episode, we dive deep into what it’s like navigating your 20s—the highs, the lows, and the wild unpredictability of it all. I’m joined by Katie, a third-year student at Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry, who shares what being 25 really feels like. We talk about embracing experiences, taking risks, and shaking off the pressure to have it all figured out. Whether you’re thriving, surviv
336. The Unseen Struggle: Listening for God’s Voice as a Hearer
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the unseen struggles of Hearers—those prophetic personalities who connect with God through words, phrases, and conversations. We’re talking about the challenges, like when you only get part of the story or feel like God’s gone silent. I share tips on building trust, stewarding what you’ve already heard, and leaning into gratitude to quiet the
335. The Unseen Struggle: Confidence in Knowing as a Knower
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the "knower" prophetic personality. Are you someone who just knows things deep in your spirit, without visions or emotional experiences? You’re not alone, and you’re not missing out! I share my journey as a knower, the challenges of feeling underrepresented in spiritual environments, and how to embrace your unique way of hearing God. We’ll also ta
334. The Unseen Struggle: Trusting Visions as a Seer
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we're diving into the unique challenges faced by those with a "seer" prophetic personality—those of us who receive visions, dreams, and images from God. If you've ever felt isolated, misunderstood, or even disillusioned because of the vision God has given you, this episode is for you. We'll talk about handling loneliness, the frustration of delayed dreams, and the
333. The Unseen Struggle: Navigating Emotions as a Feeler
Hey friends, it’s Havilah here! We’re kicking off a brand new series that dives deep into the unseen struggles of each of the Prophetic Personalities. This week, we’re focusing on “feelers” — those of us who connect with God through emotions and have a special sensitivity to His heart. I’ll be unpacking some common misunderstandings about feelers, and sharing why being in touch with your emotions
332. Are You In The Passenger Seat?
In today’s episode, we're diving into a big question: "Who's really in the driver's seat of your life?" We talk about the importance of stepping into a place of empowerment and hearing God’s voice clearly, instead of just coasting along in the passenger seat. I share some insights on what it means to live by the Spirit and take intentional steps to walk in sync with God, rather than just waiting f
331. The Dangers of Not Hearing God
Hey friends, in today's episode, we're diving deep into the dangers of not hearing God's voice. I know we often talk about how to hear His voice, but today, we’re flipping the script. What happens when we don't hear from Him? We explore some serious risks, like losing direction and purpose, falling into deception, and spiritual drift. I even share the story of David, who, despite being anointed an
330. Why People Don't Want To Hear God
In this episode, join me as I unpack why we sometimes resist hearing God's voice and how to reconnect with it, even after being hurt. I share some personal stories, including a tragic experience that challenged me, and talk about the struggle we face when our expectations don’t line up with reality. Plus, I’ll share some practical steps to deepen this journey.
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329. Get Off Spiritual Autopilot
In this episode, we dive into the heart of staying connected with God when life starts to feel like you’re just going through the motions. I totally get that feeling of knowing all the "right" things but missing that passion, that excitement for faith. Today, we’re breaking down the Lord’s Prayer, exploring how Jesus intended it to be a roadmap for a personal relationship, not just something to me
328. The Power and Purpose of Hearing God’s Voice
In this episode, I dive into the life-changing power of hearing God's voice. We’re kicking off a series called The Power and Purpose of Hearing God's Voice—exploring how tuning into God’s voice can transform every aspect of our lives. I share personal stories, including a recent conversation with my teenager about navigating life’s uncertainties, and how God’s supernatural guidance is available to
327. Emotional Health Q&A
Hey friends! In this episode, we’re wrapping up our emotional health series with something extra fun – answering your questions! I’m joined by one of my favorite people, Caitlyn Zick, and together, we dive into your questions about navigating transitions, building new communities, and even managing emotions during life changes. We laugh, get real, and share some personal insights on how to stay em
326. Victory In Your Emotions
Welcome back to Havilah's Podcast! Today, we’re diving into emotional health with the amazing Wendy Backlund. Wendy shares her powerful testimony of overcoming emotional bondage and learning to align her emotions with God’s truth. We talk about how emotions can either rule your life or reveal deeper belief issues, and Wendy offers practical tips for finding peace and joy in everyday life. If you'v
325. How to Decode Your Emotions
I’m super excited about today’s conversation because we have Jenna Zint joining us to dive into decoding our emotions. Jenna shares her wisdom on understanding the emotions we all experience but sometimes struggle to name or navigate. We’re unpacking how to recognize these emotions, what they’re telling us, and how to respond in healthier, more empowered ways. Jenna offers practical tips on how to
324. The Lie of Bad Emotions
Hey everyone! In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that’s often overlooked—emotional health. We've all been there, riding that rollercoaster of highs and lows, and sometimes feeling stuck or overwhelmed. Last month, we tackled mental health, and now we’re turning our focus to emotional health because, honestly, they go hand in hand. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and join me as w
323. A Conversation with a Spirit Filled Psychologist
Hey friends, it's Havilah! I’m so excited to wrap up this series where we've been diving deep into mental health and the church. I’m thrilled to have Dr. Stacey Lemmer with us, she’s a spirit-filled psychologist who’s going to help us merge the worlds of faith, mental health, and even medication. Dr. Stacey shares her journey into psychology and how she beautifully weaves her faith with clinical p
322. Breaking The Stigma: Christians and Medication
Hey friends! In this episode, I'm discussing the topic of Christians and medication with Sarah Bott. We also broke down some practical self-care tips. For example, one of us finds watching something funny every day is a great way to boost those endorphins! We chat about how self-care looks different for everyone—whether it's playing video games, cuddling a pet, or taking a walk. We’re all unique,
321. Faith and Practical Self-Care
In this episode, I'm joined by Chantelle Nelson, a therapeutic life coach who shares her journey of balancing motherhood, faith, and a professional life. We discuss the common struggle of feeling selfish for prioritizing self-care and how important it is to redefine self-care as essential, rather than indulgent. Chantelle offers insights on how to manage the demands of life without losing yourself
320. My Journey Through Postpartum Depression
Hey everyone! Welcome to the very first episode of our new series, Mental Health and The Church. For years, I've been getting emails and questions on the road about my mental health journey, especially my experience with postpartum depression. It's something we never really talked about in my faith community growing up, but I felt it was time to open up and share my story. This month, we're dedica
319. Leaving a Legacy: Impacting the World with Your Purpose
Today’s episode is a special one for me as I'm joined by my dad, Francis Anduso, to wrap up our “What Am I Doing With My Life” series. He’s not only been a huge influence in my life but also an incredible mentor in ministry. We dive into what it means to leave a legacy beyond material things, focusing instead on integrity and living a life true to God’s word. My dad shares his journey from a troub
318. Effectiveness Over Influence: A Path to Fulfillment
Hey everyone, welcome back to our What Am I Doing With My Life series! Today, we're diving deep into the effectiveness over influence and how both affect your purpose. I've always believed that it's not just about having a platform or a stage, but about living an effective life. We're going to explore what it truly means to be effective, and why that's so much more valuable than just having a big
317. Finding Your Voice: Unleashing Your Unique Purpose
Hey everyone! Today we dove into finding your unique voice in life with the incredible Lauren Vander Linden. Lauren shared how her life, juggling roles as a new mom, a business leader at a Fortune 250 company, and an author led her to discover and share her story of forgiveness and freedom from bitterness. In her book, "I Want to Move On," Lauren gives practical steps towards healing and growth. S
316. Building Blocks: Discovering Your Purpose With God
Today, we're diving into a topic that's super close to my heart – discovering our purpose with God. Our series, "What Am I Doing with My Life?" explores those moments when we ask ourselves, "Is this what I'm supposed to be doing?" I've asked myself that many times, and I'm sure you have too. If you're not questioning your path, you might be on autopilot! I’m joined by my friend Mark Hilliard who i
315. What Am I Doing With My Life
Hey friends! Today, we're kicking off a new series called "What Am I Doing with My Life?" where we'll dive into discovering purpose and finding meaning in our lives. In this episode, we delve into the big questions about purpose and calling. We'll explore how to recognize that you're in the right place at the right time, understand why you're here, and live out your purpose confidently. Remember,
314. 5 Signs That Leave You Vulnerable to Moral Failure
In the final episode of the series "Navigating Moral Failure in the Church," I'm talking about the five signs that lead to moral failure. I talk through the importance of self-awareness and proactive measures in protecting your own integrity. The five signs are:
1. Small compromises
2. Pride
3. Driving solo (going alone)
4. Living out of brokenness
5. Living or working out of a place of exhaustio
313. Overcoming Church Hurt
Today I’m talking with my friend Debbie Mayes about her journey through her husband's affair and how the church reacted. Debbie shares insights on faith, healing, and the importance of compassionate care. Join us, leave comments, ask questions, and don't miss next week's continuation of our series on Moral Failure in the Church.
I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You
312. How Do We Protect Ourselves From Moral Failure?
Today Caitlin Zick and I are talking about the rise of moral failure incidents in the church and their impact on faith communities. By sharing our experiences, we hope to shed light on creating a safer, more accountable church culture. Success in ministry shouldn’t come at the cost of personal integrity. This conversation aims to empower us to build trust and justice in our own communities. Thanks
311. Navigating Moral Failure in the Church
Hey friends, this month I'm staring a new series called Navigating Moral Failure in the Church. In this episode, I dive into the tough reality of what happens when the people we look up to in the church mess up. It's a hard topic, but I want to discuss the biblical perspective as well as what we can do to help prevent it.
I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can wat
310. Working and Leading with Friends
In this episode, Jenna Zint and I share how we've balanced friendship and professional collaboration over nearly a decade of leadership. We talk about setting boundaries, communicating openly, and keeping work from overshadowing personal relationships. Join us for some practical insights and personal stories that will help you thrive in leadership while maintaining strong friendships!
I hope you e
309. Answering Your Questions on Women in Leadership
This week we’re looking at your questions! For this episode in my Women in Leadership series, I’m joined by Caitlin Zick as we discuss our different experiences as women in church leadership.
I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/3pc1t6uaTtc
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308. Embracing Motherhood and Leadership in the Same Season
I’m continuing my Women in Leadership series, but this week I’m joined by Libby Gordon. We're discussing what we’ve learned about balancing Motherhood and Leadership to best help our children.
I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/UcTbMeBQd18
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307. Women Leading in the Church
This series we’re talking about Women in Leadership. We're not just going to talk about who gets to lead but more about how we can lead with true purpose, the way God wants us to. It's all about being a servant first, which is something both men and women are meant to do.
We’ll also look back at some incredible women from the early days of the church—like the Samaritan woman and Anna the prophete
306. How To Create A Core Group Of Friends
Hey friends! Today I'm excited to be talking with my core group about some of the practicals of creating your own core group of friends. We'll be sharing our own stories on how the group got started, what we’ve tried that has or hasn’t worked, and what we recommend for those starting your own group.
I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: htt
305. Cultivating Deep Adult Friendships with Havilah’s Core Group
Hey there, friends! In this episode of my podcast, I'm excited to chat with my core group and dive right into the heart of adult friendships. We'll be sharing our own stories about how we came together as a close-knit group, the real effort it takes to build those deep connections, and how our friendships have grown and changed over time.
We'll talk about the things we do to help our friendships
304. Answering your Questions about Adult Friendships
Today I’m answering YOUR questions about adult friendships. I’m joined by Abi Soliman as part of my series, The Art of Adult Friendships.
I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/yfFNieCYj0M
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