Mind Your Own Motherhood
Mind Your Own Motherhood is a faith-centered podcast for moms navigating the ups and downs of motherhood. Hosted by Dae Hayes, a mom of three under three, it shares real stories, expert tips, and faith-filled encouragement. Episodes focus on soul care, confidence, and helping moms find their voice. The show emphasizes positive maternal mental health and embracing identity beyond motherhood. It is produced by The Mom Bar Podcast Network.
Episodes
Motherhood Requires Obedience and Surrender | How to Not Be Everything to Everybody
Some seasons of motherhood cannot be managed—they must be surrendered.If you’re exhausted trying to control every outcome, this episode is your reminder that peace can be found in obedience, trust, and releasing unrealistic pressure.✨ Ready for peace in this season? 👉 Download the MYOM Reset Bundle https://payhip.com/b/kE71F * 🌿 What’s Included:* 🎧 Private Podcast Playlist* 💌 Guided Reflection + P
Activate Your Motherhood| The Key to Not Losing Yourself in Motherhood
💛 Welcome to Mind Your Own MotherhoodAs I celebrate my new bundle of joy during maternity leave, I wanted to gift you a bundle of rest too.✨ Special Offer: The Mind Your Own Motherhood Reset Process — $27A gentle, faith-filled reset to help you audit, align, and apply in this season of motherhood.👉 Download now for just $27: https://payhip.com/order?link=kE71F* 🌿 What’s Included:* 🎧 Private Podcas
Work the Worth of Your Wisdom | Finding Value in Your Role as a Mom
You’ve learned so much through birth, motherhood, pain, growth, and healing. But are you using that wisdom confidently?Today we’re talking about trusting yourself again, valuing what life taught you, and walking boldly in the wisdom motherhood gave you.✨ Need support stepping into this next version of you? Grab The Mind Your Own Motherhood Reset Process 👉 Download now for just $27: https://payhip.
I Heard God Speak, Now What? | Taking the First Step After Clarity
💛 Welcome to Mind Your Own MotherhoodAs I celebrate my new bundle of joy during maternity leave, I wanted to gift you a bundle of rest too.✨ Special Offer: The Mind Your Own Motherhood Reset Process — $27A gentle, faith-filled reset to help you audit, align, and apply in this season of motherhood.👉 Download now for just $27: https://payhip.com/order?link=kE71F* 🌿 What’s Included:* 🎧 Private Podcas
Ask Me Anything: Motherhood Changed Me! - What Version of Motherhood is This?
Motherhood changes you fast. One day you know yourself, the next day you're wondering who this new woman is. In this Ask Me Anything episode, we talk honestly about identity shifts, emotional changes, and navigating maternity leave when everything feels unfamiliar.If you’ve been asking, Who am I now? this conversation is for you.✨ Ready to rebuild confidence and clarity in motherhood? Grab The
You’re Not Bad, You’re Busy | How to Have a Soft Life as a Mom
💛 Welcome to Mind Your Own MotherhoodAs I celebrate my new bundle of joy during maternity leave, I wanted to gift you a bundle of rest too.✨ Special Offer: The Mind Your Own Motherhood Reset Process — $27A gentle, faith-filled reset to help you audit, align, and apply in this season of motherhood.👉 Download now for just $27: https://payhip.com/order?link=kE71F🌿 What’s Included:* 🎧 Private Podcast
Rest vs Resolution: Trusting God Without Answers
What do you do when God calls you to rest instead of giving you answers?In this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, we’re talking about:✨ What it looks like to wrestle with sitting still before God✨ Learning to abide in God’s presence instead of striving✨ How burnout and grief pushed me into a season of rest✨ Leaving my job and processing life transitions✨ Why receiving from God is just as import
God Math: How God Multiplies What’s Already in Your Hands
What if the answer to your provision is already in your hands?In this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, we explore ✨ The story of Elisha and the oil that kept pouring✨ Recognizing the gifts already in your hands✨ Trusting God with the resources you have today✨ The importance of inviting your children into your faith journey✨ Why community matters when you’re building something newI also share f
Mary vs. Martha: Do You Have to Work to Earn Rest?
Do you feel like you have to work hard before you’re allowed to rest?In this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, we’re unpacking the story of Mary and Martha and what it really teaches about rest, identity, and Christian motherhood.If you’re a busy mom who:Struggles with burnoutFeels guilty restingBelieves you must finish everything before you can sit downLives in “doing mode” instead of “being m
The Proverbs 31 Woman Was Known for Wisdom
Do you ever feel less valuable because you’re not contributing financially as a stay-at-home mom?In this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, we’re talking about identity in Christ, biblical worth, and what God actually says about your value — especially in seasons where you’re not earning income.If you’ve struggled with:Feeling unseen as a SAHMQuestioning your worth in marriageComparing your cont
Are You Working in Your Own Strength? God’s Permissive Will & Control in Motherhood
Are you in a sit-down season and wondering if this is God’s will… or your own delay?In this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, we’re talking about God’s permissive will, working in your own strength, and the real reason control feels so hard to let go of in Christian motherhood.If you’ve been:Struggling with surrenderFeeling frustrated in a pause seasonQuestioning whether you’re striving instead
Walk a Mile in My Panties
This week’s episode is one of the most sacred ones I’ve ever shared — a guided devotional for mothers who are grieving loss and waiting for hope to return.Not to fix your pain — but to sit with you in it, and help you find God’s voice in the stillness again.Scripture Meditation:Psalm 34:18 — “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”👣 Join Me at Walk a Mile
Daily Declarations for Moms: Speak Life, Find Peace, and Stay Rooted in Faith
Special Intentions Episode: A Faith-Filled Reset for MomsThis isn’t your typical podcast episode—this is a holy pause.In this special Mind Your Own Motherhood experience, Dae Hayes walks you through a powerful rhythm of daily declarations, affirmations, and manifestations designed for mothers who are seeking clarity, calm, and connection with God. 🎧 This episode will help you:Begin your day ground
Grieving Motherhood Expectations
Podcast Crossover: ChOP w/ JAM x Mind Your Own MotherhoodIn this powerful crossover episode between CHOP and Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes opens up about the quiet grief that many mothers carry—the loss of the life they imagined, the vision they prayed for, and the version of themselves they thought they’d be by now.Through honest reflection and heartfelt faith, Dae explores what it means to
Motherhood, Mental Health, & Ministry: How God Can Use Infant Loss to Restore Motherhood
In this raw & transformative episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, host Dae Hayes and guest Iesha Gee share their shared journeys through motherhood, infant loss, and the holding onto the dreams and promises from God. They discuss the the impact of grief on faith, the need for community support and how God uses our most painful moments to transform us. Iesha opens up about her experience with i
How to Practically Rest as a Busy Mom of Multiples
In this honest and vulnerable episode, Dae Hayes shares the truth about the challenges of being a mom of multiples under the age of importance and what she practices to ensure that she can reset and serve her family. Dae focuses on the concept of the Sabbath as a time for rejuvenation . Join Dae as she shares her personal journey of learning to rest God’s way, inviting her children into age approp
How to Stop Feeling Lost and Celebrate Yourself in Motherhood
In this soul-nourishing episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes and guest Sarah Johnson dive into the often unspoken challenges of motherhood, especially when life doesn’t unfold the way we imagined. Together, they reflect on the power of grieving unmet expectations, rediscovering personal identity, and building a deep relationship with God that sustains you through major transitions.If you
How to Surrender to God When You Feel Like Motherhood is Making You Missing Out
In this heart-centered episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes invites listeners into a conversation about what it really means to surrender to God's plan—especially when life feels like it's moving on without you. Dae shares how true peace and relaxation aren’t found in escape—but in the presence of God.If you’ve ever wrestled with the fear of missing out, questioned God’s timing,
Can I Be a Good Mom and Still Chase My Dreams?
In this refreshing episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dr. Allison Harris Welcher joins the conversation to share her honest journey of motherhood, ambition, and authenticity. As a mom of two young boys and a leader in education, Dr. Welcher reflects on the tension between being present at home and pursuing her professional purpose—and how she’s learned to thrive in both. This episode is for the
IYDKLDK: How to Get the Right Answers from God
In this deeply reflective episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes unpacks what it means to seek truth in a world overflowing with opinions, advice, and information overload. Through the lens of Eve’s story in Genesis, this episode explores how the desire for knowledge outside of God’s will can lead to confusion, overwhelm, and even misalignment with our true calling—especially in motherhood
Can I Really Homeschool and Still Be Myself? Featuring Elan Page
In this powerful conversation, Dae Hayes is joined by special guest Elan Page, a mom who is navigating the world of homeschooling with grace, grit, and God’s guidance. This episode is for the mom wondering, “Can I homeschool my child and still chase my dreams?” or “How do I prioritize self-care while being present in my parenting?”Elan gets real about the financial and emotional realities of homes
How Do I Trust God When Motherhood Feels Overwhelming?
In this heartfelt episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes shares a deeply personal reflection inspired by the worship song "Canvas and Clay"—a powerful reminder that nothing in our motherhood journey is wasted. Whether you're navigating sleepless nights, identity shifts, or mental exhaustion, this conversation reminds you that God is still shaping you.Through the imagery of po
CHOP — Check On Your People
What to Expect:In this conversation, Host Jarkeshia McGahee, a resilient widow, mother, and woman of faith discusses the intersection of mental health and faith. JAM emphasizes the importance of checking in on oneself and others. She shares personal experiences of navigating grief, loss, and the unpredictability of life, while highlighting how God’s purpose prevails despite our plans. The discussi
Navigating the Journey of Motherhood After Infant Loss Black Maternal Health Week
What to Expect:In this conversation, the speakers discuss the challenges and joys of motherhood, particularly in the context of loss and trauma. They emphasize the importance of community, faith, and personal growth while navigating the complexities of parenting. The discussion also highlights the significance of storytelling and writing as tools for healing and empowerment among mothers.Follow Ca
The Ugly Side of Obedience: When Yes Leads to Close Doors & Disappointment
SummaryIn this episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes shares her journey as a mother and entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of mental health alongside motherhood. She discusses her experiences with obedience, the sovereignty of God, and the challenges of navigating expectations in her faith journey. Dae reflects on the significance of trusting God's plan, even in the face of reje
Obedience & Surrender: Raising Babies While Standing on Business
Grab Your Ticket to the Create, Bless, Repeat Summit (April 23rd - 25th* )for content creators and podcasters who are moms. Think you are too busy to start podcasting? Not sure where to start on your podcasting journey? Podcasting is an opportunity to amplify your voice and elevate God's story for your life.https://themombar.my.canva.site/create-bless-repeat-registration-pageJoin us for the FR
Motherhood Mind Dump: What's in My Notes App
Grab Your Ticket to the Create, Bless, Repeat Summit (April 23rd - 25th* )for content creators and podcasters who are moms. Think you are too busy to start podcasting? Not sure where to start on your podcasting journey? Podcasting is an opportunity to amplify your voice and elevate God's story for your life.https://themombar.my.canva.site/create-bless-repeat-registration-pageJoin us for the FREE s
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It’s not God it’s you— checklist, correction, and commission
Monotony in our checklist m makes us become robots to our calling as mothers. When things become overwhelming we can't get to our purpose because we are idolizing our roles instead of leaving room to get strategy on who we are created to be. In this episode your ears will be blessed to hear:
Why toy inventory is not a priority in your mothering.
Comparison from mommy influencers isn't
Motherhood is a Mother -- Birthing The Mom Bar Replay
Community is essential to motherhood, because you were not created to do this alone. There's so much about motherhood that I wish my mom would've told me before motherhood but you don't know what you don't know. In this episode Dae shares:
#1 necessity to motherhood
The biggest requirement to motherhood is humility
Every conversation about motherhood that I wish my mother wo
Is it Really possible to have it all in marriage, business, and motherhood? - She is Uncompromising Book Review: Tatum Temia
This book review is focusing on Tatum Temia's She is Uncompromising. The Mom Bar has a quarterly highlight of BIPOC Christian women based authors to enhance the conversation and bring to the forefront the voices that are sometimes most marginalized in the Christian community. Tatum Temia is a mother, wife, CEO, and so much more, in her second book release she leaves it all on the table letting
The Shoe Doesn’t Fit
Minding Your Motherhood is more than just going to therapy it is all about choosing to pour into yourself so that you have an overflow for everyone else around you. Creating the boundaries to navigate and define what type of mother you want to be for yourself can be challenging. All of the opinions from family and friends, plus the Pinterest suggestions, and more can leave you feeling less confide
Not My Mama's Faith - Red Lip Theology, Candice Marie Benbow Book Review
This book review is focusing on Candice Marie Benbow's Red Lip Theology. The Mom Bar has a quarterly highlight of BIPOC Christian women based authors to enhance the conversation and bring to the forefront the voices that are sometimes most marginalized in the Christian community. Candice is a theologian, feminist, an advocate for healing and wholeness and an educator. In her first book release
Secret Sauce to Activating Vision as a Mother
There's more to your vision than this one season that you are currently in. As you develop and evolve as a mother your ages and stages will require different parts of you to show up. Figuring out how to do that doesn't have to be done alone. In community, this episode explores:
How to access the blueprint for success specifically tailored to you
The benefits of partial vision and progre
Get off the Struggle Bus, Mama!
Life is full of transitions, some that we pray and prepare for and others that just hit us like a ton of bricks. No matter which transition you come to face in your womanhood journey it is how you approach them, your perspective, and evaluating your desires that will make the difference on the other side of the tranisition. The biggest transitions, motherhood and marriage, allowed Dae to ground he
Priorities, procrastination, and perfection
Starting new things in a society that expects for your first try to be perfect will lead you to not doing the thing that you were created to do. This journey of podcasting is new and The Mom Bar may not have all the pieces together but done is absolutely better than perfect. The grave is the one place that has the most unfinished business, dead dreams, and ideas. Dae shares some of her biggest fea
Put a B in Front of It
Surprises for a Type A, overplanning, retired perfectionist, who is also a stay at home are not usually taken too well, however that's why there's a moment where you have to stop pulling out your hair, unlock the bathroom door from hiding from the kids and your husband, and finally surrender to the BIG BIG God that loves you and has plans for you. You weren't created to figure it all o
It’s For You
You were not created to move in isolation, mama. The nature of the world has compartmentalized us and left us feeling more alone and less connected. Scrolling on social media seeing the perfect pictures of your favorite mommy influencer while you are covered in spit up and your toddler throwing tantrums leaves you feeling less confident. Honestly, you are only getting the highlights of their life
Panda-momium
Not sure if it’s pregnancy insomnia but Dae has so many things on her mind that she figured she would upload how she is managing the launch of a new business and ministry, going into the last 60 days of pregnancy, and the beauty of getting strategy from God. Expect to be blessed in this episode with:
What Dae learned from pandas and elephants
The unique creation and assignment of human moth
Motherhood is Magic: Every Day Magic Book Review - Mattie James
Introduction- Mattie James
1 of the 2 influencers I followed on IG that I still connect with full time influencer, mama of 3, wife, lifestyle blogger, and Youtube Vlogger She teaches influencers what she has done She was Miss Liberia I also adore her sister Maya Elious
Why it took me forever to finish the book — I thought it was superficial and a commodified self-care version but it is not!
I Didn’t Ask for All of This --- The Fine Print of Motherhood
Raise your hand if you knew what you were getting into when you signed up for motherhood. Every mama should have their hands tied behind their back because if motherhood was a contract, most of us didn't read the fine print. There's no blueprint to motherhood and in this episode Dae Hayes explores how her journey of motherhood felt like it began with her being a martyr which she didn'
Generational Promises and Legacy
Let's get away from carrying the burden of generational curses and begin to unlock the generational promises. God’s word is not just what He does but who He is.
God is the only thing that proves hisself against hisself. We always say "On God” or “On my mama” because of high reverence and regard to our knowledge of how holy, unshakeable, and faithful those two are so we need to begin to ac
Just Get in The Room
As a mom you can find yourself wanting to lock yourself in the closet sometimes just to get a quiet moment and it's not because you don't love the family you get to serve and love but because the heaviness applied to motherhood. Carving out time to pour into yourself should come before you have a mental load or break down. In fact, building in time to pour into yourself consistently sets a
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