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Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys

Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys

Truly Eleanor 67 Episodes Jul 6, 2026

Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys is a podcast for single women over 40 who want to stop wasting time on emotionally unavailable men and build healthy, mutual love. Host Truly Eleanor is an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience. She helps listeners stop chasing, stop doubting themselves, and start choosing relationships that feel calm and connected. The show blends emotional healing with practical dating advice so women can trust themselves, spot red flags early, and move toward lasting love.

Episodes

Episode #66 Why You Go Quiet in Relationships After 40 (Even When You Never Do Anywhere Else)
Episode #66 Why You Go Quiet in Relationships After 40 (Even When You Never Do Anywhere Else) Jul 6, 2026 00:22:34 You know that feeling when a conversation ends and somewhere on the drive home you think, I should have said that.For my guest today, that kind of staying quiet went on for seventeen years. She built a career, a marriage, a family. She thought she was good at reading people. Then her husband asked for a divorce and she realized the one person she had stopped listening to was herself.If you've
Episode #65: Dating After 40: How to Become a Woman Who Trusts What She Feels
Episode #65: Dating After 40: How to Become a Woman Who Trusts What She Feels Jun 22, 2026 00:42:01 My guest, Emma Ferris, had all the tools. She was literally a nervous system coach. And she still handed over six figures to a man she loved who turned out to be a convicted con artist.Her body was sending signals the whole time, but her brain had very convincing reasons to keep going anyway.If you've ever looked back at a relationship and thought "I felt it and I still didn't stop,&q
Ep #64 Dating After 40: 5 Habits That Are Quietly Drowning Out Your Intuition
Ep #64 Dating After 40: 5 Habits That Are Quietly Drowning Out Your Intuition Jun 1, 2026 00:12:01 Your intuition hasn't abandoned you. It hasn't gone quiet. Something specific is drowning it out, and until you name it, you'll keep second-guessing yourself right out of your own best decisions.This episode is for any woman over 40 who's wondering why she can't trust herself in dating anymore. You used to know things. You used to have good instincts. And somehow, somewhere along the way, all that
Ep #63 From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust: How to Break the Unavailable Love Pattern After 40
Ep #63 From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust: How to Break the Unavailable Love Pattern After 40 May 25, 2026 00:32:02 You already know you keep choosing unavailable men. What you might not know yet is why.My guest this week, Pi Venus Winslow, spent years chasing connections that left her with a broken heart and no real answers. What she eventually figured out stopped her cold: the problem wasn't the men. It was a pattern of self-abandonment so deeply wired in that it felt completely normal. Familiar, even.If
Ep #62: Is That Your Gut or Your Fear? A Body-Based Guide for Women Dating After 40
Ep #62: Is That Your Gut or Your Fear? A Body-Based Guide for Women Dating After 40 May 18, 2026 00:12:44 You've Googled it. You've journaled about it. You've asked your therapist.And you still can't tell if what you're feeling is your intuition or just that old anxiety doing its thing again.In Episode 62 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I'm giving you a clear, body-based way to tell them apart, in real time, before you send the text, before you book the second dat
Ep #61 Why Intuitive Women Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men After 40
Ep #61 Why Intuitive Women Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men After 40 May 11, 2026 00:18:01 You can know something 150% and still talk yourself out of it.This override is the central reason you keep ending up in the same place, with the same guy, in a different sweater.In this Season 6 premiere of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I'm talking about what's really going on when you're dating after 40, doing all the work, and still finding yourself here again.I share th
Ep #60 The Identity Shift That Changes Everything About How You Date
Ep #60 The Identity Shift That Changes Everything About How You Date Apr 27, 2026 00:17:37 You've been doing the work. The journaling, the reflecting, the quiet moments where something clicked that you can't quite explain yet. This episode is your chance to feel how far you've actually come.In Episode 60 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we're closing out Season Five with a full-circle look at the identity shift that's been building all season. The shift
Ep #59 Ready for Love After 40? Or Just Waiting to Feel Ready?
Ep #59 Ready for Love After 40? Or Just Waiting to Feel Ready? Apr 20, 2026 00:12:54 You're not hiding behind healing anymore. You're not stuck in the waiting room. You're actually at the door.And somehow... you're still not walking through it.Here's a clue that something has quietly shifted. The guys who once had you glued to your phone, analysing every text, every pause, every "seen at 9pm but no reply until Tuesday"  they're starting to feel ex
Ep #58 Dating After 40: The Subtle Mistake That Keeps Love at a Distance
Ep #58 Dating After 40: The Subtle Mistake That Keeps Love at a Distance Apr 13, 2026 00:18:20 If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done the healing work, raised your standards, and promised yourself “never again” but now find yourself feeling guarded, cautious, and a little closed off,  this episode is for you.In Episode 58 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about the subtle shift from having standards to building emotional walls that quietly block the connection y
Ep #57 Dating After 40: The Hidden Reason You Never Feel Ready for Love
Ep #57 Dating After 40: The Hidden Reason You Never Feel Ready for Love Mar 30, 2026 00:16:48 If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done all the things: therapy, journaling, inner child work, energy clearing, and you still feel like, “I’m just not quite ready yet”… this episode is for you.In Episode 57 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about a pattern that looks like growth, but feels like you’re stuck in a waiting room with no one calling your name.Because at some
Ep #56 Dating After 40: How to Stay Open and Still Protect Your Heart
Ep #56 Dating After 40: How to Stay Open and Still Protect Your Heart Mar 23, 2026 00:18:35 If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve built a strong, independent life… but still find yourself attracting emotionally unavailable men or feeling completely drained by dating, this episode is for you.In Episode 56 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about a shift that sounds simple, but can feel wildly uncomfortable in real life: how to stay open to love without abandoning y
Ep #55 Emotional Safety Is the New Chemistry in Dating After 40
Ep #55 Emotional Safety Is the New Chemistry in Dating After 40 Mar 16, 2026 00:20:10 If you’re dating after 40 and the only connections that feel exciting are the ones that leave you anxious, overthinking everything, and wondering where you stand, this episode will change the way you understand attraction.In Episode 55 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re redefining chemistry and exploring why the “spark” you’ve been chasing might actually be your nervous system rea

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