
Bisexual Killjoy +
Bisexual Killjoy + is a companion podcast offering bonus and video episodes for listeners interested in bisexual and Bi+ topics. It continues the conversations from the main Bisexual Killjoy show with extra material. The content centers on bisexual identity, community, and related experiences.
Episodes

S6E4: What Do You Mean? Definitions of Bisexuality in Research
Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks about all things bisexual (pansexual, omnisexual, plurisexual, and overall bi+ness) because bisexuality isn’t a phase; it’s a phenomenon. Get even more Bisexual Killjoy content by joining our Patreon and following us on Instagram. This week we’re taking a closer look at what researchers mean

S6E3: The Gemini Effect: Bi+ Women Are Suspicious
Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks about all things bisexual (pansexual, omnisexual, plurisexual, and overall bi+ness) because bisexuality isn’t a phase; it’s a phenomenon. Get even more Bisexual Killjoy content by joining our Patreon and following us on Instagram. This week we’re unpacking "Sincere But Suspect," a new study o

S6E2: How to Convince Your Brain You’re Queer Enough
We promised you cutting-edge research, and you know the killjoys make good on their promises. That’s right, we’re discussing the recent March 2026 article, “From Self-Stigmatization to Self-Affirmation: Plurisexual People’s Experiences with Internalized Sexual Stigma and Positive Identity Attitudes,” by Clara McNamee, J. Roy Gillis & Abby L. Goldstein, published in the Journal of Bisexuality.

S6E1: Who Gets Counted? Why Bisexuality Needs Research
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! Online “discourse” is at an all-time high, and it’s about time we started building a solid foundation. Season 6 is here to gather the skills and tools you need so we can get to work!You know us and our love for a good book, research article, and well-explained methods. Over the next 9 episodes, we hope to instill some of that same love in you by going over the lat

S5E9: Because I Love You
We’re winding down this season on love, and what better way to bid you farewell than with a love letter? This episode is a walk down memory lane of all the nooks and crannies love encompasses. We’re so grateful for bell hook’s guidance with her book, All About Love, and all of you who took the time to read and reflect with us. We do this work because we love you.Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, a

S5E8: Bi+ Community as Revolution
We don’t shut up about Bi+ community, and this season sure wasn’t going to be the exception. We’re firm believers that Bi+ community is the life-hack we all need to embrace so we can feel confident in our queerness and bring forth the Bi+ revolution we didn’t know we needed. Sit with Bailey and Jace in this episode that exists as a living love letter to Bi+ communities around the world.Hosted by b
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[PREVIEW] Give It to Me Bi: How do I hold on to my identity?
At this point, we're professional bisexuals. Give It To Me Bi is a bi-weekly advice column where your favorite Bisexual Killjoys answer all your questions about being bi+.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Killjoy Habits: Bring the Energy
Jace reflects on what it takes to be in it for the long haul.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!

S5E7: Plurisexuals and the Myth of Platonic Purity
Are friendships important? Can you be friends with folks of the genders they’re attracted to? Can bisexuals even HAVE friends? These questions have plagued us since we came out, and now we’re here to share our answers with you. Friendships are crucial for us to foster healthy interdependence and learn how to love selflessly. In this intimate conversation with Bailey and Jace, we cover all the basi
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[PREVIEW] Give It to Me Bi: Does This Even Count?
At this point, we're professional bisexuals. Give It To Me Bi is a bi-weekly advice column in your favorite Bisexual Killjoys answer all your questions about being bi+.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Bi+ Bridgerton, Pedro Pascal, and the Partner Problem
Bailey talks about the exhausting cultural urge to sort everyone into straight or gay.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!

S5E6: Shared Liminality of Love - A Reflection on Bi+ Polyamory
For a lot of polyamorous people, being Bi+ is an important part of their lived experience. In this episode, our hosts expand on how both polyamory and Bi+ness are philosophically intertwined. From unpacking imposed relationship norms, to celebrating the abundance of love that surrounds us, this episode holds beautiful insights on what it means to nurture yourself so you can gift more to others.Jac
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[PREVIEW] Give It to Me Bi: Am I just allergic to heteronormativity?
At this point, we're professional bisexuals. Give It To Me Bi is a bi-weekly advice column in your favorite Bisexual Killjoys answer all your questions about being bi+.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Nobody is just "a little bit bi," But Everyone is Bi+
Jace reflects on the "overlap" of Bi erasure and Bi resistance.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!

S5E5: Bi+ Marriage & the Messy Middle
The question that abounds in Bi+ subreddits and support groups is: If you’re already married, does being Bi+ even matter? This episode, we give this question the attention it deserves. From opening your marriage to Bi+ community involvement, we dive deep into the most common pain points for our married Bi+ listeners.Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera
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[PREVIEW] Give It to Me Bi: Am I Too Picky to be Bi?
At this point, we're professional bisexuals. Give It To Me Bi is a bi-weekly advice column in your favorite Bisexual Killjoys answer all your questions about being bi+.Get access to all Advice Column Bonus Episodes AND much more by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Managing Expectations (or: You Are Not Entitled to My Labor)
Bailey reflects on organizing, boundaries, and when to tell people to stfu.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!

S5E4: The Harm in Silence & Isolation - Intimate Partner Violence with Katherine Wela Bogen
This season is all about love, and one of the most important lessons we need to learn is how love cannot co-exist with abuse. Over a third of women in the US have been victims of intimate partner violence, and the rates for Bi+ women are even more worrisome. To help us navigate the stats, we’re lucky to welcome Katie W. Bogen as our guest. In her own words, Katherine Wela Bogen is “first, a storyt
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[PREVIEW] Give It to Me Bi: I Have a Crush on a Friend. What Should I Do?
At this point, we're professional bisexuals. Give It To Me Bi is a bi-weekly advice column in your favorite Bisexual Killjoys answer all your questions about being bi+.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Bi+ People Were Here
What Creating Change taught Bailey about belonging, erasure, and showing up anyway.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!

S5E3: Monogamy Didn’t Make Me Choose a Side
Being a Bi+ monogamous person isn’t the oxymoron it seems to be. In this episode, Bailey shares about what it means to be monogamous while still holding on to her Bi+ identity. From defining monogamy to sharing our favorite romance gestures, this is the episode where we prove the biphobes wrong.Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy tal

S5E2: Bi+ Single & Ready to Mingle
Dating as Bi+ person comes with its own set of challenges. In this episode, we dive into what it means to be on the dating scene as a Bi+ person, and the role of self-love. Part philosophical musics, part practical dating tips, this episode is the Bi+ dating perspective you didn’t know you needed.Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy t

S5E1: Bi+ Love in a Time of Terror
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! The world outside our windows gets more terrifying by the hour, and we aren’t here to pretend it’s not happening. Season 5 explores a crucial element we are missing in today’s world: Love.Grounding ourselves in bell hook’s longing for a more loving society, we begin this season by asking key questions about love. What is love? How do we know love? What does it mea
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[PREVIEW] I didn't feel guilty about being a killjoy until...
It's been a hell of a week.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Challenge Accepted: Plan a Wedding in 10 Days or Less
Jace tells the tale of how they got married with all the juicy details 🥂Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] When Small Starts Lead to Big Rewards
Jace reflects on their beginnings as a Bi+ educator.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] "Just leave the 'sexual' out of it"
Jace reflects on why palatability isn't worth it.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] "I prefer not to be labeled, okay?"
Bi+ euphemisms in Jace's favorite nostalgia shows.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] We Need to Talk About Jojo... Again
And why we can't minimize the queer experience.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Before Pride Ends
We need to talk about Jojo Siwa, Fletcher, and coming out as Bi+Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Being a Killjoy Across the Pond
Jace has another life update, and this time, it involves a plane.Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Killjoy Habits: On Clarity
Oh, it's also my birthday 🎂Get access to all Bonus Episodes AND their written blog posts by supporting our work as a Podcast Enthusiast on our Patreon!
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[PREVIEW] Heated Rivalry, Ilya Rozanov, and the Radical Act of Being Bi on Screen
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[PREVIEW] Married, Monogamous, Still Bisexual
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[PREVIEW] Arriving Late to My Own Bi+ History

S4E9: What We Carry, What We Create
Help Bisexual Killjoy by filling out this quick survey.We're closing this chapter the only way we know how: by looking backward, forward, and directly at ourselves. This week, we reflect on what this season of bi+ history, legacy, and movement-building has taught us and what it asks of us next. From archives and elders to Discord chats and living rooms, this season reminded us that bisexual histor

S4E8: Living in the Future with Give It To Me Bi
Help Bisexual Killjoy by filling out this quick survey.Teamwork makes the Bi+ dream work! This week, we’re diving into a fellow Bi+ advocacy project, the Give it To Me Bi podcast. Co-host Steve joins us to reflect on the outcomes of meeting a fellow kindred spirit that’s ready to do some meaningful Bi+ change. From volunteer groups to online community building, we’re discovering all the overlaps t

S4E7: Bi+ Storytelling Across Generations with Bi Cities!
By now we know that Bi+ people are everywhere, but are there Bi+ Cities? This week, we’re getting all the tips and tricks for building a Bi+ talk show that lasts for over a decade! With project leaders, Dr. Marge Charmoli, Dr. Anita Kozan, and Bill Burleson spill the details on what it’s like to run a cable talk show on Bi+ topics. Join us in this Alice-through-the-looking-glass moment as we chat

S4E6: Bi+ History in Motion with Martin Rawlings-Fein
Finding and celebrating Bi+ media is something that speaks deeply to the hearts of the Bi+ community. Today, we’re digging deep on what it means to explore Bi+ stories through on-screen adaptations with guest Martin Rawlings-Fein. From volunteering with BABPN to the founding of BiCONIC, we reflect on what it means to bring together Bi+ history, art, and activism.Martin Rawlings-Fein (MAR-tin RAW-l

S4E5: Building Bi+ Power in the ‘90s with Barry Saiff
Bi+ people are everywhere, and we know networks are crucial to our survival. This week, we’re diving into the history of BiNet USA, and the ripple effects of Bi+ collectives with our guest, Barry Saiff. From reflections on what makes an organizing team run smoothly, to tips for Bi+ fundraising, we’re determined to figure out what makes or breaks Bi+ collectives over the long term.Barry Saiff has s

S4E4: Making Bi+ History in the UK with Jen Yockney
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! This week, we’re exploring what it takes to begin a Bi+ history-keeping project and keep it going with the founder of Bi Community News, Jen Yockney. With stories of bridging tradition with contemporary times, and fabulous fashion tips, Jen brings laughter and joy to the long process of Bi+ history keeping. Together, we navigate multiple facets of the journey, fro

S4E3: Nothing New: Bi+ Erasure in History with Mel Reeve
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! This week, we’re digging into the politics of memory, archives, and erasure with Mel Reeve of the Bi History Project. Mel’s work shines a light on the stories that have been fragmented, forgotten, or deliberately erased, making sure bi+ people are recognized in the past as much as in the present.Together, we explore why bi+ history so often slips through the crack

S4E2: Bi+ Activism and the Long Haul with Robyn Ochs
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! This week, we’re exploring what it means to be a Bi+ activist who’s in it for the long haul with the one and only Robyn Ochs as our guest. This Bi+ visibility month we’re focused on sustaining our efforts by honoring their inherent fluidity. We discuss how Bi Women Quarterly began and its transformation throughout the years, the importance of crafting intentional

S4E1: Bisexual Killjoys Lost in History
S4E1: Bisexual Killjoys Lost in HistoryWelcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! Season 4 opens with a reckoning: what happens when your history keeps getting erased? Bailey and Jace reflect on how far the podcast has come, why bi+ history matters, and what it means to build legacy in a world that constantly pushes us to the margins. From Stonewall to the AIDS crisis, from forgotten activists to speculati

S3E9: Pride in the Messy Middle
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! Here we are at the end of another season, and boy, are our arms tired. We ran the gamut from mental health, from race to economics, spirituality, class, parenthood, and neurodiversity. And by talking about these big topics, we were able to learn more about ourselves and each other. In this episode, we recap the season, meditate on community, and make predictions o

S3E8: Liminality as Labor: Class and Bi+ Survival with Alicia Ortiz
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! What does it mean to survive as a bi+ person in a world structured by class? In one of our most expansive and layered conversations to date, Bailey and Jace are joined by educator, activist, and musician Alicia Ortiz to unpack the taboo of talking about class, especially in queer spaces. Together, we explore how class functions as a sticky object in our lives, how

S3E7: Too Much & Never Enough: Being a Bi+ Woman
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! What does it mean to become a bi+ woman in a world that says you’re either too much or not enough? In this episode, we dive deep into the messiness of womanhood, gender socialization, and bi+ identity. Grounded in Simone de Beauvoir’s iconic quote, “One is not born, but rather becomes, woman,” we unpack the violence of gender norms, internalized misogyny, femmepho

S3E6: Sacred Spaces, Queer Faces with Dr. Samantha Costa
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! In this episode, “Sacred Spaces, Queer Faces,” we sit down with Dr. Samantha Costa to explore the fraught and fascinating relationship between bi+ identity and faith. From the lingering trauma of “pray the gay away” ideologies to the quieter pressures to suppress bi+ness in religious spaces, we unpack how bi+ people navigate spiritual lives in the face of erasure

S3E5: Parenting While Bi+ with Ellen Davenport-Pleasance
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! In this episode, we explore the intersection of bi+ identity and parenting, a topic many of our listeners have been eager for us to dig into. To help us navigate this conversation, Dr. Ellen Davenport-Pleasance, a leading researcher on bi+ parenting and director of the Bisexual Research Group, joins us. Together, we unpack how bi+ parents experience minority stres

S3E4: Bisexual Killjoys at the Intersection of Bi+ Boulevard and Neurodiverse Avenue
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! In this episode, we’re diving into a conversation many of you have asked us to cover: what it means to be both neurodiverse and bi+. As bi+ folks with ADHD, we’re not just talking theory; we’re sharing our lived experiences, the lack of affirming research at this intersection, and the powerful stories you’ve shared.We’re exploring how neurodivergence and bi+ness c

S3E3: Queering Race and Bi+ Identity with Zori Paul
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! In this episode, we explore the intersection of bi+ identity and race, unpacking how structural oppression, racial stereotypes, and exclusion from mainstream queer spaces affect bi+ people of color. To guide us through this conversation, we’re joined by the amazing Dr. Zori Paul. We’re zeroing in on how bi+ oppression intersects with racial oppression, the impact

S3E2: Bi+ Minds Matter with Mimi Hoang
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! This week, we’re diving into bi+ mental health with a very special guest: Dr. Mimi Hoang. In honor of Bi+ Health Awareness Month, we discuss the mental health disparities bi+ folks face, the lack of research on bi+ BIPOC communities, and why it’s critical to have bi+ affirming mental health professionals. We also explore the role of community as a protective facto

S3E1: Bisexual Killjoys at the Intersections
Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! We’re kicking off Season 3 with a deep dive into intersectionality—what it actually means, how it’s been co-opted, and why it’s essential for bi+ folks navigating multiple forms of marginalization. Originally coined by legal scholar Kimberlé Crenshaw, intersectionality is not just about personal identity—it’s a framework that reveals systemic gaps where people are

S2E9: Bisexuality Is My Resistance
That’s a wrap on Season 2! In our season finale, Bailey and Jace reflect on their journey through a season packed with bi+ insights, activism, and community building. From personal growth to political resistance, this episode dives deep into what it means to center bi+ness in your life, research, politics, and activism.Join us as we discuss the power of solidarity, the importance of preserving bi+

S2E8: The Protective Role of Biposivity with Allison Cipriano
Bisexual Killjoy is back with a much-needed dose of bi-positivity! This week, Bailey and Lynn dive into the concept of bipositivity—what it means, why it matters, and how it can profoundly impact the well-being of bi+ individuals. Joining us is Dr. Allison Cipriano, a newly minted PhD, assistant professor of social psychology at Ball State University, and co-author of “The Nature and Perceived Eff

S2E7: Preserving Bi+ Stories in Comics with Kat Calamia
Bisexual Killjoy returns with a deep dive into the world of comics as a transformative medium for storytelling, particularly for bi+ narratives. This week, we’re joined by Kat Calamia, co-writer and co-creator of The Witches of Oz, The Beast & Snow, Nightmare in Wonderland, and Bi Visibility: A Bisexual Comic Book Anthology. Together, we explore how comics empower bi+ individuals to share nuan

S2E6: Resisting Bi+ Oppression with Alicia Ortiz
In this episode of Bisexual Killjoy, we sit down for our first-ever in-person interview with Alicia Ortiz. Alicia shares insights on using songwriting to inspire social action, drawing from her extensive experience in organizing campaigns for LGBTQ+ equality, workers' rights, immigration reform, reproductive justice, and racial equity. Her work emphasizes coalition building and the transformative

S2E5: Bi-Visibility in Media with Patricia Silva
If there's one thing bi+ folks struggle with, it's not seeing themselves in media. Why is that a big deal? Because our identities are informed by the world around us; and when we do not find ourselves in that world, we can view that as a lack in ourselves. To help us explore the role of bi+ representation, we talk to the talented Patricia Silva. Patricia Silva is a queer (bi/pan) nonbinary artist

S2E4: Plurisexuality & Polyamory with Leanne Yau
Bisexual Killjoy is back to sit down with Poly Philia founder Leanne Yau to explore the intersections of polyamory and plurisexuality, diving into the challenges and stigmas that come with embracing these identities in a monogamous society. Leanne shares insights on how to practice polyamory in a healthy way, red flags to look out for, and whether polyamory belongs in the LGBTQ+ community. We debu

S2E3: The Double Erasure of Bi+ Men with Rob Brooks Cohen
Bisexual Killjoy is back to talk about our least favorite and most persistent myth: Bi+ men don’t exist! To help us navigate the double erasure of bi+ men, relationship navigation, monogamy, polyamory, and the radical act of being out, Rob Brooks Cohen joins us for a funny but informative episode. Robert Brooks Cohen is a writer, creator, and life coach living in Los Angeles. He spent seven season

S2E2: Bisexuality & Gender Fluidity, pt. 2 with Rosie Nelson
Bisexual Killjoy is back to talk about the intersection of gender and sexuality, this time with an expert opinion. This week we welcome the iconic Dr. Rosie Nelson into the fray to help us wrestle with what gender means for bi+ people, what it means to be Sexual Renegades and Sexual Outsiders, and the bi+ worldview.Dr. Rosie Nelson is a Senior Lecturer in Gender at the University of Bristol, Engla

S2E1: The Bisexual Killjoys Return
Welcome back, Bisexual Killjoys. Did you miss us? We missed you! In this episode, we’re getting on the same page, sweeping out the cobwebs, spilling the tea, and pumping ourselves up for our best season yet. So, if you don’t remember what a Bisexual Killjoy is, don’t worry; Bailey makes Lynn take us all back to school.Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Lynn Rios Rive

S1E9: Bisexuality Is My Revolution
That’s a wrap on Season 1! We’ve talked about so much in the last few months: gender, invisibility, relationships, health, and what it means to be a Bisexual Killjoy. Join us one last time before the summer really heats up to reflect on where we’ve been and where we’re going next. Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Lynn Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks all things

S1E8: Love and Other Words That Start With B
We’re winding down Pride and Season 1! Bisexual Killjoy cordially invites you to discuss intimacy, sex, and relationship dynamics for all of us bi+ folks. We’re talking monogamy, polyamory, and how biphobic stereotypes hurt us all. Let’s get serious and laugh the whole time.Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Lynn Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks all things bisexua

S1E7: Beyond Binaries: Bisexuality & Gender Fluidity
Happy Pride! Join Bisexual Killjoy as we explore the fluidity of sexuality and gender. Dive into discussions on liminal spaces, gender fluidity, and the misconceptions about bisexuality. We’re challenging the myth of bisexuals and trans-exclusion, looking at the unique intersection of bisexuality and gender fluidity, and unpacking the limited research on the subject we could find. Since it’s Pride

S1E6: Does This Top Make Me Look Bi?
Join Bisexual Killjoy as we delve into the complexities of signaling bisexuality within the queer community and society at large. Today, we’re discussing the challenges bisexuals face in being recognized and accepted due to the pervasive binary correlation between gender and sexuality. From TikTok suppression to a need for validation in queer spaces, we’re tossing out our hottest takes around on h

S1E5: The Myth of Passing Privilege
Join Bisexual Killjoy as we dissect the myth of "passing privilege” and challenge the notion that bi+ folks do not face discrimination or oppression. Learn how passing privilege ignores the complexities of bi+ identity and erases the unique challenges bi+ people encounter, and listen to how heated our BKJ hosts get as they critique the heteronormativity and homonormativity present in LGBTQ+ spaces

S1E4: Bisexuality Needs Better PR
It’s 2024, and bi+ folks need more than visibility; they need recognition. Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy. This week, Lynn and Bailey are delving deep into the complexities of the bisexual agenda. We’re highlighting monosexual discomfort, sexual ambiguity, and all those sexy liminal spaces. Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Lynn Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks

S1E3: Do I Exist? Bi-Erasure & Discrimination
Bisexual Killjoy is back, and it’s time to talk about every bi+ person’s favorite topic: bi-erasure. Join us as we discuss how bisexuality often goes unnoticed or disregarded, both in mainstream society, social settings, relationships, politics, and within LGBTQ+ spaces themselves (the call was coming from inside the house), and WTF we can do about it. Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocat

S1E2: Am I A Healthy Bisexual?
Just in time for Bi+ Health Awareness month, Bailey and Lynn do a deep dive into the bafflingly mysterious world of bi+ health. Despite representing the majority of the LGBTQ+ community, little is known about bi+ folks and their health. We do know that bi+ women are more likely to experience mood disorders than their hetero- and homosexual counterparts. We do know that bi+ women are at a higher ri

S1E1: What Is A Bisexual Killjoy?
Welcome to Bisexual Killjoy, where Bailey and Lynn talk all things bisexual (plus, pansexual, omnisexual, plurisexual, and overall bi+ness). Despite representing the majority of the LGBTQ+ community, bi+ folks have gotten the shorthand of the stick for too long. Now’s the time to have our voices heard. What is a Bisexual Killjoy? It’s the answer to the age-old question: Is bisexuality just a phase
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