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Widow We Do Now?

Widow We Do Now?

Anita and Mel 328 Episodes Oct 13, 2026

Widow We Do Now is a podcast hosted by Anita and Mel, two young widows. They discuss grief, death, bereavement, and the experience of moving forward after loss. The show combines humor, authenticity, and empathy as they navigate the challenges of young widowhood. They also love cheese.

Episodes

Ep. 293 | Widowed Parents Dating: What Kids Really Think
Ep. 293 | Widowed Parents Dating: What Kids Really Think Oct 13, 2026 3897 What happens when a widowed parent starts dating again? The parent might be ready for companionship, connection, or even a new relationship—but what does that feel like for the kids?This week, Anita and Mel dig into a survey they conducted with kids who have a widowed parent, asking them how they feel about their parent dating again. What are their biggest concerns? Does it feel different when a p
Ep. 292 | The Grief App
Ep. 292 | The Grief App Oct 6, 2026 2847 This week, Anita and Mel talk with Sandra Neperud - fellow widow and the creator of The Grief App, a resource designed to help people navigate the messy, unpredictable reality of loss. Sandra joins them from https://thegriefapp.com/om her travel van, bringing her own experience with grief into the conversation.Sandra shares what inspired her to create The Grief App and how her experience as a wido
Ep. 291 | The Million Stages of Grief and Healing: Michael Reed
Ep. 291 | The Million Stages of Grief and Healing: Michael Reed Sep 29, 2026 2730 This week, Anita and Mel sit down with Michael Reed, who experienced an unimaginable loss when his wife and two daughters died in a fire in Gatlinburg, Tennessee in 2016. His son survived, and Michael was left to navigate a grief no parent should ever have to face.Michael shares his journey through the million stages of grief and the million stages of healing, the inspiration behind his books, The
Ep. 290 | Owner's Manual: Widowhood Edition
Ep. 290 | Owner's Manual: Widowhood Edition Sep 15, 2026 3393 What if you had an owner’s manual for yourself? What would it have said before widowhood, and what would it say now?Mel puts Anita in the hot seat and asks her to imagine her personal owner’s manual — how she operated, what she needed, what people should know about her, and what changed after her husband died.From there, the questions keep coming. Some are thoughtful, some are ridiculous, and some
Ep. 289 | Then and Now: Meet Me Where I Ham
Ep. 289 | Then and Now: Meet Me Where I Ham Sep 8, 2026 3979 Anita and Mel go back to Episode 13, “Meat Me Where I Ham,” recorded when Mel was two years into widowhood and Anita was one year in.Now, Mel is almost nine years into widowhood and Anita is coming up on eight. They listen to that early conversation and reflect on what has changed, what hasn’t, and how their perspectives on widowhood have evolved over the years.They also talk about the concept of
Ep. 288 | The Widow Complaint Department
Ep. 288 | The Widow Complaint Department Sep 1, 2026 3169 The Widow Complaint Department is officially open.In this episode, Anita and Mel read listener submissions about the things that make widowhood harder, weirder, more annoying, and occasionally downright ridiculous. From clueless comments and unsolicited advice to people who just don’t know what to say to a widow, nothing is too petty, too silly, or too absurd for the complaint department. Got a wi
Ep. 287 | Learning To Live As A Widow: Dr. Tina Fornwald
Ep. 287 | Learning To Live As A Widow: Dr. Tina Fornwald Aug 18, 2026 4346 Dr. Tina Fornwald knows firsthand how quickly life can change. As a retired US Army officer and breast cancer survivor, her husband Mark died suddenly from a massive heart attack in 2017. After his death, Tina had to figure out how to live again. She found support through therapy, faith, family, and connecting with other widows — eventually becoming someone other widows turned to for guidance and
Ep. 286 | A New Way To Remember: Cumulus
Ep. 286 | A New Way To Remember: Cumulus Aug 4, 2026 3265 What happens to all the stories, photos, memories, and little pieces of a person after they die?This week, Anita and Mel talk with Alex, the founder and architect of Cumulus, an online memorial platform created to give people a place to remember and celebrate the people they've lost. They talk about what memorializing someone can look like in the digital age, why the traditional obituary does
Ep. 285 | Wrongful Death Widow: Deborah Westwood
Ep. 285 | Wrongful Death Widow: Deborah Westwood Jul 28, 2026 3980 Meet Deborah Westwood, a widow whose life was forever changed by the wrongful death of her husband, Larry, following medical malpractice.Deborah shares the devastating reality of grieving a loss that never should have happened. She talks about the heartbreak of losing Larry, the anger and unanswered questions that come with preventable tragedy, and what it means to seek accountability while carryi
Ep. 284 | Five Stars, Would Grieve Again: Aaron Simmons
Ep. 284 | Five Stars, Would Grieve Again: Aaron Simmons Jul 13, 2026 3963 Anita and Mel are joined by widower Aaron Simmons, who shares the story of losing his wife just six days after what was supposed to be a routine abdominoplasty, when she suffered a fatal pulmonary embolism.Aaron describes the surreal experience of grief, saying it felt like his entire life had been turned inside out "like a sock." He talks about learning to hold gratitude alongside grief
Ep. 283 | Annnnnd They're Back!!
Ep. 283 | Annnnnd They're Back!! Jul 6, 2026 3633 Well, it hasn't quite been a relaxing summer, but Anita and Mel are back after life smacked both of them upside the head a few times (or knocked one of them right into the hospital). Check out this episode to get the scoop on what has happened - good, bad, and scammy! And speaking of scams, be sure to check out this episode for a quick update on current things to watch out for!Sponsored by:Be
Ep. 282 | Summer News
Ep. 282 | Summer News Jun 15, 2026 281 Anita and Mel have had some crazy things happen in the last little while, so new episodes will be back up in July! Sponsored by:BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMint Mobile: Mobile phone plans with great service and coverage starting at $15/month https://trymintmobile.com/wwdnJoin our Patreon fo

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