Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette is a bold, unfiltered podcast hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti. It explores the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment through expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens. Topics range from kink and connection to self-love and sexual healing, challenging shame and reclaiming pleasure.
Episodes
Cock Worship: The Bedroom Move That's Hot for BOTH of You
Send us Fan MailEverybody knows men want to be worshipped in bed. That's not news. The real question — the one nobody asks — is what's in it for the person doing the worshipping.Because done right, cock worship isn't a favor. It isn't service with a fake smile. It's one of the hottest things you can do for your own pleasure — slow, powerful, deeply erotic, and the giver ho
How to Give Her a Cervical Orgasm She'll Feel Everywhere
Send us Fan MailThe cervical orgasm is often described as the deepest, most full-body climax a woman can experience — and it's the one the fewest people know how to reach. First studied in depth by researchers mapping how different kinds of stimulation affect the brain, it turns out the cervix has its own distinct pleasure pathway, wired directly to the brain through the vagus nerve.This is a
The Kinks Couple's Secretly Want & How to Actually Try Them
Send us Fan MailEvery couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with yo
THE A-SPOT: HER DEEPEST ORGASM (AND HOW TO REACH IT)
Send us Fan MailThe A-spot, or anterior fornix, is a deep erogenous zone on the front vaginal wall that many people have never learned about. First identified in clinical research in 1997, it's associated with increased natural lubrication, heightened arousal, and deeper, more full-body pleasure. This is a complete educational guide to understanding and locating it — whether you're explo
The Good Girl Trap: Why So Many Women Never Feel Sexually Free
Send us Fan MailWhat if the woman you're with isn't "low libido" or "vanilla" at all?What if she's spent her entire life being taught that wanting sex, enjoying pleasure, or expressing desire makes her a "bad woman"?In this eye-opening conversation, I'm joined by sexologist and researcher Chanelle Jolly Marshall to unpack the hidden cultural condit
Say This And Unleash Her Kinky Side! the Dirty Talk Cheat Sheet!
Send us Fan MailAlmost every woman has a kinky side she's never shown you — not because she doesn't trust you, but because she's waiting to find out if it's safe. This is the cheat sheet for using your words to unlock her fantasies.What you'll learn: ✔ The opener that gets her to share the fantasy she's never said out loud ✔ Why "what if" is the most powerfu
She Built an AI Lover to Heal. Then Had the Best Sex of Her Life
Send us Fan MailWhat if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side?Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual companions — and what's happening is not what anyone expected. Today's guest didn't just use one. She built one. Morgan Hewett — two-tim
How to Beat Performance Anxiety in Bed — The 5-Move Reset
Send us Fan MailThe harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-move reset that gets you out of your head and back into your body, tonight.What you'll learn: ✔ How to crowd out the anxious tho
How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex
Send us Fan MailShe starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix.Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 years in menopause and female sexual health, author of The Bedroom Gap, and TED speaker with 1.3M+ views — breaks down exactly what's happening i
What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This
Send us Fan MailRound two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the recovery window, why it's more in your control than you think, what to do the moment you soften, and the one thing to do in
Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This)
Send us Fan MailMistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom.In this episode:What a dominatrix actually does — and what a real session looks likeWhy the lo
5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1)
Send us Fan MailAnal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud.This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everythi
She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back
Send us Fan MailYou've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent.Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actu
The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense.Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her a
Bi Girls Guide To Better Sex: Inside Secrets That Blow Her Mind
Send us Fan Mail Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over.Samia Mounts — queer,
5 Spanking Fantasies She Has — And Exactly How to Give Her Each One
Send us Fan MailUp to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud.This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it s
Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It
Send us Fan MailHe's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open.Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are put
How to Make Her Come From Penetration — Maybe for the First Time in Her Life
Send us Fan Mail82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it.If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you understand it, everything changes.What you'll learn: ✔ Why the clitoris has to be fully aroused before p
She's Reading Smut Instead of Having Sex with You — Here's Why
Send us Fan MailShe's not hiding her book because she's embarrassed. She's hiding it because what she's reading is giving her something her sex life isn't — and nobody's asking what that means for your relationship.Romance is the fastest-growing category in print. 51 million units sold in the last year. One in four NYT hardcover fiction bestsellers was romantasy. Wome
Perimenopause Killed Her Orgasm — 5 Moves to Get It Back
Send us Fan MailA listener wrote in: "I'm 47 years old and going through perimenopause. Previously I would orgasm with my husband 90-95% of the time. Now I only orgasm 5-10% of the time."She's not alone. Roughly half of all women experience orgasm changes during perimenopause — and almost none are told why or what to do about it. This episode covers the physiology behind the sh
Role Play 101: From Cringe to Craving
Send us Fan Mail97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do.I'll be honest: role play has always given me the ick. So I brought in Emma Velicski — romance author and founder of Saturday Box, the company turning kink and role play into
Squirting: 5 Moves That Get Her There!
Send us Fan MailMost men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does.This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men learned from the internet actually works against them, the one thing she's going to say in the moment that most men completely misread, a
Good Men, Bad Sex: Why Purity Culture Is Still in Your Bedroom (Even If You Left the Church)
Send us Fan MailYou never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly wrecking everything.Today I'm talking with Erika Smith — award-winning sexuality educator, 25 years in the field, and creator of
How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System
Send us Fan MailYou can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference.In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many
How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It
Send us Fan MailMost men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script.Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly wh
5 Hand Techniques That Finish Her Every Time
Send us Fan MailMost partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything.This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combinatio
The Alpha Male Script Is Killing Your Sex Life — This Is What She Actually Wants
Send us Fan MailAlpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has spent a decade watching this play out in real relationships. He's not here to shame men — he's here to give them what the alp
Lost Your Erection? 5 Moves That Save the Whole Night
Send us Fan MailYou went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse.Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode gives you the five exact moves that keep the moment going, keep her turned on, and get your body back without the shame spiral. Plus: why your ere
What Women Really Think About Your Balls — Men Take Note!
Send us Fan MailNobody told us what to do with them. Sex ed skipped them entirely. And somewhere along the way, women just... stopped thinking about them. Until now.Three women sit down and go fully, honestly, hilariously there — what we actually find attractive, what we've been getting wrong, and the moves that will genuinely change what happens in your bedroom tonight.We're getting int
Praise Kink (Part2) 5 Questions Everyone Keeps Asking (Answered)
Send us Fan MailThe Praise Kink episode was one of my biggest videos ever — and your comment section proved you're ready to go deeper.I pulled five questions I kept seeing and I'm giving you the real answers. Research, specifics, and the stuff I didn't have room for the first time around.✔ What to call her when "good girl" doesn't fit — honorifics, worship titles, and
She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!)
Send us Fan MailShe Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!)She didn't lose interest in sex. She lost interest in sex that never worked for her. Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons — award-winning psychologist, Emory University professor, and author of Good Sex — breaks down the real data behind the orgasm gap, why it slowly kills a woman's desire, and exactly what c
7 Ways To Masturbate Together That Upgrade Your Sex Life Instantly!
Send us Fan MailIt's Masturbation May — and I'm giving you the practice that will upgrade your sex life more than any new position, any new toy, any new technique.Mutual masturbation. Touching yourselves at the same time, in the same bed, watching each other.It removes the pressure to deliver an orgasm. It builds the connection most couples are missing. It shows you exactly what works on
Please Stop F*cking Us Hard: The Truth About Sex and Dating After 60
Send us Fan MailPlease stop fucking us hard. Seriously. That's the message — and if you heard it in Suzanne Noble's voice during this episode, you already know why it hit so hard.Suzanne is the host of Sex Advice for Seniors — nearly 200K followers, 180+ episodes, and the most unfiltered voice on intimacy and aging out there. She and I got into everything: why your arousal pattern change
7 Hot Ways to Go Down On Her That Make You Unforgettable
Send us Fan MailDoes she grab your hair like she forgot her own name? Does she text you at 2 AM the next day because her body won't stop replaying it? If not, the gap between what you're doing and what would make her lose her mind is just 7 moves nobody ever taught you.This episode gives you 7 moves she's never felt before. Not because they're complicated — because nobody teach
How To Have an Unforgettable one night Stand: From Pickup to Aftercare
Send us Fan MailThere are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference.Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut, Men's Health sex columnist, and Grindr's official sex and relationship expert — joins me to map out exactly how to have a one night stand
How to Stay Hard When You F*ck Slower
Send us Fan MailYou watched How to F*ck Slower. You tried it. Then you lost your erection and panicked. This is the fix.Slowing down is the single best thing you can do for her pleasure — but nobody talks about what happens to you when you do it. Your brain speeds up, your body gets nervous, and you lose the one thing you need to stay in the game. This episode breaks down exactly how to stay hard,
Who's Really in Charge in Your Bedroom? (And Why It Matters)
Send us Fan MailMost couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role.Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certified somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She holds a master's in p
5 Sounds She Makes During Sex and What to Do When You Hear Them
Send us Fan MailYou've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep in it? Most men miss them completely.In this episode, I break down the five real sounds she makes during sex — what each
Bimboification: The Fetish He's Hiding & How to Make It Work in Your Relationship
Send us Fan MailWhat is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without the shame spiral. Because the fetish isn't the problem. The shame is.What bimboification and cross-dressing fetishes actually areThe r
5 Moves That Make Her Want to Initiate Sex
Send us Fan MailShe's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together.Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And when desire always has a destination, she stops being in the moment and starts managing the arc. So she waits. Every time.
10 Fetishes You've Never Heard Of — But You Might Have One
Send us Fan MailYou think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that.Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actual
5 Praise Kink Moves: That will Make Her Initiate Next Time!
Send us Fan MailMost men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize.Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combinati
Is He A Sex Addict : Or Does He Just Want It More Than You?
Send us Fan MailIs he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genuin
6 Reasons She Fakes Orgasms: & What To Do Instead
Send us Fan MailShe's thought about faking it. Statistically, she probably has.Between 58–80% of women have faked an orgasm — not once, but regularly, with partners they actually cared about. Most of those men never knew. If you want to be the exception, this episode is for you.This isn't about blame. It's about understanding what actually creates faking — and the specific things yo
Men's Sexual Shame Is Ruining Your Sex Life (Here's the Fix)
Send us Fan MailMen's sexual shame doesn't look like what you think. It's not about a secret kink. It's the guy jackhammering away thinking that's what success looks like. The one who won't make eye contact. The one who avoids dating entirely — not because he doesn't want connection, but because his nervous system won't let him get close.I sit down with Alex
5 Ways to Let Her Dominate You: She's Been Fantasizing About This!
Send us Fan MailShe's been waiting for you to figure this out.For a huge number of women, watching a confident man willingly submit to her is one of the most erotic experiences that exists. Not a weak man — a man who is secure enough to give her complete control and trust her to lead.This episode is about real submission. Not performing. Not topping from the bottom. Actually letting go.What y
She's Quiet Quitting Your Sex Life — And He Has No Idea
Send us Fan MailShe didn't lose her desire. She quietly quit it. Sex therapist and author Colette Jane Fehr joins Annette to break down why women emotionally and erotically check out of relationships long before anyone notices — and what it actually takes to come back. If you've been going through the motions, or you've watched your partner disappear and had no idea why, this one&ap
5 Ways to Dominate Her in Bed (That She's Fantasizing About)
Send us Fan MailShe's thought about it. More than once. Maybe every time.And she's decided you'll never know — because asking feels impossible, and hoping you'll figure it out on your own hasn't worked.This episode is about the five dominance moves women consistently fantasize about and almost never get. Not because their partners wouldn't do them, but because no one
The Pregnancy Kink Making Women Six Figures — And Why Society Is Losing Its Mind
Send us Fan MailShe didn't set out to build a six-figure business. She got pregnant — and discovered one of OnlyFans' most profitable and least talked-about kinks.Australian mom and content creator Emily Mai joins Annette to talk about what actually happens when a woman refuses to become sexually invisible after motherhood. We're getting into pregnancy kinks, lactation content, bell
5 Kinks She Wants You to Try (And Why She'll Never Ask)
Send us Fan MailShe's thought about it. More than once. Maybe a hundred times.And she's decided you'll never know.Not because she doesn't trust you — because she's been taught her whole life that wanting certain things makes her too much. This episode is about the five kinks women most commonly carry in silence, the shame that keeps them there, and what you can actually do
The 6 Stages of Love — And the One Stage That Kills Most Relationships
Send us Fan MailMost people think relationships fail because someone stopped trying, cheated, or they just picked wrong. But what if relationships follow a predictable pattern — and most of us are sabotaging them at the exact same stage without even knowing it?In this episode, I sit down with Thais Gibson — founder of Personal Development School, bestselling author, and one of the world's lea
How To Make Her WANT to Give A Blow Job: 6 Things That Actually Work
Send us Fan MailMost men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times.The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks.In this episode, sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti breaks down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things yo
How To Orgasm Your Way to Success
Send us Fan MailWhat if orgasms were about more than just pleasure?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation.We break down:What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t)How sexual energy can be used for intention, confidenc
5 Things That Actually Make Her Sexually Attracted to You
Send us Fan MailMost advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong.This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing. It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection.In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-syst
What Women Really Say About Sex
Send us Fan MailThis Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast.For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening.But what happens when we stop whispering?In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Doherty,
9 Ways to Touch Her Breasts (Most Men Skip)
Send us Fan MailTouching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how breast pleasure actually works.We’ll talk about:why grabbing and squeezing too fas
Why the Epstein Files Can Shut Down Desire & How to Protect It
Send us Fan MailWith the Epstein files back in the headlines, many people are noticing a shift in desire and connection. This unscheduled drop explores how collective stories of abuse and betrayal impact the nervous system — and why libido is often the first thing to go quiet when safety feels uncertain.In this episode, we talk about:Why desire can shut down during moments of collective traumaHow
The Truth About Sex With Smaller Penises – Part 2! 3 Women Weigh In
Send us Fan Mail Two years ago, this topic became one of my most-listened-to episodes—so we’re bringing it back.In Part 2, I’m joined by two sex-positive women from different age groups to answer the questions men keep asking and go deeper than before.We cover:What women actually think about penis sizeWhy confidence matters more than lengthHow oral, grinding, toys, and anal play often matter more
Why Women Stop Wanting Sex (& Why It’s Not Your Fault)
Send us Fan MailWhy do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don’t want sex anymore.”We talk about:Why low desire is often a reasonable response, not a personal failureHow pressure, routine, and male-centric sex shut d
3 Positions That Actually Help Female Orgasms
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best.And I want to be clear right from the start: This episode exists because my audience voted for it.Every week, I
Giving Head With Confidence: How to Blow His Mind! With Girls Gone Deep!
Send us Fan MailWe talk about blowjobs like they’re a performance — like there’s a “right way,” a secret move, or something you’re supposed to magically know.But most advice doesn’t actually make oral sex feel better. It just makes people anxious.In this episode, I’m joined by Girls Gone Deep for a real, explicit, shame-free conversation about giving oral sex that actually feels incredible — witho
9 Foreplay Moves Most Guys Skip (And Why Foreplay “Sometimes” Works)
Send us Fan MailForeplay shouldn’t feel inconsistent.If you’ve ever taken your time and still felt like her body wasn’t fully responding — this episode is for you. And if you’ve ever wanted to be into it but felt tense or distracted instead, this one’s for you too.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 foreplay moves most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no on
Solo Sex Is Exploding—and It’s Making People Better Lovers
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it’s actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it.Joined by Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findings r
Can’t Stay Hard? Here’s How to Still Satisfy Her (Women Remember This)
Send us Fan MailLosing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers.In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost, how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her.Because sex isn’t penetration-based — it’s presence-ba
2026 Sex Reset for Men: Stop Performance Anxiety & Get Harder, Longer, Better
Send us Fan MailEvery January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V, host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger.We explore why performance
The One Clitoral Mistake That’s Kills Orgasms & The Technique That Fixes It!
Send us Fan MailMost people think they know how the clitoris works. They don’t.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down the one clit move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything.We’re talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down.If orgasms feel
I'm Inviting You To 365 Days of Orgasms in 2026. Cheers!
Send us Fan MailIn 2022, I made a decision that changed my life.I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust.In this episode, I’m inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026:365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution.This is not a challenge.It’s a daily pleasure practice and an erotic
Do This for 5 Minutes a Day — And Sex Stops Feeling Like Work
Send us Fan MailWhen sex starts feeling like work, it’s not because desire is broken.It’s because the body has learned to brace.In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen.This is the exact kind of practice I’ll be guiding inside 365 Days of Or
Sex Resolutions for 2026 That Actually Change Your Life (In and Out of the Bedroom)
Send us Fan MailEvery year we promise ourselves more sex, better performance, or more confidence — and every year those goals quietly fall apart.In this episode, I’m joined by sex educator Goody Howard to talk about a different approach to sexual resolutions for 2026 — one that focuses on intention, education, and pleasure that actually lasts.This isn’t about pressure or porn-inspired goals. It’s
Size Doesn’t Matter If You Use These 3 Sex Positions
Send us Fan MailIf you’ve ever worried that pleasure depends on size, this episode will completely change how you think about intimacy.In this video, Annette breaks down three sex positions that feel incredible—no matter your size—because they work with anatomy, angle, rhythm, and the nervous system, not performance pressure.This is not about going harder, deeper, or faster. It’s about understandi
Why Women Over 50 Are More Sexually Adventurous Than Ever
Send us Fan MailWhat if the best sex of your life starts after 50?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by the sex educator behind Taboo to Truth, Karen Bigman to talk about why women over 50 are becoming more confident, more curious, and more sexually adventurous than ever.We break down the myths about aging and desire—and explore how self-knowledge, confidence, and freedom from ol
How To Use Your Hands to Make Her Orgasm! 4 Steps
Send us Fan MailWhy does it feel like everything is working… until it suddenly isn’t?You’re touching her. She’s aroused. She’s close. And then—her body pulls away, the moment disappears, and the orgasm never lands.In this episode, intimacy coach Annette breaks down the most common mistake people make with their hands that actually stops orgasms instead of creating them—and why trying harder often
Turned On by the “Enemy”? Inside the Rise of Political Humiliation Kink
Send us Fan MailAre politics turning people on more than we realize?Today on Talk Sex with Annette, we’re diving into a surprising and fast-growing fantasy showing up in bedrooms, dating apps, and long-term relationships: the political humiliation kink — when opposing beliefs become part of a consensual power-play dynamic.In this episode, I sit down with acclaimed psychosexual therapist and sex ed
Advanced Oral Skills Everyone Should Know
Send us Fan MailWant to take your oral intimacy skills from “pretty good” to absolutely unforgettable? In this episode, I’m breaking down the advanced rhythm, pacing, and attunement techniques that cause full-body reactions, deeper connection, and those moments where she completely loses control.This isn’t about flashy moves or performance pressure. This is about understanding the science of her a
How to Negotiate Kink Like a Pro — Without Killing the Mood
Send us Fan MailTalking about kink doesn’t have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on.In today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens.I’m joined by Lisa Opel, pleasure coach at Joy Club, a
Rolling Orgasms 101
Send us Fan MailMost people think climax is one quick moment — but her body is capable of so much more. Rolling orgasms are deeper, longer waves of pleasure, and once she learns this rhythm, intimacy changes for both of you.In this episode, I break down how to help her stay in sensation longer, understand her arousal curve, and use the Kiiroo Pearl 3 to build the rhythm that allows rolling orgasms
Exhibitionism: How to Explore the Kink of Being Watched—Without Making It Weird
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we’re breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it’s your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I’m joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:✨ What exhibitionism really is ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure ✨ Signs it might be
How to Be the Best She’s Ever Had Without Needing a Big… Anything
Send us Fan MailWant to be the best she’s ever had… without needing a big anything? You’re not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here’s the truth:What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it.In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the real skills t
Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? The New Dating Shift
Send us Fan MailWhy are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching. In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what’s really behind th
How to Touch a Woman So She Actually Wants You — The 4-Minute Method
Send us Fan MailOn today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m answering one of the most common questions I get from men:“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?”The truth is this: Most women don’t open from direct sexual touch. They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across their
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