Established Family Podcast
The Established Family Show offers biblical wisdom on marriage, restoration, and building a God-centered family legacy. Through real, raw conversations, it challenges common misconceptions about love, covenant, and healing. The podcast dives deep into spiritual truths and practical steps for restoration, aiming for generational transformation anchored in faith and powered by the Holy Spirit.
Episodes
Who is Fathering Your Marriage? | The Battle for Your Will | Part 3
What does your life actually testify about who is fathering your marriage?You can say you want restoration. You can say you’re standing for covenant. You can say you’re following the will of God. But Jesus said, “The works that I do in My Father’s name testify concerning Me.” (John 10:25)In this teaching, Derek continues The Battle for Your Will series by confronting the difference between a right
*Your Will* Unlocks Speed in Your Marriage | The Battle for Your Will | Part 2
In this teaching, Derek walks through the biblical meaning of thelō and shows why your willingness—not your spouse's response—is often the gateway to movement, obedience, and fruit in your marriage. Through passages like John 15, Matthew 15, Matthew 16, John 5, and Mark 10, you'll see a consistent pattern: God responds to people who have settled the battle of their will.
God’s Will VS Your Will for Your Marriage | The Battle for Your Will
In Part 1 of this series, Derek teaches one of the most overlooked realities in Scripture: God didn't create you without a will. He created you with one. The question is whether your will has been sanctified and brought into agreement with His.Tax Deductible Donation as an individual or an organization:https://www.EstablishedFamily.com/giveApply for Established Family Trusted (in-network or ou
The Spirit of Delay and Distraction in Marriage | Marriage Wisdom Series
What if the greatest threat to your marriage isn't a major crisis but years of delay, distraction, and spiritual compromise?In this Marriage Wisdom episode, Derek walks through Scripture to expose how the enemy uses fear, indecision, and misplaced focus to keep husbands and wives from God's purpose. It's time to recognize the battle, stop partnering with delay, and walk in the promises
[TESTIMONY] Healing After 8 Years of Unfaithfulness | The Faithful Spouse | Part 4
In Part 4 of The Faithful Spouse, Jordan shares the testimony that completely transformed our marriage. Long before our marriage was restored, God confronted her with a truth she never expected:She had been an unfaithful wife... even though she had never committed adultery.
Biblical Love Is Impossible Without These 3 Things | The Faithful Spouse | Part 3
Most couples think they're trying to decide the future of their marriage. They're not.They're trying to make eternal decisions while still operating from a hardened heart, a compromised conscience, and an insincere faith.That is a dangerous place to be.In this episode, Derek confronts one of the biggest lies in Christian marriage culture: that being "at an impasse" is simply
Anxiety in Marriage has Eternal Consequence | The Faithful Spouse | Part 2
In Part 2 of The Faithful Spouse, Derek walks through Scripture to show why the fear of God, the peace of God, and an eternal perspective are essential if you are going to remain faithful in your marriage. We discuss why anxiety cannot become the governing system of your thoughts, emotions, and decisions, and what Scripture says about the God of peace being with His people.Whether you're stand
Unfaithfulness is MORE Than "Adultery" | The Faithful Spouse | Part 1
When most people hear the word unfaithfulness, they immediately think of adultery, affairs, addiction, or betrayal.But what if Scripture defines unfaithfulness much deeper than that?
God Doesn't Bless Lukewarm Marriages | Breaking Marriage Curses | Part 4
In Part 4 of our Breaking Marriage Curses series, we confront one of the most dangerous conditions a husband or wife can fall into:Spiritual sluggishness.Lukewarmness.Apathy.God is not calling husbands and wives to survive their marriage.He is calling them to be diligent.Steadfast.Immovable.Full of faith.Full of hope.And fully surrendered to His process of transformation.
Breaking The Curse Of Pride In Marriage | Breaking Marriage Curses | Part 3
In Part 3 of our Breaking Marriage Curses series, we tackle one of the most destructive forces operating in marriages today: pride.Not just arrogance.Not just stubbornness.But the stiff-necked spirit Scripture repeatedly warns about from Genesis to Revelation.
My "Prodigal" Spouse is Sinning Still | Breaking Marriage Curses | Part 2
In this episode of The Established Family Show, Derek dives into one of the most destructive forces operating inside struggling marriages: the spirit of provocation. Many spouses find themselves trapped in a cycle of constantly being provoked—or provoking their spouse in return—while unknowingly empowering chaos, division, bitterness, and spiritual blindness.
Restoring a "Prodigal" Spouse | Breaking Marriage Curses Part 1
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Learning to Trust My Husband, AGAIN... | The Immovable Spouse | Part 4
JORDAN'S BACKKK AFTER MATERNITY LEAVE! ...she's talking about the process of learning to trust me as a husband again.———Tax Deductible Donation as an individual or an organization:https://www.EstablishedFamily.com/giveApply for Established Family Trusted (in-network or out-of-network provider):https://www.EstablishedFamily.com/trustedHost The Marriage Academy at your church, small group, o
Maturity Matters in Christian Marriages | The Immovable Spouse | Part 3
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5x Biblical Reasons a Marriage Loses Hope & How to Spark Hope Again | The Immovable Spouse | Part 2
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No More FRUITLESS and LIFELESS Marriages | The Immovable Spouse | Part 1
Tax Deductible Donation as an individual or an organization:https://www.EstablishedFamily.com/giveApply for Established Family Trusted (in-network or out-of-network provider):https://www.EstablishedFamily.com/trustedHost The Marriage Academy at your church, small group, or organization:https://www.EstablishedUniversity.com/host———In this episode of The Established Family Podcast, Derek confronts t
When Is It Right to Judge Your Spouse? | A Marriage Without The Holy Spirit | Part 3
Should you judge your spouse?Most marriages are trying to solve outward division without ever addressing the inward condition creating it.Separation, division, and even divorce are not the root problem—they are the fruit of something deeper.There has never been a whole, healed, Spirit-governed husband and wife who produced the fruit of division.If division exists in the marriage, division first ex
God Will Bless Your Decisions in Your Marriage | Marriage Wisdom Series
In this episode, we talk about the dangerous spiritual condition of indecision in marriage and why wavering faith keeps so many spouses trapped in cycles of delay, frustration, and false comfort.So many husbands and wives believe they are “just taking their time,” waiting for the right moment, the right response, or the right conditions—but indecision is not wisdom. It is often spiritual blindness
Dead Works Create a Fruitless Marriage | A Marriage Without the Holy Spirit | Part 2
In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most dangerous things destroying marriages that almost no one is calling by name… dead works.Not just obvious sin.But lifeless patterns.Flesh-driven reactions.Religious routines.Outward godliness without inward transformation.Spiritually empty habits that quietly defile covenant.Many spouses are trying to restore their marriage while still sowing in
Bad Counsel Will Destroy a Godly Marriage | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 7
Not every voice in your life carries the wisdom of heaven.Day 7 of the Stand for Your Marriage Challenge is about wise, godly counsel. In a painful season, many spouses are surrounded by voices, opinions, reactions, and advice. But not every voice heals. Not every voice builds. Not every voice carries truth.Some counsel strengthens covenant.Some counsel quietly harms it.In this teaching, we help y
A Marriage FREE from Rejection & Fear | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 6
Rejection speaks loudly, but it does not tell the truth.Day 6 of the Stand for Your Marriage Challenge is focused on breaking fear and rejection at the root. These things do not just wound emotions. They distort identity, shape reactions, and whisper lies that keep spouses bound in insecurity, striving, and instability.Rejection is not your identity.Fear is not your portion.In today’s teaching, we
No More Apathy and Complacency in Your Marriage | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 5
Complacency in the face of brokenness is disobedience.Day 5 of the Stand for Your Marriage Challenge is about recovering godly urgency. Too many spouses grow passive in a season that requires prayer, obedience, rebuilding, and action. Standing is not apathy. Standing is not delay. Standing is movement with God.There is a holy urgency required when something broken needs to be rebuilt.In this teach
Overcoming Bad Communication and Strife in Marriage | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 4
Strife is more than poor communication. It is a spiritual assignment to dismantle covenant.Day 4 of the Stand for Your Marriage Challenge is focused on upright communication. Many spouses think they only have a communication problem, but underneath contention, accusation, and constant tension there is often a deeper spiritual disorder attacking peace in the home.Godly communication protects covena
Marriage Shouldn't be Mastered by Emotions | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 3
Emotions were designed to inform you, not to master you.Day 3 of the Stand for Your Marriage Challenge is about standing free in your emotions. Fear, anger, bitterness, and internal unrest can quietly begin governing the way you think, speak, and respond in marriage. But God never designed your emotions to lead your life.The Spirit leads you into freedom.In this teaching, we help you identify what
How the Fear of God Transforms Marriages | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 2
The battle often starts in the mind before it manifests in the marriage.Day 2 is focused on confronting fear, wavering, and internal agreement with doubt.The enemy wants you exhausted, unstable, and emotionally tossed so that you abandon the promise before breakthrough.Today we stand against:— fear— mental torment— hopelessness— confusion— emotional instabilityThis is the day you stop partnering w
A Double-Minded Marriage Cannot Survive | Stand for Your Marriage Challenge - Day 1
God told you to stand.Not because this season is easy.Not because the pain is light.But because His word over your marriage still carries authority.Day 1 of the Stand for Your Marriage Challenge is about returning to the promise of God when everything in the natural tries to convince you otherwise.Today we are standing on:— the faithfulness of God— His unchanging promises— covenant over circumstan
No More DIVISION and DISUNITY in Your Marriage! | Fast & Pray Challenge - Day 5
It is the establishment of a new one.Day 5 is the culmination of our 5-Day Fast & Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge.Today we pray into:— unity— covenant alignment— renewed vision— restored roles and responsibility— true breakthroughThis is the day we seal what God has begun.We are not praying for the old version.We are praying for a marriage rebuilt in truth, order, and God’s design.A marriage
Exposing Satan's Legal Access to Your Marriage | Fast & Pray Challenge - Day 4
What has been given access must be exposed.Day 4 of our 5-Day Fast & Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge is focused on exposing open doors and revoking legal ground given to the enemy.Scripture describes this as topos — territory, access, legal ground.Today we fast and pray for:— exposure of hidden strongholds— conviction and clarity— revoking legal access— restoring the fear of the Lord in the
True Marriage Deliverance & Inner Healing | Fast & Pray Challenge - Day 3
Awareness without freedom only creates more chaos.Day 3 is where we move beyond recognition and repentance into full deliverance and inner healing.Many marriages know what is wrong.Few confront what is establishing the chaos.Today we fast and pray for:— deliverance from spiritual oppression— healing in the mind, will, and emotions— freedom from soul-level agreements— renouncing destructive thought
Healing Past Unforgiveness in Marriage | Fast & Pray Challenge - Day 2
Unforgiveness keeps a marriage bound to the wound.Day 2 of our 5-Day Fast & Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge is focused on breaking agreement with offense, bitterness, and division.Unforgiveness does not protect the heart.It keeps the heart imprisoned.Today we fast and pray against:— bitterness— guarded hearts— repeated division— normalized offense— emotional separationWe are releasing what h
Freedom from Generational Marriage Cycles | Fast & Pray Challenge - Day 1
The cycles stop here.In Day 1 of our 5-Day Fast & Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge, we are confronting the patterns that keep repeating in your marriage, your home, and your bloodline.Many spouses are exhausted from fighting the same battles over and over again — emotional distance, confusion, destructive communication, division, and recurring pain. Today we go after the root.This prayer chal
A Marriage Without the Holy Spirit is a Waste of Time
This episode goes deep into the grief of God, the judgment of God, the mercy of God, and the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit in covenant.Through an exegetical walk from Genesis, Exodus, Jonah, Samuel, Hebrews, Romans, Galatians, Ephesians, and 2 Corinthians, we explore how the heart of the Father moves—and why so many marriages remain stuck in cycles of chaos when the Spirit is resisted.'Can y
Wicked, Seductive & Immoral | Relationships that Shape Marriage | Part 4
In this episode, we confront the reality that you are not just in relationship with people—you are in relationship with the belief systems they carry.And those belief systems will either:— train your senses in righteousness— or dull your discernment and pull you into deceptionScripture is clear:Godly relationships produce maturity, discernment, endurance, and hope (Hebrews 5:11–14; Hebrews 6:9–20)
No FRUIT, No RELATIONSHIP | Relationships that Shape Marriage | Part 3
Your marriage is not just being affected by what’s happening inside of it……it’s being formed by the people surrounding it.Jesus made it clear—He did not come to bring peace, but division.Not chaos… but a dividing line between belief and unbelief.And if you don’t understand that division,you will stay connected to relationships that are spiritually unqualified to speak into your covenant.We break d
The People You "Trust" to Counsel Your Marriage | Relationships that Shape Marriage | Part 2
In Part 2 of The Relationships That Shape Your Marriage, we expose how ungodly counsel operates beneath the surface—hooking your emotions, distorting your discernment, and slowly pulling you out of covenant.
Bad Company vs Good Company | Relationships that Shape Marriage | Part 1
Most spouses are trying to fix their marriage……while staying connected to the very relationships that are corrupting it.Scripture is clear:“Bad company corrupts good morals.” (1 Corinthians 15:33)But most people read that verse without understanding the context Paul is addressing—a group of people who rejected the resurrection.And that matters to your marriage more than you think.
The Spirit of Division | Winning the Emotional War in Marriage | Part 4
Part 4 exposes the spirit of division operating through a soulish spouse.Scripture draws a clear line between psuchikos (soulish) and pneumatikos (spiritual) in 1 Corinthians 15:42–50. One is governed by the soul—emotions, impulses, instability. The other is governed by the Spirit—life, order, and power.When a spouse is driven by emotions and not submitted to the Spirit, they remain soulish. And a
Is “Emotional Safety” Possible? | Winning the Emotional War in Marriage | Part 3
“Emotional safety” isn’t what you think it is……and chasing it may be the very thing destroying your marriage.In today’s episode, we confront a hard truth:Your emotions were never meant to lead your marriage.They were meant to be submitted, crucified, and resurrected in Christ.Because when emotions go ungoverned…they don’t just “express pain” — they produce fruit.And scripture is clear:Emotion → Ac
Your Heart Lies About Your Spouse | Winning the Emotional War in Marriage | Part 2
You cannot trust your heart with your marriage.Your heart will lie to you.Your heart will justify what feels right…while producing what is wrong.Many spouses have become more committed to their emotions than they are to their covenant.They are slow to honor the vow that passed their lips…but quick to defend their feelings, their reactions, and their perspective.And Scripture directly confronts thi
Righteous vs Unrighteous Emotions | Winning the Emotional War in Marriage | Part 1
There is a battle for lordship in your soul that is directly affecting your marriage.Your mind.Your will.Your emotions.And every day those emotions are producing fruit.You are either mastering your emotions and producing righteous fruit…or you are being mastered by your emotions and producing destruction.
The Eternal Cost of Remaining Spiritually Blind in Marriage
We are entering into a time where the weight and gravity of spiritual blindness in marriage is increasing.Many spouses are quietly grieving the life, covenant, and intimacy they once had… while simultaneously learning how to maintain the appearance of a functioning marriage.An external adornment is created to hide an internal condition.A public image replaces consecration.Performance replaces obed
16 False Doctrines Satan uses against Christian Marriages | Marriage Wisdom Series
Scripture warns repeatedly about false doctrines, seductive teachings, and persuasive philosophies that slowly lead believers away from truth (2 Corinthians 10:5, 1 Timothy 4:1, Colossians 2:8).And today many Christian marriages are quietly operating under belief systems that never came from God.Some of these doctrines come directly from secular culture.Others have been slowly repackaged with Chri
You Shouldn't Feel Defeated in Your Marriage | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage Academyhttps://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Exhaustion in marriage can be righteous.Defeat is not.In this teaching, I make the case from Scripture that defeat is not a condition designed for sons and daughters of God. It is the eternal position of the enemy. And when we align our mind, will, emotions, and conduct with the defeated one, we begin to inh
When a Marriage Lives Under a Curse Instead of the Promises of God
Brought to you by The Marriage Academyhttps://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Your marriage was never designed to operate under the law.In this free release from The Marriage Academy – Semester 3, Module 1, we uncover what the promises of God actually are over your family… and why so many Christian marriages are unknowingly living under a curse instead of walking in dominion.
22 Violations Against "Standing for Marriage" God's Way | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage Academyhttps://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Are you actually standing for your marriage… or just calling it standing?In today’s episode of Marriage Wisdom, we confront a hard truth: not every “stand” is righteous. Not every effort to hold a marriage together is aligned with the heart of the Father.
The Devil Trains Your Senses to Hate Your Spouse
➡ Join The Marriage Academyhttps://establisheduniversity.com/marriageMost spouses think their frustration, irritation, numbness, or contempt is just “normal marital tension.”It’s not.When the enemy gains a foothold — what Paul calls topos — he does not waste it. He uses it. He builds on it. And over time, he trains your senses to respond unrighteously to the very covenant you once prayed for.This
Marital Blindness: The Hidden Stages BEFORE a Marriage Falls Apart
Most marriages do not collapse overnight. They decline in stages.In this episode, we uncover the biblical progression of spiritual destruction in marriage — not through psychology, not through cultural language like “drift” or “backsliding,” but through Scripture.We walk through the spiritual sequence that begins with failed temptations and trials and, if left unaccounted for, progresses into sin,
Is Divorce Biblical? The Truth About Biblical Outs | Part 1 | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage Academyhttps://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Is divorce biblical?Are there really “biblical outs”?And if there are… should you take them?
God Exposed My Dead Works as a Husband
There was a season in my life where I was striving at full effort as a husband… and producing nothing that carried eternal weight.I was praying.I was working.I was trying.I was providing.But I was unfit for good works.In this episode, I share openly from the heart of a husband who had to come to grips with a hard truth: you can be saved, gifted, and sincere — and still build your marriage on dead
How Strongholds and Belief Systems Affect a Marriage
This is a complimentary module from The Marriage Academy:https://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ In this free Marriage Academy module, we confront the belief systems in marriage that quietly become strongholds—and the fruit they’ve been producing for years.This is Semester 2, Module 2 of The Marriage Academy, where we expose how lies, normalized thinking, and inherited belief systems
When Spouses Fall Out of Love | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage Academyhttps://university.establishedfamily.com/marriage/ Most marriages don’t end because love disappeared.They end because something underneath love was compromised long before anyone admitted it.In this episode of Marriage Wisdom, we confront one of the most common — and most destructive — statements spoken in marriage:“I don’t love them anymore.”“I love them, b
The Real Reason Communication Fails in Marriage (9 Dangerous Lies) | Marriage Wisdom Series
If you and your spouse are always arguing, it’s not just a communication problem.In this episode of Marriage Wisdom, we confront the real reason conflict keeps resurfacing in marriages—even when both spouses “know better,” love God, or have tried counseling, books, and tools.Strife is not a personality trait.Contention is not a communication style.And conflict does not come from nowhere.Many marri
Emotional Manipulation and Divided Parenting in Marriage | Live Marriage Q&A
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Jezebel / Ahab Marriages and Weaponizing Scripture | Live Marriage Q&A
To call in to the podcast visit:https://establishedfamily.com/callIn today's episode of the Established Family Podcast we take 4x of your questions live on the show!——————🔗 Take the next step in your marriage restoration journey:➡ Join The Marriage Academyhttps://establisheduniversity.com/marriage➡ Coaching & Counseling Sessions:https://establishedfamily.com——————➡ Donate to Established Fa
Abandoning Husbands, Immorality & Secrecy | Live Marriage Q&A
To call in to the podcast visit:https://establishedfamily.com/callIn today's episode of the Established Family Podcast we take 4x of your questions live on the show!——————🔗 Take the next step in your marriage restoration journey:➡ Join The Marriage Academyhttps://establisheduniversity.com/marriage➡ Coaching & Counseling Sessions:https://establishedfamily.com——————➡ Donate to Established Fa
When the Spirit of Rejection Enters a Marriage | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage Academy Most spouses think rejection is something that happened to them. Scripture reveals something far more confronting: rejection is something we come into agreement with. In this teaching, we expose how deception always precedes rejection—and why living from rejection reshapes your identity, your decisions, and ultimately the fruit of your marriage.Rejection do
The 5 Stages of Marriage Destruction | “The Stages of Marriage”
This episode is about what happens long before a marriage ever reaches the point of divorce or full destruction.In this teaching, we break down the biblical stages of marriage destruction—the progressive spiritual drift that takes a covenant from God’s design into chaos, confusion, and eventually death.Scripture tells us that death is not sudden—it is what happens when chaos is complete.In this ep
Not All Marriage Counsel is Godly | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage AcademyA marriage will never rise above the level of counsel surrounding it.In this message, Derek reveals one of the most overlooked causes of stalled, confused, and collapsing marriages: false, unconsecrated counsel.Not every pastor is safe.Not every therapist is God-led.Not every friend, mentor, or church is spiritually alive.And when the voices around your marr
Spiritual Strongholds in Marriage | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage AcademyAs we move beyond the foundations of inner healing and deliverance, we must learn how to identify spiritual strongholds—especially in our marriages and families.If we are going to live as sons and daughters of Christ, walking in covenant, functioning as the Body of Christ, and operating as a mobilized Ekklesia, we must be rooted in the right stronghold: Chri
Foundations of Deliverance & Inner Healing in Marriage | Marriage Wisdom Series
Brought to you by The Marriage AcademyMarriage Wisdom is a new series on The Established Family Podcast where we share timeless, biblical truths concerning God's heart and foundation for marriage.This clip lays the theological groundwork for why inner healing and deliverance are not optional for the believer—or for a marriage walking in God’s design.Salvation is not only about being forgiven;
The Missionless Marriage is a Distraction to God's Kingdom
In this episode, we confront a hard truth the Church has avoided:your marriage will not heal, grow, or last unless its Kingdom mission is restored.Jesus said:“He who does not gather with Me scatters.” — Luke 11:23In this teaching, we break down why Kingdom mission in marriage is rooted in three non-negotiables:Glory — the weight of God’s presencAuthority — the right to rule under His presenceOffic
Breaking False Oaths and Agreements in Marriage and Returning to God's Promises
In today’s episode, Derek exposes one of the deepest spiritual roots behind marital destruction: the false oaths, internal vows, and unholy agreements spouses make during pain, betrayal, fear, and exhaustion.This message walks you through the biblical difference between promises, oaths, vows, and agreements—and how violating the order of God leaves marriages spiritually bound, oppressed, and disco
[Marriage Testimony] How True Repentance Shifts The Heart of a Husband and Wife
A marriage without true repentance will always fail.In this episode, Derek shares a raw and redemptive testimony about how repentance became the turning point that shifted everything in their marriage. Before there was restoration… before there was healing… there had to be a confrontation of pride, blindness, and spiritual apathy.God doesn’t just heal what’s broken — He exposes what’s unrepentant.
Marriage Deliverance: How the Gospel Heals What Psychology Can’t
Your marriage doesn’t just need better communication—it needs deliverance.This isn’t about personality differences or unmet expectations… this is about spiritual realities that still have legal access to your marriage, your mind, and your emotions.In this episode, Derek exposes why so many Christian spouses are saved but still bound, and how unhealed areas of the soul (mind, will, emotions, and mo
3 Spiritual Shifts That Unlock a New Season of Marriage
In this episode, Derek and Jordan go deep into what it means to prepare for your new marriage.Most spouses interpret distance, silence, or delay as God being against them—but few recognize that He’s actually reordering them.Before restoration comes reformation. Before covenant is rebuilt, the individuals within it must be remade.This conversation walks through three critical areas God refines befo
The Wounds You Brought Into Marriage Are Still Bearing Fruit
In this episode, we dive deep into a topic that often gets overlooked in marriage: the difference between wounds carried into the marriage (pre-marriage wounds) and wounds that arise in the marriage (in-marriage wounds). If you’ve noticed recurring conflict, cycles you can't seem to break, or strain in your relationship that doesn’t seem to make sense, this one is for you.We’ll unpack:Why simp
Why God Won't Bless a Spouse's False Stand in Marriage Restoration
In this episode, we talk about the rise of false brides in the church, the danger of false stands in marriage, and the spiritual deception that’s entering homes under the disguise of faith. Many believers have received salvation, but they’re building their marriages in their own name instead of God’s.This message will shake every spouse who’s praying for restoration but standing from the wrong pos
The Church is Failing Marriages
The Church is failing marriages...but marriages are also failing the Church.We’ve watched believers show up for service, serve faithfully, tithe consistently and still live in bondage. Why?Because the modern church looks alive, but carries no authority.And marriages keep feeding that same system with unhealed hearts, unbroken pride, and unrepentant patterns.In this episode, Derek breaks down what
I Was a Foolish Husband Before God Encountered Me and Healed my Marriage
If you’ve been praying for restoration, fasting, forgiving, and still feel like nothing is changing, this episode will help you understand why. Many spouses want breakthrough in marriage but have never actually encountered God. Without an encounter, we stay bound to the same cycles—bitterness, offense, pride, self-righteousness, and unbelief.This conversation exposes what really keeps couples from
Marriage Restoration Requires More Than Prayer: It Needs Positioned!
Your marriage pain isn’t random.Every disruption, every cycle, every unanswered prayer — it’s not God ignoring you. It’s God positioning you.But here’s the hard truth most people don’t want to hear:👉 Without purification, there is no restoration.👉 Without holiness, there is no healing.👉 Without consecration, there is no Kingdom positioning.In this episode, we dive deep into:The 5 truths that expos
When Satan Hijacks a Spouse's Personality (Exposing Temperaments, DISC, Myers-Briggs, Enneagram and other Systems)
Most people in the church, in counseling, and even in marriage ministries don’t realize the truth: DISC, Myers-Briggs, Enneagram, and the Temperaments are not harmless tools—they are rooted in doctrines of demons.In this episode, I expose the origins of these popular personality systems and show you why they are so dangerous for marriages and families. These tests may look like “wisdom,” but their
Marriage Is Under Attack: God’s Prophetic Call for Husbands and Wives
Marriage is under attack—and most husbands and wives were never taught how to fight for it.In this episode of Prophetic Spouses, Derek exposes the false foundations that have whitewashed marriages and calls spouses back to God’s prophetic design for covenant, order, and restoration.No one prepared you for the real demands of marriage. No one showed you how to engage in spiritual warfare for your f
Submission, Boundaries, Triggers and Trauma in Marriage [PART 2]
In this episode of Submission Part 2: Boundaries, Triggers & Traumas, we confront one of the greatest deceptions shaping marriages and families today.Our generation is obsessed with therapy trends, self-protection, and man-made fictions. We’ve traded God’s design for psychological language that soothes the flesh but never heals the spirit.👉 Full disclosure therapy leaves you suspicious instead
Submission, Control, and Manipulation in Marriage [PART 1]
Most Christian marriages aren’t stuck because of communication issues, intimacy struggles, or personality differences.They’re stuck because of disorder — rebellion against God’s design for marriage, leadership, submission, and covenant.In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable reality:You can’t pray for restoration while resisting the order God established for it.➔ If you’re still clinging to
God Did NOT Design You for a Fruitless Marriage
Your marriage wasn’t designed to be fruitless, barren, or broken. But if it feels that way, you need to know this—the enemy has been working overtime to keep it that way.Satan blinds, seduces, and strangles marriages—stealing their spiritual sight, twisting their design, and keeping spouses trapped in cycles of strife, lack, and division. But God’s design has never changed.In this episode, we’re e
Spouses, It's Not Just Narcissism... It's Demonic
Are You Labeling Your Spouse… Or Are They Spiritually Captured?We are living in the times that 2 Timothy 4:3-4 warned us about—where people reject sound doctrine in favor of teachings that satisfy their itching ears. And right now, Satan is gaslighting marriages with false labels.Many spouses believe they’re married to a narcissist, a Jezebel, or an Ahab—and while we won’t pretend these things don
Is God Ignoring Your Spouse's Sin? The Old Law vs God's Grace
Is God ignoring your spouse’s sin, or are you still living under the old law? Many believers are unknowingly governed by the law—trained to look for what is wrong, what is missing, and what is not being upheld. This mindset fuels hyper-vigilance, hyper-criticism, and hyper-legalism, leaving many feeling exhausted, anxious, and spiritually stuck.In this episode, we unpack how the law blinds you fro
How to Break Stubborn Strongholds in Your Marriage
Breaking Stubborn Strongholds in MarriageIn Season 2, Episode 2 of The Established Family Podcast, we tackle the topic of breaking the strongholds that affect every aspect of our lives—from our own minds and marriages to our families and future generations. This episode unpacks how false authority and entrenched spiritual deceptions create these fortresses and why many fail to recognize the need f
Is Standing for Your Marriage a Trap? The Hard Truth About Restoration
What if your stand for marriage isn’t as Godly as you think?Many spouses believe they’re standing in faith, waiting for God to restore their marriage—praying, repenting, and holding on. But what if faith alone isn’t enough? What if your stand has become an idol? What if your obedience is incomplete?In this episode, we’re breaking down the hidden dangers of standing for your marriage the wrong way.
SPECIAL: Jezebel’s War on Marriage, Part 3: The 5 Stages of a Broken Marriage
In the final installment of The Jezebel Series, we’re diving deep into the emotional, mental, and spiritual dynamics that destroy marriages and uncovering the biblical blueprint for restoration. This episode is not just about recognizing what’s broken—it’s about contrasting it with God’s perfect design for marriage and family.
We’ll press on the uncomfortable truths and challenge the lies that kee
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