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Under The Bed

Under The Bed

Dest Dol & Tolu 31 Episodes Sep 7, 2026

A podcast hosted by Dest Dol & Tolu where we uncover the hard, often avoided conversations in the Christian community. Through raw and honest discussions, we shed light on biblical truths, challenge stereotypes, and encourage spiritual growth. Join us as we bring what's 'under the bed' into the light.

Episodes

S4 EP3: Can You Deconstruct Your Faith Without Losing God? W/ Nicola Lambo
S4 EP3: Can You Deconstruct Your Faith Without Losing God? W/ Nicola Lambo Sep 7, 2026 1:00:22 Everyone’s deconstructing their faith… why? 👀This week on Under The Bed, we’re joined by Nicola for an open and honest conversation about the current buzz word in the christian community... 'deconstruction'.Nicola shares her own journey of questioning what she believed, unlearning certain things and examining her faith for herself. But we also ask the bigger question..is deconstruction actually a
S4 EP 2: S*xual Assault, BBL At 19 & Body Image w/ Chantelle Sophia
S4 EP 2: S*xual Assault, BBL At 19 & Body Image w/ Chantelle Sophia Aug 24, 2026 1:05:26 his week, Chantelle Sophia joins us Under the Bed…and honestly, this episode is CRAZY 😭😂We’re talking body image, BBLs and EVERYTHING in between. From the pressures women face to look a certain way, to confidence, insecurities and learning to love the body you’re in.It’s a super honest, unfiltered conversation with proper girl-chat vibes…absolutely nothing is off limits! Trust us, you don’t want t
S4 EP1: WE FELL OUT.. HERES WHAT HAPPENED
S4 EP1: WE FELL OUT.. HERES WHAT HAPPENED Aug 17, 2026 50:39 In this episode, we’re talking about friendship, conflict, communication and… the fact that WE ACTUALLY FELL OUT. 👀We also get vulnerable about our struggles with prayer, what it looks like when your relationship with God doesn’t feel the way it used to, and how difficult it can be to keep showing up spiritually when you’re struggling internally.Friendship isn’t always cute.. Sometimes you misunde
S3 EP10: Marriage, Divorce & Domestic Violence w/ Ysabella Grace
S3 EP10: Marriage, Divorce & Domestic Violence w/ Ysabella Grace Apr 27, 2026 1:09:21 Wow, UTBGANG..the last episode of season 3 is here! This week we sit down with Ysabella Grace for a real and necessary conversation on marriage, divorce and domestic violence. Nothing is sugar-coated... just honest reflections, hard truths and a conversation that needs to be had! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S3 EP9: You Think It’s God… But It Might Be Self-Hate
S3 EP9: You Think It’s God… But It Might Be Self-Hate Apr 20, 2026 47:04 Condemnation...don't you just hate that word? That might be the case but its also something ALL of us struggle with and on this weeks episode we get into the nitty gritty of it all. Whether you're struggling to return to the Lord, struggling in the pits of condemnation or unsure how to navigate this christian walk... we hope this episode blesses you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for mor
S3 EP8: Why Do Our Parents Bring Out The Worst In Us?
S3 EP8: Why Do Our Parents Bring Out The Worst In Us? Apr 13, 2026 1:06:31 On this Episode on Under The Bed, we get REAL about the struggles we have faced with our parents. From uncontrolled outbursts to dealing with 'honour' culture especially within the African/Caribbean culture. BUT through it all, we MUST rely on the Holy Spirits guidance - he will give us peace! Amen?! AMEN!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S3 EP7:  Cheating, Gossip & Prayer - Dilemmas (Part 2)
S3 EP7: Cheating, Gossip & Prayer - Dilemmas (Part 2) Apr 6, 2026 58:51 This week on Under The Bedwe’re back in our dilemmas bag 😭and it gets messy real quick.We’re talking gossip (is it ever justified or are you just being nosy), cheating (forgiveness, boundaries, and be honest… could you actually stay?), and that feeling of “why does everyone else seem more spiritual than me??” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S3 EP6: “I Have A Crush On My Pastor” - Dilemma’s
S3 EP6: “I Have A Crush On My Pastor” - Dilemma’s Mar 30, 2026 59:38 This week on Under The Bed… we’re getting into YOUR dilemmas 👀No sugarcoating, no pretending...we’re talking real situations, real questions, and the kind of advice you might not be ready for 😭From relationships to friendships to the things you don’t even want to admit out loud… yeah, we went there. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S3 EP5: The Ugly Truth About Friendship w/ LifeWithYourMidwife
S3 EP5: The Ugly Truth About Friendship w/ LifeWithYourMidwife Mar 23, 2026 1:04:11 We’re joined by our close friend and returning guest Life With Your Midwife (aka Lydia), and we’re getting honest about the ugly side of Christian friendship.We talk about misunderstandings, tension, unspoken feelings, and the moments where friendship doesn’t feel easy ...but also what it looks like to choose grace, communication, and growth anyway.This isn’t a perfect conversation, but it’s a rea
S3 EP4: Can You REALLY Enjoy Being Single w/ Deborah B
S3 EP4: Can You REALLY Enjoy Being Single w/ Deborah B Mar 16, 2026 1:06:19 In this weeks episode we have a REAL conversation about singleness, Christian dating apps, and what it’s like navigating faith when you’ve never had a boyfriend. We get honest about the pressures, expectations, and trusting God’s timing in relationships. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S3 EP3: Unfiltered Christian Q&A (Lust, Comparison & Jealous)
S3 EP3: Unfiltered Christian Q&A (Lust, Comparison & Jealous) Mar 9, 2026 50:05 This week on Under The Bed, we get honest about some of the trickiest heart issues we all face: lust, jealousy, envy and comparison, unpacking why these feelings show up, what the Bible actually says about them, and how to deal with them without pretending we’re perfect. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S3 EP2: Let’s Be Real … Christians are JUDGY w/ Joe Garratt
S3 EP2: Let’s Be Real … Christians are JUDGY w/ Joe Garratt Mar 2, 2026 48:14 This week we’re under the bed with Joe Garratt, yes, that Joe from Love Island, but there’s so much more to him than reality TV, as we talk about his journey beyond the villa, what faith looks like in the public eye, and the uncomfortable truth that sometimes the loudest judgment doesn’t come from the world, but from within the Church itself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more informa

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