Brandon The Dom
Brandon the Dom is a sex and relationship coach who hosts a podcast guiding listeners toward deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. The show explores boundaries, pleasure, and moving past barriers to full self-expression in a safe, trusting environment free from judgment and shame.
Episodes
BDSM Q&A: Monogamy vs Non-mongamy, Relationship Fits, How to Be a Switch
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from sent to me and from the YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.
Challenges for Women Stepping Into Dominance and Submission
In this panel discussion, Brandon The Dom sits down with Emily from the @soulkink channel and @Andy_Wells to explore the deeper psychology of BDSM, dominance, submission, polarity, surrender, communication, and vulnerability.Together they unpack the different challenges men and women face stepping into dominance, the hidden exhaustion behind leadership roles, why BDSM creates deeper comm
Pain Kinks Explained for Pleasure Doms and Subs
How can a pain kink feel pleasurable—and does enjoying it mean you’re a masochist? Learn the science, psychology, and erotic context that transforms pain into pleasure in BDSM.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro
Sexual Polarity Isn't What You Think It Is
How do you build intense sexual polarity in a relationship? In this deep-dive interview on @soulkink I sit down with Emily Letts. We break down the exact psychological framework required to introduce taboo kinks to a vanilla partner without scaring them away. I also explain why Dominants must focus on building a safe "container" for their submissives, and we expose the toxic habit of "top
BDSM Q&A: Biting, Dominant Power, Self Worth as Men, and Practicing Asserting Wants
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from sent to me and from the YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.
Tantric Breathing for Sex: A Simple Tool for Deeper Intimacy and Pleasure
Looking to deepen your intimacy and enhance pleasure? Discover the power of tantric breathing techniques and learn how to connect with your partner on a whole new level through mindful breathwork.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPT
Cock Worship: 10 Principles to Worship Your Man
Are you curious about cock worship and why it can be so deeply erotic and healing? This video explores what cock worship is, why it works, and how to practice it with presence and devotion for enhanced intimacy and sexual healing.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/deve
Why Grief Can Kill—or Intensify—Your Sexual Desire
What happens when grief changes your relationship with sex in ways you don’t expect? This video explores how loss impacts desire, intimacy, and erotic identity, helping you understand your shifting sexuality, release shame, and navigate sex with compassion during times of grief.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coachin
Stop Believing the Illusion of Total Control
What if the control you think you have in a D/s relationship is nothing more than an illusion? Explore how dominance is built—not through force or perfection, but through intention, consent, self-mastery, and real control.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-d
BDSM Q&A: Intense Sexual Feelings, Dom Drop, Truth About 24/7 Dynamics, Communication in BDSM
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from the Red Room Forums and YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.
The Submission That Isn't: Identifying Topping from the Bottom
Are you struggling with topping from the bottom in your D/s dynamic? Learn what topping from the bottom really means, why it happens, and how Dominants and submissives can rebuild trust, improve communication, and create deeper, more satisfying power exchange relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 D
Tantric Touch: More Than Just a Pleasurable Massage
Want to deepen intimacy and pleasure through touch? Tantric Touch enhances connection with intentional, mindful techniques for sensual intimacy, deeper bonding, and experiencing pleasure beyond goal-driven sex.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Touch Article:
Service Top: An Overlooked Role (Which Can Make You A Better Dom)
What does it mean to be a Service Top in BDSM? Discover how giving from the Top can be just as fulfilling as receiving, why Dominants should learn to serve too, and how genuine service deepens trust, pleasure, and connection.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developin
BDSM Q&A: Discipline Without Punishment, Praise Kinks, Trust Building & Attachment Styles in D/s
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from the YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/co
Supporting a Traumatized Partner in BDSM & Sex
How can you support a partner with trauma while exploring sex or BDSM safely and lovingly? Learn trauma-informed ways to build trust, create emotional safety, and help your partner reconnect with their body, pleasure, and power.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brando
How to Navigate Age Gap Relationships (and Other Power Imbalances)
What is an age gap relationship, and can it really work? Explore the dynamics, benefits, and potential risks of age gap relationships, and learn how informed consent, communication, and mutual respect can make them fulfilling and nurturing for both partners.---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTER
Make Roleplay Hotter, Easier, and Less Awkward
What makes roleplay sex so exciting? Discover how erotic roleplay engages your most powerful sexual organ—the brain—while helping you explore taboo desires, deepen intimacy, and have a lot more fun in and out of the bedroom.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dominant Dirty Talk Masterclass: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dominant-dirty-talk-masterclass---TIMESTAMP C
Discipline Isn’t Punishment: The Secret to a Thriving D/s Relationship
Ever wondered how discipline can make your BDSM dynamic stronger and more erotic? Discover how expanding your understanding of discipline—beyond just punishment—creates structure, accountability, and deeper connection for both Dominant and submissive.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/co
Tantric Eye Gazing: A Practice Far More Vulnerable Than Sex
What if deeper intimacy could begin with a single gaze? Eye gazing is a powerful Tantric practice that helps couples and individuals build connection, trust, and presence by simply looking into each other’s eyes. Learn the difference between eye gazing and staring, why it’s so transformative, and how to start your own practice—solo or with a partner.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandont
Predicament Bondage: Turning Submission into an Exhilarating Game
Curious about predicament bondage? Discover how this unique form of BDSM combines restraint, creativity, and psychology to create thrilling challenges where the submissive must choose between pain, pleasure, or surrender.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(0
10 Unexpected Benefits of Dom-Sub Relationships
Ever wondered what makes a Dom sub relationship so powerful? This video explores the potential benefits of power exchange within BDSM dynamics, from deeper intimacy to hotter passion. I discuss how these relationships can lead to personal growth and offers valuable relationship advice for those curious about this kink lifestyle.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.
Your First BDSM Party: Here's What to Expect
Ever wondered what really goes on at a BDSM Play Party? Learn how to survive your first event, turn nerves into confidence, and have an unforgettable night of kink, connection, and fun—without feeling lost or overwhelmed.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED
Is a Free Use Kink Really Just Unlimited Sex?
Curious about free use kink? Discover what it is, how it works, why people enjoy it, and the rules of consent that make it both thrilling and safe. Learn how to explore free use kink responsibly in this guide.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthe
Types of Doms: Which One Are You Meant to Be?
Curious about which Dom you are—or could become? Explore the different types of Doms in BDSM, from classic Masters to sensual Pleasure Doms, and learn how to find or craft a persona that fits your true desires.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonth
How to Set Boundaries and Limits in BDSM
What’s the difference between BDSM limits and boundaries—and why do they matter so much? Learn how to confidently set, communicate, and honor your BDSM limits and boundaries to create safer, hotter, and more connected power exchange dynamics.---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---
Praise Kink: The Deeper Intimate Power Play You’re Not Talking About
What if praise could unravel you more than pain? In this video, we explore the psychology behind the praise kink and how affirmation play can deepen intimacy in your D/s relationships. Discover the emotional intelligence involved in this BDSM dynamic and how it contributes to personal growth and healthy relationships. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course:
Why BDSM Play Is More Than Just Kinky Fun
What if BDSM play is more than just kink? Explore how BDSM play can become a powerful tool for psychological growth, shadow integration, and deeper self-awareness through role play.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro
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13 Ways to Engage in Public Play & Sex
Curious how to explore your kinks in public without getting caught? This guide to public play and public sex shows you how to stay discreet, ethical, and wildly turned on—anywhere.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) -
Light Bondage for Beginners (Without Learning Rope!)
Curious about bondage but not ready for rope? Discover light bondage for beginners—safe, sexy ways to restrain your partner without needing knots. Learn fun, easy techniques using everyday items and build trust and intimacy in your BDSM play.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.br
How To Train a Service Sub in BDSM
What if the most powerful kind of submission didn’t involve ropes, pain, or punishment—but quiet devotion? This deep dive into the world of the service sub explores the psychology, practices, and emotional intimacy behind acts of service in Dom/sub dynamics. Discover how small tasks become sacred rituals and why this underrated role holds transformative potential for both Dominants and su
How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Partner
Need to have a talk with a partner? This guide explores the art of navigating difficult conversations, with proven tools for improving communication skills, and creating deeper connections—whether in serious or casual relationships.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedo
Degradation Kink: A Misunderstood Dark Art in BDSM
What draws people to degradation kink, and how can something so taboo become deeply healing? This article unpacks the psychology, purpose, and ethical practice of degradation kink in BDSM, including how it differs from humiliation and objectification. Learn how to engage in these dark arts with intention, consent, and care—for both Dominants and submissives.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.
Master the Dominant Mindset: 3 Keys to Authentic Power in the Bedroom
Want to step into a truly dominant mindset without feeling like you're just playing a role? Discover how embracing your authentic desires, removing shame, and learning to take control will transform your confidence and give your submissive exactly what she craves.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s
Primal Play: Learn to Have Sex Like an Animal
Ever felt the urge to growl, bite, or pin your partner down in a wild, uninhibited frenzy? Primal play is a raw and instinctual form of BDSM that strips away rules and protocol, letting your animalistic desires take over. Whether you're into rough sex, consensual non-consent (CNC), wrestling for dominance, or simply craving deep, carnal connection—this guide explores everything you need t
16 Ways to Practice Orgasm Control
Curious about orgasm control? This video goes beyond a simple edging technique, exploring how dominance and submission can be heightened with techniques like forced orgasms and orgasm denial. Learn how to intensify pleasure with these bdsm practices. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https
Do You Want a Dom, a Top, or Just Some Rough Sex?
Do you actually want a Dom, a Top, or just rough sex? Many people use the word "Dominant" without defining their desires, leading to frustration and disappointment. Learn the differences between rough sex, kinky play with a skilled Top, and power exchange with a Dom—helping you clarify what you want and communicate it effectively.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉
Secrets to Building Trust in D/s (And Any Relationship)!
Explore the two sides of trust in Dom/Sub dynamics. Understand how to be trustworthy and how to trust your partner, creating a fulfilling and secure D/s relationship.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro
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How to Find a Good Sub (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)
Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including @Andy_Wells , Mario, and myself, for Doms focusing on the search for a compatible sub. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating
5 Principles for BDSM Rewards for Submissives
Has your submissive been a good girl? Need a way to encourage and appreciate her for her efforts? Learn about BDSM rewards for submissives including the 5 principles of rewards, the different systems and levels of rewards, and different types of rewards with examples.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉
7 Principles for BDSM Punishments for Submissives
When a submissive breaks a rule, what is the best course of action? This video explores BDSM punishments for submissives including the 7 principles of punishments, the different levels of punishment and how to choose the correct one, and different types of punishments with examples.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/develo
Why Cockwarming Might Be Your New Favorite Thing!
Explore the world of BDSM and discover how subtle acts can be incredibly fulfilling. This video delves into the concept of cockwarming, emphasizing that not every act needs to be high dominance or aggressive. Learn how to incorporate this simple act into your dynamic.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉
How to Find a Good Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)
Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including @Andy_Wells, Mario, and myself, for submissives focusing on the search for a compatible Dom. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s
What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme)
This video features an interview with @domme_claire , a professional dominatrix, and @Andy_Wells , discussing dominance and how it can be used to help others. The conversation highlights a philosophy of kindness, care, and building up submissives through positive leadership. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-
Two Must-Ask Questions for Better Sex
These two deceptively simple questions will change your sex life and drastically improve your chances of finding fulfillment in your pleasure.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro
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Face Fucking Guide: Techniques and Positions for Aggressive Oral Sex
For those who enjoy rough sex or BDSM power play, traditional oral sex can be turned up a few notches to become face f**king. This article will take you through how to (safely) have sex with your partner’s face and make it pleasurable for the both of you.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: h
Ethical Non Monogamy: A Practical Guide to Having Multiple Partners
Curious about ethical non monogamy? Learn what ethical non monogamy (ENM) is, why someone would want to share or have multiple partners, and how to practice ENM for multiple happy relationships.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPT
3 Pillars to Structure the Perfect BDSM Scene
Want to craft a great BDSM scene? These 3 foundational pillars will equip you with an easy to use formula for you to create scenes that will help Doms and subs reach the heights of pleasure and depths of subspace.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-datin
Biting During Sex Tips & Techniques
Today's episode is a guide on biting during sex, focusing on safety and technique. Learn how to ensure a positive experience with these sex education tips for achieving mutual pleasure. This step-by-step guide provides crucial safety tips for those interested in exploring BDSM.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-d
How to Stop Having Unfulfilling Situationships
Tired of unfulfilling situationships? Learn the simple (but sometimes hard to do) practice to build a more fulfilling relationship.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro
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Face Slapping Tips for Rougher Sex & Safe BDSM Play
Today's video offers guidance on incorporating face slapping into rough play, focusing on safety and technique. Learn how to ensure a positive experience with these sex education tips. This step-by-step guide to face slapping provides crucial safety tips.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: h
7 Techniques To Last Longer In Bed
Cumming to quickly? Want to increase the amount of time you have intercourse? This video will breakdown everything you need to know about lasting longer during in the bedroom including the one must know concept of PNR and 7 techniques that will take from ejaculating in mere minutes to lasting as long as you'd like.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: http
Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM
Can BDSM be healing for those who have experienced their consent being abused? @Andy_Wells and I discuss navigating consent, helping women through bad past experiences, speaking up for needs, and how men can be judged and shamed in the bedroom too.---👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro
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Hair Pulling During Sex Guide: Tips & Techniques
Today we're diving into the world of hair pulling and sex, but we're focusing on proper techniques. Learn how to make hair pulling a pleasurable experience, not a painful one. Explore the best way to achieve mutual pleasure with these sex education tips.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandont
How to Deal with Sub Drop Physically, Mentally, and Emotionally
Feeling down after a scene? You might be experiencing sub drop, a common occurrence in the BDSM world. This video helps you understand the feelings associated with sub drop and offers simple tips on how to navigate it with your dominant and submissive partner. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.b
Manhandling Techniques & Tips for Rougher Sex & BDSM
Learn how to manhandle your submissive in the bedroom so she can feel your Dominance and intensify her pleasure in sex and BDSM play.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - I
How to be a Brat Tamer - The Secret to Taming Bratty Submissives
Learn the secret to taming brats, misconceptions about brats, different brats you might run into, effective strategies and mindsets for being a brat tamer, and example punishments for brats.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
Dating Coach Thomas Crown Reviews My Book on Dominance & BDSM
Daygame & Dating Coach, Thomas Crown reviews my recent book, Enter the Dom: The No BS Book on Dominance. He gave Mario and I some in depth feedback about the book. The book is part self-help, part-BDSM introduction, and aims to help men discover their dominance and explore their sexual fantasies.We had a great idea for me to give my feedback and discuss the book as a podcast. I hope y
How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)
Want to become a better Dominant? In this powerful and candid interview, three experienced Doms share real talk on what it truly means to lead in the bedroom—and beyond.We dive into:- The true essence of dominance- Common mistakes new Doms make- What to do your first time with a new submissive- How to step into a dominant mindset- Proven tools, tips, and techniques- Plus, some hilarious a
5 Techniques for Safer Erotic Choking in Sex and BDSM Play
Learn 5 techniques, risks and considerations for engaging in erotic choking (erotic asphyxiation) and how to safely incorporate it into sex and BDSM play with your submissive.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Int
Attending Your First BDSM Munch? Here’s What to Expect
Want to start getting into the kink scene and community? Try a munch, a social gathering for kinky people. In this video, learn what happens at munches, what to talk about, how to act, and where to find them.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---T
Improve Your BDSM Spanking Skills With These Essential Tips
Learn the best techniques and positions for delivering an unforgettable spanking experience for your submissive.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - - Intro
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9 Tools for Dominants to Pleasure Their Submissive
If you think being a Pleasure Dom is just about giving orgasms, you're mistaken. In this video, I will reveal to you what a Pleasure Dom is, their psychology, nine sexy tools to use as a Pleasure Dom, how to be submissive for one, and an example scene for you to try.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D
Overcoming Sexual Shame With Seven Powerful Tactics
In this episode, Brandon the Dom will explain seven powerful tactics to help you overcome sexual shame and embrace your sexuality. If you struggle with feelings of shame around sex, this video is for you.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating---🔥 TIM
5 Steps to Make Your Man More Dominant in the Bedroom
Are you craving more dominance from your man in the bedroom? In this episode, Brandon the Dom reveals 5 psychology-based steps to naturally encourage and draw out his dominant masculine energy. Perfect for women who love their partner's caring nature but want him to take more control intimately. Learn how to create the right environment for his dominance to flourish without nagging or cri
Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State
In this video, Brandon the Dom explains the concept of subspace in the BDSM scene, detailing its euphoric and trance-like nature. He discusses why subspace occurs, the risks involved, and how to achieve and safely transition out of it to avoid subdrop. Brandon also shares his personal updates and provides insights into related research studies, the complementary state of 'Domspace', and a
Sex Menu: Best Communication Tool for Turn Ons for Kink, BDSM, and Intimacy
In this episode, Brandon the Dom introduces the concept of a 'sex menu' as a powerful communication tool for couples to express their desires effectively. This framework involves creating a comprehensive list of sexual acts and using a rating system to indicate preference levels, alongside detailed notes to enhance clarity. It aims to foster open communication, consent, and exploration of
Have Mismatched Libidos? Here's How to Fix a Sexually Incompatible Relationship
In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares what to do if you're struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship. He explains why this occurring based on libidos being mismatched or having different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. He also shares questions to ask yourself and signs to look out for. Finally, he gives you three options so you can fix your s
BDSM Sex Homework to Give Your Submissive with Example Task, Rules, and Rituals
In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares how to assign sex homework or BDSM tasks to your submissive in order to improve your Dom sub dynamic and helping your submissive grow. He explains how to give tasks using systems, set deadlines, and creating the appropriate rewards and punishments for the homework tasks. Then he shares example task, rules, and rituals that can be done for sex homewo
Sexual Performance Anxiety Treatment for Men: 6 Strategies for Success
In this episode, Brandon the Dom addresses the common issue of sexual performance anxiety, explaining what it is, why it occurs, and providing effective strategies to overcome it. He discusses the psychological and physiological factors behind erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, and emphasizes the importance of reframing beliefs and focusing on pleasure rather than performance
Attachment Styles Explained: Improve Your Relationships and Intimacy
In this episode, Brandon the Dom explores the concept of attachment styles and their impact on relationships and intimate life. He explains the four types of attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—detailing how each one is formed and its effects on adult behavior. Brandon also provides practical tools and strategies for developing a more secure attachment style, off
5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner
In this video, Brandon the Dom addresses the common fears of sharing intimate fantasies and desires with a partner, fearing judgment or rejection. He offers five practical tools to effectively communicate these turn-ons in a non-judgmental and open environment. These tools include desire statements, pillow talk, sexual bucket lists, sex menus, and sexual disclosure, each designed to foste
3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons
In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into the importance of understanding one's own desires and turn-ons. He introduces three tools to explore the erotic mind: an erotic journal, erotic quizzes, and a sexual disclosure with a trusted partner. Brandon covers the significance of Jack Morin's concept of the core erotic theme and explains how to use these tools to gain a deeper understandi
Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man
In this episode, Brandon the Dom provides a comprehensive roadmap to developing sexual dominance in the bedroom. He explains why your partner may desire dominance and outlines specific acts you can perform, from low to extreme dominance, ensuring healthy communication and consent. Brandon covers how to start with basic acts like kissing and dirty talk, progressing to more skill-intensive
A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners
Join Brandon the Dom as he presents a comprehensive guide to Tantra, including its spiritual roots and practical applications for enhanced sex life and personal growth. Learn the key differences between traditional Tantra and Neo Tantra, explore the philosophies behind Tantra's practices, and discover the three essential pillars: eye contact, touch, and breath. Gain insights on integratin
5 Stages of a Relationship in Pursuing Purpose (Monogamy & Non-monogamy)
In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into evaluating long-term life partners. Drawing from his personal experiences, Brandon explores how to assess your partner's alignment with your life purpose. He outlines five stages of relationships—need fulfillment, mutual benefit, romantic trial period, engagement/resource trial period, and full commitment—highlighting the importance of aligning
7 Essential Behaviors for a Good Submissive in BDSM
In this episode, Brandon the Dom discusses seven crucial behaviors that make a good submissive in a dominant-submissive (DS) relationship. These behaviors, which complement those required of a good Dom, include service towards the Dom's vision, respect and trust, challenging the structure when necessary, effective communication, play and servicing pleasure, openness to learning, and servi
7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM
In this episode, Brandon the Dom discusses seven crucial behaviors that make a good dominant in BDSM. Moving beyond basic consent and research, these behaviors delve into deeper concepts like leadership, responsibility, order, communication, awareness, education, and love. Brandon explains the importance of each behavior, offering insights and practical examples for both dominants and sub
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