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Uncomfortable, On Purpose

Uncomfortable, On Purpose

Marj Kupps 7 episodes Latest Apr 15, 2026

Uncomfortable, On Purpose is a show exploring marriage, culture, identity, and the realities we don't always know how to articulate. No surface-level takes. No performative conversations. Just intentional dialogue that challenges assumptions and invites growth.

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Why We Love To See People Fall Jun 10, 2026 00:40:39 In this episode, we’re unpacking the internet’s fascination with public mistakes, online backlash, and why it often feels easier to criticize than to extend grace.From cancel culture and call-out videos to creator burnout and the rise of curated content, we explore how social media has changed the way we share, connect, and show up online.I also reflect on my own relationship with the internet, ho
A Pause Before the Next Chapter Apr 15, 2026 00:03:03 Season 1 is officially wrapped.Six episodes in, and I’ve learned a lot. About this podcast, about showing up, and about what I want this to become.I’m taking a short break to level things up behind the scenes before returning for Season 2.Better, clearer, and more aligned.
Submission: Cultural, Biblical… or Misused? Apr 8, 2026 00:23:28 Submission.A word that makes some women uncomfortable… and some men very comfortable.In this episode, I unpack a cultural practice that sparked a deeper question in me: How much of what we call “submission” is really about God, and how much of it is just culture, tradition, or even control?We’re getting into:- The uncomfortable tension between cultural expectations and personal conviction - How su
ASK ME ANYTHING, DECK OF CARDS EDITION Apr 1, 2026 00:34:25 In this Ask Me Anything: Deck of Cards Edition, I used random cards as prompts and let the conversation go wherever it wanted. From marriage and PDA to career changes, career pressure, and the fear of disappointing your parents.It’s honest, a little all over the place, and very real. No script, no plan — just me answering whatever comes up.If you’ve ever felt stuck, unmotivated, or unsure about wh
Girlhood After Marriage: Is Your Husband Your Only Friend? Mar 25, 2026 00:18:25 In this episode I unpack the subtle “promotion” of romantic relationships over all others. Why do we celebrate love… but quietly downgrade friendship?”I was told growing up that my husband should be my best friend… my only friend. And for a while, I believed that. But I don’t think that advice works for everyone, and I want to talk about why. And if you’ve ever felt left behind by a married friend
Having Kids: Love, Fear, or Expectation? Mar 18, 2026 00:22:52 Why do we really have children?In this episode, I unpack the advice many of us grew up hearing; that you should have kids so you won’t be lonely, or that having children will strengthen your marriage.But are those reasons rooted in love… or fear?I reflect on a recent conversation with my parents, question traditional beliefs about motherhood, and explore a perspective that stopped me in my tracks:
The Most Controversial Marriage Advice I Got About In-Laws Mar 11, 2026 00:18:03 My grandmother once told me that the day she got married... five of my grandfather's relatives moved into their home. There is so much I want to unpack from her story. Let's dive into Family, marriage expectations, and generational differences.What would YOU have done had you been in my grandmother's shoes?
I Grew Up With Chaperoned Dating Mar 3, 2026 00:18:46 In this episode, I reflect on growing up in a culture where dating without chaperones wasn't an option. We're talking courtship, structure, boundaries, and how those systems compare to modern dating today.Was it restorative? Protective? Both?As dating culture continues to evolve, it's worth asking: what did we gain, and what did we lose?

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