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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski 314 Episodes Aug 22, 2026

Love Strategies is a podcast that offers dating and love advice specifically for successful women. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, it combines the latest relationship research with practical insights into the male mind. The show aims to help women attract high-value men, date strategically, and deepen their romantic relationships.

Episodes

Ghosting is a good sign
Ghosting is a good sign Aug 22, 2026 1435 Ghosting hurts - no question. It feels like rejection, and your brain spirals: What did I do wrong? Why wasn't I enough? But here's the reframe that changes everything: ghosting isn't a sign you're losing. It's proof your standards are working.When you raise your standards, you naturally repel low-investment people. They see you won't settle, won't chase, won&apo
The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence
The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence Aug 17, 2026 1546 When you're single, striking up conversations with people you find attractive can seem daunting. So, in today's podcast, Dr. Gary Lewandowski breaks down the The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With ConfidenceOriginally aired: May. 30, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
4 Signs You've Talked Yourself Into Dating the Wrong Man
4 Signs You've Talked Yourself Into Dating the Wrong Man Aug 15, 2026 1767 I'll be straight with you: talking yourself into the wrong guy doesn't happen because you're desperate or naive. It happens because you're empathetic, capable, and actually really good at making things work. But those same strengths can become your biggest trap when you're dating someone who isn't showing up the way you deserve.In this episode, Gary and I break down t
8 Body Language Secrets That Turn Men on (Based on Science)
8 Body Language Secrets That Turn Men on (Based on Science) Aug 10, 2026 1833 What if I told you there are incredibly simple yet effective techniques to show interest without uttering a single word? Each of these methods is grounded in scientific research and can catch the attention of someone new or signal your interest to someone you're already seeing.Originally aired: Jan. 05, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love
Why the Men Who Want You Aren't the Men Who Commit
Why the Men Who Want You Aren't the Men Who Commit Aug 8, 2026 2018 A man's desire is not proof of his devotion. That single misread is where the confusion, the "slow fade," and the self-blame begin.Once you understand the evolutionary wiring behind male dating behavior, you stop taking his disappearing act personally and start seeing the difference between a man who wants your attention and a man who is ready for your life.NEXT STEP: Book a complim
How To Tell If He'll Really Commit (Without Asking Him)
How To Tell If He'll Really Commit (Without Asking Him) Aug 5, 2026 568 If you keep decoding mixed signals and second-guessing your standards, this one is for you.I wrote about the quieter, behavioral signs that a man has already decided whether you're short-term or long-term, and how to actually see them.No scripts, no games, just a clearer way to read his effort, his calendar, and your own confusion.If you're ready to stop negotiating with "busy"
6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Massively Attractive
6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Massively Attractive Aug 3, 2026 1749 Are you ready to dive into the minds of men and discover what truly captures our attention? If so, check out today's podcast: 6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Massively Attractive.Originally aired: Nov. 26, 2023NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
She Was 46 and Ready to Give Up on Love. Then This Happened. (Delicia's Story)
She Was 46 and Ready to Give Up on Love. Then This Happened. (Delicia's Story) Aug 1, 2026 2715 Brilliant at work, baffled by dating? For a woman who thinks for a living, "just flirt more" is not advice, it is an insult.In this episode we break down how high-achieving women turn a discouraging love life around without going casual or lowering their standards.Why pacing, structure, and one simple mindset shift matter far more than perfect photos or the right text.If part of you is r
The Truth About Long Distance Relationships: What Science Says
The Truth About Long Distance Relationships: What Science Says Jul 27, 2026 2192 Thanks to the internet, long-distance relationships (LDRs) have become a popular phenomenon. From spousal separations to meeting someone special online, LDRs are now more common than ever before. But how do you make it work?In this podcast, we share personal experiences and expert advice on navigating the challenges of long-distance love. We ask the most important question: Will it work? We discus
5 Things You Don't Realize You're Doing That Scare Men Away
5 Things You Don't Realize You're Doing That Scare Men Away Jul 25, 2026 1288 You've done the therapy, read the books, and know exactly what you want. So why do men still pull back just as things get serious?Often it isn't that you're not enough. It's that the intelligence and self-protection driving your career are quietly sabotaging your love life.Stop unintentionally scaring great men away and learn a proven step-by-step dating strategy: https://go.lo
How to Make a Man Miss You
How to Make a Man Miss You Jul 20, 2026 2268 How do you build desire and make a man miss you? Create scarcity without playing games. In this week's podcast, we discuss (debate) the power of making a man miss you through the dating process. Originally aired: Dec. 18, 2022NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
The 3 Questions That Tell You If He's "The One" (Not Your Gut)
The 3 Questions That Tell You If He's "The One" (Not Your Gut) Jul 18, 2026 1418 Stop wondering if he’s "The One" based on a "vibe" and start using data to find your person.In this episode, we break down the Date Night Debrief, a simple 10-minute strategy rooted in decision-making science to help you stop obsessing and start dating with clarity.Stop overthinking every text and start using our 10-minute post-date debrief to actually see who is worth your tim

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