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The BPD Bunch

The BPD Bunch

The BPD Bunch 237 episodes Nov 11, 2026

The BPD Bunch is a talk show featuring a panel of people in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week, they discuss BPD-related topics to provide insights into how BPD can manifest in different lives. The show also covers various recovery journeys to offer hope and direction for listeners.

Episodes

BPD, Reckless Sex & Self-Punishment: Why We Hook Up When We Don't Want To
BPD, Reckless Sex & Self-Punishment: Why We Hook Up When We Don't Want To Nov 11, 2026 16:38 What if you keep hooking up with people, even when you don’t really want to, because deep down you believe it’s all you deserve?In this minisode, Xannie, Mo, Georgette, and Raf answer a viewer’s question about the connection between BPD, reckless sex, and self-punishment. They share deeply personal experiences of seeking love through hookups, using sex to escape emotional pain, struggling with bou
Why Does Having No Sense of Self Make Loss So Devastating? (BPD)
Why Does Having No Sense of Self Make Loss So Devastating? (BPD) Nov 4, 2026 18:35 Why can losing someone feel like losing your entire world when you have BPD?In this minisode, Xannie, Katja, Carys, and Justin answer a viewer’s question about why lacking a stable sense of identity can make loss feel so devastating. Through personal experiences, they explore what happens when your sense of self depends on people or things outside your control, and how developing your own identity
BPD Diagnosis: Misdiagnosis, Identity, Recovery & the DSM-5 (AMPD) The BPD Bunch Season 7
BPD Diagnosis: Misdiagnosis, Identity, Recovery & the DSM-5 (AMPD) The BPD Bunch Season 7 Oct 29, 2026 32:13 What if the way BPD is diagnosed doesn’t actually capture what you’re experiencing?In our Season 7 finale, Xannie, Katja, and Justin reflect on what they learned about the Alternative Model of Personality Disorders (AMPD) and how it compares to the traditional DSM-5 criteria.In this episode:* BPD diagnostic criteria: DSM-5 vs. AMPD* Why identity struggles may be central to BPD* Feeling empty even
BPD and Rage: Explosive Anger, Lashing Out & Learning to Stop (Hostility Part 2) The BPD Bunch Season 7
BPD and Rage: Explosive Anger, Lashing Out & Learning to Stop (Hostility Part 2) The BPD Bunch Season 7 Oct 22, 2026 38:45 Have you ever gotten so angry that you knew you were making things worse, and still couldn’t seem to stop?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Mo, Raf, Georgette, Katja, and Justin get honest about what it took to change their relationship with BPD rage and hostility. From explosive arguments and pushing loved ones away to learning how to walk away before things escalate, the cast shares what
BPD and Hostility: Rage, Resentment & Hurting People You Care About (The BPD Bunch S7)
BPD and Hostility: Rage, Resentment & Hurting People You Care About (The BPD Bunch S7) Oct 14, 2026 37:54 Have you ever been so angry at someone that hurting them felt completely justified?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Mo, Raf, Georgette, Katja, and Justin get brutally honest about their experiences with BPD and hostility. From holding grudges for years to deliberately targeting someone’s insecurities, they share the behaviors they once defended and the damage those behaviors caused.They a
BPD and Mentalization-Based Treatment (MBT): Why Our Thinking Gets Stuck (ft. Robert Drozek)
BPD and Mentalization-Based Treatment (MBT): Why Our Thinking Gets Stuck (ft. Robert Drozek) Oct 12, 2026 56:31 Understanding why you behave a certain way doesn’t always mean you know how to change it.In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie sits down with Bob Drozek, director of the Mentalization-Based Treatment (MBT) Clinic at McLean Hospital, to explore how MBT helps people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) better understand their thoughts, emotions, and relationships.They discuss what mentaliza
BPD and Risk Taking Part 2: How We Learned To Stop
BPD and Risk Taking Part 2: How We Learned To Stop Oct 7, 2026 28:16 What does it actually take to stop taking risks when they’ve become your way of coping?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, André, Georgette, Melanie, Justin, and Dan talk about what has actually helped them manage risk-taking and impulsive behavior with BPD. From delaying purchases and putting roadblocks around spending to writing the angry email without actually sending it, they share the p
BPD and Risk-Taking: Unsafe Sex, Strangers, Drugs & Reckless Decisions
BPD and Risk-Taking: Unsafe Sex, Strangers, Drugs & Reckless Decisions Oct 1, 2026 35:06 Have you ever known something could end badly and still felt like the risk barely mattered in the moment?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, André, Georgette, Melanie, Justin, and Dan get brutally honest about how risk-taking showed up in their lives with BPD. They share experiences with drugs, sex, unsafe situations, reckless driving, impulsive spending, validation seeking, and choices that
Why We Keep Doing Things We Know We'll Regret | BPD Impulsivity (The BPD Bunch S7)
Why We Keep Doing Things We Know We'll Regret | BPD Impulsivity (The BPD Bunch S7) Sep 23, 2026 29:07 Have you ever known an impulsive decision would probably end badly and still felt like you had to do it anyway?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Mo, Céline, and Melanie talk about what actually helped them manage BPD impulsivity, from sleeping on decisions and distracting themselves long enough for an urge to pass to checking their choices against their values.They also get into the deeper
BPD Made Chaos Feel Good: Unstable Relationships, Chronic Emptiness & Learning to Feel (ft. Freya Fire)
BPD Made Chaos Feel Good: Unstable Relationships, Chronic Emptiness & Learning to Feel (ft. Freya Fire) Sep 20, 2026 44:32 Have you ever known something was bad for you and still missed the intensity when it was gone?Freya joins Xannie and Jack to talk about a BPD recovery journey shaped by chaotic relationships, chronic emptiness, emotional avoidance, burnout, identity, and a constant need to stay distracted. She shares why “constant peril” once felt like living, why a full calendar made her feel loved, and what happ
BPD and Impulsivity: Self-Harm, Substance Use & Decisions You Regret
BPD and Impulsivity: Self-Harm, Substance Use & Decisions You Regret Sep 17, 2026 29:26 Have you ever felt something so intensely that doing anything to make it stop seemed like a good idea in the moment?In this episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Céline, Mo, and Melanie get brutally honest about what impulsivity actually looked like in their lives: impulsive tattoos, self-harm, drinking and drugs, binge spending, quitting jobs, cutting people off, and reacting to shame with anger inst
BPD Abandonment Fear When Your Partner Keeps Threatening to Leave
BPD Abandonment Fear When Your Partner Keeps Threatening to Leave Sep 9, 2026 14:03 How can you tell the difference between normal excitement about someone and a BPD “favorite person” relationship that’s starting to take over?In this mini episode of The BPD Bunch, Xannie, Carys, Jack, and Katja share their experiences with favorite person (FP) relationships and the signs that helped them recognize when attachment was becoming unhealthy.They talk about what happens when one person

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