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Episodes
After Action Report #52
Deep in rural Sweden, the tantric kinksters are getting FREAKY.
At the “Sexsibility Festival” a 5-day erotic gathering where you can explore tantra, contact improv, and eye gazing along with impact play workshops, there’s a lot to do and see. But everybody’s still gotta eat, right?
Enter Pearse, who cooked breakfast for over 500 participants.
He says it looks similar to Midsommar but without t
Savage Love Episode 1041
A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she break through these barriers and get some lovin' already?
A married woman for 18 years with kids is sick to death of her life. She wants to chuck the family, move to another town and have a ton of new sex. But she loves
After Action Report #51
What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife?
Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out.
Tell us about your…transgressions.Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1040
A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under private sex life or public identity?
A woman went to a sex party and met a hot female bouncer who throws out misbehaving guests. The caller wants to ask her to be her dom. Should sh
After Action Report #50
Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before…
Hear all about her dusty experience.
What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1039
A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet.
A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situation.
On the Magnum, it's a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire t
After Action Report #49
What's in the duffel bag?
On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle.
But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve?
After a bad experience at home, Julia had a re-discovery of her best sexual self.
Have a listen.
And then send us your story!
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1038
We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing?
A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there?
Our guest this week is Allen Sulkin, creator of the new podcast "Gerbil." He and Dan analyze the persistence of the insan
After Action Report #48
Just how polite are Canadians?
Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam.
Name a lake after this guy!
Tell us your story, right away!Send it to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1037
Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently!
A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt.
On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How long must you wait to masturbate after you've had a heart attack? Dr. Eugene Fan is a cardiolog
After Action Report #47
No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date.
Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot.
Hear her story, get turned on.
If YOU have a delicious tale to tell, write it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1036
Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a load? Need he?
Speaking of loads, a woman credits her beautiful, supple skin to the facial treatments her husband obligingly administers. Can this be true? Any dermatologists care to weigh
After Action Report #46
Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend.
Packing checklist:
Kink outfits
Consent Form
Waste bag
How did it go? You'll find out.
Send us your stories, your wonderful stories!
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1035
A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband, wanting to chat and interact. Dan was in a similar situation, but don't tell Dan's husband how he dealt with it.
A divorced woman with children has been dating a man. Both are in open relatio
After Action Report #45
Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product…
Do you have a story of something you tried that was like, so embarrassing??!!Let us hear it: Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1034
Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be?
Now that chastity play its all the rage, should we assume that a key necklace means something deeply kinky? And if so, should we knowingly wink when we see one?
Sex/science nerds rejoice! Our Magnum guest
After Action Report #44
Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event."
What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse costume was involved.
Also, Dan brings a much needed Marxist interrogation to the story.
If you have a tale to share, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
Savage Love Episode 1033
A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex when it's back to the hum-drum two of them?
A caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually... well, actually shit themselves. The answer comes from Dan's guest, Fancy of
After Action Report #43
After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time.
Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story.
And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day.
How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1032
As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him?
And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say?
Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out s
After Action Report #42
Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really?
It’s a journey…
Tell us all about your novel erotic transgressions.Q@Savage.Love
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Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46
Sex & Politics #46
Can we really change?
Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation.” He and Dan talked about the various ways people can change- h
Savage Love Episode 1031
A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner?
A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial security and perfectly fine sex. But she finds him so very dull. Is a comfortable but boring relationship enough?
On the Magnum, meet comedian, filmmaker and avowed cuck queen Edy Modic
After Action Report #41
What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out…
Tell us about your brave excursion.
Write about your experience and send it to Dan: Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1030
Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up?
A woman with super-high libido is trying to convince her husband to have a three-way with another woman. But he doesn't wanna. How can she convince him to do the thing that many straight men would kill for?
On the Magnum, a woman is being drawn in to more and
After Action Report #40
“He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…”
Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge.You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply press play.
If you had a sexual experience that called for a LOT of logistics, write about it and send us the details toQ@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1029
An intersex man had his urethra operated on when he was a toddler. Now he wants to try sounding but his doctors advise against it. He is suspicious of doctors after his non-consensual surgeries. Should he ignore them and pursue his pleasure?
A 66 year-old woman loves to give blow jobs to her lucky husband. But sometimes she gets a bit too enthusiastic and ends up with bruises on her lip. Will p
After Action Report #39
Monica is a tried and true, old school Magnum sub. With Dan’s advice in her head, she applied to join a “foot night” where men pay to play…with women’s feet.
Did Monica have a good time?What did she wear?And exactly how much money did she make?
All is revealed.
If you have an experience you enjoyed or endured, write about it, and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1028
Ouch! A woman has been fisting her boyfriend to both of their delight. But guess what hurts: Her hand! How can she get in there comfortably?
A woman is trying to convince both her conspiracy-minded friend and her wife that ultra rich people are not really eating babies. Because...they aren't...right?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Stephen Dubner - host of Freakonomics Radio. His new show, Bette
After Action Report #38
In one of the more graphic After Action Reports we’ve had the pleasure to relay, hear Mary’s story not of getting peed ON, but getting peed IN.
Don’t worry. She has a “robust vagina.”
Do YOU have anything robust about you?Send us the details to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1027
A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate.
A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink?
On the Magnum
After Action Report #37
Have you ever bitten a dick? Like really hard?NO YOU HAVE NOT.She did. And he liked it.
Listen in.
If you’ve done something…shocking, and you want to tell us about it, send the details to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1026
A man in a poly relationship is worried that his penis smells like his girlfriend's vagina despite his meticulous hygiene practices. This doesn't bother him. But when he eventually convinces someone else to go down on him, will they notice? Is there a "special soap" he could use?
In Paris, in the year 1911, an employee of the Louvre made off with the Mona Lisa. Fast forward to the year 2024. A
After Action Report #36
Did you know that they have bathhouses in Canada? They do!Meet Jay, married to his husband for 10 years, and ready for adventure.Even though he was nervous and his glasses kept fogging up, he persevered.
Hear all about it.
If you have a story to share, write to us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1025
A woman's hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door.
Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the show Dr. Carlton Thomas. He is on to answer a question about NEW DOUCHING TECHNOLOGY.
On the Magnum, a newly single woman is howling at the moon with insatiably high libido. She's annoyed with apps and parties and wonde
After Action Report #35
Meet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you, remember as Maxon says: "Everyone's chastity journey is different."
BUT THAT ISN'T EVEN WHAT THIS AFTER ACTION REPORT IS ABOUT.
Do you like to play bingo? Then think hard before you press play. Because with this episode i
Savage Lovecast Episode 1024
A woman discovers her recently deceased father had a foot-tickling fetish and doesn't know how to process this new view of her dad.
Speaking of kinks, a man with a diaper fetish is feeling resentful that his kink so severely limits his dating prospects.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with hunky clinical psychologist Dr. Thomas Whitfield about dating closet cases, sex education, masc for masc and why
After Action Report #34
Becca just needed to relax. So she thought she’d be like the gays and try poppers. How did it go?
Listen and then you’ll know.
If you’ve recently tried a new product or ingested a substance to improve your sex life, we want to know about it.
Write your story and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1023
A woman who enjoys multiple orgasms doesn't understand why, physiologically, all woman can't come over and over and over. Like she can.
A gay man wants a new word for the practice of rubbing dicks together, other than "frotting."
On the Magnum, Dan interviews Tracy Clark-Flory whose memoir My Mother's Daughter , brought Dan to tears. It encompasses feminism, racism, parenting, adoption and s
After Action Report #33
Somewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.”
Seems sketchy, but he got lots of good reviews on Google.
After this show comes out we expect an uptick of tourism to Peru…
Have you thrown caution to the wind? Let us know all about it.
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1022
A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people?
A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specialize
After Action Report #32
Ho hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right?
But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending.
Surprise us! Write about your naughty little experience, and send it to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1021
A woman who really wants a long term partner has gotten a "tantric opportunity" she may not be able to refuse. Hours and hours of hot sex? But the dude isn't boyfriend material. Should take this once in a lifetime opportunity anyway?
A woman's friend only dates women much younger than himself. He insists he's being respectful and mindful of power imbalance. But it still gives her the creeps- sho
After Action Report #31
A man who wanted to confirm his hetero-flexibility gives his first BJ.
But did he pass the cocksucker test? Not everyone does.
Hear all about it.
Want to share your first time doing something?
Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1020
This show is a roller coaster...of love. We start out with a heartbreaking question from a woman whose fiancé broke up with her after she had bought the dress and sent out the invites. Their lives and friends are intertwined. How can she bounce back from something like this?
Then, a gay man has observed trans men at sex clubs getting it on with lots of guys. If they aren't on birth control, can
After Action Report #30
What a feel-good story for the ages. Victor managed to amass three sexual "firsts" in one potent session with a transwoman domme:Experience subspace- check.Have sex with a transwoman- check.Dick in the butt? Check!
This sizzling story also offers a study in sex worker professionalism.
Listen in and feel the joy.
Have you gone through some new interesting times?
Tell us, tell us, tell us!Wr
Savage Lovecast 1019
This just in! Man thinks he's special because he has a Madonna/whore complex!
When a woman first started dating her boyfriend, he had a drinking problem, and made some bad moves. The caller told her friends and family about this. But now that he is better and truly working on himself, no one but the caller will forgive him. How can she convince them that he's a good guy?
On the Magnum, Dan chats
After Action Report #29
Anne thought that finding a professional to tie her up in exquisite Shibari bondage in her little, small town would be impossible.
She was wrong!
Hear all about her encounter in the rope top’s studio.
Do you have something for us? Fork it over. Write to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1018
When he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives?
A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They always end up getting back together, but each time he thinks it's the end. Should he continue to tolerate this exhausting cycle?
Our guest is the thoroughly delightful Midwestern comed
After Action Report #28
Ever wonder what it’s actually like to get a “happy ending” massage?
Wonder no more. Just press play.
Tell us a story: Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1017
A trans woman enjoys chastity play. But most cock cages use the testicles to keep the device in place. She had an orchiectomy for her gender affirming care, so what is she to do?
A gay man has a pattern of losing attraction to the people he's seeing. The instant they break up he gets hot for them again. And now, it's happening with his husband.
On the Magnum Dan chats with super bad-ass journa
After Action Report #27
Meet Spring and Nix or "Sprix" as they are called together. These foxy sex party veterans embarked on an adventure at a religious themed event that became a team sport.
Somewhere in Mormon heaven, Joseph Smith and Brigham Young are high-fiving each other.
If you would like to tell us about a high-five-worthy sexscapade, write it up, and send it in to Q@Savage.Love!
This episode is broug
Savage Lovecast Episode 1016
A gay man's female friend is planning her wedding. But the relationship is already a disaster, and the caller does NOT approve of this union. Should he still help her choose a wedding dress?
A bi man got into a cat fight with a guy on one of the hook-up apps when he wasn't polite enough about ending a conversation. Is there a social contract on gay hook-up apps?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr
After Action Report #26
They say we don’t choose our kinks- our kinks choose us. But what if you get turned on by a mundane, routine experience most of us either just tolerate or even dread?
Meet Mitchell, who had to regularly suppress erotic excitement all his life, until his GGG girlfriend created the perfect scenario for him.
Do you have a GGG girlfriend? Huh? Have you tried something new with her? Let us know ALL a
Savage Love Episode 1015
Sometimes the questions we get here at Savage Lovecast Industries™ are nothing but pragmatic. A man with a moldy home asks how he can properly dry his Fleshlight. Seems important.
A woman fell off a trapeze 15 years ago and has suffered sexual dysfunction ever since. Dan brings on pelvic floor therapist Dr. Rachel Gelman to discuss her case and to call out doctors who belittle sexual concerns.
After Action Report #25
Meet Michael who with the help of “Gary” goes through the looking glass into the twilight world of the bisexual male.
It all starts out with your typical, wholesome 100-guy jack-off session. And then things take a bit of a turn…Whoever invented Zoom, most likely didn’t predict *this* sort of thing would happen.
If you have a perverse, degenerate experience to share, write it up and send it in to
Savage Lovecast Episode 1014
A happily married lesbian is super turned-on by a male acquaintance's cologne. She barely knows the guy. So how can she ask him "What are you WEARING?"
Here's a conundrum: a sub serves two different masters. So what should she do when they give her conflicting orders?
On the Magnum, everybody loves Doc Chocolate! The former pastor turned porn star, adult educator and content creator is back to
After Action Report #24
Meet Marie, a shrewd, savvy, former businesswoman who tried something new, and drives a hard bargain.
Sex work! Foot fetishism! Mommy issues! This episode has it all.
Surely, you have SOMETHING to tell us about...
Write your story and send it to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1013
A woman was invited to the bachelorette party for her co-worker's wedding, which required costly travel. She was presented with a bill to cover all of the expenses of the bride to be. The caller was just laid off her job and simply cannot afford this. Now the bride is miffed, and the friendship is strained. It's an outrage!
Oopsie daisy! A woman came across porn featuring an old estranged friend
After Action Report #23
Meet Ember, a trans man who, after going to a few sex parties, decided to host his own.
It turns out that normie dinner party etiquette and sex party etiquette is the same: DO NOT SHOW UP ON TIME.
What else happened at this party?
Do you have a story to share of a leap into the sexual unknown? Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1012
On the Intro, a public service announcement regarding Log Cabin Republicans and MAGA gays: Don't Breed Em, Don't Feed 'Em.
An Australian woman would like advice on pegging a military man.
Our guest is NYT writer Christine Emba. Her book Rethinking Sex: A Provocation made a big splash, and added to a cultural conversation about feminism and female desire. She and Dan talk about "looks maxers,"
After Action Report #22
Somewhere, deep in the woods in Holland, in cabins patrolled by volunteers, there's a very, very kinky gathering. Meet Tom, who indulged his new friend's girlfriend and helped to abduct her, throw her in a van and speed her off to an adventure in consensual non-consent.
This is varsity level stuff and not for the faint of heart. Hear all about it.
Tell us your story! Q@Savage.Love
Savage Lovecast Episode 1011
A woman in a new relationship isn't sure this one's going to work out. He's a great guy, but the sex is lacking because his penis is too small for her. Is there a way to learn to enjoy the sex eventually?
Here's a question for you: "How long til anal?" After seeing Heated Rivalry, a married man and his wife are exploring anal sex. They are taking their sweet time, but he wonders how long they sho
After Action Report #21
Have you ever wanted to be a fly on the wall during a MFM threeway?
Listen in as the F tells the tale. How did she set it up? What was it like when they first met and shook hands? Who did who and where? Which one had a food sensitivity? You’ll have to listen to find out.
Do you have a ribald, salacious story of sexual experimentation? Or maybe you found yourself in an awkward, unpleasant UNsexy
Savage Lovecast Episode 1010
A kinky, submissive woman's last relationship went down in flames when her dom insisted on a power exchange, all-the-damn-time lifestyle. She is raising kids and caring for her sick father. She doesn't have time for this kind of commitment. How can she set reasonable boundaries in the future?
A married man despairs that he'll never kiss his wife again. Smooching is central to his experience of s
After Action Report #20
Meet Trina, who indulged her dom's desire. Did she love it? Did she hate it?
Listen and learn.
Did YOU try something new to you, and want us know about it? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1009
Naturally, on this sex and relationship podcast, many of you are thinking about the Epstein files. One caller used to be a dom/daddy for younger women who sought him out and enjoyed themselves. Still he feels guilty. And another caller is having their libido crash when they read the news.
Meanwhile a straight man has discovered a bizarre and rare disorder: he goes limp when he has to put a condo
After Action Report #19
Vanilla. Straight. Cis. Monogamous. How could this story possibly be sexy?A monogamous couple tried a dual massage in a foreign country. Mirrors on the ceiling. Pillows on the bed. Jacuzzi. Steam room. At first they wondered if they were allowed to have sex.
They were.
Hear the tale!
If you have a story you think everyone should hear, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
This episode
Savage Lovecast Episode 1008
When does subbing morph into self-harm? The relationship between a man and his much younger trans woman lover involves intense physical abuse. The girl has a wretched history, and engages in self harm. Although she gives consent, there's also a language barrier that makes everything they do seem out of control and destructive.
A bisexual woman took the plunge and came out to her conservative Cat
After Action Report #18
They designed, engineered and built their own fuck box. Dan's question: "So did you upholster it?"
Hear all about it, how it fit into the sex party and whether they enjoyed it or not.
Do YOU have a perverted tale to tell? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
Savage Love Episode 1007
A 60 year old woman wonders where she can score some poppers.
A lesbian would like to score a queer dominatrix to work her over.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Rich Juzwiak of Slate's love and sex advice column, "How to Do It." They talk about how to make anal sex pleasurable when your partner is very, very, (some might even say "too") well endowed. How too many sex partners can be dangerou
After Action Report #17
A woman wanted to try out her dollification kink. So, she and her butch girlfriend went to a lesbian sex party. You may be wondering what do they do to dolls at lesbian sex parties.
Listen, and find out.
Did you have a wild night recently?
Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1006
A concerned listener asks "Where's the lube?"-specifically about movie scenes showing gay sex.
A woman in a red state makes it clear in her dating profiles that she is a leftie. She attracts men who claim to be moderate, but are really stealth MAGA creeps. Why do they do this? Why?!
Our Magnum guest is the effervescent internationally renowned human sexuality professor, author, and speaker
After Action Report #16
Right after her ketamine infusion, she ran home as fast as should could.
And then her boyfriend got busy...
Have YOU ever seen the face of a lynx in the sky? Didn't think so.
Have a sordid, sexy, weird, funny or freaky tale to tell? We are listening...
Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1005
You poor, poor people. For Valentine's Day this year, we're going dark and airing some of your most unpleasant break-up stories. Like the woman who learned her husband was cheating on her when she saw the tattoo he got of the other woman's initials on his leg. That sort of thing. You'll hear a few of these stories on the Micro and more on the Magnum.
Meanwhile, a married man sneezes uncontroll
After Action Report #15
Some might consider Daniel a very lucky man. He brought one of his 4 girlfriends to a sex party where the men wore tuxedos and the women wore...nothing at all.
Oh, and it was a Christmas party.
Hear all about it.
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Sex & Politics #42
Dan interviews, argues and politely spars with gay evangelical Christian Matthew Vines, author of "God and the Gay Christian." Vines, who is married to his husband since 2022, was a potent advocate for gay marriage. Now he and Dan have a debate about the role of monogamy in gay life and society in general.
They both take the gloves off, and somehow remain friends at the end of this long conversa
Savage Love Episode 1004
Yip! Yap! Bite! A woman's little, nasty, needy dogs are anything but "comfort animals" and her girlfriend isn't having it. She refuses to move in with the caller while those tiny beasts are around. Are they fundamentally incompatible?
A British woman learned that her husband had sexual experiences with other boys at his British boarding school. She never knew this and finds it shocking. Dan br
After Action Report #14
A swinging couple found a service that would fulfill their fantasy: a gang bang composed of men she chose.
You may never think of gang bangs the same way again.
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Savage Love Episode 1003
Have we reached peak poly drama? A queer woman has been open with her male live-in partner, having lots of great sex with him and others. The problem? His cat won't pay any attention to her. She doesn't feel jealous of the humans in their lives, but this cat!
A widowed 81 year-old woman has taken up with her 56 year-old gardener. But he went and confessed to his priest who told him to cut it out
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