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Episodes
After Action Report #33
Somewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.”
Seems sketchy, but he got lots of good reviews on Google.
After this show comes out we expect an uptick of tourism to Peru…
Have you thrown caution to the wind? Let us know all about it.
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1022
A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people?
A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specialize
After Action Report #32
Ho hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right?
But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending.
Surprise us! Write about your naughty little experience, and send it to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1021
A woman who really wants a long term partner has gotten a "tantric opportunity" she may not be able to refuse. Hours and hours of hot sex? But the dude isn't boyfriend material. Should take this once in a lifetime opportunity anyway?
A woman's friend only dates women much younger than himself. He insists he's being respectful and mindful of power imbalance. But it still gives her the creeps- sho
After Action Report #31
A man who wanted to confirm his hetero-flexibility gives his first BJ.
But did he pass the cocksucker test? Not everyone does.
Hear all about it.
Want to share your first time doing something?
Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1020
This show is a roller coaster...of love. We start out with a heartbreaking question from a woman whose fiancé broke up with her after she had bought the dress and sent out the invites. Their lives and friends are intertwined. How can she bounce back from something like this?
Then, a gay man has observed trans men at sex clubs getting it on with lots of guys. If they aren't on birth control, can
After Action Report #30
What a feel-good story for the ages. Victor managed to amass three sexual "firsts" in one potent session with a transwoman domme:Experience subspace- check.Have sex with a transwoman- check.Dick in the butt? Check!
This sizzling story also offers a study in sex worker professionalism.
Listen in and feel the joy.
Have you gone through some new interesting times?
Tell us, tell us, tell us!Wr
Savage Lovecast 1019
This just in! Man thinks he's special because he has a Madonna/whore complex!
When a woman first started dating her boyfriend, he had a drinking problem, and made some bad moves. The caller told her friends and family about this. But now that he is better and truly working on himself, no one but the caller will forgive him. How can she convince them that he's a good guy?
On the Magnum, Dan chats
After Action Report #29
Anne thought that finding a professional to tie her up in exquisite Shibari bondage in her little, small town would be impossible.
She was wrong!
Hear all about her encounter in the rope top’s studio.
Do you have something for us? Fork it over. Write to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1018
When he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives?
A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They always end up getting back together, but each time he thinks it's the end. Should he continue to tolerate this exhausting cycle?
Our guest is the thoroughly delightful Midwestern comed
After Action Report #28
Ever wonder what it’s actually like to get a “happy ending” massage?
Wonder no more. Just press play.
Tell us a story: Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1017
A trans woman enjoys chastity play. But most cock cages use the testicles to keep the device in place. She had an orchiectomy for her gender affirming care, so what is she to do?
A gay man has a pattern of losing attraction to the people he's seeing. The instant they break up he gets hot for them again. And now, it's happening with his husband.
On the Magnum Dan chats with super bad-ass journa
After Action Report #27
Meet Spring and Nix or "Sprix" as they are called together. These foxy sex party veterans embarked on an adventure at a religious themed event that became a team sport.
Somewhere in Mormon heaven, Joseph Smith and Brigham Young are high-fiving each other.
If you would like to tell us about a high-five-worthy sexscapade, write it up, and send it in to Q@Savage.Love!
This episode is broug
Savage Lovecast Episode 1016
A gay man's female friend is planning her wedding. But the relationship is already a disaster, and the caller does NOT approve of this union. Should he still help her choose a wedding dress?
A bi man got into a cat fight with a guy on one of the hook-up apps when he wasn't polite enough about ending a conversation. Is there a social contract on gay hook-up apps?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr
After Action Report #26
They say we don’t choose our kinks- our kinks choose us. But what if you get turned on by a mundane, routine experience most of us either just tolerate or even dread?
Meet Mitchell, who had to regularly suppress erotic excitement all his life, until his GGG girlfriend created the perfect scenario for him.
Do you have a GGG girlfriend? Huh? Have you tried something new with her? Let us know ALL a
Savage Love Episode 1015
Sometimes the questions we get here at Savage Lovecast Industries™ are nothing but pragmatic. A man with a moldy home asks how he can properly dry his Fleshlight. Seems important.
A woman fell off a trapeze 15 years ago and has suffered sexual dysfunction ever since. Dan brings on pelvic floor therapist Dr. Rachel Gelman to discuss her case and to call out doctors who belittle sexual concerns.
After Action Report #25
Meet Michael who with the help of “Gary” goes through the looking glass into the twilight world of the bisexual male.
It all starts out with your typical, wholesome 100-guy jack-off session. And then things take a bit of a turn…Whoever invented Zoom, most likely didn’t predict *this* sort of thing would happen.
If you have a perverse, degenerate experience to share, write it up and send it in to
Savage Lovecast Episode 1014
A happily married lesbian is super turned-on by a male acquaintance's cologne. She barely knows the guy. So how can she ask him "What are you WEARING?"
Here's a conundrum: a sub serves two different masters. So what should she do when they give her conflicting orders?
On the Magnum, everybody loves Doc Chocolate! The former pastor turned porn star, adult educator and content creator is back to
After Action Report #24
Meet Marie, a shrewd, savvy, former businesswoman who tried something new, and drives a hard bargain.
Sex work! Foot fetishism! Mommy issues! This episode has it all.
Surely, you have SOMETHING to tell us about...
Write your story and send it to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1013
A woman was invited to the bachelorette party for her co-worker's wedding, which required costly travel. She was presented with a bill to cover all of the expenses of the bride to be. The caller was just laid off her job and simply cannot afford this. Now the bride is miffed, and the friendship is strained. It's an outrage!
Oopsie daisy! A woman came across porn featuring an old estranged friend
After Action Report #23
Meet Ember, a trans man who, after going to a few sex parties, decided to host his own.
It turns out that normie dinner party etiquette and sex party etiquette is the same: DO NOT SHOW UP ON TIME.
What else happened at this party?
Do you have a story to share of a leap into the sexual unknown? Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1012
On the Intro, a public service announcement regarding Log Cabin Republicans and MAGA gays: Don't Breed Em, Don't Feed 'Em.
An Australian woman would like advice on pegging a military man.
Our guest is NYT writer Christine Emba. Her book Rethinking Sex: A Provocation made a big splash, and added to a cultural conversation about feminism and female desire. She and Dan talk about "looks maxers,"
After Action Report #22
Somewhere, deep in the woods in Holland, in cabins patrolled by volunteers, there's a very, very kinky gathering. Meet Tom, who indulged his new friend's girlfriend and helped to abduct her, throw her in a van and speed her off to an adventure in consensual non-consent.
This is varsity level stuff and not for the faint of heart. Hear all about it.
Tell us your story! Q@Savage.Love
Savage Lovecast Episode 1011
A woman in a new relationship isn't sure this one's going to work out. He's a great guy, but the sex is lacking because his penis is too small for her. Is there a way to learn to enjoy the sex eventually?
Here's a question for you: "How long til anal?" After seeing Heated Rivalry, a married man and his wife are exploring anal sex. They are taking their sweet time, but he wonders how long they sho
After Action Report #21
Have you ever wanted to be a fly on the wall during a MFM threeway?
Listen in as the F tells the tale. How did she set it up? What was it like when they first met and shook hands? Who did who and where? Which one had a food sensitivity? You’ll have to listen to find out.
Do you have a ribald, salacious story of sexual experimentation? Or maybe you found yourself in an awkward, unpleasant UNsexy
Savage Lovecast Episode 1010
A kinky, submissive woman's last relationship went down in flames when her dom insisted on a power exchange, all-the-damn-time lifestyle. She is raising kids and caring for her sick father. She doesn't have time for this kind of commitment. How can she set reasonable boundaries in the future?
A married man despairs that he'll never kiss his wife again. Smooching is central to his experience of s
After Action Report #20
Meet Trina, who indulged her dom's desire. Did she love it? Did she hate it?
Listen and learn.
Did YOU try something new to you, and want us know about it? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1009
Naturally, on this sex and relationship podcast, many of you are thinking about the Epstein files. One caller used to be a dom/daddy for younger women who sought him out and enjoyed themselves. Still he feels guilty. And another caller is having their libido crash when they read the news.
Meanwhile a straight man has discovered a bizarre and rare disorder: he goes limp when he has to put a condo
After Action Report #19
Vanilla. Straight. Cis. Monogamous. How could this story possibly be sexy?A monogamous couple tried a dual massage in a foreign country. Mirrors on the ceiling. Pillows on the bed. Jacuzzi. Steam room. At first they wondered if they were allowed to have sex.
They were.
Hear the tale!
If you have a story you think everyone should hear, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
This episode
Savage Lovecast Episode 1008
When does subbing morph into self-harm? The relationship between a man and his much younger trans woman lover involves intense physical abuse. The girl has a wretched history, and engages in self harm. Although she gives consent, there's also a language barrier that makes everything they do seem out of control and destructive.
A bisexual woman took the plunge and came out to her conservative Cat
After Action Report #18
They designed, engineered and built their own fuck box. Dan's question: "So did you upholster it?"
Hear all about it, how it fit into the sex party and whether they enjoyed it or not.
Do YOU have a perverted tale to tell? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
Savage Love Episode 1007
A 60 year old woman wonders where she can score some poppers.
A lesbian would like to score a queer dominatrix to work her over.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Rich Juzwiak of Slate's love and sex advice column, "How to Do It." They talk about how to make anal sex pleasurable when your partner is very, very, (some might even say "too") well endowed. How too many sex partners can be dangerou
After Action Report #17
A woman wanted to try out her dollification kink. So, she and her butch girlfriend went to a lesbian sex party. You may be wondering what do they do to dolls at lesbian sex parties.
Listen, and find out.
Did you have a wild night recently?
Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1006
A concerned listener asks "Where's the lube?"-specifically about movie scenes showing gay sex.
A woman in a red state makes it clear in her dating profiles that she is a leftie. She attracts men who claim to be moderate, but are really stealth MAGA creeps. Why do they do this? Why?!
Our Magnum guest is the effervescent internationally renowned human sexuality professor, author, and speaker
After Action Report #16
Right after her ketamine infusion, she ran home as fast as should could.
And then her boyfriend got busy...
Have YOU ever seen the face of a lynx in the sky? Didn't think so.
Have a sordid, sexy, weird, funny or freaky tale to tell? We are listening...
Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1005
You poor, poor people. For Valentine's Day this year, we're going dark and airing some of your most unpleasant break-up stories. Like the woman who learned her husband was cheating on her when she saw the tattoo he got of the other woman's initials on his leg. That sort of thing. You'll hear a few of these stories on the Micro and more on the Magnum.
Meanwhile, a married man sneezes uncontroll
After Action Report #15
Some might consider Daniel a very lucky man. He brought one of his 4 girlfriends to a sex party where the men wore tuxedos and the women wore...nothing at all.
Oh, and it was a Christmas party.
Hear all about it.
If you did something totally bonkers and want to tell the wide world about it, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report
This e
Sex & Politics #42
Dan interviews, argues and politely spars with gay evangelical Christian Matthew Vines, author of "God and the Gay Christian." Vines, who is married to his husband since 2022, was a potent advocate for gay marriage. Now he and Dan have a debate about the role of monogamy in gay life and society in general.
They both take the gloves off, and somehow remain friends at the end of this long conversa
Savage Love Episode 1004
Yip! Yap! Bite! A woman's little, nasty, needy dogs are anything but "comfort animals" and her girlfriend isn't having it. She refuses to move in with the caller while those tiny beasts are around. Are they fundamentally incompatible?
A British woman learned that her husband had sexual experiences with other boys at his British boarding school. She never knew this and finds it shocking. Dan br
After Action Report #14
A swinging couple found a service that would fulfill their fantasy: a gang bang composed of men she chose.
You may never think of gang bangs the same way again.
Did you do something amazing? Tell us! Tell us!
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1003
Have we reached peak poly drama? A queer woman has been open with her male live-in partner, having lots of great sex with him and others. The problem? His cat won't pay any attention to her. She doesn't feel jealous of the humans in their lives, but this cat!
A widowed 81 year-old woman has taken up with her 56 year-old gardener. But he went and confessed to his priest who told him to cut it out
After Action Report #13
Louis, a self proclaimed cuddle-slut, found exactly what he wanted at the Liquid Love event.
Hear ALL about it.
If you have a SENSUAL tale to tell, scribble it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1002
What is the polite way to ask someone to clean their teeth and deal with their neglected oral hygiene?
A man's girlfriend wants him to ignore her sexually, and focus exclusively on himself. But he wants to give her pleasure. How can they reconcile this?
On the Magnum, have humans always been kinky? If the history of the Middle Ages is any indication, the answer has to be "Oh hell yeah!" Or so
After Action Report #12
A cautionary tale from Jennie who went to the sex club with an open mind and ended up with bruises on…well you’ll have to listen to find out what went wrong.
We want to hear your story! The good, the bad, the ecstatic and the unpleasant.
Write about your weird time, and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report. We’re listening.
Lovecast Extra: Sex and...Television?
Welcome to the first ever Sex and...Television!
For those of you who are obsessed with the Canadian homo hockey romance Heated Rivalry, here's a convo for you. Dan and sex therapist Claire Perelman dish, discuss and swoon over the super-horny show.
Enjoy!
Savage Lovecast Episode 1001
Happy New Year, and a very happy Feast of the Ass to you and yours.
In honor of the holiday, our first caller asks if he should keep a cup of mouthwash handy for when he moves from ass-eating to pussy-eating.
A man wants strategies on how to talk his sister out of circumcising her newborn son.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Ellen Huet, a plucky, investigative journalist who uncovered an explo
After Action Report #11
Christine and her husband went to a kinky viking party (as one does,) and had a very HOT time.
"How attached are you to these nipple hairs?"
If you have an amazing or appalling story to share, DO NOT KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.
Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report. Maybe we'll get back to you!
Savage Lovecast Episode 1000
It's the 1000th episode of the Savage Lovecast. We started in 2006, when George W. Bush was President. And look at us now!
We packed this show with as many quick questions as we could. (One minute or less.) And Dan answered as quickly as he could. And! We invited long time friends of the show to pop on and answer some questions as well: Ezra Klein, Esther Perel, Mistress Matisse, Mike Pesca, T
After Action Report #10
Her needs were simple. She wanted to wear a trench coat with nothing underneath and to pretend to be a high-end escort for her boyfriend.
He gladly obliged and their session was full of surprises....
If you have a dirty little story you would like to share of your first time doing something unspeakably hot, writer it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with subject line: After Action Report.
Savage Lovecast Episode 999
"Who will buy my smelly panties?" A woman realizes that it would be a waste to just wash them.
A married man in an open relationship wishes his wife would be as affectionate as his lovers.
On the Magnum, it's everybody's favorite guy who knows things about sports...Mike Pesca! (Host and creator of The Gist, the longest running daily news and analysis podcast, and the author of Upon Further Rev
After Action Report #9
The scene: it's a secret threeway, upstairs at the party. 2 men, one woman, 2 minutes, one orgasm.
To hear more salacious deets, tune in.
We've heard of speed dating...but this is a whole other level.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
Do you have a comment for this show? Record it and send it in to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064
Savage Lovecast Episode 997
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A recent widow grapples with a surge in her libido.
A gay man has been a top for all of his sexual life. Now that's he's a dating a man who wants to top him every now and again, can he learn to like it?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Kelly Foster Lundquist, Author of "Beard." 20 years after her divorc
Savage Lovecast Episode 998
A married woman and her husband agreed to open the marriage up, with clear rules and boundaries. Guess what! He flagrantly broke the rules. Now, she is considering sleeping with someone else as a form of revenge. Too toxic?
A divorced woman is still very good friends with her husband. She's so close with him, that her boyfriends break up with her over it. Are they just jealous or is she part of
After Action Report #8
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It was her first time pegging a man, though she'd dreamed of it for years.
Dream fulfilled. How did it go? What did he wear? Who brought the gear?
All of your (and Dan's) nosey questions are answered.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
Do you have a comment f
After Action Report #7
Hear the harrowing tale of the masochist lad who walked into the dungeon and ended up getting flogged...a lot.
Did he like it? Would he do it again? Listen and find out.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 996
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Listen in on Dan's conversation with a woman who learned that her husband had an affair early in their relationship. It turns out she's been chatting with the other woman for a year without knowing it was her! She lives up the street! Dan advises her on whether to broach th
After Action Report #6
Meet Chrissy, a bisexual woman and self-identified pervert, who went to a sex club for the first time. What happened there? Well, let's just say you may feel...shocked.
Want to tell your tale? Write us at Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 995
We know you're struggling. So we brought in the most soothing human on the planet-Therapy Jeff- to offer tips on how to get through Thanksgiving with your nasty family. In short, don't take the bait, find your family buddy, and if you are alone on the holiday, get yourself to a gay bar.
Also, a woman who considers herself bad in bed wonders how she can find a "sex teacher."
And, a woman wo
After Action Report #5
On this weeks After Action Report, Dan spoke with Milo, a trans man who tried nipple torture after getting top surgery. This is a joyful tale of sexual recovery. We hope you enjoy it.
We would very much like to hear about YOUR freaky funtimes. Write about your new sexual experience and send it to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line "After Action Report." We'll get in touch!
Do you like this
Savage Lovecast Episode 994
She dated her neighbor for a while, until it became clear that she couldn’t enjoy sex with him because his giant, massive, gargantuan penis was too big for her. Now that she is starting to date other men, should she tell them the history of her friendly neighbor 5 doors down?
A woman has enjoyed friends-with-benefits relationship with a man where all they do is cuddle and have sex. No outings wit
After Action Report #4
For this After Action Report, Dan chats with Ember, a life-long sneeze fetishist. She gets turned on when her lovers sneeze, and thus, stocks up on imported sneezing powder. And although she prefers being a sneezing dom, she also delved into submission and share the details.
Hear about her journey.
We would very much like to hear about YOUR journey. Write about your new sexual experience a
Savage Love Episode 993
A mother's challenge: her 12 year-old son's lesbian friend (who isn't out to her parents,) said that she was into gooning. Right in front of her! The mom wants to be an ally, but also would like them to back off on the oversharing.
Sometimes on a sex advice podcast, you have to call a veterinarian. A man's new girlfriend, (a professed "animal lover,") lets the cat hump her leg to completion. He
After Action Report #3
After Action Report #3
Squirting Kira
This week, meet a woman who finally, after YEARS of persistence, has learned how to squirt.
Practice makes perfect, and now she has mastered the messy art. Hear all about how she got there, what she plans for her squirting future, and "Is female ejaculate actually pee?" Kira ends the controversy definitively.
Have you gotten out of (or into) your comfo
Savage Lovecast Episode 992
A woman's bisexual husband has been getting "gayer and gayer" to the point where he is only interested in her if she acts like a dude. Her friend is worried about her. How can this marriage work?
Are there any straight leather daddies out there who aren't misogynistic creeps? This caller is NOT HAPPY.
On the Magnum, it's a "What You Got" with psychology professor Dr. Justin Mogilski. His study
After Action Report #2
On this week's After Action Report, a trans man made his way to his first furry party. He doesn't have a full suit yet, just paws, ears and a tail. For those in full fur suits, you might be wondering: How do they, you know...do it? You'll have to listen for this detail.
Do YOU have a.. ahem...tail...to share of a new sexual experience? Write us at Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Act
Savage Lovecast Episode 991
A woman's lefty friend berated her for enjoying drag, saying it's like blackface for trans women. The caller loves drag and had never thought about this before. Is it true?
A straight man loves the idea of seeing a naked woman walking around her house. He wonders if others would love to see him naked, you know, just kickin' it at home.
On the Magnum, let the swooning begin! Actor Ben Palacios
After Action Report #1
Welcome to our first stand-alone After-Action Report!
He got in a full body spiderman suit. And then the action began.
Hear Dan chat with the man who took cos-play to a whole new level.
If YOU recently had a new sexual experience (good or bad,) write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report.
Ask Dan a question!Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064
EVERY TU
Savage Lovecast Episode 990
A woman just started a dating a man 12 years her junior. But he doesn't know her age, and has never asked her, even on her birthday. Should she tell him?
A couple were approached by a man who initiated a relationship where he is their sex slave. But he is a very demanding slave, sending too many texts, and generally violating their boundaries. He pays them for their attentions. So who's the boss
Savage Lovecast Episode 989
Compare and contrast these two body image calls: A woman's boyfriend is so insecure about his big body, that he can't get hard. She thinks he's hot as can be but can't seem to convince him of this. Meanwhile, a man finds that most of the women he meets in his open relationship dating community are too fat for him. Where can he find some skinny chicks into non-monogamy?
Is there a top shortage? No
Savage Lovecast Episode 988
A woman and her boyfriend, (in an open relationship) tried shibari and enjoyed the intimacy of it. She suggested they exclusively practice shibari with each other, unlike all the other sexual activities they do with their other lovers. At first he agreed, but now he's balking. Should she try to make this a rule of their relationship, or cut him free to t ie up other women?
Can semen be safely emp
Savage Lovecast Episode 987
How can a woman safely indulge her kink when the thing that turns her on is fear?
A man is convinced that his bidet use makes him pee more. Our long suffering, patient and kind medical expert, Doc Barak is back to sigh heavily and pretend to take the question seriously. Also, can we trust the CDC these days?
On the Magnum, the concept is simple. A man with a beautiful British accent reads erot
Savage Lovecast Episode 986
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A gay man is lucky to be in a throuple relationship. But he worries that he's having too much sex, and thinking about sex so much that it's distracting him at work. Is he a sex addict? What can he do to cool his fevered libido?
A strong, confident woman likes casual hook-ups. Her friends joke that she is "a boy on the inside." Her
Savage Lovecast Episode 985
A man in a poly triad has a girlfriend. His girlfriend has a boyfriend, and they all live together, share a dog, and plan to have kids. The caller and the other guy will be at a wedding full of normies who don't know the nature of their relationship. Should he just say they're a gay couple? Or explain the whole poly thing?
He can't eat gluten. His boyfriend eats a lot of gluten. Can he eat his b
Savage Lovecast Episode 984
A married mother did some sex work in her younger, wilder days. She's turned on by money, so it seems obvious that she should be a findom. But the typical clientele prefer a younger woman to take their money. How can she get her middle-aged kink on?
Meanwhile, a gay man thinks porn is boooor-rrinnng! It's unrealistic, predictable and repetitive. Is there anything good out there?
Sometimes you
Savage Lovecast Episode 983
A man's 80 year-old father is getting scammed and extorted by a findom. Should he go to the police? Change his account numbers? See a marriage counselor?
A gay man in his 20s looks very young. He worries that the men who are attracted to him may be skeezy because he looks more like a boy than a man. His friends tell him to work it. But how can he safely enjoy New York City's gay dating scene?
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Savage Lovecast Episode 982
A woman's old friend and sometime lover asked her for a beaver shot to ease his stress on an upcoming couples trip. She obliged. Did he thank her? No he did not. She's miffed, and wonders if she's being too sensitive.
We love questions like this: What do gay men actually do with vibrators?
Our guest is the indomitable E. Jean Carroll. She is a journalist and the author of five books, including
Savage Lovecast Episode 981
A cute li'l gal worries she just isn't a very convincing dom. How can she use psychology to establish her sexy top role?
A newly out pan man is ready to dive into gay culture. But he isn't quite ready to shave his pubes! Does he have to?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with novelist and television writer Kashana Cauley. (Author of The Payback and The Survivalists.) They talk about the pleasure of dyst
Savage Lovecast Episode 980
"Not generous." That is what a gay man puts on his app profile to signify that he is not interested in sex workers. Is this offensive?
Hear the heart-warming tale of how a woman spiced up her sex life by creating an Onlyfans account for only one fan- her husband.
A gay man loves going to "gay island." It's a small gathering space in a river where queer folks can be together in a chill, clothin
Savage Lovecast Episode 979
A woman is grappling with the dubious ethics of financial domination. Her friend asked her to do it, and she made a quick, easy $1k. But she knows that it is addictive and can ruin men's lives. Should she continue?
A gay man is being bothered to distraction by his straight pal who teases and dominates him. They work together. Driven wild by lust, the caller worries that if he acknowledges the dy
Savage Lovecast Episode 978
While tidying up after some Airbnb guests, a gay man discovered a vibrator left under the pillow. Should he message the couple and offer to send it back, or would that be too embarrassing?
One year ago, a woman called the show about her boyfriend, and Dan advised her to break up with him. But they are still together today, and the woman wonders if she should tell her boyfriend about the episode.
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