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Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.
Episodes

After Action Report #43
After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time.
Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story.
And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day.
How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1032
As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him?
And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say?
Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out s

After Action Report #42
Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really?
It’s a journey…
Tell us all about your novel erotic transgressions.Q@Savage.Love
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Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46
Sex & Politics #46
Can we really change?
Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation.” He and Dan talked about the various ways people can change- h

Savage Love Episode 1031
A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner?
A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial security and perfectly fine sex. But she finds him so very dull. Is a comfortable but boring relationship enough?
On the Magnum, meet comedian, filmmaker and avowed cuck queen Edy Modic

After Action Report #41
What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out…
Tell us about your brave excursion.
Write about your experience and send it to Dan: Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1030
Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up?
A woman with super-high libido is trying to convince her husband to have a three-way with another woman. But he doesn't wanna. How can she convince him to do the thing that many straight men would kill for?
On the Magnum, a woman is being drawn in to more and

After Action Report #40
“He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…”
Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge.You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply press play.
If you had a sexual experience that called for a LOT of logistics, write about it and send us the details toQ@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1029
An intersex man had his urethra operated on when he was a toddler. Now he wants to try sounding but his doctors advise against it. He is suspicious of doctors after his non-consensual surgeries. Should he ignore them and pursue his pleasure?
A 66 year-old woman loves to give blow jobs to her lucky husband. But sometimes she gets a bit too enthusiastic and ends up with bruises on her lip. Will p

After Action Report #39
Monica is a tried and true, old school Magnum sub. With Dan’s advice in her head, she applied to join a “foot night” where men pay to play…with women’s feet.
Did Monica have a good time?What did she wear?And exactly how much money did she make?
All is revealed.
If you have an experience you enjoyed or endured, write about it, and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love.
This episode is brought

Savage Love Episode 1028
Ouch! A woman has been fisting her boyfriend to both of their delight. But guess what hurts: Her hand! How can she get in there comfortably?
A woman is trying to convince both her conspiracy-minded friend and her wife that ultra rich people are not really eating babies. Because...they aren't...right?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Stephen Dubner - host of Freakonomics Radio. His new show, Bette

After Action Report #38
In one of the more graphic After Action Reports we’ve had the pleasure to relay, hear Mary’s story not of getting peed ON, but getting peed IN.
Don’t worry. She has a “robust vagina.”
Do YOU have anything robust about you?Send us the details to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1027
A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate.
A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink?
On the Magnum

After Action Report #37
Have you ever bitten a dick? Like really hard?NO YOU HAVE NOT.She did. And he liked it.
Listen in.
If you’ve done something…shocking, and you want to tell us about it, send the details to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1026
A man in a poly relationship is worried that his penis smells like his girlfriend's vagina despite his meticulous hygiene practices. This doesn't bother him. But when he eventually convinces someone else to go down on him, will they notice? Is there a "special soap" he could use?
In Paris, in the year 1911, an employee of the Louvre made off with the Mona Lisa. Fast forward to the year 2024. A

After Action Report #36
Did you know that they have bathhouses in Canada? They do!Meet Jay, married to his husband for 10 years, and ready for adventure.Even though he was nervous and his glasses kept fogging up, he persevered.
Hear all about it.
If you have a story to share, write to us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1025
A woman's hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door.
Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the show Dr. Carlton Thomas. He is on to answer a question about NEW DOUCHING TECHNOLOGY.
On the Magnum, a newly single woman is howling at the moon with insatiably high libido. She's annoyed with apps and parties and wonde

After Action Report #35
Meet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you, remember as Maxon says: "Everyone's chastity journey is different."
BUT THAT ISN'T EVEN WHAT THIS AFTER ACTION REPORT IS ABOUT.
Do you like to play bingo? Then think hard before you press play. Because with this episode i

Savage Lovecast Episode 1024
A woman discovers her recently deceased father had a foot-tickling fetish and doesn't know how to process this new view of her dad.
Speaking of kinks, a man with a diaper fetish is feeling resentful that his kink so severely limits his dating prospects.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with hunky clinical psychologist Dr. Thomas Whitfield about dating closet cases, sex education, masc for masc and why

After Action Report #34
Becca just needed to relax. So she thought she’d be like the gays and try poppers. How did it go?
Listen and then you’ll know.
If you’ve recently tried a new product or ingested a substance to improve your sex life, we want to know about it.
Write your story and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1023
A woman who enjoys multiple orgasms doesn't understand why, physiologically, all woman can't come over and over and over. Like she can.
A gay man wants a new word for the practice of rubbing dicks together, other than "frotting."
On the Magnum, Dan interviews Tracy Clark-Flory whose memoir My Mother's Daughter , brought Dan to tears. It encompasses feminism, racism, parenting, adoption and s

After Action Report #33
Somewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.”
Seems sketchy, but he got lots of good reviews on Google.
After this show comes out we expect an uptick of tourism to Peru…
Have you thrown caution to the wind? Let us know all about it.
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1022
A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people?
A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specialize

After Action Report #32
Ho hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right?
But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending.
Surprise us! Write about your naughty little experience, and send it to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1021
A woman who really wants a long term partner has gotten a "tantric opportunity" she may not be able to refuse. Hours and hours of hot sex? But the dude isn't boyfriend material. Should take this once in a lifetime opportunity anyway?
A woman's friend only dates women much younger than himself. He insists he's being respectful and mindful of power imbalance. But it still gives her the creeps- sho

After Action Report #31
A man who wanted to confirm his hetero-flexibility gives his first BJ.
But did he pass the cocksucker test? Not everyone does.
Hear all about it.
Want to share your first time doing something?
Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1020
This show is a roller coaster...of love. We start out with a heartbreaking question from a woman whose fiancé broke up with her after she had bought the dress and sent out the invites. Their lives and friends are intertwined. How can she bounce back from something like this?
Then, a gay man has observed trans men at sex clubs getting it on with lots of guys. If they aren't on birth control, can

After Action Report #30
What a feel-good story for the ages. Victor managed to amass three sexual "firsts" in one potent session with a transwoman domme:Experience subspace- check.Have sex with a transwoman- check.Dick in the butt? Check!
This sizzling story also offers a study in sex worker professionalism.
Listen in and feel the joy.
Have you gone through some new interesting times?
Tell us, tell us, tell us!Wr

Savage Lovecast 1019
This just in! Man thinks he's special because he has a Madonna/whore complex!
When a woman first started dating her boyfriend, he had a drinking problem, and made some bad moves. The caller told her friends and family about this. But now that he is better and truly working on himself, no one but the caller will forgive him. How can she convince them that he's a good guy?
On the Magnum, Dan chats

After Action Report #29
Anne thought that finding a professional to tie her up in exquisite Shibari bondage in her little, small town would be impossible.
She was wrong!
Hear all about her encounter in the rope top’s studio.
Do you have something for us? Fork it over. Write to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1018
When he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives?
A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They always end up getting back together, but each time he thinks it's the end. Should he continue to tolerate this exhausting cycle?
Our guest is the thoroughly delightful Midwestern comed

After Action Report #28
Ever wonder what it’s actually like to get a “happy ending” massage?
Wonder no more. Just press play.
Tell us a story: Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1017
A trans woman enjoys chastity play. But most cock cages use the testicles to keep the device in place. She had an orchiectomy for her gender affirming care, so what is she to do?
A gay man has a pattern of losing attraction to the people he's seeing. The instant they break up he gets hot for them again. And now, it's happening with his husband.
On the Magnum Dan chats with super bad-ass journa

After Action Report #27
Meet Spring and Nix or "Sprix" as they are called together. These foxy sex party veterans embarked on an adventure at a religious themed event that became a team sport.
Somewhere in Mormon heaven, Joseph Smith and Brigham Young are high-fiving each other.
If you would like to tell us about a high-five-worthy sexscapade, write it up, and send it in to Q@Savage.Love!
This episode is broug

Savage Lovecast Episode 1016
A gay man's female friend is planning her wedding. But the relationship is already a disaster, and the caller does NOT approve of this union. Should he still help her choose a wedding dress?
A bi man got into a cat fight with a guy on one of the hook-up apps when he wasn't polite enough about ending a conversation. Is there a social contract on gay hook-up apps?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr

After Action Report #26
They say we don’t choose our kinks- our kinks choose us. But what if you get turned on by a mundane, routine experience most of us either just tolerate or even dread?
Meet Mitchell, who had to regularly suppress erotic excitement all his life, until his GGG girlfriend created the perfect scenario for him.
Do you have a GGG girlfriend? Huh? Have you tried something new with her? Let us know ALL a

Savage Love Episode 1015
Sometimes the questions we get here at Savage Lovecast Industries™ are nothing but pragmatic. A man with a moldy home asks how he can properly dry his Fleshlight. Seems important.
A woman fell off a trapeze 15 years ago and has suffered sexual dysfunction ever since. Dan brings on pelvic floor therapist Dr. Rachel Gelman to discuss her case and to call out doctors who belittle sexual concerns.

After Action Report #25
Meet Michael who with the help of “Gary” goes through the looking glass into the twilight world of the bisexual male.
It all starts out with your typical, wholesome 100-guy jack-off session. And then things take a bit of a turn…Whoever invented Zoom, most likely didn’t predict *this* sort of thing would happen.
If you have a perverse, degenerate experience to share, write it up and send it in to

Savage Lovecast Episode 1014
A happily married lesbian is super turned-on by a male acquaintance's cologne. She barely knows the guy. So how can she ask him "What are you WEARING?"
Here's a conundrum: a sub serves two different masters. So what should she do when they give her conflicting orders?
On the Magnum, everybody loves Doc Chocolate! The former pastor turned porn star, adult educator and content creator is back to

After Action Report #24
Meet Marie, a shrewd, savvy, former businesswoman who tried something new, and drives a hard bargain.
Sex work! Foot fetishism! Mommy issues! This episode has it all.
Surely, you have SOMETHING to tell us about...
Write your story and send it to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1013
A woman was invited to the bachelorette party for her co-worker's wedding, which required costly travel. She was presented with a bill to cover all of the expenses of the bride to be. The caller was just laid off her job and simply cannot afford this. Now the bride is miffed, and the friendship is strained. It's an outrage!
Oopsie daisy! A woman came across porn featuring an old estranged friend

After Action Report #23
Meet Ember, a trans man who, after going to a few sex parties, decided to host his own.
It turns out that normie dinner party etiquette and sex party etiquette is the same: DO NOT SHOW UP ON TIME.
What else happened at this party?
Do you have a story to share of a leap into the sexual unknown? Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1012
On the Intro, a public service announcement regarding Log Cabin Republicans and MAGA gays: Don't Breed Em, Don't Feed 'Em.
An Australian woman would like advice on pegging a military man.
Our guest is NYT writer Christine Emba. Her book Rethinking Sex: A Provocation made a big splash, and added to a cultural conversation about feminism and female desire. She and Dan talk about "looks maxers,"

After Action Report #22
Somewhere, deep in the woods in Holland, in cabins patrolled by volunteers, there's a very, very kinky gathering. Meet Tom, who indulged his new friend's girlfriend and helped to abduct her, throw her in a van and speed her off to an adventure in consensual non-consent.
This is varsity level stuff and not for the faint of heart. Hear all about it.
Tell us your story! Q@Savage.Love

Savage Lovecast Episode 1011
A woman in a new relationship isn't sure this one's going to work out. He's a great guy, but the sex is lacking because his penis is too small for her. Is there a way to learn to enjoy the sex eventually?
Here's a question for you: "How long til anal?" After seeing Heated Rivalry, a married man and his wife are exploring anal sex. They are taking their sweet time, but he wonders how long they sho

After Action Report #21
Have you ever wanted to be a fly on the wall during a MFM threeway?
Listen in as the F tells the tale. How did she set it up? What was it like when they first met and shook hands? Who did who and where? Which one had a food sensitivity? You’ll have to listen to find out.
Do you have a ribald, salacious story of sexual experimentation? Or maybe you found yourself in an awkward, unpleasant UNsexy

Savage Lovecast Episode 1010
A kinky, submissive woman's last relationship went down in flames when her dom insisted on a power exchange, all-the-damn-time lifestyle. She is raising kids and caring for her sick father. She doesn't have time for this kind of commitment. How can she set reasonable boundaries in the future?
A married man despairs that he'll never kiss his wife again. Smooching is central to his experience of s

After Action Report #20
Meet Trina, who indulged her dom's desire. Did she love it? Did she hate it?
Listen and learn.
Did YOU try something new to you, and want us know about it? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1009
Naturally, on this sex and relationship podcast, many of you are thinking about the Epstein files. One caller used to be a dom/daddy for younger women who sought him out and enjoyed themselves. Still he feels guilty. And another caller is having their libido crash when they read the news.
Meanwhile a straight man has discovered a bizarre and rare disorder: he goes limp when he has to put a condo

After Action Report #19
Vanilla. Straight. Cis. Monogamous. How could this story possibly be sexy?A monogamous couple tried a dual massage in a foreign country. Mirrors on the ceiling. Pillows on the bed. Jacuzzi. Steam room. At first they wondered if they were allowed to have sex.
They were.
Hear the tale!
If you have a story you think everyone should hear, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
This episode

Savage Lovecast Episode 1008
When does subbing morph into self-harm? The relationship between a man and his much younger trans woman lover involves intense physical abuse. The girl has a wretched history, and engages in self harm. Although she gives consent, there's also a language barrier that makes everything they do seem out of control and destructive.
A bisexual woman took the plunge and came out to her conservative Cat

After Action Report #18
They designed, engineered and built their own fuck box. Dan's question: "So did you upholster it?"
Hear all about it, how it fit into the sex party and whether they enjoyed it or not.
Do YOU have a perverted tale to tell? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.

Savage Love Episode 1007
A 60 year old woman wonders where she can score some poppers.
A lesbian would like to score a queer dominatrix to work her over.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Rich Juzwiak of Slate's love and sex advice column, "How to Do It." They talk about how to make anal sex pleasurable when your partner is very, very, (some might even say "too") well endowed. How too many sex partners can be dangerou

After Action Report #17
A woman wanted to try out her dollification kink. So, she and her butch girlfriend went to a lesbian sex party. You may be wondering what do they do to dolls at lesbian sex parties.
Listen, and find out.
Did you have a wild night recently?
Write us at Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1006
A concerned listener asks "Where's the lube?"-specifically about movie scenes showing gay sex.
A woman in a red state makes it clear in her dating profiles that she is a leftie. She attracts men who claim to be moderate, but are really stealth MAGA creeps. Why do they do this? Why?!
Our Magnum guest is the effervescent internationally renowned human sexuality professor, author, and speaker

After Action Report #16
Right after her ketamine infusion, she ran home as fast as should could.
And then her boyfriend got busy...
Have YOU ever seen the face of a lynx in the sky? Didn't think so.
Have a sordid, sexy, weird, funny or freaky tale to tell? We are listening...
Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1005
You poor, poor people. For Valentine's Day this year, we're going dark and airing some of your most unpleasant break-up stories. Like the woman who learned her husband was cheating on her when she saw the tattoo he got of the other woman's initials on his leg. That sort of thing. You'll hear a few of these stories on the Micro and more on the Magnum.
Meanwhile, a married man sneezes uncontroll

After Action Report #15
Some might consider Daniel a very lucky man. He brought one of his 4 girlfriends to a sex party where the men wore tuxedos and the women wore...nothing at all.
Oh, and it was a Christmas party.
Hear all about it.
If you did something totally bonkers and want to tell the wide world about it, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report
This e

Sex & Politics #42
Dan interviews, argues and politely spars with gay evangelical Christian Matthew Vines, author of "God and the Gay Christian." Vines, who is married to his husband since 2022, was a potent advocate for gay marriage. Now he and Dan have a debate about the role of monogamy in gay life and society in general.
They both take the gloves off, and somehow remain friends at the end of this long conversa

Savage Love Episode 1004
Yip! Yap! Bite! A woman's little, nasty, needy dogs are anything but "comfort animals" and her girlfriend isn't having it. She refuses to move in with the caller while those tiny beasts are around. Are they fundamentally incompatible?
A British woman learned that her husband had sexual experiences with other boys at his British boarding school. She never knew this and finds it shocking. Dan br

After Action Report #14
A swinging couple found a service that would fulfill their fantasy: a gang bang composed of men she chose.
You may never think of gang bangs the same way again.
Did you do something amazing? Tell us! Tell us!
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1003
Have we reached peak poly drama? A queer woman has been open with her male live-in partner, having lots of great sex with him and others. The problem? His cat won't pay any attention to her. She doesn't feel jealous of the humans in their lives, but this cat!
A widowed 81 year-old woman has taken up with her 56 year-old gardener. But he went and confessed to his priest who told him to cut it out

After Action Report #13
Louis, a self proclaimed cuddle-slut, found exactly what he wanted at the Liquid Love event.
Hear ALL about it.
If you have a SENSUAL tale to tell, scribble it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1002
What is the polite way to ask someone to clean their teeth and deal with their neglected oral hygiene?
A man's girlfriend wants him to ignore her sexually, and focus exclusively on himself. But he wants to give her pleasure. How can they reconcile this?
On the Magnum, have humans always been kinky? If the history of the Middle Ages is any indication, the answer has to be "Oh hell yeah!" Or so

After Action Report #12
A cautionary tale from Jennie who went to the sex club with an open mind and ended up with bruises on…well you’ll have to listen to find out what went wrong.
We want to hear your story! The good, the bad, the ecstatic and the unpleasant.
Write about your weird time, and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report. We’re listening.

Lovecast Extra: Sex and...Television?
Welcome to the first ever Sex and...Television!
For those of you who are obsessed with the Canadian homo hockey romance Heated Rivalry, here's a convo for you. Dan and sex therapist Claire Perelman dish, discuss and swoon over the super-horny show.
Enjoy!

Savage Lovecast Episode 1001
Happy New Year, and a very happy Feast of the Ass to you and yours.
In honor of the holiday, our first caller asks if he should keep a cup of mouthwash handy for when he moves from ass-eating to pussy-eating.
A man wants strategies on how to talk his sister out of circumcising her newborn son.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Ellen Huet, a plucky, investigative journalist who uncovered an explo

After Action Report #11
Christine and her husband went to a kinky viking party (as one does,) and had a very HOT time.
"How attached are you to these nipple hairs?"
If you have an amazing or appalling story to share, DO NOT KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.
Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report. Maybe we'll get back to you!

Savage Lovecast Episode 1000
It's the 1000th episode of the Savage Lovecast. We started in 2006, when George W. Bush was President. And look at us now!
We packed this show with as many quick questions as we could. (One minute or less.) And Dan answered as quickly as he could. And! We invited long time friends of the show to pop on and answer some questions as well: Ezra Klein, Esther Perel, Mistress Matisse, Mike Pesca, T

After Action Report #10
Her needs were simple. She wanted to wear a trench coat with nothing underneath and to pretend to be a high-end escort for her boyfriend.
He gladly obliged and their session was full of surprises....
If you have a dirty little story you would like to share of your first time doing something unspeakably hot, writer it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with subject line: After Action Report.

Savage Lovecast Episode 999
"Who will buy my smelly panties?" A woman realizes that it would be a waste to just wash them.
A married man in an open relationship wishes his wife would be as affectionate as his lovers.
On the Magnum, it's everybody's favorite guy who knows things about sports...Mike Pesca! (Host and creator of The Gist, the longest running daily news and analysis podcast, and the author of Upon Further Rev

After Action Report #9
The scene: it's a secret threeway, upstairs at the party. 2 men, one woman, 2 minutes, one orgasm.
To hear more salacious deets, tune in.
We've heard of speed dating...but this is a whole other level.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
Do you have a comment for this show? Record it and send it in to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064

Savage Lovecast Episode 997
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A recent widow grapples with a surge in her libido.
A gay man has been a top for all of his sexual life. Now that's he's a dating a man who wants to top him every now and again, can he learn to like it?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Kelly Foster Lundquist, Author of "Beard." 20 years after her divorc

Savage Lovecast Episode 998
A married woman and her husband agreed to open the marriage up, with clear rules and boundaries. Guess what! He flagrantly broke the rules. Now, she is considering sleeping with someone else as a form of revenge. Too toxic?
A divorced woman is still very good friends with her husband. She's so close with him, that her boyfriends break up with her over it. Are they just jealous or is she part of

After Action Report #8
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It was her first time pegging a man, though she'd dreamed of it for years.
Dream fulfilled. How did it go? What did he wear? Who brought the gear?
All of your (and Dan's) nosey questions are answered.
Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love
Do you have a comment f

After Action Report #7
Hear the harrowing tale of the masochist lad who walked into the dungeon and ended up getting flogged...a lot.
Did he like it? Would he do it again? Listen and find out.
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Savage Love Episode 996
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Listen in on Dan's conversation with a woman who learned that her husband had an affair early in their relationship. It turns out she's been chatting with the other woman for a year without knowing it was her! She lives up the street! Dan advises her on whether to broach th

After Action Report #6
Meet Chrissy, a bisexual woman and self-identified pervert, who went to a sex club for the first time. What happened there? Well, let's just say you may feel...shocked.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 995
We know you're struggling. So we brought in the most soothing human on the planet-Therapy Jeff- to offer tips on how to get through Thanksgiving with your nasty family. In short, don't take the bait, find your family buddy, and if you are alone on the holiday, get yourself to a gay bar.
Also, a woman who considers herself bad in bed wonders how she can find a "sex teacher."
And, a woman wo

After Action Report #5
On this weeks After Action Report, Dan spoke with Milo, a trans man who tried nipple torture after getting top surgery. This is a joyful tale of sexual recovery. We hope you enjoy it.
We would very much like to hear about YOUR freaky funtimes. Write about your new sexual experience and send it to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line "After Action Report." We'll get in touch!
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