Marriage Unhindered
Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.
Episodes
Relationships Parenting & Perspective
What do you do when your future father-in-law is getting in between you and your fiancé? Should you talk to your daughter about concerns you have with her 11-year-old? Should you be concerned that your daughter is dating a single dad? Doug goes to the mail bag. Listener questions and comments: Brenda - I am a single mother and I think that it takes a lot of discernment. It’s h
Prior Propper Planning is Critical
Doug shares tips for surviving the 4th of July picnic with family while avoiding arguments. Listener questions and comments: Doug - At the family functions there is an emphasis on the drinking during the 4th. I can’t drink because my dad is an alcoholic so I want to know what I should do. (29:27) Jane - My son in law's father died from alcohol and I find that he drinks too much.
Standing up against No-fault divorce
Are you a victim of a no-fault divorce? Today, Mary Bowan joins Doug to discuss her efforts to overturn the no-fault divorce law in Texas. Listener questions and comments: Patrick - I went through a no-fault divorce and my wife threatened to say 'cruel and unusual punishment' which just means she is mean to me. (23:46) Karen - This happened to me and they called it irreconcilable differenc
Should you change your name after divorce?
Should you change your name after a divorce? What do you do when your wife has a chronic, incurable illness, and most of the responsibilities at home fall on you and your children? How do you cope when your wife feels guilty and worries about the burden placed on you? Do struggles with pornography make it difficult to give full consent to marriage? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these question
Rules for Relationships
Relationship coach Rose Sweet joins Doug to discuss the foundations of good marriages. Listener questions and comments: Denise - My boyfriend’s best friend is a concern to me. He wants me to meet her and her husband. I feel weird about it. (9:38) Shirley - My daughter is 'Christian' but has a second marriage. The kid from the first marriage still lives at home at 34. Is my daughter p
Marriage Across Different Seasons
You be the therapist as Doug shares the stories of two couples—one celebrating 30 years of marriage and the other just beginning their journey as newlyweds. Listener questions and comments: Joe - My wife has decided to leave the Church and had a sterilization without my consent. What do I do? (5:02) Mary - Comment for Joe: His wife did what she did because she felt like she had no co
Self-Love in Marriage
Does self-love harm a marriage? Do you struggle with the idea or think that marriage is all about selfless service? Today, Doug looks at self-love in marriage through the lens of Luke 10:27 and Matthew 5:44. Listener questions and comments: Anne - I agree with you and I would add that respect for yourself is respecting God because he made us out of love. (9:13) Deedee - What does it mean t
Overcoming Anxiety
Catherine DiNuzzo joins Doug to discuss anxiety from a Catholic perspective. They define good vs bad anxiety, the problem of guilt and how to manage anxiety as a Catholic. Listener questions and comments: Jasmine - How do I fight my mind that triggers anxiety even if I’m doing okay? (10:19) Rose - I get anxiety around my kids but I don’t want to share with my kids. What do I sa
When Divorce Seemed Inevitable
Did you have doubts before you got married? Did you worry that divorce was a possibility? Today, Doug shares another case study of an impossible marriage that was redeemed. Listener question and comments: Jenny - I am struggling in my marriage with my husband’s anger issues and his unwillingness to work. (13:05) Joe - Comment: I want to say that we as men need to get it together and
Father’s Day Tribute to Mothers
In honor of Father’s Day, Doug pays tribute to the women who made us fathers. Listener questions and comments: Christine - I had the most optimistic father of all time. He used to say 'when you come from nothing, you appreciate everything'. (23:28) Constantine - My mother was not supposed to make it in childbirth and neither was I but I lived and she did too. I was able to tell my da
Faith, Family & Radio
Mark Swartzberg joins Doug to discuss his conversion to the Catholic Church, family life, and his journey to Relevant Radio. Listener questions and comments: Brian - What are the specifics on the validity of the marriage and sacramentality of marrying a non-Catholic? (40:32)
Making Jesus Christ the Center of your Marriage
Fr. Peter Armenio joins Doug to discuss marriage and spousal love from his book Highlights of the Catholic Faith. Listener questions and comments: Josephina - I went to confession and I was able to apologize to my husband. It opened up the world of forgiveness. (19:55) Deedee - I have been married twice and both men are deceased. What is the Catholic position on getting married a thir
What Dads Need for Father’s Day
What do dads really need on Father’s Day? Doug offers seven powerful reminders of how love, respect, and gratitude can make a father feel seen and valued. Resources: The Bible and Marriage: The Two Shall Become One Flesh (A Catholic Biblical Theology of the Sacraments) https://stpaulcenter.com/store/the-bible-and-marriage-the-two-shall-become-one-flesh-a-catholic-biblical-theology-of-
Marriage Unhindered Lightning Round
Doug discusses how married people are living their best lives and how married women are increasingly the happiest women. Listener questions and comments: Denise - My boyfriend has stopped talking to other women but he has a friend who is a woman. She is married but he doesn't want to hurt the friendship. It bothers me. (10:34) Dana - It seems like Catholicism encourages marriage when Paul
Attachment Needs That Strengthen Marriage
Doug unpacks the 5 attachment needs every married person has. PLUS: The Friday rant! Listener questions and comments: Liza - My daughter is 28, lives at home and will never help me with any chores. Her father won’t make her help and she ignores me. (37:36) Resources: 5 attachment needs in marriage To be seen, known, heard and understood To feel safe and secure To be c
Mistakes That Push Kids Away
Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss ways parents lose their children without realizing it. Listener questions and comments: Lucy - I have an 18-year-old and 20-year-old and I caught them drinking. What do I do? (8:44) Monica - My children have cut me off because of a divorce. They are influenced by their father on this. (19:42) Shirley - Comment about drinking: you can't forget that the
Impact of Attachment Styles (Part 2)
Doug continues his discussion on childhood attachment wounds and how they can negatively impact your marriage. Today, he looks at anxious and disorganized attachment strategies. Listener questions and comments: John - My wife doesn't like talking about difficult topics and she just wants me to listen but I want to fix. its effecting our communication. (24:20) Angel - My fiancé was a
Impact of Attachment Styles
Doug begins Part 1 of looking into childhood attachment wounds and how they can negatively impact your marriage. Listener questions and comments: Natalie - How can I create a secure attachment style in friendship? (38:29) Julia - What is advice for a couple when one of them has problems and they blame the other? (46:58) Resources: Emotionally Focused Therapy https://iceeft.com/ &nb
Intimacy and Eternity
Deacon Patrick Conley joins Doug to discuss his faith journey that led him to the Deaconate. Doug also goes to the mailbag. What can a couple do if the husband is no longer physically able to fulfill his role in the bedroom? Listener questions and comments: Joan – Congratulations to Deacon Patrick Conley! (9:12) Resources: NaPro Technology https://naprotechnology.com/
Prioritizing Your Spouse
Doug continues his discussion on how cognitive distortions harm marriages. He also shares how to not resent a husband for spending too much time at work. Plus: The Friday rant! Listener questions and comments: Michael - My wife’s therapist confirmed that my wife’s feelings were reality even when it wasn’t the truth and I had to fight him on that. (16:50) David - I am civi
Money Management in Marriage
Have you and your spouse ever disagreed about money? Today, Doug is joined by Kevin Smith to discuss practical money management strategies. Kevin shares tips for creating and sticking to a budget, and explains the difference between good debt and bad debt—and how understanding that distinction can help you make smarter financial decisions. Listener questions and comments: Deedee - My
Faith Begins at Home
Fr. Carter Griffin joins Doug to discuss his book Forming Families, Forming Saints. Together, they explore how human and spiritual formation help cultivate virtue and shape families into communities of faith, fostering the growth of future saints. Listener questions and comments: Len - I just bought the book! Lots of wisdom. I will order 8 more! (37:39) Resources: Forming Families,
Order Within Family Chaos
Mike and Alicia Hernon from the Messy Family Project join Doug discussing how to handle the chaos of family life. Listener questions and comments: Cindy - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and we are talking about money. My concern is that he isn’t 100% open to support me. Should it be 50/50? (8:39) Jean - We have been married 60 years and We share the money. (22:
Cognitive Distortions in Marriage
Doug discusses how cognitive distortions can harm marriage. Listener questions and comments: Teresa - I have been married for 36 years and after living with this for so long we had to get different living situations. (19:24) 11 Cognitive distortions Filtering Discounting the positive Over generalization Jumping to conclusions Catastrophizing Personalization Fallacies The blame game &ldqu
When Your Spouse Says No to Intimacy
What should you do if your spouse always says no to marital intimacy? What if there is conflict about abstaining from intimacy to avoid sin? Doug goes to the mailbag, answering these questions and more. Listener questions and Comments: Ray - I am seeing the biggest hindrance in marriage being unrealistic expectations. (21:57)
Marriage, Suffering, and Lasting Hope
Doug discusses suffering in marriage. Listener questions and comments: Jennifer - How much suffering is too much? (8:44) Candy - I have been married for 40 years. My husband goes into funks and won’t talk to me for a day or up to 3 months. I start getting upset and I don’t know what to do. (19:37) Elaine - I was divorced in 1991, and he was having an affair with his secretary s
10 Keys to a Happy Marriage
Doug shares 10 practical habits that can help couples build a happy and successful marriage. The conversation also touches on infidelity, hoarding, forgiveness, and mental health struggles that can impact relationships. Resources: https://internationalforgiveness.com/ https://www.internationalhoardingalliance.org/ https://www.nami.org/
Can Marriage Survive Infidelity?
Doug looks at the marriage of Al and Lisa Robertson from Duck Dynasty and their journey through infidelity and reconciliation. Listeners also share stories of addiction, emotional affairs, and fighting to save a sacramental marriage. Listener questions and comments: Ron – How should I guide my son after his arrest for drug-related charges? Al – My sister and brother-in-law surviv
Managing Family Finances Together
Is money causing stress in your marriage? Today, Doug is joined by Preston Allex to talk through practical ways to manage family finances. They cover why creating a family budget matters and how to support college-aged kids as they transition into independence. They also share the value of Catholic Legacy: Faithful planning for a peaceful tomorrow. Listener questions and comments: Tony - M
The Perfect Apology
Doug discusses forgiveness. He also shares how to make the perfect apology and give the perfect compliment. Listener questions and comments: Deedee - I like the idea of being specific with compliments. It shouldn’t be just in marriage but all your friendships. (38:56) Jeff - What you just went through and outlined for couples, could you also apply this to singles? Is the Christian li
Can Marriage Survive Without Love?
What should you do if your Mother’s Day was a bust? What should you do if after 35 years there is no love left and you wish you had never married your husband? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more. Listener question and comments: Chris - My wife says I don’t speak to her kindly. She will ask me to explain something and I won’t be super nice, I guess
Honoring Vows Through Hardship
Are you in a difficult marriage? Are the people around you encouraging you to get a divorce? Today, Leila Miller joins Doug to discuss fidelity to your marriage vows even when it’s difficult. Listener questions and comments: Joe - I have a friend who is considering annulment. What should I say to him? (19:11) Vinnie - America is a throw-a-way culture so it encourages this problem. (2
Catholic Parenting and Sexual Identity
April Readlinger, Executive Director of Cana Vox joins Doug to discuss Courageous Conversations: Tips for Talking to Kids About Sexual Identity and Attraction. Listener questions and comments: Joseph - My daughter thinks she’s a boy. She is 27. (46:00) Resources: Cana Vox https://canavox.com/ Courageous Conversations: Tips for Talking to Kids About Sexual Identity
Sacrificial Love, Forgiveness & Gratitude
Doug finishes discussing Ephesians 5:25. He also discusses gratitude and forgiveness. Listener questions and comments: Michelle - My daughter died a few years ago from cancer. My husband has treated me terribly since she died. He's even called girlfriends from high school. It's hard to live like this. What am I to do? I need some help dealing with this. (37:33) Mary - How do y
Fix what you can and sanctify the rest
Doug continues his discussion on suffering in marriage. He also talks about St. Paul’s letter to the Ephesians and a husband’s obligation to love his wife as Christ loved the Church. Listener questions and comments: Rocky - Is there a resource for mothers who are dealing with stress? We have kids ages 2-6. (20:25) Nick - In our vows we say “until death do us part.”
Home Enthronement to the Sacred Heart of Jesus
Emily Jaminet joins Doug to discuss enthroning our homes to the Sacred Heart. Listener questions and comments: Mary – I would like to share the power of the First Friday Devotion and how it's been influential in my faith. (32:17) Resources: Image of the Sacred Heart of Jesus by Pompeo Batoni https://relevantradio.store/products/sacredheart Home Enthronement to the Sacr
From Heartbreak to Healing
Are you divorced and dealing the painful aftermath? Carolyn Klicka joins Doug to discuss Abounding Joy Ministry and healing after divorce. Patty - I was divorced and I feel like the Church hasn’t helped divorcees who feel stuck by these processes. It’s given me PTSD. (28:10) Walt - I have an aunt who married a man with PTSD and she knew, but she stayed with him. I feel that peo
Hope for Modern Marriages
Damon Owens joins Doug for a conversation about the growing crisis facing marriage in today’s society and culture. Together, they discuss the importance of strengthening Catholic marriages by forming and supporting spouses as they navigate the daily challenges of married life. Joanna - Is it wrong to tell my kids that I hope they marry Catholic spouses? I want them to love who they a
Demonic Influence in the Family
Kathleen Beckman joins Doug for a conversation about the demonic influence in the family as she also talks about her book, "A Family Guide to Spiritual Warfare". Walt-If belief in Universal Salvation leads to demonic influence (38:37) Anne-Is married to a Hindu and is wondering if that could lead to evil spirits (42:35) Sources: https://kathleenbeckman.com/ Foundation of Prayer for Priests: https:
Building Strong Family Motivation
Dr. Tom Zimmer joins Doug for a conversation about motivation in family life and how it shapes behavior and relationships. They explore the principles of behaviorism, including the use of rewards and punishments, and discuss how positive influences can encourage growth, healthy habits, and stronger family connections. Listener questions and comments: John - My 15-year-old daughter loves ar
Marriage, Suffering, and Lasting Hope
Doug discusses suffering in marriage. Listener questions and comments: Jennifer - How much suffering is too much? (8:44) Candy - I have been married for 40 years. My husband goes into funks and won’t talk to me for a day or up to 3 months. I start getting upset and I don’t know what to do. (19:37) Elaine - I was divorced in 1991 and he was having an affair with his secretary si
Marriage Wisdom and Saintly Struggles
Doug unpacks 5 things that couples in good marriages do. He also discusses 12 saints who suffered from mental illness. 5 thing couples in good marriages do They always resolve conflicts They give each other freedom They don’t narrate each other’s feelings They make space for boredom They don’t outsource reassurance
Navigating Marriage and Lost Faith
What should you do if your husband suddenly announces he is an atheist? Will sleeping in separate bedrooms ruin your marriage? Doug goes to the mail bag answering these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Sandy - I think that health has a lot to do with marital problems. it can ruin sex and home life. I lost 50 pounds and it helped my relationship. (20:10) R
Holy and Healthy Marital Intimacy
Sarah Bartel, co-founder of Cana Feast, joins Doug to discuss how women can enjoy holy and healthy physical intimacy with their husbands. Listener questions and comments: Mary - My husband would wake me up in the middle of the night. I would tell him no, but he'd keep insisting. I got to the point that I told him, ‘It feels like you're raping me'. Was it wrong for me to say this? (14
When Children Shut Down
Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss parenting and family relationship. Listener questions and comments: Ron - It’s my job as a man to lead my wife regardless of how we feal at the time. This is something the younger generation does not understand. My son does not understand. I had to cut him off. (6:07) Maryann - My daughter's friends say she has a personality disorder. She doesn't
Psychology Behind People Pleasing
If you find yourself becoming a people pleaser, it’s important to recognize the underlying fear of abandonment and the tendency to depend on others for your self-worth. Building a stronger sense of self involves setting boundaries, developing confidence, and learning to validate your own needs instead of constantly seeking approval. Listener questions and comments: Pam - I tend to be
Moms on a Mission to Pray
Jane VanHouten From Millions of Monicas joins Doug to discuss the national movement of mothers who come together and pray for their children. Listener questions and comments: Joni - I am a MOM leader in Philly and we met Doug on the pilgrimage. (10:21) Matt - I have a sister who drifted away and is protestant and is now nothing. What do I do? (19:07) Dorothy - 'Send a Philip' that’s
A Path to Marital Peace
Doug offers practical advice for cultivating a peaceful marriage. He highlights the importance of being at peace with God as a way to strengthen the relationship. Practices like daily Mass and regular confession, he explains, help build virtue and guard against behaviors that can lead to divorce. Listener questions and comments: Deedee – Do we have to love everyone we offer peace to?
Women and Pornography Addiction
Doug talks about women and pornography addiction with Rachael Killackey from Magdala Ministries which helps women with pornography addiction. Resources: https://www.magdalaministries.org/ What Magdala Ministries does to help with porn addiction (5:27) How Rachael got addicted to porn (9:13) Why women get addicted to porn (13:32) Veronica shares story on viewing porn in her marri
Men and Pornography Addiction
Doug is joined by Joe Masek from The Freedom Group to talk about men's struggles with pornography and how to overcome it. Resources:https://www.thefreedomgroup.co/ Dangers of Pornography (4:21) Samantha shares story of overcoming porn addiction (22:41) AI and Porn (36:47) Helping with Porn addiction (40:13)
For Better or Worse
Doug has a conversation with Archbishop Sheen about his TV show “For Better or Worse”.
When Your Spouse Says No
What should you do if your spouse always says no to marital intimacy? What if there is conflict about abstaining from intimacy to avoid sin? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more. Listener questions and Comments: Ray - I am seeing the biggest hinderance in marriage being unrealistic expectations. (21:59)
Prioritizing Family Over Career
Doug discusses an email from a woman concerned that her husband works excessively and is pressuring her to take on full-time work as well. She worries this dynamic is harming their marriage and family life. Doug emphasizes the importance of being present for one’s spouse and children and making family a top priority. Listener questions and comments: Josephina - My husband and I are o
Breaking Down Dating Challenges Today
Doug dives into the mailbag to respond to listeners’ reactions from Monday’s discussion about the challenges young men face in today’s dating world. He explores differing perspectives and digs deeper into what’s shaping these experiences. Listener questions and comments: Mary - It’s also Paul Revere’s ride tomorrow! (8:46) Mary - My husband and I met and
The Adolescent Screen Time Crisis
Are you concerned about how much time you, your spouse or your children spend on screens? Today, Dr. Johann D’Souza joins Doug to discuss the adolescent mental health crisis Listener questions and comments: Joyce - How are these new screens any different from using a TV for generations as the baby sitter. (20:13) Chris - I am a high school art teacher. I see a big change in kid's dep
Reviving the Influence of Fatherhood
Deacon Joe Grote joins Doug to discuss his book Where Have All The Fathers Gone? Listener questions and comments: Walt - Government policy doesn't help keep fathers in the home. It rewards single parenthood. There should be incentives to keep families together. (18:56) Lisa - I wanted to share how my son is a great boy in spite of losing his father. We need fathers but sometimes when
Navigating Same-Sex Attraction Together
What should you do if you discover your husband has same-sex attraction? Today, Doug tackles this question and more on Marriage Unhindered. Listener questions and comments: John - I thought getting married gets you out of the issue of lust, but it can continue in marriage. (21:50) Julie - I have been married to my husband for 25 years and he always uses contraception, but I don’t kno
Dating Advice for Young Men
Doug dives into the frustrations many men face with modern dating and the challenges of building a lasting marriage. He breaks down what often goes wrong and why so many feel stuck or discouraged. Through honest insights and practical advice, Doug offers straightforward dating tips to help young men build confidence, and create meaningful relationships. Listener questions and comments: Pat
Restoring Honesty in Marriage
Doug explores how lying affects marriages, how to respond, and ways to foster honesty. Listeners share personal experiences, including insights from a recovered liar and the impact of dementia on a spouse’s truthfulness. Listener questions and comments: Junior – I am a reformed liar and want to share my perspective. Confession helped me realize you don’t have to lie. (34:
The Spiritual Reality of Marriage
Fr. Robert Altier joins Doug to discuss the difference between a civil and sacramental marriage and what happens to the souls of a man and woman when they enter into a sacramental marriage. Listener questions and comments: Richard - Does a sacramental marriage require a civil marriage? (13:20) Lisette - Follow up: I closed my husband’s laptop and he pushed me out of the room s
From Doubt to Renewal
Doug examines a case study about a marriage that had nearly fallen apart but was eventually revived. In this relationship, the couple got engaged after just four months. Although the wife had doubts about the marriage, she reassured herself that even if it didn’t work out, she would at least have children. Listener questions and comments: Matt - Do you recommend a longer courtship fo
Holy and Healthy Marital Intimacy
Sarah Bartel, co-founder of Cana Feast joins Doug to discuss how women can enjoy holy and healthy physical intimacy with their husbands. Listener questions and comments: Mary - My husband would wake me up at middle of night. I would tell him no, but he'd keep insisting. I got to the point, that I told him, ‘It feels like you're raping me'. Was that wrong for me to say? (15:00) John -
A Guide to Marriage Resurrection
Are you worried that your marriage is in danger? Do you feel like you are losing that loving feeling? Today, Doug shares how to resurrect a dead marriage. Listener questions and comments: Joe - How do we find a way resolve issues without sounding angry and disrespectful in front of kids? (22:45) Resources: Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/
Forgiving From the Cross
Doug explores the importance of forgiveness in marriage sharing how to forgive like Jesus did from the cross. Listener questions and comments: Kathy - I think your book should have been called 'suffering in marriage'. You are very good at talking about this topic. (21:15) Esther - Should I feel shame when I forgive my spouse but people are judging me for forgiving him? (35:46) Dianna - I w
Making Children Our Priority
Katy Faust with Them Before Us joins Doug to share how children need to be a priority in our society. Listener questions and comments: Patrick - Do you think there is a way to get rid of no-fault divorce? (20:41) Mike - It seems like women leave marriage at a higher rate than men. What do you think about this? (25:07) Stephen - Would you cover the verse that mentioned you commit adultery i
Marriage as a Redemptive Vessel
Doug shares how marriage can be a vessel for Christ’s redemptive work. Resources: How Christ Saves Souls—with Us: The Mystery of Co-Redemption https://stpaulcenter.com/store/how-christ-saves-souls-with-us-the-mystery-of-co-redemption Catholic Therapists https://catholictherapists.com/ Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/
Marriage Lessons from Gethsemane
Doug shares marriage lessons we can learn from Jesus’ suffering in Gethsemane. He unpacks martyrdom in marriage, white martyrdom and how God uses our sufferings to redeem souls. Listener questions and comments: Katherine - My Husband will say sometimes 'I just wish I was dead' and I don’t know how to respond. (20:05)
Teaching Human Sexuality through Self-mastery
Courtney Brown joins Doug to discuss talking to young children about human sexuality. Listener questions and comments: Michelle - My mom always said that when a man and woman love each other, they make love. (20:53) Joyce - Love Ed is what we used at our church and it was very good. (23:49) Patrick - How do you explain when people reduce homosexuality to the Idea of 'they just love each ot
Beautifully Imperfect & Deeply Committed
Dr. Ed Sri and his wife Beth join Doug to discuss their book - The Good, the Messy, and the Beautiful: The Joys and Struggles of Real Married Life. Listener questions and comments: John - I have a porn addiction that my wife found out about, and it led her to discover inappropriate messages and a past affair. I suffered domestic violence from her this past month, and I'm now in a domestic
Fixing What Isn’t Working
What should you do when “The Formula” doesn’t work? What should you do when your wife doesn’t do what you ask? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Mike - What do you think about common law marriage? (16:11) Addison - I am struggling because my husband is stressed at work and our son has special needs. When we
Good News for Marriage
Sociologist Dr. Brad Wilcox joins Doug to discuss the state of marriage in the U.S. Resources: Brad Wilcox https://ifstudies.org/about-us/brad-wilcox
Avoid the Trap of Discouragement (Part 2)
Do the problems in your marriage seem insurmountable? Today, Doug continues his discussion on discouragement and despair in marriage. Listener questions and comments: Alexander - How do I convince my wife to become Catholic? (3:05) Colby - I want to recommend that Alexander looks into the Byzantine rite of the Catholic Church. (16:47) David - What do you do if you were raised in an all-mal
Avoid the Trap of Discouragement
Doug takes calls from listeners struggling with discouragement, resentment, and distance in long-term marriages. He offers guidance on staying faithful to your vows and finding hope when relationships feel strained. Plus, the Friday rant! Listener questions and comments: Jennifer – My marriage is in despair after 31 years, and my husband is distant and sleeping separately. How
Managing Family Finances Together
Is money causing stress in your marriage? Today, Doug is joined by Preston Allex to talk through practical ways to manage family finances. They cover why creating a family budget matters and how to support college-aged kids as they transition into independence. They also share the value of Catholic Legacy: Faithful planning for a peaceful tomorrow. Listener questions and comments: Tony - M
Virtue and Conquering the Four Horsemen
Doug examines the 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse and the damage they do to a marriage: criticism, contempt stonewalling and defensiveness. Listener questions and comments: Ray - Can you give the steps of what to do once you meet a girl? (16:37)
Faith in a Divided Home
What should you do when your spouse won’t quit drinking? How do you pass on the faith to your children when your spouse is resistant? Listener questions and comments: Stephanie - My husband wants to stop drinking and my son doesn't believe that he will. I've seen my son cry about this. My son has prayed for his father. What should I do? (9:59) Jane - I have two teenage boys. Their da
Growing Together in Marital love
Nathan Bartel, founder of Cana Feast joins Doug to discuss things men need to know about their wives and the marital embrace. Listener questions and comments: Mary - What should a wife do if the wife is not wanting or willing to have sex so she is in the other bed room for days and days. (33:47) Resources: Cana Feast https://canafeast.com/ https://canafeast.com/holydesires
Healing the Wound of Abortion
Kathy Burkes and Fr. John McNamara join Doug to discuss Project Rachel and post abortion healing. Julia - So many people pushed me to get an abortion when I was 22 and I didn’t go through with it. I’m so glad I didn’t. (18:12) Walt - When we separate the word ‘mother’ from the term 'woman who had an abortion' we go nowhere. People who have abortions are still
Standing by your Marriage Vows
Doug unpacks a case study about a “stander” from Impossible Marriages Redeemed. A “stander” is a victim of divorce who chooses to continue to live a life faithful to their wedding vows. Listener questions and comments: Jeannie - We are called to faithfulness, not happiness. (20:40) Jennifer - Thank you for the 'standers' and for what you promote. We can always offer
Breaking Cycles of Verbal Abuse
Should you get involved to help your parents’ marriage? What can you do if your reversion to the faith is causing more tension in the marriage? Doug answers these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Hellen - My husband and I have been married for 42 years and the Holy Spirit finally got a hold of him and he just converted after all this time. (21:54) Jessica - I also
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