Come Curious
Come Curious is a podcast that features open, honest, and explicit conversations about sex and relationships. Hosted by sex educators and content creators Florence Bark and Reed Amber, the show includes personal sex stories, professional advice from therapists and dominatrixes, and discussions with public figures. The podcast aims to educate and entertain listeners with a focus on sexual wellness and curiosity.
Episodes
Why Don't I Feel Horny? How to get your sex drive back - Libido, Arousal, Hormones & Relationships
Why don't I feel horny anymore?
And is there actually anything you can do to get your sex drive back?
In this episode of Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive into the surprisingly complicated world of libido, low sex drive and sexual desire - and why feeling less horny doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with you.
From hormones and medication to stress, relationships, parenthood an
How Motherhood Changed Us - Postpartum Life, Body Changes, Sex After Birth & Maternal Mental Health
Motherhood changes you. Your body, your brain, your relationships, your priorities — sometimes even your sense of who the fuck you are.
In this episode, Florence gets brutally honest about the reality of becoming a new mum, from postpartum anxiety and breastfeeding to body changes, sex after birth and the pressure to somehow “bounce back”.
We get into:
The enormous identity shift that comes
The Future of Sex - would you 'do' a robot? | AI Seggs, AI Companions & The Future of Intimacy
Our question this week is - Would you have seggs with a robot?
As loneliness rises and AI becomes increasingly woven into our relationships, Florence and Reed ask a very important question: what happens when technology can give us pleasure, companionship and even something that feels a little like intimacy?
In this episode, we explore the future of sex, from AI companions and sex robots to the
How To Make Rejection Your B*tch - Dating Rejection, ADHD Rejection Sensitivity, Boundaries & Self-Worth
Rejection fcking hurts. So how do we get better at handling it without taking it as a verdict on our worth?
In this episode of Come Curious, Florence and Reed get into the messy reality of rejection across dating, relationships, friendships and work. They explore why rejection can feel so painful, how the way we're rejected can make a huge difference, and why learning to say (and hear)
Do I Like You or Was I Just Ovulating: Attraction, Hormones, Attachment Styles & Toxic Chemistry
Is it chemistry… or is it just hormones?
Florence and Reed dive into the science and psychology of attraction - exploring dopamine, adrenaline, ovulation, attachment styles and why the people who make our nervous systems go wild aren't always the people who are actually good for us.
We get into:
The brain chemistry behind attraction and obsession
Can ovulation really change who we fancy?
Everything We Know About Dating: Best vs Worst Dates - dating apps, ghosting, and catfishing
In the first episode of our new dating series, Reed and Florence dive into the realities of modern dating - from dating apps and ghosting to catfishing, first-date disasters and the best dates they've ever been on.
With Reed navigating single, polyamorous life and Florence adjusting to life as a new mum, they bring very different perspectives to the dating game.
We get into:
Dating apps & catfi
Hair Fetish and Being a Bearded Woman - Body confidence, Beauty standards & Kink
What happens when you stop treating your body hair as something that needs fixing and start seeing it as part of what makes you attractive?
In this episode of Come Curious, Reed chats to Bethany, producer of Come Curious and host of The Sassy Show, about being a proudly hairy woman with a beard. They dive deep into body confidence, beauty standards and hair fetishes.
Bethany
How to Make Friends and Break Friendships - Loneliness, Toxic Friendships & Friends With Benefits
Making Friends After 30? Trying to end a toxic friendship? Dealing with Adult Loneliness? This is the episode for you!
In this episode of Come Curious, we get into the messy reality of adult friendship: how to make new friends, how to know when a friendship has run its course, and why ending a platonic relationship can hurt just as much as a romantic breakup.
We talk about the loneliness ep
How to Initiate Sex: communicating desire & overcoming rejection anxiety
How do you actually initiate sex with your partner?
It sounds simple, but for many couples, making the first move can be surprisingly awkward, vulnerable and even scary. In this episode, we get into why sexual initiation can become so difficult and what you can actually do about it.
We discuss the loneliness epidemic and changing dating habits, before getting into the bigger question: how
My Friend's Having a Baby - WTF?! Friendship changes, parenthood & child-free life
No one really prepares you for what happens when your best friend has a baby.
Suddenly your lives look completely different. Messages take longer to reply to, spontaneous plans disappear, priorities shift, and sometimes... it can feel like you're grieving a friendship that's still alive.
In this deeply honest episode, Florence and Reed unpack how becoming a parent changes friendships—not just fo
What Porn Are You Watching? - Hentai, MILFs & modern porn habits
Porn is everywhere but how much is too much? What are people actually searching for? And should we be worried about our viewing habits?
This week we're diving headfirst into the world of pornography. As former porn creators ourselves, we're unpacking how our relationship with porn has changed over the years, what healthy consumption looks like, and why the conversation around "porn addiction" mig
0rgies vs G4ng Bangs? - Group Sex, Swinging, Fantasy & Sexual Health
What's the actual difference between an ()rgy and a g4ng bang? And why do these two forms of group sx carry such different cultural baggage?
In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the definitions, misconceptions, fantasies and realities surrounding two of the most talked-about group sx experiences.
We explore where these ideas come from, how they've been shaped by mainstream 🌽orn, an
Non Sexy Things That Turn Us On - Acts of Service, Emotional Vulnerability & Why Confidence is So Sexy!
Turns out the sexiest things aren't always sexual.
In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the unexpected, surprising, and sometimes downright bizarre things that make people feel attracted, connected, and turned on.
From fresh bed sheets and gardening to emotional vulnerability and conflict resolution, we're exploring the green flags, personality traits, and everyday moments that can
Should I Stay If They've Cheated On Me? - Affairs, Trust Issues, Couples Therapy & Recovery
When cheating happens, everyone wants a simple answer: leave or stay.
But real relationships are rarely that straightforward.
In this episode of Come Curious, we unpack one of the most painful questions a person can face: should you stay with someone who has cheated on you?
Drawing on listener stories, expert insights, personal experiences, and relationship research, we explore why affairs happ
Threesomes, Male Multiple Orgasms and Throat Orgasms - Pleasure Skills Nobody Taught You
What if orgasm isn't something you're born knowing how to do but a skill you can learn?
This week on Come Curious, we're joined by sex educator, author and pleasure advocate Susan Bratton for a mind-expanding conversation about the incredible range of pleasure our bodies are capable of experiencing.
We dive into male multiple o's, prostate pleasure, orgasmic intercourse, throat o's, and why so m
Is this cheating? Dating Apps, Exes, Emotional Affairs & Secret Texts
Is subscribing to someone's OnlyFans cheating? What about texting an ex, keeping a dating app "just to look", or fantasising about someone else during sex?
In this special watershed episode, we're diving into the murky grey areas of modern relationships with a boundary-pushing cheating quiz that sparks some surprisingly revealing conversations.
Together, we unpack the behaviours that sit between
Babies, Bodies & Banging Sex - new motherhood, polyamory & intimacy after birth
We're back!
After a whirlwind few months, Florence and Reed reunite to share some huge life update and trust us, a lot has happened.
Florence opens up about her traumatic birth experience, from preeclampsia and induction to the realities of labour, recovery and becoming a mum. Meanwhile, Reed spills the tea on ending a dishonest situationship, finding a healthy new polyamorous relationship, and
What makes a great Cis, Straight Dominant Man - Authority, Kink Theory and Ethical Domination
This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant.
Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about presence, responsibility and service.
Tripp shares his unique perspective on power exchange, explaining how
Why Is Cumming So Hard???
Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about?
In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach?
From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pre
Single, Slutty and Sad? - Dodgy dates, fantastic f*cks & everything in between
Is being single actually lonely… or are we just taught to fear it?
In this deeply honest solo episode, Reed opens up about the messy, liberating, emotional rollercoaster of single life — from dodgy dates and incredible seggs to heartbreak, healing, k'nk exploration and learning how to stop losing yourself in relationships.
Expect candid chats about:
💔 Codependency and self-worth
🍑 Casual seggs,
How to Pleasure Yourself - Pickle d*ldos, size queens and The Bad Peach
M4sturbation May is officially here, and Reed is diving deep into the art of pl3asuring yourself.
From shame, fantasy and corn habits to discovering what actually makes your body feel good, this solo episode is an honest, hilarious and deeply relatable guide to self-pleasure.
She explores why “bigger” isn’t always better, how knowing your size can transform seggs, and why orgasms should never f
Married vs Single - Life Assumptions Busted with Feeld
Is being single really freer?
Is marriage actually boring?
And does your sex life have to change once you settle down?
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed unpack the assumptions we make about relationships, sex, and happiness — and why neither married nor single life is as simple as people think.
From pregnancy libido changes and emotional intimacy to loneliness, rejection, freedom
How To Be a Better Man w/ Jerry Xzeng - Vasectomies, "bro-culture' and positive masculinity online
What does it actually mean to be a “better man” today?
This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Jerry Xzeng for a powerful conversation about masculinity, identity, and the pressures men are facing right now.From the rise of red-pill culture to the quiet crisis of male loneliness and mental health, they unpack why so many men feel lost and what needs to change.
Jerry shares his personal
Tickle Fetishes & MY tickle fetish - Taboo, desire and radical self-acceptance
Tickling… but make it kinky?
This week on Come Curious, Reed gets personal as she opens up about her own tickle fetish — what it is, how it feels, and why it’s so often misunderstood.
From the difference between kinks and fetishes to the shame that can come with desires we don’t always choose, this episode is all about destigmatising pleasure and owning what turns you on.
Reed dives into:
– Wha
Male Etiquette in the Kink Scene w/ Kyron Kruger - performance anxiety, latex love & power play
What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene?
This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by Kryron Kruger - latex-loving, boundary-pushing content creator who’s redefining what it means to be a man in sex work. Together they unpack male etiquette in BDSM from communication and consent to performance pressure and what it really takes to show up respectfully in kink spaces.
Kyron shares
Your Dirty Little Secrets - From Sounding & Sock F3tishes to Cum Confessions… Nothing Is Off Limits
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into your dirtiest, most unhinged, and secretly-held confessions — and let’s just say… we were not prepared.
From:
Golden showers & cum curiosities
CNC fantasies & breeding kinks
Sock fetishes & used shoe obsessions
Watching yourself back for pleasure
Fantasies that feel better than reality
And the question… are we all just a litt
Dating and How To Get OFF the Apps with Breeze (cos Love is Worth the Leap!)
Swiping, ghosting, endless chatting… and still no actual dates?
This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Marsha Goei, co-founder of dating app Breeze, where love is worth the leap! We're talking no chat, just REAL dates.
Marsha tells us about why modern dating feels so exhausting — and how to actually get OFF the apps and back into real-life connection.
Breeze flips the script on tradi
Slutty Travels and Pregnancy Prep - phobias, fruity fcks and butthole real-talk
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are coming to you from opposite sides of the world — one in Thailand, one in California — juggling time zones, baby prep, and a whole lot of life.
It’s a proper catch-up episode filled with everything from near-medical emergencies to unexpected romance, body changes, and facing fears head-on.
Reed shares the scary reality of getting seriously ill whil
Neurodivergent Friends and Fcks: ADHD Sexual Impulsivity, Hands free Orgasms & Kink Rules
This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by neurodivergent coach, breathwork practitioner and somatic therapist Hannah for a powerful, eye-opening conversation about how ADHD, autism and PMDD shape the way we experience friendship, sex, and relationships.
We dive into what neurodivergence actually feels like - from dopamine-seeking, impulsivity and sensory overwhelm, to the quiet burnout that co
Your Shameless Confessions
This week on Come Curious, we asked you to send us your most shameless confessions… and you absolutely delivered.
From secret kinks and unexpected encounters to moments that made us gasp, laugh, and occasionally say “oh my god you did WHAT?”, Florence and Reed dive into the wild, weird and wonderfully honest stories from the Come Curious community.
We hear about secret fetishes, train journeys t
The Fertility Conversation We Never Hear About, with Seetal Savla
This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by fertility writer, speaker and advocate Seetal Savla for a deeply honest conversation about the side of fertility journeys we rarely hear about.
At 34 weeks pregnant herself, Florence sits down with Seetal to talk through the reality of trying to conceive — from early loss and years of IVF, to the emotional rollercoaster of hope, grief, and the pres
LIBIDO - Is Your Sex Drive "Normal"?
Is your sex drive "too high"? "Too low"? Has it disappeared completely? Or is it all over the place?
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed tackle one of the most asked (and most anxiety-inducing) questions in sex: is my libido normal?
From pregnancy libido shifts and ADHD hyperfocus highs, to widow’s fire, medication side effects, birth control changes, and relationship mismatches — we un
Kinky Raves, Sex Stories and Censorship Hell with Lily Eff
What actually happens at a queer kinky rave? 👀🔥
This week, Reed is joined by Lily Eff - co-founder of Quench, one of London's hottest queer kinky raves and play party communities.
Tune in for wild sex party stories (including a 21-person orgy…) and how Lily is building inclusive, intentional kink spaces that feel like HOME. They dive deep into the emotional reality of exploring fantasies IRL,
Dildo Nightmares, with Matty from Eversense Toys
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by Matty Hennessy - sex toy designer, transmasc educator, and the brilliant mind behind Eversense Toys and the chaotic internet phenomenon Dildo Nightmares.
We dive into Matty’s journey creating toys for bodies that are often overlooked by mainstream sex tech including his upcoming designs specifically supporting transmasc pleasure, bottom
Pregnancy Erotica
This week on Come Curious, Florence goes over some fun pregnancy sex facts, what breeding kinks are all about and gets into the updates you've been missing when it comes to being 30 weeks pregnant! AND you sent in some GREAT pregnancy sex related stories and questions!
PLUS Florence shares the juicy deets about her upcoming erotic film for Erika Lust and rates the pregnancy porn that you can wat
Controversial Opinions - Red Flag Edition
This week on Come Curious XXXtra Kinky Episode, Florence and Reed unpack whether “red flags” are actually warnings… or just wildly subjective vibes that depend on who’s holding the binoculars.
They get honest about bras, pleasure doms, consent in long-term relationships, “high value men”, performative feminism, and whether bad sex actually exists… or if it’s all just incompatibility.
And just wh
The Truth About Getting Paid for P***Y - meet Jade Blair
In this fabulous, no BS episode, Reed is joined by infamous Australian sex worker, advocate, and content creator Jade Blair to talk about the reality of getting paid for p***y without shame, shock tactics, or fantasy.
Jade shares what in-person sex work actually looks like: the conversations, the boundaries, the safety routines, the money talks, and the emotional labour that most people never con
Men, Sex and Porn - what needs to change, with Axel Reigns
This week on Come Curious, we’re joined by award-winning porn performer and creator Axel Reigns for one of our most powerful conversations yet.
Axel pulls back the curtain on the porn industry to talk about what really needs to change - from male accountability and consent culture, to calling out abuse, complicity, and silence in spaces that are meant to be safe.
We get honest about power, res
Becoming Parents with Husband John
This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by her husband John for their first ever deeply personal sit-down - and it gets real, fast. From pregnancy hormones and mismatched libidos to fears about being “good enough” and the magic of falling in love, they open up about what it’s really like to become parents together.
They answer ALL your listener questions about intimacy, jealousy, how they m
Your 2026 F*ck-It List
This week on Come Curious, we’re easing into 2026 with our annual Fuck-It List - a gentle but powerful reset for your love life, self-worth and sex.
Florence and Reed reflect on the wild, messy, magical year that was 2025. Tune in to hear them unpack what they’re ready to let go of, and ask each other (and you) some seriously juicy questions about intimacy, growth, boundaries and desire. From ac
HAPPY NEW YEAR CURIOUS FCKERS!
Happy New Year, curious fckers! 💖
We’re popping in to wave goodbye to the chaos of 2025, share our hopes for a calmer, bigger, better 2026 (including one tiny new human !).
This is our mini message to remind you (and ourselves) to stress less and give ourselves a break. We’re feeling hopeful, grateful, and so excited for what’s coming next with you.
Sending our New Year wishes to you with
MERRY CHRISTMAS - MINI MESSAGE
Happy holidays Curious Fckers! However you're celebrating this time of year, we're sending love your way!
Here's a cheeky mini-message offering some sparkly joy and a gentle reminder to give yourself what you need during this holiday period (especially if you're struggling with the fam).
Looking forward to dipping back in with a New Year message!
With love
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XXXmas Unwrapped
It’s a very horny XXXMas episode on Come Curious - Florence and Reed are back in full festive filth mode to share there stocking-filler recommendations (with discount codes galore) and reflect on a year of unforgettable sex.
They get real about pregnancy sex bans, unexpected threadworm drama (yes, really), and why sometimes the worst fck teaches you the most.
This is an XXXtra kinky episode mea
Abi Feltham: Alcoholism, BPD, Crack and Brain Tumours
TW: In this episode we discuss drug use, alcohol abuse, suicide and cancer.
This week Reed sits down with the brilliant, brutally honest, and heart-meltingly funny Abi Feltham - the creator and influencer who talks openly about addiction, recovery, BPD, crack binges in Thailand, brain cancer, and somehow has you laughing through the tears.
If you’re flirting with sobriety, trying to hold on to i
Squirting - JOYclub’s Step-by-Step Guide
This week, Florence & Reed are diving vulva-first into squirting science with JOYclub’s brand-new step-by-step squirting course - and yes, they watched it live so you don’t have to… except you’ll definitely want to after this 😂💦 Have a sneak peak here.
From “is it pee?” to “why does it feel like I’m about to pee?” to “HOW THE ACTUAL F**K DID SHE SQUIRT LIKE THAT?!”, we’re breaking down the myths,
Orgasmic Births & Pleasure Hypnosis with Lucia Nicolini
This week Florence sits down with pleasure-hypnosis and orgasmic-birth practitioner Lucia Nicolini for a mind-melting journey into how hypnosis can transform pregnancy, pleasure, and even the way you give birth.
From reconnecting to your body after trauma (Florence shares her own experience) to the wild truth about orgasmic birth, nipple-stimulation hacks, sexy self-hypnosis, and why your mind is
Sex Trends Throughout Time
This week Florence and Reed ride the ADHD mania wave straight into sex trends, porn obsessions, squirting reviews, and the hottest holiday horniness you didn’t know you needed. From orgasm-during-pregnancy revelations to airport sex stats that blew everyone’s minds, it’s chaotic, juicy, and very, very curious.
And THEN - after the watershed - we flip the switch. The second half is XXXtra filthy
Why is having a boyfriend embarrassing? Meet the writer Chanté Joseph
She broke the internet with her latest article 'Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrasing Now?' and now she's joining Reed to talk about the dilemmas of modern dating.
This week we've got writer Chanté Joseph on the show to dive into why posting your partner feels cringe, the heterosexual repair industry, and how to date without compromise. From breadcrumbing to boundary-setting, Chanté shares her unfilt
Busting myths & maximising moans w/ Amari
This week, Florence and Reed are joined by certified sex educator and founder of Admin by Amari, the brilliant Amari Leigh, to bust some of the biggest sex myths and unlock the secrets to truly maximising your moans.
The trio gets candid about kink safety, sex toys, and the forty (yes, forty!) types of orgasms you can have. Plus, we explore the stigma around bi men, discover kinky Swifties (yep,
What Cancer Taught Me
This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to
What We Learnt Making Anal Porn
This week Florence and Reed get cheeky (literally) as they spill all the behind-the-scenes secrets from directing their first anal porn film.
From the beauty of real chemistry to the chaos of lube, fluff, and butthole talk - it’s a deep dive into everything they learnt about anal on and off camera. Expect laughs, lube, and a lot of love for the bum.
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Ceros - His stories: Schizophrenia and bisexuality
This week, we go beyond the mic with Ceros - an online tornado of truth known for his YT channel Ceros TV sharing stories about his bisexuality, schizophrenia and femboy loving G-Pa. From marrying a 90-year-old at 18, to sleeping with her daughter... and granddaughter, we go beneath the viral chaos to learn more Ceros's experiences of masculinity, pain and survival.
No filters. No performance. J
Quitting OnlyFans
Big news, Curious F**kers - our gorgeous Florence is expecting a baby! 💕
With life changing in every sense, Florence and Reed are getting real about transformation, identity, and what it means to let go - including Florence (potentially) saying goodbye to OnlyFans.
It’s honest, thoughtful, and full of heart - a conversation about growth, boundaries, and change in all its messy, beautiful forms
The Fertility Formula – Taking Control of Your Reproductive Health with Natalie Crawford
This week Florence sits down with Dr. Natalie Crawford, a leading fertility expert and author of The Fertility Formula, to unpack how everyday choices impact our hormones, cycles, and chances of conceiving. From diet and toxins to sleep, exercise, and stress, Natalie reveals the five key pillars for supporting reproductive health - and why fertility isn’t just about the moment you start trying for
'Vanilla' Isn't a Dirty Word
Let’s get vanilla, baby!
This week Florence and Reed dive into the joy of “plain” old sex - because vanilla is anything but boring. From the underrated magic of missionary to the giggles, intimacy, and melt-your-soul moments that don’t need whips or chains, we’re giving simple pleasure the spotlight it deserves.
Reed uncovers what her vanilla side looks like, Florence shares some unforgettable v
Friendship Breakups vs Relationship Breakups with Michelle Elman
This week, Reed sits down with the brilliant Michelle Elman — life coach, author, and unapologetic boundary queen. From dating without shame to grieving the loss of friendships, Michelle is here to challenge the stories we’ve been sold about love, loyalty, and letting go.
We dive into her books The Selfish Romantic and Bad Friend, exploring why demanding more in dating is actually powerful, and w
Is Your Cum Face Real or Fake?
We’ve all seen them - the porn-star-perfect O-face, the silent shudder, the dramatic gasp. But babe… is your cum face the real deal, or a total performance? This week, Florence and Reed and Florence are lifting the sheets on orgasm expressions: the ones we make, the ones we fake, and what they really say about our sex lives.
We’re swapping our own cringe and glorious cum face confessions, asking
Libidos, Love and Longterm Relationships with Asa and David
This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?”
We dive into how
How To Be A Bad Daughter with Sangeeta Pillai
This week, Florence and Reed are joined by the powerhouse that is Sangeeta Pillai — creator of the award-winning Masala Podcast, author of her new book Bad Daughter and unapologetic queen of smashing South Asian taboos. From sex and shame to pleasure and power, we’re diving into the cultural scripts that shape us — and how to rip them up (with love, sass, and maybe a vibrator or two).
Sangeeta sh
From Monogamy to Poly With Alice Lovegood
What happens when you trade “the one” for the many? This week, Reed is joined by sex educator, writer, and all-round babe Alice Lovegood to unpack the messy, magical, and oh-so-human shift from monogamy to polyamory.
We’re talking first steps, jealousy wobbles, compersion (yep, that’s a thing), and the realities behind the fantasy of “having it all.” Alice opens up about their own journey - fro
Jealousy Confessions: How to Stop Obsessing
Green-eyed monster? Babe, we’ve been there and this week, Florence and Reed are dragging jealousy out of the shadows and into the daylight. From obsessively stalking your ex’s new boo to side-eyeing your partner’s “just a friend,” we’re spilling our rawest confessions, messiest moments, and the tips that actually help you stop spiralling.
We’re talking envy vs jealousy, ex etiquette, and why so
Parenting and Porn with Erika Lust
It’s time to talk about… PARENTING & PORN.
What happens when your career is in porn — and you’re planning for parenthood? Florence is flying solo this week and sitting down with legendary erotic filmmaker Erika Lust for a juicy, no-holds-barred convo on raising kids in a world obsessed with sex but terrified of sexuality.
From fighting censorship and dismantling shame to the nitty-gritty of how t
Empowering Submissive Men with Saint Arson
It’s time to talk about… SUBMISSIVE MEN. 😈
Florence and Reed are joined by the magnetic dominatrix, performer, and kink educator Saint Arson (aka Arson Leigh) to dive deep into a topic that’s still drenched in stigma: male submission.
From the myths of masculinity to the power of being ass-up and emotionally available, this juicy episode unpacks what it means to be a submissive man - and why tha
Do Extroverts Cum More?
This week, Florence and Reed get curious about how our social wiring plays into horniness, hookups, and sexual satisfaction.
From voice notes and sex parties to social burnout and sober raving, they’re unpacking how your being an introvert or an extrovert might just be linked to your sex life, libido, dating style - and yes, even how much you orgasm.
Is being an extrovert the secret to better s
Breakups verses Breakdowns
It’s time to talk about… BREAKUPS.
Heartbreak, codependency, situationships, spirals - Florence is coming to you solo this week and sitting down with her incredible friend, author, and podcast queen Kelsey Darragh (Confidently Insecure) to unpack the brutal, beautiful chaos of breakups.
From sobbing through situationships to sexually addictive rebounds and emotional rock bottoms, Kelsey shares t
Sisters Uncensored - Hereditary Horniness
This week, Reed is joined by her ultra-creative, beautifully-queer sister Flynn for an unfiltered heart-to-heart convo about growing up side-by-side, navigating sex and privacy in a shared household, and the surprising overlaps in their kinky little brains. Think BDSM, tentacle kinks, tickling obsessions, and the sweet, sensual power of a backstroke.
They get real about sisterhood dynamics, the t
How Kinky Are You?
It’s time to talk about… KINK.
Blindfolds, bondage, being a gang bang princess — this episode is dripping with all things freaky. Florence and Reed are diving clit-first into their favourite topic ever: kink. From tickle fetishes to golden showers, degradation to dentist gloves, it’s a wild ride through the buffet of BDSM and beyond.
They’re taking the ultimate kinky quiz, swapping filthy storie
Conquering Ageing - From f*** no to f*** yes!
It’s time to talk about… AGEING.
From saggy titties to spiking libidos, Florence and Reed are diving deep into the wild, wobbly, and wonderful world of getting older. This episode is a full-body embrace of wrinkles, weight changes, and the shifting sands of self-esteem — and we’re not holding back.
Why are we so terrified of ageing? Is it all doom, gloom, and bingo wings? (Spoiler: absolutely no
Am I Gay? The Gay Checklist
Ever Googled “Am I gay?” and clicked on the weirdest quiz imaginable? You're not alone. In this gloriously queer and candid Pride Month episode, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into the wonderfully confusing world of sexuality with zero judgment and all the juicy honesty you’d expect.
From bisexual panic and gay porn epiphanies to kissing your best mate and not feeling “gay enough” — nothing’s o
Get F***ed!
It's time for a special minisode dedicated entirely to our beloved Get F***ed segment — because sometimes life gives you so much material that one regular episode just isn't enough to contain the chaos.
Florence's discovered her own sweat is literally giving her a rash (evolutionary fail, much?), while Reed drops a major bombshell about her relationship status. We're serving up burst pipes, brea
Pubic Hair: Is the BUSH back?
Bush, landing strip, bald eagle — we’re getting into the hairy truth of it all. From shaving disasters and itchy regrowth to waxing regrets and the porn-fuelled pressure to stay bare, Florence and Reed are pulling no punches (or hairs).
Why are we still so weird about pubic hair? Should we be doing anything with it at all? And what happens when your partner’s pube-preferences cross a boundary? W
Keeping It On The DL with Topher Taylor
TW: Discussion of transphobia, homophobia and language that could be distressing for some listeners.
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by award-winning sex educator and writer, Topher Taylor to talk all things DL guys- men who identify as straight but have sex with men. Together they answer your questions, listen to your stories and unpack desire, secrecy, queerness, kink, a
Relationship Breaks: Do They Work?
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed get into the messy, emotional world of relationship breaks- the rules, the realities, and whether they actually work. They read your stories, tackle a juicy voicenote dilemma, and Reed opens up on where she’s at in her own relationship right now.
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Opening Up Without F*cking Up, with Ruby Rare
This week Florence and Reed are joined by award winning sex educator and author, Ruby Rare to chat all things non-monogamy. Ruby opens up about her personal experiences within poly and open relationships, and shares her best tips for handling conflict and navigating jealousy when there’s multiple people involved. Plus, Ruby gives her take on the concept of a “one penis policy”.
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Sh*t Gets Real: A Miscarriage and More
TW: Miscarriage - In this week’s episode, Florence opens up about her recent miscarriage. She shares what the experience was like, both physically and emotionally, and how she’s currently navigating the healing process. Meanwhile, Reed shares a dating story involving a feeding kink.
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When Your Body Feels Like the Enemy: PMDD, Neurodivergence & Body Image
What happens when your hormones, brain, and body are all speaking different languages? In this deeply honest episode, we explore the complexities of PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), neurodivergence, and body image. From battling mood spirals and sensory overwhelm to navigating body dysmorphia, our guest shares what it's like to live inside a body that often feels unfamiliar — or even hostil
Heated Debate On Lily Phillips, Katy Perry In Space & Trans Rights Are Under Attack!
This week we unravel the contradictions of so-called progress. From Adolescence, Netflix’s new drama on radicalised teen boys and Andrew Tate’s influence, to Katy Perry’s trip to space for “feminism”. We also break down the UK’s new law defining gender, widely condemned as an attack on trans rights. Plus, our stances on Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips.
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Masturbation Then & Now: First Orgasms, Porn Addiction & The Art of Fantasising
This week we talk about our earliest experiences with masturbation, what it was like discovering our bodies, the confusion, the awkwardness, and the pleasure that led us down a lifelong path to where we are now.
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He Can't Stay Hard But I Can't Stay Away: Navigating Dick Dilemmas!
Loss of sensitivity, tight foreskins, and being hopelessly in love with a possessive ex… this week’s episode we answer all your dick dilemmas!
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Reading Each Other's Search History: Truth or Drink Round 3!
Truth or Drink returns, and we’re cranking up the heat! The rules are simple: answer the question, or take a shot… of hot sauce. From awkward search history reveals to brutally honest confessions, no topic is off-limits. Will we spill the truth or suffer the burn? 🌶️🥵
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