BEING REAL WITH HANNAH
A podcast where Hannah shares authentic conversations and reflections, offering a space for listeners to relax and connect with real, unfiltered discussions.
Episodes
Overwhelmed by Spiritual warfare & Prayer ( how to navigate it )
For as long as can remember the concept of spiritual warfare has been the bane of my existence. I hated over overstimulated and anxious it make feel until I learnt the lessons on today’s episode and I pray you find freedom too .
Designing your life for your forgotten dreams and goals
Pheeew, feeling overwhelmed? Lost and maybe disappointed in yourself for not living the life you dreamt of , well grab them headphones and let’s have a chat ..
I don’t have capacity for this ( Capacity Building )
I don’t the emotional or mental capacity for this is a statement I’ve heard and said many times over . That feeling I need to do and be more but I can’t , on this weeks episode we dive in and learn just how to build capacity. Let’s dive in
And the two shall become one ( grieving your independence before and in-marriage ) Part 1
One of the things no one tells you is just how hard it is to become one with your part , where giving submission to one another may feel like a grieving of self in this part one we dive in on how to navigate this Gods way
For the eldest daughter
Do you feel the need to escape, be independent and carrying a weight you can’t explain ? .On this weeks episode we dive into a long overdue conversation. For the eldest daughter
Is love really enough ( post valentines blues )
As we wind up the love season ,we sit down on our couch and have a real talk about love and relationships
Rebuilding after failure
I once read a quote that said you only fail forward , incase you’re feeling like you’ve missed the mark , this episode is for you
Do it unready ( Jumpstarting 2026)
Are you feeling off , funky and somewhat unready for the new year , then this episode is exactly what you need to start your 2026 . Let’s dive in
Finding God in the transition/ change
Life is never constantl and sometimes navigating your walk with God is never easy in such moments this week we dive in for another insightful conversation
Makoti season pt 2 (Things I wished I prayed for / did differently in the waiting season)
On this weeks episode we get real about singleness and actually living out the promise stay tuned … this one is REAL
The power of being authentically you : (why God hasn’t given you someone else’s blueprint)
One of my greatest struggles has always been feeling “too much “ for the spaces and places Gods led me in . The need to create acceptable images has often eroding your super power which is YOUR AUTHENTICITY. On this episode we dive in and get real so that you break free
The mountain that is YOU
On this episode we conquer the greatest battle ever fought , the battle of self . Let’s dive in no time to waste
Makoti Season : The reality about preparing for marriage.
For all the love and congratulations received thank you so much . As I step into this new chapter of being a fiancée and upcoming wife 😂 life yet again throws other curve ball 😂 abeg do we ever stop learning .. anyway I pray this episode truly serves you .
When God seems far: The difficulty of resting in God’s fatherhood
Sometimes the hardest part about faith is feeling like the one person you should be closest to seems so far away, this week we dive right in to those moments
Crushed, lost & powerless: It’s time to get your power back !!
I missed you !!!The past 2 months have been a whirlwind of emotions and overwhelming feelings of powerlessness. As we dive back in I pray this episode serves you truly .. let’s begin
When you want to leave but God says stay ( toxic / draining environments)
Uploading this took a level of vulnerability I wasn’t ready to share but I pray it serves you deeply
Stop sleeping on yourself and calling , it’s time to be BOLD!
Girl it’s time !!, My brother it’s time . Thats the caption .IT’S TIME
Does the friendship need to end ? -( strained friendships , their breakups & your healing )
Navigating friendship breakups can be sooo hard . Sometimes I think they even hurt more than normal relationships 🤣 tchaii on this weeks episode we dive in mom strained friendships, their breakups and your healing .
Making and Maintaining friendships as an adult..( unfiltered)
The much awaited episode is HERE … Picking up from where we left off in the friendships unfiltered episode recorded earlier this year , this week dive in to the practicality of actually making friends as an adult
When life just feels stuck: the power of personal revival
If you’re in a moment of feeling stuck no matter what you do, then this episode is for you . It begins with revival
Learning to forgive and love yourself: The healing “You” series
Forgiving and learning to love yourself may not be the easiest thing to do when your life appears to constantly affirm the opposite but it is possible this weeks therapy session we dive in and unpack for the purpose of healing
The healing You series : overcoming the war within
This week we kick start a mini series called Healing You in this serious we will be unpacking our blocks in order to attain the success we seek . These episodes will be partnered with my blog which I believe will unpack in more detail our practical steps to healing Let’s dive in Blog post : healing you series https://malawianbutter.wordpress.com/2025/04/28/the-healing-you-series-overcoming-the-bat
Redefining your purpose
We are four months into the year and perhaps so much has changed or you need direction on this weeks episode we talk about what purpose truly means for you .
God is in the storm
Gods message to you
Accepting your limitations: letting go of performance and resting in God.
Well just a disclaimer you are not superman and also , I cried in most parts of this episode 😂 but God Spoke and I pray it serves you.
Love , conflict and everything in between: an unfiltered conversation about relationships
If you are are feeling some tension or confusion in your love life you are not alone. Sometimes the love story we desire doesn’t always plan out as we desire , but it is worth fighting for. Let’s dive in
The frustration is warfare: God’s message to you about guilt and productivity shame
I must apologise the intro of this episode cut somehow , I thought of re-recording but God showed up in this episode and I believe that is more important than my perfectionism 🩷
Beyond burnout : is work ,life, spiritual,academics , relationships ,balance even possible?
I have been feeling pretty overwhelmed and stressed out over the past few weeks. In my journey of becoming I realise that there are aspects of my life that seem to fall into the cracks which caused me to ask is work, life academic, spiritual Balance, even possible?? let’s dive in and explore this narrative in today’s episode .
Owning & Staying in your lane : how to identify your purpose
Figuring out your purpose doesn’t have to be complicated, on this week’s episode we dive in on how you can identify your life’s purpose ,let’s dive in.
Hope is not a strategy (divorcing limiting mindsets that have you stuck)
Hello family on this week’s episode we explore the limiting mindsets that have us feeling stuck when all we want to do is soar . Let’s drive in
Our lessons this far (valentines edition) ft “ my special guest”
Listen 😂, on this unscripted episode we share our lessons on love and relationships this far and I hope as always this episode serves you well
Friendships unfiltered: the struggles of building/maintaining friendships and their breakups
Friendships can be difficult to navigate but a blessing all together , join me as we dive into unfiltered truths in this episode
Finding the courage to heal from traumatic experiences
Hello my love .. Are you struggling to heal and find your self after trauma well I believe this is Gods word for you .. You got this
Redesigning your life for success and influence
Struggling to find directions and purpose ? I believe this episode will help tailor you into exactly that .. let’s go
Building up faith : Trusting in God’s promises
Faith and greatness are a set of twins that come together but sometimes having faith isn’t always easy on this weeks episode we talk on how you can build up faith for the new year and everything God is inviting you into .
Grieving yourself into wholeness and purpose.
One of the things that we often don’t speak about is the grief and pain that cones with new invitations or transitions in our lives , on this weeks episode we navigate how to grieve our way into the things God is inviting us into . Let’s dive in
2024 in Review : My key takeaways for a stronger 2025
On this last episode of the year we dive in to my 202E in helpful review and how to take 2024s lessons for a stronger 2025 … let’s go
Umm 2024 ?? Hai man
I couldn’t find the write caption for this episode but from unraveling to dealing with offence and anger 2024 has been a lot and I pray this episode serves you
Finding yourself after a toxic/ abusive relationship (My story)
Man , I have shared my truth before but not like this , I am pretty much nervous but I hope this serves you well . Let’s gooo
Adulthood : failing and getting back up
I believe the most reoccurring feelings one can In this adult journey is constantly feeling like a failure. On this episode we dive a little into it and my lessons so far
An honest conversation about struggling faith and purpose ( your calling )
One of the scariest things you can do is admit that you are struggling with your journey with God . On this episode I talk about my journey and pray that it serves you somehow
Taking control of your life
sometimes life feel like you are on a hamster wheel or on auto pilot. If you feel so then great, that’s simply evidence that your soul knows that you have more in you . I pray this episode helps you get unstuck
Maintaining joy in hard times
There comes a time when pain is unbearable in many ways and keeping joy and peace is harder than we think but there is secret I pray heals your heart in this episode. Let’s dive in
Betrayal,anger,resentment and forgiveness
The title says it all on this one but maaan are we in for a deep dive on this episode.
Stepping out of shame & hiding
As we officially rebrand from Malawian butter with hannah to being real with Hannah , I decided it’s time to keep it real and share my truth and pray that you learn that you are more than the sum total of your past , mistakes or inadequacies and I pray this episode helps you see that .
Figuring out Identity & purpose
Who am I ? What am I doing ?where am I going ? have to be the most reoccurring questions I’ve asked myself lately to the point ,I started hiding my voice bug not anymore. On todays episode we dive deep on identity and purpose and I pray this episode frees you
Laziness,procrastination and the fear of failure
Man If you have been struggling with doing the little and the big things lately I think this episode will serve you well.
Heartbreak and Rebounding.
Sometimes it's hard to understand the purpose of the heartbreak or failed relationships..on this episode on we talk on letting go of the anger, understanding the purpose and if rebounding is actually worth it.
Restarting, Resetting and Reclaiming your life
Child, life lately has been lifing, from feeling depressed to having suicidal thoughts, your girl has been going through the motions, I planned on figuring this life thing out silently but God won't let me rest, soooo here we are. I honestly pray this episode is everything you need.
Accepting change ( A tribute to Yapikachi)
We are finally here our first official episode of 2024.. Once again i bare
my scars in hopes that you meant God but today's episode is special because its dedicated and inspired by a beautiful soul, yapikachi, A Girl that lived a beautiful life
To Hannah ( Here is to embracing you)
Here is vulnerability and nakedness that birthed rest and an embrace of purpose and identity. This is a open reminder to me but I pray that somehow it serves you too.
2023, The year of breaking, healing and becoming
I saw a quote this year I met the strongest version of my life and I resonated so deeply with it , funny enough I often thought strong meant surviving toxic spaces, but now I realize that strength looks greatly like letting go off fear .
Becoming a woman of influence (Part 1)
On today’s episode we talk about the most important part in becoming a woman of great influence, I pray this blesses you
Navigating shifts and transitions
Do you feel like you are in a season of change , well here’s a jump start into your new season .
GOD told me He’s the one
One of the fervent conversations I’ve had with several people is the confusion of hearing from God in terms of finding your mate on this episode we talk about it all , from dreams to confirmation and so much more
Navigating heartbreak and the fear of relationships
Join us on this episode as I unravel and unpack this heavy but much needed topic
Unrealistic vs realistic dating expectations
When it comes to dating sometimes there’s a thin line between am I expecting too much or I am not , personally God has been working on my heart to weigh the unrealistic vs realistic expectations and I pray this episode gives you clarity too .
Dating vs purpose
Join me on this episode as we touch base on some of the lessons I’ve learnt when it comes to purpose marrying dating
Forgiving yourself and moving on from the past.
Oou child I’ve never been more nervous to record anything in my life but well here we are . I pray this episode really serves you
The truth about walking in your calling
So you finally decided to walk with Gid and it’s not going so great ? Well this episode I believe is your you . You know me vulnerable all the way
Backsliding and reviving struggling faith
We’ve all had moments when doing life with God just seems so difficult. If you’ve been struggling with your faith lately or maybe you given up totally well I think this episode is for you .
Letting go of fear and starting over
After month’s of not finding the right words to say or if it’s worth it , I decided to keep it real on this one and talk about letting go of the fear and starting over and I pray it heals your soul .
Christian dating : Green flags, Red flags .
On today’s episode we talk about the practical tools of dating to help you identify the green and red flags on your journey
Christian dating or whatever
Dating in general can be mad ghetto , but dating as a Christian? Even harder to navigate. On today’s episode we talk about my biggest dating lessons along my very interesting journey ,with nothing but rawness and vulnerability.
Ditch the fear and chase your dreams
Honestly becoming isn’t easy but if you are truly going to be great you have to be willing to ditch the fear and trust yourself .On this episode we dive deep into helping you chase your dreams
Sex & waiting
On this episode we go into depth about the struggles of waiting sexually,why it’s important and how best to go about it ,if you are to truly walk in your purpose .
HELLO 2023: My top 2022 lessons and The secret to having your best year yet .
Hey there , looks like we made it to 2023 . Join on us on this episode as we talk about my top lessons in 2022 and The secret to having the best year yet.
Ep2- UNEMPLOYED,BROKE AND DEPRESSED
On this week’s episode we talk about how to deal with the anxiety and depression that comes from being depressed. As someone who knows what it’s like to be in this spot quite well,I share my story of how God took me from being depressed and broke to literally landing me my dream Job.I hope this episode speaks to you as ALWAYS .
Positioning for Purpose
Understanding or discovering what God has placed in your life might be challenging. From anxiety , self doubt and feeling overwhelmed , we might often find ourselves entangled and stuck in the same thing that ought to liberate us in this episode we talk about what purpose is and how you can discover yours .
