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Ask Kati Anything

Ask Kati Anything

Kati Morton, LMFT 318 Episodes Aug 21, 2026

Ask Kati Anything is a weekly mental health Q&A podcast hosted by licensed therapist Kati Morton, LMFT. She answers real listener questions about anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, eating disorders, OCD, BPD, ADHD, panic attacks, intrusive thoughts, relationships, attachment styles, narcissistic abuse, boundaries, self-esteem, and more. With over 12 years in private practice and a YouTube community of over 1.5 million, Kati brings clinical insight, warmth, and zero judgment to conversations people are often afraid to have. Each episode is based on listener submissions, covering topics from CBT and DBT skills to healing from childhood trauma and deciding when to start therapy.

Episodes

Do You Have CPTSD? Symptoms, Flashbacks & Treatments
Do You Have CPTSD? Symptoms, Flashbacks & Treatments Aug 21, 2026 4806 What is Complex PTSD (CPTSD), and how does it differ from traditional PTSD or Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this episode of Ask Kati Anything (Ep. 328), licensed therapist Kati Morton breaks down the ICD-11 diagnostic criteria for Complex PTSD, the impact of chronic emotional abuse and neglect, emotional flashbacks, and practical treatment modalities like TF-CBT, EMDR, and DBT. Thank
How Narcissism Actually Works: Love Bombing, Gaslighting, Flying Monkeys
How Narcissism Actually Works: Love Bombing, Gaslighting, Flying Monkeys Aug 13, 2026 3464 Narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and NPD get thrown around constantly online, and most of what circulates is wrong. In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton walks through what narcissistic personality disorder actually is (all nine DSM criteria, and why five or more are required for a diagnosis), the difference between covert and overt narcissism, and the specific behavio
“I ruin every relationship I care about.” - BPD
“I ruin every relationship I care about.” - BPD Aug 13, 2026 4315 Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is deeply misunderstood, heavily stigmatized, and far more complex than just "being emotional". In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton breaks down the official BPD diagnostic criteria from the DSM, explaining how BPD symptoms actually present in real life, therapy offices, and everyday relationships. She explor
The term "Borderline Personality Disorder"
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Taboo Topics & Attachment in Therapy
Taboo Topics & Attachment in Therapy Jul 30, 2026 3920 Navigating attachment dynamics and discussing sensitive, taboo topics in therapy can feel daunting, but understanding how your attachment style influences your mental health is a major step toward healing. In this episode, licensed therapist Kati Morton dives deep into attachment theory, explaining the four primary attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and how they shape yo
Why Your Eating Disorder Is Never Actually About Food
Why Your Eating Disorder Is Never Actually About Food Jul 23, 2026 4280 In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, licensed therapist Kati Morton breaks down why eating disorders are rarely actually about the food or your body. We look at what’s really happening behind the strict rules, rituals, and need for control, and how these behaviors often show up as survival mechanisms to protect us from deeper stress, trauma, and overwhelm. Whether you’re struggling with restrict
Are You Too Attached to Your Therapist?
Are You Too Attached to Your Therapist? Jul 16, 2026 3376 Do you think about your therapist between sessions? Check their social media? Spiral when they cancel? A licensed therapist explains why attachment to your therapist happens, why it's actually part of the process, and the exact signs that tell you when it's crossed into unhealthy territory. In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton breaks down the th
Why You’re Exhausted Even When "Nothing" is Wrong
Why You’re Exhausted Even When "Nothing" is Wrong Jul 7, 2026 3136 Do you sleep enough and live a balanced life on paper, yet still feel completely wiped out by Tuesday? You aren't "bad at adulting"—your nervous system is likely dealing with an invisible, compounded burden. In this episode, we break down the three overlapping systems that drive modern exhaustion: cognitive load from constant decision fatigue, emotional labor from managing the people around us, a
Why Your Attempts to Fix Your Relationships Are Making It Worse
Why Your Attempts to Fix Your Relationships Are Making It Worse Jul 2, 2026 4377 Have you ever felt like you’re trying so hard to communicate, but the harder you try, the more things seem to fall apart? Whether it’s that heavy feeling of being misunderstood, the exhausting cycle of the silent treatment, or the fear that you’re accidentally pushing the people you love away—I want you to know: you aren't broken. Most of us are just running on a communication "blueprint" we didn
The New Science of Depression: Brain Wiring, Inflammation, and Rewiring Your System
The New Science of Depression: Brain Wiring, Inflammation, and Rewiring Your System Jun 25, 2026 3045 Why does your brain feel like it's working against you when you're depressed? In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton answers deep viewer questions to unpack what is actively happening in the body and brain during depressive episodes and periods of suicidal ideation. We challenge the traditional "chemical imbalance" framework to look at the modern science of mental hea
Panic Attacks? Why Your Body Thinks You’re Dying
Panic Attacks? Why Your Body Thinks You’re Dying Jun 19, 2026 2841 Do you feel like you're spiraling when your heart starts racing? Kati Morton breaks down why your body is misinterpreting normal sensations as a threat and how you can break the loop. In this episode of Ask Katie Anything, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton explores the reality of panic disorder and why it feels so physically life-threatening. We discuss the seven stages of the
How to Spot Toxic Friendships & Make Adult Friends
How to Spot Toxic Friendships & Make Adult Friends Jun 11, 2026 3670 Welcome back to another episode of Ask Kati Anything! In this episode, we are testing out our new single-topic format and diving deep into a topic you requested: adult friendships. Are your friendships truly fulfilling, or are you staying in them simply because they are familiar? As we get older, our social dynamics change drastically. Today, we are breaking down the psychological differences b

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