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The Weight Loss Mindset

The Weight Loss Mindset

The Weight Loss Mindset 119 Episodes Oct 9, 2026

A podcast for people over 40 who are done with diets. It offers weekly strategies and episodes to reprogram the mental software that keeps you stuck in unhealthy patterns. The show focuses on mindset shifts rather than restrictive eating plans.

Episodes

The One-Breath Shift That Puts You Back in Charge
The One-Breath Shift That Puts You Back in Charge Oct 9, 2026 644 You’re driving home, and there’s a warm paper bag on the passenger seat. You can’t find the moment you decided to stop for it.This episode goes looking for that missing moment. Between the urge and the bite there’s a gap about one breath wide, and every eating decision we make passes through it. Most diets try to fix that moment with a bigger plan, and a bigger plan was never in the car with you.I
Childhood Trauma And Weight Loss: What Actually Helps
Childhood Trauma And Weight Loss: What Actually Helps Sep 29, 2026 805 In 1985, Dr. Vincent Felitti noticed something strange at his San Diego obesity clinic. The patients who dropped out were the ones losing weight. When he asked why, he uncovered a link between childhood trauma and adult weight gain that grew into the Adverse Childhood Experiences study. In this episode, Rick explains why the weight can start as a form of protection, and which kinds of help have th
Why Diets Snap Back: Mindset Strategies That End Self-Sabotage
Why Diets Snap Back: Mindset Strategies That End Self-Sabotage Sep 24, 2026 943 You’ve counted the calories. You’ve done keto. You’ve fasted for months. And most dieters still watch the weight come back, then blame themselves for it. This episode explains why that regain was never a character flaw. It’s biology and identity doing exactly what they’re wired to do. And once you see the mechanism, you can finally step off the loop.In this episode:* The slingshot effect. The tigh
Why Can't I Stick To A Diet Even Though I Want To Lose Weight?
Why Can't I Stick To A Diet Even Though I Want To Lose Weight? Sep 13, 2026 642 In 1944, 36 healthy men were put on half their usual food intake. Within months they were reading cookbooks in bed and hoarding kitchen utensils they’d never use. Nothing was wrong with them. They were hungry. This episode uses that study to take apart the question almost every dieter asks about themselves, and lands somewhere uncomfortable: the reason you can’t stick to a diet has far more to do
“I Can’t” vs “I Don’t”: The Two Words That Rewire Your Willpower
“I Can’t” vs “I Don’t”: The Two Words That Rewire Your Willpower Aug 30, 2026 679 Somebody holds out a plate. In the half second before you answer, you reach for a sentence, and which sentence you reach for shapes the rest of your evening. The cake barely gets a vote.In 2012 two researchers gave 120 students one instruction about what to say when temptation showed up. One group rehearsed “I can’t eat that.” The other rehearsed “I don’t eat that.” That was the whole intervention
The Upper Limit: Why Success Makes You Nervous And Then Makes You Snack
The Upper Limit: Why Success Makes You Nervous And Then Makes You Snack Aug 24, 2026 912 Something good happens. Somebody notices you've lost weight, or the scale finally moves, and twenty minutes later you're standing at the vending machine with no memory of deciding to walk there.That's not weakness, and it's not self-sabotage in the way you've been taught to understand it. Your brain runs a guess about who you are, and success contradicts the guess. This ep
Why "Knowing Better" Never Made You Do Better
Why "Knowing Better" Never Made You Do Better Aug 20, 2026 887 You already know it. All of it, the calories, the macros, the science behind every craving. And it's Tuesday, nine o'clock, and you're standing in the kitchen anyway. This episode names the sentence every chronic dieter has said out loud at some point, "I know what to do, I just don't do it," and makes the case for why it was never a character flaw. Information and id
Emotional Eating Triggers: Root Causes, Signs, and Proven Psychological Fixes
Emotional Eating Triggers: Root Causes, Signs, and Proven Psychological Fixes Aug 10, 2026 850 Most eating isn't driven by hunger, and if you've spent years assuming that made you uniquely broken, this episode explains why it makes you completely normal. Rick walks through exactly what's happening in the body in the sixty seconds before an emotional-eating episode, why "eat less, move more" was never built to work in that moment, and where the real, fifteen-second w
Ep Q3: Can You Lose Weight by Mindful Eating? How?
Ep Q3: Can You Lose Weight by Mindful Eating? How? Aug 1, 2026 1302 A listener named Diane writes in with the question everyone eventually asks: can mindful eating actually help you lose weight, or is it just another gimmick dressed up in calm language? Rick answers yes, then spends the episode explaining why the fork-down, chew-slowly version she tried was never the real thing. This episode breaks down the difference between mindful eating as a performance and mi
Ep Q2: What Is The Best Way To Stop A Craving?
Ep Q2: What Is The Best Way To Stop A Craving? Jul 24, 2026 764 Renata from Denver opens her desk drawer at 3:15 every afternoon, eats three pieces of chocolate she can't taste, and wants to know how to stop the craving itself. Not manage it. Stop it.Most advice tells you to out-muscle the thing. Wait fifteen minutes, move the stash to your car, find something else to do with your hands. That advice is built on a broken assumption, and it's why you k
Willpower Runs Out on Everyone - Identity Doesn't!
Willpower Runs Out on Everyone - Identity Doesn't! Jul 21, 2026 850 Willpower isn't a character trait. It's a battery, and every diet you've ever tried asked you to run on one that was never built to last. In this episode, Rick breaks down why every failed diet was never a discipline problem. It was an identity problem the diet industry never wanted you looking at. You'll learn why most of what you do in a day already runs on autopilot, why &qu
Ep Q1: How Do I Know If I'm Emotionally Eating?
Ep Q1: How Do I Know If I'm Emotionally Eating? Jul 15, 2026 814 Danielle wrote in from Halifax asking how to tell if her 9pm pantry habit is emotional eating or just a normal snack. Rick walks through exactly how to read the difference between physical and emotional hunger, and reframes the whole thing as a skill nobody ever taught her rather than a discipline problem.Key points:Diet culture files every kind of non-hunger eating under "weak," which m

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