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Brilliant Balance

Brilliant Balance

Cherylanne Skolnicki 453 Episodes Jun 30, 2026

The Brilliant Balance Podcast helps women in leadership design their next chapter for sustainable success without burnout. Host Cherylanne Skolnicki, an expert in work-life balance and leadership growth, shares ideas and insights to help high-achieving women align ambition with personal fulfillment. Topics include leadership mindset, time management, and personal growth. The podcast features conversations with experts and ambitious women on strategies for burnout recovery and productivity.

Episodes

They're Watching How You Treat Yourself Jun 30, 2026 27:40 Every Mother's Day, I see the same message on cards: Thank you for giving up everything for us. But the cards my own kids write tell a different story. In this episode, I'm talking about what we're teaching the people around us when we treat ourselves like we don't matter. I unpack the Type C pattern, why being endlessly capable gets rewarded, and the cost of always putting yourself last. This is
How to grow your career and family without losing yourself Jun 23, 2026 31:57 How do you grow your career and your family at the same time without losing yourself in the process? In this episode, I'm exploring why that question feels so familiar to high-achieving women. I'm talking about the invisible math of work, home, and you, and why your own needs are often the first to get squeezed out. Instead of waiting to see what's left after everyone else gets your time and energ
The Good Mother Rulebook Nobody Published but Everyone Follows Jun 16, 2026 27:19 Do you ever feel like you're measuring yourself against an invisible standard of what a "good mother" should be? In this episode, I'm unpacking the unwritten rulebook so many mothers follow without even realizing it. I'm sharing a personal story from my son's preschool years that triggered a shame spiral over something he doesn't even remember. That moment helped me see how many standards I had ab
They're Not Oblivious. The System Just Lives in Your Head. Jun 9, 2026 29:26 It turns out I'm carrying an invisible operating system that runs beneath the surface of my entire life, and chances are, you are too.  This one is for the women who are tired. Not just physically, but tired of carrying so much that nobody else can even see. I explore why the people around us aren't oblivious on purpose, and what we can actually do to close the gap between how much we're doing and
The All-Or-Nothing Trap Jun 2, 2026 23:03 Have you ever abandoned a goal entirely because you couldn't pursue it perfectly? In this honest and deeply personal episode, Cherylanne pulls back the curtain on her own all-or-nothing pattern and helps you find your own. This episode names the trap clearly: dichotomous thinking, also known as black-and-white thinking, is one of the most common cognitive distortions identified in psychology. Cher
What Happens When You Stop Doing Everything Yourself May 26, 2026 32:05 Ever feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your own shoulders—handling every email, project, and task yourself? I've been there, telling myself it was the smart and responsible way to run my business, until I realized what I was missing out on by not letting go. In this episode, I'm revealing exactly what happens when you stop doing everything yourself and start getting results thro
What If You Let Them Take the Wheel? May 19, 2026 21:41 Do you always end up taking charge of others' problems because you know you can solve them faster or better? I know I do, and if you're a high-achiever, this episode will hit close to home. Today, I'm sharing why so many highly competent women have this pattern of taking the wheel for others. I'm inviting you to consider how our can-do mindset, while celebrated, can quietly drain our energy, stunt
What Conversation Do You Need to Have? May 12, 2026 23:33 Are you avoiding that one conversation you know you need to have? I get it, most of us have a tricky topic we're sidestepping at work, at home, or even with a friend. In this episode, I'm sharing why everything you want—whether it's more flexibility, healthier relationships, or a sense of confidence—is often waiting for you on the other side of a courageous conversation. I'll walk you through the
The Hidden Costs of Drive May 5, 2026 24:14 Ever feel like the very drive that's building your dreams is running your life instead of serving it? If you're the woman everyone admires for getting it all done, but you secretly wonder what it's costing you, this episode is for you. Today, I'm calling out the hidden costs of unchecked overdrive and allowing drive to become our default operating system: constant urgency, the struggle to pause fo
Why Highly Competent Women Still Feel Overwhelmed (And What I Built to Help) Apr 28, 2026 31:36 Have you ever wondered why, despite being wildly competent and organized, you sometimes still feel like everything is just too much? I know that feeling well, and I'm sharing my take on why so many accomplished women live in overwhelm - it's certainly not because we aren't capable! Sometimes we even know what to do but we can't make time to do it. So this week I'm introducing something brand new -
Functional Freeze: The Hidden Nervous System Pattern Holding Women Back with Beatriz Albina Apr 21, 2026 34:53 This week, I'm joined by Beatriz Albina, a nurse practitioner, somatic coach, and the bestselling author of End Emotional Outsourcing, to discuss a hidden nervous system epidemic among professional women: "functional freeze." Do you look poised and unstoppable on the outside, but often feel disconnected from yourself? Beatriz breaks down the functional freeze phenomenon and "emotional outsourcing,
Setting Boundaries That Actually Hold: Listener Questions Answered Apr 14, 2026 29:00 Today, I'm mixing things up a bit by answering YOUR questions all about setting boundaries that actually hold, especially at work. If you've ever found it tough to say no, wondered how to handle tricky power dynamics, or felt overwhelmed by requests after hours, you're in the right place. I'll share five real situations that listeners have asked about, along with practical strategies you can use r

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