The Thing Doers
A show about everyday women from different life stages juggling daily madness while sharing funny, opinionated, and unapologetically sarcastic takes on everything. They dissect the latest news, share personal anecdotes, and discuss struggles like conquering overflowing laundry baskets, debating pop culture trends, and the absurdity of adulting.
Episodes
Who Are These People?
This episode introduces the ladies, Sam, Pam and Richelle. A trio of unlikely friends who have found friendship regardless of the improbability. Being in different stages of life and different states doesn’t stop their daily connection via Marco Polo and that's where this podcast was born. These are women that do ALL the things as most women and moms do in their worlds. We share what we do, why
The Thing Doers Introduction
A brief introduction of who we are and what we talk about here at "The Thing Doers"
Mom Guilt
This episode focuses on the many layers of mom guilt, realizing that it is generally self-imposed but can also come from external forces. The ladies talk through guilt as a stay at home mom and a working mom. This also extends to wife guilt and self guilt as well. The comparison of the perfect social media moms and hitting our mom breaking points.Even with adult children mom guilt can be the gif
Brains, What are they good for?
In this episode the ladies dive into all the aspects of that thing that drives us, our brains. From their fascination with the psychological side of brains to the unknown world of why we allow our brains to be so mean to us. They cover seizures, dreams, alcohol and all the things that make us who we are and how we think. They still don’t understand the complexities, or how men are different fro
Magic Coffee Table
Sam and Pam host this week and discuss the world of the magic coffee table from the coffee table’s perspective. Spurred by a YouTube video of the same name this discussion shares the concept and what the life of a magic maker in our homes is like. The magic is who the Thing Doers are at their core. This comes with a lot of work, pride, frustration and feeling of accomplishment.
Special Guest
This episode is missing the ladies, well all except Pam. So Pam invites a couple of guests to sit in the empty podcast seats. Her husband Steve sits to chat about lists, old TV, and freeways among other things. And then a surprise call from her sister adds Wendy into the conversation so we can talk crocheting, football and the depth of the waters of the great state of Texas. A virtual cornucop
Awards for Everyone
In this episode we discuss a variety of things that affect the family and our own personal values. From making the decision for public school or homeschool, the fall of mankind as we know it with the increase of participation awards for everything and the lack of striving to be better or even the best at something. So much to talk about and we talk about all of it.
Glitter & Other Horrors
In this episode we discuss things we just can't tolerate (glitter, paper labels, and the like) and wander into what to watch whether it’s an old kids movie, true crime or network TV we share them all. And a little side step into the animal world. This episode covers a lot of topics in a relatively short amount of time.
Yes, No and the F-Word
Sometimes you hear something on a reel that make you go, hmmm. The inspiration for this episode came like that. A reel of a 70 year old lady who knows what she’s talking about. Sam and Pam discuss what she had to say and learn about the value of our yes', our no's and the power of just saying eff it when the mood strikes. This topic is for anyone whether you're a mom, a wife, an employee or a frie
Who Am I?
In this episode Sam and Pam tackle the question of self-identity with a touch of sarcasm. Sam shares a curveball thrown by a new friend who asked, "Who are you?" Realizing she can describe others but not herself, Sam fumbles for an answer, realizing she can easily describe others but not herself. This challenge eludes Pam too who is stumped beyond answering "I wear black everyday and I'm an intro
Mental Load
In this episode Sam & Pam delve into the overwhelming world of mental load—the never-ending tabs open in their heads managing home and family life. Mental load isn't just about tasks but the constant mental gymnastics required to keep everything running smoothly. The daily struggle with the barrage of thoughts and responsibilities. They reflect on the absurdity of it all, balancing the necessity o
Bad Manners
In this episode of The Thing Doers, we dive into the glamorous world of parenting across state lines, comparing the high-stakes, fast-paced life in California with the charmingly disciplined realm of Texas. Ever wonder why kids in Texas listen to their parents and those in California seem to run wild? We've got personal anecdotes, playdate dramas, and a touch of cultural critique to keep you enter
Gimme a Break
Ever been told that grocery shopping counts as "me time"? Join us on the latest episode of "The Thing Doers" as we break down the ridiculousness of what society deems a "break" for moms. From the "luxury" of showering alone to the "relaxation" of running errands, we're calling out the nonsense. We'll also explore the absurd types of breaks we get: Bathroom Time-Out, Car Cry Sessions, and Actually
Battle of 2 Birds
Night Owls or Early Birds? In this episode of Pam and Sam delve into the eternal debate between early birds and night owls. They sarcastically praise the early risers for their supposed productivity while pointing out the absurdity of waking up at 4 a.m. for anything other than milking cows or solving world crises. They discuss the joys of a quiet gym at 10 p.m., the terror of alarm clocks, and th
Is That Weird?
Today’s episode asks the questions…Is that weird? We admit we are all weird but some of our “normal” may seem odd to others. We're airing our dirty laundry on things we love, hate, and cringe at—because normal is overrated.
From Kidz Bop: 12-year-olds butchering Top 40 hits to wire hangers and what is this about brushing teeth Sam? We’ll touch on the foods and shows that are our guilty pleasures
On The Move
In this episode of The Thing Doers, Pam travels from California to the Lone Star State for an in person recording with Sam and special guests Wendy and Chris to discuss the massive migration of Californians out of the Golden State. They talk about why they've made the move to Texas and the many others that have been heading to states like Tennessee, Idaho, and Utah—where there’s more space, more
30 Days of Less
This week, Sam and Pam share their plans for the 30-day challenge to rid their homes of clutter and they’ve added an extra twist by committing to a no-spend month, meaning they can only buy things with the money they earn from selling some of their own treasures. Pam drops some wisdom on minimalism (a.k.a. owning two things instead of twenty) and the difference between wants and needs. There's ch
For The Long Haul
In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam decide to spice things up by bringing their better (or worse?) halves Austin and Steve onto this week’s podcast to talk about that delightful rollercoaster we call marriage and the path from the first date, breaking up, living together and then the altar. With many years of wedded bliss (or survival) under their belts, they’ll share their oh-so-perso
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam check in on their thrilling 30-day decluttering adventure. You know, the one where they finally toss out that sock missing its soulmate since 2004, or the hangers your mom got with those slacks she bought at Mervyn's back when Mervyn's was still a thing. It’s all about giving yourself permission to part with the “perfectly good” stuff you’ve been hol
Just The Tip
After surviving the chaos of a dog seizure and wrangling their families Sam and Pam sit down to record this episode: “Just the Tip.” where they dive into some of their favorite money-saving hacks to help you squeeze every last penny.
Want to clean your house without breaking the bank? They’ve got homemade cleaning products for that. Drowning in a sea of mail, subscriptions, and medical bills?
Hey Thanks
In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam start off by touching on the thrilling topic of cleaning (yes, you really should be wiping down those baseboards more than once every 10 years). But let’s be real—that’s just a warm-up. The main event is all about Thanksgiving as we roll into the holiday season. Pam shares her hot take on why it's high time to ditch the tired traditions in favor of s
Can You Hear Me Now?
In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam dive into the great divide between men and women—or at least when it comes to communication. Ever wonder why your words seem to go in one ear and out the other when you're talking to your partner? Whether you're trying to make plans, tackle that never-ending honey-do list, or just be heard for once, our hosts break down the art (or frustration) of g
A Few of Our Favorite Things
In this episode of The Thing Doers, Pam and Sam reveal their ultimate, can't-live-without-it list of everyday treasures. From gift ideas to cooking hacks and personal must-haves, they’ll share the affordable magic that keeps their lives oh-so-functional. Spoiler alert: no yachts or diamond-encrusted blenders here—just practical, budget-friendly stuff that somehow makes life slightly less chaotic.
Christmas is Coming
In this festive episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam dive headfirst into the glitter-filled chaos of Christmas (why is everything covered in glitter?) Real or fake trees—who’s winning the Great Pine Debate? When exactly should you decorate, and more importantly, when should you tear it all down before you lose your mind? And then there’s the Elf on the Shelf—festive fun or creepy narc? From ch
Another Year in the Books
As the year limps to a close, Sam and Pam are here to commiserate about holidays that feel less people-packed and more… meh. With family scattered across time zones or just not around anymore, the season's sparkle can feel a little dim. Add in the joy (and chaos) of dealing with kids—one still basking in the holiday magic while the other is a pint-sized realist who’s way too practical for a 4-year
Body Image
Sam and Pam kick things off with their signature off-topic chatter, diving into mom intuition, baby monitors, and fitness trackers—because who doesn’t need even more information to stress over? Then it’s onto class reunions, body image, and the joys (ha!) of menopause. They’ll ask the big questions: Can we be real? Can we undo the damage social media and filters have done to how we see ourselves?
Those Red Bubbles
Pam starts with a confession: she’s sometimes a total mess when it comes to recording these episodes—episode 20 almost didn’t happen! But today the ladies ponder the enigma of people who live without calendars, skip emails, and seem to have zero responsibilities, Pam and Sam dive into the clash of organized vs. chaotic living. And those red notification bubbles? They’re not just visual—they’re dow
Are You Ready?
In this episode of The Thing Doers, titled "Are You Ready?" Sam and Pam are finally back to recording after a six-week break, catching up on the chaos of juggling life and the crazy degree of indecision that strikes when we actually get a moment to breathe. With a fresh start to the year, they share the words they’ve chosen to focus on in 2025, offering a glimpse into their goals and priorities—be
What's in the Bag? a "little things" episode
In this bite-sized follow-up to Are You Ready?, Pam is on her own and Sam is in the midst of a snowstorm headed their way and she IS ready. Pam zeroes in on the holy grail of emergency prep: the "go bag" (or "stay bag," depending on whether the universe wants you to run or hunker down). With signature Thing Doer practicality, we walk you through exactly what to pack—spoiler alert: it’s not just sn
Let Them
In this episode, Sam and Pam kick things off mid-rant about cheapskates and people who insist on shrink-wrapping their entire existence (couch, lamps, car, soul—you name it). But eventually, they land on the real topic of this episode, their recent “read” “The Let Them Theory" by Mel Robbins and unpack how this little gem of a theory is messing with their deeply ingrained need for control. Anxiety
Surprise!
Pam surprises Sam with a blast from the past—way back to when The Thing Doers was a trio! That’s right, Richelle stops by to record with us today, and in the spirit of surprises, we dive into the ultimate debate: surprise parties—love them or loathe them? From there, we spiral into bridesmaids - who needs em, the mission to make sure mom’s stocking at Christmas isn’t just a flat sock, what we’re c
Birds, Boredom & Bedtime
Guess who’s back? That’s right—Sam and Pam have dusted off the mics, wrangled their thoughts (sort of), and are kicking off Season 2 of The Thing Doers with an episode that covers everything you never knew you needed.
They’re diving into the fine art of flipping someone off (yes, there are options), celebrating the magic of boredom (who knew doing nothing could be so profound?), and talking sleep
The Perfect Day & Balance
In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam take on the so-called "formula for a perfect day"—and promptly call nonsense on it. Along the way, they tackle They chat about everyone's favorite pit of despair: the DMV, ponder different types of clouds and get real about the examples we're setting when it comes to male and female roles for the next generation. As always, they wrap things up with a
Careless Culture
Episode 33: Careless Culture?
Are we all just getting... lazy? In this episode, Pam and Sam ask the hard-hitting question: Are we becoming (and raising) a Careless Culture? You know the type—leaving messes for someone else, living in a personal bubble of “not my problem,” and casually ignoring the ripple effects of our actions like it’s a competitive sport. But don’t worry, we don’t stay too deep
Egg Pan
Egg pan, yes we start with another short chat about the egg pans in our lives and whether WE should just "chill" more or others should raise the bar a bit. But don’t worry, we don’t stay scrambled for long. In true Thing Doers fashion, we veer off into everything from bizarre phobias and random personal trivia to cruise ships, porta-potties, and the best and worst jobs we’ve had. And what we’d say
There Should Be a Law
With Sam off homeschooling and keeping her husband alive, Pam brings in her sister Wendy as this week’s guest co-host for a much-needed rant session. Together they lay out the laws we wish lawmakers would pass already—like the essential features every vacuum should have, finally ending the chaos of daylight savings time, to putting limits on those overachievers who decorate for Christmas in Octobe
Fear of Flying
We’re back! With Sam on hiatus while life with littles hits full-speed chaos, Pam is joined by a familiar voice—her sister and guest co-host Wendy. This week, we tackle a very real fear: flying. Wendy spent decades traveling everywhere by ground only—because planes were a hard no—until she finally decided there had to be a better way and became determined to beat the fear instead of planning her l
Life, Death & Black Licorice
Sometimes the best conversations aren’t planned—they just happen. In this minisode of The Thing Doers, Pam turns on the mics in the middle of a random conversation with her husband Steve after a small epiphany she had that day. No outline, no warning—just a quick chat that somehow touches on life, what you leave behind when you die, and black licorice (because of course it does). It’s short, unscr
