Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast
The Men in the Arena podcast equips Christian men navigating the stress of marriage, parenting, career, and faith. Tuesday episodes feature 'Equipping Men in Ten,' a concise teaching from host Jim Ramos. Friday episodes include interviews with authors like John Eldredge and Gary Chapman on Christian manhood. Jim Ramos is a bestselling author and speaker with nine books, including 'Strong Men Dangerous Times.'
Episodes
Goal-Setting 101: Lessons from 45 Years of Achieving and Failing Personal Goals - (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1068
Are your New Year's Resolutions abandoned already? Ever struggle to set goals you will actually achieve? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines the lessons he's learned over four decades of goal-setting, both from successes and failures. He outlines some ideas he's taught before, and also some new techniques he has used in recent years when a goal requires forming a ne
Boots on the Ground: How God Can Redeem Anything...Even Cowboy Boots - Equipping Men in Ten EP 1067
What's distracting you from becoming the man God created you to be? In this week's Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos challenges men to stop sitting on the sidelines and get back into the fight. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://meninthearena.org/pages/7-marriage-guardrails Has Men in the Arena helped you make a ch
Forgiveness in Marriage w/ Bruce and Toni Hebel: The Sobering Truth Nobody Wants to Hear EP 1066
What happens to your marriage when you refuse to forgive? What are you carrying that Jesus is asking you to release? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with Bruce and Toni Hebel about one of the most destructive traps couples can fall into: unforgiveness. Check out the Hebel's book on forgiveness here! (https://amzn.to/4du9i30) Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Gua
The Dangerous Men 'Coaching' Christian Men Online: Who Should You Follow? – (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1065
Are you blindly following the wrong leaders? Could you be letting unqualified voices shape your soul? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos exposes the trend of self-proclaimed "coaches" flooding the internet with no real accountability or biblical backbone. If you want to be a man who leads with strength, integrity, and unwavering faith, you need to know WHO you're letti
Young Christian Asks Jim: How Can I KNOW I'm Going to Heaven? - Average Joe Conversation w/ Dylan Howell EP 1064
How do you know you're going to heaven? What does the Bible actually say about salvation and the assurance of your faith? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with Dylan Howell, and they tackle a question every man should be able to answer. It may sound basic, but many people have never been taught how the Bible explains salvation, eternal security, and the confidence we can hav
What Authentic Christianity Is (and What It Isn't) w/ Mike Tatlock (pt 2) EP 1063
In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos picks up with part 2 of his interview with Pastor Mike Tatlock. Mike explains what it means to be an authentic Christian in today's culture and what true surrender looks like. Mike uses his personal experience as the NBA Trail Blazers/ and WNBA Portland Fire's team chaplain and a pastor at cowboy churches around Oregon. Check out Mike's book! A Compelling
7 Sex Lies That Are Destroying Your Marriage (vs. Biblical Truth) - (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1062
Have you been lied to about sex in marriage? Are those lies quietly sabotaging your relationship with your wife—or your future marriage? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos tackles seven common lies Christian men believe about sex and marriage and replaces them with biblical truth. Drawing from Dr. Carol Tanksley's book Sexpectations, Jim exposes the myths that weaken m
The 5 Feminine Gifts God Gave Women: Which One Is Hers? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 1061
A few weeks ago, we looked at the masculine gift God gives each man. What gift of femininity has God given your wife? In this week's Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos turns his attention to the women in our lives. What makes women different from men? And how can you, as a man, support, encourage, and build up the woman God has placed in your life? Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7
Compelling Faith w/ Mike Tatlock (pt 1): What to Do When Your Faith Is Challenged EP 1060
How do you stand firm when the culture around you is shifting? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos sits down with Mike Tatlock to discuss his book, A Compelling Faith in a Compromising Culture. Mike explains how men can remain steadfast and faithful in a challenging time. Mike uses his personal experience as the NBA Trail Blazers/ and WNBA Portland Fire's team chaplain and a pastor at cowbo
Becoming Spiritual Leader: How Christian Men Can Get Started on Spiritual Leadership - (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1059
You know you should be the spiritual leader, but where do you start? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches Christian men how to get started on spiritual leadership, even if you haven't been setting a great example up to this point. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://meninthear
Dear Younger Me: What I Got Completely Wrong About Being a Man - Average Joe Conversation w/ Cade Welch EP 1058
What would you tell your younger self if you had the chance? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with Cade Welch, a student, athelete and one of the spiritual leaders on the Linfield University Football team. Cade asks that question: "what would you tell your younger self?" Hear what Jim would do differently, what he's learned about following Jesus, and the advice he wishes h
What Power Really Looks Like w/ Ryan Miller: Becoming the Most Dangerous Man in the Room EP 1057
Power isn't about being the loudest man in the room. It looks like something else entirely. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with Ryan Miller about his new book 'Meek as a Mustang'. Ryan exposes what the world gets wrong about strength, power, and what it means to be a dangerous man for God. Check out his new book that's out now! Meek as a Mustang: Find the Strength to Surrender
Write Your Obituary: Do This ONCE to Change Your Life Forever – (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1056
Men, are you stuck in the daily grind? Wondering if you're getting anywhere? How do you zoom out to see the bigger picture in the Stress Bubble? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the activity that he did once 25 years ago which still impacts his life today. In fact, the ministry of Men in the Arena is a direct result of it! Want to protect your marriage? G
The 5 Masculine Gifts God Gave Men: Which One Is Yours? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 1055
You have a gift the world needs. The question is, do you know what it is? In this week's Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos lays out the five masculine gifts God gives men and how yours can shape the people around you. Learn what your gift means, where it fits, and how to step into it with strength and purpose. Know your gift. Own it and use it. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Gu
Signs You're a Christian in Name Only w/ Granger Smith: How to Go ALL IN EP 1054
Are you a CINO—Christian In Name Only? What would it take for you to go all in for Jesus? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with country music artist Granger Smith, who walked away from a successful career in the music industry to pursue full-time ministry. He shares why he chose to leave the spotlight behind and put everything on the line for Christ, and the toxic beliefs that wer
Build the Close Family You've Always Wanted: 10 Things Connected Families Do That You Don't See – (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1053
Feeling like your family is running on fumes in the chaos of life? Wondering how to build a connection when everyone's moving in different directions—especially in a blended family? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos delivers 10 powerful strategies to help you lead your family with strength, clarity, and purpose. This isn't about being a perfect dad or husband—it's abo
How to Do a Rite of Passage With Your Son (Step-by-Step) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 1052
For most of human history, cultures have marked that transition with a Rite of Passage. Today, many boys reach adulthood without ever having that moment. Are we missing something? In this week's Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos lays out a simple, biblical approach to creating a Rite of Passage for your son. It doesn't require a big budget or a complicated program, and you can do it in your own back
3 Ways to Share the Gospel w/ Duck Dynasty's Willie Robertson EP 1051
Do you hesitate to share your faith in Christ? In this week's interview clip, Jim Ramos is joined by Duck Dynasty's Willie Robertson to talk about his new book, Gospeler: Turning Darkness into Light One Conversation at a Time. He shares 3 ways you can start conversations and make sure you're a "Gospeler" for Christ. Willie Robertson's Book: Gospeler: Turning Darkness into Light One Conversation
Which Man Are You? The Four Seasons of Manhood [Part 2] - (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1050
Ever feel like the season of life you're in will never end? Are you in the stress bubble trying to keep up with all the pressures of life? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares the final 2 seasons of manhood ("fall" and "winter"), and how each season is vital in creating a complete life that's well lived. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardr
STRONG Men with CARING Hearts: The Call to Father the Fatherless – Message at the MAG REBOOT EP 1049
Everywhere we turn, society continues to downplay the critical role of fathers. But let's make one thing clear: that's flat-out wrong. In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos brings to light some shocking statistics about the devastating impact fatherlessness is having on our youth. Men, it's time to rise up, take charge, and mentor this generation that's been left without fathers. This is a
Ditch the 'Sex Talk': 4 Things to Do Instead w/ Rodney Wright EP 1048
Are you ready to take back control of the sex education your kids receive? In this week's interview clip, Jim Ramos talks to Rodney Wright, author of 'How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex'. Rodney shares 4 wise tips for guiding your kids through these sensitive topics with confidence and clarity. Listen to the full episode here! Check out Rodney's Book https://tinyurl.com/HowtoTalk115 (Using our
What Season of Manhood are You In? The Four Seasons of Manhood [Part 1] – (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1047
Ever feel like the season of life you're in will never end? Are you in the stress bubble trying to keep up with all the pressures of life? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares the first 2 seasons of manhood ("spring" and "summer"), and how each season is vital in creating a complete life that's well lived. This is Part 1 of his series "Seasons of a Man's Life", Wa
The Biblical Case for Wife Kids (even in Second Marriages) – Message at the MAG REBOOT EP 1046
Are you married? Your wife is greater than your kids. Remarried? Still true! In this week's rebooted message, Pastor Jim Ramos shows us that your wife is greater than your kids, even in the tricky situation of remarriage. In this message at the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos lays out the biblical case for this counter-cultural assertion: WIFE > KIDS. This is a reboot of a message from The MAG, The McMinnv
4 Sayings that Sound Right but Can Kill Your Marriage w/ Aaron Freeman EP 1045
In today's interview clip, Jim Ramos talks to Aaron Freeman, co-author of the book "The Argument Hangover." Aaron unpacks 4 marriage sayings that seem good on paper but are dangerous myths. Listen to the full episode here! Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://meninthearena.org/pages/7-marriage-guardrails Has Men in
Which Type of Christian Are You? - (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1044
There are two types of Christian men. Which one are you? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos identifies the difference between a "Christian" and a real follower of Jesus. You'll walk away from this episode knowing which type of Christian YOU are, and what to do about it. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's
Good Dads, Bad Kids: When Christian Dads are NOT Responsible for Their Kids Choices (Defining 'Household Management') - Message at the MAG REBOOT EP 1043
Men, we're called to lead, protect, and provide. But what do we do when things don't go as planned? In this week's rebooted message, Pastor Jim Ramos takes us deep into the historical context of households during the Apostle Paul's time, exploring the powerful Greek terms for 'children' in the Bible. I This is a reboot of a message from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnvill
4 Tools for your Fathering Toolbox w/ Kent Evans EP 1042
Thousands of Christian men are raising families but have no idea what they're doing. In today's interview clip, Jim Ramos talks to Kent Evans to help you solve that. Kent introduces you to 4 new tools for your fatherhood tool belt. Listen to the full episode here! Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://meninthearena.o
How to Start (or Reboot) a Men's Ministry: Avoid the #1 Mistake Made by Men's Leaders – (RE)quipping Men in Ten EP 1041
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #729 Most church men's ministries are set up wrong! In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos will teach you what to do to get a vital, growing ministry to men. He breaks down step-by-step, proven ways to get your men's ministry off the ground, including what NOT to do. Help! I'm Starting a
Is Baptism Really Required or Optional? What the Bible Actually Says About Baptism - Equipping Men in Ten EP 1040
Have you been waiting to get baptized? Maybe you're wondering if you're ready, what it means, or whether you even need to do it. In this week's 10-minute Equipping episode, Jim Ramos looks at what the Bible actually teaches about baptism, why it matters, and why you may be overthinking something God has already made clear. If you've trusted Jesus, maybe it's time to stop debating it and take the s
6 Lies You Believe About Porn Addiction: How to Quit w/ Ted Shimer EP 1039
In today's interview clip, Jim Ramos talks to Ted Shimer, Founder of The Freedom Fight (thefreedomfight.org), an online porn addiction recovery program, and the author of the book, The Freedom Fight: The New Drug and the Truths that Set Us Free. Shimer teaches you the 6 scientific roots of your porn use and gives you practical steps for eradicating them from your life for good. Listen to the full
Is She Your Soul Mate? 4 Questions Dating Men Should Ask - (RE)Quipping EP 1038
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #632 Single guys, how do you know the woman you're with is THE ONE? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you 4 questions you should ask yourself before you choose to marry the girl you are dating. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage
Weeds: 3 Ancient Temptations Still Destroying Christian Men Today – Message at the MAG REBOOT EP 1037
What "weeds" do you find yourself continuously battling in your life? In this week's rebooted message, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the critical steps of identifying and removing the "weeds" that stop us from living a life full of purpose and growth. Using wisdom from Galatians 5 and the Parable of the Sower in Matthew 13, he discusses how to aggressively root out sin and intentionally plant seeds
4 Things a Man Must Do the Moment His Wife Files for Divorce w/ Dale Brown EP 1036
Divorcing Christian? Chances are you—or someone you're close to—has dealt with the pain of divorce. In today's interview clip, Jim Ramos is joined by Dale Brown to walk you through 4 critical steps for healing from divorce. Here's the link to Dale Brown's book, 'Daily Survival Guide for Divorced Men: Surviving & Thriving Beyond Your Divorce Days 1-91' (https://tinyurl.com/divorce115) If you wan
Real Men Show Up: A Lesson from Jesus - (RE)quipping EP 1035
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #591 Christian man, are you TIRED? Are you stressed? We don't call that 20-year period where you're raising your family The Stress Bubble for nothing. In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos walks you through a time when Jesus was tired and what He did. He outlines three ways that you can sho
Christian Man: No Pain, No Gain - Message at the MAG REBOOT EP 1034
In this 30-min message, Jim Ramos teaches you what "No Pain, No Gain" means for the Christian man. This is a reboot of a message from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://meninthearena.org/pages/7-marriage-guardrails Has Men in the Arena helped
3 Tips Marriage Counselors Wish Every Husband Knew w/ Paul & Virginia Friesen EP 1033
Need a quick, boots-on-the-ground revamp of your marriage? In today's interview clip, Jim Ramos talks to Drs. Paul and Virginia Friesen. They give 3 practical tips to make sure you come out victorious in your marriage. Check out Paul and Virginia's book, The Marriage App: Unlocking the Irony of Intimacy https://tinyurl.com/marriageapp115 If you want the full interview, you can listen to it here!
Winning Your Young Adult Kids Back to Faith: How to Love Them Back to God - (RE)quipping EP 1032
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #656 Is your young adult child rebelling, or threatening to leave the faith altogether? Even kids raised in a solid Christian homes can end up doing stupid stuff that doesn't match Christian values. In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you 7 steps you can take to love your child back
Jonah in the Bible: Saying YES to God - Message at the MAG Reboot EP 1031
Do you struggle to say YES to the things God places on your heart? It's a struggle for many of us, including Jonah in the Bible. In this rebooted message, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches from the story of Jonah about the power of saying YES to God's will and the dangers of saying NO. This is a reboot of a message from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Want to protect
REBOOT: Forgiving the Unforgivable - 7 Steps to Overcome Your Bitterness and Find Freedom w/ Bruce Hebel EP 1030
We know that we're supposed to forgive, but what if someone has wronged you so deeply that you don't know where to start? In this week's interview, Dr. Bruce Hebel joined us to teach you how to forgive using his 7 Protocols of Forgiveness. You've heard it before: "Bitterness is the poison we drink hoping someone else dies." You've been drinking poison, brother, but this episode is your 7-step anti
Is the Bible Sexist and Misogynistic? Responding to Accusations of Sexism in the Bible - (RE)quipping EP 1029
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #741 "Christians are sexist!" "The Bible is misogynistic!" We've all heard the accusations: many atheists and deconstructing Christians assert that the Bible endorses the oppression of women. In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos responds to the accusation that the Bible is a work th
How Men Bond: The One Thing That Turns Men Into Brothers - Average Joe Conversation w/ Kenn Walsh EP 1028
Men are built to bond through challenge and shared purpose. In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with friend Kenn Walsh to talk about why men seem to bond together differently than women. God has wired you to connect and create strong brotherhood, but it doesn't happen in the convenience of everyday life. Check out www.thewildernessexp.org for more information Want to protect yo
REBOOT: Your Brain is Sabotaging Your Marriage w/ Ron Deal - 4 Steps from Neuroscience to Break Your Toxic Pattern EP 1027
Ever handled a situation with your wife so poorly that you wished you could rewind and do it all over again? What happens when your brain's programming from childhood collide with real-life challenges in your marriage? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos brings in expert Ron Deal for insight on how your brain's wiring can lead to assumptions or reactions that sabotage communication. You'll
Television and the Christian Man: Who's the Tool, the TV or You? - (RE)quipping EP 1026
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #648 How much TV do you watch each night? If you're a typical American, it might add up to more than you think. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos takes a look at television's place in the life of a Christian man. Some of the ideas in this episode are related to our audio-only interviews wit
Life Verses Aren't Enough: Why Every Christian Man Needs a DEATH Verse – Message at the MAG REBOOT EP 1025
What's the one verse that drives your life and shapes your faith journey? You need a verse to call our own that challenges you to live purposefully. In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos introduces the idea of a 'death verse'—a scripture that will define you when you meet Jesus face to face. This is a REBOOT of a message from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Ore
Rapid-Fire Tips for Girl-Dads: 15 Tools for Connecting With Your Daughter w/ Michelle Watson Canfield EP 1024
In this rapid-fire edit of our multiple interviews with Michelle Watson Canfield ("The Dad Whisperer"), she blasts through 15 practical ideas for connecting with your daughter taken from her book 'Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart.' Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late.
Mr. Know-It-All: 6 Secrets Your 'Know-It-All' Attitude Reveals About Your Heart – (RE)quipping EP 1023
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #735 Are you a know-it-all? Do you have trouble taking criticism? Pretty sure you don't need direction from others? Find yourself judging the way others do things? Having a TEACHABLE spirit is vital when you're living out your best version of life in Christ. Even so, many of us walk around with a "know-it-all"
Do Christian Men Actually Need Church? You're Defining it Wrong – Average Joe Conversation w/ Ben Sullivan EP 1022
Can you follow Jesus without being part of a local church? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend Ben Sullivan to tackle this tough topic head-on. By defining what the church truly is and digging into Scripture, they separate tradition from biblical truth and answer one of the most common questions men wrestle with today. Want to protect your marriage? Get ou
Deconstruction-Proof: The 7 Lies Pulling Christians Away From Faith (And How Spot Them) w/ Aaron Graham EP 1021
What happens when culture starts preaching louder than the Bible? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with pastor and author Aaron Graham to talk about the subtle lies pulling Christians away from biblical truth. Aaron explains how faith rarely collapses overnight, and how we can engage culture without compromising truth. Check out Aaron's new book, 'Unshakable Faith'! (https://tinyu
What Christian Wives Want: 4 Things She Might Not Know She Needs From You – (RE)quipping EP 1020
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #719 Congrats brother, you've married a strong Christian woman. But, what does she NEED from you? In her core, what does she need and want from you on a daily basis? In today's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the 4 core desires of every woman and the practical ways you can meet those
9 Mental Toughness Secrets No One Taught You (Part 2) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1019
(Part 2) Are you mentally tough enough to finish what God has called you to do? When life gets hard, do you keep climbing or turn back? In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten Jim Ramos uses the metaphor of climbing a mountain to break down the path to mental toughness. Every climb has stages—the ascent, the challenges along the way, and the descent after the mission is complete. Want to protect your
Every Man Needs a Hill to Die On: Why You Don't Have One – Message at the MAG EP 1018
Do you have a cause worth fighting for? In this week's message, Jim Ramos challenges men to find their hill to die on—a God-given purpose that is bigger than themselves. Before a man can discover his mission, he must first know who he is and whose he is in Christ. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Aren
The Theology of Work - What the Bible Says About Your Career as a Christian Man - (RE)quipping EP 1017
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #710 You work hard, but are you working the right way? Will you be done working when you're retired? What place should work have in the life of a Christian man? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through a brief theology of work, teaching you what the Bible says about the wo
9 Mental Toughness Secrets No One Taught You – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1016
Are you mentally tough enough to finish what God has called you to do? When life gets hard, do you keep climbing or turn back? In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten Jim Ramos uses the metaphor of climbing a mountain to break down the path to mental toughness. Every climb has stages—the ascent, the challenges along the way, and the descent after the mission is complete. Want to protect your marriage?
12 Aha! Moments That Will Change Your Marriage Forever w/ Emerson Eggerichs EP 1015
Every marriage has defining moments and those sudden realizations can change how you see your spouse, your relationship, and yourself. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks to bestselling author and marriage expert Emerson Eggerichs. Emerson shares powerful "lightbulb moments" and unpacks key shifts in perspective that can strengthen communication and change the direction of your ma
The 5 P's of Effective Prayer - (RE)quipping EP 1014
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #681 Ever feel like your prayers aren't doing anything? Do you wonder if you're praying the wrong way, or for the wrong things? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the prayer method that he credits with growing Men in the Arena from 15 men in a coffee shop to impacting mill
They Left the Faith: When Your Adult Child Rejects the Faith You Gave Them – Average Joe Conversation w/ Kurt Stone EP 1013
When your adult child walks away from the faith, the heartbreak can be real. So how do you stay connected and continue pointing them toward Jesus without pushing them further away? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos talks with good friend Kurt Stone. They share practical wisdom and biblical encouragement for parents navigating this difficult season. Learn how to build bridges and faithf
To Stand: Man Camp 2026 Keynote Message w/ Jim Ramos EP 1012
The world doesn't need more passive men. Jim Ramos delivers a passionate message titled 'To Stand' at the 2026 Man Camp at Washington Family Ranch. 'To Stand' means when it's costly and unpopular. God is calling men to courage, conviction, and action. This message will challenge you to stop sitting on the sidelines and start living boldly for Christ. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free e
How to Be TOUGH: The 4 M's of Toughness - (RE)quipping EP 1011
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #689. Think you're TOUGH? Don't be so sure. There are four areas of toughness, one in which even 80% of Navy Seals are statistically weak. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos outlines the four M's of toughness and helps you determine if there's an area you need to get tough.
He Saw it Coming: The 1930s Study that Predicted Exactly Where We Are Today – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1010
Almost 100 years ago, a study uncovered a pattern shared by every collapsing civilization: sexual chaos always came first. In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos takes a look at the connection between strong societies and men who live with sexual discipline and faithfulness. The Bible's warnings about lust, adultery, and self-control weren't random rules. They were instructions for human fl
95% of NFL Marriages Fail. Brent Jones Has Been Married 40 Years. Here's Why. w/ Brent and Dana Jones EP 1009
NFL success can ruin a weak marriage. NFL star and 49er Hall of Famer Brent Jones realized that early. In this intimate episode, Brent and his wife Dana open up about the intentional guardrails, habits, and convictions that helped protect their marriage through the pressure of professional football, and everyday challenges at home. It's the small decisions that shape a strong marriage over time. Y
5 Mistakes Even Good Dads Make - (RE)Quipping EP 1008
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #650. If you're listening to this podcast, you're probably a pretty good dad. But there are 5 common mistakes that even GOOD dads make. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos describes the five types of mistaken dad he's seen over and over again in 30 years of ministry, and helps you course-corr
The 4 Phase Roadmap: How God Turns Normal Guys into Godly Men – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1007
What does God actually do in the life of a man? How does He shape us? In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos dives into the theology of manhood and the process God uses to transform men into the likeness of Christ. Not only will you get the practical steps every man must walk through but you can identify where you are in this journey. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 G
Challenger: Why God Hardwired You for Hard Things – Message at the MAG EP 1006
Men were built for challenge. From work to competition to everyday life, men come alive when they're pushed to the wall. In this week's message, Jim Ramos unpacks why God wired men this way — and how embracing challenge can make you a stronger husband, better father, and a more dangerous man for good. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before I
Why Wife is Greater Than Kids for the Christian Man – (RE)quipping EP 1005
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #644. Men, who do you prioritize in your family? Who is the most important person in your world? Your wife? Your kids? You mother? Does this change if you've been remarried and have kids from your first marriage? In today's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through what the Bible teaches
Marriage Check-in: 6 Questions for a Strong and Lasting Marriage – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1004
Most marriages don't fall apart overnight — they drift apart quietly. In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos breaks down 6 simple but powerful questions every couple should be asking regularly to stay connected, avoid resentment, and stop getting blindsided when things go wrong. If you want a healthier, stronger marriage, start here. This teaching is inspired by our friend Chris Herb from c
Why You're Not Happy w/ Tim Ross: Finding the Peace You're Looking For EP 1003
Your happiness will always fall short if you're chasing the wrong thing. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks to Tim Ross, author of the book The Missing Peace: How to Be Held Together When You're Falling Apart. Tim talks about the hidden wounds men carry, the pride that keeps us silent, and where healing starts. Check out Tim Ross's book 'The Missing Peace'! (https://tinyurl.com/peace
Grow as a Man of Prayer: 5 Time-Tested Tips – (RE)quipping EP 1002
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #617. You know you SHOULD pray, but do you have trouble blocking out consistent time for prayer? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares 5 time-tested, simple ways for you to become a man of prayer. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Be
You're Disciplined, Committed, and Still Missing Your Purpose…Here's Why – Average Joe Conversation w/ Chris Robinson EP 1001
In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos talks with good friend Chris Robinson, who shares how his life changed when he surrendered fully to God's call. They discuss how you can find freedom, joy, and a deeper purpose through Jesus Christ. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. You can start a ministry to father the fathe
1,000th Episode! The Best of 1,000 Episodes of the Men in the Arena Podcast! EP 1000
In this special episode, we look back at Jim's top moments from over 1,000 episodes. From the early audio-only days to the more recent video shows, we revisit the amazing journey it's been. God's been faithful every step of the way, keeping Men in the Arena standing strong at 1,000 episodes. Check out the full interviews here! James Ramos, Darby Ramos, Colton Ramos Wild Awakening: How a Ragi
How Do I Know For Sure I'm Saved? Am I Really Going to Heaven? – (RE)quipping EP 999
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #749. Are you REALLY saved? Is the prayer you said in middle school enough to get you to heaven? How can you know FOR SURE that you're saved? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about how to know if your salvation is for real. Want to protect your marria
From Barbarian to Civilized: 5 Things My Bride Taught Me – Equipping Men in Ten EP 998
Our wives can teach us a lot. Don't let pride block it. In today's Equipping Men in Ten, Jim shares five lessons from years of marriage. Simple truths and hard-earned insight. Your wife sees what you miss. She brings clarity, wisdom, and perspective that shape a stronger life. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. (https://t
Hey Beginner Husband and Wife: Avoid Mistakes That Could Cost You Years of Happiness w/ Michelle Lentz EP 997
Is marriage harder than you expected? Shouldn't love make marriage easy? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Michelle Lentz, author of the book Hey Beginner Wife, to compare notes about what they would tell their younger, newly-married selves. Michelle reminds us that every husband and wife starts as a beginner. This episode will provides practical advice for how you, the begin
7 Hard Lessons from 40 Years of Ministry – Equipping Men in Ten EP 996
What would you tell your younger self? Are you making decisions today that will matter tomorrow? In this Equipping Men in Ten episode Jim Ramos shares the hard-earned wisdom that only comes from decades of walking with God, leading others, winning battles, and learning from mistakes. Whether you're 18 and just starting out, or 50 and recalibrating for the road ahead, this conversation will challen
God Is Not Done With You Yet: Encouragement for Christian Men w/ Gary McCusker EP 995
When was the last time someone sharpened you? Even if you've followed Christ for decades, you're not above needing a reset. In this powerful episode, Jim sits down with Gary McCusker, the man who led Jim to the Lord. Gary steps back into his life to share some hard earned wisdom and the kind of encouragement every man needs but rarely gets. Because the truth is, your legacy is being written right
Escape the "Me Maze" - Podcast Highlight: Escaping the Most Dangerous Lie Christians Borrowed from Culture EP 994
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 992 - Why Self-Improvement is Making You Worse w/ Ryan Wekenman: Escaping the Most Dangerous Lie Christians Borrowed from Culture Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
The 5 Tests Men Must Pass Before God Promotes You to Lead – Equipping Men in Ten EP 993
When God speaks, do you act or hesitate? Do you obey God or negotiate with Him? In this Equipping Men in Ten episode, Jim Ramos shares 5 leadership tests Jesus gave Peter in Luke 5. We examine 5 pointed tests that Peter had to pass before he could really step into the leader and man he was called to be. If you're serious about becoming the leader of your family, this episode is for you. Jim's newe
Why Self-Improvement is Making You Worse w/ Ryan Wekenman: Escaping the Most Dangerous Lie Christians Borrowed from Culture EP 992
Self-Help? Self-Improvement? Self-Image? More like self-righteousness! Even well-intentioned Christian men can slide into a self-centered mentality that focuses on improvement in your own strength. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by bestselling author Ryan Wekenman to help you learn practical ways to combat the "me-first" mentality that is leaking even into Christian circles.
Guardrail #10: Build a Wall - Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage EP 991
What kind of walls are you building around your family? Are they strong enough to protect what matters most, or are there cracks forming? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos closes it out with long time friend Tyler Stoller, a professional in building fortification, to bring this metaphor to life. Together, they unpack what it really means to fortify your house, not j
The End Times Explained w/ John Bevere: How Jesus' Second Coming Changes What You Do Today EP 990
Why do so many believers stop when they reach Revelation? What are we missing by not talking about the Second Coming? In this expert interview, Jim Ramos dives into this topic with New York Times bestselling author John Bevere to unpack his latest book, The King is Coming. He challenges a common blind spot in the Church: we read the Bible but often stop short of fully engaging with what it says ab
When Giving Becomes Dangerous - Podcast Highlight: The Gifting Trap: Lessons from the Queen of Sheba and Not-So-Wise Solomon EP 989
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 987 The Gifting Trap: Lessons from the Queen of Sheba and Not-So-Wise Solomon – Message at the MAG Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
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