Boldly Becoming with Baxbara
You know that friend you call for two minutes and suddenly it's been an hour? Yip, that's me! But we are not just passing time, I'm here to remind you that your dreams are worth chasing, your voice deserves to be heard, and your light is meant to shine brightly. It's time to break free from those doubts and embrace the unstoppable achiever within you.
Episodes
Becoming a Bigger Thinker
If your dreams feel stuck… maybe it’s not you. Maybe it’s your world. 🌍✨ Join The Live Event Waitlist - https://www.baxbara.com/event-details/boldly-becoming-live/formIn this week’s episode of Boldly Becoming, I’m sharing how moving, meeting new people, and saying “yes” more than “maybe” completely changed my idea of what’s possible — and how you can do the same.Your results can’t outgrow your vis
Becoming Humble But Not Small
For The Girl Who Was Told She Is Too Much.Be part of the live show: https://www.baxbara.com/event-details/boldly-becoming-live/formIn this episode I explore the 3 things I have learnt about the dangerous effects of jealousy caused by "overachieving" as they call it. I used to think humility meant being quiet or a less than version of myself. Now I know it just means being confident eno
How to Make Setbacks Bow Down To You
Becoming A Cheat Code Setbacks aren’t stop signs—they’re setups. In this episode, I’m showing you how to become your own cheat code by turning every “no,” delay, and disadvantage into an unfair advantage. If you’ve ever felt behind in life, like everyone else had a head start, or like your journey’s been nothing but setbacks—this one’s for you.We’re talking:How to break out of the victim mindsetWa
Becoming Balanced: Is It Really The Missing Key?
They say balance is the key… but what if it’s actually holding you back? 🤔✨ In this episode of Boldly Becoming, we’re unpacking the real struggle between balance and consistency—and why trying to ‘do it all’ might be stopping you from doing what actually matters.I’m sharing my own battle with staying consistent while building my media career, relaunching this podcast (again 😅), and finally finding
Becoming Disciplined: You CAN do hard things
The biggest excuse I gave was that "I don't have time", until I recognised that I was just complacently using that time to do OTHER things that didn't necessarily feed into my goals.
Today we're going over 3 hard truths that I had to face before getting into action on an episode we're calling "Becoming Disciplined". While I may not be a professional at discipli
Becoming Unshakeable: Controlling Nerves on Dates & Interviews
Have you ever felt those nerves creeping in before a big date or an important interview? Trust me, you're not alone. In this episode of "Becoming Unshakeable," we explore practical strategies for staying calm, collected, and utterly unshakeable in high-pressure situations. From harnessing the power of mindfulness to embracing your unique strengths, we're sharing insights and pers
Becoming Lasizwe Dambuza: Conquering imposter syndrome and owning your shine with Lasizwe Dambuza.
Ever feel like a fraud, even when you're achieving amazing things? You're not alone! This episode of Boldly Becoming dives deep with South African media personality Lasizwe Dambuza as he shares his personal battles with imposter syndrome and the powerful lessons he's learned about embracing his accomplishments. Join us for an inspiring conversation that will equip you with the tools to
Becoming World Class: what does it take to be the best?
No one outside your head knows the exact battles you're fighting or how many early mornings you've dragged yourself out of bed, but that doesn't mean it goes unnoticed. You're trying your best and that should be good enough FOR YOU, because that dedication is adding up and your season of reward is creeping up! (Read Col 3:23 & Gal 6:12)If my little life has taught me anything i
Becoming Faith-FULL: How To Get Out Of A Rut, Dream Big & Supersede Your Goals
Feeling stuck in a rut lately? Trust me, you're not alone. In this episode of "Becoming Courageous," we're tackling the all-too-common struggle of getting out of that funk and smashing your life goals like a boss.I get it. Sometimes it feels like you're spinning your wheels, going nowhere fast. But here's the thing: you have what it takes to break free and make those drea
Becoming UnSingle: Find True Love in Frienships & Relationships
In today's episode, and the spirit of Valentines, we'll dive deep into topics ranging from self-love and personal growth to navigating the complexities of modern dating and building lasting connections. Through candid conversations, expert insights, and real-life stories, I hope to inspire and guide you towards discovering the love you deserve.
Whether you're single, in a relationship,
Becoming the Prize: Goodbye People Pleasing, Hello Authentic Living
Today we delve into the powerful art of self-worth and standing firmly in our value. Let's unravel the layers of people-pleasing behaviour, offering insights and key takeaways to help you embrace your intrinsic worth and reshape the dynamics of your relationships and endeavours.
Discover the courage to set standards for how you deserve to be treated, valuing your worth unapologetically. Under
Becoming Wise: Advice to my High school self & Aspiring Content Creators
Ready to dive into a time machine and drop some wisdom? 🎙️✨ Tune in to "Becoming Wise," where I take a heartfelt journey back to my high school days – those days of being a people-pleasing perfectionist and an aspiring content queen. 📚🎥
Join me as I serve up the advice I wish I could've whispered in my own ear. From embracing imperfections to realizing that it's okay not to have
Becoming All In: Believing God After Rejection
Hey Girl, have you ever dared to dream, reached for the stars, and stumbled instead? 🌟 Join me in this episode as I dive into the rollercoaster ride of trusting God when life serves up a plate of rejection. From missed opportunities to unexpected turns, I'm unpacking how to turn setbacks into setups for something even greater. Get ready to dust off those dreams, embrace resilience, and rewrite
Becoming Brave - Subduing The Fear of Failure & Insecurities
Get ready to break free from the clutches of imposter syndrome, silence the self-critic in your head, and embrace the magic that happens when we step out of our comfort zones. 🌟
Boldly Becoming Pilot
I'm here to remind you that your dreams are worth chasing, your voice deserves to be heard, and your light is meant to shine brightly. It's time to break free from those doubts and embrace the unstoppable achiever within you.
Your dreams, your confidence, and your destiny are waiting!
This is Boldly Becoming
Are you tired of the endless cycle of overthinking? Trust me, I've been there too. This podcast was created just for you – the fierce, fabulous woman on a journey to unlock her full potential. I'm here to guide you, uplift you, and help you step confidently into the life you've always dreamed of. 🎙✨
My mission is to elevate overthinkers like us into confident powerhouses who trust who
Planted Not Buried | #HeyGxrl
Meet Mama Zanele, a total boss lady who is thriving in the world of entrepreneurship and public speaking, despite being born in the apartheid era. In this video, we get to hear from Mama Zanele herself, as she shares some incredible insights on the evolution of beauty standards and representation for black women in South African media.
Mama Zanele is an absolute inspiration, having overcome so ma
Own YOUR Power!
There’s a power in allowing yourself to be known and heard, in owning your unique story, in using your authentic voice. And there’s a grace in being willing to know and hear others. This, for me, is how we become. - Michelle Obama
Hey Besties!
Today we’re talking about the power of representation and why sharing your voice matters. And let me tell you, I'm speaking from experience. I've
Finding Purpose & Starting Over In My Twenties
"Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become." - Steve Jobs
Why This Is YOUR Year | 2023 New Year's Resolutions
What if I told you New Year's Resolutions aren't goals (to be failed), but promises you keep! In today's episode we dig into the "new year, new me" cliché through the lens of my resolutions for the year. 2023 is asking you to step up to the plate and make it your year, are you up for it?
A Surfer Dude's Take 🏄🏻♂️: Authentic & ✨Rad✨ Christianity in the 21st Century
On the 'PodCouch' with me today I've got "Surfer Boy" Santana 🤣 and this is one FOR THE BOOKS.
He touches on such hectic christian topics in the most laid back and easy to understand ways -- making me realize, maybe we are overthinking what God has called us to be in the world?
We’re on the road to 10 thousand subscribers 🫶🏾 — I’d love and appreciate you for sharing your favourite video
Partnering with God: Vision Boards & Prayer Retreats ft. Kuda Machapu
Kuda and I sat down for a fun conversation around all things Holy Spirit and hearing from God.
For a lot of us, we’ve got dreams and visions for our lives but is that what God wants for us? In most cases, our desires and talents hint to the purpose God has for us — but can equally become the idol that causes our demise.
If you enjoy this conversation, let us know on social med
Religion vs Rest (ft. Cameron Sathiah)
In today’s episode with my homeboy Cameron we dive into conversation about navigating burn out as a Christian and the role religion plays in it.
What does rest look like to you?
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Overcoming & Becoming with Mrs SA 2022 Finalist | Mrs Carol Montwedi
In the first ever episode of #IBAXHER and the last of the woman's month series, we sit down with Mrs Carol Montwedi as she talks us through her journey as a teen mom, finding confidence in your story and reaching for your dreams.
This was an amazing conversation that I know you will love! Support her by voting "Carol Montwedi" to 47587 (sms cost R3) and liking her IG post with Mrs SA (the post:
Life In The 20s: Relationships, Trusting Yourself & Unmet Expectations ft. @TheBWord_ZA & @Karefree
From dating "potential" and biological clocks to asserting yourself as an adult at home, in today's episode my lovely guests & I touch on lessons we've learnt in our 20s and things we wish we knew prior (more especially as black women).
I have two beautiful online personalities, @Karefree & @The B Word as my very first guests for the "That's Funny Podc
Are 5AM Morning Routines Realistic?
We’ve all seen the “that girl” morning routines that consist of pink smoothies, avo on rye toast and a 7 step skincare routine that comprises of 90 different oils. While all of that is aspirational for a lot of us, myself included, is that an accurate display of EVERYDAY girl mornings ?
SEEN by God.
"Don’t push your way to the front; don’t sweet-talk your way to the top. Put yourself aside, and help others get ahead. Don’t be obsessed with getting your own advantage. Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.
Better yet, redouble your efforts. Be energetic in your life of salvation, reverent and sensitive before God. That energy is God’s energy, an energy deep within you, God himse
✨Perfecting✨ Prayer
If we're being honest, the thought of prayer can sometimes be stressful and daunting ESPECIALLY IN A GROUP SETTING (am I right?!). Am I saying the right words, should I get on my knees, can I pray in my heart ?
In today's spontaneous episode we CASUALLY (lol) unpack how to pray, incorporate the Holy Spirit in our everyday life and how to usher in the presence of God -- and get Him to FINALLY answ
Self Acceptance, Body Politics & Workaholism
Disclaimer: EXTREMELY sensitive and potentially TRIGGERING topics will be discussed in depth in this video regarding weight, eating disorders, body dysmorphia, exercise addiction, stigma, calories, and bad body-image. All opinions are my own. THIS VIDEO MAY NOT BE FOR YOU & THAT IS OK!
If I’m being honest with you, I don’t have all the answers or any even. I’ve dealt with workaholism & a toxic re
peace keeper or people pleaser?
My fear of conflict and being tolerated in spaces & relationships has definitely kept me from making decisions in the past and standing firm on my NO! Where does one find the balance between dying to self to serve people and falling into the snare of seeking validation ? In today’s episode we’ll go into depth about one of the biggest culprits of anxiety — people pleasing.
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You know that friend you call for two minutes and suddenly it’s been an hour ? Yip, that’s Baxbara ! From serious topics like people pleasing, performative Christianity and navigating adulthood to that one time she drank all the communion at a church camp (okay, maybe it happened more than once). Appropriately named, “That’s Funny” is a personification of the old saying “one day you’re gonna look
