Matt and Bianca - Everybody Swing - Club Sapphire - The Travelling Swingers
Matt and Bianca are the #1 YouTubers about the Lifestyle. They have been swinging since 2011 and on this podcast, recorded for over a decade, they'll teach you everything you'd ever want to know about open relationships.
Episodes
Christians Who Swing? Here's What They Believe
Can you be a practicing Christian and still live the swinger lifestyle?In this episode, we sit down with Dave and Morgan, a married couple who identify as practicing Christians, to talk openly about faith, marriage, and non-monogamy. Morgan grew up Baptist and Methodist, considered seminary, and still attends church regularly. So how does she reconcile Christianity with swinging?We dive into:• Is
Matt and Bianca interview Dave and Morgan - The Reigning Ms Sapphire
What really happens to a relationship after years in the lifestyle? How does swinging evolve from those first nervous experiences to deep trust, confidence, and connection?In this episode, Matt and Bianca sit down with Dave and Morgan for a candid, honest, and eye opening conversation about their long term swinging journey. Morgan is the reigning Ms Sapphire, and together they share how their rela
When Your Partner Wants Out of Swinging
What happens when one partner in a swinger couple decides they no longer want to be part of the lifestyle?In this honest and vulnerable conversation, Matt and Bianca dive into a topic many couples quietly struggle with but rarely talk about openly. They discuss the emotional, relational, and practical challenges that can come up when one person wants to step back from swinging while the other does
The Stallion and The Bunny - The Two Types of Swingers Explained
In this video, Matt and Bianca dive deep into the two primary types of swingers often seen in the lifestyle: the stallion and the bunny. With humor, honesty, and plenty of real world experience, they break down what these two archetypes mean, how they show up in different swinger dynamics, and why understanding them can make your lifestyle journey smoother and way more fun.They share practical swi
Extroverts in the Lifestyle
Are you an extrovert in the swinger lifestyle—or partnered with one? In this episode, Matt and Bianca unpack the dynamics between introverts and extroverts in the lifestyle, exploring how energy levels, social comfort, and communication impact relationships.Matt shares his experience as an “extroverted extrovert”, while Bianca offers insight into how introverts can feel isolated or drained in high
We Became a Quad!
Matt and Bianca have taken their open relationship to a whole new level—they’ve entered into a *quad*! In this video, they share what it’s really like dating another couple, how the connection formed, and what they’ve learned about communication, boundaries, and keeping things fun (and spicy).Join them as they laugh through the awkward moments, talk about navigating jealousy, and explain the diffe
Can Bianca Teach Matt How To Flirt with Swinger Women?
Welcome back to Club Sapphire! In this sizzling second part of our Flirting 101 series, it’s Bianca’s turn to take the lead—and this time, she’s showing Matt how to flirt with women in the lifestyle. 💃💋If approaching other women has ever felt intimidating or awkward, Bianca’s got you covered. She walks Matt through the fine art of flirting with confidence, warmth, and just the right amount of sass
Flirting 101: How to Hit on Men in the Lifestyle
Welcome back to Club Sapphire! In this exciting first part of our two-part Flirting 101 series, Matt steps up to teach Bianca the art of flirting with male swingers. If you’ve ever found yourself a little tongue-tied or unsure how to break the ice at lifestyle events, this episode is packed with tips and tricks to help you feel confident and connected.Matt walks Bianca through the essentials—how t
From Green-Eyed Monster to Turned-On Cheerleader: Let's Talk Compersion
What Is Compersion? Jealousy, Love Languages & Relationship Growth | Swinging Lifestyle Education🎤 Hosted by Matt & Bianca | Club SapphireAre you new to the swinging lifestyle and wondering how couples manage feelings like jealousy? Or maybe you're a seasoned swinger looking to deepen your connection with your partner? In this educational and deeply personal video, Matt and Bianca from
Episode 46: Introducing Bethanie (Matt's girlfriend)
In this episode, since Bianca is taking some time off, we figured it was the best time to introduce Bethanie, Matt's girlfriend. You can also watch the video on our YouTube channel.
Episode 45: The Biggest Swinger Club in California
In this episode, Matt & Bianca talk to Tom and Bunny, General Managers of Freedom Acres in Southern California. Filmed at Hedonism in Jamaica, they talk about their amazing club, running into your family, schoolmates and priests at a swingers club, and how to act around a celebrity when you meet one in this situation.
Episode 44: Double Standards for Swingers
In this episode, Matt and Bianca interview Doug and Ruby, the owners of Club Sapphire in Seattle. They talk about double standards for swingers, the differences between single men and single women and how they should act in lifestyle situations. Also, a lot of great information on their club and the swinging scene in the Pacific Northwest.
Episode 43: Sex is Better with Someone Else
In this episode recorded at Hedonism II, we interview Dave and Gina. We talk about enjoying different sexual things from different people. Also, swinging and cheating, how to properly pull hair and having a gaping hole in your urethra.
Episode 42: Our Review of Hedonism II
In this podcast, we review our recent trip to Hedo 2 in Jamaica. We talk about the resort, the food, the sex and the people. If you are going there or thinking about it, you definitely should listen. Please share this podcast with others that might be interested in learning about the resort. Our YouTube video of this podcast has footage from the resort as well.
Episode 41: Same or Separate Room Play
In this episode, Matt and Bianca talk about the pros and cons of Same Room Play compared to Separate Room Play. Also, how to help keep your husband hard while he's with another girl, sneaky guys and condoms, how to be successful at a swinger club.
Episode #40: The Ms. No Swimsuit Contest
In this episode, we interview Shawn and Becky. Becky was the winner of this year's Ms. No Swimsuit Contest, sponsored by Tom's Trips.
Episode 39: Behind the Scenes of a Swinger Cruise
In this episode, we chat with Eric and Tatiania, two ambassadors for the couples cruise. We discuss the important questions, like whose job it is to clean up random condoms in the playroom. (Kasidie: funwithtne)
Episode 38: How Not to Fist Bianca
In this episode, we talk about putting stuff up vaginas. Also, what to do when it's play time and your Aunt Flo comes to town.
Episode 37: My Wife's Boyfriend
In this episode, we talk about Bianca's search and subsequent success in finding a boyfriend.
Episode 36: Our Review of Fantasy Coop
In this episode, we talk about our recent trip to a Fantasy Coop mansion party in the Anaheim Hills of California.
Episode 35: How to Plan an Orgy
In this episode, we talk about the Ins and Outs of hosting an orgy. How to create a guest list, how to setup the playroom and much more. If you'd prefer to watch the video version, check out our YouTube channel.
Episode 34: Bianca Looks for a Boyfriend
In this episode, we discuss Bianca's entrance into the world of dating by herself. Yes guys, she's looking for a man. Please don't send her pics of your junk, that never works.
Episode 33: Matt Gets a Girlfriend (Part Two)
In this episode, we continue discussing Matt's new girlfriend, her staying over and meeting our kids. Juicy stuff.
Episode 32: Matt Gets a Girlfriend (Part One)
The episode you've all been waiting for...or at least if you listened to Episode 13: The Next Step and wondered whatever happened with Matt dating separately. This is where thing start to get interesting.
Episode 31: Swinging in a Wheelchair
In this podcast, we interview Lisa and Scott. Lisa is a paraplegic and has a fascinating story to tell. We also talk about detoxing from swinging and the attack of the terrible kissers.
Episode 30: Interview with the Lesbian Swingers
In this episode, we interview The Sapphic Swingers, a lesbian couple in the lifestyle. Also, check out their podcast at http://sapphicswingers.blogspot.com/
Episode 29: A threesome? Yes, please.
In this episode, we discuss our upcoming swinger cruise, how to find a unicorn for a threesome, and Bianca comes out of the closet to her eyelash lady.
Episode 28: Do Pubes Get a Five O' Clock Shadow?
In this episode, we talk about pubic hair: waxing and shaving. We also answer a listener question about bi-sexual men in the Lifestyle.
Episode 27: Separate Rooms, Separate Vacations
In this episode, we talk about our first weekend apart since we've been in the Lifestyle (Matt at home and Bianca in Vegas) and what happens when the spouse is away...
Episode 26: The donkey with a stick stapled to her forehead
In this episode we talk about our recent attempt converting a Neopolitan friend into a unicorn.
Episode 25: When the Kids Find Out
In this episode we talk about how we just handled our teenager asking about our "extracurricular" activities...
Episode 24: Cock Blocking and Beaver Damming
In this episode we talk about the couple we couldn't hook up with, getting cock blocked and beaver dammed, why afternoon sex is awesome, and we answer some listener mail.
Episode 23: A Single Man and A Single Woman
In this episode (which we recorded on the swinger cruise), we interview Tom and Jacque, a single man and a single women who met while in The Lifestyle, fell in love and now play as a couple.
Episode 22: The Mexican Swinger Cruise
In this episode, we get ready for the upcoming swinger cruise. This is the perfect podcast to listen to if you're going on this trip or thinking about one in the future.
Episode 21: The Ins and Outs of Threesomes
Yes, that title was meant to be a pun. In this episode, we talk about finally getting a FFM threesome. Matt is happy.
Episode 20: Wiggles and Nipples
In this episode, we interview a couple that we got to play with for an entire weekend. This was our first separate room experience for any extended time. We'll let you know how it went...
Episode 19: How to Rub Coconut Oil on Bianca's Breasts
In this episode we talk about our sexy house guests, the proper types of oil to rub on Bianca and The Case of The Disappearing Condom.
Episode 18: Swinging in the Military
In this episode, we interview Jason & Jess, a lifestyle couple who met in the military. We also talk about an amazing website perfect for newbies to bring up the idea of swinging to their significant other.
Episode 17: Are you a Type-A Pussynality?
In this episode, we talk about the types of people who swing and the types of people who don't. We announce the opening of cherrywear.com and discuss our awesome listeners sending us stuff.
Episode #16: Bow-Legged for a Week
In this episode, we talk about sensitivity levels during sex. How some people prefer soft and sensual sex while others want to get banged so hard they walk bow-legged for a week.
Episode #15: Good Will Vanilla Hunting
In this episode we talk about Vanilla Hunting, how we've done it, how not to do it, why not to do it. You know what? Just don't do it. (Special Note: We know this episode title is terrible but it was either that or The Vanilla Hunt for Red October.
Episode 14: Now Paging Number Seven to Bianca's Vagina
In this episode we talk about swinging and orgies on New Year's Eve, facial hair on men and an update on Matt's toe-dipping into single dating.
Episode #13: The Next Step
In this episode, out of nowhere Bianca mentions that she wants Matt to have a girlfriend. So they decide the rules of their new POLY relationship while recording. There is a reason this is a long podcast. If you listen to just one episode, listen to this one.
Episode #12: Put Your Vagina Back in Your Panties
In this episode, we talk about sexting others. Also, playing on Thanksgiving, girls fingering each other in a vanilla club and we review the show "Swing Town".
Episode #11: One of These Balls is Not Like the Other.
In this episode, we talk about the many different types of balls, making appointments for sex and the sexy wiggle-hug woman. Guest hosts: Jamie and Teresa.
Episode #10: A Broken Neck and an Erect Penis
In this episode, (which we recorded on the swinger cruise), we talk sexual compatibility, the dangers of having sex on a balcony and why women should only speak in French during sex. Special Guest Host: Cousette from www.Cousette.me
Episode #9: From Soft Swapping to Orgies In the Dark
In this episode we talk about progression of swinging, how to go from soft swap all the way to an orgy in the dark. Also, having too much alcohol and who to invite to your next orgy.
Episode #8: Nice to meet you. Let's have sex.
In this episode we talk about having a connection with someone you're about to have sex with. Also hall passes, threesomes and Bianca's pole dancing.
Episode #7. Is Sex Better than Tennis?
In this episode, we talk about our failed sexy Halloween costumes, stealing someone's wallet during an orgy and the recreational aspect of swinging.
Episode #6. Unicorns or Narwhals?
In this episode, we talk about Halloween costumes, Neopolitan couples (not in the Lifestyle but open to...things), Narwhals (Single men). We also discuss how bi-curious women can take that first step.
Episode #5. Bl*wjobs for Everybody!
In this episode, we talk about bl*wjobs, swallowing and cumming etiquette for men. Also, do you have to like the person you're spouse is about to have sex with?
Episode #4. Performance Anxiety
In this episode, we talk about men having performance anxiety and the little blue pill. We discuss grooming, exercise and getting back into the dating scene. Oh, and Matt breaks a chair.
Episode #3. Swinging on a Cruise
In this episode we talk about Lifestyle Cruising. Which ones we've been on and which ones are coming up. What to pack for the theme nights. Where to stay the night before. The playrooms, the nudity, there's just so much to talk about...
Episode #2. Orgies, Parties and Other Shenanigans
In this episode, we talk about parties and orgies. How to host one. Who to invite. What to do. How to transition from chatting to sex. We also give you a tour of our new personal playroom.
Episode #1: First Times
In this episode we talk about first times. How we got into swinging. Our very first experience with another couple. We talk about getting naked and having sex on camera. And a bit about jealousy.
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