The Single Man Podcast
The Single Man Podcast is a show for single Christian men, hosted by Carlton French. It features candid conversations about faith, personal growth, and navigating dating. New episodes are released every Friday.
Episodes
Finishing Well | The Completion of a Podcast for Single Men by a Single Man | EP. 52
EP. 52 | THE FINAL EPISODE! The completion of The Single Man Podcast is here. What a journey it has been. I've been working to fulfill what I felt like God told me to do in October 2023 - release 52 total episodes about how Christian men were navigating faith + dating to reach single men who don't know Jesus. March 27, 2026 we reach The Final Episode which I have titled "Finishing Wel
Is Marriage Even Worth It? | What Every Single Man Needs to Hear Before They Get Married | EP. 51
EP. 51 | In the conclusion of our four-part marriage series, Carlton is joined by both of his parents, Jay (61) & Nina (64) French, for a powerful conversation on 33 years of marriage, lasting love, communication, and the truth about whether marriage is really worth it. Jay & Nina share how they met, how they dated, how they’ve navigated marriage, what they’ve learned along the way, and wh
Carlton’s Dad: Living with H.E.A.R.T. | The Bible Belt, Salvation & Leaving a Legacy | EP. 50
EP. 50 | Can you believe we've made it to Episode 50?! With just THREE episodes remaining, Carlton sits down with his 61-year-old dad, Jay French, for one of the most theological episodes yet! Jay grew up in the “Bible Belt” of rural South Georgia, where he accepted Jesus, but his story did not end there. Jay walks through his personal journey, weaving in what the Bible actually says about sal
Carlton’s Mom: An Immigrant Story | Palestinian in Jerusalem & Tradition vs Relationship | EP. 49
EP. 49 | With only four episodes remaining, Carlton sits down with his 64-year-old mom, Nina French, for one of the most heartfelt episodes yet! Nina grew up Palestinian in Jerusalem before immigrating to the United States at age 9. She opens up about her Catholic upbringing, being born just a quarter mile from where Jesus was crucified, the difference she discovered between tradition and a real r
Logan RETURNS with His Wife! | The Power of an Invitation, No Brainer Decisions & Covenant | EP. 48
EP. 48 | The marriage series is heating up with Episode 3 of 4! 🔥 Logan Harris is BACK, this time with his amazing wife, Brittany Harris! Logan first appeared on Episode 5 while he was still an engaged man. He is now a married man of 20 months! Logan & Brittany are both 27 years old and they don't hold back on this episode vulnerably & practically sharing wisdom for every season: single, d
What We Wish We Knew 25 Years Ago! | 4 Kids, Storms & Staying United | EP. 47
EP. 47 | The marriage series is rolling on with Episode 2 of 4, and this one is a *can’t miss* conversation with Ed and Juliana Lin! From meeting in New York and dating in their 20s to navigating faith, Taiwanese culture, storms they’ve faced in marriage, and raising four kids, they get honest about what 25 years of marriage is REALLY like and what they wish they knew from day one. If you’re singl
“I Had Nothing to Lose…” | Long Distance Dating, Time Apart & Knowing She’s Your Wife | EP. 46
EP. 46 | Pumped to announce our 4-episode marriage series as The Single Man Podcast starts to come to a close! Episode 46 kicks it all off with Theo and Cara. They met at 27, got married at 28, and now at 32 - just celebrated their 4-year-anniversary! It all started with one bold decision Theo made when he felt like he had nothing to lose. Theo is Palestinian American and was my first ever friend
I Met My Fiancée at the Gym | A Personal Trainer’s Advice for Single Men | EP. 45
EP. 45 | Get ready for a can’t miss episode of The Single Man Podcast! Carlton sits down with Michael Chiara, a 30-year-old personal trainer from Queens, NY. After 10 years of training clients full time, Michael joins the podcast as the 2nd currently engaged man to ever come on. Michael shares how he met his fiancée at the gym, how going all-in with Jesus in 2023 changed his identity, and drops pr
Hitting Rock Bottom In Your 20s | New Age, Mushrooms & Alignment With God | EP. 44
EP. 44 | In this powerful Episode 44, Carlton sits down with Hunter Hanna, a 25-year-old single man who hit rock bottom in his 20s after exploring partying, drinking, drugs, and New Age spirituality. Everything on the outside looked “good,” but when Hunter started asking himself, “Why Am I Alive?”, a small still voice stirred him to seek Jesus and everything began to shift. As he shares how spirit
An Honest Conversation on Same-Sex Attraction, Singleness & Identity | EP. 43
EP. 43 | With 10 episodes remaining of The Single Man Podcast, Carlton is joined by Keith Trollinger, a 45-year-old single man, for an incredibly honest and vulnerable episode. Keith opens up about being same-sex attracted, choosing abstinence, and wrestling with the question, “If I never get married, would I be ok?”. Keith completed a Master of Divinity in 2025 and shares how his view of identity
Advice for Single Men in College | By a Single Man in College | EP. 42
EP. 42 | At 20, Asher Hogan is the youngest man to ever come on The Single Man Podcast! Currently a student at Georgia Tech, he is navigating faith, dating, partying, and relationships right in the middle of college life. In this honest conversation, Asher opens up about fraternity culture, sex, drinking, and what it actually looks like to follow Jesus while single in college. From knowing when yo
What I Wish Someone Told Me Before Getting Married | 2nd Marriages & 2nd Chances | EP. 41
EP. 41 | In one of the realest and most vulnerable episodes yet, Episode 41 of The Single Man Podcast features Carlton sitting down with his good friend Sam Bowman. Sam opens up about being divorced at 31, battling depression and suicidal thoughts, and how sex before marriage impacted his life and relationships. Now 36, remarried, and a father of three, he breaks down the mistakes that cost him hi
Blueprint For Better Relationships | Building Community From Scratch & Choosing What Lasts | EP. 40
EP. 40 | Can you believe we've made it to Episode 40?! To celebrate, we have a REMARKABLE episode where Carlton sits down with his friend Garrett Meyer, a 25 year old single man who has been rebuilding his life from the inside out. Once unsure of his confidence, his faith, and what actually mattered in dating, Garrett now opens up about the qualities in a woman that truly matter, what being in
Is "Happily Single" Even Possible? | Losing Both Parents, Starting Over & Finding Joy Again | EP. 39
EP. 39 | After an 8-month break, The Single Man Podcast is OFFICIALLY BACK and launching the final 14 episodes of the 52-episode series, still hosted by 30-year-old single man Carlton French! In this powerful episode 39, Carlton sits down with Admire “Admezzy” Phakathi, a 29-year-old runner in Atlanta who recently ran 100 miles in 34 hours! Originally born in Johannesburg, South Africa, Admezzy lo
Swipe Right on AI? | Semen Retention, Getting Stoned & Desexualizing Your Brain | EP. 38
EP. 38 | In this eye-opening Episode 38, Carlton sits down with Xiào Zeng, a 27-year-old single man who grew up in Shenzhen, China, culturally Buddhist and chasing fulfillment in partying, pleasure, and success. But in January 2024, everything changed. After experiencing deep brokenness, sexual struggles, and even being stoned at church, he encountered Jesus and began renewing his mind. Plus, we’r
Turn Off Do Not Disturb! | Bro Culture, Prayer & Becoming a MOG | EP. 37
EP. 37 | In this powerful Episode 37, Carlton sits down with Allen English, a 29-year-old who went from “I got this” to “Okay God, you got this”. At 27, after years of doing things his way, bad dating decisions, and buying into bro culture, Allen finally answered God’s call—and spoiler alert: it's working out way better than his own plan. Now, he’s not just growing as a MOG (Man of God), but h
Life is Messy, Dating is Crazy… But Have You Heard the Good News? | EP. 36
EP. 36 | Twelve years ago, at 24, Justin “JMah” Mah heard the good news for the first time—and it changed everything. Now 36, single, and thriving, he sits down with Carlton to share the highs, the struggles, and the wild ride of dating as a single man. From navigating anger and forgiveness to embracing singleness with purpose, JMah’s journey is a beacon of hope for every man who wonders if joy is
48 Minutes That Will Change Your Life | The BEST Way to Live as a Single Man | EP. 35
EP. 35 | At 26, JJ Tomlin met his wife. Now 29, married, and a father, he runs Heart of Dating, the largest Christian dating podcast in the world, helping thousands of men. In the first-ever virtual episode of The Single Man Podcast, JJ opens up to Carlton about the hard lessons he's learned, the hidden mistake keeping so many men stuck, and the unexpected shift that changed everything in his own
Why So Many Men Feel Alone | Mental Health, Modern Dating & What Women Want | EP. 34
EP. 34 | At 26, Kevin Simmons thought he had no future—struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts, he felt like a failure. But his story didn’t end there. Now 29 and dating the woman he believes is “the one,” Kevin shares his raw journey of overcoming mental health battles, the wake-up call that changed everything, and what he’s learned about modern dating and pursuing well. If you’ve ever f
Savannah & Shantanu’s INCREDIBLE Love Story! | Dating Someone With a Different Faith (And Should You?) | EP. 33
EP. 33 | This is an EPIC story of love, faith, and transformation you won’t want to miss! Savannah, a 31-year-old Christian woman from the US, and Shantanu, a 30-year-old man raised Hindu in India, met at a salsa dancing class—never imagining how an initial "business meeting" would change their lives forever. From navigating the challenges of being unequally yoked to Shantanu’s INCREDIBLE decision
I Didn’t Talk to My Dad for 10 Years | Ghosting, Saying "I Love You" & True Masculinity | EP. 32
EP. 32 | In this vulnerable episode of The Single Man Podcast, Carlton is joined by 32-year-old single man Nujad Bolivar, who opens up about his journey to healing after being estranged from his father for 10 years. Nujad shares his incredible story of reconciliation, overcoming father wounds, and finding his true identity as he has navigated faith and masculinity. He also reveals how his journey
Single at 48 | Catholicism, Healing From Divorce & Leading Well | EP. 31
EP. 31 | In this week’s episode, Carlton is joined by Weslee Knapp, a 48-year-old single man who was married at 29 and divorced at 42. Weslee shares his journey through growing up Catholic, navigating divorce, raising two kids as a single father, and the leadership lessons he's learned along the way. He also reflects on what he wishes he knew before getting married, offering valuable insights on f
Love That Satisfies | Finding True Fulfillment & Purpose As A Single Woman | EP. 30
EP. 30 | In this MILESTONE Episode 30, Carlton's sister, Caroline French, a 28-year-old single woman, joins to wrap up the four episode women's series! Caroline shares her journey to finding true fulfillment in Jesus at 26, shedding light on how even "the perfect relationship" left her unfulfilled and what it was that ultimately brought her true fulfillment and purpose. Get ready to take some note
Are There Any Good Guys Out There? Going on 50 First Dates to Find Out | EP. 29
EP. 29 | In this third installment of our women’s series, Carlton sits down with Liberty Schultz, a 25-year-old single woman on a bold journey to go on 50 first dates with 50 strangers! They dive into the realities of modern dating, discussing how to meet new people, communicate effectively, conquer the fear of rejection, and build genuine connections. Liberty shares incredible wisdom on navigatin
Dating God’s Way | Annie & Hunter Share Their Story | EP. 28
EP. 28 | You are in for a real treat with the 2nd episode of our women’s series! Carlton sits down with his first-ever couple that is CURRENTLY DATING, Annie, 26, and Hunter, 25, who have been together for 10 months! They share their real, unfiltered journey of navigating dating, offering heartfelt vulnerability and practical advice on honoring God while building a relationship. From setting bound
A Single Woman's BEST Dating Advice for Single Men! | Confidence, How to Ask Her Out & Waiting Well | EP. 27
EP. 27 | Kicking off our four-episode women’s series with a bang! Today’s guest is the amazing Victoria Baldwin—a 27-year-old single woman who found Jesus at 21! In this episode, Carlton & Victoria dive into planning dates with purpose, how Victoria would prefer to be asked on a date & the importance of seeking the Holy Spirit in every step of the dating journey. Victoria also dishes out h
HALFWAY! | 1st Half Stories, Answering YOUR Questions + Don’t Miss What’s Next..! | EP. 26
EP. 26 | In this special solo episode, Carlton celebrates the halfway mark of The Single Man Podcast! 🎉 Tune in as Carlton shares powerful testimonials from listeners, answers your burning questions, and gives an exclusive sneak peek of what’s to come in a new exciting series. Thank you for your support in the 1st half of the podcast, expectant for what the LORD has in store for the 2nd half!
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Divorce, Kids & Dating | A Single Dad’s Advice for Single Men | EP. 25
EP. 25 | Get ready for an electrifying episode of The Single Man Podcast! Carlton welcomes Dana Brennan, a 45-year-old single dad who's boldly navigating life after divorce. Having found Jesus at age 30, Dana shares his incredible journey from a past filled with addiction—having been arrested five times and facing life-threatening overdoses on meth, heroin, and cocaine—to a life of purpose and hop
Why Am I Still Single at 38? | First Dates, Being HOT & Overcoming Fear | EP. 24
EP. 24 | Join Carlton and Joel Wyse, a 38-year-old single man, for an engaging conversation about dating and faith. Joel shares his experiences with rejection, the mixed signals in the church, and the importance of trusting God while pursuing relationships. Get ready for practical advice on building confidence in singleness, overcoming fear, and leveling up in life and faith!
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An Honest Conversation on Porn, Anger & Why Men Don't Commit | EP. 23
EP. 23 | Carlton is joined by Eric Villy (our first ever guest who has flown in to be on the podcast!) for the most REAL episode yet! At 33, Eric shares his journey of healing from childhood wounds, tackling anger, and overcoming struggles with p*rnography. He dives deep into his dating experiences, getting married at 30, the challenges of commitment, and the vital role Jesus has played in it all.
30, Single & Confident | Why You Don't Need to Be Great at Dating to Be Happy | EP. 22
EP. 22 | Could you remain single forever? Do you have to be "good" at dating? In this captivating episode, Carlton is joined by 30-year-old single man Pesh Patel, who shares his extraordinary journey moving from India to Bremen, Georgia in the 8th grade while knowing no one and hardly speaking English. Pesh reveals the profound impact of friendship and how he made the life-changing decision to con
What ACTUALLY Matters in Dating | Waiting Well, Being Yourself & Embracing Your Passions | EP. 21
EP. 21 | In this enlightening and vulnerable episode, 27-year-old single man Brad Barco delves into the core elements of dating and personal growth. Discover how pursuing your passions, serving others, and the importance of community shape his journey. Brad shares his transformative insights on waiting for the right person, embracing authenticity, and trusting God's plan for your life.
This episo
How Faith Changed My Life | Marriage, Parenting & True Joy | EP. 20
EP. 20 | EPISODE 20! Can’t believe we’ve made it 20 episodes into this 52-episode journey, and what a way to celebrate with Jay Cummings joining Carlton this week! At 38, Jay, a devoted father of three, shares his incredible journey from coming to faith at 28, meeting his wife at 28, getting engaged and married at 30, to discovering true joy and purpose. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on beco
Why Would A Good God Allow This? | Opening Up As A Man, Mentorship & Staying Positive While Dating | EP. 19
EP. 19 | Join Carlton and Nathaniel Armen, a 27-year-old single man from California, for a lively and honest conversation about dating and faith. Nathaniel dives into how his parents’ separation impacted him tremendously, why a good God allows us to face tough times, the power of vulnerability, and how mentorship has shaped his journey. Get ready for an engaging discussion full of practical advice
How To Transform Your Life As A Single Man | Soul Ties, Strip Clubs & Scripture Memorization | EP. 18
EP. 18 | Join Carlton as he talks with Nick Galbreath, a 24-year-old single man who has experienced a profound transformation through his relationship with Jesus over the last three years. In this episode, Nick discusses the impact of soul ties, the power of scripture memorization, and how mentorship has shaped his journey. Discover how embracing spiritual disciplines and understanding scripture h
The Search for Truth | Leaving Hinduism, Chasing God in Religion, Finding Jesus | EP. 17
EP. 17 | Carlton welcomes Vinny Sripathi, a 26-year-old single man who recently embraced Christianity after growing up Hindu. Vinny delves into his journey of studying religion in college, practicing Hinduism, Taoism, & Buddhism, discovering Jesus, and how his views on dating and relationships have changed throughout. This episode offers inspiring insights into how faith can redefine your appr
I Met My Wife At The Dentist! | How to Meet Christian Women, Combat Pornography & Should You Have Sex Before Marriage? | EP. 16
EP. 16 | Join Carlton as he sits down with Nicolas Guagliardo, a 28 year-old married man with an inspiring story of navigating faith and relationships. In this episode, Nicolas shares the ~wild~ story of first meeting his wife at the dentist, getting married at 26, and his perspective on sex before marriage. Be encouraged as this episode dives into practical insights on combating pornography, acco
From Breakup to Breakthrough | Healing from Heartbreak, Building Community & Making REAL Friends | EP. 15
EP. 15 | Tim Vestuto joins Carlton as he shares his journey from a challenging breakup to founding a thriving singles community, all while navigating his faith and maintaining his commitment to purity. They discuss lessons he's learned about dating, depression, trusting God, friendships, and community along the way. Tim's story
offers encouragement and practical insights for anyone seeking to purs
Quality Over Quantity | Growing Up In Two Religions, Self Improvement & Role Models | EP. 14
EP. 14 | This episode, Carlton sits down with Cole Moon as they explore Cole's unique upbringing in a household split between Buddhism and Christianity. They discuss Cole's decision to follow Jesus and get baptized in his 20s, how embracing Jesus has helped him prioritize quality over quantity, how to be content as a single man & the challenges men face in finding positive role models. Delving
Hope For The Hopeless | Freedom From Abuse, Homelessness & Attempted Suicide | EP. 13
EP. 13 | THE SINGLE MAN PODCAST IS BACK with our most powerful episode yet! This week, Carlton sits down with Jordan Taylor to delve into his profound journey from an abusive upbringing, homelessness, attempted suicide, and addiction, ultimately finding redemption and purpose through Jesus. Jordan shares candidly about his transformative encounter with Christianity and how he has since navigated d
Marriage Is Awesome | Met At 30, Intentional Dating & Boundaries | EP. 12
EP. 12 | Clayton returns as a follow up to EP. 11 and introduces his wife. The inspiring couple shares their unique love story, from meeting at age 30 to maintaining sexual purity throughout their dating life, and finally making a commitment to one another in marriage. This episode delves into the challenges and triumphs of dating as a Christian man & woman, offering practical advice on not se
What If You’re Wrong About God? | Atheist to Jesus, Married at 30 & Divorce’s Impact | EP. 11
EP. 11 | Join as Carlton dives deep into the inspiring story of Clayton Nedza, a successful lawyer, who transitioned from staunch atheism to profound belief in Jesus. Clayton discusses the impact of his parents’ divorce, how he was considered “The Single Man” until meeting his now wife at 30 and getting married at 30, his previous life as an atheist, how a good God could exist and bad things still
Finding Peace in Life & Dating | Practical Advice on Singleness, Dating Apps & What To Look For | EP. 10
EP. 10 | In this practical episode Carlton is joined by Ryan Uffner, a 27-year-old single man, who transitioned from a life of superficial dating to one deeply rooted in Christian faith. Ryan shares his thoughts on dating apps, what he is now looking for in a partner, and his personal journey towards finding inexplicable peace in Jesus. This episode offers invaluable insights for single men naviga
Victory Beyond The NFL | Finding True Peace As A Single Man | EP. 9
EP. 9 | In this riveting episode, Carlton sits down with Josh Imatorbhebhe to explore his profound journey as a 26-year-old single man and former NFL player whose career took a divine detour into a deeper exploration of faith and personal growth. Josh shares his transition from the highs of football success to discovering lasting peace and purpose through a personal relationship with Jesus. This e
Escaping Depression | Agnosticism, Community & True Friendship | EP. 8
EP. 8 | In this inspiring episode, Carlton sits down with Trey Cox who shares his transformative journey from living a life centered around parties, drugs, and dating apps to finding a profound sense of purpose and peace in Christianity. Trey discusses his struggles with loneliness, agnosticism, and his revelatory moments that led him to embrace community, friendship, and ultimately faith. This ep
Stop Lying To Yourself | Navigating Culture, Dating & Faith | EP. 7
EP. 7 | Meet Ashwin Ignatius, a software engineer & Georgia Tech graduate, who has navigated the complexities of faith, culture, & identity from India to America. In this heartfelt episode, Ashwin shares his transformative journey from being born in India with traditional Catholic roots to developing a personal & profound relationship with Jesus. This episode offers unique insights int
What They Don’t Tell You About Sex & Marriage | Things All Single Men Need to Know | EP. 6
EP. 6 | In this enlightening + vulnerable episode, Hamilton Winters delves into seldom-discussed truths about sex, pornography, addiction, dating, and marriage, sharing his transformative journey from a pleasure-seeking lifestyle to a profound commitment in marriage.
This episode exposes the myths and realities of intimate relationships through candid conversations about sexual ethics, the impact
How to Know She's The One | Advice for Single Men from an Engaged Man | EP. 5
EP. 5 | In this compelling episode, Logan Harris shares his transformative journey from fear to faith, the highs and lows of dating as a Christian, and the profound lessons learned leading up to his engagement. As Logan recounts his path to finding and proposing to his fiancée, he offers men invaluable advice on navigating relationships, the importance of facing God in every aspect of life, and pr
Chasing Olympic Gold 🥇 | Athlete’s Advice on Navigating Dating & Faith as a Single Man | EP. 4
EP. 4 | In this insightful episode, Darr Smith, a dedicated athlete currently vying for a spot in the 2024 Paris Olympics, delves into his personal journey of balancing the pursuit of Olympic gold with navigating dating and sustaining faith as a single man. Through candid discussion, Darr offers invaluable advice and reflections on overcoming challenges in relationships, maintaining integrity in f
IS GOD REAL? | How I Found Jesus as a 26 Year Old Single Man | EP. 3
EP. 3 | In this powerful episode, Carlton French shares his transformational journey from a life of heartbreak and searching to finding profound faith and purpose through Jesus at 26. Engaging deeply with the struggles of singleness, sexuality, and societal pressures, Carlton opens up about his path to redemption, community, and a renewed sense of identity. This episode promises to inspire and cha
Technically Single...Technically Not | EP. 2
EP. 2 | In “Technically Single...Technically Not,” episode 2 of The Single Man Podcast, Luke Reed shares his journey from singleness to entering a relationship grounded in Christian faith. His story explores the transformative power of faith, the importance of community, and the shift in perspective on dating and relationships.
Luke's story offers encouragement and insights into becoming content i
A Vision Unveiled | The Vision Behind a Podcast for Single Men by a Single Man | EP. 1
EP. 1 | Welcome to "A Vision Unveiled," the inaugural episode of The Single Man Podcast hosted by Carlton French.
In this debut episode, Carlton shares his heart and vision for the podcast, giving listeners a glimpse into what they can expect in the episodes to come.
Chapters/Timestamps:
0:00 Episode Teaser
0:14 Intro
1:07 Carlton French introduces the heart and vision behind "The Single Man Pod
What Is The Single Man Podcast?
TRAILER | Check out the trailer for The Single Man Podcast! A new podcast for single men by a single man
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