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Do I Actually Like Him or Just the Attention He Gives Me? Jul 20, 2026 4386 Happy Monday, everyone! Have you ever wondered if you actually like him or if you just like the attention? Today, we're talking about how to tell the difference between real connection and validation, why we shrink ourselves in dating, and how to stop settling for breadcrumbs. Thanks to our Sponsors: Join at https://functionhealth.com/ADVICE and use code ADVICE25 for a $25 credit. If you

I’m Not Picky, I’m Just Scared of Getting Hurt Jul 13, 2026 4251 This week, we're tackling a listener's dating dilemma: the fear of rejection. From overthinking every text to convincing yourself they're going to lose interest anyway, we're unpacking why fear can sometimes be standing in our own way. Grab your favorite drink and come hang out while we get into the dating advice, big-sister pep talks, and gentle reality checks we all need sometimes. Thanks to

Help! My Best Friend's Boyfriend Is Hitting on Me Jul 6, 2026 3940 We're diving into a messy friendship dilemma. Our writer says her best friend's boyfriend has been flirting with her and making unwanted advances, leaving her caught between protecting her friendship and telling the truth. Should she tell her best friend what's happening, or stay quiet to avoid causing even more drama? Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by Better Help, Visit

She’s Married! The Wedding Debrief With Guest Alisha Marie! Jun 29, 2026 4552 The wedding recap you've all been waiting for is HERE!! 💍✨ Ash is officially married, and we're spilling everything with special guest Alisha! From the welcome party and getting ready to the ceremony and reception, we're sharing all the unforgettable moments, the highs, the hiccups, the happy tears, the surprises, and so much love and joy. Thank you for all the love and support you've shown us ove

My Fiancé is Inviting My High School Bully to Our Wedding! Jun 22, 2026 4731 Happy Monday everyone! Today's episode is all about boundaries, communication, and navigating difficult conversations before saying "I do." In our first story, our writer is struggling with a wedding guest dilemma after her fiancé expressed interest in inviting a longtime friend—the same person who bullied her throughout high school. The problem? She doesn't think she's ever fully told her fiancé

Should I Risk His Relationship for a Chance at Ours? Jun 15, 2026 3546 Today's episode is all about friendships, heartbreak, and knowing when it's time to let go. In one story, a listener is struggling with the painful realization that she and her best friend may have outgrown each other and she's wondering if it's time to end the friendship for good. In another, a listener develops feelings for her longtime guy friend just as he enters a new relationship. Now she's

The Bachelorette Debrief Jun 8, 2026 3139 The breakdown you’ve all been waiting for is finally here! We're recapping every detail from Ash's bachelorette weekend. From the murder mystery and Pilates class to the amazing food, unforgettable moments, funny stories, and all the behind-the-scenes chaos in between. Grab a drink, get comfy, and join us for all the tea! Thanks to our Sponsors: Download Hily Dating App from the App Store

I Don’t Want My Mother-in-Law in the Delivery Room! Jun 1, 2026 4572 Happy Monday, everyone we missed you! Today’s episode is all about boundaries, letting go, and learning how to move forward in healthy ways. In our first story, our listener struggles to set boundaries with her mother-in-law surrounding the birth of her new baby and the pressure of unwanted visitors. In our second story, our girl opens up about pouring years into a relationship that left her feeli

Can You Blame Cheating on Alcohol? May 25, 2026 4404 This week on UA, we’re getting into a pretty heavy topic: is being drunk actually an excuse for cheating? Our writer is navigating how to forgive, move forward, and deal with the damage that’s already been done by her boyfriend. We share our honest opinions and unpack the complicated line between accountability, regret, and betrayal. Thanks to our Sponsors: Get 10% off your first order, sit

I Make More Money Than My Boyfriend May 18, 2026 4053 Money is a huge part of any relationship, and this week we’re unpacking a dilemma: what happens when you’re making significantly more money than your boyfriend? Our writer’s boyfriend is loving, supportive, and patient, but she can’t stop wondering whether their financial gap is simply a temporary imbalance or a sign of a deeper lack of motivation. We’re talking through the stress and uncertainty

Seeing My Dad After 12 Years… What If He Rejects Me? May 11, 2026 3829 This week, our writer is reconnecting with her dad after 12 years apart. She’s worried he won’t want to see her, or that the reunion won’t go the way she’s dreamed about for years. We’re diving into fear of rejection, complicated parent relationships, protecting your peace, and how to manage expectations while still leaving room for hope. Thanks to our Sponsors: Right now you can get $28 of

Bestie Cut Me off After I Hooked up With Her Brother! May 4, 2026 4160 Happy Monday, UA Fam! Today’s episode is full of relationship drama. In our first story, our girl hooked up with her friend’s brother… unfortunately, there may be no salvaging both relationships. In another, our writer was hoping to be couple friends with her bestie’s boyfriend, but the boys aren’t vibing. Is there anything more she can do to help the friendship?? Thanks to our Sponsors: Th

I Feel Like I’m Third Wheeling My Boyfriend and His SISTER! Apr 27, 2026 3853 On today’s episode, we’re diving into sibling relationships. Our writer is worried her boyfriend has a closer, more in-tune bond with his sister than he does with her. She’s feeling left out and unsure how to bring it up… or is she just overthinking everything? Thanks to our Sponsors: Download Hily Dating App from the App Store or Google Play, or visit ⁠⁠https://hily.go.link/yDhNz⁠⁠ Fo

I Thought I Was Ready to Date Again… Apr 20, 2026 4271 This week, we’re unpacking the messy question of how you know you’re actually ready to start dating again. From confusing emotions to slipping into old patterns, we get real about the difference between healing and just not wanting to be alone—and why “being ready” isn’t always as clear-cut as it sounds. We’re bringing the raw, honest, messy truth about dating. Thanks to our Sponsors: Right

I Think I’m Crushing on My Trainer…Now What? Apr 13, 2026 3188 Therapy, crushes, and a mistaken phone call, it wouldn’t be Monday without a little drama. This week, we’re talking about what happens when a gym crush starts feeling a little too real. In our story today, our writer is catching serious feelings for her trainer, and it might not be one-sided, so we’re breaking down whether shooting your shot is worth it, how to read the signs, and the balance betw

He CHEATED on Me, and Now She’s Wearing MY RING! Apr 6, 2026 3793 Happy Monday, everyone! Today’s episode is all about breakups, moving on, and learning to love yourself again. In our story, our writer is grappling with a painful breakup. After her cheating boyfriend gets with her friend, how is she supposed to move on? Healing is hard, but we’re here to guide you through it. Jay Shetty Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5PyGTQpM88cFuuHVgzyP1H?si=4ecd

The Situationship I Never Asked For: My Best Friend’s Brother Mar 30, 2026 4387 On today’s episode, we’re joined by special guest Drea Okeke (@drea_knowsbest)! She went from engineer to Forbes Top Creator and 30 Under 30. Internet funny woman and all-around creative force, she’s here to dish out some juicy advice and share her story! For Drea @drea_knowsbest Sabi Slangs Card Game: https://sabislangs.com/ Thanks to our Sponsors: Visit www.functionhealth.com/ADVICE and

My Best Friend Didn’t Invite My Boyfriend to Her Wedding… Am I Overreacting? Mar 23, 2026 3118 Wedding planning, friendship drama, and workplace respect. Today, our writer is thrilled to be a bridesmaid in her best friend’s wedding…until she finds out her boyfriend didn’t make the guest list. Is she right to feel hurt, or is this just part of the reality that weddings are expensive and personal? Plus, we dive into a workplace dilemma: how do you gain respect from employees who don’t take yo

Help! My Perfect Man Comes With a Momster In-Law! Mar 16, 2026 4549 Today on Unsolicited Advice, we’re diving straight into some mama drama. Our writer is newly engaged and excitedly planning a 2027 wedding; however, her mother-in-law-to-be has some highly critical (and downright rude) commentary about her choices. How do you have a respectful conversation with your fiancé and future mother-in-law so everyone can move forward productively? Thanks to our Sponsor

She Won’t Stop Interrogating Me About Her Proposal Mar 9, 2026 4274 Hi everyone! On today’s episode, we’re talking about proposals… and secrets. What do you do when your bestie’sboyfriend tells you exactly how and when he’s going to propose and now she won’t stop interrogating you for details?How do you set a healthy boundary without hurting her feelings… or ruining the surprise? Plus, we have an UPDATE about our writer’s much older, very handsome boss. And let’

Raising Body Confident Kids in a Skinny-Obsessed World Mar 2, 2026 4576 Happy Monday!! On today’s episode of Unsolicited Advice, we’re diving into body positivity and what it really means to build healthy habits that feel good and sustainable. We’re unpacking how to start unlearning diet culture, shifting your mindset around wellness, and having honest conversations about growth. Plus, how do you know when it’s time to let go of a friendship? Thanks to our Sponsors

How Will I Ever Trust a Man Again? Feb 23, 2026 3939 Heartbreak, DMs, and cheating… today’s episode is packed with drama and distrust. One “hey girlie” message blows up a relationship, and in another story, a boyfriend gets caught texting another girl, but is it really innocent? We’re diving into boundaries, trust, and what to do when your heart is breaking. Thanks to our Sponsors: Feel like your best self again, Visit https://forhers.com/ADV

An 8-Year Secret…and Am I Wrong for Cutting off My Sister? Feb 16, 2026 3846 Happy Monday, UA Fam!! On today’s episode, we’re unpacking how to set boundaries with family, including navigating a toxic sister and figuring out how to move forward when she’s not willing to change or put in the effort. Plus, we dive into an almost decade-long secret. Should our writer finally confess, or are some things better left unsaid? Thanks to our Sponsors: Unlock your 80% off at h

I Miss Him but I Know I'm Not Supposed To Feb 9, 2026 3532 Happy Monday, everyone! Today we’re breaking down a bride’s toxic relationship with her mom, and her mom’s very strong opinions about her daughter’s wedding day… yikes. We’re talking about setting boundaries gently but firmly during wedding planning. In our other story, a writer shares how she’s found comfort and safety at work with her boss, leading to an unexpected attachment. We’re navigating h

The Devil & the Angel on My Shoulders Are Both Overthinking Feb 2, 2026 3973 Overthinking, anxiety, and the question of where you fit in: our writer today is feeling all the feels. On this episode of UA, we’re talking about fitting in, doing more, doing less, and the pressure to have it all figured out. Take a breath and remember everyone is figuring it out, just like you. We’re bringing big sister energy, and reassurance that it will all work out, don’t worry, you’ve got

How to Deal With My Mom’s Emotional Baggage Jan 26, 2026 4090 Mama drama, emotional boundaries, and hard conversations. Today’s episode gets a little heavy as we talk about how to deal with your mom’s emotional baggage and how to have honest, productive conversations without losing your mind (or your peace). If you’ve ever felt like the emotional parent in the relationship, this one’s for you. Thanks to our Sponsors: Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collecti

Help! My Ex BFF & I Are Bridesmaids IN THE SAME WEDDING! Jan 19, 2026 4187 Today’s episode is juicy. In our first story, a listener loves her best friend but can’t stand her fiancé, so how does she bring up her concerns without damaging the friendship? Then, wedding bliss takes a turn when another writer finds out she and her ex-best friend are bridesmaids in the same wedding. From pre-wedding events to the big day itself, how does she keep the peace and protect her san

How to Protect a Friendship While Living Together Jan 12, 2026 4003 Happy Monday, everyone!On today’s episode, our writer is facing a big question: should she move in with her bestie? Living with a friend is never a decision to make lightly and lucky for her, she asked two girls who’ve been there, done that, and are still friends to this day. We’re sharing what worked, what didn’t, and everything you should consider before signing that lease. Thanks to our Spon

Jealousy Between Sisters Jan 5, 2026 3752 On today’s episode, we’re talking about Ash's wedding details, the dress, makeup, and photography! In our writer's story, we’re unpacking the complicated relationship between sisters, especially when big life changes are involved. From resentment over moving away to jealousy that quietly turns into tension, we talk through why sibling relationships can feel so intense and how to speak up and set h

Reflecting & Resetting: Our Highs, Lows & Goals for the New Year Dec 29, 2025 4085 Happy New Year, everyone! We can’t believe 2026 is almost here! It’s a new year with new goals. We’re recapping what actually happened this year: the wins we’re proud of, the moments that surprised us, and the lessons we didn’t see coming. For 2026, we’re setting realistic goals that actually stick and talking about how to approach the new year with clarity instead of chaos. Thanks to our Spons

I Love My Friend, but She’s Draining the Life Out of Me Dec 22, 2025 4142 Happy almost holidays, UA! We are so grateful for each and every one of you 🤍. On today’s episode, we’re talking about what to do when a friendship starts to feel emotionally draining. You love her, you support her—but at what point do you need to protect your own energy? We unpack how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, resentment, or hurting someone you care about. Mel Robbins Podacast: ht

Help! I Think Im the Other Girl Dec 15, 2025 4611 Today's episode is a juicy one! What do you do if you meet someone new and exciting, but suddenly you might be the other girl… or you’re just not sure? We’re helping our girl sort the red flags, break down the signs and confusion, and get real about what happens when instincts and words don’t match. Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try

Not Me Falling for My Bestie…Someone Send Advice Pls! Dec 8, 2025 3967 Happy Monday, UA Fam! We’ve got a very sticky situation this week. Our girl is falling for her best friend. Does she risk the friendship for a shot at love… or keep her feelings under wraps and hope for the best? Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTik

How to Stop People Pleasing During the Holidays Dec 1, 2025 4242 The holidays tend to bring out the best and the most challenging parts of family dynamics. In today's episode, we're talking about how to stop people pleasing during the holidays, especially when you're splitting time between families, navigating tough conversations, and dealing with relatives who forget their filters. Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdvic

Taryne & Ashley Go to Therapy! Nov 24, 2025 3775 Relationship dynamics, self-love, and learning your attachment styles. Today’s episode is all about breaking down how we give and receive love. We talk about relationship mistakes and wins, and how we’ve grown both as friends and in our dating lives. Thanks to our Sponsors: To get a personalized, affordable plan that gets you. ⁠⁠https://forhers.com/ADVICE⁠⁠ Download the free 1-800 Co

Is This Friendship Worth Fighting For? Nov 17, 2025 4454 Friendships ending, relationship drama, and a horrifically embarrassing story we are so back. This week, our writer is trying to navigate the messy truth of maintaining friendships in your 20s. How do you know when it’s time to let go… and when it’s worth holding on? Thanks to our Sponsors: To sign up as a VIP and get 80% off check out https://Fabletics.com/ADVICE Don’t let your mon

Is My Boss Into Me? Nov 10, 2025 3874 Happy Monday, everyone! We really missed the regular stories. It feels good to be back! Today’s episode is a saucy one: we’re diving into workplace crushes 👀 and what it’s like having a player for a brother. How do you keep things professional when sparks start flying at work and how do you set boundaries when your brother keeps ruining your friendships? Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Taryne Got Scammed! Nov 3, 2025 3917 Happy November, everyone! Although we’re sad the October Series is over, we’re so excited to dive back into all things dating, friendship, and whatever other advice you need! Today, Taryne shares the wild story of how she got scammed. And our lovely writer finds herself tangled in an unwanted love triangle. So get comfy, friends, it’s an emotional rollercoaster of an episode! Thanks to our Spon

The Halloween Episode! Oct 31, 2025 4508 Happy Halloween, spooky fam! We’ve saved the creepiest stories for last: haunted woods, toe-licking, and a killer party. We’re definitely not sleeping tonight. Grab your s’mores, a blanket, and probably a few friends; you’re in for a real treat. Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://

A Curse in Disguise & A Face at the Window Oct 27, 2025 4179 Happy Spooky Season, everyone! 🎃 Today's frights will have you double checking your antiques and keeping a wary eye on your parking lot surroundings. From cursed busts and a terrifying mask to a haunted school, Halloween isn’t over just yet! Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/

What’s Haunting Grandma's Doll?! Oct 20, 2025 4174 Gather 'round, all you ghouls! This week, we're diving into creepy dolls, haunted figures, and another spine-chilling rocking chair. You're in for a scary good time full of eerie stories, paranormal chills, and maybe even a ghostly misunderstanding. Don’t miss out! Thanks to our Sponsors: Https://fabletics.com/ADVICE Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdvice

The Ten Foot Tall Entity & A Haunted Rocking Chair Oct 13, 2025 3466 Spirits, entities, ghosts! What was standing in her doorway? And why does the rocking chair in the corner keep moving on its own? In this chilling episode, we dive into eerie encounters with the unseen, from silent figures lurking in empty rooms to haunted houses. You're in for a creepy ride that’ll leave your teeth chattering and your spine tingling. Thanks to our Sponsors: Visit https://f

The Nun in the Halls & The Clown in the Street Oct 6, 2025 3579 October Series is here! Gather 'round as we dive into a chilling tale of a haunted school, creeping nuns, and a clown on the loose. Get ready for goosebumps and a racing heartbeat. Grab your favorite warm beverage, a blanket, and maybe even a friend you’re gonna need it! Thanks to our Sponsors: For 55% off your order + FREE shipping, head to http://nurturelife.com/ADVICE and use code ADVIC

My Best Friend Got Married…AND DIDN’T TELL ME! Sep 29, 2025 3618 Can you imagine being in your best friend’s wedding party… only to find out she went and got married without telling you? Yeah…This week, we’re unpacking the messy feelings and awkward conversations that come with friendship blindsides like this. How do you talk it out? Is the friendship worth saving? Alsooo Spooky season is creeping up, friends! There’s still time to send in your scary stories

My Fiancé Passed Away Two Months After Engagement Sep 22, 2025 4254 Engagements are meant to be a joyful and celebrated time, so what do you do when your fiancé passes away unexpectedly? Grief, therapy, family, and friendship become more important than ever. Today’s episode is a heavy one, friends. We’re here to listen, share, and support the best we can. Thanks to our Sponsors: This Show is Sponsored by BetterHelp, get 10% off your first month at ⁠https://

Your Wildest Dating Stories! with MJ Gray Sep 15, 2025 4977 Guys!! We've got a packed episode for you today, starting with an exciting studio update AND a very special guest: MJ Gray! She's a TikTok icon and dating advice expert. Together, we're diving into your wildest, weirdest, and most cringeworthy dating stories. From ghosting disasters to first dates with a guinea pig... trust us, you do not want to miss it! Thanks to our Sponsors: Quit stalli

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Like My Friends! Now What?! Sep 8, 2025 3959 Happy Monday! This week, we’re diving into what to do when your boyfriend just doesn’t like your friends. Is he being protective, picky, or just toxic? We’re breaking down when his opinion might be valid and when it’s giving red flags. We're talking boundaries, girl code, and how to handle it when you’re stuck in the middle. Thanks to our Sponsors: For 55% off your order + FREE shipping, he

Book Hangovers are Ruining my Life! Sep 1, 2025 3458 Book Tok is taking over!! Have you ever been so engulfed in a book real life just wasn’t cutting it anymore? Well, our writer today is struggling with real life not meeting her book fantasy expectations. We’re diving in with some tips on how to spice up the everyday, and maybe even bring a little fiction level magic into the real world. Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Unsoli

My Bestie Keeps Copying My Wedding! Aug 25, 2025 3876 Hi UA Fam! Today is all about friendship, bestie weddings, and making friends. It’s such a beautiful thing to be engaged at the same time as your best friend… but what happens when she suddenly starts copying all your ideas? How do you confront her without causing drama? Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https:

How Do I Know if I Love Him?! Aug 18, 2025 4010 Happy Monday, UA Fam! Today's episode is all about first loves and boyfriends. In our story, today's writer lands her very first boyfriend and he’s amazing. Like, too good to be true?? But now she’s wondering, is it too soon to say I love you? Should she wait for him to say it first? And how do you even know when it’s real love and not just infatuation? We’re unpacking the wild, confusing, heart-t

How to Not Resent My Best Friend? Aug 11, 2025 4295 A haunting in August... and a love triangle. Yikes. In today’s episode, Ashley shares a chilling story about her stay at a famously haunted hotel (yes, there were lights flickering!). Meanwhile, our writer caught feelings for the wrong guy, who ended up falling for her best friend. So how do you stay close to someone you love when you're quietly hurting? It’s complicated, but we’re here to unpack

Is My Boyfriend Embarrassed of Me?! Aug 4, 2025 4923 Is it a red flag if your partner won’t take you out to dinner? What about not mentioning you to his mom? In today’s episode, we’re breaking down whether these behaviors are actual red flags or not. Our writer wants to know if her boyfriend is hiding her because he’s embarrassed, or if she’s just spiraling. We’re here to decode the signs and help her find the clarity she’s looking for. Follow th

Did Our Babies Ruin Our Friendship? Jul 28, 2025 3902 Navigating adult friendships can be tricky. As you move into different stages of life, priorities change, seasons shift, and your dynamic will change too. Marriage, babies, and distance can all have a huge impact on the friendship you once shared as teens. But learning to define your boundaries and your level of friendship is all part of it. So… can babies really ruin a friendship? Thanks to o

Burnt Out and Needing a Break From School! Jul 21, 2025 4149 School, work, and a social life, juggling it all can feel overwhelming. In today’s episode, our writer is on the brink of burnout. With a new academic program on the horizon and a full-time job already on her plate, she’s asking the tough questions: When is it time to take a break, and what exactly should she take a break from? We’re offering practical first steps for recognizing burnout, setting

Help! My Best Friend Is Ghosting Me Jul 14, 2025 3529 Happy Monday everyone! Today’s episode is full of best friend problems and a toxic situationship. Let’s face it, ghosting is awful, and even more confusing when it’s your bestie. There’s a lot left unsaid, and it leaves you questioning: what happened? Is it me? Is it them? How do I bridge the gap? We’re sharing our perspective on knowing when enough is enough—and how to figure out if the friendshi

My Mother-in-Law’s Obsession With Diet Culture Is Driving Me Crazy! Jul 7, 2025 3371 Diet Culture Is Out! Our lovely writer and her partner are struggling to navigate her future mother-in-law’s constant comments about diets, weight, and other people’s bodies. It’s toxic—and it’s too much. We’re diving into how to set respectful boundaries, preserve family harmony, and gently (but firmly) let her know: this isn’t okay. Thanks to our Sponsors: Start your free online visit tod

I Don’t Recognize My Boyfriend Anymore! Jun 30, 2025 3711 A sudden breakup after four years and a boyfriend caught in a web of lies! In our first story, our writer is left reeling after her partner suddenly breaks up with her... they had just moved in together. “Blindsided” doesn’t even begin to cover it. In our second story, our writer learns that her boyfriend faces disciplinary action at work for lying — but the lies don’t stop there. She’s left quest

How Do I Un-Friend Zone Someone? Jun 23, 2025 3795 We've all been there—having a crush on someone in your friend circle. It's exciting, it's scary, and you never know what's coming next. In today's episode, our writer had a chance to take things to the next level with a close friend but panicked and hit him with the “just friends” line. Now, feelings have shifted, and she wants to know: can you un-friend zone someone after you've put them there? W

How to Confront My Mom Who Thinks I’m Living in Sin Jun 16, 2025 4018 Happy Monday, everyone! On this week’s episode of UA, we’re diving into two big topics: craving male validation even while in a relationship, and how to navigate tough conversations with strict parents—especially when they don’t agree with your decision to live with a partner. We’re discussing how to approach the conversation, set boundaries, and stand firm in your choices as an adult. Follow t

He Has Been Stalking Me for 3 Years Jun 9, 2025 3887 Wedding drama, stalkers, and an accidental kiss?! This episode is full of unexpected twists as one listener shares her story of breaking up with her ex three years ago—only to have him continue stalking her to this day. Even though she's now in a loving and supportive relationship, the fear hasn’t stopped. We dive into what to do if you’re in a similar situation, including how to document incident

He Loves His Job More Than Me! Jun 2, 2025 3702 Happy Monday, UA Fam! Today, we thought it’d be fun to build a Lego Set while we answer your questions—and help out our writer, who feels like her boyfriend is choosing work over their relationship. Let’s talk it out, piece by piece. Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow As

I Accidentally Fell in Love With My Best Friend May 26, 2025 4383 What do you do when you catch feelings for your best friend… who also happens to be your roommate? In this episode, we dive into the messiness of navigating a friendship that's starting to shift, the overthinking that comes with new feelings, and the fear of ruining a good thing. Should she confess her love or wait until the lease is up—just in case the feelings aren't mutual? Follow the Podca

Viva Las Vegas Recap…Remi’s Bachelorette Weekend May 19, 2025 3970 We went to Vegas, baby! Despite a few bumps in the road, unexpected illness, and a slight plane mix-up, we powered through and made unforgettable memories. Huge shout-out to Remi for planning and pulling off the ultimate Vegas bachelorette trip. It was a weekend to remember for sure! Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://bette

How to Get My Flatmate to Fall in Love With Me May 12, 2025 3924 Today's episode is all about love first loves, forever loves, and what happens when you're trying to make someone fall for you. If you met your first love early on, is it okay for that to be your one and only, your forever? In our other story, our girl is crushing hard on her flatmate. The problem? She can barely talk to him. We’re giving her some practical, flirty convo tips to help her break the

She’s a Fiancé! Debriefing Ashley’s Surprise Proposal May 5, 2025 3443 Hey UA Fam! If you’ve been following the podcast for a while, then you probably guessed from the title, that today’s episode is a sweet one. We're sharing all the details of Ash’s proposal, from the weeks and days leading up to how everything came together for the big moment. Thank you for being with us through all of life’s milestones! Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAd

How to Confront a Cheating Boyfriend Apr 28, 2025 3761 How do you move on after betrayal? What do you say when you know something’s off—but they keep gaslighting you? In today’s episode, we’re diving into cheater's and emotional cheating: the signs, the gut feelings, and what to do when you’re ready to confront a partner who may be crossing lines. Whether you’re stuck in the “Is this cheating?” spiral or preparing for that conversation, we’ve got you.

Coachella 2025 Recap Apr 21, 2025 3731 The highs, the lows, and the HEAT—yep, you guessed it, it’s our Coachella recap! From epic music to sore feet, sweaty outfit regrets, and one very dramatic sandwich situation (looking at you, Taryne), we’re spilling everything. It was chaotic, magical, a little dusty—and probably the best weekend of our lives. Let’s break it all down. Thanks to our Sponsors: The juggle is real. Don’t just respond

The Update Episode! Apr 14, 2025 3621 Today's episode is extra special because we're diving deep into some of our juiciest stories with major updates! If you'd like to catch up before we begin, we've listed the previous stories below—don’t worry, no spoilers! PREVIOUS EPISODES: I Am Definitely the Villain in the Story https://bit.ly/3RBjTNW A Girls Is Sending Inappropriate Photos to My BF! https://bit.ly/3DSXDfz My BF Called Me

My Boyfriend's Best Friend Made a Move on Me Apr 7, 2025 4110 Happy Monday, UA Fam! This week’s episode explores the emotional rollercoaster of betrayal after a breakup and the journey of learning how to trust again. In our second story, we dive into the tricky situation when your boyfriend’s best friend of 15 years tries to make a move on you. Oh, and did we mention they all live together? Navigating the tension in the house and having those tough, honest c

My Husband Got a Vasectomy Without Talking to Me First! Mar 31, 2025 3688 Fair warning—today’s stories are heavy. In one, our writer opens up about the struggle of dealing with a parent’s addiction and the difficult question: How do you help someone who doesn’t want help? In the other, our girl is juggling a lot, but things take an unexpected turn when her husband makes a major decision without consulting her. What do you do when you feel completely left out of the conv

I Am Definitely The Villain in This Story Mar 24, 2025 3014 Hi, I'm the Problem, It's Me... In today’s episode, we have a first: our girl admits she is the problem! Navigating a friendship with someone who's confessed their feelings can be tough—especially when you’ve led them on and then moved on to a new man. In another story, our writer has been dreaming about an ex for two years... but here’s the catch: she’s engaged. Thanks to our Sponsors: New play

A Girl Is Sending Inappropriate Photos to My BF! Mar 17, 2025 3141 Happy Monday, UA Fam!! Today, we're going back to the basics with some juicy stories and relationship drama. In our first story, our girl is navigating a FWB situation that’s starting to spark some real feelings... but her guy isn’t on the same page. Then, we dive into setting boundaries around texting – what’s okay and what’s not, like when another girl is sending inappropriate photos to your par

Help!...I Hooked Up With My Best Friend’s Ex and Ruined Everything Mar 10, 2025 4327 This week’s stories are a mess, and we’re here for it! In our first story, we dive into a flirty workplace romance, at least, that’s what she thought until she discovered he had a girlfriend the whole time! In our second story, our writer confesses to hooking up with her best friend's ex. But now that feelings have developed, how does she come clean without risking their friendship? If you'd like

My Boyfriend Called Me Ugly, Why Am I Still Here? Mar 3, 2025 4974 In today's episode, we dive into the tough reality of being in a relationship with someone who resorts to name-calling and psychological manipulation. To our sweet writer, you deserve so much more than this. With some tough love and big sis advice, we're talking about how to move forward with strength and self-love. If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful r

My College Bestie Hooked Up With My Crush...HELP! Feb 24, 2025 4014 Ghosting, crushes, and bestie drama – we’re back and it’s messier than ever, fam! In today’s episode, we’ve got some messy stories. In one story, our girl’s bestie/roommate hooked up with her crush... so how do they move past this? How do they navigate their friendship, let alone live together? And in another story, one of our listeners’ boyfriends ghosted her during the holidays... oh, and they a

The Do's and Don'ts of Breaking Up Feb 17, 2025 3656 Happy Monday, UA Fam! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the juicy details of the Bachelor breakup everyone is talking about! We’re unpacking what went down, how it played out in the public eye, and why it’s important not to let a messy breakup set unhealthy patterns in your own relationships. Cozy up, because we’re serving up some real talk on love, growth, and keeping things positive! Pleas

Leaning Into Valentine’s Day With a Collection of Meet Cutes Feb 10, 2025 3763 Happy Valentine's week, cuties! This year, we decided to read your heartwarming and positive meet-cute stories. We love love and want to share that joy with all of you. Wishing you a day full of love and happiness! Please consider donating to those affected by the Los Angeles Fires: https://supportlafd.kindful.com/ https://give.pasadenahumane.org/give/654134/#!/donation/checkout Thanks to our S

Help! My Best Friend's Boyfriend Is the Worst!! Feb 3, 2025 3620 What do you do when you can’t stand your best friend’s new boyfriend? He’s rude, obnoxious, and seems to be ruining the vibe yet your friend is totally smitten. In this episode, we’re diving into this tricky situation of how to handle, when you don’t like your bestie’s partner. At the end of the day we want you to protect your friendship without letting your friend date someone who’s clearly not r

Help! My Boyfriend’s Mom Hates Me! Jan 27, 2025 4443 In today’s episode, we dive into some serious mamma drama! Our writer is facing major red flags from her boyfriend's mom, and it's starting to affect their relationship. We're diving into how she should approach this sticky situation. If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful resources below. Thank you all for your generosity. https://supportlafd.kindful.com

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