Find Love With Emily
Find Love With Emily is a podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s who are exhausted by dating and wondering why love is so hard to find. It explains how love really happens and the one rule it always follows, cutting through typical dating advice. Each episode breaks down why dating has left many feeling scared that love may not be meant for them. The podcast aims to make dating make sense and help listeners find real, lasting love.
Episodes
Dating Hasn't Worked? Don't Make This Mistake...
If you’ve been dating for years, you’re barely holding onto hope you’ll find love while you still have chance…You’ll know how easily the fear, anxiety, overthinking and need to control comes back whenever dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. It’s a normal human reaction. What matters though is what you do next. In this episode, I explain why these moments don’t mean you’ve gone backwards, why they
How To Break The "3rd Date Curse"
What doesn’t dating EVER lead you to love? To the relationship you’ve always wanted?Why does it always end at date 2 or 3… if that?!If you’re stuck in this cycle, where you keep meeting men who have potential.The first date goes well.The second date feels even better.You get kinda excited! 🥳And then…He pulls away.Says he isn’t looking for anything serious.Ghosts you.Or things simply fizzle out bef
3 Things That Determine Whether (Or Not) You Find Love
I’ve had 1,633 women join Attract Your Man and honestly?Not every woman who joins finds love 🫣I’ve watched 100s of women meet incredible men, engaged, married, become mothers.But this doesn't happen for everyone.And so I’ve spent the last year asking… WHY? It's not because what I teach in AYM doesn’t work.It's not because there’s a lack of the right men.It's not because dating’s changed in a
Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love]
Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:❌ There's something wrong with you❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men ❌ Or t
Finding Love Gets Easier When You Stop Doing This
If the fact that you’re still single (after years of dating!) feels like the biggest problem in your life right now, this episode will tell you what needs to happen for you to actually solve this problem and find love.As you know, dating more, trying harder to be the kind of woman you think men want, overthinking, strategizing, following allllll the dating advice…While it makes logical sense, it d
Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love]
Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:❌ There's something wrong with you❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men ❌ Or t
How To Feel Confident Dating
If dating makes you feel nervous, insecure or you feel the pressure to get things “right” this episode is for you.So often single women over 30 are told to build your confidence dating, simply by dating more.But you’ve been dating for 3+ years, you’ve probably also realized that isn’t actually true!In this episode, I share how you actually build dating confidence and why simply forcing yourself to
Why The Right Men Don’t Notice You [Do This For Love]
Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:❌ There's something wrong with you❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men ❌ Or t
How To Use Dating Apps To Find Love
Dating apps can really suck 😝Especially if you’ve been swiping away for years… and all they’ve got you are men who disappoint you, average dates that go nowhere and conversations that feel like hard work.I get why you’d hate dating apps. I used to feel the same way. But what if they’re not the actual problem?! ...it's how we're using them!?!? 💡There was a point I got to when I was single wher
Finding Love Feels Hopeless? [Do This For Love]
Every week in Do This To Find Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:❌ There's something wrong with you❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men ❌
How To Actually Move On After Heartbreak
Why is it that some women seem to move on from heartbreak in a matter of weeks...While you're still thinking about him months (sometimes even years) later?You're wondering what happened.What you did "wrong".Replaying conversations in your head and what you should've said.Still feeling that ache in your chest every time you think about what could've been 💔Whether you're struggling to move on after
This Week's Love Note: Love Wants You To Do This
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Love Does't Feel Like This
For sure, dating can royally suck 😫It can feel like one long string of disappointment, pain, heartbreak.You get your hopes up.Put yourself out there.Try to say positive.And then you always end up back at “square one”.It can be really easy to think that this is just the way dating is.That finding love is HARD.The struggle is just part of the process.…but what if that isn’t actually true? 🤔 In
“I Have So Much Love To Give… So Why Am I Still Single?”
You know what’s really frustrating when you’re a woman, over 30 and still single??Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, you’re kind and think of others, then good things happen. Then you start dating 🫣And NONE of that seems to matter. You have such a big heart, so much love to give. You’re thoughtful, you’d make an incredible partner, your inten
This Week's Love Note: Stop Letting Dating Decide If You Find Love
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
The Sign You’re Not Doomed To Be Single
When you want love but you’ve been single for years…You’ve tried the apps, taken breaks from dating, worked on yourself, done the healing, listened to even more advice…It can feel like you’re “doomed to be single”.For real 💔😔All you want is to know if love it’s meant for you.If it’s still possible.So you have a reason to keep hoping, to keep going.Often the hardest part of being single, isn’t bein
This Week's Love Note: Your Dating Experiences Aren't Random
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
How To Feel Safe With The Men You’re Dating
Dating can feel scary.Not just because there are men out there who don't have good intentions.But because at some point, you're supposed to trust someone you still don't fully know 🫣Let your guard down.Believe they're who they say they are.And hope you've got it right 🤞What if you miss the red flags?What if you trust the wrong man?What if you end up hurt, blindsided or wishing you'd listened to yo
This Week’s Love Note: Why Dating Feels Harder The Longer You’re Single
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
How To Find Love Without Using Dating Apps
How do you find love when you absolutely hate or just don’t want to use dating apps? When they make you feel judged, exhausted, hopeless or like finding love has somehow turned into one giant meat market??Maybe you deleted and redownloaded the apps 100 times. Maybe you force yourself back on them because you feel like you “should.”Or because you’re scared if you don’t, you’ll never meet your perso
This Week’s Love Note: Sneaky Ways You’re Pushing Away Love
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
You've Been Set Up To Stay Single
It’s not like you haven’t tried… You’ve followed all the dating advice. You’ve tried healing your “anxious attachment”.You’ve been more in your feminine energy. You’ve swiped on the apps.You’ve treated dating like a “numbers game”. You’ve done your best to stay position. You’ve even tried to stop caring. …so WHY THE F🤬 does love still feel so hard to find?!?!These are the BIG question this episode
This Week’s Love Note: Let Love Catch Up
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
“No One Looks At You When You’re 41 And Still Single”
If you’re a single woman in your late 30s, 40s or beyond and it feels less and less likely that love will ever happen for you…This episode is for you.There’s a deep ache that comes with watching time move on while your life feels stuck in the same place...Your friends are married.Having babies.Established lives with their partners.Meanwhile you’re trying your best to hold onto the hope of love, wh
7 Signs You're Single Because You're Not Following Love's One Rule | PART 2
Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love.And every single one points to the same thing…👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens.Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do:Swipe on appsPlay “hard to get”Be less anxiously attachedBeco
This Week's Love Note: The REAL Reason You Feel Unloved
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
7 Signs You’re Single Because You’re Not Following Love’s One Rule | PART 1
Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love. And every single one points to the same thing…👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens.Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do:Swipe on apps Play “hard to get” Be less anxiously attached
This Week’s Love Note: Love Doesn't Happen How You Think
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern)
This is one of the most frustrating dating patterns for single women over 30…You meet a man you actually like...There’s chemistry.You see potential.But it never actually becomes something real 😔He seems into you when you’re together…But when you’re not?It’s no plans.Minimal effort.Just enough to keep you interested.And so without really realizing, you pick up the slack.You reach out.Plan dates.Try
"I Just Want A Man Who Chooses Me"
There’s a very specific kind of pain that many single women over 30 feel…That deep ache, the longing to be chosen by a man you love just as much.You want to know what it feels like to have a man choose you.Easily, naturally, because he wants to.Because he wants you.And when you still don’t have that after years of dating, it can become an ache that never seems to leave.Most women think that the so
This Week’s Love Note: Get Love Moving Towards You
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Why She Gets The Guy And You Don't
There are women who find love easily…And then there’s your experience 💔✔️ You’ve followed all the dating advice.✔️ You’re swiping on apps.✔️ In your “feminine energy”.✔️ Playing hard to get.✔️ Trying really hard.And yet, you’re the one who’s left confused, frustrated and why you’re always the single friend.This episode will take you deeper than any dating advice ever will.Because the reason she ge
This Week's Love Note: When Dating Feels Like the Same Disappointing Story
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Why You Attract The Men Who Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern)
Men who only want sex.Men who run from commitment.Men who don’t care about getting to know you.Men who only want casual. ❌ This isn’t "just how dating is" in 2026. There are still plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who are meeting genuine, kind, loyal men and ending up in committed, loving relationships. If that not your experience and you’re stuck attracting the men who only want
Dating Is NOT How You Find Love
If dating feels exhausting 😔No matter how much you try, nothing ever actually leads to love…This episode is going to hit HARD....because what if the reason it’s so hard for you to find love, isn’t because you haven’t figured out dating yet?What if it’s actually because dating was never the thing that creates love in the first place?!?I know.That probably goes against everything you’ve been told:✔️
This Week's Love Note: For When You Can’t Get Dating “Right”
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
"Is It Too Late To Find Love And Become A Mum?"
If it feels like you’re running out of time to meet the right man and have the baby, family and life you’ve always wanted…This episode will help no end 🙌Because the truth is:That pressure you feel to find love and start a family last, is the very thing stopping it from happening.I know that’s hard to hear, but you already feel this, don’t you?Dating feels hard.Connections feel forced.Nothing click
The Uncomfortable Truth About Following The One Rule Love Does
If dating, finding love feels hard, exhausting and honestly, a bit hopeless right now…I want to gently point something out to you. Without realizing, you’re kinda, actually choosing this. NOT consciously. NOT because you want it. But because it’s familiar 🧸 The same relationships that end in heartbreak. The same types of men. The same conversations that go nowhere. The same feeling of “why do
This Week's Love Note: For When Your Love Life Feels Non-Existent
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Why You Attract The Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern)
Have you ever had this happen?He’s clearly interested in you.The messages are great, flirty, fun.It feels, for sure, like there’s something happening with him.And then suddenly…The messages get colder, shorter, stop coming as frequently.He says he doesn’t want a relationship or anything “serious.”He pulls away 💔And you’re left thinking…WTF??!?!?Inside this episode, I break down exactly why this ha
Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 2
We’re answering the BIG question you have when you’re a woman dating in her 30s, 40s or 50s: “Why am I still single… even thought I’ve done everything right?” This episode gives you that answer.Clearly. Finally!!! In Part 1 of this series (you can catch up on that here) you saw how the way you feel (or your energy) has been shaping your dating experiences and the quality of men you
This Week’s Love Note: For When Dating Makes You Feel Like You’re Not Enough
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Why You Attract The "Boring" Men You’re Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern)
You keep attracting boring men you’re just not attracted too…There’s no chemistry.No spark.No real attraction.Definitely nothing exciting.While the men you actually want, don’t want you back.You might feel the chemistry, the spark, the attraction.But they’re no interested, don’t choose you or aren’t interest in the kind of relationship you want.This isn’t back luck.It’s not because “all the good m
This Week's Love Note: For When You're Exhausted By Dating
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern)
If you’re single woman in your 30s or 40s and feel invisible to men, there’s nothing happening in your dating life, then this episode is for you.It might be months (or even years) of:No matches.No real conversations.Definitely no dates.Just a quiet, empty feeling like love is happening for everyone else, but not for you.Where you’re wondering:Is something wrong with me?Have I missed my chance?Is l
“It’s Getting Harder To Hold Onto Hope I’ll Ever Find Love”
If you’ve been dating for years and still haven’t find love, it naturally becomes harder to hold onto the hope that love will happen for you.It can feel like life and all your dating experiences so far are telling you that your chance of finding love is rapidly diminishing.And as much as you want to hold onto hope, it feels like it just keeps slipping through your fingers.If this how you feel, the
This Week’s Love Note: For When You’re Scared You’ll Never Find Love
Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.
Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern)
There’s nothing more frustrating that continually attracting men who seem interested… and then they slowly pull away, ghost you or tell you they’re not looking for anything serious.The men who will text constantly but never ask you on an actual date.The ones who say you’re great but they aren’t looking for “anything serious”.The 3-month situationships that leave you heartbroken and confused.It can
For When Dating Has You Crying in Your Car
Have you ever finished a date… got in your car and suddenly the tears start flowing?Maybe the date was fine.Maybe he was nice.Maybe nothing even went wrong.But sometimes dating, when you want love so badly… it can all feel like way too much.If you’ve ever had those moments where you’re thinking:Why do I even have to do this?Why does this have to feel so hard?Why does it seem so easy for everyone e
Will This Dating Advice Actually Work? 3 Questions To Ask If You Want Love
There an insane amount of dating advice out there:- Swipe on this dating app- Wait 3 hours to reply to his message- Don’t initiate content- Be in your “feminine energy”- &
Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 1
If you’re a single, self-aware woman over 30 and you’ve worked on your anxious attachment, you’ve swiped on dating apps, tweaked your profile, played” hard to get”…And you still don’t understand why you’re still single.Listen to this episode and in 25 minutes you’ll finally have a clear answer.You don’t need to date more.Be more in your feminine energy.Or play “the game” better.What’s keeping you
There’s Nothing Embarrassing About Wanting Love
Wanting love in when you’re a single woman over 30 can bring a mix of emotions, especially when you’ve been dating for years and it still hasn’t happened for you.It’s common for a feeling of shame or embarrassment to slowly rise up. It can feel silly or way to vulnerable to want love when it seems unlikely that it’ll ever happen for you.And so, you can start to hide your desire for love.You laugh
Finding Love Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Does
If finding love feels heavy, like a lot of pressure and responsibility because you’ve been left to figure it out on your own…You're not alone.For so many self-aware, single women over 30, finding love feels like never ending quest you didn’t ask for.As though love, or the right man is something you have to bust your ass to find.You have to search for.It’s something you have to chase down or get ri
39, Single, And Feel Forgotten? Listen To This
If you’re single in your 30s or 40s and have ever felt left behind, forgotten or like everyone else’s lives have moved forward without you… this episode is a must listen.We’re talking about that pain that shows up when you’re single and:Conversations with your friends don’t quite include you anymoreWeekends are quieterFeeling like you’ve been pushed down the list of priorities of friends you still
“Where Are All the Decent, Available Men?”
If you’ve been dating 5+ years and still haven’t met the right man…It feels like you’re living through a man drought…And dating apps are filled with emotionally unavailable men and hook-ups…This episode will challenge everything you thought about why decent available men feel so hard to find.Because what if the problem isn’t:· That you’re over 30·&nbs
“Maybe Love’s Just Not Meant for Me?”
If you’ve ever had the thought “maybe love’s just not meant for me” this is the episode for you.It’s the heart-breaking assumption so many women make when you’ve spent years dating and you’re exhausted by it all; swiping on dating apps, the false hope, emotional whiplash.…and it feels like letting go of love might actually hurt less than continuing to try.Inside this episode you’ll undeniably see
How To Use This Podcast To Find Love... FAST!
Find Love With Emily isn’t just a podcast where you listen, learn something new and move on.This podcast is here to help you create real change that you want to see in your love life.In this episode, I share how to use this podcast to do exactly that.So that it's not just something you have a nice time listening to, but something that really leads you to love.We talk about:Why waiting for dating t
Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here’s What You’ve Been Missing
Here’s why finding love doesn’t have to be complicated:Inside episode #1 of Find Love With Emily, I introduced you to the one rule love follows.Today, we take it a step further.If dating feels exhausting, confusing or like you’re constantly trying to forcing something to happen, this episode will help you understand why and how love becomes so much simpler to find when you start working with the w
Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right")
You’ve tried the dating apps.You’ve tried to be in your “feminine energy” and heal your anxious attachment.You’ve stay hopeful.And yet… you’re still single.If you’re exhausted, confused and heartbroken by dating, this episode is for you.Inside this first episode of Find Love With Emily, I share the truth about why dating just doesn’t work for so many smart, self-aware women in their 30s and 40s wh
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