That's what she said!
That’s What She Said is a podcast hosted by Mercy John, featuring human-first conversations with people shaping culture, work, and creative life. Each episode explores life beyond careers, the choices we make, the paths we question, and what it really takes to become who you are. This is a space for perspective, not pressure. New episode every month.
Episodes
Amrita Samant on Building Mommy Shots, Finding a Niche & Staying Creative
What does it take to photograph one of the most emotional moments in a family’s life?In this episode of That’s What She Said, Amrita Samant shares the empathy, trust, and heart behind newborn and maternity photography—and why every session is so deeply personal to her.If you’ve ever wondered what happens before the camera comes out, this conversation is for you.#Mommyshotsbyamritasamant #NewbornPh
Kenny Sebastien on Comedy, Burnout, Fatherhood and Finding Joy
In this episode, we talk about comedy, relationships, fatherhood, creativity, burnout, and the strange, beautiful process of figuring life out.A funny, honest, and unexpectedly personal conversation with one of India’s most loved comedians.0:00 - Intro: Welcoming Kenny to the show0:07 - Discussion on beverages: Chai vs. Coffee1:34 - Show kickoff and night shoot setting3:03 - Rapid fire questions10
The Truth about Fitness ft. Raj Ganpath
Co-founder of Quad, founder of the Slow Burn Method, author of Simple Not Easy, Raj Ganpath has spent his entire career cutting through the noise around fitness and nutrition. And in this conversation, he held nothing back.We got into the three industries running your health — and only one of them is on your side. The one nutrition rule that actually matters. Why WHO declared obesity a disease. An
Everything About Gold you were never taught | Ft. Cibi Chakravarthy @TvishiJewellery
Ever looked at your gold jewellery and wondered is this actually real? Is it worth what I paid for it? Am I being cheated?In this episode of That’s What She Said, I sit down with Cibi Chakravarthy, founder of Tvishi Jewellery and a 3rd generation jeweller from the house of Lakshmi Jewellery, Pollachi for one of the most informative conversations I’ve ever had on this podcast.We talk about everyt
The New Generation of Music : A conversation with Sai Abhyankkar
In this episode, we sit down with Sai Abhyankkar to talk about the new generation of music and how the internet is changing the way songs are created and discovered.He shares why there’s no fixed formula for a hit song, and how reels and short-form content are influencing the way music reaches audiences today. He also talks about his creative process and how he imagined Pavazhamalli as a joyful ce
Sid Sriram: From Carnatic Roots to Cinema | Fame, Indie vs Playback & Success
In this episode of That’s What She Said, Sid Sriram gets candid about his journey from learning Carnatic music at the age of three to becoming one of the most distinctive voices in Indian cinema.We talk about his big break, what really happens inside a recording studio, and how he balances improvisation with a composer’s vision. He shares his thoughts on the idea of “global sound,” the growing cur
Finding his voice | Dude director Keerthiswaran on Filmmaking, Journey and Becoming
In this episode, filmmaker Keerthiswaran, director of Dude, joins me for a candid conversation about his journey into cinema. We talk about finding your voice, the realities of filmmaking, collaboration, and what it really means to become a director. A warm, honest chat about stories, process, and becoming.
Leon James gets candid : Underrated songs, Creative Process and Friendships
In this episode, Leon James gets completely candid about his journey from composing to exploring his creative process and the friendships that keep him grounded.A heartful conversation filled with stories, inspiration, and the real side of one of Tamil cinema’s most loved music directors.Tune in, and don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more such honest conversations! 💛
Our Most Candid Chat Yet: Films, Marriage &Audience Qs ft. Niketh Bommi
Finally happened!In this episode of That’s What She Said, I sit down with my husband and cinematographer Niketh for a fun, heartfelt, and totally unfiltered chat! ❤️From behind-the-scenes stories to some honest moments about our life together , this one’s full of laughter, nostalgia, and a few surprises!🎥 Plus, there’s a fun Q&A with questions sent in by you!Don’t forget to like, share & s
Inside the mind of an actor ft. Ashok Selvan
Step into the world of cinema with Ashok Selvan as he opens up about his journey, fears, creative process, and what it truly means to live up to one’s potential. 🎬✨In this episode of That’s What She Said, we dive deep into the mind of an actor from the struggles and self-doubt to the passion and persistence that keep him going. If you’ve ever been curious about the realities behind the screen, thi
Sports, Commentary & Creating Online ft. Ashwath Bobo
In this fun and insightful episode, I sit down with Ashwath Bobo, sports commentator, content creator, and former cricketer. We talk about what it really takes to be behind the mic, how he found his voice in the world of commentary, and why creating online doesn’t have to follow a fixed path.Ashwath shares stories from the field, the commentary box, and the internet plus tips for anyone looking to
The Many Lives of R.Sarathkumar
In this episode of That’s What She Said, Sarathkumar sir opens up about the many roles he has played ,as an actor, politician, and a man who has faced life’s highs and lows with courage and grace.This conversation goes beyond achievements. It’s about resilience, reinvention, and finding meaning in every chapter of life. Sarathkumar sir shares lessons that remind us it’s never too late to evolve, t
Let’s Talk Teeth ft. Dr. Kirubaharan
In this episode, I sit down with one of the most trusted dentists in Chennai, Dr. Kirubaharan, for a fun and super informative conversation around all things dental health. From Invisalign to implants, myths about brushing to how often you really need to visit the dentist, this episode has it all.Whether you've been putting off a dental visit or you're just curious about what goes on behin
Behind the lens of Iconic Indian Films ft Ravi K Chandran
Ravi K Chandran joins me for a candid chat on what really goes into great cinematography. From Dil Chahta Hai to Kannathil Muthamittal, he breaks down his process, the director-DOP dynamic, and why visual storytelling matters more than just pretty frames. A must-listen for film lovers, creatives, and the curious.
Let's talk Skin ft. Dr. Monisha Aravind
Everything You NEED to Know About Skin & Acne | Dr. Monisha Aravind | Armora Skin Solutions.In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Monisha Aravind , Chief Dermatologist and Head of Clinical Services at Armora Skin Solutions to talk all things skin! From acne myths to skincare routines, treatments that actually work, and how to build a routine that suits YOUR skin type, we’ve covered it all. Whet
Love, Friendships and Second Chances ft. Ashwath Marimuthu
Love, Friendships & Second Chances | | Real, Raw, and Unfiltered 💬What happens when three friends sit down and start talking about love, friendships, heartbreak, and giving life (and people) second chances? You get this episode.This isn't your typical interview — no formal questions, no pretense. Just a real, honest, and refreshing catch-up with Ashwath, and for the first time ever, Niketh
What Women want ft. Sanjana Sarathy
Join Sanjana and me in our latest podcast episode as we delve into the age-old question: "What do women really want?" This engaging and interactive discussion is designed for you to take notes and pose these intriguing questions to the women in your life. Don't miss out on this fun and insightful episode!
Inside Tamil Cinema: Archana Kalpathi on Producing Blockbusters & Finding New talents
Had a wonderful conversation with Archana Kalpathi about the art of filmmaking from the hard work behind production to the effort it takes to discover new talent. We also talked about Dragon, the movie that’s making waves at the box office.If you’re curious about what goes into creating a successful film, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.
Music, Life and everything in between ft. Amrit Ramnath
We’ve got the incredibly talented Amrit Ramnath on That’s What She Said! This episode is pure magic. Raw, real, and filled with soul-stirring music. We dive deep into his journey, inspirations, and the stories behind his songs, plus an exclusive, unplugged jam session that you won’t hear anywhere else.If you love music that hits you right in the feels, this one’s for you. Tune in, vibe with us, an
Inside Chennai's food business ft. Sandesh Reddy
Join us as we sit down with chef and food entrepreneur Sandesh Reddy to uncover the real story behind Chennai’s food business. From the secrets of menu design to why some restaurants fall short of delivering value for money, we cover it all. Plus, Sandesh shares expert advice for aspiring restaurateurs. A must-watch for food lovers and industry enthusiasts alike!
Finding your inner voice ft. Abhay Jodhpurkar
In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend and incredible singer Abhay Jodhpurkar to talk about discovering your inner voice and nurturing the hidden talents we all have growing up.
We dive into Abhay’s journey—how he found his calling, his debut with the legendary A.R. Rahman, and the unforgettable experience of singing for Shah Rukh Khan. 💫
Plus, don’t miss the fun game at the end! Tune i
Real Estate in Chennai: Trends, Tips, and Insights You Can't Miss ft. Shiva Reddy
In this episode, we sit down with the Vice President of Hanu Reddy Realty to explore the dynamic world of real estate in Chennai. From expert tips and valuable insights to in-depth discussions about the current market trends, this conversation is packed with knowledge for anyone interested in real estate. It was an incredible learning experience for me, and I hope it will be just as insightful for
Retaining Individual Identities in a Relationship ft. Mathivanan Rajendran
Excited to share this heartfelt episode featuring my dear friend Mathi! We dive into the importance of retaining individual identities in relationships and how small habits can make a big difference. It truly felt like a cozy chat on the couch with a friend rather than a formal podcast. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did! 💬❤️ #Podcast #Relationships #Friendship #Individuality
Genz vs Millenial : Beyond the Stereotypes ft. Sameeha Mariam
Welcome back to Season 2 of "That's What She Said"! 🎉We’re kicking off the new season with an exciting conversation featuring Sameeha! In this episode, we dive deep into the Gen Z vs. Millennial debate, but this time we’re going beyond the usual stereotypes.
We even learn some new words along the way. You won’t want to miss it!Huge thanks to everyone who supported us through Season
The Dark side of Food on Social media : What You Need to Know ft. Krish Ashok
Krish Ashok and I delve into the dark side of food on social media. We uncover the hidden truths and debunk some of the most pervasive myths that many of us believe. I personally learned so much, and I hope you will too
The Ultimate Break up recovery guide ft.Shravan Sridhar
Shravan and I spoke about something we’ve all been through: "BREAKUPS". We’ve put together a guide to help you navigate through these tough times because, trust us, we’ve been there too. We’ve got some fun games and a word of the day at the end. Share your worst breakup stories in the comments—we're all in this together. Don’t forget to like, subscribe to this podcast.
Maintaining Individual identities in relationships ft. Manjima Mohan
In this episode, we chat about how to keep your own identity in a relationship while still being there for your partner. We also dive into the balance of being competitive yet supportive. Also, we had a blast playing "Love or Hate" with Manjima. It was a super genuine and fun conversation. Check it out!
Food and Mood ft. Dr. Santhosh Jacob
Get ready for an epic chat with Dr. Santhosh Jacob as we dive into the fascinating world of food and mood! 🍽️
From uncovering myths to revealing facts, this segment will blow your mind! Also, stay tuned for the word of the day that'll leave you feeling smarter than ever! 📚 Let's turn up the fun and knowledge together!
Unconventional Date ideas - A guide ft. Zoha Sanofer
Get ready for a breath of fresh air with our unconventional date ideas! 🌟 Zoha and I are shaking things up on this month's episode of 'That's What She Said' - Watch the full episode to get to know some fun date ideas that might come handy when you need the most.
Managing Finances in a relationship ft.KK
Get ready for a raw and real conversation on managing finances in relationships with KK. 🎙️ Our upcoming podcast episode is not about budgets or investments; it's a genuine exploration that might just shift your perspective. No overwhelming finance jargon, just a comforting reminder that you're not alone. #FinanceTalks #RelationshipMoney #PerspectiveShift"
Discussing Social Media ft. Nirmal and Abishek
In this episode, we delve into the intricate dynamics of social media, exploring its evolution from the inaugural Instagram post to the nuances of sharing personal content. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation as we unravel the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of this digital realm. Brace yourself for insights that go beyond the surface. Multiple words of the day await you in this fun yet
Why Men express emotions differently? Ft.Arjun Manohar
Join Mercy and Arjun as they dive into why men express emotions differently and share personal stories that showcase the power of vulnerability. Join them for an inspiring conversation that celebrates authenticity and encourages everyone to embrace their feelings openly. Tune in for real talk and honest insights!
Red flags in a relationship ft. Gayathrie Shankar
Join Mercy John and the incredible Gayathrie Shankar as they delve into the intricate world of relationships red flags. In this episode, both of them share personal experiences and stories that shed light on warning signs to watch out for in a relationship. Tune in for a raw, honest conversation that might just change how you view your own relationships.
Green flags in a relationship ft. Vikkals Vikram
Welcome to a fun-filled episode of Mercy & Vikkals! Host Mercy John and stand-up comedian Vikkals Vikram chat about the green flags in a relationship on this episode! They've got games to spice it up and, of course, Mercy's got her gyaan ready. Tune in for laughter, love, and good vibes!
What’s the love advice you’d give to your younger self? Ft.Niketh Bommi
On this episode, RJ Mercy gets on a discussion with her husband about the love advice they would give to their younger self. Don’t miss Niketh’s gyaan on this.
MARRIED!!!! Got something to tell y’all. Wanna listen?
On this episode, RJ Mercy talks about the benefits of getting married in your 30s.
Myths and Facts!
On this episode, RJ Mercy is busting 5 myths around the LGBTQIA++ community. Wait for the word in the end! Celebrating Pride all month long on “That’s what she said”
Coming out, Coming forward!
Celebrating Pride month on “That’s what she said” all month long. Catch Madhan share his story of coming out and coming forward. Don’t miss the word in the end.
Watch out for Sliding Door Moments!!
On this episode, RJ Mercy explains what are sliding door moments and how to build trust in your relationship over time.
Are “you” the toxic one in the relationship?
Have you ever wondered when a relationship ends, if you were the toxic one and not otherwise? If you haven’t, well it’s time for interrogation. On this episode, RJ Mercy talks about the toxic signs you need to look out for in a relationship.
Are “Labels” really important in a relationship?
In relationships, labels are not lame, they just save time. Also, there’s a big news in the starting of the podcast! Don’t miss it!
Stop saying this to your single friends!
On this episode, RJ Mercy talks about the things you should probably stop saying to your single friends. Also, watch out for Mercy’s Gyaan!
Why Sorry isn't Enough?
On this episode of "That's what she said", RJ Mercy talks about the three steps to mindful apology.
Which box is your Relationship in?
On this episode of "That's what she said" find out what each of the boxes mean and how it may impact your relationship.
The Big 3-0
Turning 30 has always been and will be big in my head. Talking about the things the last decade taught me about life on this episode.
Is Love enough?
Is Love alone enough to sustain a relationship? Also, look out for an interesting case study on today's episode.
#couplegoals What's that?
Find out why setting couple goals is important for a healthy relationship. Also, look out for Mercy's Gyaan!
How to plan a date?
Quick quide on how to plan a date. Look out for the new term in the end. This time it's not a dating term. *wink wink*
5 dating terms you must know!
RJ Mercy talks about millenial dating terms to help get you up to speed. Watch out for Mercy's gyaan.
Gaslighting, Part -1
RJ Mercy talks about the signs you're being gaslit and why Gaslighting happens.
What women think men want in a relationship?
RJ Mercy talks to women about what they think men want in a relationship. Also, wait for the magic word in the end? ;)
What men think women want in a relationship?
People say it's difficult to understand what a woman wants from her man. RJ Mercy talks to men about what they think women want in a relationship.
How to long distance like a Pro?
Long distance relationships are never easy and it requires a lot of effort. On this episode, RJ Mercy talks about how to long distance like a Pro. Also, Mercy's gyaan is back!
How I've been coping with grief and loss?
There is no right or wrong way to grieve, but there are healthy ways to deal with the grieving process. These tips can help. Reach out to me @rjmercyjohn on Instagram.
Papa John ❤️
There's an aura of invincibility when we look at our parents. They'll always be there, always watching but one moment changes your beliefs in an instant.
This episode is for my father, it's for grief, it's for the happy and for the sad, it's for love.
RIP Papa John, you may have had a bigger feet but you've left mighty fine shoes to fill.
Do you break up with the pictures of old relationships? Featuring Abishek Raaja aka Cinemapayyan.
We see it all the time "You have memories with *ex* today." They serve as a constant reminder of what once was. The question is, once your relationship ends, do the photos disappear too? In a time of sanitizing, have you sanitized your memories? Joined by a special guest we navigate through whether you should delete the pictures with your ex, or just keep the ones you look cute in!
How to strike a conversation?
An episode on how to strike a conversation and a list of great conversation starters that you can use. Watch out for Mercy's Gyaan!
Is it possible to find love on dating apps??
On this episode, we talk about the success stories on popular dating apps. Watch out for quick three tips to nail it on a dating app! And of course Mercy's Gyaan is back!!!
Thank you, 2020!
Let's face it, 2020 has not been the best. But, maybe we've been focusing on the bad, and that's a red flag! Let's give 2020 a chance to show us why it's been good! An episode of Gratitude with messages that remind you, to be thankful.
Who was your first crush?
An episode full of firsts! Your first crush is unforgettable, someone that travels with you through life even if they aren't around anymore. We're going back to the time we first felt those butterflies with some warm, cozy and cute stories from some special people :)
Top 5 dating advice you need right now!
Years of heart breaks, love and lessons went into this. What would you add to this list?
Honest advice you'd give to yourself when you're in a shitty relationship!
We've all been there! Haven't we? It's time for introspection! Let's dive in deep :)
Defining moments in a relationship!
In every relationship, there are milestones that a couple can recall vividly, moments that give both people involved warm fuzzies. Let's dive in deep! Also, look out for Mercy's Gyaan! 😁
5 essentials to having a healthy relationship!
Falling in love is fancy, but staying in love is all about commitment. Both are incredibly beautiful. While falling in love is uncontrollable, staying in love demands immense efforts. Keeping your love life healthy is paramount. Let's talk about the 5 essentials in having a healthy relationship in this episode :)
Red flags - Part 2
Red flags continued in this episode. Watch out for ' Mercy's Gyaan' !
Red flags in a relationship Part -1
Relationships are supposed to enhance your life, so sometimes it can be hard to acknowledge that you're actually in one that does quite the opposite.It's not easy to objectively analyse your own situation, but it's important to watch out for some telltale signs that you're ignoring some red flags in a relationship. No relationship is perfect, but if there are a number of alarming flaws in your par
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