Gentlemanly
Gentlemanly is a podcast for men focused on seduction, style, masculine presence, and power. Hosted by author and mentor Troy Francis, it offers sharp insights and real stories without pickup fluff or manosphere rage. The show aims to help men cultivate presence and confidence in a bold, mythic style.
Episodes
Love is a losing game
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You’re Not Losing to Better Men — You’re Losing to Faster Men
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The mistakes we see our clients make repeatedly that make women lose interest immediately
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The Dating Collapse: 7 Brutal Reasons Most Men Have No Chance in 2026
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10 Things Men Do Instead of Just Talking to Women!
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The Brutal Truth About Dating Apps (Its Worse Than You Think)
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You're Not Bad With Women...You're Just In The Wrong Environment
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10 Signs She’s Cheating (Before It Actually Happens)
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We Made a Client Approach 100 Women (This Is What We Learned)
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The Brutal Truth About Men Who Never Learn Game
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How Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom is Killing your Dating Life
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The Moment Most Men Freeze When They See a Beautiful Woman
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The One-Woman Myth That Ruins Lives: Desperate Guys Believing in ‘The One’
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The Brutal Truth About Female Dating Behaviour
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Women Confirm the 80/20 Rule: Only Elite Men Make the Cut – The Rest? Forgotten
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More Red Flag Stories....
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The CRAZIEST Red Flags We Ignored… And The Chaos That Followed
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We Made a Client Approach 100 Women (This Is What We Learned)
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The Brutal Truth About Men Who Never Learn Game
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How Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom is Killing your Dating Life
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The Moment Most Men Freeze When They See a Beautiful Woman
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The One-Woman Myth That Ruins Lives: Desperate Guys Believing in ‘The One’
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MODERN DATING is in a DARK place!
My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now. If you want to take action, go to the link in my bio / email me troy@realtroyfrancis.com.We also have spots on our Rio Carnival bootcamp 13th - 21st Feb. Drop me an email at troy@realtroyfrancis.com to apply. Include your WhatsApp details for both.
'THERE'S NOWHERE TO HIDE!' — The Hellscape of Modern Relationships EXPOSED!
My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now.We also have spots on our Rio Carnival bootcamp 13th - 21st Feb.Drop me an email at troy@realtroyfrancis.com to apply.Include your WhatsApp details for both.
The moment you stop reacting, everything changes
My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now. If you want to take action, go to the link in my bio / email me troy@realtroyfrancis.comWe also have spots on our Rio Carnival bootcamp 13th - 21st Feb. Drop me an email at troy@realtroyfrancis.com to apply. Include your WhatsApp details for both.
What dating coaches get wrong about modern dating
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The Men Who Don't Believe This Lie Win!
My course APPROACH ACCELERATOR with James Tusk and Les Ganso is open for new students now. If you want to take action, go to the link in my bio We also have spots on our Rio Carnival bootcamp 13th - 21st Feb. Drop me an email at troy@realtroyfrancis.com to apply. Include your WhatsApp details.
She Left You? Good. That’s When Your Real Power Begins.
LONDON COACHING 6-7th DEC 2025Quick reminder — my Winter Gentlemanly Intensive Bootcamp runs in London, Dec 6–7, and there are only 2 places total.This is the only live coaching I’m doing in London this year — a one-off, seasonal event to sharpen your skills before Christmas.If you’re tired of the apps and want to meet women in real life with confidence and style, this is for you.You’ll get:- 4 ho
Why Women Chase Men Who Stay Mysterious (It’s Science AND Power)
🔥 EXTENDED SALE — ENDS SUNDAY MIDNIGHT (UK) 🔥Due to extreme demand, I’m extending access to my most powerful dating & charisma programs for a few more days.This is the last chance to get 20+ years of hard-won, real-world knowledge — at a fraction of the usual price.⚡ Renegade Dating Blueprint — 11 books, £29⚡ Dating Conversation Success — £497 → £197⚡ Charisma & Dating Academy — £500 → £19
The moment you need her, you lose her
🔥 EXTENDED SALE — ENDS SUNDAY MIDNIGHT (UK) 🔥Due to extreme demand, I’m extending access to my most powerful dating & charisma programs for a few more days.This is the last chance to get 20+ years of hard-won, real-world knowledge — at a fraction of the usual price.⚡ Renegade Dating Blueprint — 11 books, £29⚡ Dating Conversation Success — £497 → £197⚡ Charisma & Dating Academy — £500 → £19
She Can Sense When You Don’t Respect Yourself 😬
🎃 HALLOWEEN SALE — 5 DAYS ONLY 🎃The masks are off. For five days, I’m slashing prices on the most powerful dating & charisma programs I’ve ever created.This isn’t “pick-up fluff.” It’s 20+ years of brutal, field-tested reality — the tools to walk into any room and own it.⚡ Renegade Dating Blueprint — 11 books, £29⚡ Dating Conversation Success (video course, real-life examples) — £497 → £197⚡ C
She Doesn’t Want Stability — She Wants to Feel Alive
🎃 HALLOWEEN SALE — 5 DAYS ONLY 🎃The masks are off. For five days, I’m slashing prices on the most powerful dating & charisma programs I’ve ever created.This isn’t “pick-up fluff.” It’s 20+ years of brutal, field-tested reality — the tools to walk into any room and own it.⚡ Renegade Dating Blueprint — 11 books, £29⚡ Dating Conversation Success (video course, real-life examples) — £497 → £197⚡ C
She Can Feel When You Want Her Too Much 😬
🎃 HALLOWEEN SALE — 5 DAYS ONLY 🎃The masks are off. For five days, I’m slashing prices on the most powerful dating & charisma programs I’ve ever created.This isn’t “pick-up fluff.” It’s 20+ years of brutal, field-tested reality — the tools to walk into any room and own it.⚡ Renegade Dating Blueprint — 11 books, £29⚡ Dating Conversation Success (video course, real-life examples) — £497 → £197⚡ C
Women want the man who couldn't care less
If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov), then email me at troy@realtroyfrancis.comInclude your WhatsApp details so we can jump on a call to see if you’re a good fit.Places strictly limited.
Rules Are Made To Be Broken (Especially the boring ones...)
If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov), then email me at troy@realtroyfrancis.comInclude your WhatsApp details so we can jump on a call to see if you're a good fit. Places strictly limited.
If she wasn't beautiful, would you still want her in your life?
If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov), then email me at troy@realtroyfrancis.comInclude your WhatsApp details so we can jump on a call to see if you're a good fit. Places strictly limited.
Burn Your Old Life To The Ground
If you would like to apply to join me and James Tusk & Les for coaching in Mexico City over the Day of the Dead celebrations (29th Oct - 3rd Nov), then email me at troy@realtroyfrancis.comInclude your WhatsApp details so we can jump on a call to see if you're a good fit. Places strictly limited.
Why The Herd Fails With Women [Individuality is an Aphrodisiac]
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No Half Measures: If Your Dating Life Is Stuck You Need to Change EVERYTHING!
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Change your entire dating life this Halloween
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Why A Sense of Danger Is The Sexiest Currency
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Creating an incredible life requires a capacity for DESTRUCTION!
For dating and life...For all enquiries (coaching and otherwise) email me: troy@realtroyfrancis.com
Stop Worshipping Leaders: Become The Man Others Follow!
Stop Worshipping Leaders: Become The Man Others Follow!
Why Comfortable, 'Nice' Men Always LOSE!
Why Comfortable, 'Nice' Men Always LOSE!
Your Appetite For Risk Is EVERYTHING In Modern Dating
Your Appetite For Risk Is EVERYTHING In Modern Dating
Break Free From The Herd — Or Be Crushed By It!
Break Free From The Herd — Or Be Crushed By It!
Do Whatever It Takes — Or Stay Mediocre Forever
Do Whatever It Takes — Or Stay Mediocre Forever
Comfort is Killing You — And Your Dating Life
Comfort is Killing You — And Your Dating Life
If You Don't Reinvent Yourself, You're Finished (In Dating AND In Life)
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Desire is Destiny — Why Wanting Hard Enough Breaks Every Wall
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High-End Places Are Your Secret Weapon — Here's Why...
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Death is waiting - you have to live for the now!
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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT! Does Wearing A Tie In Public Affect How People Treat You?
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Your Dating Life Is NOT a Competition
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Dating Skills Are All About Subtext - What Happens Under the Surface
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You NEED Social Awareness - Here's How You Get It
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How to SILENCE Your Inner Critic
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Longing is the most Potent Emotion of All
Longing is the most Potent Emotion of All
Is Intelligence Sexy?
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How To Deal With Not Feeling Good Enough
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The Reinvention of Self (Gentlemanly S2. Ep. 4)
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Building a Life Women Want To Step Into (Gentlemanly S.2, Ep.3)
Building a Life Women Want To Step Into (Gentlemanly S.2, Ep.3)To get in touch, email: troy@realtroyfrancis.com
How to have a strong internal narrative
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Libido and Ageing
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20 Rules for Surviving Yourself (A Letter from the Abyss) - GENTLEMANLY Season Two, Episode One
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You Can’t Charm Anyone If You Secretly Hate Yourself
Inner peace isn't just wellness fluff—it's the foundation of confidence. But you’ll still need social skills and a well-tailored jacket. This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on
High-achieving Man With No Time to Talk to Women? Bullsh*t. You’re Just Scared
A lot of men we work with CLAIM that they have no time to talk to women during their day since they are too consumed with their careers. While there can be a veneer of truth to this, the reality in many cases is that they are making excuses. Why? Because they're scared. This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a wor
STOP the 'Talking Phase' – She’s Already Losing Interest (DATING ADVICE)
Let's face it, the 'talking phase' is a waste of time for everyoneThis is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcas
Is Modern Dating Now Completely TRANSACTIONAL?
This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-franc
What are you doing this for anyway? (You need a strong 'why' to succeed)
This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-franc
The Art of SELF DELUSION! is literally magic
The art of self-delusion
How Important to Women Is What You Wear?
Few things are more important in life than love, death and good tailoring. This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 App
Modern Dating Is Broken—And I Should Know. I Teach This Stuff….
Swipe culture is eating intimacy alive—and I’ve lived through it.
Most Dating Advice Will RUIN You!
This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-franc
The Curse of the Self-Improved Man
He fixed his body, read the books, did the work — and she still chose the bartender with a cigarette and a crooked smile.This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:
Romance Is a Luxury for the Ruthless
Sentiment is wasted on the passive. Only those willing to risk everything get the real thing.This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotif
The DECADENT City of Sin - BOGOTA, COLOMBIA
This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.c
The Art of Strategic Withdrawal (In Relationships, Business and Life)
This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-franc
Is STOICISM a tired self-help cliche or something you MUST incorporate into your life?
This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-franc
It's not what you SAY, it's the POWER and PRESENCE behind it . . .
In today's world, effective communication goes beyond words. It's about the energy you project and the presence you command. This episode delves into how your non-verbal cues, confidence, and authenticity can significantly influence your social interactions. Discover the subtle art of making impactful connections through genuine presence and energy.🎧 Tune in now and elevate your social skills to
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