Mind Of A Boyfriend
The Mind Of A Boyfriend is a podcast that offers unfiltered perspectives and hard-to-swallow conversations about relationships and the nuances driving them. Hosted by Q (Kyu.), Lance, and Bobby (King), the show presents unapologetic views from the viewpoint of a boyfriend. It aims to explore the complexities of romantic dynamics with honesty and directness.
Episodes
The Tea 35 - Moved in with female bestie + Lindsay Clancy case + Not getting caught is the new respect
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about this week's tea : Moved in with female bestie + The Lindsay Clancy case + Not getting caught is the new respect.Join the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 34 - Chatgpt Relationships + Indrive Drivers + New Era of MOAB
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about this week's tea : Tones of catchup tea, new month and announcements ,Relationships in the AI era and foreplay, Indrive Drivers and how the game is changing... and mega news for MOABJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 33 - Signs of a cheating partner + Garden of House
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about this week's tea : Signs of a cheating partner, Man feet, and Garden of HouseSend your tea here :https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 32 - We broke up but he owes me money + Blueticked out of a relationship
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about this week's tea : Finances in a relationship, business money, testing partners in relationships and lies that break people.Send your tea here :https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 31 - Lobola Refund + things we can't type
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about this week's tea : Lobola refund and lobola in different cultures, expectations and what happens after the deed really. And a whole lot of randomnessSend your tea here :https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 30 - If you get her pregnant does it mean you should marry her ?
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about this week's tea : a Girlfriend that doesn't want to be touched and pregnant side getting married and a whole of hypotheticals.https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 29 - A whole lot of randomness
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about everything they saw the past week, controversial stories and more random things.https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 28- Jonasi , Exs and Husbands
In this episode Kyu, and Lance talk about this week's tea : The polygamist by netflix's Jonasi , Exs and Husbands. And a lot in between. Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoab Join the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 27 -Taking pictures of food on the first date and How we met
In this episode Kyu, Bobby and Lance talk about this week's tea : Taking pictures of food on the first date and How we met more entries from the channel.Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 26 - My girlfriend's boyfriend does more than me + Relationship Olympics
In this episode Kyu, Bobby and Lance talk about this week's tea : My girlfriend's boyfriend does more than me, Relationship Olympics , The world cup and South Africa state of affairs and more entries from the channel. Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoab Join the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 25 - Financial clock vs Biological clock +Talking to exes
In this episode Kyu and Bobby talk about this week's tea : Men's Financial clocks vs women's Biological clock ,Talking to exes and emotional cheatingDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 24 - Open relationship and wanting a controlling man
In this episode Kyu and Bobby talk about this week's tea : The misconceptions of contraceptives, open relationship request from a boyfriend and the real implications of a controlling man ( fantasy versus reality).Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea : BONUS : Because Yaya said so
Bonus episodeDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 23 - Girls who drink + Pastors and Distant relatives
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : Girls who drink , pastors and Distant relativesDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 23 - ZITF + "Lawyers with Connections"
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea :The ZITF week 2026, random things that happened during the week and social commentary.Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 22 - I'm pregnant , it's a married man's and he is broke + I'm not over my ex
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : Pregnant for a married broke man, wasted sin really , dating my friend's brother and angry she tries to sabotage it and comparing current with ex. And a lot of commentary.Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 21 - Family Affairs + Kombochu
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : We talk about all the tea related to family affairs and the most messed relationship based confessions.Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 20 - Worst Heartbreak stories + Abortion debate
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : We talk about the worst heartbreak stories and give our most unfiltered reactions, and in between we have a candid debate about abortion.Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 19 - Pre Nut Delusion and Dirty Boyfriends with Musa Steezy
In this episode Lance, and Kyu are joined by Musa Steezy and talk about this week's tea and some wild relationship commentary: A dirty boyfriend, prenut clarity, expectations in relationships on husband and wife dutiesDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 18 - Dont feel pity for me because I'm pregnant + Ghosted by a friend and cried
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : Dont feel pity for me because Im pregnant + Ghosted by a friend and criedDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 17 - Mind of a Girlfriend week +3rd wheel friend makes me insecure
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : Mind of a girlfriend week + Keeping third wheel friends who make you insecure + moreDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 16 - I had sex with my friend's girlfriend + My boyfriend wants to impregnate me
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu talk about this week's tea : I had sex with my friend's girlfriend + My boyfriend wants to impregnate meDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabJoin the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 15 - Post Valentine's Clarity + Paying Subscription for love
In this episode Lance, Bobby and Kyu do a post-nust clarity review but for Valentines, what it means to people, if it matters and how some people are probably buying love : Post Valentine's Clarity + Paying Subscription for loveDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06&n
The Tea 14 - Jealous Boyfriend vs Asking for money from Baby daddy's family x As Told By Us
In this episode we are joined by Chido from As Told by Us as we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Jealous Boyfriend vs Asking for money from Baby daddy's family x As Told By UsDrop yours here :https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 13 - Engaged and dating 51 year old from tinder but now wants his son + Got dumped 4 times for the same reason + Tones of commentary
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Engaged and dating 51 year old from tinder but now wants his son + Got dumped 4 times for the same reason + Tones of commentaryDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 12 - Once pinned a pregnancy on the wrong guy + Over possessive bestie + He loves only me
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week :Once pinned a pregnancy on the wrong guy + Over possessive bestie + He loves only me Drop yours here :https://ngl.link/theteaxmoabFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06 Chapters(00:02:04) Introduction(00:04:33) Cup 01(00:16:48 ) Cup 02(00:27:25 ) C
The Tea 11 - Baby daddy sends $10 after 3 months + S3xted for 4 hours then ghosted
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Baby daddy sends $10 after 3 months + S3xted for 4 hours then ghostedDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 10 - Dated 3 brothers + Stalked by a married man
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Dated 3 brothers + Stalked by a married manDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 09 - Am I wrong for dating my ex's little sister + My girl got the job I was also applying for
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Am I wrong for dating my ex's little sister + My girl got the job I was also applying for.Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06 Chapters(00:00:00) Introduction(00:03:49) Cup 01(00:09:40) Cup 02(0
The Tea 08 - He posts on WhatsApp statuses but doesn't respond to my texts + I'm in a situationship with my brothers friend
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : He posts on WhatsApp statuses but doesn't respond to my texts + I'm in a situationship with my brothers friendDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06 Chapters(00:00:00) Introduction(00:02:48) Cup 0
The Tea 07 - 30 year old Sugar mama + Rebound to get over my bestie
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : 30 year old Sugar mama + Rebound to get over my bestieDrop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 06 - Tinder threesome with his wife + He thinks I was never a virgin when I met him + Her colleague sent me nudes
In this episode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Tinder threesome with his wife + He thinks I was never a virgin when I met him + Her colleague sent me nudes Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
The Tea 05 - She's 6 years older + I can't stop cheating on him + My granddad has 27 grandkids
In this episdode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : She's 6 years older + I can't stop cheating on him + My granddad has 27 grandkids Drop yours here : https://ngl.link/mindofaboyfriendFollow the Mind of a Boyfriend channel on WhatsApp:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
Ep 24 - Catch up + The Tea + Your name might be mentioned here + What's coming next
In this episode , Q (kyu.) and King do a quick catch up on what has been happening , new segments and the tea. This episode also serves as an appreciation episode for everyone who has helped in growing the platform and the commumity.Drop your Confessions, Stories and questions here https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9(00:00:00) Introduction(00:02:51) Random Tea(00:10:48) Shout Outs ( Check your nam
Ep 23 - Losing yourself in a relationship
In this episode we talk about losing yourself in a relationship, the signs and nuances of it all. Can you related? Drop your Confessions, Stories and questions here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9(00:00:00) Introduction(00:06:00) The Full discussion
The Tea 04 - Dead Bedroom And Love + Am I a prostitute ? + Exes with benefits
In this episdode we sip on the stories you gave us this week : Dead Bedroom And Love + Am I a prostitute ? + Exes with benefits ( A midnight affair)Drop your Confessions, Stories and questions here :Drop yours here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9(00:00:00) Introduction(00:01:35) Dead Bedroom(00:09:35) A Midnight affair(00:19:06) Am I a prostitude ?
The Tea 03 - Side Chick paid for my main GF's birthday + Cousin with benefits ?
In this episode we get the juiciest tea, we tried to be professional but we're not that strong.Drop your stories, burning questions and confessions in the link below :https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9
The Tea 02 - Condoms should be super glued to men + The hypocrite
This week's tea is just too hot. Listen and don't forget to share. Drop yours here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9Chapters :00:00:00-Introduction00:03:52-Cup 0100:10:14-Cup 0200:15:30-Cup 03 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Ep 22 - Unspoken + Spoken things you can never do if you're a relationship
In this episode we talk about unspoken and spoken things you can never do if you're in a relationship. We get overly comfortable sometimes in relationship and ignore some of these.Whatsapp channel link :https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06Drop your stories here :https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9Thank you for listening to our show. If you like what you're hearing, make sure to ra
Ep 21 - Raine + Dating & Expectations + Where Men Go Wrong
In the episode we talk about dating, expectations and where men go wrong with Raine. The first episode diving into the mind of a girlfriend.
The Tea : Pilot - Trust issues because he cheats with me + Salt
Introducing The Tea, a segment dedicated to confessions, hot sips of unfiltered stories and the juiciest bits from you. Drop yours here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9
Ep 20 - Is Love enough ? + Breadcrumbing
In this episode we ponder the question ' Is love enough ?' , (okay ponder sounds serious but you get it). We also talk about the ingredients of love/a relationship and make references to EP 12 & 13. Drop your comments.Whatsapp channel link :https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06Drop your stories here :https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9
Ep 19 - Loyalty tests , Phone Access + Long Distance
In the episode we talk about loyalty tests and whether they are confidence or insecurity, phone privacy in a relationship and long distance relationships ( a little)Whatsapp channel link :https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06Drop your stories here :https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9(00:00:00) Introduction(00:03:58) Phone Access(00:15:18) Long Distance and Loyalty
Ep 18 - The Dark Side of Male Friendships
The dark side of Male friendships. Past the bromance , do men build or break each other. Why do old women have more friends than old men ?? Are women better at this friendship thing.Whatsapp channel link :https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06Drop your stories here :https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9
Ep 17 - Bulawayo is One Big Bedroom, Sneaky Links and Sides
In this episode we talk about Sneaky links, sides and whatever titles fall in between. And yes, Bulawayo is one gigantic bedroom if you think about it.Send your stories/ confessions and catch our new segment 'The Tea' here :https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnhtf9
Ep 16 - The PAST matters,carrying trauma and dating baby mamas
In this episode we talk about how the PAST matters in a relationship and the relationship baggage it brings. We also talk about residual trauma from past relationships, and dating baby mamas.Join the WhatsApp Channelhttps://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
Ep 15 - Bring back bullying, sort of , Depression + Unlearning
In this episode we get into the things that shape us and we talk about bullying and it's impact ( weirdly enough some of it's positive side effects). How it manifests in relationships and things related to it. We also talk about depression, male support systems and lack there of.Join the WhatsApp Channel for updates: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
Ep 14 - Season 2 Pilot + New Things + Sex talk because why not
Season two of the Mind of a boyfriend !!! We are back and it's befitting to talk about sex. We talk about practicality of celibacy, double standards and all the New things the season has to offer. Join the WhatsApp Channel for updates: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va8scN0J93wcMIuiLy06
Ep 13- It's YOU, not me - Valid reasons to break up pt 2
In this episode , we dive into the difficult but important topic of navigating the end of a relationship. In Part 2 we explore how Growth, Religion , Infidelity and other related issues are valid grounds for a breakup.
Ep 12 - It's YOU, not me | Valid reasons to break up PT 1
In this episode , we dive into the difficult but important topic of navigating the end of a relationship. Join us as we explore the complexities of breaking up and valid reasons for going through with it.
Ep 11 - Relationships are burning + Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships
In this episode, we explore the intricacies of long-distance relationships . Well, after spending an insane amount on the crazy thing that have been happening in Bulawayo and people's relationships. Share your experiences here : https://buff.ly/3USQph8
Ep 10 - Age is just a number right ?
In this episode we talk about Age gaps between partners. If age is just a number , blessers don't really exist right ? And we discuss how to navigate age differences in the dating world. And of course we keep things raw, unfiltered and definitely unapologetic. The real question though is , What is an acceptable age gap ? Do age differences matter ? Send your stories/ confessions and catch our week
Ep 09 - What is a talking phase anyways
In this episode we explore the intriguing world of talking phases in relationships. From initial attraction to building deeper connections, we examine the complexities of this controversial stage. Q talks about topics like exclusivity, talking phase duration, and questions in betweenIf you have a story/confession you're burning to share, drop it anonymously here : https://forms.gle/8zG9mx3Ck2Mnnht
Ep 08 - Exes, Russians and cheating guide
In this episode we talk about conversations about exes in a relationship , cheating and King runs down the ways in which people try to hide their cheating. ( We know them Now !)
Ep 07 -Types and Expectations
In this episode King and Q talk about types, expectations and random things that you probably should know before you date.
Ep 06 - Lobola : Relevance and Modern Views ( Said Raw)
In this episode, Q talks about Lobola. (It is an African custom by which a bridegroom's family makes a payment in cattle or cash to the bride's family shortly before marriage. ) It's relevance, and modern views around the tradition.*sorry for the technical glitch at the end Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Ep 05 - Girlfriend Allowance, Hobosexuals and Blessers
In the episode we ( King , Lance & Q) talk about a lot of things related to money in relationships including talking phases, dynamics of dating and impossible expectations . The bulk of it being just absurd.
Ep 04 - Green Flags (But Said Violently or whatever)
In this episode Q talks about Green flags in a relationship. This follows an episode that highlighted a couple of red flags which somehow still exist. You'd think as humans we would have evolved past those.
Ep 03 - Red Flags, Just Those
We often graze the subject and treat these like relationship bonus points. In this episode Bummy and Q talk red flags over wine, while King battles his potentially contagious dinosaur flu.
Ep 02 - 2ks, Fear Women And Growing Up
In this episode we talk about 2ks, well apparently 90s babies are scared of life. We also talk about growing up, the pressures of it and why women are evil.
Ep 01 - Tampons, Blood and How little Boyfriends know
In this episode Bummy schooled us about how little we know about tampons, menses and related related stuff. We kid you not, Men have no idea about periods, and we hope you learn from this too.
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