Cheaters IRL Podcast
This podcast discusses cheating, following six true stories of cheating experiences with different fact scenarios and outcomes. It addresses commonalities in people's experiences with cheating, misconceptions, red flags to spot cheating, and legal implications. Each episode has two parts: Part 1 discusses relationships, commonalities, misconceptions, and red flags; Part 2 shares the true stories of six couples, illustrating the topics from Part 1 in real-life scenarios. The podcast is created and produced by an experienced family law attorney.
Episodes
Episode 20 Part 2: Kyle & Raquel Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 20 Part 2: Kyle & Raquel Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
The isolation tactics of abusers.
Episode 20 Part 1: Why Do People Believe That Their Partner Would Never Cheat on Them?
Episode 20 Part 1: Why Do People Believe That Their Partner Would Never Cheat on Them?
What factors lead people to believe that their partner would NEVER cheat on them?
Is this a reasonable belief or an unreasonable belief?
Should a person, by default, trust their partner blindly?
Or is it prudent to always be open to potential signs of your partner cheating?
Does trust require blind faith?
Episode 19 Part 2: Danny and Michelle, Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 19 Part 2: Danny and Michelle, Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 19 Part 1: Reasons Why People Wait to Confront their Partner with Evidence of Cheating
Episode 19 Part 1: Reasons Why People Wait to Confront their Partner with Evidence of Cheating, Impact of this on the Cheater and on the Relationship as a Whole
We are going to discuss the reasons why a person may withhold evidence discovered regarding a spouse’s infidelity, either for a period of time or permanently.
How does that impact the cheating partner and what is the potential impacts on
Episode 18 Part 2 Tanya and Jeff, the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 18 Part 2 Tanya and Jeff, the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 18 Part 1: Surviving Cheating, The Temptation to Bend to Survive, Children's Protection Needs to be Primary
Episode 18 Part 1: Surviving Cheating, The Temptation to Bend to Survive, Children's Protection Needs to be Primary
Episode 17 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Fallout From Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 17 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Fallout From Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 17 Part 1: Life as it SHOULD be vs Life as it IS; The Impact of Infidelity on Religious Beliefs; The Impact of Others’ Reactions to the Infidelity on the Couple’s Decisions
Episode 17 Part 1:
Life as it SHOULD be versus Life as it IS; How these sometimes-conflicting views impact marriage, and the response to infidelity
The Impact of Infidelity on Religious Beliefs Infidelity often has a significant impact on religious views and behaviors
The Impact of Others’ Reactions to the Infidelity on the Couple’s Decisions
Episode 16 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 16 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
How cheating impacts how the cheated-on partner feels about the marriage, not just in the present but how it makes them feel about the past and the marriage itself overall
The cheating partner, Monica's side of the story from her perspective.
The issues Stacy faces in trying to get past Todd's infidelity and how they handl
Episode 16 Part 1: Why people stay after cheating; How to get a cheating spouse back home; Conflict Avoiders Create Conflict
Episode 16 Part 1:
Why people stay after cheating is discovered. We discuss the most common reason people stay in a marriage after discovering their spouse has cheated.
If a cheating spouse has left to be with someone else, how does a spouse go about getting them to come home? What difficulties does this create? How does a cheated-on spouse handle this scenario?
Conflict Avoiders Create Conflict.
Episode 15 Part 2: Gaslighting versus Lying; Chad and Amy the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 15 Part 2: Gaslighting versus Lying; Chad and Amy the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating
The Intro describes the difference between gaslighting and just ordinary lying
Amy's response to learning for certain that Chad has been cheating. The effects of gaslighting highly drive how Amy responds.
Episode 15 Part 1: Trading One Set of Problems for Another, Outgrowing a Marriage, Impressions of Harm
Discussing Amy's mother's claim that if Amy left Chad, she would just be “trading one set of problems for another.”
Is divorce essentially trading one set of problems for another?
Michelle’s attitude toward Danny, specifically her attitude that #1) She didn’t have to be faithful to him because he didn’t satisfy her in bed and #2) That they had “grown apart.” These are insincere excuses and we’ll
Episode 14 Part 2: Summary of All 6 Stories Up to Now
Episode 14 Part 2: Summary of All 6 Stories Up to Now
Summary of All 6 Stories up to the point of the cheated-on partner accepting and confirming that they have, in fact, been cheated on.
Patterns of Cheating are common in most cases, these 6 stories represent common patterns.
Episode 14 Part 1: Evidence of Cheating: How do you know if your partner is cheating?
Episode 14 Part 1: Evidence of Cheating: How do you know if your partner is cheating?
Episode 13 Part 2: Raquel & Kyle Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 13 Part 2: Raquel & Kyle Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 13 Part 1: Listen to your Head, Your Heart is an idiot
Episode 13 Part 1: Listen to your Head, Your Heart is an idiot
Episode 12 Part 2: Danny & Michelle Confirmations of Cheating
Episode 12 Part 2: Danny & Michelle Confirmations of Cheating
Episode 12 Part 1: Motivations for Lying, Effect of Images Popping into the Cheated-On Spouse's Mind
Episode 12 Part 1: Motivations for Lying, Effect of Images Popping into the Cheated-On Spouse's Mind
Episode 11 Part 2: Jeff & Tanya Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 11 Part 2: Jeff & Tanya Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior
Episode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior
Episode 10 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 10 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Confirmation of Cheating
Episode 10 Part 1: Cheaters' Lies, Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse, Common Apps used for Cheating
Episode 10 Part 1:
Cheaters' Lies when Confronted About Cheating. Cheaters lie about all aspects of cheating, not just about IF they are cheating. They lie about how many times, where they cheated, how they cheated and most of all WHY they cheated. They often even find a way to blame the cheated-on for their cheating.
Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse. The cheated-on spouse often feels s
Episode 9 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Confirmations of Cheating
Episode 9 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Confirmations of Cheating
Episode 9 Part 1: Support Systems, Vehicles and Work Schedules as Red Flags
Episode 9 Part 1: Support Systems, Vehicles and Work Schedules as Red Flags
Support Systems are critical for physical, mental and emotional health
Vehicles can often contain a lot of evidence of cheating, as they are common hiding places for cheaters
Work is one of the most common claims to conceal cheating incidents
Episode 8 Part 2: Amy & Chad Confirmations of Cheating
Episode 8 Part 2: Amy & Chad Confirmations of Cheating
Episode 8 Part 1: Rumors, No Smoke Without Fire, Confessions by Cheating Partners, The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated-on Spouse
Episode 8 Part 1: Rumors, No Smoke Without Fire, Confessions by Cheating Partners, The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated-on Spouse
Rumors, No Smoke without Fire
The impact of rumors of cheating on relationships
Why do cheaters confess their cheating to others
Why do Cheaters' Cheating Partners Confess to the Cheated-On Spouse
The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated On Spouse's Feelings of self-worth
Episode 7 Part 2: Michelle & Danny Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Raquel & Kyle Suspicions of Cheating Arise
Episode 7 Part 2: Michelle & Danny Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Raquel & Kyle Suspicions of Cheating Arise
Episode 7 Part 1: Difficulty in Identifying Emotional Abuse is Occurring, Types of Evidence of Cheating, the Impact of Cheating on a Couple's Sex Life
Episode 7 Part 1: Difficulty in Identifying Emotional Abuse is Occurring, Types of Evidence of Cheating, the Impact of Cheating on a Couple's Sex Life
It is often difficult for people to realize they are being emotionally abused
Emotional abusers often don't realize that their behavior is abusive
Emotional abusers are often self-centric
Types of evidence of cheating, four main categories (claims
Episode 6 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Tanya and Jeff Suspicions of Cheating Arise
Episode 6 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Tanya and Jeff Suspicions of Cheating Arise
Episode 6 Part 1: Why Doesn't Amy Leave? Stacy & Todd's Retaliatory Behavior, Keeping Fit Does Not Guarantee a Partner's Fidelity, Trusting Instincts
Episode 6 Part 1: Why Doesn't Amy Leave? Stacy & Todd's Retaliatory Behavior, Keeping Fit Does Not Guarantee a Partner's Fidelity, Trusting Instincts
Why doesn't Amy leave Chad if she's so lonely? The barriers to leaving and reasons for staying.
The impact of avoidant behavior, cheating or emotional abuse on a partner
The importance of getting the right kind of help, and harm that can result
Episode 5 Part 2: Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating, Todd & Stacy Suspicions of Cheating
Episode 5 Part 2: Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating, Todd & Stacy Suspicions of Cheating
Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating Arise. Chad spends far too much time away from home. The word divorce is brought up by Amy. She is achingly lonely. Chad doesn't respond to her efforts to spend time on their marriage. Baffling incidents occur that don't make sense to Amy.
Todd & Stacy Suspic
Episode 5 Part 1: \Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors, Shooting the Messenger, Cheaters Flipping the Script to Impeach the Credibility of Rumors of Their Cheating, Financial Evidence of Cheating
Episode 5 Part 1: Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors, Telling Someone About a Partner Cheating, Shooting the Messenger, Cheaters Flipping the Script to Impeach the Credibility of Rumors of Their Cheating, Financial Evidence of Cheating
Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors of Kyle Cheating? Including an upsetting rumor about her husband getting another woman pregnant? What makes it
Episode 4 Part 2: Michelle and Danny After the Alter, Raquel and Kyle After the Alter
Episode 4 Part 2: Michelle and Danny After the Alter, Raquel and Kyle After the Alter
Michelle and Danny struggle with intimacy, Michelle is highly uncomfortable with engaging in physical intimacy with Danny. She feels immense guilt over this, but Danny is very understanding. Danny excels at work and they move into a good neighborhood. They have twins and Michelle is determined to get into shape
Episode 4 Part 1: What is Legal Marriage? Is a Cheater Always a Cheater? Changed Appearance as a Sign of Cheating
Episode 4 Part 1: What is Legal Marriage, Is a Cheater Always a Cheater, Changed Appearance is a Sign of Cheating
In Episode 4 Part 1, we discuss what Legal Marriage is, it's not about Love. It's about granting rights to the person you are marrying, as to you, including rights to the income you earn and property you accrue. This makes it particularly important that you keep your marriage strong an
Episode 3 Part 2: Nicole & Dave After the Alter and Tanya & Jeff After the Alter
Episode 3 Part 2: Nicole & Dave After the Alter and Tanya & Jeff After the Alter
Things begin to crack immediately for Nicole & Dave, but Dave is able to smooth things over
Things are looking really good for Tanya & Jeff, they aren't showing any cracks well into their marriage
Episode 3 Part 1: Lying in Family Law, "It Didn't Mean Anything to Me" and the Impact of Infidelity on Property Division in Divorce
Episode 3 Part 1: Lying in Family Law, "It Didn't Mean Anything to Me" and the Impact of Infidelity on Property Division in Divorce
We discuss why it's not a good idea to accuse the opposing party of lying in Family Law, and why it's better to use evidence to show that they aren't being honest instead. We discuss the loaded impact of certain words and why it's important to be careful about how you
Episode 2 Part 2: Chad & Amy After the Altar, Stacy & Todd After the Alter
Chad and Amy begin their married life. Cracks are already appearing. They get jobs at the same company, in different departments with schedules that make spending time together difficult. Chad struggles dealing with Amy's emotions. Amy struggles dealing with Chad's tendency to shut down in certain situations. Both are excited about the arrival of the baby, which is the thing really holding them to
Episode 2 Part 1: Difficulties in Family Law, Gaslighting, Love Bombing, Conflict Avoidant Personalities and Impact of Adultery on Alimony
Episode 2 Part 1: In this episode we discuss the difficulties in Family Law including the importance of being honest with your attorney and the reasons you don't want to end up in Court. Definitions of Gaslighting and Love Bombing. We discuss what Conflict Avoidant Behavior is, and the negative impact it has on intimacy and how it can result in infidelity and abusive behavior toward the cheated-on
Episode 1 Part 2: How They Met and Married Stories of our 6 Couples
Cheaters IRL is a podcast discussing cheating in real life (IRL) experiences. It shares 6 true stories of cheating and discusses the commonalities, misconceptions, red flags and even legal implications of cheating. It is written and produced by an experienced family law attorney. Each episode has two parts. Part 1 of each episode is the discussion portion of the episode, where relationships are di
Episode 1 Part 1: Introduction to Cheaters IRL (In Real Life) Podcast
Cheaters IRL is a podcast discussing cheating in real life (IRL) experiences. It shares 6 true stories of cheating and discusses the commonalities, misconceptions, red flags and even legal implications of cheating. It is written and produced by an experienced family law attorney. Each episode has two parts. Part 1 of each episode is the discussion portion of the episode, where relationships are di
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