Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living
Paring Down is a podcast about realistic minimalism, decluttering, and intentional living. Host Shannon Leyko offers a friendly, best-friend-style approach to overcoming mental roadblocks that prevent people from letting go of unneeded possessions. The show features interviews with New York Times bestselling authors and everyday people who share practical tips and mindset advice for self-improvement. It addresses common questions like where to start decluttering, how to manage when feeling overwhelmed, and how to handle decluttering with ADHD. The goal is to reduce stress, save money, and create a calmer, more intentional home.
Episodes
223: Get Your Affairs in Order: Essential Documents Your Family Needs to Handle the Unexpected with Lori Selsberg
Making sure your family isn't stressed about logistics in the face of an emergency or once you're gone is an act of love. Today I’m joined by Lori Selsberg, co-founder and CEO of DocuGuardian, who is an expert in exactly that.
We cover:
The essential documents and details families often overlook
How to organize legal, financial, medical, and personal information
Simple ways to start dif
222: Develop Easy Home Organization Systems that Don't Add to Your Stress
Why do we overcomplicate our decluttering and organizing systems when the whole point is to feel less stressed at home?
Today, I’m sharing the red flags that a system is too complex, plus the simple systems that work for my family to keep the clutter and housework under control.
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Ep 102: Creating Systems to Be Productive Toward What Matters with Chelsi Jo
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221: My Backstage Experience at Dancing With the Stars, Mother-in-Law Clutter "Gifts", & Do I Feel Famous?
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What do you do with clothes that your MIL hands down to you that your husband wore?
2. Do you feel famous?
And I tell the story of when I went backstage at Dancing with the Stars!
Listener recommendation of the week: Sterling Point on Amazon Prime
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Ep 216: The
220: Picky Eaters & Food Struggles: Stop the Arguments // feat. Kids Eat in Color's Jennifer Anderson
Jennifer Anderson of Kids Eat in Color, registered dietitian and author of Feed Them Well, joins me to talk about picky eating, food struggles, and how to help kids develop a healthy, positive relationship with food.
If you have a picky eater or just kids who say they're hungry 20 minutes after you fed them dinner, this episode will make you feel seen and also hopeful that there is a way fo
219: Your House is a Mess? Here's a Shame-Free Way to Get Help – with Brittinie Tran
Brittinie Tran, founder of the nonprofit, Hot Mess Express, joins me to talk about messy homes, clutter, cleaning overwhelm, and why there’s no shame in asking for help.
I was blown away by the work she's doing, and once again convinced that nothing in the world is more spectacular than women coming together!
Hot Mess Express brings women together through practical, non-judgmental help and comm
218: Capsule Wardrobes, Funny Pageant Memories, & My Real Thoughts About Social Media
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. Do you have a capsule wardrobe?
2. What is your silliest memory from pageant life?
Listener recommendation of the week: Solve for Happy: Engineer Your Path to Joy by Mo Gawdat
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Ep 162: Stop Overshopping for Good and Finally Declutter Your Clothes with Lauren Morley
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217: Our Adoption Story: An In Depth Breakdown of How Adoption Works
Why didn't we choose international adoption? Do we have an open adoption? What about children waiting to be adopted in foster care? How long did the process take? What does adoption cost? How do you know if you're doing it ethically? How do you talk about adoption with your kids?
Today, I'm answering these questions and more as we kick off our 10-week Good Stuff series all about why family matter
216: The Full Story Behind My Burnout
Today's a more personal episode. When I shared on social media that I'm feeling a little burned out, I got a huge reaction from people. So I wanted to share what's going on behind the scenes in my life in hopes that it helps you feel less alone during seasons of burnout in your own life.
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Ep 117: Renewed Excitement for the Benefits of Minimalism
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215: My Opinion on Decluttering "Right" the First Time, 5 Seconds of Me Singing Opera, & Rain Gear
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What do you think of the quote “If you don’t have the time to do it right the first time, when will you have time to do it over” as it relates to decluttering?
2. Were or are you in a choir?
Listener recommendation of the week: Earth Rangers Podcast for kids
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Ep 121: What to Do
214: Nutrition Myths Debunked: Stanford's Dr. Christopher Gardner on the Science Behind What We Eat
There's so much noise out there about what we should eat, so I had the HONOR of going directly to the leading global expert of nutrition science, Dr. Christopher Gardner.
Dr. Gardner is Stanford's Director of Nutrition Studies, former chair of the American Heart Association's Nutrition Committee, and has led more than twenty large-scale randomized clinical trials related to what we eat. You migh
213: 5 Clutter Traps That Make Decluttering Never-Ending
Who here throws in an extra purchase to get free shipping? Today, we're covering 5 major clutter traps that feel smart at the time, but end up bogging down our house (and clearing out our wallets).
Decluttering doesn't have to feel never-ending, so listen in to figure out which trap has been working on you, and how to stop it for good.
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212: Memories Attached to Stuff, Update After My Son Swallowed a Quarter, & Plant Lovers
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. Sentimental stuff is so hard. When it is gone the memory is gone. What do I do?
2. What is the update about your son after he swallowed a quarter recently?
Listener recommendation of the week: Flik Flak kids watches by Swatch
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Ep 5: Decluttering Sentimental Items
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211: The Effective, Accessible Remedy for a Struggling Mind with Rio Wilson
I wanted someone who isn't just pointing out that movement is good for our mental health, but who's actually doing something to help us bridge that gap.
So today we have the pleasure of hearing from Rio Wilson, licensed counselor and founder of the Brain-Body Therapy app. She joins me to unpack the connection between our brains and our bodies.
I share about a wild time when moving my body helpe
210: Saying No to Tempting New Things with New York Times Editor, Eric Athas
New York Times editor and author Eric Athas joins me today to explore why we’re so drawn to new things, and the way our modern world has amplified our desire for more.
We cover...
The present bias
The "new thing gap"
The good kind of novelty vs. the detrimental kind
And more!
If you ever get carried away in excitement about new things you probably don't actually need...do not miss th
209: What "Just In Case" Items to Keep & the Time I Recorded a Music Album in India
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. Are there any valid reasons for keeping something just in case?
2. What are some of the most random things you’ve seen/done on your travels?
Listener recommendation of the week: The Lazy Genius Podcast by Kendra Adachi
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Ep 52: Getting Past the "Wasted Money" When Decluttering
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208: Can We Survive without Smart Phones? with Andrew Dugan
What happens when you stop letting your phone dictate your attention? Andrew Dugan joins me to share his journey from smartphone dependency to creating a minimalist smartwatch—and we explore how technology can affect our mental health, focus, sleep, and relationships.
If you’ve ever felt like your devices take more than they give, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on using technology
207: My Involuntary Staunch Minimalism in Finland
Finally—I'm recording from our brand new home in Rauma, Finland! And I'm spilling all the details about our first month living with (almost) none of our stuff while it makes its slow journey across the ocean!
So come hang out with me while I figure out life in a new country, one borrowed towel at a time!
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206: How to Ask for Help with Decluttering, My Biggest Surprise About Finland, & Robotic Lawn Mowers
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. Any tips on asking for help? I feel like I want/need someone for support to get momentum.
2. What is the biggest surprise about Finland so far?
Listener recommendation of the week: Derry Girls on Netflix
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205: Figuring Out a Realistic Fitness Routine with Olivia Young
For those of us who aren't fitness junkies, it can be hard to figure out good fitness routines that don't feel overwhelming, inconsequential, or like one more thing on our to-do list.
This week I'm joined by Olivia Young, a registered dietitian and personal trainer who's built her career around helping people find a healthier relationship with movement and food.
She breaks down the mental block
204: How to Stop Feeling Behind on Your To-Do List with Megan Sumrell
Most of us need a to-do list to survive, but there's one major issue with them that productivity expert Megan Sumrell helps us unpack today:
To-do lists are not a plan.
Megan has spent years helping women rethink how they plan their time, and this conversation is full of practical, refreshing ideas.
If you've ever ended a day feeling behind despite working nonstop, this episode is for you!
ME
203: How to Get Past Decluttering the Same Spots, Lindsay Clancy, & Our First Week in Finland
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. How do I get past feeling stuck doing the same spots (table, couch, entry) over and over?
2. Are you following the Lindsay Clancy trial? Who did it?
Listener recommendation of the week: The ChomChom roller for pet hair
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202: Which Teeth Whitening Products to Avoid & Do You Really Need to Floss Daily? with Dr. Sanya Arora
I learned SO MUCH today! I sat down with Dr. Sanya Arora to get real about what's actually happening with our oral health.
From flossing myths to the truth about whitening products, this conversation challenged a lot of what I thought I knew about how to take care of my teeth.
We Cover:
What actually matters more for preventing cavities than flossing
The hidden risks of mouth rinses
201: Declutter by House Hushing with Myquillyn Smith
What a TREAT! New York Times bestselling author Myquillyn Smith is on today's episode to help us declutter through a term she's coined House Hushing. (Also the title of her brand new book!)
Today's episode will help you create a home that feels not only peaceful and calm, but still highly personalized to YOU.
We Cover:
How to create a calmer, cozier home without sacrificing personality
200: Decluttered but Still Overwhelmed, What I Changed My Mind About, & Meal Trains
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What do I do if I’m organized, decluttered, and use everything I have but I’m still overwhelmed?
2. What’s something you recently changed your mind about?
Listener recommendation of the week: The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion
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199: Separating Health from Weight with Zoë Bisbing
I asked my followers who I should talk to about separating weight from health, and one name kept coming up. Zoë Bisbing is a psychotherapist specializing in body image and eating disorders, and she completely reframed how I think about my own body.
Here's what we get into:
The real difference between body positivity and body neutrality
How to tell the difference between pursuing health a
198: Cleaning Tips that Don't Feel Too Extreme with Morgan Flores
I sat down with professional house cleaner Morgan Flores, and she gave me permission to stop feeling guilty about my imperfect floor boards…while giving us tips to keep the house a bit more sparkling!
Morgan shares everything from her exact vacuum technique to the truth about why decluttering makes cleaning so much easier.
Whether you're drowning in laundry or just want a few pro tricks up
197: Decluttering Collectibles, Who I'd Switch Lives With, & Bribing Children
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What about collectibles? Hubby collects…everything?
2. If you could switch lives with anyone for a day, who would it be?
Listener recommendation of the week: @OkeeDokeeBros
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How to Declutter When You're a Collector (YouTube video)
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196: Ivy League Attorney Advice on How to Advocate for Your Health with Rayna Rayford
Attorney Rayna Reid Rayford and I are old friends from Miss New York, and she’s become a powerful force for maternal advocacy. Today, you’ll hear how Rayna turned her own terrifying pregnancy experience into a nonprofit that's changing how women advocate for themselves in the doctor's office.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Practical tools for advocating for yourself at medical appointments, f
195: How Decluttering Reflects Our Values
If you want to get in the mood to declutter, look no further than this episode! Today, I’m doing something a little different by sharing an episode I did on the Moms Overcoming Overwhelm podcast with Emily McDermott.
We talk about how decluttering reflects our values and practical ideas for reducing the amount of things in your home.
EMILY MCDERMOTT:
Moms Overcoming Overwhelm podcast
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194: When Do I "Arrive" at Decluttered?, Scheduling Around PMDD, & Living in the Grey
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. I’ve been at it for so long but still feel far from minimal/pared down enough- when do I arrive?
2. Tell us more about PMDD and how you schedule your time around it
Listener recommendation of the week: O’keeffe 30 spf chapstick - orange tube
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Ep 137: Knowing Whe
193: Building an Empire of 10 Million Followers While Living with Chronic Illness with Rachel Farnsworth
Rachel Farnsworth is an absolute force with over 10 million social media followers and her wildly successful brand, The Stay at Home Chef. But her chronic health journey is a story so wild it's hard to believe it's real.
She gives us an inside look at her struggle with Addison’s disease, how she lost the ability to walk and swallow, and what’s led to her recent recovery.
Rachel shares why she ch
192: A Better Way to Plan Your Fall & School Year with Danielle McGeough
If the busyness of the start of fall and a new school year stresses you out, today’s conversation with Danielle McGeough is for you!
We cover:
The difference between burnout and demoralization
How to figure out what actually matters to our families
Practical systems for managing school paper
How to prioritize activities and commitments
…and more.
Don’t le
191: Decluttering Computer Files, My Favorite Way to Vacation, & the Savannah Bananas
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. Do you have any advice on decluttering and organizing files on a computer?
2. What’s your favorite way to vacation with your family?
Listener recommendation of the week: Emily Ley - Simplified
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Ep 74: Removing the Chaos from Our Email Accounts & Desktops with Shawn Lemon
The Savann
190: Shocking Things that Bring People to the Emergency Room with Dr. J Mack Slaughter
I sat down with Dr. J Mack Slaughter—ER physician, former boy band member, and one of my favorite follows on social media—for a conversation that's equal parts entertaining and genuinely lifesaving.
Here's what I learned, and what you'll take away too:
Which common situations usually don't require an ER visit (and the specific warning signs that mean you should go immediately)
The most a
189: Environmentally Friendly Decluttering—from Recycling Razor Blades to the Truth About Greenwashing with Tom Szaky of TerraCycle
This is such a fascinating episode for anyone who wants to declutter while being mindful about the environment! I’m joined by Tom Szaky, founder and CEO of TerraCycle, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at recycling and his unique approach to reducing waste.
We get into the truth about greenwashing, how TerraCycle recycles unique items like cigarette butts, diapers, and razor blades, and even
Getting Past the "Wasted Money" When Decluttering (Summer Saturday Throwback)
If you struggle with decluttering because it feels like watching bags of money go out the door, then this episode is for you!
In it, I share not only helpful mindset shifts, but practical ways that decluttering actually helps us financially in the long run.
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188: How to Request Money Instead of Gifts, Homemade Chai Lattes, & Washing Scrunchies
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What’s the best way to ask for money for a gift instead of stuff?
2. How do you make your chai lattes?
Listener recommendation of the week: Away luggage
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187: Opening Up About My Health: Postpartum Struggles, Weight Fluctuations, PMDD and More
I'm kicking off a brand new 10-week series on health for these Good Stuff episodes—what do we want to fill our lives with? Health seems like a great option to me!
Before we dive in with an impressive array of expert guests in this series, I wanted to start with a vulnerable solo episode about my own health journey—physical, mental, and everything in between.
If you've ever felt like health talk
186: Decluttering Your House is Only the Beginning of a Better Life with Suzanne Searcy Johnson
You know this one will be good because it’s the second time we’re welcoming Suzanne Searcy Johnson to the podcast! This time, we dig into why decluttering is only the first step toward a simpler life, and what it really takes to enjoy life beyond the clutter.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why organizing your space can be its own subtle form of control, and how to recognize when decluttering
Curating Simple & Ethical Wardrobes with Lacey Woodroof (Summer Saturday Throwback)
I don't know about you, but I want getting dressed to feel easy.
Our guest, Lacey Woodroof of Basic (abasicshop.com), speaks to the heart of why women's fashion can be such a pain, and offers creative and practical ways to start dressing in a less overwhelming, more sustainable manner.
LACEY WOODROOF
Basic Instagram: @abasicshop
Lacey Woodroof Instagram: @laceymwoodroof
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185: What to Do with Kid 3D Artwork, My Original Career Goal, & Preconceived Notions
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What do I do with kids artwork when the artwork is 3D– lots of dioramas and sculptures!
2. What was your original career goal?
Listener recommendation of the week: Hanna Seymour’s The Weekly One podcast
Ep 122: How to Create Life-Changing Habits with Hanna Seymour
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184: How Bike Bus World Brings Back the '80s Community Vibe with Sam Balto
Who wouldn't want to ride their bike to school with Benson Boone or Zara Larsson??
In this super fun episode that wraps up our mini-series on community, Sam Balto, founder of Bike Bus World, shares how bike buses help kids get to school while building stronger, more connected communities.
Even if you don't want to head up a bike bus (maybe you'll want to after listening!), this episode is full
183: How to Not Get Distracted When Decluttering
Does decluttering take forever because you reminisce, try things on, or end up tidying in a different room where you went to put something away?
In this episode, I break down the reasons we get distracted mid-decluttering and offer 10 practical strategies to stay on track.
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Decluttering Photos on Our Phones and In Our Homes (Summer Saturday Throwback)
You only get to find out how many photos are on my phone if you listen to the podcast! Haha...but seriously, it's embarrassing.
I'm learning right along with you in this episode, offering strategies for how to go through an overwhelming number of photos, and best ways to organize them once we declutter.
We also dive a bit deeper into the importance of photos. How can we be intentional about pre
182: Not Knowing the Value of Items You're Decluttering, My Weirdly Fast Engagement, & Grifters
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What do you do with items that you’re not sure the value of, like old basketball cards or jewelry?
2. How did you meet your husband and how long did you date before getting engaged?
Listener recommendation of the week: Secrets of the Bees on Disney+
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181: How Intergenerational Relationships Boost Happiness, Health & Perspective
Our world tends to separate us by age—through retirement communities, social media algorithms, and workplace culture. Is this problematic?
In this episode, I do a deep dive into what we gain when we spend time with people of a different generation than ours, as well as what we lose when we stop separate ourselves.
You'll learn:
• Why Western culture has become so age-segregated, and how income
180: Thrift Shopping Tips for Mindful Consumers with Rebecca Bingham
I love when real friends collide with my podcasting world! Rebecca Bingham is my former coworker...and an Atlanta-based vintage reseller.
Becca walks us through her thrifting philosophy, from navigating the aisles of a thrift store with intention to curating a home and wardrobe full of character and story.
We also dig into how secondhand shopping can be a powerful tool for decluttering, reduci
Decluttering Sentimental Items (Summer Saturday Throwback)
Do you struggle to let go of sentimental items? In this episode, I share my experience with decluttering sentimental items after my mother passed away when I was 24 years old.
You'll hear some perspective shifts that helped me not hold onto every little thing that reminded me of her.
I dive into letting go of baby items for our kids, deciding what *is* special to keep, and a big question that
179: Consistent Devotion to Living with Less, My Musical Theatre History, & the Final Countdown in Kodiak
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. How do you stay consistent with your attitude towards living with only what you need?
2. Tell us more about you doing musical theater! And who is your dream podcast guest?
Listener recommendation of the week: Crime Junkie Podcast
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Elisabeth Beam: @balancingbeams
Eri
178: How 15 Women Have Maintained 19 Years of Unbreakable Long-Distance Community with Leslie Hepburn
Nineteen years ago, a group of women came together at Christopher Newport University and built something truly special. I got to sit down with my very dear friend, Leslie Hepburn, to reflect on the journey of our acapella group, the Newport Pearls, who still gets together for annual retreats 19 years later.
This episode is a celebration of the community that forms when friends choose each other,
177: How to Avoid Decision Fatigue When Decluttering
Decluttering decisions add up fast, so today I share 5 concrete strategies to avoid decision fatigue!
You'll learn about...
• The famous study on parole judges that reveals how even trained professionals make worse calls the longer they go without a break — and what that means for your decluttering sessions
• How "pre-deciding" your rules can take the exhaustion out of every single it
176: When You Have No Energy to Declutter, the One Job I'd Never Do, & Dog Walking
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. I'm decluttering with a chronic illness. How do I keep going with no energy?
2. What is one job no one could pay you enough to do? And do you believe in ghosts?
Listener recommendation of the week: Silk eye mask for sleeping! Get one HERE.
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Episode 71: How Growing Up
175: Combating Loneliness by Rethinking the Suburban Neighborhood with Eli Spevak
This conversation with general contractor Eli Spevak opened my eyes to what's possible in modern neighborhoods if we prioritize people over privacy. We explore how co-housing and shared spaces turn neighbors into genuine support networks, creating the trust, safety, and belonging so many of us are looking for.
The good news is that whatever your neighborhood's culture is, you'll walk away from th
174: Getting Paper Clutter Under Control with Lisa Woodruff
If you feel overwhelmed by paper clutter, today's episode is for you! Lisa Woodruff, the author of The Paper Solution and founder Organize 365, joins me to share her practical approach to managing paper, from taxes to random notes to medical documents.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• The six categories for sorting household paper, plus Lisa's Sunday Basket strategy
• How to build reference b
173: If Ethical Shopping Feels Too Expensive, Keeping a Loved One's Memory Alive, & Summer Childcare
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. I looked at the Basics website for ethical clothing - holy moly the prices? How to even start?
2. How do you keep your mom’s memory alive with your kids? (Mom died @23, 2 toddlers)
Listener recommendation of the week:
Kin by Tayari Jones
Salt to the Sea by Ruta Sepetys
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172: How to Build Community and Make Friends Anywhere You Live with Bethany Roth
Bethany Roth is a military spouse who has mastered the art of building community no matter where life takes her. Since I'm a military spouse, too, we both dig into what it really means to create belonging in new places and why kindness is the foundation of any strong community.
I hope this conversation leaves you feeling inspired to reach out, show up, and invest in the people around you.
BETH
171: How to Organize Your Home So It Actually Stays Organized (Macro vs. Micro Organizing)
Everyone I know pulls their hair out because it's one thing to organize the house...it's another for it to STAY organized. That's what today's episode is for!
I break down the difference between macro and micro organizing, when to use each type, and how to make sure your house doesn't explode 30 seconds after you finally have it looking good.
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How to Declutter Your Kitch
170: How to Nudge Your Parents to Declutter, Military Wife Life, & Learning Finnish
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. How do I gently encourage my parents to start going through their stuff? There’s so much!
2. Did you know you would be a career military wife when you married your husband?
Listener recommendation of the week: Caroline Chambers
Instagram: @carochambers
Substack: What to Cook When You Don’t
169: Losing Community After Wrestling with Faith and Experiencing Divorce with Mallory Andrews
This is a super vulnerable and real conversation with my childhood friend, Mallory Andrews, about what it means to trust yourself when everything you've known begins to shift. Mallory opens up about walking away from her evangelical Christian community and the recent end of her almost 20-year marriage—and what both experiences have taught her about true belonging.
We cover:
Why leaving a com
168: Why Playing the Long Game Always Works—Including for Decluttering with Carrie Fabris
Wow—I was blown away by executive coach Carrie Fabris this week on Paring Down! We talked all about how to stick to our goals (decluttering and otherwise).
Carrie shares practical frameworks for staying focused on what actually matters, especially when results don’t happen overnight.
What you’ll learn:
• How to use the “VIBE” framework to prioritize goals and protect your energy
• Why burnout
167: If You Have Too Much Furniture, My Favorite Kid Age, & Finish-It Friday
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. I think we have too much furniture for our house but I can’t figure out what could go?
2. Which kid age has been your favorite?
Listener recommendation of the week: Finish-It Friday with an "Unfinished Business" Bin
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Effortless - book by Greg McKeown
Ep 85: Become an E
166: Can Social Media Build Healthy Community? with Shannon McKinstrie
Shannon McKinstrie is a social media strategist with a refreshingly grounded take on what it truly means to build community online, and this conversation covers it all.
We dig into what separates a thriving, supportive digital space from one that drains you.
We Cover:
What makes an online community genuinely healthy and supportive
Red flags that signal a community has become unhealt
165: The 15 Best Questions to Ask Yourself to Make Decluttering Easy
It's much easier to declutter when we filter our choices through certain questions, so I've compiled the best 15 questions to ask yourself when decluttering. Some are famous ("Does this spark joy?") and some are recent viral sensations ("If this had poop on it, would you wash it off or throw it away?"), but I break down why they work (and circumstances when they don't).
Choose your favorites fro
164: Decluttering Fatigue, The Time My Son Got Stuck in a Chair, & The Enneagram
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. I got decluttering fatigue after our recent move to a temporary rental. Motivation tips?
2. What is your favorite funny memory in your life? Moment that makes you laugh still?
Listener recommendation of the week: Benson's Table Tasty Salt Substitute
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163: Why Gatekeepers Always Lose Even Though They Think They're Getting Ahead
It's the WORST when people "hide" information or help because they think it will help them get ahead or gain respect...psychology tells us it will do the opposite.
In this Good Stuff episode about filling our lives with community, I unpack why we're prone to gatekeeping and why it ultimately works against us. In fact, sharing knowledge, connections, and resources freely is the key to building re
162: Stop Overshopping for Good and Finally Declutter Your Clothes with Lauren Morley
It's counterintuitive, but a simple wardrobe can actually make your style even better! In this episode, I'm sitting down with Lauren Morley, founder of the 20 Outfit Wardrobe, who helps people simplify their closets by curating just 20 outfits they love and wear on rotation.
We Cover:
Why no one is paying attention to outfit repeating as much as you think.
How to recognize when your shoppi
161: How to Get Kids to Clean Up After Themselves, Tech Tools, & Murder
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. How do you get kids to clean up after themselves without feeling like you're nagging?
2. What are some technology tools that you use to organize your life?
Listener recommendation of the week:
Emesis Bags
MENTIONED THIS EPISODE:
Shoe bin organizer
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160: Secret Sessions, Friendship Bracelets & What Makes Swifties Different with Olivia Levin
Olivia Levin, New York Times bestselling author of The Story of Us: How the Taylor Swift Fandom Changed Our Lives, joins me to explore what makes the Swiftie community one of the most powerful fandoms in the world.
From meeting Taylor at a secret session to selling Eras Tour tickets at face value, Olivia shares how a shared passion can create genuine, lasting human connection.
In this episode,
159: The Truth About Decluttering Influencers and How They Get Paid with Elisabeth Beam
This episode is a little different than usual because it's not an official interview...instead, one of my close friends and fellow "influencer" Elisabeth Beam joined me to have a candid conversation about how we navigate the contradictions of decluttering while making it our career.
We answer:
• Why would decluttering influencers work with brands if they sell stuff...aren't we supposed to be get
158: Burn It All Energy, How to Write a Book, & Bad Dogs
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. How do I channel the burn it all energy into something useful?
2. Any advice on how to go from dreaming about writing a book to actually writing it?
Listener recommendation of the week:
Paradise on Hulu
Sarah Cray - Let's Make Art
MENTIONED THIS EPISODE:
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157: Community vs. Friendship: Why Not Everyone in Your Village Needs to Be Your Best Friend
In this episode, I break down the difference between friendship and community, and explain why confusing the two might be leaving you feeling disconnected.
Understanding how these two types of relationships work differently could be the key to finally feeling like you truly belong.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• Why you can't substitute community with friendship (or vice versa)
• The scien
156: Surprising Lessons on Simplicity from Sourdough Bread with Brett Wiewiora and Christina Cann
What do sourdough bread, world travel, and minimalism have in common? More than you'd think.
In this episode, I sit down with Brett Wiewiora and Christina Cann, former owners of a 1,500-loaves-a-day bakery in Tampa who sold it all, packed their lives into carry-on luggage, and hit the road with their two kids—and their sourdough starter—to teach baking classes from around the world.
In this epi
155: Declutter with the Biggest Payoff, My Miss America Journey, & Libraries
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What decluttering project is the most bang for your buck?
2. Tell us more about your beauty queen journey!
Listener recommendation of the week:
Elbert the Curious Clock Tower Bear
Libby library app
MENTIONED THIS EPISODE:
Fridge Water Bottle Holder
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154: The Joy of Movement (Even If You're Not Into Fitness) with Beyonce's dancer, Deja Riley
Today I’m joined by my dear friend from high school, Deja Riley! Watching her career evolve from a professional dancer into a powerful voice in the fitness and wellness space has been so motivating.
Deja shares how her time in the entertainment industry shaped her perspective on movement, which is why she now helps people connect to movement in a way that feels joyful and accessible.
In this ep
153: 20 Things I'm Decluttering Before Moving to Finland
I've been craving a personal decluttering episode—bringing you guys with me around my house while I declutter! And what better opportunity than thinking through what we'll need to declutter before moving to Finland!
In this episode, I share 20 things I'll be decluttering—some are categories, and some are very specific things. I hope it inspires you to pare down your own home, too. (Moving or no
152: Decluttering Boxes of Old Mail, Moving to Finland, & Is it Bad to Criticize Generosity?
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. How do you declutter boxes and boxes of old mail?
2. How are you feeling about your move to Finland? What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?
Listener recommendation of the week:
Too Good to Go App - Get day-ish old food sold at great discount
MENTIONED THIS EPISODE
Ep 22: Doom Piles & Mail
151: 10 Subtle Things Stealing Your Joy
In this Good Stuff episode of the Paring Down podcast, I want to share about the flip side of joy—as in, what's getting in the way?
So I decided to put together a list of 10 things that are stealing your joy and offers practical, research-backed ways to subtract them from your life.
You'll learn:
• What "personality trait" isn't one that you have to accept...you can free yourself from its t
150: How Our Surroundings Shape Our Lives with Author/Engineer, Leidy Klotz
What a treat today! Acclaimed engineering professor and author Leidy Klotz joins me on Paring Down to explore how our environments shape our lives more than we realize.
From decluttering to designing meaningful spaces, this conversation will change how you see both your home and your habits.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• Why we instinctively add instead of subtract (and how to train your br
149: When Kids Ask About a Toy You Decluttered, Where I Find Hope, & a Near-Death Decluttering Win
Here's what you'll find in this week's mini episode, a.k.a. Chai Chat!
I answer:
1. What happens when you declutter your kids stuff and then they ask about it three years later?
2. What is a non-religious source of hope for you?
Listener recommendation of the week:
Get a pothos house plant
Article I read: Effects of Indoor Plants on Human Functions
MENTIONED THIS EPISODE
T
148: Finding Joy When Motherhood is Hard with Libby Ward
The one and only Libby Ward is in the house! In this episode, mega mom influencer Libby Ward shares how to find joy even when motherhood feels overwhelming, exhausting, and hard. This honest conversation dives into the reality of modern motherhood, mental load, and why embracing difficult emotions can actually lead to more peace and fulfillment.
Libby speaks so vulnerably, and we cover:
• Why th
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