Sexy Marriage Radio
Sexy Marriage Radio offers straightforward, honest conversations about sex, intimacy, and marriage. Hosts Dr Corey and Pam Allan provide practical advice and actionable steps to help couples build a vibrant relationship. The podcast focuses on keeping the spark alive and creating a fulfilling life together.
Episodes
Feelings Are A Compass Not A Conclusion #802
“How does that make you feel?”
Four words. The most famous question in all of therapy. Not wrong exactly. Just incomplete. Because nobody ever asks the follow-up: what are you going to do with that?
We live in the golden age of emotional intelligence. More language for our feelings than any generation in history. And marriages are not noticeably better. At some point it’s worth asking whether the
Silent Treatment #801
She's been married eleven years. Three kids. A life she genuinely loves.
And a husband who goes quiet every time they disagree. Not angry quiet. Just... gone. Still in the house, still doing the normal things, but there's a wall — and she never knows when it's coming down or what she did to put it up.
She's tried everything. She asks what's wrong. She gives him space. She apologizes — sometimes wi
Stuck Behind A Label #800
Episode 800.
Over fifteen years and eight hundred episodes, one of the consistent choices on this show has been to stay away from clinical diagnostic language — words like coercion, narcissism, gaslighting, abuse — even when those words might technically fit a situation being described.
That choice has generated some pushback lately. And it deserves a direct answer.
Not a defensive one. A real one
What Do You Do With The Want #799
A listener wrote in after last week's episode. He appreciated it but wanted the other side of the equation.
His situation: he wants to do something with his wife that he considers well within the moral framework of their marriage. She says no. Complete sentence.
So what's he supposed to do? Stop wanting it? White-knuckle his way through? Watch it fester into resentment?
Those feel like the only tw
When He Says He’ll Leave #798
She's been married sixteen years. Four kids. A husband who works hard, fathers well, and helps around the house more than most.
She also has sex with him three to four times a week. Does oral sex. Anal play. Vibrators. Mutual masturbation. Sexting. She tried anal sex three times before deciding the pain wasn't worth it. She tried swallowing despite a genuine gag reflex. She stopped sending explici
One Sided Sex #797
A husband wrote in after our episode with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. He appreciated it but wanted more on the man's side.
His wife feels connected to him through sex. But 95% of the time she's not aroused. She has a good attitude about it. She participates. And then when he gets in the shower, she goes and uses a vibrator by herself — because she feels pressured by him to enjoy it when he's ther
Best Of SMR: The Lower Desire Wife| Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #796
If you've ever wondered why desire felt so natural before marriage and so complicated after — this conversation is worth your time.
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a psychologist, coach, and fellow traveler in the Schnarch world. In this conversation with Corey, she names something most couples can't quite articulate: the shift from falling in love to being married isn't a sign something went wrong
I’ve Given Him Sex #795
She's been married a long time. She's done the work — therapy, 12-step, forgiveness. The guilt and shame are gone.
And she's been giving her husband sex twice a week for years. He knows that's all it's ever been.
Her question: how do I get past the guarded sex, the pressure, the fear of never being enough? How do I finally be free?
It's a good question. But it's not the first question worth asking
What’s Really Driving You? #794
Last week we heard from a wife trying to figure out if she can ever trust her husband again after discovering his affair. This week we're staying on him.
All we know about him comes from her email. Four sentences. He denied it at first. Then admitted everything. He says he wants to save the marriage. He's been remorseful and answering her questions.
That's it. And it's actually enough to ask the m
Can I Trust Him Again #793
A month ago she found out. He denied it, then admitted it. She still doesn't know if she has the full story.
She's been talking to her pastor, her friends, anyone who will listen. Everyone keeps telling her the same thing — rebuild trust, do the work, give it time. She knows they mean well. But at two in the morning when she can't stop replaying everything, that advice doesn't tell her what to act
Christian Erotica #792
A listener asked a simple question: is there such a thing as Christian erotica? They'd done the research, found some authors, and sent the links.
But that's not really what they were asking.
What they were asking — what most of us are asking when we frame a question that way — is: can someone just tell me if this is okay?
Corey and Pam don't answer that question. Instead they go after the one unde
Quid Pro Quo #791
He does oral sex almost every time. Toys every time. Bondage, spanking, dirty talk — all things he pushed through because she wanted them. She agreed to reciprocate. She hasn't. Not once.
So is he being selfish for wanting more?
That's not quite the right question.
The real question is what the word return reveals about what's actually been going on. Corey and Pam unpack the difference between gen
What Am I Wanting? #790
On this week's episode of SMR …
This week's episode explores the deep psychological patterns that influence marriage dynamics, focusing on our expectations, meanings, and self-awareness.
It offers insights into how understanding our shadow motivations and settling ourselves can foster healthier, more authentic relationships.
The post What Am I Wanting? #790 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Switching Roles #789
This week's episode explores how life-changing events can serve as catalysts for personal growth and relationship transformation. We discuss a woman's journey from rejection to self-discovery and how she redefines her marriage after a betrayal, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and adaptive responses.
The post Switching Roles #789 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Is It Really About Pegging? #788
Frank sexual discussion ahead — this one's for grown-ups.
A listener calls in curious about pegging. He found it through porn, and he's terrified to say any of it out loud to his wife.
Corey and Pam use his voicemail as the door into a bigger conversation than one sex act. The source of a desire doesn't determine whether it's legitimate. And the real question isn't whether pegging is okay, it's wh
Nothing To Ride #787
This episode picks up from "She Knows How to Ride" (two weeks ago), shifting focus from the wife's physical pain journey to her husband's inner experience — seen through her eyes.
The couple entered marriage with high hopes and open communication about their sexual relationship. But on their honeymoon, penetrative sex was too painful for her to complete. A year later, little has changed — and he's
When Life Turns Upside Down #786
This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio Pam and I talk about the challenges of applying relationship knowledge in real life, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and system disruption to foster genuine change in marriage.
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We go through what it really looks like to make better self-respecting moves in life and marriage
Let's explor
She Knows How To Ride #785
This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio Pam and I talk about the challenges of applying relationship knowledge in real life, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and system disruption to foster genuine change in marriage.
Enjoy the show!
On the Xtended version …
We go through what it really looks like to make better self-respecting moves in life and marriage
Let's explor
Understanding Isn’t The Problem #784
This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio Pam and I talk about the challenges of applying relationship knowledge in real life, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and system disruption to foster genuine change in marriage.
Enjoy the show!
On the Xtended version …
We go through what it really looks like to make better self-respecting moves in life and marriage
Let's explor
From the Swingers Club to Sunday Morning #783
This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio explores the complex dynamics of desire, intimacy, and past experiences in marriage, focusing on a couple's journey from swinging to a faith-based relationship.
We discuss how desire, exhaustion, and personal values influence sexual intimacy and how couples can navigate these challenges with understanding and intentionality.
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Best of SMR: Initiation Mistakes Married People Make #782
In this Best of SMR episode we discuss common mistakes that married couples make when it comes to initiating sex.
There are dynamics of higher desire and lower desire and patterns that make these mistakes so easy to make.
We cover six common mistakes: getting annoyed at being the one who initiates, using covert or roundabout methods of initiation, joking or crude initiations, feeling the need to
SMR Honest Reflections #781
Corey is celebrating a milestone birthday this year, so this episode explores the recurring themes in marriage, personal growth, and the importance of self-awareness. Join us as we reflect on lessons learned over years of marriage and shared experiences, emphasizing the value of courage, authenticity, and continuous self-improvement.
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3 Habits To Improve Your Marriage This Summer | Gary and Lisa Thomas #780
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I are joined by Gary and Lisa Thomas as we talk through some simple habits you can do this summer that will have impact on your marriage.
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Nobody Talks About This #779
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore into the complex reality of sexual lust, shame, and the unseen battles that many marriages face, especially those with a history of hypersexuality, trauma, or previous infidelity.
This conversation explores what wives and husbands can do when confronting the persistent mental and emotional remnants of past struggles.
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On the
The Little Things | Alexandra Stockwell #778
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell joins me again to explore practical ways to deepen intimacy in marriage through everyday interactions, vulnerability, and collaborative decision-making.
Discover how small, intentional acts can transform your relationship and foster lasting connection.
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We go further into the idea of compromise
We Bought Dolls For Our Sex Life #777
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore a couple's unconventional approach to addressing intimacy and trauma within their marriage, including the use of love dolls as a means of connection and healing.
We analyze the emotional dynamics, projections, and underlying issues that influence their decisions, offering insights into navigating complex relationship challenges.
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Flowers Don’t Fix This #776
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complex dynamics of marriage, intimacy, betrayal, and personal growth through a detailed listener email.
We analyze issues like unmet expectations, loneliness, shame, and the impact of past trauma on marital intimacy, offering insights into healing and connection.
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We go in depth about what the emailer
Dry Spells #775
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I answer and email from a husband who has noticed he and his wife have had regular seasons of dry spells in their sex life throughout their 25 year marriage.
He wonders if this is normal in long term marriages. And is curious about the fact that they don't talk about this pattern, so is this fact possibly the bigger issue?
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No O #774
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the complex factors affecting male and female sexual health, including hormonal therapy, masturbation habits, weight, mental health, and systemic influences. We talk about insights into retraining the nervous system, addressing emotional barriers, and fostering healthier intimacy.
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Weaponized Insight #773
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the dynamics of higher and lower desire in marriage, focusing on how these roles influence sexual frequency and emotional interactions. We do a deep dive into a common pitfall like weaponizing desire differences and offers insights on living within these realities healthily.
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A Father and Daughter Talk About Relationships #772
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, our daughter Sydney joins me as we explore relationship dynamics across generations -- from a 20-year-old college student and a 54-year-old married man. Our conversation covers thoughts on commitment, self-awareness, and realistic expectations in relationships.
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Keep The Important Important #771
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore various pieces of cringe-worthy marriage advice often found on social media, particularly TikTok.
We discuss the implications of popular sayings like 'Happy wife equals happy life' and 'Never go to bed angry,' highlighting how these phrases can lead to unhealthy dynamics in relationships. The conversation dives into the complexities of com
Be The Adult In The Room #770
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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of differentiation in parenting, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation, modeling behavior, and teaching children how to handle their emotions.
We explore the various stages of child development, from early childhood to adulthood, and how parents can guide their children through emotion
Cringeworthy Marriage Advice #769
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore various pieces of cringe-worthy marriage advice often found on social media, particularly TikTok.
We discuss the implications of popular sayings like 'Happy wife equals happy life' and 'Never go to bed angry,' highlighting how these phrases can lead to unhealthy dynamics in relationships. The conversation dives into the complexities of com
Mind Mapping in Sex #768
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of mind mapping and its implications for communication in marriage.
We explore how mind mapping influences the way we perceive and react to each other, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and understanding in navigating relationship dynamics. We also highlight common pitfalls such as over-certainty, anxiety, and miscom
Best of SMR: Attraction and Desire | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #767
We go back into the vault and hear a regular guest again today, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, as we dive into the relational dynamic of attraction and desire.
They happen to us, and we choose them.
They naturally ebb and flow.
And how do we get them back if they are lost?
Learn more about Jennifer here - https://finlayson-fife.com/
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Covert Contracts #766
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of covert contracts in marriage, exploring how unspoken agreements can lead to frustration and resentment.
We discuss a listener's email about feeling unappreciated despite being a good spouse and the challenges of initiating intimacy without pressure. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of open communication, breaking t
Conflict Can Refine The Marriage #765
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of conflict in marriage, particularly in the context of parenting and managing family dynamics. We explore how conflict can arise from external pressures and how couples can navigate these challenges together.
Our conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding each other's responses to conflict, utilizing resource
Masturbation: A Path to Intimacy? #764
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I answer an email from a listener about how she can seek her own pleasure after orgasm troubles have appeared. The wife shares that she has been diagnosed with lichen planus, which has impacted her ability to orgasm during intercourse. Despite this, she can still achieve orgasm through masturbation and is contemplating whether it is selfish to ask he
The Power Of Vacations #763
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss how vacations can serve as a vital reset for relationships, allowing couples to reconnect and rejuvenate their bond.
We explore the dynamics of vacationing, the importance of creating bandwidth for each other, and how to implement the relaxed mindset of vacations into everyday life. This is more about the need for intentionality in maintai
Your Fantasy Life Is Not Just Yours #762
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of how our fantasy life, desires and sexual practices are not just ours. We emphasize the importance of owning one's desires while recognizing the impact those desires have on spouses.
Our conversation explores themes of gridlock in relationships, the pursuit of 'enough' in intimacy, and the necessity of self-development
Best of SMR: Reclaiming Women’s Sexuality | Francie Winslow #761
In this Best of SMR conversation, Francie Winslow shares her transformative journey from the constraints of purity culture to embracing a vibrant and fulfilling sexual life within marriage. She discusses the importance of understanding sexuality as a divine gift, the need for education and growth in sexual intimacy, and the detrimental effects of silence and shame surrounding women's sexuality.
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Exit Strategies #760
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing communication shutdowns in relationships. They explore various strategies that individuals use to avoid uncomfortable conversations, such as minimizing issues, fix-it modes, stonewalling, and scorekeeping. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the courage to confront persona
My Husband’s ED #759
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the holiday season and the tradition of setting three words to guide the upcoming year.
We also dive into a listener's email regarding her husband's erectile dysfunction, exploring the complexities of control in relationships, the impact of stress, and the importance of reframing sexual intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the need for s
Sex For Rewards #758
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual relationships within marriage, particularly focusing on the idea of sex as a reward system.
We explore the potential pitfalls of this approach, including the impact on desire, compliance, and the overall connection between spouses. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of maintaining a playful and honest dyn
Best of SMR: Better Oral Sex #757
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit the most popular episode of SMR in 2025.
Pam and I explore the complexities of sexual intimacy within marriage, emphasizing the importance of meaningful connections over mere technique. Particularly when it come to oral sex.
We discuss the concept of differentiation, the impact of trauma on sexual experiences, and the dynamics of self-confidence i
Holiday Survival Guide #756
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the challenges couples face during the holiday season, including managing family dynamics, setting boundaries, and maintaining intimacy.
How can we all be better at navigating the pressures of consumerism and family expectations while also understanding the importance of teamwork and preparation in a marriage.
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How Placating Hurts Marriage #755
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, our conversation explores the dynamics of conflict in relationships, focusing on defensive responses and communication patterns that can escalate tensions.
Pam and I share personal experiences of how defensiveness can hinder effective communication and lead to frustration between spouses.
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Before You Say I Do (For Real) #754
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the the importance of preparing for marriage, character development, navigating conflict, understanding financial values, and fostering emotional maturity before marriage.
We emphasize the need for open communication and trust, and how parents can guide their children in forming healthy relationships. Our conversation highlights that marriage is
Post Menopause And I Can’t Orgasm #753
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the need to retune both sexual and marital systems to adapt to changing dynamics. Particularly when menopause happens.
We want to encourage a focus on personal growth and understanding within the relationship, rather than solely on physical outcomes.
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Talk About Sex With Your Kids #752
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the importance of teaching children about sex and sexuality in a healthy and age-appropriate manner. There is a need for open communication between parents and children, and sex education should not be a one-time conversation but rather an ongoing dialogue.
We provide practical principles for discussing these topics, including the importance of
Solo Sex #751
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, let's have a conversation about solo sex (i.e. masturbation).
And this episode it's Dr Corey solo, as he covers an email from a listener asking how to maintain sexual connection and intimacy when spouses are apart. I explore how individuals maintain their sexual feelings and desires in the absence of their spouse, including the role of personal reflection
I Want To Slow Down #750
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I dive into the complexities of communication in marriage, particularly around sexual dynamics and desires. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding different needs and preferences in intimacy, the role of foreplay, and the challenges of vulnerability and control in sexual relationships.
We encourage you to learn to ask better que
In My Head #749
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss a listener's email regarding premature ejaculation and the psychological factors that may contribute to it.
We explore the dynamics of sexual desire, the importance of communication between partners, and strategies for retraining the nervous system to enhance intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the need for collaboration and understandi
Whose Pleasure Is It, Really? #748
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore a complex email from a listener struggling with intimacy and respect in her relationship.
We explore themes of sexual connection, the importance of boundaries, and the distinction between compatibility and respect. Our conversation emphasizes the need for personal empowerment, the significance of reclaiming one's voice and desires, and th
The Five Senses In Sex | Gary Thomas #747
In this conversation, Gary Thomas joins me as we explore the intricacies of married intimacy, focusing on the importance of emotional connection and the five senses in enhancing sexual experiences.
We discuss how cultural perspectives shape our understanding of intimacy, the significance of touch, sound, taste, sight, and smell, and how these elements can be integrated to create a richer, more f
Love In Action #746
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the complexities of love in action within marriage, addressing the common phrase 'I know he loves me, but...' and its implications. We discuss the difference between love as an emotion and love as demonstrated through actions, emphasizing the importance of tangible expressions of love.
The conversation dives into the dynamics of self-decep
I know he loves me, but… #745
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into the complexities of marital intimacy and emotional disconnect, sparked by a listener's email.
We explore themes of self-love, communication barriers, and the impact of conditional love on relationships. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of personal growth and taking responsibility for one's own emotional well-being, while also address
Can I Get My Spouse To Care? #744
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of marriage, focusing on health, sexuality, and the impact of personal choices on relationships.
A wife emails us asking how she can help her husband care about their sex life.
Our conversation explores how anxiety can manifest in physical ways, the importance of integrity in communication, and the need for collaboration in add
The Intersection of Sexuality and Spirituality | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #743
In this conversation, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me as we explore the intricate relationship between sexuality and spirituality, emphasizing the importance of intimacy and personal growth within marriages.
We discuss the challenges of navigating desire, vulnerability, and the dynamics of relationships, while also highlighting the need for authenticity and self-discovery.
Dr Jennifer also
Stop Outsourcing Desire To Your Spouse #742
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the concept of outsourcing sexual desire within marriage. We explore how individuals often hand over the responsibility of sexual energy to their partners, leading to a disconnect in intimacy.
Our conversation emphasizes the importance of owning one's desire, understanding the biological and environmental influences on sexual interest, and recog
Initiation Takes Two #741
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complexities of sexual initiation within marriage, focusing on the dynamics between higher and lower desire partners.
What are the challenges of initiating intimacy, the pressures involved, and the importance of communication and understanding each partner's needs?
Our conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to take responsibili
My Body Shuts Down Right Before Orgasm #740
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore into the complexities of vaginismus and its impact on sexual relationships. We explore the emotional and psychological aspects of sexuality, emphasizing the importance of understanding desire, inhibition, and shared responsibility in intimate encounters.
Our conversation highlights the need to reframe sexual expectations and focus on connection
Marriage Advice That Isn’t Helpful #739
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore common phrases and beliefs about marriage that may not hold true.
Phrases like 'You complete me,' the 50-50 marriage proposition, and the idea that love conquers all. We dive into the complexities of marriage, emphasizing the importance of individuality, communication, and realistic expectations. What are your own beliefs and what phrases resona
Best of SMR: Anxiety As A Smoke Signal | Dr John Delony #738
An episode from the vault - Dr. John Delony joins me as we talk through the concept of anxiety as a smoke signal, indicating that something is amiss in our lives.
He encourages individuals to face their discomfort and choose the hard path of growth and change (sound familiar?). He also highlights the significance of belief in something bigger than ourselves and the need to drive our own lives ins
Surrendered Sexuality | Dr Juli Slattery #737
In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins me as we dive into the complexities of Christian sexuality, exploring themes of trust, identity, and the integration of faith with sexual intimacy.
We discuss the challenges Christians face in surrendering their sexuality to God, the importance of understanding behavior versus identity, and the biblical perspectives on sexuality.
Juli emphasizes the jou
Willingness vs Intent #736
In this episode, we answer a listeners question about how to address an issue that has come up now that his wife has had a partial hysterectomy and gets too wet so there is a loss of friction.
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We explore the difference between a willingness vs intent to have sex. Only this segment is one where Pam and I are not on the same page and it goes a completely
Too Much Focus On The Beginning – Live from the Getaway #735
In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, we explore how spending too much focus on the beginning of a sexual encounter can actually hurt the desire levels in both spouses.
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The second portion of the live Q&A session from the 2025 Getaway.
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Sex Quiz – Live from the Getaway #734
In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, I quiz Pam and the audience on what they know about various aspects of sex.
Follow along, or get a piece of paper and see how you score.
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Grief and Infertility #733
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we address the complexities of navigating new relationships after experiencing loss. We discuss the challenges faced by a young widow who is trying to reconcile her past relationship with her new partner, emphasizing the importance of establishing boundaries, open communication, and allowing space for grief.
Our conversation highlights the necessity of coll
The Problem With Love Languages #732
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we explore the Love Languages from Gary Chapman. Specifically we dive into how there are some problems with them that can actually be harmful to relationships.
How exactly can something so widely known, and even loved, be possible?
Listen to find out.
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Best of SMR: Obligation Sex | Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #731
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit an archive show with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We dive into the topic of obligation sex.
Is it a part of every marriage?
Is it harmful to one, or both spouses?
To learn more from Jennifer and find her Room For Two Podcast – check out her site https://www.finlayson-fife.com/
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Desire For Sex Or For Your Spouse #730
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into an email from a listener wanting help with the complexities of desire and connection in marriage.
A husband is feeling used in a relationship where sexual interest seems limited to ovulation periods.
Our conversation dives into the dynamics of sexual desire, the impact of past trauma, and the importance of communication in navigating these c
Mistakes We Make In Sex #729
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore common mistakes that couples make in their sexual relationships. They categorize these mistakes into those typically made by men and women, discussing issues such as communication, self-care, and understanding each other's desires.
The conversation emphasizes the importance of connection and intimacy over mere physical encounters, encouraging cou
Best of SMR: Mutual Masturbation #728
We go back into the archives to one of the Best of SMR episodes.
An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband.
What’s the difference between sexual thoughts and lust?
A husband wanting to know what to do when he’s tried to live in a way that ignites his wife’s passion (according to an old post I wrote – https://smr.
Understanding Our Functioning Is The Key To A Better Marriage #727
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the concept of regressions and how they affect emotional functioning.
We discuss the different types of regressions, the impact of stress, and the contagious nature of regression in relationships. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's emotional state to
Radical Living | Marni Battista #726
In this episode, Marni Battista shares her journey from blaming her husband for her dissatisfaction to embracing change and personal growth within her relationship. Through her experiences and insights, she emphasizes the importance of asking better questions, designing a life together, and taking responsibility for one's own happiness.
The discussion highlights the significance of collaboration,
Wanting To Be Wanted #725
In this episode, we explore the complex dynamics of wanting to be wanted in relationships, emphasizing the universal nature of this desire.
What's the difference between wanting and needing? How does this play out in the context of intimacy and connection?
Our conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own desires and the role they play in their relationships, ultimately advocating
My Husband Gets No Pleasure From My Pleasure #724
In this call-in episode, Anne discusses her experiences with her husband's lack of interest in her pleasure, she's guessing it is stemming from his background with pornography.
Our conversation explores the dynamics of intimacy, expectations, and communication in their marriage, highlighting the challenges and growth they face together.
We emphasize the importance of mutual pleasure, understan
The Higher Desire Wife | J Parker #723
In this conversation, J. Parker joins me as we talk through the dynamics of desire within relationships, particularly focusing on the experiences of higher desire wives.
We discuss the societal perceptions of sexual desire, the complexities of male sexuality, and the various factors that can influence sexual interest in relationships. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding th
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