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Love This Way!

Love This Way!

Shaleea Venney 140 Episodes Aug 9, 2026

The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!

Episodes

When Life Is Hard, Don't Make Your Spouse Pay for It
When Life Is Hard, Don't Make Your Spouse Pay for It Aug 9, 2026 830 Send us Fan MailMaybe your relationship isn't broken. Maybe you're just exhausted.Sometimes life gets so heavy that the person you love most ends up getting what's left of you.You held it together at work.You were patient with the kids.You answered everyone's questions.You handled the bills.You solved everyone else's problems.And then you come home...and your spouse gets t
When did we stop flirting with the person we fell in love with?
When did we stop flirting with the person we fell in love with? Aug 3, 2026 786 Send us Fan MailSomewhere between the bills, the kids, the grocery lists, the responsibilities, and everyday life… we can accidentally stop dating the person we're already committed to.But being secure doesn't mean you have to stop pursuing each other.You can be married and still flirt.You can be comfortable and still be playful.You can know they're yours and still make them feel wa
The Greatest Relationship Skill Isn't Communication. It's Self-Government!
The Greatest Relationship Skill Isn't Communication. It's Self-Government! Jul 27, 2026 610 Send us Fan MailMost people think the greatest threat to a relationship is poor communication.I don't.I think it's poor character.Because communication doesn't stop you from cheating.Communication doesn't stop you from lying.Communication doesn't stop you from crossing boundaries you know you shouldn't cross.Character does.Somewhere along the way, we've become mo
Your Relationship Has an Emotional Economy
Your Relationship Has an Emotional Economy Jul 19, 2026 597 Send us Fan MailI think we've been measuring love the wrong way.We ask,"How much do they do for me?"But maybe that's the wrong question.Because every relationship has an emotional economy.Every compliment...Every broken promise...Every hug...Every criticism...Every thoughtful gesture...Every ignored moment...They're all transactions.But here's the part no one talks ab
Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't!
Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't! Jul 12, 2026 552 Send us Fan MailEveryone says they want accountability in a relationship.But I think most people misunderstand what it actually is.Accountability isn't saying,"Fine... I already admitted I was wrong."It isn't,"I already apologized."And it definitely isn't,"That wasn't my intention."Because admitting you hurt someone isn't the same as caring th
Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself
Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself Jul 5, 2026 658 Send us Fan MailYour partner can't read the story you're telling yourself.And that might be one of the biggest reasons relationships struggle.They walk in the house quiet...You tell yourself they're upset with you.They forget something important...You tell yourself you don't matter.The event lasts a moment.The story can last for months.And here's the heartbreaking part...Y
The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On
The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On Jun 21, 2026 688 Send us Fan MailToday isn't just Father's Day.Today is for the fathers nobody checks on.The ones who carry the weight of the world without telling anyone how heavy it feels.The men who lie awake wondering if they're doing enough.The fathers who cry in the car before walking into the house because their family needs them to be strong.The men who quietly sacrifice things their childre
Can You Love Me When It Hurts?
Can You Love Me When It Hurts? Jun 14, 2026 636 Send us Fan MailMost people ask:"Can you love me?"But the deeper question is:Can you love me when it hurts?Can you love me when you're disappointed in me?Can you love me when I'm struggling?Can you love me when I'm not showing up perfectly?Can you love me when life gets hard?Because anybody can love when everything feels good.The real test of love comes when hurt enters th
The Best Parts of Love Are Actually Small
The Best Parts of Love Are Actually Small Jun 7, 2026 600 Send us Fan MailWe spend so much time looking for the big moments in love...The proposal.The wedding.The grand gesture.The expensive gift.But if we're honest?The best parts of love are usually the smallest.Because real love isn't built in one extraordinary moment.It's built in a thousand ordinary ones.And one day, when you look back on the people who loved you well, you probably won
Complacency in Relationships: Why Do You Expect Them to Keep Choosing You If You’ve Stopped Showing Up?
Complacency in Relationships: Why Do You Expect Them to Keep Choosing You If You’ve Stopped Showing Up? May 31, 2026 634 Send us Fan MailComplacency doesn’t usually destroy a relationship overnight.It happens slowly.The dates stop.The compliments stop.The flirting fades.The effort gets replaced with routine.And the person you love starts feeling less like they’re chosen… and more like they’re just there.Comfort in a relationship is beautiful.Complacency is not.You chose them.So how long do they have to keep choosing
There’s a Big Difference Between “They Don’t Care” and “They’re Trying”
There’s a Big Difference Between “They Don’t Care” and “They’re Trying” May 24, 2026 551 Send us Fan MailThere’s a huge difference between the spouse who simply doesn’t care…and the one who may get things wrong—but genuinely means well and is trying their best.And if we treat those two like they’re the same…we create pain where there only needed to be patience, perspective, and grace.Not every missed expectation is intentional.Not every mistake means they don’t care.Sometimes your par
Nobody Talks About the Grief Inside Relationships
Nobody Talks About the Grief Inside Relationships May 17, 2026 646 Send us Fan MailNobody talks about the grief that can exist inside a relationship that never ended.Not all grief comes from breakups.Sometimes it comes from:the romance that never camethe effort that slowly fadedthe emotional connection that changedthe version of love you thought you were buildingAnd the hardest part is…many people carry this pain silently because “nothing bad technically happened

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