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Love This Way!

Love This Way!

Shaleea Venney 140 Episodes Sep 13, 2026

The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!

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Men don’t age like fine wine. Neither do women!
Men don’t age like fine wine. Neither do women! Sep 13, 2026 1050 Send us Fan MailMen don’t age like fine wine. Neither do women.We’ve been sold two completely different stories about aging:Men get better.Women expire.Men become “silver foxes.”Women are told to fight every sign of getting older.But the truth is, aging doesn’t exempt anyone.Men experience changes in testosterone, sexual function, sperm quality and fertility. Women experience their own biological
Some Marriages Don’t Need More Love. They Need Less Defensiveness.
Some Marriages Don’t Need More Love. They Need Less Defensiveness. Sep 6, 2026 878 Send us Fan MailSome marriages don’t need more love. They need less defensiveness.Because sometimes your partner says, “That hurt me,” and instead of hearing them, you start explaining why they shouldn’t feel that way.They say, “I need more from you,” and you start listing everything you already do.They bring up their pain, and you bring up their mistakes.Eventually, they stop talking.Not because
What Are You Two Actually Building Together?
What Are You Two Actually Building Together? Aug 30, 2026 858 Send us Fan MailYou can love each other deeply and still stop building a life together.You share the bills.The house.The kids.The responsibilities.But what are you actually building?What are your shared dreams?Your traditions?Your adventures?Your memories?Your vision for the future?Because marriage isn't about losing yourself to become "we."It's about bringing you, bringing the
YOU DON'T BECOME ROOMMATES OVERNIGHT. YOU PRACTICE IT.
YOU DON'T BECOME ROOMMATES OVERNIGHT. YOU PRACTICE IT. Aug 23, 2026 888 Send us Fan MailYou don't become roommates overnight. You practice it.It usually starts innocently.Different work schedules. Different bedtimes. Different routines. Kids.And before you know it, you're sharing a house...but not really sharing a life.And the scariest part?The household can still function perfectly while the marriage inside it is starving.I'm not saying you have to spe
When Life Is Hard, Don't Make Your Spouse Pay for It
When Life Is Hard, Don't Make Your Spouse Pay for It Aug 9, 2026 830 Send us Fan MailMaybe your relationship isn't broken. Maybe you're just exhausted.Sometimes life gets so heavy that the person you love most ends up getting what's left of you.You held it together at work.You were patient with the kids.You answered everyone's questions.You handled the bills.You solved everyone else's problems.And then you come home...and your spouse gets t
When did we stop flirting with the person we fell in love with?
When did we stop flirting with the person we fell in love with? Aug 3, 2026 786 Send us Fan MailSomewhere between the bills, the kids, the grocery lists, the responsibilities, and everyday life… we can accidentally stop dating the person we're already committed to.But being secure doesn't mean you have to stop pursuing each other.You can be married and still flirt.You can be comfortable and still be playful.You can know they're yours and still make them feel wa
The Greatest Relationship Skill Isn't Communication. It's Self-Government!
The Greatest Relationship Skill Isn't Communication. It's Self-Government! Jul 27, 2026 610 Send us Fan MailMost people think the greatest threat to a relationship is poor communication.I don't.I think it's poor character.Because communication doesn't stop you from cheating.Communication doesn't stop you from lying.Communication doesn't stop you from crossing boundaries you know you shouldn't cross.Character does.Somewhere along the way, we've become mo
Your Relationship Has an Emotional Economy
Your Relationship Has an Emotional Economy Jul 19, 2026 597 Send us Fan MailI think we've been measuring love the wrong way.We ask,"How much do they do for me?"But maybe that's the wrong question.Because every relationship has an emotional economy.Every compliment...Every broken promise...Every hug...Every criticism...Every thoughtful gesture...Every ignored moment...They're all transactions.But here's the part no one talks ab
Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't!
Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't! Jul 12, 2026 552 Send us Fan MailEveryone says they want accountability in a relationship.But I think most people misunderstand what it actually is.Accountability isn't saying,"Fine... I already admitted I was wrong."It isn't,"I already apologized."And it definitely isn't,"That wasn't my intention."Because admitting you hurt someone isn't the same as caring th
Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself
Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself Jul 5, 2026 658 Send us Fan MailYour partner can't read the story you're telling yourself.And that might be one of the biggest reasons relationships struggle.They walk in the house quiet...You tell yourself they're upset with you.They forget something important...You tell yourself you don't matter.The event lasts a moment.The story can last for months.And here's the heartbreaking part...Y
The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On
The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On Jun 21, 2026 688 Send us Fan MailToday isn't just Father's Day.Today is for the fathers nobody checks on.The ones who carry the weight of the world without telling anyone how heavy it feels.The men who lie awake wondering if they're doing enough.The fathers who cry in the car before walking into the house because their family needs them to be strong.The men who quietly sacrifice things their childre
Can You Love Me When It Hurts?
Can You Love Me When It Hurts? Jun 14, 2026 636 Send us Fan MailMost people ask:"Can you love me?"But the deeper question is:Can you love me when it hurts?Can you love me when you're disappointed in me?Can you love me when I'm struggling?Can you love me when I'm not showing up perfectly?Can you love me when life gets hard?Because anybody can love when everything feels good.The real test of love comes when hurt enters th

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