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Heal Deeper: Sex Addiction, Pornography, and Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Stop Just Cutting the Crabgrass

Heal Deeper: Sex Addiction, Pornography, and Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Stop Just Cutting the Crabgrass
Heal Deeper is a podcast about sex addiction, pornography, and betrayal trauma recovery. It goes beyond surface-level behavior management and looks at the deeper biological, emotional, psychological, cultural, and relational roots of compulsive sexual behavior. The show features honest conversations, professional insights, lived experiences, and compassionate education to help individuals, partners, couples, and practitioners understand recovery, rebuilding trust, emotional regulation, intimacy, and reconnection.
Episodes

The Escalation Trap: Why Modern Porn Takes Root So Fast
If you have ever wondered why problematic online content use seems to intensify over time, requiring more frequent engagement, longer hours, or increasingly extreme material, you are not alone. In this episode, I draw on my more than 30 years as a clinical psychologist specializing in compulsive behaviors and relational trauma to explain the underlying mechanisms behind escalation. This is not a

Pornography as Medication: Dealing with the Underlying Wound
Most people assume that compulsive online content use is primarily about sexual desire, an inability to control an urge, a bad habit, or a character flaw. But after more than 30 years of treating individuals who struggle with these patterns, I can tell you it is rarely about sexual desire. It is about unmanaged emotional pain that has nowhere else to go. In this episode, I unpack how problematic o

The Divided Self: Reclaiming Identity Amidst Addiction
In almost every initial session I conduct, a client facing discovery or disclosure will look at me and say: "I don't know who I am anymore. I thought I had values, but looking at what I've done, I don't recognize myself." Drawing on more than 30 years as a clinical psychologist specializing in compulsive behaviors and relational trauma, I unpack the profound identity confusion at the very heart of

The Truth About Relapse: Why Growth Isn't a Straight Line
When a partner promises they will "never again" engage in compulsive behaviors, it feels like the only acceptable response to the devastation of relational betrayal. But what happens when a slip occurs? Does it mean recovery isn't working, or that desire for change was fake? Drawing on my 30 years as a clinical psychologist, I speak directly to both partners and individuals navigating recovery to

Rewiring Love: The Truth About the Pornified Generation
I need to be blunt about a systemic crisis we can no longer afford to handle delicately: the toxic alliance between hyper-masculine "bro culture" and modern pornography, and the devastating impact it is having on our children. Drawing on my more than 30 years as a clinical psychologist specializing in relational trauma and compulsive behaviors, I unpack how we are raising an entire generation in

Cultural Capture: Why the Environment is Pornified
In this inaugural episode, I am drawing on more than 30 years of clinical experience specializing in relational trauma and compulsive behavioral patterns to unpack a silent cultural transformation. We often look at problematic online content use as an isolated, individual struggle, but what happens when the digital environment itself has been structurally engineered to capture our attention? I am
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