Where Do I Sit's Podcast
A podcast hosted by married couple Alessia and Sasha, exploring topics relevant to queer women and all women. They discuss their unfiltered thoughts with humor and sass, occasionally featuring guests. The show challenges societal norms and invites listeners to question where they stand, covering pressing and upbeat topics alike. The hosts aim to create honest conversations about identity, relationships, and acceptance.
Episodes
One Night Stands - EP57
You asked and we delivered - it's time to talk about one night stands! A & S debate the technicality of one night stands, recount past experiences, share best practices along with stories from our community. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Long Distance Relationships - EP56
This one is DEFINITELY lesbian-coded! Sasha & Alessia discuss long distance relationships, their thoughts, experiences and whether they'd be down to go at it again.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Catching Up - EP55
We're baaaaack! And ready to serve you the scolding hot tea on the queertivities we got up to during the break.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Navigating Mismatched Libidos - EP53
Sometimes couples can become a little mismatched, even if they weren't initially. A & S have decided to explore the topic of the difference in libidos and how they both handled it in their relationship.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Fan Advice & Confessions - EP52
You guys wanted more and that's exactly what we're giving! A new episode filled with fan confessions being met with some good old fashion WDIS advice.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Squirting Myths - EP51
Sasha and Alessia demystify Squirting with scientific research, debunking myths and verifying truths along the way. The pair also share their thoughts and whether or not they would be down for some firsthand experience.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Loving Late Bloomers - EP50
A & S break out the "party hats" to celebrate the people in the community who may be a little "late" to the party. 🥳 Coming out, emotions, experiences, they cover it all they discuss why the queer experience is unique for everyone.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
The Art of Kissing - EP49
Alessia and Sasha sitting in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G! The girls explore the art that is kissing, discuss their preferences and share a little fan feedback along the way.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
How P*rn Messes with Lesbian Sexpectations - EP48
The girls get down to business and unpack the weighted topic of mainstream p*rn's influence in lesbian relationships. They also share experience, recommendations and insider secrets most people don't know.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Catching Up - EP47
Aannnddd, we're back! The girls are back and spilling the tea on all the things they've been up to. Silly moments, mishaps and exciting new experiences are laid bare to the Jellies without guilt or shame. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Advice for Fans PT2 - EP45
Our advice episode is back by popular demand! The Jellies asked and we answered, join us as we shared thoughts and experiences.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Diversifying Your Circle with Dimplez & Ginger - EP44
The girls welcome Dimplez & Ginger to the podcast to discuss the importance of diversity, first encounters and determine who's the gayest of them all.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Millennials vs Social Media - EP43
Sasha & Alessia take a nostalgic stroll down memory lane, recounting iconic moments in pop culture and shared experiences most 90's babies can relate to.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
How to “Go Down” Like a Pro - EP42
Class is back in session! Professors S & A (we're kidding) give pointers on the do's and don'ts of P Licking, reveal their preferences and share some of your stories.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Valentine's Day - EP41
It's Valentine's Day! 🌹 A & S discuss their perspectives on V Day while sharing the small and not-so-small acts of love they appreciate the most from each other. Bestie/Assistant Dimplez also phones in her observations of the couple over the years and shares her thoughts on the topic.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Bush Talk - EP40
Let's talk about bushes! The reveal their personal preferences for themselves and others while discussing the "comeback" of the bush and how it lowkey never left.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
New Year, New Queer! - EP39
The girls are back and they're discussing New Year's resolutions, creating and breaking old habits and sharing fan feedback.Are New Year’s resolutions your thing?(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Advice for Fans - EP37
The Jellies wrote to us and we answered! Join us as we give our genuine advice to the members of the community who need it most.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Early Signs of Gayness - EP36
S & A recall past feelings and experiences they consider early indicators of their gayness. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Service Tops w The Real Gayaos - EP35
Finally, the crossover episode we've all been waiting for! The hosts of Gayaos pay the girls a visit, reminiscing over shared experiences, the evolution of their friendshipuation and all the trouble they manage to get themselves into. Connect with our guests here.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Health & Fitness - EP34
The newlyweds unpack their personal fitness journeys, what keeps them motivated and the importance of prioritizing health.Disclaimer: Every person’s body is different based on age, location, medical history, where we are in life. We are speaking from personal experience and are in no way framing our journey and feedback as ‘expert advice’. ‘Physique’ is not the main focus of this episode, instead
Asstastic Chats - EP33
A & S discuss what they love most about each other's booty, celebrate the existence of bumbum and give pointers on executing the perfect spank.Any Masters of Spanking in the chat? 👀(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Masc & Fem - EP32
The girls unpack masculine and feminine identities within the queer community and discuss their personal evolution along the years. Later, their Personal Assistant Dimplez, joins the discussion to pick their brains and delve even deeper into their experiences. Are we down for a fem A and masc Sasha? Would Sasha’s moves work on you? Let us know in the comments below!(Full FREE video episodes availa
Strapping 101 - EP31
Sasha & Alessia return to just in time for Halloween to discuss strapping preferences, techniques and best practices.Do you and your partners use condoms on your strap? And do you discard your toys when entering a new relationship?Disclaimer: This episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Hosts are not telling their audience what or what not to do.(Full FREE video episodes av
Our Honeymoon (Bonus Video) - EP30
Join your favorite pair of queers as they walk you through their honeymoon experience and the cobbleston streets of Italy. 🇮🇹(Full video for this bonus episode exclusively available to Members on our YouTube channel)
Monogamish - EP29
A & S define what it means to be "monogamish" and how it manifests in their relationship, while exploring the WLW community's stance on the lifestyle.Have you ever considered a monogamish lifestyle?(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
LGBTQ+ Allyship w/ Mel & Ben - EP28
It's Mel & Ben! 🥰 The girls invite their favorite allies to the show to pick their brains about what it means to support the community, while discussing their forever friendship.Connect with our guests here.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Female Orgasms - EP27
Sasha and Alessia discuss the enigmatic female orgasm, their individual experiences and the steps they take to achieve their own.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Kinks & Fetishes w/ Noelle Perdue - EP26
The girls host their first in-person guest, p0rn historian Noelle Perdue. The trio explore the topics of queerness, kinks, fetishes and other less explored subject matters throughout their conversation.Find out more about our guest here.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Scissoring - EP25
A & S tackle 'scissoring' - it's portrayal in the media over the years, public perception, content consumption and personal participation.Get your wands today at our JFG storeUse code JFG with your next Wet For Her purchase(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Icks - 24
The girls define "icks" while discussing their own, as well as their icks about each other and fan-submitted experiences. What’s the 1 thing you do that may be considered an ick to others? But also, how do you take your ketchup? 😂(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Bad Texters - EP23
Alessia & Sasha give their personal definitions of a 'bad texter', while coming clean about their own text practices and expectations. Can anyone relate to Sasha’s texting struggles?(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Our Wedding (Bonus Episode) - EP22
Join Alessia and Sasha as they walk you through the most magical event of their lives - their destination wedding.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Faking Orgasms - EP21
Join your favourite queers as they dive the into the topic of "faking it", while discussing the intent and influence that motivated them to fake it in the past.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Period Seks - EP20
The duo discuss the not-so-taboo topic of having seks while on your period.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
P0rn Conversations with a Licensed Therapist - EP19
Sasha and Alessia host their very first guest, Sarah Newbold, a licensed therapist and the founder of "Progressive Therapeutic Collective", a nationwide mental health practice in Australia. Together the trio unpack sexual stigmas along with examining the role porn can play in our lives.Find out more about our guest here.(Full FREE video episodes available on our
Personal Care & Hygiene - EP18
The girls share their personal care and hygiene practices, inclusive of hair, skin and cleansing routines.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Lesbian Bed Death - EP17
A & S dismantle the myth of "lesbian bed death", unpacking the ebbs and flows of sexual frequency while in long-term relationships. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Lesbian Seks Positions - EP16
The duo discuss their best/favourite lesbian seks positions and the greatness of the experience.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Sapphic Flirting - EP15
Alessia & Sasha share tips on sapphic flirting and it's challenges, as well as friend group etiquette and the best places to meet others.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
How We Met (Bonus Episode) - EP14
The newlyweds recount how they met along with the important 'firsts' in their relationship. All while colouring and giving JQ1 the attention and praise she deserves.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Toys & Tips - EP13
Sasha and Alessia unpack sex toys and self-pleasure. The duo discuss various types and give their recommendations based on their preference and experiences.Vibrator/Nose test: If you sneeze or get too harsh of a tickle, that vibrator is too strong for you. A slower one is recommended.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Friends with Exes - EP12
The girls discuss whether or not its possible to have a healthy friendship with your ex, especially while in a relationship. They also recount their past experiences and examine scenarios wherein the friendships make sense.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Threesomes - EP11
Episode 11 “Threesomes”The duo finally unpack their most requested topic - threesomes! They discuss how their exploration began, the evolution and what they have found works best for them both. The pair also give the recommendations on best practices and traps to avoid when seeking a third.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Red vs Green Flags - EP10
A & S delve into the topic of red flags and how they may represent deeper rooted issues within a person/relationship. The couple also counter with green flags and other positive behaviours that may signal a healthy pairing. Fairly comparing both sides of each coin to offer a balanced discussion. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Ghosting - EP9
The girls unpack the practice of ghosting and the potential long-term impact it can have on a person. The pair also present suitable alternative methods of ending things without leaving the other person lost or confused. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Healthy Relationships - EP8
Alessia & Sasha discuss the heavily requested topic of healthy relationships - how to increase the chances of longevity, best practices and how they navigate their own coupling.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
U-Haul Lesbians - EP7
The newly-weds define what it means to be a U-Haul lesbian, unpack their personal relationship timeline and give solid recommendations as to why one should reconsider.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Doobies & Cookies (Bonus Holiday Episode) - EP6
A & S give holiday greetings and prepare for the show’s break while discussing future plans and decorating gingerbread cookies.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Sex & Dating - EP5
Your favorite pair of queers discuss their most embarrassing sex and dating stories, past and present, while bonding over shared hilarious experiences. The story-telling continues as they read through user-submitted experiences. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Get To Know Us! - EP1
Married queer couple Alessia and Sasha introduce themselves, their fur babies (JQ1 & JQ2) and new podcast to the world. Small but mighty Sasha challenges others to expand their views on the world around them while Alessia takes a more playful approach to life, balancing each other out.(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Love Languages - EP4
The duo define and discuss love languages, share their results and how they manifest and show up for each other. Take the test and let us know your results below!(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Gay Awakening - EP3
The girls define the term “gay awakening” and discuss their own. They also unpack their first queer sexual encounters, comparing experiences with men and the role pop culture played throughout their journeys. (Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube channel)
Coming Out - EP2
Sasha & Alessia discuss their preferred pronouns/labels, first crushes, sexual experiences and individual coming out stories. They also examine how vastly different their experiences were due to upbringing and voice call a childhood bestie to recount stories.Do you have a coming out story? Share with the class. ↓(Full FREE video episodes available on our YouTube
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