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Episode 57: Breaking The Frame- Exposing Family Secrets While Healing Generational Trauma Jul 3, 2025 00:56:27 Episode 57Duration: 56:28Host: Rosalia Rivera Guest: Amanda MustardContent Warning: This episode contains frank discussions about sexual abuse, incest, and family trauma. Please take care of yourself while listening.Key Topics DiscussedThe complexity of family abuse: Moving beyond black-and-white narratives to understand the messy reality of being abused by someone you loveNormalization within fam

Ep 56 Gambiling With Kids Lives Apr 23, 2025 00:30:52 In this eye-opening episode, I discuss Meta's platforms and their impact on young users' safety and wellbeing. Despite public messaging about prioritizing safety, internal research and whistleblower testimonies reveal alarming gaps in protection that expose children to sexual predators, harmful content, and dangerous interactions. I examine Meta's business decisions when faced with implementing l

Ep 55 [Part 2] The Cost of Silence: The Le Scouarnec Case with guest Mié Kohiyama Mar 17, 2025 00:58:43 The Cost of Silence: The Le Scouarnec Case [Part 2]Host:Rosalia RiveraGuest:Mié KohiyamaDuration:58:44Release Date:March 16, 2025Episode SummaryIn this powerful continuation of The Cost of Silence, we dive deeper into the horrifying case of Joël Le Scouarnec, one of France’s most prolific child sex abusers. Joining us is Mié Kohiyama, a French journalist, survivor, and leading activist in the figh

Ep 54 [Part 1] The Cost of Silence: The Le Scouarnec Case Mar 16, 2025 00:18:22 The Cost of Silence – The Le Scouarnec Case (Part 1)Host: Rosalia RiveraDuration: 18:22Release Date: March 16, 2025Episode SummaryIn this gripping episode, we dive into the harrowing case of surgeon Joël Le Scouarnec, one of France’s most notorious serial child sex abusers. His decades-long history of abuse was shrouded in silence, concealed by institutions that failed to act. We examine the syste

Ep 53 Grooming Uncovered: What Every Parent Needs to Know Feb 13, 2025 00:50:03 Host: Rosalia RiveraGuest: Anna Sonoda, licensed clinical social worker and author of Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a TargetDuration: 50:04Release Date: February 12, 2025Key Takeaways with Timestamps[00:00] Welcome & IntroductionI introduce my guest, Anna Sonoda, and share why her book, Duck Duck Groom, is an essential read for parents.[02:22] Anna’s Background & How She Start

Ep 52 Online Safety For ALL Ages in 2024 Jul 18, 2024 00:46:31 Links mentioned in this episode:BARK TechnologiesTitania Jordan on InstagramAbout Titania Jordan:Titania Jordan is the Chief Marketing Officer and Chief Parent Officer of Bark Technologies, an online safety company that helps keep kids safe online and in real life.A renowned thought leader on digital parenting, Titania has contributed to pieces in the Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Huffington Post,

Ep 51 How HEAT is Pushing Apple to Prioritize Child Protection May 30, 2024 00:43:03 Here are the links from the show:Take Action link (emails to Apple and the petition): https://protectchildrennotabuse.org/take-action/ Follow and Engage with the HEAT Initiative (and sign up for their newsletter)Heat WebsiteTwitterInstagramLinkedinTHORN blog explaining KOSA (Kids Online Safety Act)

Ep 50 Season 3 REBOOT Launch May 26, 2024 00:13:38 Rosalia Rivera discussed the reboot of the podcast for season 3 and what the season will bring. That includes talking about the Brave Movement's online safety campaign, Safer Internet, through an exciting new series. She's also releasing episodes about the growing influence of the pedophile movement in society. She emphasized the importance of prioritizing mental health, exposing red flags, and cr

Ep 49 Category A Child Sexual Abuse Material Is Rising May 26, 2023 00:27:42 The Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) is an organization based in the United Kingdom that works to combat the distribution of online child sexual abuse material (CSAM) and other illegal content. Established in 1996, the IWF operates as an independent, self-regulatory body supported by the internet industry, law enforcement agencies, and the government.The main objective of the IWF is to minimize the

Ep 48 Sibling Sexual Abuse and 5Waves.org May 4, 2023 01:02:17 Jane, Hope and Maria, along with Brandy Black and Fiona Ward joined forces to create the non profit organization 5waves.org to help other families affected by SSA.In this episode, we talked about:The prevalence of child sexual abuse in the homeWhy this type of abuse is so often NOT discoveredAcknowledging those who have been harmedThe stigma of disclosing a child’s abuseThe importance of communica

Ep 47 Body Safety Education in All U.S. Schools Apr 27, 2023 01:01:13 “CONTENT WARNING” AND “TRIGGER WARNING.”Erin Merryn joins me to talk about Erin's Law that mandates schools to provide body safety education for grades K-12 in the United States. 38 states have passed the law and in this episode we talk about why she became a champion for schools to teach this education and what the results have been since passing the law in those states. She shares her own person

Ep 46 Reclaiming Your Sexuality Through Cliteracy Aug 2, 2022 00:42:38 In this episode we cover:The orgasm gap and what it is.What cliteracy is and why it's important to become cliterate.How the orgasm gap is affecting heterosexual relationships in the bedroomWhat survivors should know about reclaiming their sexuality through becoming cliterateHow media and mainstream pornography affect the orgasm gapHow our use of language impacts our perspective of pleasureI know y

EP45 What To Do After Disclosure with Yami Pence Jul 19, 2022 00:36:49 “CONTENT WARNING” AND “TRIGGER WARNING.”This episode contains content that may be alarming to some listeners. Please check the show notes for more detailed descriptions and take care of yourself.What would you do if you witnessed a family member being sexually abused? Yamisel Pence found her calling when she had to answer that very question. In this episode, Yami shares with us her journey as a po

EP 44: Tapping And Trauma with Pam Covarubbias and Maria Elena Perez Jun 8, 2022 00:49:33 Links for Pam Covarrubias:https://www.spreadideasmovepeople.com/tappinghttps://www.instagram.com/cobiux/Links for Maria Elena Perez:https://www.instagram.com/maria.elenaperez/ Pam Covarrubias Pam is dynamically skilled as a Liberation Business Coach, EFT Practitioner, Podcaster, and Recovering Procrastinator. She primarily spends her time elevating first-generation business owners by helping them

EP 43: Your Healing Your Way with Rosenna Bakari Apr 19, 2022 00:54:21 0:02 Welcome0:37 Introduction of Dr. Rosenna Bakari. 3:45 Share your journey of getting where you are, and how you're able to help others. 4:23 Dr. Bakari sharing her story. 13:26 Unpacking survivorship of child sexual assault. 17:23 Finding community after experiencing trauma. 26:22 For anyone who's listening, can you share about ACE's and shed some light on what it is for listeners who may not

EP 42: Love Yourself Happy To Find Joy with Shari Alyse Apr 12, 2022 00:40:53 Known as “America’s Joy Magnet”, Shari Alyse is an International Motivational Speaker, #1 Best Selling Author, and Joy Coach. Shari has built a community of over 150k+ followers and has reached over 10 million people.Shari’s deep commitment to others is motivated by her own journey through childhood sexual abuse and other childhood traumas. At seven-years-old, Shari found herself having to use her

EP41 Being The Revolution & Giving Yourself Wings with Kim Guerra Apr 6, 2022 00:43:03 Kim Guerra is a queer woman of color. A butterfly woman who has given herself wings. She is a writer, advocate, and entrepreneur. She is the creator of “Badass x Bonita”, a brand and movement that she considers to be a work of self-love and her love for her community. She wants each person to wear “Badass x Bonita” products as a statement and shield-- a living revolution. Guerra is the author of “

EP40 The Journey to Healing, Self Love, and Coming Back Home to Soul with Christine Gutierrez Mar 22, 2022 00:50:07 Links Mentioned:CONSENT wear website: consentwear.comChristine's website: christineg.tvChristine's Instagram: instagram.com/cosmicchristieAudible Link: audible.com/pd/I-Am-Diosa-Audiobook/0593210794

EP39 Stopping Child Sex Trafficking & Supporting Survivors with LOVE146 Mar 15, 2022 00:51:52 Links Mentioned:Love146: https://love146.org

EP38 Activism + Healing from Trauma Through Narrative Storytelling with Zanah Thirus Mar 8, 2022 00:32:44 Zanah's Website: http://www.zanahthirus.com/Zanah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/__zanah/

EP37 Unapologetic Activism + Authenticity with Alyssa Milano Mar 1, 2022 00:27:26 Links Mentioned in this episode:https://www.instagram.com/milano_alyssa/https://sorrynotsorrypod.com/https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/647098/sorry-not-sorry-by-alyssa-milano/https://survivingsextraffickingfilm.com/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJPSSL2lSjU This Episode is Sponsored by CONSENTwear™

EP 36 Coping with Anxiety As A Survivor Parent Feb 9, 2022 00:32:51 I've received many requests to talk about coping with the anxiety and fears and sometimes even paranoia around teaching our children about body safety boundaries and consent. Most of the parents that have reached out about this are parents who are survivors themselves. So this episode is dedicated to you- the survivor parent that is dedicated to this cycle-breaking work. In this episode, I share

EP 35 Upbringing by Power With Vs Power Over Parenting Feb 1, 2022 00:52:33 In this episode we talked about: How they got started and why it was important to teach consent principles to their kidsWhat their 'freedoms' model is all aboutHow their parenting practices intersect with consent parenting and feminismHow parents can enjoy these practices and let go of the guilt of not always getting it rightAnd more!You'll enjoy this episode if you're a parent, and even if you're

EP 34 Offending Pedophile Communities + What You Should Know Jan 25, 2022 00:41:33 In this episode, I speak with award-winning investigative journalist and writer, Daemon Fairless about his impactful CBC Podcast series Hunting Warhead. Warhead is the mastermind behind an online CSAM forum of millions of members. We also discuss his book “Mad Blood Stirring: The Inner Lives of Violent Men”, and his research around CSA.TRIGGER WARNING that this episode contains content discussing

EP 33 Stopping & Helping Those Surviving Trafficking in 2022 Jan 18, 2022 00:37:07 Episode 33- About Consent Podcast "Stopping & Helping Those Surviving Trafficking in 2022" with Sadhvi Siddhali Shree and Sadhvi Anubhuti Show Notes0:00- Episode Intro0:38- Introduction of guests 2:30- Stopping Traffic film 4:40- Bringing in support for Stopping Traffic 8:26- Caring for yourself/mental wellness while doing this work 11:12- Vision for the film/overview 14:25- Creating Stopping Tra

EP 32 How Teaching Consent Is About More Than A 'I Said No' Conversation with Sarah Casper Jan 12, 2022 00:52:51 Episode 32- About Consent Podcast “Comprehensive Consent” with Sarah Casper Show NotesEpisode Notes:0:00 - Intro 0:38 - Introduction of guest4:05 - Importance of parents teaching and practicing consent8:54 - Nuances of consent13:39 - Helping parents feel more at ease teaching consent 19:37 - Teaching adults consent/setting boundaries26:06 - AD26:55 - Starting practicing consent early 29:06 - Conse

EP 31 Getting Brave in 2022 Jan 4, 2022 00:22:26 In this episode, this call to arms even, I invite you to get brave and talk about this global issue with the people in your child's life, and if you don't have kids, to talk to the adults in your life who DO have kids.We discuss my 50/50 rule to help solve this problem as a parent.And I share some sobering statistics so that you can share them with your communities. AND I also talk about why it's

EP 30 Mindfulness + Hypnosis for Healing and Building Resilience Dec 29, 2021 00:47:35 In this episode, I interview Monique Chenier, my hypnotherapist, to talk about: What hypnosis can be used forMy experience with hypnotherapyHow we can tap into the unconscious to help us process and heal traumas/wounds from our pastMethods that can be used in tandem with hypnotherapyHow we can use writing practice to reclaim our narrativeHow we can lovingly discipline our mind so we can create res

EP 29 Ending the Secondary Silent COVID-19 Epidemic Aug 5, 2021 00:36:39 In this episode we talk about the power of this non-profit organization, which is one of the largest and most robust organizations in the United States.We talked about the work they're doing to help diverse and marginalized communities.We discussed what the problem of sexual abuse looks like today compared to pre-COVID.And we talk about the many solutions that parents and caregivers alike can use

EP 28: Confronting An Abuser + Being A Male Survivor Mar 14, 2021 00:49:40 In this episode, we talk about Jeremy's story, how he confronted his abuser, what happened when he did, what it led to, and how that experience has moved him to continue being an advocate.Jeremy's story is one of courage and defiance. It's a story of how we can look at our toxic masculinity culture and challenge it to dismantle it.This episode is not just for male survivors, but for parents of chi

EP 27 Ending Sexual Violence For All Mar 7, 2021 00:51:45 In this episode, you'll be inspired and motivated to take action! There are so many ways we can all help end sexual violence and how we, as survivors, can overcome our challenges and thrive!We talked about Daniela's journey from survivor to thriver to warrior.Daniela shared the many ways that Together for Girls is making a difference all around the world.We discussed the different strategies we ca

EP 26 Porn Literacy & Parenting Feb 14, 2021 00:40:16 In this informative and important episode, Amy and I talk about: • At what age do you start teaching sex ed to your child• At what age to start talking to your kids about porn exposure• How to talk to kids about porn and help them stay safe• Ways to stay on top of their internet usage• How often to have these conversations• What to do if kids do get exposed to it• What to do if a child/teen find t

EP 25: Sex Trafficking And Your Family Jan 31, 2021 00:30:48 In this episode I talk about:• How I started learning about human trafficking• The Listen Hunnay episode with Jeannie Mai and Tera Hilliard that opened my eyes• Why trafficking IS a problem that will knock at your door in some way, shape or form if you're a parent or are a caring adult for other children in your life.• Ways that kids can be trafficked from infant to teens• How adults can be traffi

EP 24: Abuse Prevention By Way of Grooming Prevention Jan 17, 2021 01:06:17 "Are you willing to feel a little uncomfortable, so your children don't have to. Because when we turn our backs to this crime, children pay the price."-Feather Berkower WHAT WE TALKED ABOUT: • How abuse prevention has changed over the last 30 years and what it looks like now • Feather shared her story for how she got started and why she's so passionate about this work • We talked about child and p

EP 23 Breaking From + Healing The Cycle of Toxic Masculinity, Stigma and Sexual Abuse Oct 9, 2020 01:03:59 If you're a parent or not, this will help you reflect on how toxic masculinity has shaped your views and how you can break the cycle of toxic masculinity, mental health stigmas and reclaim your power as a child sexual abuse survivor.Quentin shared on how he manages anxiety, what it can look like for others, and why it's important to get to the root of anxiety and not deal with it as a surface symp

EP 22 Former Special Agent on What Parents Need To Know About Child Trafficking and Child Sexual Abuse Aug 30, 2020 01:35:46 Please note there is a TRIGGER WARNING with this episode, so please be sure to take care of your mental health and if you need to pause the video and come back to it later, please do what is best for you! But I do want to let you know that this is an important episode to listen to, not just for the warning that online dangers are real, but because it also sheds light on how it happens, who can do

EP 21 Sex-Ed As Part Of Abuse Prevention Education Jul 22, 2020 00:43:57 Cue Dr. Nadine Thornhill, sexuality educator and all around awesome human! Nadine is a certified sex educator and Doctor of Education specializing in child and adolescent sexuality. She helps folks access fact-based information, and build strong communication skills so they can teach the kids in their life about for their bodies, building positive relationships, and feeling good about who they are

EP 20 How Our Anger Can be transformative instead of toxic May 17, 2020 00:55:11 In this week's episode, I'm joined by psychotherapist Nicole Schiener to talk about the power of anger and how we can use it as transformative energy instead of a toxic one that depletes us.We talked about:The conflicted relationship that many survivors and Black, Indigenous and People of Colour have with anger because of their trauma.Why is it so important for people with trauma to process their

EP 19 Dismantling Child Sexual Abuse Taboos Through Support Apr 23, 2020 00:49:31 It is for this reason that I invited Trauma Psychotherapist Adriana Alejandre to the podcast.In this episode we talk about the taboo that continues to surround therapy and why it matters that we all shift our perspectives, now more than ever.We also discussed why parents, particularly in the Latinx community, are still reluctant to seek mental health support, and also, how they can take steps to b

EP 18: From Trauma to Empowerment: Achieving Health & Wellness Apr 9, 2020 00:53:40 TW: This episode contains discussions on domestic and sexual violence and loss. Please take care of your mental wellness. In this episode, Arlene Salcedo talks about her journey from witnessing domestic violence, sexual trauma in her teens, the loss of a child in her 20's, to finally tapping into her own inner wisdom, power, and awakening.Arlene's transcendence from trauma to empowered healer has

BONUS EPISODE: American Dirt Collaboration Project Mar 26, 2020 00:49:04 This week, in this special bonus episode, I'm excited to share the collaboration project!Denise Soler Cox, host of the Self-ish Latina Podcast and co-founder of Project Eñye, plus Rita Bautista, host of the Empowerment and All That Podcast and Nicole Hernandez of The Daring Kind Podcast, joined forces to bring this conversation to the forefront. They invited Linda Garcia, Brenda Gonzales and mysel

EP 17 How Sleep Impacts Mental Wellness & Healing Mar 1, 2020 00:50:46 Sleep is more valuable than we give credit for. In particular, when it comes to healing our traumas, sleep has the power to restore our mental wellness as a part of our healing process.This is one of the reasons I invited my guest Meredith Louden on to the show. Meredith helps people with insomnia learn how to fall asleep without the use of drugs or tricks. She is the founder of Healing Insomnia

EP 16 Online Abuse & What Parents Need To Know Feb 16, 2020 00:50:34 This is a topic that gets overlooked and shy'd away from because it feels overwhelming. But the good news is that there are ways to help our kids navigate the online space safety. This is why I'm so excited about this week's guest! I had the pleasure of interviewing Titania Joran who is the CMO and Chief Parent Officer of Bark.us, an internet safety solution that helps parents and schools keep chi

EP 15 Parenting with PTSD Feb 9, 2020 00:22:33 In this episode I'm talking about how PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) and CPTSD (complex post-traumatic stress disorder) affect our parenting and the difficulties that survivors find themselves in.I also discuss how it is compounded when it stems from or becomes an intergenerational issue.I shared some of my own story and struggle with anxiety and fear with my oldest child about the possibil

EP 14 How Devoting Ourselves To Ourselves Heals Feb 2, 2020 00:47:47 In this episode we cover:Why a natural and holistic approach is important for physical healingHow Ayuvera can help you customize your healingHow hormones and working with your cycles helps your healingHow health and wellness is still very male influenced in studies and how that affects WOCDealing with harassment and stress and how it affects our physical and mental wellnessI know you'll learn so m

EP 13 How Kids Can Learn Body Safety And Why It Matters To Start Early Jan 26, 2020 00:43:49 In this episode we cover:How kids learn about body safetyHow parents can put their fears aside and dive into teaching their kidsHow to help our kids become more assertive when neededWhy and how gender stereotypes need to be broken downWhy teaching/educating the adults in our kids lives is just as importantWe talked about how Jayneed started her publishing company and all the resources it now offer

EP 12 How To Break Cycles Of Generational Trauma Jan 19, 2020 00:23:49 Generational trauma can go undetected by those who continue to pass it on, not realizing that they are passing on negative patterns. When it comes to sexual abuse, these patterns can be passed on because of fear and lack of information or education to change those patterns to positive ones.When we become educated about how to recognize the patterns we can learn how to become self aware and then ta

EP 11 Taboos & Storytelling To Reclaim Your Voice Jan 12, 2020 00:45:47 It is a human need to be seen and heard, to be acknowledged as a valuable and worthy being for our simple act of being. But trauma can make us feel and think that we don't have worth, and that we should not be seen and that our voice should not be heard. This is where the power of sharing your story, speaking up and voicing your questions, concerns and yes, sometimes, even traumas, can have a prof

EP 10 Decolonizing Rape Culture Jan 5, 2020 00:45:29 You know how I roll by now... I like to go deep! And in this episode we definitely dive into all the things!There are so many parts of this podcast that will open your eyes and I can't wait to hear your feedback! In this episode Dr. Rocio Rosales Meza and I talk about:What colonial mentality isHow it influences the way we parentHow it relates directly to consentHow it infiltrates our current langu

EP 09 How To Create Consent Culture in 2020 Dec 26, 2019 00:11:53 Here's a quick recap of 2019 from a survivor lens. This year had many challenges, but also, a lot of hope that we're moving in the right direction.Although the spotlight of truth keeps shining it's light on injustices, we can be comforted by the fact that we are bringing these hidden secrets to light.When light shines, there is no where for injustice to hide. I invite you to tune in to learn about

EP 08 The Healing Medicine Inside Of Ourselves Dec 10, 2019 00:44:57 Asha Frost, is an Anishinaabe (Ojibway) Medicine Woman, Healer and Spiritual Mentor. She is a member of the Chippewas of Nawash First Nation. As a Soul Seer and Visionary, Asha believes that we can all reclaim our roots and deepest medicines. Asha has facilitated healing with thousands of people through the use of Indigenous Based Ceremony, teachings and sacred circle. As a teacher and leader, her

EP 07 Why Sex Positivity Matters When Teaching Consent Nov 21, 2019 01:07:08 Melissa Carnagey (she/they) is a sexuality educator, licensed social worker, and the founder of Sex Positive Families (SPF). Through SPF, Melissa facilitates workshops, online communities, and develops content that helps families tackle talks about sexual health in shame-free, inclusive, and pleasure-positive ways. Alongside this work, Melissa serves as the Training and Education Coordinator for E

EP 06 Survivor to Thriver via Intuition and Support Nov 7, 2019 00:43:27 Learn more and connect with Pam Covarrubias at the following places:https://www.spreadideasmovepeople.com/Listen the her podcast here: https://www.spreadideasmovepeople.com/listenFollow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/cafeconpampodcast

EP 05 The Links Between Bullying & Harassment Oct 28, 2019 00:54:20 Connect with Dali Rivera through her website:www.dalitalks.com

EP 04 Beyond Trauma & Into Resilience Oct 9, 2019 00:54:26 Dr. Lydiana Garcia is a Latina licensed psychologist in Los Angeles. She is an expert in teens / young adults, parenting teens, trauma/child abuse/sexual-related traumas. Recently, she has also developed a passion for working with moms that are struggling to manage their own trauma triggers while parenting their children. Dr. Garcia has received numerous training in evidenced-based modalities that

EP 03 From #MeToo to #NeverAgain Oct 6, 2019 00:13:02 The #MeToo movement has been a catalyst to where we are now- openly discussing rape culture and calling it out for what it is. But what's next? We are at a tipping point and in order for us to move forward and being able to say #NeverAgain, we need to actively and PROactively take measures to create #consentculture. In this episode I talk about how we can do that- ALL of us!

EP 02 My Story & My Why Jul 25, 2019 00:29:35 In this episode I'm sharing my personal story, the journey that brought me here and WHY I started AboutConsent, and why it's important to have these important conversations. *TRIGGER WARNING: I discuss topics of sexual assault and sexual abuse in this episode, please listen at your discretion and pause if you need time to process. Your mental wellness is my priority. I would love to know your tak

EP 01 What is About Consent All About? Jul 24, 2019 00:07:02 Welcome to the very first episode! This is a short one, just to introduce to you what the podcast is all about, why you should tune in every week and a bit about me! You can support the podcast by subscribing to the podcast here on Anchor, iTunes, Spotify and Google Play! And if you enjoy the content, I'd truly appreciate you heading over to iTunes and giving the podcast a 5 star rating and revi

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